Good Quotes
Marie Antoinette
Last Stand
Misery Dinner
Nikita Khrushchev
The Duchess
Courage is
Corporate Manager Survey
Andrew Johnson, Guilty or Not?
Bears and Humans
Sir Walter Scott
12 Sponges
Always Someone to Say You are Wrong
A Class Act
Impromptu Recital
No Apology
A Definition
Organized Crime Fighter
King Frederick the Great
Resource
The Lions Tail
He Couldnt Swim
Peer Pressure
The Easy Road
If it Hurts
Where the Goings Smooth
Mushrooms
Topic : Courage
A Definition
Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fearnot absence of fear. - Mark Twain
Good Quotes
- True heroism is remarkably sober, very undramatic. It is not the urge to surpass all others at whatever cost, but the urge to serve others at whatever the cost. -Tennis Star Arthur Ashe
- Courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway. - John Wayne
Marie Antoinette
Courage! I have shown it for years; think you I shall lose it at the moment when my sufferings are to end? - Marie Antoinette, moments before her death
Last Stand
Leonidas, King of Sparta, was preparing to make a stand with his Greek troops against the Persian army in 480 B.C. when a Persian envoy arrived. The man urged on Leonidas the futility of trying to resist the advance of the huge Persian army. Our archers are so numerous, said the envoy, that the flight of their arrows darkens the sun.
So much the better, replied Leonidas, for we shall fight them in the shade.
Leonidas made his stand, and died with his 300 troops.
Misery Dinner
Author Leo Buscaglia tells this story about his mother and their misery dinner. It was the night after his father came home and said it looked as if he would have to go into bankruptcy because his partner had absconded with their firms funds. His mother went out and sold some jewelry to buy food for a sumptuous feast. Other members of the family scolded her for it. But she told them that the time for joy is now, when we need it most, not next week. Her courageous act rallied the family.
Nikita Khrushchev
During his years as premier of the Soviet Union, Nikita Khrushchev denounced many of the policies and atrocities of Joseph Stalin. Once, as he censured Stalin in a public meeting, Khrushchev was interrupted by a shout from a heckler in the audience. You were one of Stalins colleagues. Why didnt you stop him?
Who said that? roared Khrushchev.
An agonizing silence followed as nobody in the room dared move a muscle. Then Khrushchev replied quietly, Now you know why.
The Duchess
On May 4, 1897, duchess Sophie-Charlotte Alencon was presiding over a charity ball in Paris when the hall caught fire. Flames spread to the paper decorations and flimsy walls, and in seconds the place was an inferno. In the hideous panic that followed, many women and children were trampled as they rushed for the exits, while workmen from a nearby site rushed into the blaze to carry out the trapped women. Some rescuers reached the duchess, who had remained calmly seated behind her booth.
Because of my title, I was the first to enter here. I shall be the last to go out, she said, rejecting their offer of help. She stayed and was burned to death along with more than 120 others.
Courage is
Courage is doing what youre afraid to do. There can be no courage unless youre scared.
Corporate Manager Survey
A study was recently completed on corporate managers. In it they were asked if they voiced positions that (1) focused on the good of the company, rather than personal benefit; and (2) jeopardized their own careers. Emerging from this study were the four leader-types which are found in all organizations.
- Type #1courageous. These people expressed ideas to help the company improve, in spite of personal risk or opposition.
- Type #2confronting. These people spoke up, but only because of a personal vendetta against the company.
- Type #3calloused. These people didnt know, or care, whether they could do anything for the company; they felt helpless and hopeless, so they kept quiet.
- Type #4conforming. These people also remained quiet, but only because they loathed confrontation and loved approval. The researchers discovered that the courageous managers accomplished the most, reported the highest job satisfaction, and eventually were commended by superiors. Their commitment had certainly improved the quality of their lives.
Andrew Johnson, Guilty or Not?
Who was United States Senator Edmund G. Ross of Kansas? I suppose you could call him a "Mr. Nobody.? No law bears his name. Not a single list of Senate "greats? mentions his service. Yet when Ross entered the Senate in 1866, he was considered the man to watch. He seemed destined to surpass his colleagues, but he tossed it all away by one courageous act of conscience.
Let's set the stage. Conflict was dividing our government in the wake of the Civil War. President Andrew Johnson was determined to follow Lincoln's policy of reconciliation toward the defeated South. Congress, however, wanted to rule the downtrodden Confederate states with an iron hand.
Congress decided to strike first. Shortly after Senator Ross was seated, the Senate introduced impeachment proceedings against the hated President. The radicals calculated that they needed thirty-six votes, and smiled as they concluded that the thirty-sixth was none other than Ross.? The new senator listened to the vigilante talk. But to the surprise of many, he declared that the president 'deserved as fair a trial as any accused man has ever had on earth.? The word immediately went out that his vote was 'shaky.'
Ross received an avalanche of anti-Johnson telegrams from every section of the country. Radical senators badgered him to "come to his senses.? The fateful day of the vote arrived. The courtroom galleries were packed. Tickets for admission were at an enormous premium.
As a deathlike stillness fell over the Senate chamber, the vote began. By the time they reached Ross, twenty-four "guilties? had been announced. Eleven more were certain. Only Ross? vote was needed to impeach the President. Unable to conceal his emotion, the Chief Justice asked in a trembling voice, "Mr. Senator Ross, how vote you? Is the respondent Andrew Johnson guilty as charged"'
Ross later explained, at that moment, "I looked into my open grave. Friendships, position, fortune, and everything that makes life desirable to an ambitions man were about to be swept away by the breath of my mouth, perhaps forever.'
Then, the answer came-unhesitating, unmistakable: "Not guilty!" With that, the trial was over. And the response was as predicted.
A high public official from Kansas wired Ross to say: "Kansas repudiates you as she does all perjurers and skunks.? The "open grave? vision had become a reality. Ross? political career was in ruins. Extreme ostracism, and even physical attack awaited his family upon their return home.
One gloomy day Ross turned to his faithful wife and said, "Millions cursing me today will bless me tomorrow...though not but God can know the struggle it has cost me.? It was a prophetic declaration.
Twenty years later Congress and the Supreme Court verified the wisdom of his position, by changing the laws related to impeachment.
Ross was appointed Territorial Governor of New Mexico. Then, just prior to his death, he was awarded a special pension by Congress. The press and country took this opportunity to honor his courage which, they finally concluded, had saved our country from crisis and division.
Bears and Humans
The late Earl J. Fleming, an Alaska state biologist, was perhaps the only man to investigate objectively the bears reputation for attacking humans. When Fleming encountered a bear, he neither ran nor shot. At the end of his unique study, he had encountered 81 brown bears, and although several staged mock charges, not one actually attacked.
Sir Walter Scott
I often wish that I could lie down and sleep without waking. But I will fight it out if I can. So wrote one of the bravest, most inspiring men who ever lived, Sir Walter Scott. In his 56th year, failing in health, his wife dying of an incurable disease, Scott was in debt a half million dollars. A publishing firm he had invested in had collapsed. He might have taken bankruptcy, but shrank from the stain. From his creditors he asked only time. Thus began his race with death, a valiant effort to pay off the debt before he died.
To be able to write free from interruptions, Scott withdrew to a small rooming house in Edinburgh. He had left his dying wife, Charlotte behind in the country. It withered my heart, he wrote in his diary, but his presence could avail her nothing now. A few weeks later she died. After the funeral he wrote in his diary: Were an enemy coming upon my house, would I not do my best to fight, although oppressed in spirits; and shall a similar despondency prevent me from mental exertion? It shall not, by heaven!
With a tremendous exercise of will, he returned to the task, stifling his grief. He turned out Woodstock, Count Robert of Paris, Castle Dangerous, and other works. Though twice stricken with paralysis, he labored steadily until the fall of 1832. Then came a merciful miracle. Although his mental powers had left him, he died September 21, 1832, happy in the illusion that all his debts were paid. (They were finally paid in 1847 with the sale of all his copyrights.)
Thomas Carlyle was to write of him latter: No sounder piece of British manhood was put together in the eighteenth century of time.
12 Sponges
In the operating room of a large hospital, a young nurse was completing her first full day of responsibilities. Youve only removed 11 sponges, doctor, she said to the surgeon. We used 12.
I removed them all, the doctor declared. Well close the incision now.
No, the nurse objected. We used 12 sponges.
Ill take full responsibility, the surgeon said grimly. Suture!
You cant do that! blazed the nurse. Think of the patient.
The surgeon smiled, lifted his foot, and showed the nurse the 12th sponge. Youll do, he said.
Always Someone to Say You are Wrong
Whatever you do, you need courage. Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising that tempt you to believe your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires some of the same courage that a soldier needs. Peace has its victories, but it takes brave men and women to win them. - Ralph Waldo Emerson
A Class Act
One day in 1956, songwriter Johnny Mercer received a letter from Sadie Vimmerstedt, a widowed grandmother who worked behind a cosmetics counter in Youngstown, Ohio. Vimmerstedt suggested Mercer write a song called I Want to Be Around to Pick Up the Pieces When Somebody Breaks Your Heart.
Five years later, Mercer got in touch to say hed written the song and that Tony Bennett would record it. Today, if you look at the label on any recording of I Wanna Be Around, youll notice that the credits for words and music are shared by Johnny Mercer and Sadie Vimmerstedt. The royalties were split 50-50, too, thanks to which Vimmerstedt and her heirs have earned more than $100,000.
In my opinion, Mercers generosity was a class act. By class act, I mean any behavior so virtuous that it puts normal behavior to shame. It was a class act, for instance, when Alexander Hamilton aimed high and fired over Aaron Burrs head. Benjamin Geggenhiem performed a class act on the Titanic when he gave his life jacket to a woman passenger and then put on white tie and tails so he could die like a gentleman. That same year, 1912, Capt., Lawrence became so frostbitten and lame on Robert Scotts ill-fated expedition to the South Pole. Rather than delay the others in their desperate trek back from the Pole, he went to the opening of the tent one night and said, I am just going outside and may be some time. He thereupon walked to his death in a blizzard. Certainly a class act.
On the stage, the tradition that the show must go on has produced a number of class acts. Katharine Hepburn and Orson Welles have both appeared on-stage in wheelchairs. During the run of The King and I, Gertrude Lawrence was dying of cancer but told no one. When she missed a series of performances, the producers wrote her lawyers, suggesting she was faking illness. They warned that if this continued, she would forfeit her share of the profits. The letter arrived on a Monday; Gertrude Lawrence had died over the weekend.
It was a class act of a different order, but a class act nonetheless, for writer Laurence Housman to take off his jacket at a proper English tea party so that a man who had just arrived in shirt sleeves would not feel embarrassed. Even simple good sportsmanship can rise to the level of class act, as it did with tennis player Mats Wilander in the semifinals of the 1982 French Open. At match point, a shot by Wilanders opponent was ruled out. Wilander walked over to the umpire and said, I cant win like this. The ball was good. The point was played over, and Wilander won fair and square.
Impromptu Recital
Mstislav Slava Rostopovich is a world-famous cellist. Since his exile from his native Russia in 1974, he has lived in the West. he is currently music director of the National Symphony Orchestra here in Washington. When the Kremlin hard-liners pulled their August Coup, Slava was in Paris. Instead of scurrying back to the U.S. and safety, he and his family flew straight home to Moscow. There, he took up his place in the White House, the Russian Federation Building that President Boris Yeltsin and his elected allies vowed to hold against every assault. In the darkened corridors, someone gave him a Kalashnikov automatic rifle, but he returned it. Rather, he took out his cello and gave an impromptu recital to break the awful tension of the siege.
No Apology
Hugh Lattimer once preached before King Henry VIII. Henry was greatly displeased by the boldness in the sermon and ordered Lattimer to preach again on the following Sunday and apologize for the offence he had given.
The next Sunday, after reading his text, he thus began his sermon: Hugh Lattimer, dost thou know before whom thou are this day to speak? To the high and mighty monarch, the kings most excellent majesty, who can take away thy life, if thou offendest. Therefore, take heed that thou speakest not a word that may displease. But then consider well, Hugh, dost thou not know from whence thou comestupon Whose message thou are sent? Even by the great and mighty God, Who is all-present and Who beholdeth all thy ways and Who is able to cast thy soul into hell! Therefore, take care that thou deliverest thy message faithfully.
He then preached the same sermon he had preached the preceding Sundayand with considerably more energy.
A Definition
I would define true courage to be a perfect sensibility of the measure of danger, and a mental willingness to endure it. - W.T. Sherman
Organized Crime Fighter
When I was a small boy, I attended church every Sunday at a big Gothic Presbyterian bastion in Chicago. The preaching was powerful and the music was great. But for me, the most awesome moment in the morning service was the offertory, when twelve solemn, frock-coated ushers marched in lock-step down the main aisle to receive the brass plates for collecting the offering. These men, so serious about their business of serving the Lord in this magnificent house of worship, were the business and professional leaders of Chicago.
One of the twelve ushers was a man named Frank Loesch. He was not a very imposing looking man, but in Chicago he was a living legend, for he was the man who had stood up to Al Capone. In the prohibition years, Capones rule was absolute. The local and state police and even the Federal Bureau of Investigation were afraid to oppose him. But single-handedly, Frank Loesch, as a Christian layman and without any government support, organized the Chicago Crime Commission, a group of citizens who were determined to take Mr. Capone to court and put him away.
During the months that the Crime Commission met, Frank Loeschs life was in constant danger. There were threats on the lives of his family and friends. But he never wavered. Ultimately he won the case against Capone and was the instrument for removing this blight from the city of Chicago. Frank Loesch had risked his life to live out his faith.
Each Sunday at this point of the service, my father, a Chicago businessman himself, never failed to poke me and silently point to Frank Loesch with pride. Sometime Id catch a tear in my fathers eye. For my dad and for all of us this was and is what authentic living is all about.
King Frederick the Great
The Prussian king Frederick the Great was widely known as an agnostic. By contrast, General Von Zealand, one of his most trusted officers, was a devout Christian. Thus it was that during a festive gathering the king began making crude jokes about Christ until everyone was rocking with laughterall but Von Zealand, that is. Finally, he arose and addressed the king:
Sire, you know I have not feared death. I have fought and won 38 battles for you. I am an old man; I shall soon have to go into the presence of One greater than you, the mighty God who saved me from my sin, the Lord Jesus Christ whom you are blaspheming. I salute you, sire, as an old man who loves his Savior, on the edge of eternity.
The place went silent, and with a trembling voice the king replied, General Von ZealandI beg your pardon! I beg your pardon!
And with that the party quietly ended.
Resource
- Who You Are When No Ones Looking, Bill Hybels, IVP, 1987, p. 13.
The Lions Tail
Adrian Rogers tells about the man who bragged that he had cut off the tail of a man-eating lion with his pocket knife. Asked why he hadnt cut off the lions head, the man replied: Someone had already done that.
He Couldnt Swim
One summer morning as Ray Blankenship was preparing his breakfast, he gazed out the window, and saw a small girl being swept along in the rain-flooded drainage ditch beside his Andover, Ohio, home. Blankenship knew that farther downstream, the ditch disappeared with a roar underneath a road and then emptied into the main culvert. Ray dashed out the door and raced along the ditch, trying to get ahead of the floundering child. Then he hurled himself into the deep, churning water. Blankenship surfaced and was able to grab the childs arm. They tumbled end over end. Within about three feet of the yawning culvert, Rays free hand felt somethingpossibly a rockprotruding from one bank. He clung desperately, but the tremendous force of the water tried to tear him and the child away. If I can just hang on until help comes, he thought. He did better than that. By the time fire-department rescuers arrived, Blankenship had pulled the girl to safety. Both were treated for shock.
On April 12, 1989, Ray Blankenship was awarded the Coast Guards Silver Lifesaving Medal. The award is fitting, for this selfless person was at even greater risk to himself than most people knew. Ray Blankenship cant swim.
Peer Pressure
There was a test conducted by a university where 10 students were placed in a room. Three lines of varying length were drawn on a card. The students were told to raise their hands when the instructor pointed to the longest line. But 9 of the students had been instructed beforehand to raise their hands when the instructor pointed to the second longest line. One student was the stooge. The usual reaction of the stooge was to put his hand up, look around, and realizing he was all alone, pull it back down. This happened 75% of the time, with students from grade school through high school. The researchers concluded that many would rather be president than be right.
The Easy Road
The easy roads are crowded
And the level roads are jammed;
The pleasant little rivers
With the drifting folk are crammed.
But off yonder where its rocky,
Where you get a better view,
You will find the ranks are thinning
And the travelers are few.
If it Hurts
David, a 2-year old with leukemia, was taken by him mother, Deborah, to Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston, to see Dr. John Truman who specializes in treating children with cancer and various blood diseases. Dr. Trumans prognosis was devastating: He has a 50-50 chance.
The countless clinic visits, the blood tests, the intravenous drugs, the fear and painthe mothers ordeal can be almost as bad as the childs because she must stand by, unable to bear the pain herself. David never cried in the waiting room, and although his friends in the clinic had to hurt him and stick needles in him, he hustled in ahead of him mother with a smile, sure of the welcome he always got. When he was three, David had to have a spinal tapa painful procedure at any age. It was explained to him that, because he was sick, Dr. Truman had to do something to make him better. If it hurts, remember its because he loves you, Deborah said.
The procedure was horrendous. It took three nurses to hold David still, while he yelled and sobbed and struggled. When it was almost over, the tiny boy, soaked in sweat and tears, looked up at the doctor and gasped, Thank you, Dr. Tooman, for my hurting.
Where the Goings Smooth
Where the goings smooth and pleasant
You will always find the throng,
For the manymores the pity
Seem to like to drift along.
But the steps that call for courage,
And the task thats hard to do
In the end results in glory
For the never-wavering few.
Mushrooms
A condemned prisoner awaiting execution was granted the usual privilege of choosing the dishes he wanted to eat for his last meal. He ordered a large mess of mushrooms.
Why all the mushrooms and nothing else? inquired the guard.
Well, replied the prisoner, I always wanted to try them, but was afraid to eat them before!