1 Timothy 3:2
3:2 The overseer
then must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,
temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, an able teacher,
1 Timothy 2:9
Conduct of Women
2:9 Likewise the women are to dress in suitable apparel, with modesty and self-control. Their adornment must not be with braided hair and gold or pearls or expensive clothing,