Galatians 4:16-20
4:16 So then, have I become your enemy by telling you the truth?
4:17 They court you eagerly, but for no good purpose; they want to exclude you, so that you would seek them eagerly.
4:18 However, it is good to be sought eagerly for a good purpose at all times, and not only when I am present with you.
4:19 My children – I am again undergoing birth pains until Christ is formed in you!
4:20 I wish I could be with you now and change my tone of voice, because I am perplexed about you.