25:1 A group of scholars who served during King Hezekiah's reign (715-686 B.C.) added more of Solomon's 3,000 proverbs (1 Kings 4:32) to the former collection (1:1-22:16). These men lived about 250 years after Solomon. Solomon ruled from 971-931 B.C. This verse introduces chapters 25-29.
"The proverbs in these chapters differ in that there are more multiple line sayings and more similes; chapters 28-29 are similar to chapters 10-16, but chapters 25-27 differ in having few references to God."182
25:2 The fact that God has chosen not to reveal everything human beings want to know has resulted in our holding Him in awe and glorifying Him (cf. Deut. 29:29). However a king's subjects hold him in awe and glorify him when he diligently investigates a matter and does not make his decisions on the basis of superficial understanding.
25:8-10 This proverb advises us to settle disputes out of court whenever possible. It is not wise to drag someone hastily into court to argue. We should be cautious about divulging information. This may lead to embarrassment (v. 8). We should not divulge secrets to clear ourselves in arguments or we may ruin a friendship. The plaintiff should debate his case with his neighbor out of court. Then the point of disagreement will not become public knowledge (v. 9) and give the plaintiff a bad reputation (v. 10).
"To run to the law or to the neighbors is usually to run away from the duty of personal relationship--see Christ's clinching comment in Matthew 18:15b."183
25:11 "Gold"may refer to the color of the fruit or possibly to the metal. "Settings"suggests an appropriate background such as an attractive basket or frame if the picture of an apple is in view. The point is that just the right words spoken at the right time in the right way can be as pleasing as a beautiful piece of fruit in a suitable container.184
25:15 By adding a few words the idea of this verse becomes clearer. "By forbearance [of speech] a ruler may be persuaded."That is, do not speak too long. A gentle tongue can be very powerful.
"Calm and patient speech can break down insurmountable opposition."185
25:16 Anything overindulged, even the most desirable of things, can become distasteful and repulsive.
"Since Eden, man has wanted the last ounce out of life, as though beyond God's enough' lay ecstasy, not nausea."186
25:21-22 Clearly the point of this proverb is to return good for evil (cf. Matt. 6:4-6; Rom. 12:20). Such conduct will bring blessing from God and remorse to the evildoer. Still what does heaping burning coals on the head of the abuser mean? Evidently this clause alludes to an ancient custom. When a person's fire went out at home, he or she would go to a neighbor and get some live coals to rekindle the fire. Carrying the coals in a pan on the head involved some danger and discomfort for the person carrying them, but they were an evidence of the neighbor's love. Likewise the person who receives good in return for evil feels somewhat uncomfortable even though he receives a good gift. His discomfort arises over his guilt for having wronged his neighbor in the first place. So returning good for evil not only secures the blessing of God (v. 22b), it also convicts the wrongdoer of his ways (v. 22a) in a gentle way.
25:23 The angry countenance belongs to the person who is the target of the backbiting (slanderous) tongue. Sly words can infuriate people just as a northerly wind brings rain. These are inevitable results.
25:27 Both practices in this verse are pleasant for the person who engages in them, but they can affect him adversely if he pursues them to excess.
