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Text -- 1 Corinthians 7:5 (NET)

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7:5 Do not deprive each other, except by mutual agreement for a specified time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then resume your relationship, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
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 · Satan a person, male (evil angelic),an angel that has rebelled against God


Dictionary Themes and Topics: Wife | Virgin | Temptation | TEXT AND MANUSCRIPTS OF THE NEW TESTAMENT | Stoicism | Self-control | Satan | Revelation of Christ | One Another | NEW TESTAMENT | Marriage | INCONTINENCY | Husband | Fasting | CONSENT | more
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Robertson: 1Co 7:5 - -- Except it be by consent for a season ( ei mēti ̣aň ek sumphōnou pros kairon ). If an is genuine, it can either be regarded as like ean tho...

Except it be by consent for a season ( ei mēti ̣aň ek sumphōnou pros kairon ).

If an is genuine, it can either be regarded as like ean though without a verb or as loosely added after ei mēti and construed with it.

Robertson: 1Co 7:5 - -- That ye may give yourselves unto prayer ( hina scholasēte tēi proseuchēi ). First aorist active subjunctive of scholazō , late verb from scho...

That ye may give yourselves unto prayer ( hina scholasēte tēi proseuchēi ).

First aorist active subjunctive of scholazō , late verb from scholē , leisure (our "school"), and so to have leisure (punctiliar act and not permanent) for prayer. Note private devotions here.

Robertson: 1Co 7:5 - -- That Satan tempt you not ( hina mē peirazēi ). Present subjunctive, that Satan may not keep on tempting you.

That Satan tempt you not ( hina mē peirazēi ).

Present subjunctive, that Satan may not keep on tempting you.

Robertson: 1Co 7:5 - -- Because of your incontinency ( dia tēn akrasian ̣humōň ). A late word from Aristotle on for akrateia from akratēs (without self-control,...

Because of your incontinency ( dia tēn akrasian ̣humōň ).

A late word from Aristotle on for akrateia from akratēs (without self-control, a privative and krateō , to control, common old word). In N.T. only here and Mat 23:25 which see.

Vincent: 1Co 7:5 - -- May give yourselves ( σχολάσητε ) Lit., may have leisure . Like the Latin phrase vacaare rei to be free for a thing ...

May give yourselves ( σχολάσητε )

Lit., may have leisure . Like the Latin phrase vacaare rei to be free for a thing , and so to devote one's self to it .

Vincent: 1Co 7:5 - -- Incontinency ( ἀκρασίαν ) Only here and Mat 23:35, on which see note.

Incontinency ( ἀκρασίαν )

Only here and Mat 23:35, on which see note.

Wesley: 1Co 7:5 - -- That on those special and solemn occasions ye may entirely give yourselves up to the exercises of devotion.

That on those special and solemn occasions ye may entirely give yourselves up to the exercises of devotion.

Wesley: 1Co 7:5 - -- If ye should long remain separate.

If ye should long remain separate.

Wesley: 1Co 7:5 - -- To unclean thoughts, if not actions too.

To unclean thoughts, if not actions too.

JFB: 1Co 7:5 - -- Namely, of the conjugal duty "due" (1Co 7:3; compare the Septuagint, Exo 21:10).

Namely, of the conjugal duty "due" (1Co 7:3; compare the Septuagint, Exo 21:10).

JFB: 1Co 7:5 - -- "unless perchance" [ALFORD].

"unless perchance" [ALFORD].

JFB: 1Co 7:5 - -- Literally, "be at leisure for"; be free from interruptions for; namely, on some special "season," as the Greek for "time" means (compare Exo 19:15; Jo...

Literally, "be at leisure for"; be free from interruptions for; namely, on some special "season," as the Greek for "time" means (compare Exo 19:15; Joe 2:16; Zec 7:3).

JFB: 1Co 7:5 - -- The oldest manuscripts omit "fasting and"; an interpolation, evidently, of ascetics.

The oldest manuscripts omit "fasting and"; an interpolation, evidently, of ascetics.

JFB: 1Co 7:5 - -- The oldest manuscripts read, "be together," namely, in the regular state of the married.

The oldest manuscripts read, "be together," namely, in the regular state of the married.

JFB: 1Co 7:5 - -- Who often thrusts in his temptations to unholy thoughts amidst the holiest exercises.

Who often thrusts in his temptations to unholy thoughts amidst the holiest exercises.

JFB: 1Co 7:5 - -- Because of your inability to "contain" (1Co 7:9) your natural propensities, which Satan would take advantage of.

Because of your inability to "contain" (1Co 7:9) your natural propensities, which Satan would take advantage of.

Clarke: 1Co 7:5 - -- Defraud ye not one the other - What ye owe thus to each other never refuse paying, unless by mutual consent; and let that be only for a certain time...

Defraud ye not one the other - What ye owe thus to each other never refuse paying, unless by mutual consent; and let that be only for a certain time, when prudence dictates the temporary separation, or when some extraordinary spiritual occasion may render it mutually agreeable, in order that ye may fast and pray, and derive the greatest possible benefit from these duties by being enabled to wait on the Lord without distraction

Clarke: 1Co 7:5 - -- That Satan tempt you not for your incontinency - It is most evident that the separations permitted by the Apostle, for he enjoins none, are only for...

That Satan tempt you not for your incontinency - It is most evident that the separations permitted by the Apostle, for he enjoins none, are only for a season, on extraordinary occasions; and that the persons may come together again, lest Satan, taking advantage of their matrimonial abstinence, might tempt either party to illicit commerce

There are a multitude of rules prescribed in such cases by the rabbins, and indeed even by heathen writers; for this was a matter in which common sense could always judge; and under the direction of experience, heathens, as well as those favored with Divine revelation, could see what was proper in all such cases

Incontinence, εικρασια, want of strength to regulate one’ s desires or appetites; from α, negative, and κρατος, strength. It is remarkable that the apostle supposes that even this temporary continence might produce incontinence; and universal observation confirms the supposition.

Calvin: 1Co 7:5 - -- 5.Defraud ye not one the other Profane persons might think that Paul does not act with sufficient modesty in discoursing in this manner as to the int...

5.Defraud ye not one the other Profane persons might think that Paul does not act with sufficient modesty in discoursing in this manner as to the intercourse of a husband with his wife; or at least that it was unbecoming the dignity of an Apostle. If, however, we consider the reasons that influenced him, we shall find that he was under the necessity of speaking of these things. In the first place, he knew how much influence a false appearance of sanctity has in beguiling devout minds, as we ourselves know by experience. For Satan dazzles us with an appearance of what is right, that we may be led to imagine that we are polluted by intercourse with our wives, and leaving off our calling, may think of pursuing another kind of life. Farther, he knew how prone every one is to self-love, and devoted to his own gratification. From this it comes, that a husband, having had his desire gratified, treats his wife not merely with neglect, but even with disdain; and there are few that do not sometimes feel this disdain of their wives creep in upon them. It is for these reasons that he treats so carefully of the mutual obligations of the married life. “If at any time it comes into the minds of married persons to desire an unmarried life, as though it were holier, or if they are tempted by irregular desires, 372 let them bear in mind that they are bound by a mutual connection.” The husband is but the one half of his body, and so is it, also, as to the wife. Hence they have not liberty of choice, but must on the contrary restrain themselves with such thoughts as these: “Because the one needed help from the other, the Lord has connected us together, that we may assist each other.” Let each then be helpful to each other’s necessity, and neither of them act as if at his or her own disposal.

Unless by mutual consent He requires mutual consent, in the first place, because the question is not as to the continency of one merely, but of two; and besides, he immediately adds two other exceptions. The first is, that it be done only for a time, as perpetual continency is not in their power, lest if they should venture to make an attempt beyond their power, they might fall before Satan’s stratagems. The second is, that they do not abstain from conjugal intercourse, on the ground of that abstinence being in itself a good and holy work, or as if it were the worship of God, 373 but that they may be at leisure for better employments. Now though Paul had taken such pains in guarding this, yet Satan prevailed so far as to drive 374 many to unlawful divorce, from a corrupt desire for an unmarried life. The husband, leaving his wife, fled to the desert, that he might please God better by living as a monk. The wife, against her husband’s will, put on the veil — the badge of celibacy. Meanwhile they did not consider that by violating their marriage engagement they broke the Lord’s covenant, and by loosing the marriage tie, they cast off the Lord’s yoke.

This vice, it is true, was corrected in some measure by the ancient canons; for they prohibited a husband from leaving his wife against her will, on pretense of continency; and in like manner a wife from refusing to her husband the use of her body. In this, however, they erred — that they permitted both together to live in perpetual celibacy, as if it were lawful for men to decree anything that is contrary to the Spirit of God. Paul expressly commands, that married persons do not defraud each other, except for a time The bishops give permission to leave off the use of marriage for ever. Who does not see the manifest contrariety? Let no one, therefore, be surprised, that we make free to dissent on this point from the ancients, who, it is evident, deviated from the clear statements of the word of God.

That ye may have leisure for fasting and prayer We must take notice, that Paul does not speak here of every kind of fasting, or every kind of prayer. That sobriety and temperance, which ought to be habitual on the part of Christians, is a kind of fasting. Prayer, too, ought to be not merely daily, but even continual. He speaks, however, of that kind of fasting which is a solemn expression of penitence, with the view of deprecating God’s anger, or by which believers prepare themselves for prayer, when they are undertaking some important business. In like manner, the kind of prayer that he speaks of is such as requires a more intense affection of the mind. 375 For it sometimes happens, that. we require (leaving off everything else) to fast and pray; as when any calamity is impending, if it appears to be a visitation of God’s wrath; or when we are involved in any difficult matter, or when we have something of great importance to do, as, for example, the ordaining of pastors. 376 Now it is with propriety that the Apostle connects these two things, because fasting is a preparation for prayer, as Christ also connects them, when he says,

This kind of devils goeth not out but by fasting and prayer. (Mat 17:21.)

When, therefore, Paul says, that ye may be at leisure, the meaning is, that having freed ourselves from all impediments, we may apply ourselves to this one thing. Now if any one objects, that the use of the marriage bed is an evil thing, inasmuch as it hinders prayer, the answer is easy — that it is not on that account worse than meat and drink, by which fasting is hindered. But it is the part of believers to consider wisely when it is time to eat and drink, and when to fast. It is also the part of the same wisdom to have intercourse with their wives when it is seasonable, and to refrain from that intercourse when they are called to be engaged otherwise.

And come together again, that Satan tempt you not Here he brings forward the reason, from ignorance of which the ancients have fallen into error, in rashly and inconsiderately approving of a vow of perpetual continency. For they reasoned in this manner: “If it is good for married persons sometimes to impose upon themselves for a time a voluntary continency with mutual consent, then, if they impose this upon themselves for ever, it will be so much the better.” But then, they did not consider how much danger was involved in this, for we give Satan an occasion for oppressing us, when we attempt anything beyond the measure of our weakness. 377 “But we must resist Satan.” 378 What if arms and shield be wanting? “They must be sought from the Lord,” say they. But in vain shall we beseech the Lord to assist us in a rash attempt. We must, therefore, carefully observe the clause — for your incontinency: for we are exposed to Satan’s temptations in consequence of the infirmity of our flesh. If we wish to shut them out, and keep them back, it becomes us to oppose them by the remedy, with which the Lord has furnished us. Those, therefore, act a rash part, who give up the use of the marriage bed. It is as if they had made an agreement with God as to perpetual strength. 379

TSK: 1Co 7:5 - -- except : Exo 19:15; 1Sa 21:4, 1Sa 21:5; Joe 2:16; Zec 7:3, Zec 12:12-14 that Satan : Mat 19:11; 1Th 3:5

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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)

Barnes: 1Co 7:5 - -- Defraud ye not ... - Of the right mentioned above. Withdraw not from the society of each other. Except it be with consent - With a mutual...

Defraud ye not ... - Of the right mentioned above. Withdraw not from the society of each other.

Except it be with consent - With a mutual understanding, that you may engage in the extraordinary duties of religion; compare Exo 19:15.

And come together again ... - Even by mutual consent, the apostle would not have this separation to be perpetual, since it would expose them to many of the evils which the marriage relation was designed to avoid.

That Satan ... - That Satan take not advantage of you, and throw you into temptation, and fill you with thoughts and passions which the marriage compact was designed to remedy.

Poole: 1Co 7:5 - -- Defraud not one the other that is: Withhold not yourselves one from another; which he rightly calls defrauding one another, because he had before dec...

Defraud not one the other that is: Withhold not yourselves one from another; which he rightly calls defrauding one another, because he had before declared it a debt; and further declared, that neither the husband nor the wife had a power over their own bodies, but the power of either of their bodies was in their correlate. He adds,

except it be with consent mutual consent, and then it is indeed no defrauding; and

for a time for a religious end,

that they might give themselves to fasting and prayer: not that this abstinence is necessary to us by any Divine precept, to prepare us for solemn prayer, (for such only is here spoken of), for then the apostle would not have made consent necessary in this case; but the Jews were commanded it, Exo 19:15 , as a preparation to their hearing of the law; and it was a piece of the legal purification, as appeareth from 1Sa 21:4 , as to which Christians were at liberty, and might observe or not observe it, as they agreed.

And come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency: then he requires, that they should return to their former course, not defrauding one another, lest the devil, observing their abstinence, should tempt them to unlawful mixtures, seeing their inability to contain themselves within the bounds of temperance and chastity.

Haydock: 1Co 7:5 - -- [BIBLIOGRAPHY] Ut vacetis orationi, Greek: ina scholazete te proseuche. St. John Chrysostom, Greek: ouk eipen aplos proseuchesthe.

[BIBLIOGRAPHY]

Ut vacetis orationi, Greek: ina scholazete te proseuche. St. John Chrysostom, Greek: ouk eipen aplos proseuchesthe.

Gill: 1Co 7:5 - -- Defraud ye not one the other,.... By withholding due benevolence, denying the use of the marriage bed, refusing to pay the conjugal debt, and which is...

Defraud ye not one the other,.... By withholding due benevolence, denying the use of the marriage bed, refusing to pay the conjugal debt, and which is called a "diminishing of her marriage duty", Exo 21:10 where the Septuagint use the same word "defraud", as the apostle does here; it is what both have a right to, and therefore, if either party is denied, it is a piece of injustice, it is properly a defrauding; though with proper conditions, such as follow, it may be lawful for married persons to lie apart, and abstain from the use of the bed, but then it should never be done,

except it be with consent: because they have a mutual power over each other's bodies, and therefore the abstinence must be voluntary on each side; otherwise injury is done to the person that does not consent, who is deprived against will of just right; but if there is agreement, then there is no defrauding, because each give up their right; and such a voluntary abstinence is commended by the Jews z;

"everyone that lessens the use of the bed, lo, he, is praiseworthy; and he who does not make void, or, cause to cease the due benevolence, but מדעת אשתו, "by consent of his wife";''

i.e. he also is praiseworthy: another condition of this abstinence is that it be only for a time; which shall be agreed unto, and fixed by both parties; not for ever which would be contrary to the will of God; the institution and end of marriage, and of dangerous consequence to either party. The Jews allow of a vow of continency for a while; and which they limit to different persons; thus a,

"if a man by a vow excludes, wife from the use of the bed, the school of Shammai say it is for the space of two weeks, the school of Hillell say one week; scholars go out to learn the law, without leave of their wives, thirty days, workmen one week;''

which vow, for such a limited time, they seem to allow of, without mutual consent; and herein they disagree with the rule the apostle gives; and who further observes, the end to be had in view by such a voluntary separation for a time,

that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; not that this was necessary for the ordinary discharge of such service, as for private acts of devotion among themselves, and constant family prayer; but either when times of fasting and prayer on some emergent occasions were appointed by themselves, or by the church, or by the civil government on account of some extraordinary and momentous affairs; and this seems to be observed by the apostle, in agreement with the customs and rules of the Jewish nation, which forbid the use of the bed, as on their great and annual fast, the day of atonement b, so on their fasts appointed by the sanhedrim for obtaining of rain c: the word "fasting" is omitted in the Vulgate Latin and Ethiopic versions, and so it is in the Alexandrian copy, two of Stephens's; and others: the apostle adds,

and come together again; to the same bed, and the use of it, and that for this reason,

that Satan tempt you not for your incontinence; for not having the gift of continency, should they pretend to keep apart long: Satan, who knows the temperament and disposition of men and women, may tempt them not only to hatred of, and quarrels with one another, but to impure lusts and desires, to fornication, adultery, and all uncleanness; a very good reason why, though abstinence from the marriage bed for a short time, by the consent of both parties, for religious purposes, may be lawful, yet ought not to be continued; since Satan may hereby get an advantage over them, and draw them into the commission of scandalous enormities. The Jews have a notion of Satan's being a tempter, and of his tempting men to various sins, which they should guard against, as idolatry, &c. So say they d,

"thou mayest not look after idolatry, according to Deu 4:19 and again, thou must take heed lest this be a cause of it to thee, ושטן יסית אותך, "and Satan tempt thee" to look after them, and do as they do:''

and again e, frequently should a man think

"upon the unity of the blessed God, lest there should be anything above or below, before him or behind him, or by him, and so, השטן מסיתו, "Satan tempt him", and he come into heresy.''

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: 1Co 7:5 Grk “and be together again.”

Geneva Bible: 1Co 7:5 Defraud ye not one the other, ( 4 ) except [it be] with consent for a time, that ye may ( d ) give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together...

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Commentary -- Verse Range Notes

TSK Synopsis: 1Co 7:1-40 - --1 He treats of marriage;4 shewing it to be a remedy against fornication,10 and that the bond thereof ought not lightly to be dissolved.20 Every man mu...

MHCC: 1Co 7:1-9 - --The apostle tells the Corinthians that it was good, in that juncture of time, for Christians to keep themselves single. Yet he says that marriage, and...

Matthew Henry: 1Co 7:1-9 - -- The apostle comes now, as a faithful and skilful casuist, to answer some cases of conscience which the Corinthians had proposed to him. Those were ...

Barclay: 1Co 7:3-7 - --This passage arises from a suggestion from Corinth that if married people are to be really Christian they must abstain from all intercourse with each ...

Constable: 1Co 7:1--16:13 - --III. Questions asked of Paul 7:1--16:12 The remainder of the body of this epistle deals with questions the Corin...

Constable: 1Co 7:1-40 - --A. Marriage and related matters ch. 7 The first subject with which he dealt was marriage. He began with ...

Constable: 1Co 7:1-16 - --1. Advice to the married or formerly married 7:1-16 Paul proceeded to give guidelines to the mar...

Constable: 1Co 7:1-7 - --The importance of sexual relations in marriage 7:1-7 Paul advised married people not to abstain from normal sexual relations. 7:1 Again Paul began wha...

College: 1Co 7:1-40 - --1 CORINTHIANS 7 IV. SEXUALITY, CELIBACY, AND MARRIAGE (7:1-40) It is not easy to discover the Corinthian situation and issues that lie behind Paul'...

McGarvey: 1Co 7:5 - --Defraud [deprive] ye not one the other, except it be by consent for a season, that ye may give yourselves unto prayer, and may be together again, that...

Lapide: 1Co 7:1-40 - --CHAPTER 7 SYNOPSIS OF THE CHAPTER In this chapter he answers five questions of the Corinthians about the laws of matrimony, and about the counsel of...

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Introduction / Outline

Robertson: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) First Corinthians From Ephesus a.d. 54 Or 55 By Way of Introduction It would be a hard-boiled critic today who would dare deny the genuineness o...

JFB: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) The AUTHENTICITY of this Epistle is attested by CLEMENT OF ROME [First Epistle to the Corinthians, 47], POLYCARP [Epistle to the Philippians, 11], and...

JFB: 1 Corinthians (Outline) THE INSCRIPTION; THANKSGIVING FOR THE SPIRITUAL STATE OF THE CORINTHIAN CHURCH; REPROOF OF PARTY DIVISIONS: HIS OWN METHOD OF PREACHING ONLY CHRIST. ...

TSK: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) Overview 1Co 7:1, He treats of marriage; 1Co 7:4, shewing it to be a remedy against fornication, 1Co 7:10. and that the bond thereof ought not lig...

Poole: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 7

MHCC: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) The Corinthian church contained some Jews, but more Gentiles, and the apostle had to contend with the superstition of the one, and the sinful conduct ...

MHCC: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) (1Co 7:1-9) The apostle answers several questions about marriage. (1Co 7:10-16) Married Christians should not seek to part from their unbelieving con...

Matthew Henry: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The First Epistle of St. Paul to the Corinthians Corinth was a principal city of Greece, in that partic...

Matthew Henry: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) In this chapter the apostle answers some cases proposed to him by the Corinthians about marriage. He, I. Shows them that marriage was appointed as...

Barclay: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) A GENERAL INTRODUCTION TO THE LETTERS OF PAUL The Letters Of Paul There is no more interesting body of documents in the New Testament than the letter...

Barclay: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) Complete Asceticism (1Co_7:1-2) The Partnership Of Marriage (1Co_7:3-7) The Bond That Must Not Be Broken (1Co_7:8-16) Serving God Where God Has Se...

Constable: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) Introduction Historical Background Corinth had a long history stretching back into the...

Constable: 1 Corinthians (Outline) Outline I. Introduction 1:1-9 A. Salutation 1:1-3 B. Thanksgiving 1:4-9 ...

Constable: 1 Corinthians 1 Corinthians Bibliography Adams, Jay. Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible. Phillipsburg, N.J.: Presb...

Haydock: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) THE FIRST EPISTLE OF ST. PAUL, THE APOSTLE, TO THE CORINTHIANS. INTRODUCTION. Corinth was the capital of Achaia, a very rich and populous city...

Gill: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 CORINTHIANS This was not the first epistle that was written by the apostle to the Corinthians, for we read in this of his having ...

Gill: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 CORINTHIANS 7 In this, chapter, various cases concerning marriage being proposed to the apostle, are answered by him; and he disc...

College: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) FOREWORD Since the past few decades have seen an explosion in the number of books, articles, and commentaries on First Corinthians, a brief word to t...

College: 1 Corinthians (Outline) OUTLINE I. INTRODUCTION - 1:1-9 A. Salutation - 1:1-3 B. Thanksgiving - 1:4-9 II. DISUNITY AND COMMUNITY FRAGMENTATION - 1:10-4:21 A. ...

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