
Text -- 1 Peter 3:1 (NET)




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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- In like manner ( homoiōs ).
Adverb closely connected with hupotassomenoi , for which see note on 1Pe 2:18.
In like manner (
Adverb closely connected with

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Ye wives ( gunaikes ).
Without article. About wives see note on Col 3:18; and note on Eph 5:22; and note on Tit 2:4.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- To your own husbands ( tois idiois andrasin ).
Idiois occurs also in Ephesians and Titus, but not in Colossians. It strengthens the idea of possess...
To your own husbands (

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Even if any obey not the word ( kai ei tines apeithousin tōi logōi ).
Condition of first class and dative case of logos (1Pe 1:23, 1Pe 1:25; 1P...

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- That they be gained ( hina kerdēthēsontai ).
Purpose clause with hina and first future passive indicative of kerdainō , old verb, to gain (fr...

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Without the word ( aneu logou ).
Probably here "word from their wives"(Hart), the other sense of logos (talk, not technical "word of God").
Without the word (
Probably here "word from their wives"(Hart), the other sense of

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- By the behaviour of their wives ( dia tēs tōn gunaikōn anastrophēs ).
Won by pious living, not by nagging. Many a wife has had this blessed v...
By the behaviour of their wives (
Won by pious living, not by nagging. Many a wife has had this blessed victory of grace.
Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise ( ὁμοίως )
Rev., in like manner; better, because likewise in popular speech has, wrongly, the sense of also. Peter means...
Likewise (
Rev., in like manner; better, because likewise in popular speech has, wrongly, the sense of also. Peter means in like manner with servants (1Pe 2:18).

Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Be in subjection ( ὑποτασσόμεναι )
Lit., being in subjection, or submitting yourselves; the same word which is used of the s...
Be in subjection (
Lit., being in subjection, or submitting yourselves; the same word which is used of the submission of servants (1Pe 2:18).
He speaks tenderly.
JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Greek, "In like manner," as "servants" in their sphere; compare the reason of the woman's subjection, 1Co 11:8-10; 1Ti 2:11-14.
Greek, "In like manner," as "servants" in their sphere; compare the reason of the woman's subjection, 1Co 11:8-10; 1Ti 2:11-14.

JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Enforcing the obligation: it is not strangers ye are required to be subject to. Every time that obedience is enjoined upon women to their husbands, th...
Enforcing the obligation: it is not strangers ye are required to be subject to. Every time that obedience is enjoined upon women to their husbands, the Greek, "idios," "one's own peculiarly," is used, while the wives of men are designated only by heauton, "of themselves." Feeling the need of leaning on one stronger than herself, the wife (especially if joined to an unbeliever) might be tempted, though only spiritually, to enter into that relation with another in which she ought to stand to "her own spouse (1Co 14:34-35, "Let them ask their own [idious] husbands at home"); an attachment to the person of the teacher might thus spring up, which, without being in the common sense spiritual adultery, would still weaken in its spiritual basis the married relation [STEIGER].

JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Greek, "that even if." Even if you have a husband that obeys not the word (that is, is an unbeliever).
Greek, "that even if." Even if you have a husband that obeys not the word (that is, is an unbeliever).

JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Independently of hearing the word preached, the usual way of faith coming. But BENGEL, "without word," that is, without direct Gospel discourse of the...
Independently of hearing the word preached, the usual way of faith coming. But BENGEL, "without word," that is, without direct Gospel discourse of the wives, "they may (literally, in oldest manuscripts, 'shall,' which marks the almost objective certainty of the result) be won" indirectly. "Unspoken acting is more powerful than unperformed speaking" [œCUMENIUS]. "A soul converted is gained to itself, to the pastor, wife, or husband, who sought it, and to Jesus Christ; added to His treasury who thought not His own precious blood too dear to lay out for this gain" [LEIGHTON]. "The discreet wife would choose first of all to persuade her husband to share with her in the things which lead to blessedness; but if this be impossible, let her then alone diligently press after virtue, in all things obeying him so as to do nothing at any time against his will, except in such things as are essential to virtue and salvation" [CLEMENT OF ALEXANDRIA].
Clarke: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Ye wives, be in subjection - Consider that your husband is, by God’ s appointment, the head and ruler of the house; do not, therefore, attempt ...
Ye wives, be in subjection - Consider that your husband is, by God’ s appointment, the head and ruler of the house; do not, therefore, attempt to usurp his government; for even though he obey not the word - is not a believer in the Christian doctrine, his rule is not thereby impaired; for Christianity never alters civil relations: and your affectionate, obedient conduct will be the most likely means of convincing him of the truth of the doctrine which you have received

Clarke: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Without the word - That your holy conduct may be the means of begetting in them a reverence for Christianity, the preaching of which they will not h...
Without the word - That your holy conduct may be the means of begetting in them a reverence for Christianity, the preaching of which they will not hear. See the notes on 1Co 14:34, and the other places referred to in the margin.
Calvin -> 1Pe 3:1
Calvin: 1Pe 3:1 - -- He proceeds now to another instance of subjection, and bids wives to be subject to their husbands. And as those seemed to have some pretense for shak...
He proceeds now to another instance of subjection, and bids wives to be subject to their husbands. And as those seemed to have some pretense for shaking off the yoke, who were united to unbelieving men, he expressly reminds them of their duty, and brings forward a particular reason why they ought the more carefully to obey, even that they might by their probity allure their husbands to the faith. But if wives ought to obey ungodly husbands, with much more promptness ought they to obey, who have believing husbands.
But it may seem strange that Peter should say, that a husband might be gained to the Lord without the word; for why is it said, that “faith cometh by hearing?” Rom 10:17. To this I reply, that Peter’s words are not to be so understood as though a holy life alone could lead the unbelieving to Christ, but that it softens and pacifies their minds, so that they might have less dislike to religion; for as bad examples create offenses, so good ones afford no small help. Then Peter shews that wives by a holy and pious life could do so much as to prepare their husbands, without speaking to them on religion, to embrace the faith of Christ.
Defender -> 1Pe 3:1
Defender: 1Pe 3:1 - -- This promise must apply especially to those wives who become Christians after they have married. Christian women who have willfully married unbeliever...
This promise must apply especially to those wives who become Christians after they have married. Christian women who have willfully married unbelievers despite God's prohibition against it have no valid claim on God's answer (1Co 7:39; 2Co 6:14). However, God is merciful and forgiving when there is true repentance and confession."
TSK -> 1Pe 3:1
TSK: 1Pe 3:1 - -- ye : Gen 3:16; Est 1:16-20; Rom 7:2 *Gr: 1Co 11:3, 1Co 14:34; Eph 5:22-24, Eph 5:33; Col 3:18; 1Ti 2:11, 1Ti 2:12; Tit 2:3-6
obey : 1Pe 1:22, 1Pe 4:17...

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Barnes -> 1Pe 3:1
Barnes: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands - On the duty here enjoined, see the 1Co 11:3-9 notes, and Eph 5:22 note. That, ...
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands - On the duty here enjoined, see the 1Co 11:3-9 notes, and Eph 5:22 note.
That, if any obey not the word - The word of God; the gospel. That is, if any wives have husbands who are not true Christians. This would be likely to occur when the gospel was first preached, as it does now, by the fact that wives might be converted, though their husbands were not. It cannot be inferred from this, that after they themselves had become Christians they had married unbelieving husbands. The term "word"here refers particularly to the gospel as preached; and the idea is, that if they were regardless of that gospel when preached - if they would not attend on preaching, or if they were unaffected by it, or if they openly rejected it, there might be hope still that they would be converted by the Christian influence of a wife at home. In such cases, a duty of special importance devolves on the wife.
They also may without the word be won - In some other way than by preaching. This I does not mean that they would be converted independently of the influence of truth - for truth is always the instrument of conversion, Jam 1:18; Joh 17:17; but that it was to be by another influence than preaching.
By the conversation of the wives - By the conduct or deportment of their wives. See the notes at Phi 1:27. The word conversation, in the Scriptures, is never confined, as it is now with us, to oral discourse, but denotes conduct in general. It includes indeed "conversation"as the word is now used, but it embraces also much more - including everything that we do. The meaning here is, that the habitual deportment of the wife was to be such as to show the reality and power of religion; to show that it had such influence on her temper, her words, her whole deportment, as to demonstrate that it was from God.
Poole -> 1Pe 3:1
Poole: 1Pe 3:1 - -- 1Pe 3:1-7 The apostle teacheth the duty of wives and husbands,
1Pe 3:8-13 exhorting all men to unity and love, and to return good
for evil,
1Pe 3...
1Pe 3:1-7 The apostle teacheth the duty of wives and husbands,
1Pe 3:8-13 exhorting all men to unity and love, and to return good
for evil,
1Pe 3:14-18 to suffer boldly for righteousness’ sake, and to give
a reason of their hope with meekness and fear;
taking especial care to suffer, as Christ did, for
well-doing, and not for evil-doing.
1Pe 3:19,20 The preaching of Christ by his Spirit to the old world.
1Pe 3:21,22 After what manner Christian baptism saveth us.
To your own husbands this he adds both to mitigate the difficulty of the duty,
subjection in that they were their
own husbands to whom they were to be subject, and likewise to bound and circumscribe their obedience, that it was to be only to their own husbands, not to others; and so while he persuades them to subjection, he cautions them against unchastity.
That if any obey not the word the word of the gospel. He exhorts not only them that had believing husbands, but unbelieving ones, to be in subjection to them.
They also may without the word: not that they could be converted to Christ without the knowledge of the word, when faith cometh by hearing, Rom 10:17 , but that they who either would not endure their wives’ instructing them, or who had before rejected the word, yet, by seeing the effects and fruits of it in their wives, might be brought to have good thoughts of it, and thereby be the more prepared for the hearing of it, whereby faith might be wrought in them.
Be won or gained, viz. to Christ and his church: the same metaphor Paul useth, 1Co 9:19-21 Phi 3:8 .
PBC -> 1Pe 3:1
PBC: 1Pe 3:1 - -- 1Pe 3:1
Wives: Submissive Without Fear
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may with...
Wives: Submissive Without Fear
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. {1Pe 3:1-6}
When reading a book in the Bible, we should keep in mind that the chapter divisions were added over a thousand years after the New Testament letters were originally written. The books were compiled as flowing letters whose contents were inspired of God. As in a number of other contexts, the chapter break in this context breaks a flowing context. " Likewise" directly unites this lesson to Peter’s teaching at the end of chapter 2. {1Pe 2:1-25}
As servants are to respect their masters and submit to them, even so Peter directs wives to submit to their husbands. Wives, don’t worry. In the next lesson Peter uses another " likewise" toward husbands. The sexist schism of our culture has devastated the Biblical model of marriage. Sadly, many Christian teachers have given the sexists the rocks they hurl back at Christians by teaching one side of this truth while neglecting the other. They emphasize the wife’s obligation to submit, but they either ignore or contradict the husband’s equal obligation to submit to his wife. God did not inherently create woman inferior to man. He made her to fill in the weak spots in the man and to complete him. Thus the divinely assigned roles of man and woman are to be distinct, but mutually submissive and supportive. Husbands and wives in God’s model are to function as a cooperative team of two equals, not as a master and a slave.
In this lesson Peter explains the reason for this urgent requirement upon believing women. He presupposes a marriage in which the wife is a believer, but the husband is not. According to Peter, the wife’s life with her husband is to serve as a living, walking, talking Bible. She reads the Bible, but he doesn’t. However, her life before him is to model the godly teachings of Scripture. He may not attend church with her, or he may reluctantly attend but prefer to do other things. She reads the Bible; he doesn’t. She listens to the Biblical teaching; he looks out the window and wishes he were somewhere else.
Paul taught the Corinthian church that a marriage should be between a husband and wife in which both members of the union are believers, equal in this area as in others. {2Co 6:14-18; while the exhortation applies to more than marriage, we cannot exclude the marriage union from this passage, instruction that young people frequently ignore in choosing their friends and eventually their marriage partners.} Peter understands that all marriages will not occur in this model of faith. Either people will marry before they become believers, or they will ignore Paul’s teaching and marry outside their faith in Christ. Thus Peter instructs wives who find themselves in an " unequal" marriage; she is a believer, but her husband is not.
In our culture all too often wives in this situation ignore Peter’s instruction. Some women join the husband at the lower level of human conduct, effectively forsaking their faith. Then they wonder why they do not find joy and fulfillment in life. Other women will become bitter, submitting to the husband and forsaking their faith, but resenting him for pushing them into their neglect of faith. In either of these choices the wife forsakes Biblical instruction.
What does Peter teach a wife of an unbelieving husband to do? Maintain her faith and live so winsomely, so graciously, as to win him over time by her conduct. Become a walking, talking Bible before him. He may refuse to read the Bible, but the wife is to model the grace of God in her conduct so as to bear constant witness to her husband of God’s grace toward us. If God touches the husband’s heart, in time the gracious conduct of the wife will have such a powerful impact on him as to win him to the faith. " ... be won by the conversation of the wives." In this phrase conversation is a word that refers to the wife’s whole demeanor, not just her words.
" Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel." Sometimes Christian teachers interpret this verse so as to forbid women from wearing contemporary hair styles, or jewelry. Peter’s dominant thought is not that these things are to be forbidden, but that they are not to be the dominant characteristic of the woman’s life. If he intended a literal prohibition against all these items, he also forbids the wearing of clothes. Obviously that point is not his intent. In no place in Scripture do we find people encouraged to practice nudism. The obvious point in the context is that a believing woman should make her godly life the mark of her relationship with her husband. She should not live so as to lead him to think that hair style, jewelry, and clothes are the most important issues of her life.
" Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement."
Not only does the Bible hold Abraham forth as an example of godly faith, in this lesson, as in several others in the New Testament, Scripture holds Sarah forth equally as a model of godly faith for women. Heb 11:11 clearly identifies Sarah’s model faith in that she considered God faithful who promised to give her a son in her old age. She had already experienced menopause; yet she believed that God could reverse the whole process of her body’s state and give her a son according to his promise. That is model faith!
" ... as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement."
How often we ignore nuances of Biblical teaching when it surprises us or appears in a setting that we do not readily grasp. Peter’s model for both husbands and wives requires godly conduct, regardless of the state of faith in the other partner. The overarching principle applies as instructively to men in an unequal marriage as to women. Perhaps with a man in this setting the issues to be avoided relate to career and to hobbies more than to hairstyles, jewelry, and dress. A man who neglects his family for career or for indulgent hobbies is no different from a woman who lives for her appearance. Pride and self-indulgence drive both in their faulty conduct.
Peter allows nothing to hinder any believer from the constant practice of godliness. Strong defines the Greek word translated as " do well" instructively. " 1 to do good, do something which profits others. 1a to be a good help to someone. 1b to do someone a favour. 1c to benefit. 2 to do well, do right. Additional Information: At Sparta, this was the name of the five oldest knights, who went on missions for the state." To " do something which profits others" captures Peter’s thought precisely. The godly wife who lives her faith wisely with her husband will demonstrate grace toward her husband by working conscientiously for his benefit.
" ... and are not afraid with any amazement."
Afraid, what is Peter’s point here? How does this thought blend with the context? Peter has not left his contextual thought. A believing wife might feel quite vulnerable to practice Peter’s directions toward her husband with winsome boldness. As in the exhortation of the prior chapter, Jesus’ life is to serve as our example. Just as he refused to strike back against those who mistreated him, so we are to live according to his example. When faced with situations in which we might feel vulnerable, we are to commit our safe keeping to God. {1Pe 2:23}
If a believing wife gives up her faith because she fears losing her husband, she not only loses her faith; she also risks losing his respect towards her. He might view her as being generally weak and not willing to stand up for other things that she believes strongly. However, if she stands winsomely firm in her faith, consistently models her faith before her husband, and remains faithful, serving God without fearing her spouse, she more likely will gain his respect. She is to trust God more than fear her husband’s rejection. How delightfully God often blesses such faithful women with a wonderful surprise. With time, her faithful devotion to God and to her faith will win the husband to the faith. God works in his heart, and he honors his wife’s gracious faithfulness by joining her in the faith. We should never be afraid to be faithful to God.
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Haydock -> 1Pe 3:1
Haydock: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Let wives, &c. In the first six verses he gives instructions to married women. 1. By their modest and submissive dispositions to endeavour to gain ...
Let wives, &c. In the first six verses he gives instructions to married women. 1. By their modest and submissive dispositions to endeavour to gain and convert their husbands, shewing them such a respect as Sara did, (whose daughters they ought to esteem themselves) who called Abraham her lord, or master; (Genesis xviii. 12.) 2. To be modest in their dress, without vanity; 3. That women take the greatest care of the hidden man, i.e. of the interior disposition of their heart, which he calls the incorruptibility of a quiet and a meek spirit; 4. Not fearing any trouble, when God's service or the duty to their husbands require it. (Witham)
Gill -> 1Pe 3:1
Gill: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands,.... As well as subjects to princes, and servants to masters; though not with the same sort ...
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands,.... As well as subjects to princes, and servants to masters; though not with the same sort of subjection, but what is suitable to the relation they stand in to their husbands; See Gill on Eph 5:22. See Gill on Col 3:18.
that if any obey not the word; any husband who is an unbeliever, has no love for the Gospel, and gives no credit to it, but despises, disbelieves, and rejects it, the word of truth, of faith, of righteousness, reconciliation, and salvation. The apostle, though he includes all wives, and exhorts them in general to subjection to their own husbands, yet has a particular regard to such as had unbelieving husbands, and who, on that account, were scrupulous of living with them, and of being in subjection to them; and therefore, as the Apostle Paul also did, he advises them to abide with them, and behave well to them, using much the same argument as he does in 1Co 7:10.
they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; for though the ordinary way and means of conversion is the word, faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word; yet it may be sometimes done without it; or however by the agreeable conversation of professors, and so of religious wives, the hearts of such as were averse to Christianity, and the Gospel, as unbelieving husbands, may be so softened, and wrought upon, as to entertain a better opinion of it, and in process of time be inclined to hear and attend it; the consequence of which may prove their conversion, which is a gaming, or winning of souls; and which, as it is for their good, is for the glory of Christ; for as every soul that is delivered from the power of darkness, and is translated into the kingdom of Christ, is a loss to Satan, it is a gain to Christ, and to his church. The Syriac version, instead of "without the word", reads, "without labour"; as if the winning of unbelieving husbands was easily obtained by the conversation of their wives.

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TSK Synopsis -> 1Pe 3:1-22
TSK Synopsis: 1Pe 3:1-22 - --1 He teaches the duty of wives and husbands to each other;8 exhorting all men to unity and love;14 and to suffer persecution.19 He declares also the b...
MHCC -> 1Pe 3:1-7
MHCC: 1Pe 3:1-7 - --The wife must discharge her duty to her own husband, though he obey not the word. We daily see how narrowly evil men watch the ways and lives of profe...
Matthew Henry -> 1Pe 3:1-7
Matthew Henry: 1Pe 3:1-7 - -- The apostle having treated of the duties of subjects to their sovereigns, and of servants to their masters, proceeds to explain the duty of husbands...
Barclay -> 1Pe 3:1-2
Barclay: 1Pe 3:1-2 - --Peter turns to the domestic problems which Christianity inevitably produced. It was inevitable that one marriage partner might be won for Christ, wh...
Constable: 1Pe 2:11--4:12 - --III. The responsibilities of the christian individually 2:11--4:11
Since Christians have a particular vocation i...

Constable: 1Pe 2:13--3:13 - --B. Respect for Others 2:13-3:12
This section of the letter clarifies what it means to function obedientl...
