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Text -- 1 Peter 3:1-5 (NET)
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- In like manner ( homoiōs ).
Adverb closely connected with hupotassomenoi , for which see note on 1Pe 2:18.
In like manner (
Adverb closely connected with
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Ye wives ( gunaikes ).
Without article. About wives see note on Col 3:18; and note on Eph 5:22; and note on Tit 2:4.
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- To your own husbands ( tois idiois andrasin ).
Idiois occurs also in Ephesians and Titus, but not in Colossians. It strengthens the idea of possess...
To your own husbands (
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Even if any obey not the word ( kai ei tines apeithousin tōi logōi ).
Condition of first class and dative case of logos (1Pe 1:23, 1Pe 1:25; 1P...
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- That they be gained ( hina kerdēthēsontai ).
Purpose clause with hina and first future passive indicative of kerdainō , old verb, to gain (fr...
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Without the word ( aneu logou ).
Probably here "word from their wives"(Hart), the other sense of logos (talk, not technical "word of God").
Without the word (
Probably here "word from their wives"(Hart), the other sense of
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- By the behaviour of their wives ( dia tēs tōn gunaikōn anastrophēs ).
Won by pious living, not by nagging. Many a wife has had this blessed v...
By the behaviour of their wives (
Won by pious living, not by nagging. Many a wife has had this blessed victory of grace.
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Beholding ( epopteusantes ).
First aorist active participle of epopteuō , for which see note on 1Pe 2:12. See 1Pe 2:12 also for anastrophēn man...
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Chaste ( hagnēn ).
Pure because "in fear"(en phobōi ), no word in the Greek for "coupled,"fear of God, though in Eph 5:33 fear (reverence for) o...
Chaste (
Pure because "in fear"(
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning ( hōn kosmos ).
Genitive plural of the relative referring to gunaikōn (wives). Kosmos has here its old meaning of ornament (cf...
Whose adorning (
Genitive plural of the relative referring to
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Let it be ( estō ).
Imperative third singular of eimi . Not the outward adorning of plaiting the hair (ouch ho exōthen emplokēs trichōn ). T...
Let it be (
Imperative third singular of
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Of wearing ( peritheseōs ).
Late and rare word (Galen, Arrian) from peritithēmi (Mat 27:28), to put around, a placing around. Ornaments of gold...
Of wearing (
Late and rare word (Galen, Arrian) from
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Or of putting on ( enduseōs ).
Old word from enduō (to put on), here only in N.T. Peter is not forbidding the wearing of clothes and ornaments ...
Or of putting on (
Old word from
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:4 - -- But the hidden man of the heart ( all' ho kruptos tēs kardias anthrōpos ).
Here anthrōpos is in contrast with kosmos just before. See Paul&...
But the hidden man of the heart (
Here
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:4 - -- In the incorruptible apparel of a meek and quiet spirit ( en tōi aphthartōi tou hēsuchiou kai praeōs pneumatos ).
No word in the Greek for "a...
In the incorruptible apparel of a meek and quiet spirit (
No word in the Greek for "apparel"(
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Of great price ( poluteles ).
Old word (from polu and telos , cost), in N.T. only here, Mar 14:3; 1Ti 2:9.
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Adorned themselves ( ekosmoun heautas ).
Imperfect active of customary action, "used to adorn themselves."Kosmeō is old verb from kosmos in the...
Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise ( ὁμοίως )
Rev., in like manner; better, because likewise in popular speech has, wrongly, the sense of also. Peter means...
Likewise (
Rev., in like manner; better, because likewise in popular speech has, wrongly, the sense of also. Peter means in like manner with servants (1Pe 2:18).
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Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Be in subjection ( ὑποτασσόμεναι )
Lit., being in subjection, or submitting yourselves; the same word which is used of the s...
Be in subjection (
Lit., being in subjection, or submitting yourselves; the same word which is used of the submission of servants (1Pe 2:18).
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Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Be won ( κερδηθήσονται )
Rev., be gained. The word used by Christ, Mat 18:15 : " gained thy brother."
Be won (
Rev., be gained. The word used by Christ, Mat 18:15 : " gained thy brother."
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Coupled with fear (
Lit., in fear.
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Vincent: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Of plaiting ( ἐμπλοκῆς )
Only here in New Testament. Compare 1Ti 2:9. The Roman women of the day were addicted to ridiculous extravag...
Of plaiting (
Only here in New Testament. Compare 1Ti 2:9. The Roman women of the day were addicted to ridiculous extravagance in the adornment of the hair. Juvenal (" Satire," vi.) satirizes these customs. He says: " The attendants will vote on the dressing of the hair as if a question of reputation or of life were at stake, so great is the trouble she takes in quest of beauty; with so many tiers does she lead, with so many continuous stories does she build up on high her head. She is tall as Andromache in front, behind she is shorter. You would think her another person." The hair was dyed, and secured with costly pins and with nets of gold thread. False hair and blond wigs were worn.
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Vincent: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Putting on ( ἐνδύσεως )
Only here in New Testament. Female extravagance in dress in the days of the empire reached an alarming pitch.
Putting on (
Only here in New Testament. Female extravagance in dress in the days of the empire reached an alarming pitch.
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Vincent: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Of great price ( πολυτελές )
The word used to describe costly raiment, 1Ti 2:9.
Of great price (
The word used to describe costly raiment, 1Ti 2:9.
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Adorned (
Imperfect tense. Were accustomed to adorn.
He speaks tenderly.
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Joined with a loving fear of displeasing them.
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Wesley: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Three things are here expressly forbidden: curling the hair, wearing gold, (by way of ornament,) and putting on costly or gay apparel. These, therefor...
Three things are here expressly forbidden: curling the hair, wearing gold, (by way of ornament,) and putting on costly or gay apparel. These, therefore, ought never to be allowed, much less defended, by Christians.
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Wesley: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Complete inward holiness, which implies a meek and quiet spirit. A meek spirit gives no trouble willingly to any: a quiet spirit bears all wrongs with...
Complete inward holiness, which implies a meek and quiet spirit. A meek spirit gives no trouble willingly to any: a quiet spirit bears all wrongs without being troubled.
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Wesley: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Who looks at the heart. All superfluity of dress contributes more to pride and anger than is generally supposed. The apostle seems to have his eye to ...
Who looks at the heart. All superfluity of dress contributes more to pride and anger than is generally supposed. The apostle seems to have his eye to this by substituting meekness and quietness in the room of the ornaments he forbids. "I do not regard these things," is often said by those whose hearts are wrapped up in them: but offer to take them away, and you touch the very idol of their soul. Some, indeed only dress elegantly that they may be looked on; that is, they squander away their Lord's talent to gain applause: thus making sin to beget sin, and then plead one in excuse of the other.
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Wesley: 1Pe 3:5 - -- The adorning of those holy women, who trusted in God, and therefore did not act thus from servile fear, was, Their meek subjection to their husbands: ...
The adorning of those holy women, who trusted in God, and therefore did not act thus from servile fear, was, Their meek subjection to their husbands: Their quiet spirit, "not afraid," or amazed: and Their unblamable behaviour, "doing" all things "well."
JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Greek, "In like manner," as "servants" in their sphere; compare the reason of the woman's subjection, 1Co 11:8-10; 1Ti 2:11-14.
Greek, "In like manner," as "servants" in their sphere; compare the reason of the woman's subjection, 1Co 11:8-10; 1Ti 2:11-14.
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JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Enforcing the obligation: it is not strangers ye are required to be subject to. Every time that obedience is enjoined upon women to their husbands, th...
Enforcing the obligation: it is not strangers ye are required to be subject to. Every time that obedience is enjoined upon women to their husbands, the Greek, "idios," "one's own peculiarly," is used, while the wives of men are designated only by heauton, "of themselves." Feeling the need of leaning on one stronger than herself, the wife (especially if joined to an unbeliever) might be tempted, though only spiritually, to enter into that relation with another in which she ought to stand to "her own spouse (1Co 14:34-35, "Let them ask their own [idious] husbands at home"); an attachment to the person of the teacher might thus spring up, which, without being in the common sense spiritual adultery, would still weaken in its spiritual basis the married relation [STEIGER].
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JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Greek, "that even if." Even if you have a husband that obeys not the word (that is, is an unbeliever).
Greek, "that even if." Even if you have a husband that obeys not the word (that is, is an unbeliever).
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JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Independently of hearing the word preached, the usual way of faith coming. But BENGEL, "without word," that is, without direct Gospel discourse of the...
Independently of hearing the word preached, the usual way of faith coming. But BENGEL, "without word," that is, without direct Gospel discourse of the wives, "they may (literally, in oldest manuscripts, 'shall,' which marks the almost objective certainty of the result) be won" indirectly. "Unspoken acting is more powerful than unperformed speaking" [œCUMENIUS]. "A soul converted is gained to itself, to the pastor, wife, or husband, who sought it, and to Jesus Christ; added to His treasury who thought not His own precious blood too dear to lay out for this gain" [LEIGHTON]. "The discreet wife would choose first of all to persuade her husband to share with her in the things which lead to blessedness; but if this be impossible, let her then alone diligently press after virtue, in all things obeying him so as to do nothing at any time against his will, except in such things as are essential to virtue and salvation" [CLEMENT OF ALEXANDRIA].
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On narrowly looking into it, literally, "having closely observed."
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JFB: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Reverential, towards your husbands. Scrupulously pure, as opposed to the noisy, ambitious character of worldly women.
Reverential, towards your husbands. Scrupulously pure, as opposed to the noisy, ambitious character of worldly women.
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JFB: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Literally, "To whom let there belong (namely, as their peculiar ornament) not the outward adornment (usual in the sex which first, by the fall, brough...
Literally, "To whom let there belong (namely, as their peculiar ornament) not the outward adornment (usual in the sex which first, by the fall, brought in the need of covering, Note, see on 1Pe 5:5) of," &c.
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Artificial braiding, in order to attract admiration.
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JFB: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Literally, "putting round," namely, the head, as a diadem--the arm, as a bracelet--the finger, as rings.
Literally, "putting round," namely, the head, as a diadem--the arm, as a bracelet--the finger, as rings.
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JFB: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Showy and costly. "Have the blush of modesty on thy face instead of paint, and moral worth and discretion instead of gold and emeralds" [MELISSA].
Showy and costly. "Have the blush of modesty on thy face instead of paint, and moral worth and discretion instead of gold and emeralds" [MELISSA].
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JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- "Rather." The "outward adornment" of jewelry, &c., is forbidden, in so far as woman loves such things, not in so far as she uses them from a sense of ...
"Rather." The "outward adornment" of jewelry, &c., is forbidden, in so far as woman loves such things, not in so far as she uses them from a sense of propriety, and does not abuse them. Singularity mostly comes from pride and throws needless hindrances to religion in the way of others. Under costly attire there may be a humble mind. "Great is he who uses his earthenware as if it were plate; not less great is he who uses his silver as if it were earthenware" [SENECA in ALFORD].
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Inner man, which the Christian instinctively hides from public view.
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JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Consisting in the heart regenerated and adorned by the Spirit. This "inner man of the heart" is the subject of the verb "be," 1Pe 3:3, Greek: "Of whom...
Consisting in the heart regenerated and adorned by the Spirit. This "inner man of the heart" is the subject of the verb "be," 1Pe 3:3, Greek: "Of whom let the inner man be," namely, the distinction or adornment.
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Consisting or standing in that as its element.
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Not transitory, nor tainted with corruption, as all earthly adornments.
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JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Meek, not creating disturbances: quiet, bearing with tranquillity the disturbances caused by others. Meek in affections and feelings; quiet in words, ...
Meek, not creating disturbances: quiet, bearing with tranquillity the disturbances caused by others. Meek in affections and feelings; quiet in words, countenance, and actions [BENGEL].
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Who looks to inward, not merely outward things.
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JFB: 1Pe 3:5 - -- With the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit (compare the portrait of the godly wife, Pro. 31:10-31).
With the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit (compare the portrait of the godly wife, Pro. 31:10-31).
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JFB: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Greek, "hoped." "Holy" is explained by "hoped in (so as to be 'united to,' Greek) God." Hope in God is the spring of true holiness [BENGEL].
Greek, "hoped." "Holy" is explained by "hoped in (so as to be 'united to,' Greek) God." Hope in God is the spring of true holiness [BENGEL].
Clarke: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Ye wives, be in subjection - Consider that your husband is, by God’ s appointment, the head and ruler of the house; do not, therefore, attempt ...
Ye wives, be in subjection - Consider that your husband is, by God’ s appointment, the head and ruler of the house; do not, therefore, attempt to usurp his government; for even though he obey not the word - is not a believer in the Christian doctrine, his rule is not thereby impaired; for Christianity never alters civil relations: and your affectionate, obedient conduct will be the most likely means of convincing him of the truth of the doctrine which you have received
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Without the word - That your holy conduct may be the means of begetting in them a reverence for Christianity, the preaching of which they will not h...
Without the word - That your holy conduct may be the means of begetting in them a reverence for Christianity, the preaching of which they will not hear. See the notes on 1Co 14:34, and the other places referred to in the margin.
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Chaste conversation - with fear - While they see that ye join modesty, chastity, and the purest manners, to the fear of God. Or perhaps fear, φο...
Chaste conversation - with fear - While they see that ye join modesty, chastity, and the purest manners, to the fear of God. Or perhaps fear,
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning - Κοσμος . See the note on Heb 9:1, where the word κοσμος, world or ornament, is defined; and also the note on Gen 2:1
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold - Plaiting the hair, and variously folding it about the head, was the most ancient and most simple mode of...
Plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold - Plaiting the hair, and variously folding it about the head, was the most ancient and most simple mode of disposing of this chief ornament of the female head. It was practised anciently in every part of the east, and is so to the present day in India, in China, and also in Barbary. It was also prevalent among the Greeks and Romans, as ancient gems, busts, and statues, still remaining, sufficiently declare. We have a remarkable instance of the plaiting of the hair in a statue of Agrippina, wife of Germanicus, an exact representation of which may be seen in a work of Andre Lens, entitled Le Costume de Peuple de I’ Antiquite, pl. 33. Many plates in the same work show the different modes of dressing the hair which obtained among the Egyptians, Greeks, Romans, Persians, and other nations. Thin plates of gold were often mixed with the hair, to make it appear more ornamental by the reflection of light and of the solar rays. Small golden buckles were also used in different parts; and among the Roman ladies, pearls and precious stones of different colors. Pliny assures us, Hist. Nat., l. ix. c. 35, that these latter ornaments were not introduced among the Roman women till the time of Sylla, about 110 years before the Christian era. But it is evident, from many remaining monuments, that in numerous cases the hair differently plaited and curled was the only ornament of the head. Often a simple pin, sometimes of ivory, pointed with gold, seemed to connect the plaits. In monuments of antiquity the heads of the married and single women may be known, the former by the hair being parted from the forehead over the middle of the top of the head, the latter by being quite close, or being plaited and curled all in a general mass
There is a remarkable passage in Plutarch, Conjugalia Praecept., c. xxvi., very like that in the text:
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:4 - -- The hidden man of the heart - Ὁ κρυπτος της καρδιας ανθρωπος . This phrase is of the same import with that of St. Paul,...
The hidden man of the heart -
" Sanctius his animal, mentisque capacius alta
Deerat adhuc, et quod dominari in caetera posset
Natus Homo est: sive hunc divino semine feci
Ille opifex rerum, mundi melioris origo
Sive recens tellus, seductaque nuper ab alt
Aethere, cognati retinebat semina coeli. -
Pronaque cum spectent animalia caetera terram
Os Homini Sublime Dedit; Coelumque Tuer
Jussit, et erectos ad sidera tollere veltus .
Metam, lib. i. ver. 76
"A creature of a more exalted kin
Was wanting yet, and then was Man design’ d
Conscious of thought, of more capacious breast
For empire form’ d, and fit to rule the rest
Whether with particles of heavenly fir
The God of nature did his soul inspire
Or earth but new divided from the sky
Which still retain’ d th’ ethereal energy. -
Thus, while the mute creation downward ben
Their sight, and to their earthly mother tend
Man looks aloft, and with erected eye
Beholds his own hereditary skies.
Dryden
The word
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:4 - -- A meek and quiet spirit - That is, a mind that will not give provocation to others, nor receive irritation by the provocation of others. Meekness wi...
A meek and quiet spirit - That is, a mind that will not give provocation to others, nor receive irritation by the provocation of others. Meekness will prevent the first; quietness will guard against the last
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Great price - All the ornaments placed on the head and body of the most illustrious female, are, in the sight of God, of no worth; but a meek and si...
Great price - All the ornaments placed on the head and body of the most illustrious female, are, in the sight of God, of no worth; but a meek and silent spirit are, in his sight, invaluable, because proceeding from and leading to himself, being incorruptible, surviving the ruins of the body and the ruins of time, and enduring eternally.
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:5 - -- For after this manner - Simplicity reigned in primitive times; natural ornaments alone were then in use. Trade and commerce brought in luxuries; and...
For after this manner - Simplicity reigned in primitive times; natural ornaments alone were then in use. Trade and commerce brought in luxuries; and luxury brought pride, and all the excessive nonsense of Dress. No female head ever looks so well as when adorned with its own hair alone. This is the ornament appointed by God. To cut it off or to cover it is an unnatural practice; and to exchange the hair which God has given for hair of some other color, is an insult to the Creator. How the delicacy of the female character can stoop to the use of false hair, and especially when it is considered that the chief part of this kind of hair was once the natural property of some ruffian soldier, who fell in battle by many a ghastly wound, is more than I can possibly comprehend. See the notes on 1Co 11:14-16 (note); and 1Ti 2:9 (note)
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Who trusted in God - The women who trust Not in God are fond of dress and frippery; those who trust in God follow nature and common sense
Who trusted in God - The women who trust Not in God are fond of dress and frippery; those who trust in God follow nature and common sense
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Clarke: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Being in subjection unto their own husbands - It will rarely be found that women who are fond of dress, and extravagant in it, have any subjection t...
Being in subjection unto their own husbands - It will rarely be found that women who are fond of dress, and extravagant in it, have any subjection to their husbands but what comes from mere necessity. Indeed, their dress, which they intend as an attractive to the eyes of others, is a sufficient proof that they have neither love nor respect for their own husbands. Let them who are concerned refute the charge.
Calvin: 1Pe 3:1 - -- He proceeds now to another instance of subjection, and bids wives to be subject to their husbands. And as those seemed to have some pretense for shak...
He proceeds now to another instance of subjection, and bids wives to be subject to their husbands. And as those seemed to have some pretense for shaking off the yoke, who were united to unbelieving men, he expressly reminds them of their duty, and brings forward a particular reason why they ought the more carefully to obey, even that they might by their probity allure their husbands to the faith. But if wives ought to obey ungodly husbands, with much more promptness ought they to obey, who have believing husbands.
But it may seem strange that Peter should say, that a husband might be gained to the Lord without the word; for why is it said, that “faith cometh by hearing?” Rom 10:17. To this I reply, that Peter’s words are not to be so understood as though a holy life alone could lead the unbelieving to Christ, but that it softens and pacifies their minds, so that they might have less dislike to religion; for as bad examples create offenses, so good ones afford no small help. Then Peter shews that wives by a holy and pious life could do so much as to prepare their husbands, without speaking to them on religion, to embrace the faith of Christ.
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Calvin: 1Pe 3:2 - -- 2.While they behold For minds, however alienated from the true faith, are subdued, when they see the good conduct of believers; for as they understoo...
2.While they behold For minds, however alienated from the true faith, are subdued, when they see the good conduct of believers; for as they understood not the doctrine of Christ, they form an estimate of it by our life. It cannot, then, be but that they will commend Christianity, which teaches purity and fear.
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Calvin: 1Pe 3:3 - -- 3.Whose adorning The other part of the exhortation is, that wives are to adorn themselves sparingly and modestly: for we know that they are in this r...
3.Whose adorning The other part of the exhortation is, that wives are to adorn themselves sparingly and modestly: for we know that they are in this respect much more curious and ambitious than they ought to be. Then Peter does not without cause seek to correct in them this vanity. And though he reproves generally sumptuous or costly adorning, yet he points out some things in particular, — that they were not artificially to curl or wreath their hair, as it was usually done by crisping-pins, or otherwise to form it according to the fashion; nor were they to set gold around their head: for these are the things in which excesses especially appear.
It may be now asked, whether the Apostle wholly condemns the use of gold in adorning the body. Were any one to urge these words, it may be said, that he prohibits precious garments no less than gold; for he immediately adds, the putting on of apparel, or, of clothes. But it would be an immoderate strictness wholly to forbid neatness and elegance in clothing. If the material is said to be too sumptuous, the Lord has created it; and we know that skill in art has proceeded from him. Then Peter did not intend to condemn every sort of ornament, but the evil of vanity, to which women are subject. Two things are to be regarded in clothing, usefulness and decency; and what decency requires is moderation and modesty. Were, then, a woman to go forth with her hair wantonly curled and decked, and make an extravagant display, her vanity could not be excused. They who object and say, that to clothe one’s-self in this or that manner is an indifferent thing, in which all are free to do as they please, may be easily confuted; for excessive elegance and superfluous display, in short, all excesses, arise from a corrupted mind. Besides, ambition, pride, affectation of display, and all things of this kind, are not indifferent things. Therefore they whose minds are purified from all vanity, will duly order all things, so as not to exceed moderation.
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Calvin: 1Pe 3:4 - -- 4.But let it be the hidden, man of the heart The contrast here ought to be carefully observed. Cato said, that they who are anxiously engaged in ador...
4.But let it be the hidden, man of the heart The contrast here ought to be carefully observed. Cato said, that they who are anxiously engaged in adorning the body, neglect the adorning of the mind: so Peter, in order to restrain this desire in women, introduces a remedy, that they are to devote themselves to the cultivation of their minds. The word heart, no doubt means the whole soul. He at the same time shews in what consists the spiritual adorning of women, even in the incorruptness of a meek and quiet spirit “Incorruptness,” as I think, is set in opposition to things which fade and vanish away, things which serve to adorn the body. Therefore the version of Erasmus departs from the real meaning. In short, Peter means that the ornament of the soul is not like a fading flower, nor consists in vanishing splendor, but is incorruptible. By mentioning quiet and a tranquil spirit, he marks out what especially belongs to women; for nothing becomes them more than a placid and a sedate temper of mind. 36 For we know how outrageous a being is an imperious and a self-willed woman. And further, nothing is more fitted to correct the vanity of which Peter speaks than a placid quietness of spirit.
What follows, that it is in the sight of God of great price, may be referred to the whole previous sentence as well as to the word spirit; the meaning indeed will remain the same. For why do women take so much care to adorn themselves, except that they may turn the eyes of men on themselves? But Peter, on the contrary, bids them to be more anxious for what is before God of a great price.
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Calvin: 1Pe 3:5 - -- He sets before them the example of pious women, who sought for spiritual adorning rather than outward meretricious ornaments. But he mentions Sarah a...
He sets before them the example of pious women, who sought for spiritual adorning rather than outward meretricious ornaments. But he mentions Sarah above all others, who, having been the mother of all the faithful, is especially worthy of honor and imitation on the part of her sex. Moreover, he returns again to subjection, and confirms it by the example of Sarah, who, according to the words of Moses, called her husband Lord. (Gen 18:12.) God, indeed, does not regard such titles; and it may sometimes be, that one especially petulant and disobedient should use such a word with her tongue; but Peter means, that Sarah usually spoke thus, because she knew that a command had been given her by the Lord, to be subject to her husband. Peter adds, that they who imitated her fidelity would be her daughters, that is, reckoned among the faithful.
Defender: 1Pe 3:1 - -- This promise must apply especially to those wives who become Christians after they have married. Christian women who have willfully married unbeliever...
This promise must apply especially to those wives who become Christians after they have married. Christian women who have willfully married unbelievers despite God's prohibition against it have no valid claim on God's answer (1Co 7:39; 2Co 6:14). However, God is merciful and forgiving when there is true repentance and confession."
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Defender: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Although male modesty may not have been a problem in the days of the apostles, the principle of modesty in dress and ornamentation would need to be ur...
Although male modesty may not have been a problem in the days of the apostles, the principle of modesty in dress and ornamentation would need to be urged on Christian men as well as women today, especially in these days of flamboyancy and stress on physical attributes (1Ti 2:9)."
TSK: 1Pe 3:1 - -- ye : Gen 3:16; Est 1:16-20; Rom 7:2 *Gr: 1Co 11:3, 1Co 14:34; Eph 5:22-24, Eph 5:33; Col 3:18; 1Ti 2:11, 1Ti 2:12; Tit 2:3-6
obey : 1Pe 1:22, 1Pe 4:17...
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TSK: 1Pe 3:2 - -- behold : 1Pe 3:16, 1Pe 1:15, 1Pe 2:12; Phi 1:27, Phi 3:20; 1Ti 4:12; 2Pe 3:11
with : 1Pe 3:5, 1Pe 3:6, 1Pe 3:15; Eph 5:33, Eph 6:5; Col 3:22
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TSK: 1Pe 3:3 - -- adorning let : 1Ti 2:9, 1Ti 2:10; Tit 2:3-15; Rom 12:2
that : Gen 24:22, Gen 24:47, Gen 24:53; Exo 3:22, Exo 32:2, Exo 33:4, Exo 35:22, Exo 38:8; 2Ki ...
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TSK: 1Pe 3:4 - -- the hidden : Psa 45:13, Psa 51:6; Mat 23:26; Luk 11:40; Rom 2:29, Rom 6:6, Rom 7:22; 2Co 4:16; Eph 4:22-24; Col 3:3, Col 3:9, Col 3:10
which is not : ...
the hidden : Psa 45:13, Psa 51:6; Mat 23:26; Luk 11:40; Rom 2:29, Rom 6:6, Rom 7:22; 2Co 4:16; Eph 4:22-24; Col 3:3, Col 3:9, Col 3:10
which is not : 1Pe 1:23
a meek : 1Pe 3:15; Psa 25:9, Psa 147:6, Psa 149:4; Isa 11:4, Isa 29:19, Isa 57:15, Isa 61:1; Mat 5:5, Mat 11:29; Mat 21:5; 2Co 10:1; Gal 5:23; Eph 4:2; Col 3:12; 2Ti 2:25; Tit 3:2; Jam 1:21, Jam 3:13-17
quiet : Psa 131:2; Jer 51:59; 1Th 4:11; 2Th 3:12; 1Ti 2:2
which is in : 1Sa 16:7; Psa 147:10,Psa 147:11, Psa 149:4; Luk 16:15
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TSK: 1Pe 3:5 - -- the holy : Pro 31:10,Pro 31:30; Luk 8:2, Luk 8:3; Act 1:14, Act 9:36; 1Ti 2:10, 1Ti 5:10; Tit 2:3, Tit 2:4
who : 1Sa 2:1; Jer 49:11; Luk 2:37; 1Ti 2:1...
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collapse allCommentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)
Barnes: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands - On the duty here enjoined, see the 1Co 11:3-9 notes, and Eph 5:22 note. That, ...
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands - On the duty here enjoined, see the 1Co 11:3-9 notes, and Eph 5:22 note.
That, if any obey not the word - The word of God; the gospel. That is, if any wives have husbands who are not true Christians. This would be likely to occur when the gospel was first preached, as it does now, by the fact that wives might be converted, though their husbands were not. It cannot be inferred from this, that after they themselves had become Christians they had married unbelieving husbands. The term "word"here refers particularly to the gospel as preached; and the idea is, that if they were regardless of that gospel when preached - if they would not attend on preaching, or if they were unaffected by it, or if they openly rejected it, there might be hope still that they would be converted by the Christian influence of a wife at home. In such cases, a duty of special importance devolves on the wife.
They also may without the word be won - In some other way than by preaching. This I does not mean that they would be converted independently of the influence of truth - for truth is always the instrument of conversion, Jam 1:18; Joh 17:17; but that it was to be by another influence than preaching.
By the conversation of the wives - By the conduct or deportment of their wives. See the notes at Phi 1:27. The word conversation, in the Scriptures, is never confined, as it is now with us, to oral discourse, but denotes conduct in general. It includes indeed "conversation"as the word is now used, but it embraces also much more - including everything that we do. The meaning here is, that the habitual deportment of the wife was to be such as to show the reality and power of religion; to show that it had such influence on her temper, her words, her whole deportment, as to demonstrate that it was from God.
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Barnes: 1Pe 3:2 - -- While they behold your chaste conversation - Your pure conduct. The word chaste here ( ἁγνὴν hagnēn ) refer’ s to purity of...
While they behold your chaste conversation - Your pure conduct. The word chaste here (
Coupled with fear - The word fear, in this place, may refer either to the fear of God, or to a proper respect and reverence for their husbands, Eph 5:33. The trait of character which is referred to is that of proper respect and reverence in all the relations which she sustained, as opposed to a trifling and frivolous mind. Leighton suggests that the word fear here relates particularly to the other duty enjoined - that of chaste conversation - "fearing the least stain of chastity, or the very appearance of anything not suiting with it. It is a delicate, timorous grace, afraid of the least air, or shadow of anything that hath but a resemblance of wronging it, in carriage, or speech, or apparel."
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Barnes: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning - Whose ornament. The apostle refers here to a propensity which exists in the heart of woman to seek that which would be esteeme...
Whose adorning - Whose ornament. The apostle refers here to a propensity which exists in the heart of woman to seek that which would be esteemed ornamental, or that which will appear well in the sight of others, and commend us to them. The desire of this is laid deep in human nature and therefore, when properly regulated is not wrong. The only question is, what is the true and appropriate ornament? What should be primarily sought as the right kind of adorning? The apostle does not condemn true ornament, nor does he condemn the desire to appear in such a way as to secure the esteem of others. God does not condemn real ornament. The universe is full of it. The colors of the clouds and of the rainbow; the varied hues of flowers; the plumage of birds, and the covering of many of the animals of the forest; the green grass; the variety of hill and dale; the beauty of the human complexion, the ruddy cheek, and the sparkling eye, are all of the nature of ornament. They are something superadded to what would be merely useful, to make them appear well. Few or none of these things are absolutely necessary to the things to which they are attached; for the eye could see without the various tints of beauty that are drawn upon it, and the lips and the cheeks could perform their functions without their beautiful tints, and the vegetable world could exist without the variegated colors that are painted on it; but God meant that this should be a beautiful world; that it should appear well; that there should be something more than mere utility. The true notion of ornament or adorning is that which will make any person or thing appear well, or beautiful, to others; and the apostle does not prohibit that which would have this effect in the wife. The grand thing which she was to seek, was not that which is merely external, but that which is internal, and which God regards as of so great value.
Let it not be that outward adorning - Let not this be the main or principal thing; let not her heart be set on this. The apostle does not say that she should wholly neglect her personal appearance, for she has no more right to be offensive to her husband by neglecting her personal appearance, than by a finical attention to it. Religion promotes neatness, and cleanliness, and a proper attention to our external appearance according to our circumstances in life, as certainly as it does to the internal virtue of the soul. On this whole passage, see the notes at 1Ti 2:9-10.
Of plaiting the hair - See the notes at 1Ti 2:9; Compare the notes at Isa 3:24. Great attention is paid to this in the East, and it is to this that the apostle here refers. "The women in the eastern countries,"says Dr. Shaw, (Travels, p. 294,) "affect to have their hair hang down to the ground, which they collect into one lock, upon the hinder part of the head, binding and plaiting it about with ribbons. Above this, or on the top of their heads, persons of better fashion wear flexible plates of gold or silver, variously cut through, and engraved in imitation of lace."We are not to suppose that a mere braiding or plaiting of the hair is improper, for there may be no more simple or convenient way of disposing of it. But the allusion here is to the excessive care which then prevailed, and especially to their setting the heart on such ornaments rather than on the adorning which is internal. It may not be easy to fix the exact limit of propriety about the method of arranging the hair, or about any other ornament; but those whose hearts are right, generally have little difficulty on the subject. Every ornament of the body, however beautiful, is soon to be laid aside; the adorning of the soul will endure forever.
And of wearing of gold - The gold here particularly referred to is probably that which was interwoven in the hair, and which was a common female ornament in ancient times. Thus, Virgil says, crines nodantur in aurum. And again, crinem implicat auro. See Homer, Iliad , B. 872; Herod. i. 82; and Thucydides i. 6. The wearing of gold in the hair, however, was more common among women of loose morals than among virtuous females - Pollux iv. 153. It cannot be supposed that all wearing of gold about the person is wrong, for there is nothing evil in gold itself, and there may be some articles connected with apparel made of gold that may in no manner draw off the affections from higher things, and may do nothing to endanger piety. The meaning is, that such ornaments should not be sought; that Christians should be in no way distinguished for them; that they should not engross the time and attention; that Christians should so dress as to show that their minds are occupied with nobler objects, and that in their apparel they should be models of neatness, economy, and plainness. If it should be said that this expression teaches that it is wrong to wear gold at all, it may be replied that on the same principle it would follow that the next clause teaches that it is wrong to put on apparel at all. There is really no difficulty in such expressions. We are to dress decently, and in the manner that will attract least attention, and we are to show that our hearts are interested supremely in more important things than in outward adorning.
Or of putting on of apparel - That is, this is not to be the ornament which we principally seek, or for which we are distinguished. We are to desire a richer and more permanent adorning - that of the heart.
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Barnes: 1Pe 3:4 - -- But let it be the hidden man of the heart - This expression is substantially the same as that of Paul in Rom 7:22, "the inward man."See the not...
But let it be the hidden man of the heart - This expression is substantially the same as that of Paul in Rom 7:22, "the inward man."See the notes at that place. The word "hidden"here means that which is concealed; that which is not made apparent by the dress, or by ornament. It lies within, pertaining to the affections of the soul.
In that which is not corruptible - Properly, "in the incorruptible ornament of a meek and quiet spirit."This is said to be incorruptible in contradistinction to gold and apparel. They will decay; but the internal ornament is ever enduring. The sense is, that whatever pertains to outward decoration, however beautiful and costly, is fading; but that which pertains to the soul is enduring. As the soul is immortal, so all that tends to adorn that will be immortal too; as the body is mortal, so all with which it can be invested is decaying, and will soon be destroyed.
The ornament of a meek and quiet spirit - Of a calm temper; a contented mind; a heart free from passion, pride, envy, and irritability; a soul not subject to the agitations and vexations of those who live for fashion, and who seek to be distinguished for external adorning. The connection here shows that the apostle refers to this, not only as that which would be of great price in the sight of God, but as that which would tend to secure the affection of their husbands, and win them to embrace the true religion, (see 1Pe 3:1-2); and, in order to this, he recommends them, instead of seeking external ornaments, to seek those of the mind and of the heart, as more agreeable to their husbands; as better adapted to win their hearts to religion; as that which would be most permanently proved. In regard to this point we may observe:
\caps1 (1) t\caps0 hat there are, undoubtedly, some husbands who are pleased with excessive ornaments in their wives, and who take a pleasure in seeing them decorated with gold, and pearls, and costly array.
\caps1 (2) t\caps0 hat all are pleased and gratified with a suitable attention to personal appearance on the part of their wives. It is as much the duty of a wife to be cleanly in her person, and neat in her habits, in the presence of her husband, as in the presence of strangers; and no wife can hope to secure the permanent affection of her husband who is not attentive to her personal appearance in her own family; especially if, while careless of her personal appearance in the presence of her husband, she makes it a point to appear gaily dressed before others. Yet.
\caps1 (3) t\caps0 he decoration of the body is not all, nor is it the principal thing which husband desires. He desires primarily in his wife the more permanent adorning which pertains to the heart. Let it be remembered:
(a) that a large part of the ornaments on which females value themselves are lost to a great extent on the other sex. Many a man cannot tell the difference between diamonds and cut-glass, or paste in the form of diamonds; and few are such connoisseurs in the matter of female ornaments as to appreciate at all the difference in the quality or color of silks, and shawls, and laces, which might appear so important to a female eye. The fact is, that those personal ornaments which to females appear of so much value, are much less regarded and prized by people than they often suppose. It is a rare thing that a man is so thoroughly skilled in the knowledge of the distinctions that pertain to fashions, as to appreciate that on which the heart of a female often so much prides itself; and it is no great credit to him if he can do this. His time usually, unless he is a draper or a jeweler, might have been much better employed than in making those acquisitions which are needful to qualify him to appreciate and admire the specialties of frivilous female apparel.
(b) But a man has a real interest in what constitutes the ornaments of the heart. His happiness, in his contact with his wife, depends on these. He knows what is denoted by a kind temper; by gentle words; by a placid brow; by a modest and patient spirit; by a heart that is calm in trouble, and that is affectionate and pure; by freedom from irritability, fretfulness, and impatience; and he can fully appreciate the value of these things No professional skill is necessary to qualify him to see their worth; and no acquired tact in discrimination is requisite to enable him to estimate them according to their full value. A wife, therefore, if she would permanently please her husband, should seek the adorning of the soul rather than the body; the ornament of the heart rather than gold and jewels. The one can never be a substitute for the other; and whatever outward decorations she may have, unless she have a gentleness of spirit, a calmness of temper, a benevolence and purity of soul, and a cultivation of mind that her husband can love, she cannot calculate on his permanent affection.
Which is in the sight of God of great price - Of great value; that being of great value for which a large price is paid. He has shown his sense of its value:
(a)\caps1 b\caps0 y commending it so often in his word:
(b)\caps1 b\caps0 y making religion to consist so much in it, rather than in high intellectual endowments, learning, skill in the arts, and valor; and,
©\caps1 b\caps0 y the character of his Son, the Lord Jesus, in whom this was so prominent a characteristic.
Sentiments not unlike what is here stated by the apostle, occur not unfrequently in pagan Classic writers. There are some remarkable passages in Plutarch, strongly resembling it: "An ornament, as Crates said, is that which adorns. The proper ornament of a woman is that which becomes her best. This is neither gold, nor pearls, nor scarlet, but those things which are an evident proof of gravity, regularity, and modesty"- Conjugalio Praecept., c. xxvi. The wife of Phocion, a celebrated Athenian general, receiving a visit from a lady who was elegantly adorned with gold and jewels, and her hair with pearls, took occasion to call the attention of her guest to the elegance and costliness of her dress. "My ornament,"said the wife of Phocion, "is my husband, now for the twentieth year general of the Athenians"- Plutarch’ s Life of Phocion. "The Sicilian tyrant sent to the daughters of Lysander garments and tissues of great value, but Lysander refused them, saying, "These ornaments will rather put my daughters out of countenance than adorn them"- Plutarch. So in the fragments of Naumachius, as quoted by Benson, there is a precept much like this of Peter: "Be not too fond of gold, neither wear purple hyacinth about your neck, or the green jasper, of which foolish persons are proud. Do not covet such vain ornaments, neither view yourself too often in the glass, nor twist your hair into a multitude of curls,"etc.
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Barnes: 1Pe 3:5 - -- For after this manner, in the old time - The allusion here is particularly to the times of the patriarchs, and the object of the apostle is to ...
For after this manner, in the old time - The allusion here is particularly to the times of the patriarchs, and the object of the apostle is to state another reason why they should seek that kind of ornament which he had been commending. The reason is, that this characterized the pious and honored females of ancient times - those females who had been most commended of God, and who were most worthy to be remembered on earth.
Who trusted in God - Greek, "Who hoped in God;"that is, who were truly pious. They were characterized by simple trust or hope in God, rather than by a fondness for external adorning.
Adorned themselves - To wit, with a meek and quiet spirit, manifested particularly by the respect evinced for their husbands.
Being in subjection unto their own husbands - This was evidently a characteristic of the early periods of the world; and piety was understood to consist much in proper respect for others, according to the relations sustained toward them.
Poole: 1Pe 3:1 - -- 1Pe 3:1-7 The apostle teacheth the duty of wives and husbands,
1Pe 3:8-13 exhorting all men to unity and love, and to return good
for evil,
1Pe 3...
1Pe 3:1-7 The apostle teacheth the duty of wives and husbands,
1Pe 3:8-13 exhorting all men to unity and love, and to return good
for evil,
1Pe 3:14-18 to suffer boldly for righteousness’ sake, and to give
a reason of their hope with meekness and fear;
taking especial care to suffer, as Christ did, for
well-doing, and not for evil-doing.
1Pe 3:19,20 The preaching of Christ by his Spirit to the old world.
1Pe 3:21,22 After what manner Christian baptism saveth us.
To your own husbands this he adds both to mitigate the difficulty of the duty,
subjection in that they were their
own husbands to whom they were to be subject, and likewise to bound and circumscribe their obedience, that it was to be only to their own husbands, not to others; and so while he persuades them to subjection, he cautions them against unchastity.
That if any obey not the word the word of the gospel. He exhorts not only them that had believing husbands, but unbelieving ones, to be in subjection to them.
They also may without the word: not that they could be converted to Christ without the knowledge of the word, when faith cometh by hearing, Rom 10:17 , but that they who either would not endure their wives’ instructing them, or who had before rejected the word, yet, by seeing the effects and fruits of it in their wives, might be brought to have good thoughts of it, and thereby be the more prepared for the hearing of it, whereby faith might be wrought in them.
Be won or gained, viz. to Christ and his church: the same metaphor Paul useth, 1Co 9:19-21 Phi 3:8 .
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Poole: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Chaste conversation free from all manner of impurities, and any thing contrary to the marriage covenant.
Coupled with fear such a fear or reverence...
Chaste conversation free from all manner of impurities, and any thing contrary to the marriage covenant.
Coupled with fear such a fear or reverence of your husbands, whereby out of the fear of God, and conscience of his command, you give them all due respect, and do not willingly displease them. See Eph 5:1-33 ; subjection is required, Eph 5:22 , and fear, Eph 5:33 .
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Poole: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Let it not be let it not be chiefly, or not so much the adorning of the outward man as the inward; the negative here is to be taken as a comparative,...
Let it not be let it not be chiefly, or not so much the adorning of the outward man as the inward; the negative here is to be taken as a comparative, as Exo 16:8 Luk 14:12 . The apostle doth not absolutely condemn all kind of ornaments, or rich attire, which we find used sometimes by the godly themselves in the Scripture, Gen 24:22,30 Es 5:1 ; compared with Psa 45:9,13 , where the spiritual ornaments of Christ’ s spouse are set forth by terms taken from the external ornaments of Solomon’ s wife; and Eze 16:12 , these things are spoken of as God’ s gifts. But he taxeth all vanity, levity, immoderate sumptuousness or luxury in apparel, and bodily ornaments in women, (or men), whatsoever is above their place and condition in the world, or above their estate and ability; such as proceeds from any lust, (pride, wantonness, &c.), or tends to the provoking or cherishing any, or is accompanied with the neglecting or slighting of inward beauty and spiritual ornaments.
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Poole: 1Pe 3:4 - -- The hidden man of the heart the inward man, Rom 7:22 2Co 4:16 ; either the soul in opposition to the body, or the image of God, and graces of his Spi...
The hidden man of the heart the inward man, Rom 7:22 2Co 4:16 ; either the soul in opposition to the body, or the image of God, and graces of his Spirit in the soul, called elsewhere the new man, and opposed to natural corruption, or the old man, Eph 4:24 Col 3:9,10 .
In that which is not corruptible: this relates to what follows,
the ornament of a meek & c., and is opposed to those external ornaments before mentioned, which are of a fading, perishing nature, whereas this is constant and durable: and therefore women who are more apt to be overmuch pleased with external dresses, and bodily ornaments, are exhorted rather to enrich and beautify their souls with Divine graces, than their bodies with gaudy clothes.
Even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit: this notes the particular grace or graces (parts of the new man) in which the spiritual beauty and adorning of women’ s souls consists; and either these two words, meek and quiet, are but indifferent expressions of the same grace; or, by meekness may be meant gentleness, easiness and sweetness of spirit, in opposition to moroseness, frowardness, pride, passion, &c.; and by quietness, a peaceable, still, modest temper, in opposition to pragmaticalness, talkativeness, clamorousness. These two usually go in conjunction together, and the latter is the effect of the former: see 1Ti 2:9-12 .
Which: either this refers to spirit, or to the whole sentence, the ornament of a meek, & c., but the sense is still the same.
Is in the sight of God who can best judge, (as looking to the inner man, which is not obvious to the eyes of others), and whose judgment is most to be valued: here God’ s judgment is opposed to the judgment of vain women, who think to commend themselves to others by outward bravery, and of a vain world, which esteems such things.
Of great price: the excellency of grace and spiritual ornaments is set in opposition to gold and costly apparel: q.d. If women will be fine that they may appear beautiful, let them choose the best ornaments, those of the mind and heart, a meek and quiet spirit, which are precious in the sight of God himself, rather than these external ones, which serve only to draw men’ s eyes toward them.
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Poole: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Holy women and therefore worthy of imitation.
Who trusted in God whose only hope was in God, and therefore their care to please him.
Adorned thems...
Holy women and therefore worthy of imitation.
Who trusted in God whose only hope was in God, and therefore their care to please him.
Adorned themselves viz. with a meek and quiet spirit, counting that the best ornament.
PBC -> 1Pe 3:1
PBC: 1Pe 3:1 - -- 1Pe 3:1
Wives: Submissive Without Fear
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may with...
Wives: Submissive Without Fear
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. {1Pe 3:1-6}
When reading a book in the Bible, we should keep in mind that the chapter divisions were added over a thousand years after the New Testament letters were originally written. The books were compiled as flowing letters whose contents were inspired of God. As in a number of other contexts, the chapter break in this context breaks a flowing context. " Likewise" directly unites this lesson to Peter’s teaching at the end of chapter 2. {1Pe 2:1-25}
As servants are to respect their masters and submit to them, even so Peter directs wives to submit to their husbands. Wives, don’t worry. In the next lesson Peter uses another " likewise" toward husbands. The sexist schism of our culture has devastated the Biblical model of marriage. Sadly, many Christian teachers have given the sexists the rocks they hurl back at Christians by teaching one side of this truth while neglecting the other. They emphasize the wife’s obligation to submit, but they either ignore or contradict the husband’s equal obligation to submit to his wife. God did not inherently create woman inferior to man. He made her to fill in the weak spots in the man and to complete him. Thus the divinely assigned roles of man and woman are to be distinct, but mutually submissive and supportive. Husbands and wives in God’s model are to function as a cooperative team of two equals, not as a master and a slave.
In this lesson Peter explains the reason for this urgent requirement upon believing women. He presupposes a marriage in which the wife is a believer, but the husband is not. According to Peter, the wife’s life with her husband is to serve as a living, walking, talking Bible. She reads the Bible, but he doesn’t. However, her life before him is to model the godly teachings of Scripture. He may not attend church with her, or he may reluctantly attend but prefer to do other things. She reads the Bible; he doesn’t. She listens to the Biblical teaching; he looks out the window and wishes he were somewhere else.
Paul taught the Corinthian church that a marriage should be between a husband and wife in which both members of the union are believers, equal in this area as in others. {2Co 6:14-18; while the exhortation applies to more than marriage, we cannot exclude the marriage union from this passage, instruction that young people frequently ignore in choosing their friends and eventually their marriage partners.} Peter understands that all marriages will not occur in this model of faith. Either people will marry before they become believers, or they will ignore Paul’s teaching and marry outside their faith in Christ. Thus Peter instructs wives who find themselves in an " unequal" marriage; she is a believer, but her husband is not.
In our culture all too often wives in this situation ignore Peter’s instruction. Some women join the husband at the lower level of human conduct, effectively forsaking their faith. Then they wonder why they do not find joy and fulfillment in life. Other women will become bitter, submitting to the husband and forsaking their faith, but resenting him for pushing them into their neglect of faith. In either of these choices the wife forsakes Biblical instruction.
What does Peter teach a wife of an unbelieving husband to do? Maintain her faith and live so winsomely, so graciously, as to win him over time by her conduct. Become a walking, talking Bible before him. He may refuse to read the Bible, but the wife is to model the grace of God in her conduct so as to bear constant witness to her husband of God’s grace toward us. If God touches the husband’s heart, in time the gracious conduct of the wife will have such a powerful impact on him as to win him to the faith. " ... be won by the conversation of the wives." In this phrase conversation is a word that refers to the wife’s whole demeanor, not just her words.
" Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel." Sometimes Christian teachers interpret this verse so as to forbid women from wearing contemporary hair styles, or jewelry. Peter’s dominant thought is not that these things are to be forbidden, but that they are not to be the dominant characteristic of the woman’s life. If he intended a literal prohibition against all these items, he also forbids the wearing of clothes. Obviously that point is not his intent. In no place in Scripture do we find people encouraged to practice nudism. The obvious point in the context is that a believing woman should make her godly life the mark of her relationship with her husband. She should not live so as to lead him to think that hair style, jewelry, and clothes are the most important issues of her life.
" Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement."
Not only does the Bible hold Abraham forth as an example of godly faith, in this lesson, as in several others in the New Testament, Scripture holds Sarah forth equally as a model of godly faith for women. Heb 11:11 clearly identifies Sarah’s model faith in that she considered God faithful who promised to give her a son in her old age. She had already experienced menopause; yet she believed that God could reverse the whole process of her body’s state and give her a son according to his promise. That is model faith!
" ... as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement."
How often we ignore nuances of Biblical teaching when it surprises us or appears in a setting that we do not readily grasp. Peter’s model for both husbands and wives requires godly conduct, regardless of the state of faith in the other partner. The overarching principle applies as instructively to men in an unequal marriage as to women. Perhaps with a man in this setting the issues to be avoided relate to career and to hobbies more than to hairstyles, jewelry, and dress. A man who neglects his family for career or for indulgent hobbies is no different from a woman who lives for her appearance. Pride and self-indulgence drive both in their faulty conduct.
Peter allows nothing to hinder any believer from the constant practice of godliness. Strong defines the Greek word translated as " do well" instructively. " 1 to do good, do something which profits others. 1a to be a good help to someone. 1b to do someone a favour. 1c to benefit. 2 to do well, do right. Additional Information: At Sparta, this was the name of the five oldest knights, who went on missions for the state." To " do something which profits others" captures Peter’s thought precisely. The godly wife who lives her faith wisely with her husband will demonstrate grace toward her husband by working conscientiously for his benefit.
" ... and are not afraid with any amazement."
Afraid, what is Peter’s point here? How does this thought blend with the context? Peter has not left his contextual thought. A believing wife might feel quite vulnerable to practice Peter’s directions toward her husband with winsome boldness. As in the exhortation of the prior chapter, Jesus’ life is to serve as our example. Just as he refused to strike back against those who mistreated him, so we are to live according to his example. When faced with situations in which we might feel vulnerable, we are to commit our safe keeping to God. {1Pe 2:23}
If a believing wife gives up her faith because she fears losing her husband, she not only loses her faith; she also risks losing his respect towards her. He might view her as being generally weak and not willing to stand up for other things that she believes strongly. However, if she stands winsomely firm in her faith, consistently models her faith before her husband, and remains faithful, serving God without fearing her spouse, she more likely will gain his respect. She is to trust God more than fear her husband’s rejection. How delightfully God often blesses such faithful women with a wonderful surprise. With time, her faithful devotion to God and to her faith will win the husband to the faith. God works in his heart, and he honors his wife’s gracious faithfulness by joining her in the faith. We should never be afraid to be faithful to God.
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Haydock -> 1Pe 3:1
Haydock: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Let wives, &c. In the first six verses he gives instructions to married women. 1. By their modest and submissive dispositions to endeavour to gain ...
Let wives, &c. In the first six verses he gives instructions to married women. 1. By their modest and submissive dispositions to endeavour to gain and convert their husbands, shewing them such a respect as Sara did, (whose daughters they ought to esteem themselves) who called Abraham her lord, or master; (Genesis xviii. 12.) 2. To be modest in their dress, without vanity; 3. That women take the greatest care of the hidden man, i.e. of the interior disposition of their heart, which he calls the incorruptibility of a quiet and a meek spirit; 4. Not fearing any trouble, when God's service or the duty to their husbands require it. (Witham)
Gill: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands,.... As well as subjects to princes, and servants to masters; though not with the same sort ...
Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands,.... As well as subjects to princes, and servants to masters; though not with the same sort of subjection, but what is suitable to the relation they stand in to their husbands; See Gill on Eph 5:22. See Gill on Col 3:18.
that if any obey not the word; any husband who is an unbeliever, has no love for the Gospel, and gives no credit to it, but despises, disbelieves, and rejects it, the word of truth, of faith, of righteousness, reconciliation, and salvation. The apostle, though he includes all wives, and exhorts them in general to subjection to their own husbands, yet has a particular regard to such as had unbelieving husbands, and who, on that account, were scrupulous of living with them, and of being in subjection to them; and therefore, as the Apostle Paul also did, he advises them to abide with them, and behave well to them, using much the same argument as he does in 1Co 7:10.
they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; for though the ordinary way and means of conversion is the word, faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word; yet it may be sometimes done without it; or however by the agreeable conversation of professors, and so of religious wives, the hearts of such as were averse to Christianity, and the Gospel, as unbelieving husbands, may be so softened, and wrought upon, as to entertain a better opinion of it, and in process of time be inclined to hear and attend it; the consequence of which may prove their conversion, which is a gaming, or winning of souls; and which, as it is for their good, is for the glory of Christ; for as every soul that is delivered from the power of darkness, and is translated into the kingdom of Christ, is a loss to Satan, it is a gain to Christ, and to his church. The Syriac version, instead of "without the word", reads, "without labour"; as if the winning of unbelieving husbands was easily obtained by the conversation of their wives.
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Gill: 1Pe 3:2 - -- While they behold your chaste conversation,.... Cheerful subjection, strong affection, and inviolable attachment to them, and strict regard to the hon...
While they behold your chaste conversation,.... Cheerful subjection, strong affection, and inviolable attachment to them, and strict regard to the honour of the marriage state, and to the preserving of the bed undefiled with lusts and adulteries:
coupled with fear; with reverence of their husbands, giving them due honour, and showing all proper respect; or with the fear of God, which being before their eyes, and upon their hearts, engages them to such an agreeable conversation.
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Gill: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning, let it not be that outward adorning,.... Or that only and principally; let not that be solely or chiefly attended to, nor anxiously so...
Whose adorning, let it not be that outward adorning,.... Or that only and principally; let not that be solely or chiefly attended to, nor anxiously sought after, nor ever in order to allure and ensnare others, or to fill with pride and vanity; nor should it be indecent and luxurious, immodest and immoderate, and unsuitable to the age, character, and station of persons; otherwise clothing is both convenient and necessary; and a decent garb, neat and modest apparel, and what is suitable to the years, rank, and quality of persons, is very commendable: nor are we to suppose that the apostle forbids the use of what follows, but only when used in a luxurious and extravagant manner, and to feed pride and vanity, and encourage, lasciviousness and wantonness:
of plaiting the hair; folding it up in curls, tying it up in knots, and putting it into the form of horns and towers, made by their crisping pins, with their cauls and round tires, like the moon, as was the custom of those times, and still is. There were women among the Jews, whose business it was to plait women's hair; Mary Magdalene is thought to have her name from thence, and that to be her business. The Jews often speak of one Miriam or Mary, by whom they seem to mean the mother of our Lord, who, they say m was
And of wearing of gold; or "golden things"; golden ornaments, as bracelets, chains, and rings, or pieces of gold stuck in the plaitings and folds of the hair. The Jewish women used to wear a crown of gold on their head, in the form of the city of Jerusalem, called a golden city n; and which they wore, after its destruction, in memory of it; but with those they might not go out on a sabbath day. R. Akibah, it is said o, made a golden city for his wife, and the wife of Rabban Gamaliel envied her, for it seems this was reckoned a grand dress. Not that the sense is, that every thing of this kind is forbidden, but when used to excess and extravagance; otherwise the daughters of Abraham and Sarah were decked with ear rings, bracelets, and jewels of gold; see Gen 24:22.
or of putting on of apparel; that is "excellent", or precious, as the Syriac version adds; or "of great price", as the Ethiopic; that is beyond a person's ability or rank; the apostle means such apparel as is unbecoming and unsuitable, for he cannot be thought to forbid the putting on of any apparel; but his sense is, that women should not so much regard, and be so intent upon the outward adorning of their bodies, with any sort of clothing, and especially such as does not become them, as the inward adorning of their minds, next mentioned,
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Gill: 1Pe 3:4 - -- But let it be the hidden man of the heart,.... By which is meant internal grace; which gives a beauty and ornament to the soul, far preferable to tha...
But let it be the hidden man of the heart,.... By which is meant internal grace; which gives a beauty and ornament to the soul, far preferable to that which plaiting of the hair, wearing of gold, or any costly apparel, can give to the body: and this is called a man, as it is elsewhere the new man, Eph 4:24 because it has that which answers to what is in man, to his soul, and the powers and faculties of it: this man, or new creature, has a new heart and Spirit; it has a will to that which is spiritually good, and an understanding of divine things, and affections for Christ, for his Gospel, ordinances, ways, and people, and for things above: it has what answers to all the five senses; there is in it a seeing of the Son of God in the glories of his person and the fulness of his grace, and of the invisible things of another world; an hearing of the word, of the voice of Christ, so as to understand it, and live, and to distinguish it from the voice of a stranger; a smelling a sweet savour in the things of God, and of his Spirit, and in the person, blood, righteousness, and sacrifice of Christ; a tasting that the Lord is gracious, his fruits pleasant, and his word sweeter than the honey, or the honeycomb; and a feeling of the burden of sin, an handling of the word of life, a laying hold on Christ, and retaining him: and it has what answers to the parts and members of the body; it has eyes to see with, ears to hear with, hands to receive from Christ, and work with, to his glory, and feet to walk with: it has, in short, all the parts of a man, though these are not yet grown up to perfection; and so that is not yet a perfect man, or arrived to the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ; but a man it is: and "a man of the heart"; it has its seat there; it is an inward principle in the soul; hence it is called the "inner" and "inward man"; and nothing outward is it, as external humiliation for sin, abstinence from it, reformation of life and manners, a profession of religion, and conformity to Gospel ordinances; but it is something inward, as appears from its names, both here and elsewhere; it is called spirit, seed, the root of the matter, and oil in the vessels; and from the seat and subject of it, the heart, the spirit, the understanding and will, the mind, conscience, and affections: and it is the "hidden man"; it is wisdom in the hidden part; it is hidden from the men of the world; they do not know what it is, nor what it means, nor how it is, or can be; the life of it is hidden from them, and the food it lives upon is hidden manna to them, and so are both its joys and sorrows: it is sometimes hidden from the saints themselves; when they walk in darkness, and see no light, they are at a loss to know whether this principle is in them or not; and it is hidden from other believers, till they give an account of it to them, when by comparing it with the word of God, and their own experience, they perceive it is the grace of God in them; and it is hidden from Satan, it is out of his reach, he cannot touch it; though he can touch the old man, and stir up the corruptions of it, yet he cannot touch the new man, that which is born of God, nor hurt or destroy it; but it is not hidden from God; he sees it where men cannot, being covered with a variety of infirmities and sins, and knows it is not where men sometimes think it is. The nature of this hidden man is further expressed by what follows,
in that which is not corruptible; it is opposed to corruptible things, as the outward adorning consists of, such as plaited hair, silver and gold, golden chains, rings, &c. and costly apparel; nor is it corrupt in itself; the old man is corrupt according to its deceitful lusts, but this new man, the hidden man of the heart, has no corruption in it, nor cleaving to it: it is the workmanship of God, and is created in righteousness and holiness; though it is as yet imperfect, there is nothing impure in it; nor can it ever perish, or be lost; it is an incorruptible seed, and will always remain when gold will perish, and the best of garments be moth eaten, and decay:
even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit; this is one, and a principal part of the inward adorning, or hidden man of the heart; and those that are possessed of such a spirit are not easily provoked to anger; patiently bear, and put up with injuries; carry themselves affably and courteously unto all; entertain the meanest thoughts of themselves, and the best of others; do not envy the gifts and graces of others, and are willing to be instructed and admonished by the meanest saint; quietly submit to the will of God, in all adverse dispensations of Providence; and ascribe all they have, and are, to the free grace of God, and reckon that when they have done all they can, they are but unprofitable servants. This grace of meekness, humility, and quietness, is a fruit of the Spirit, and so a part of the hidden man, and is what is very ornamental to a believer; it is his clothing, his inward adorning, and what makes him lovely in the sight of God, and of his people; see 1Pe 5:5 and it is very useful to him in hearing the word, in giving a reason of the hope that is in him, in restoring others, and in showing forth a good conversation; and particularly it greatly becomes, and exceedingly beautifies women professing godliness; who ought to bear much with their husbands, and be in silence, which is what the apostle has a principal regard unto: and to encourage the more to the exercise of it, adds,
which is in the sight of God of great price; which may refer to the whole adorning, to the hidden man of the heart, which is incorruptible, in opposition to the outward adorning, which may be esteemed by men, and be precious in their sight; and particularly to the ornament of meekness and quietness of spirit; for God has a great regard to the meek, humble, and quiet souls; he lifts them up, when cast down; he causes glad tidings to be preached to them; he increases their joy in the Lord; he feeds them, when hungry, to their satisfaction; he guides them in judgment, and teaches them his ways; he will rise up in judgment for them, and reprove with equity for their sake; he gives more grace unto them, and beautifies them with salvation, and will cause them to inherit the earth.
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Gill: 1Pe 3:5 - -- For after this manner in the old time,.... In ages past, the years of many generations, since the time that God created man upon earth; in the times b...
For after this manner in the old time,.... In ages past, the years of many generations, since the time that God created man upon earth; in the times before the flood, and after it; in the times of the patriarchs, judges, kings, and prophets of Israel, under the Old Testament dispensation. The apostle exhorts and encourages to this inward dress and ornament, from the antiquity of it: for in this way, and after this fashion,
the holy women also: who were sanctified by the Spirit of God, and lived holy lives and conversations, such as Sarah, Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Ruth, Hannah, and others:
who trusted in God; that he would send the Messiah, and make good all his promises, judging and believing him to be faithful to his word, and able to fulfil whatever he had promised, as Sarah, Heb 11:11. Such holy and believing women as these are worthy of imitation in their adorning and dress, and who, in the manner before described by the apostle, adorned themselves; or this was the adorning which they sought after, valued, and chiefly regarded; not what was external, but internal: and which lay in meekness and humility, and in a quiet deportment, and in
being in subjection unto their own husbands; according to their original make, and natural relation, and the laws of God, and of creation; which is more becoming and adorning than plaiting of hair, wearing of gold, or costly raiment, and recommends them more, both in the sight of God and men; nothing being a more indecent and uncomely sight than a woman not in subjection to her husband.
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NET Notes: 1Pe 3:3 The word “jewelry” is not in the Greek text, but has been supplied to indicate that gold ornaments or jewelry is intended; otherwise the r...
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NET Notes: 1Pe 3:4 Grk “the hidden man.” KJV’s “the hidden man of the heart,” referring to a wife, could be seriously misunderstood by the ...
Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:1 Likewise, ( 1 ) ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; ( 2 ) that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the ...
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Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:3 ( 3 ) Whose adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel;
( 3 ) He condem...
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Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:4 But [let it be] the ( a ) hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is ( b ) in...
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Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:5 ( 4 ) For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: ...
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TSK Synopsis -> 1Pe 3:1-22
TSK Synopsis: 1Pe 3:1-22 - --1 He teaches the duty of wives and husbands to each other;8 exhorting all men to unity and love;14 and to suffer persecution.19 He declares also the b...
MHCC -> 1Pe 3:1-7
MHCC: 1Pe 3:1-7 - --The wife must discharge her duty to her own husband, though he obey not the word. We daily see how narrowly evil men watch the ways and lives of profe...
Matthew Henry -> 1Pe 3:1-7
Matthew Henry: 1Pe 3:1-7 - -- The apostle having treated of the duties of subjects to their sovereigns, and of servants to their masters, proceeds to explain the duty of husbands...
Barclay: 1Pe 3:1-2 - --Peter turns to the domestic problems which Christianity inevitably produced. It was inevitable that one marriage partner might be won for Christ, wh...
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Barclay: 1Pe 3:3-6 - --Bengel speaks of "the labour bestowed on dress which consumes much time." Such labour is no modern thing. We have already seen that in the ancient ...
Constable: 1Pe 2:11--4:12 - --III. The responsibilities of the christian individually 2:11--4:11
Since Christians have a particular vocation i...
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Constable: 1Pe 2:13--3:13 - --B. Respect for Others 2:13-3:12
This section of the letter clarifies what it means to function obedientl...
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