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Text -- 2 Samuel 13:20 (NET)

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13:20 Her brother Absalom said to her, “Was Amnon your brother with you? Now be quiet, my sister. He is your brother. Don’t take it so seriously!” Tamar, devastated, lived in the house of her brother Absalom.
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Names, People and Places, Dictionary Themes and Topics

Names, People and Places:
 · Absalom the son of David and Maacah
 · Amnon son of King David and Ahinoam,the son of Shimon of Judah
 · Tamar the daughter-in-law of Judah; the mother of Judah's sons Perez and Zerah; an ancestor of Jesus,daughter-in-law to Judah; mother of Zerah and Perez,daughter of King David,daughter of Absalom,a town of Judah 60 km SE of Beersheba & 35 km SSW of the Dead Sea


Dictionary Themes and Topics: Tamar | SAMUEL, BOOKS OF | Rape | POLYGAMY | David | CRIME; CRIMES | BETHUEL (1) | Amnon | Adultery | more
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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per phrase)

Wesley: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Behold, and imitate the modesty of scripture expressions.

Behold, and imitate the modesty of scripture expressions.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Wherefore thou must forgive and forgot the injury; therefore thy disgracing of him will be a blot to us all; therefore thou wilt not get right from Da...

Wherefore thou must forgive and forgot the injury; therefore thy disgracing of him will be a blot to us all; therefore thou wilt not get right from David against him, because he is as near and dear to him as thou; therefore thy dishonour is the less, because thou wast not abused by any mean person, but by a king's son; therefore this evil must be borne, because it cannot be revenged: and thus he covers his design of taking vengeance upon him at the first opportunity.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:20 - -- So as to torment thyself.

So as to torment thyself.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Through shame and dejection of mind, giving her self up to solitude and retirement.

Through shame and dejection of mind, giving her self up to solitude and retirement.

JFB: 2Sa 13:19-20 - -- That is, sobbing. Oriental manners would probably see nothing beyond a strong sense of the injury she had sustained, if Tamar actually rent her garmen...

That is, sobbing. Oriental manners would probably see nothing beyond a strong sense of the injury she had sustained, if Tamar actually rent her garments. But, as her veil is not mentioned, it is probable that Amnon had turned her out of doors without it, and she raised her hand with the design to conceal her face. By these signs, especially the rending of her distinguishing robe, Absalom at once conjectured what had taken place. Recommending her to be silent about it and not publish her own and her family's dishonor, he gave no inkling of his angry feelings to Amnon. But all the while he was in secret "nursing his wrath to keep it warm," and only "biding his time" to avenge his sister's wrongs, and by the removal of the heir-apparent perhaps further also his ambitious designs.

JFB: 2Sa 13:20 - -- He was her natural protector, and the children of polygamists lived by themselves, as if they constituted different families.

He was her natural protector, and the children of polygamists lived by themselves, as if they constituted different families.

TSK: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Amnon : Heb. Aminon but hold : Pro 26:24; Rom 12:19 regard not : Heb. set not thine heart on desolate : Heb. and desolate. Gen 34:2, Gen 46:15

Amnon : Heb. Aminon

but hold : Pro 26:24; Rom 12:19

regard not : Heb. set not thine heart on

desolate : Heb. and desolate. Gen 34:2, Gen 46:15

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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)

Poole: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Been with thee i.e. lain with thee. Behold, and imitate the modesty of Scripture expressions. He is thy brother therefore thou must forgive and for...

Been with thee i.e. lain with thee. Behold, and imitate the modesty of Scripture expressions.

He is thy brother therefore thou must forgive and forget the injury; therefore thy disgracing of him will be a blot to us all; therefore thou wilt not get right from David against him, because he is as near and dear to him as thou; therefore thy dishonour is the less, because thou wast not abused by any mean person, but by a king’ s son; therefore this evil must be borne, because it cannot be revenged. And thus he covers his design of taking vengeance upon him at the first opportunity.

Regard not this thing so as to torment thyself.

Desolate neglected and forsaken by others, none now seeking her in marriage; and through shame and dejection of mind, giving herself up to solitude and retirement.

Haydock: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Brother. His disgrace will fall upon the whole royal family, and the king will not bring him to punishment, like another. (Calmet) --- Away. Heb...

Brother. His disgrace will fall upon the whole royal family, and the king will not bring him to punishment, like another. (Calmet) ---

Away. Hebrew and Chaldean, "desolate." (Menochius) ---

Septuagint, "like a widow."

Gill: 2Sa 13:20 - -- And Absalom her brother said unto her,.... Either meeting her in the street, or rather when come to his house: hath Amnon thy brother been with the...

And Absalom her brother said unto her,.... Either meeting her in the street, or rather when come to his house:

hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? been rude with thee, and lain with thee, which is the meaning of this modest expression; which he guessed at, having heard of her being sent to his house, and knowing his lustful disposition, and seeing her in such a forlorn condition: he calls him Aminon, for so it is in the Hebrew text, and not Amnon, by way of contempt, as Kimchi observes:

but hold now thy peace, my sister; be silent, take no notice of this matter, say nothing of it to the king, nor any other, keep it in thine own breast, and make thyself easy:

he is thy brother, regard not this thing; it is thy brother that has done it, and not so disgraceful as a meaner person, done in the heat of lust, and a youthful one, and should be forgiven; besides, to divulge it would bring disgrace upon the whole family, and no recompence would be obtained by telling the king of it, since he was his son, his firstborn, and heir to the crown; this he said not out of love of Amnon, but as desirous of gratifying private revenge upon him for it when opportunity should serve.

So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house; not seeing any company, being filled with grief and shame, and none applying to her as a suitor, knowing she was vitiated; how long she continued here, or lived after this, is not certain; no mention is made of her afterwards.

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: 2Sa 13:20 Heb “Don’t set your heart to this thing!”

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but ( i ) hold now thy peace, my sister: he [is] thy brother; regard not...

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Commentary -- Verse Range Notes

TSK Synopsis: 2Sa 13:1-39 - --1 Amnon loving Tamar, by Jonadab's counsel feigning himself sick, ravishes her.15 He hates her, and shamefully turns her away.19 Absalom entertains he...

MHCC: 2Sa 13:1-20 - --From henceforward David was followed with one trouble after another. Adultery and murder were David's sins, the like sins among his children were the ...

Matthew Henry: 2Sa 13:1-20 - -- We have here a particular account of the abominable wickedness of Amnon in ravishing his sister, a subject not fit to be enlarged upon nor indeed to...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:1-22 - -- Amnon's Incest. - 2Sa 13:1-14. The following occurrences are assigned in a general manner to the times succeeding the Ammonitish war, by the words ...

Constable: 2Sa 9:1--20:26 - --VI. DAVID'S TROUBLES chs. 9--20 Chapters 9-20 contrast with chapters 2-8 in that this later section is negative ...

Constable: 2Sa 13:1--20:26 - --C. David's Rejection and Return chs. 13-20 This is the longest literary section in the Court History of ...

Constable: 2Sa 13:1--14:33 - --1. Events leading up to Absalom's rebellion chs. 13-14 David's disobedience to the Mosaic Covena...

Constable: 2Sa 13:1-22 - --Amnon's rape of Tamar 13:1-22 Maacah bore Absalom while David was reigning in Hebron (3:...

Guzik: 2Sa 13:1-39 - --2 Samuel 13 - Amnon, Tamar, and Absalom A. Amnon and Tamar. 1. (1-2) Amnon's infatuation with Tamar. After this Absalom the son of David had a lov...

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Introduction / Outline

JFB: 2 Samuel (Book Introduction) THE FIRST AND SECOND BOOKS OF SAMUEL. The two were, by the ancient Jews, conjoined so as to make one book, and in that form could be called the Book o...

JFB: 2 Samuel (Outline) AN AMALEKITE BRINGS TIDINGS OF SAUL'S DEATH. (2Sa. 1:1-16) DAVID LAMENTS SAUL AND JONATHAN. (2Sa 1:17-27) DAVID, BY GOD'S DIRECTION, GOES UP TO HEBRO...

TSK: 2 Samuel 13 (Chapter Introduction) Overview 2Sa 13:1, Amnon loving Tamar, by Jonadab’s counsel feigning himself sick, ravishes her; 2Sa 13:15, He hates her, and shamefully turns h...

Poole: 2 Samuel 13 (Chapter Introduction) SAMUEL CHAPTER 13 Ammon loveth his sister Tamar; ravisheth her; then hateth and driveth her away, 2Sa 13:1-19 . Absalom entertaineth and revengeth ...

MHCC: 2 Samuel (Book Introduction) This book is the history of the reign of king David. It relates his victories, the growth of the prosperity of Israel, and his reformation of the stat...

MHCC: 2 Samuel 13 (Chapter Introduction) (v. 1-20) Ammon's violence to his sister. (2Sa 13:21-29) Absalom murders his brother Ammon. (2Sa 13:30-39) David's grief, Absalom flees to Geshur.

Matthew Henry: 2 Samuel (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The Second Book of Samuel This book is the history of the reign of king David. We had in the foregoing ...

Matthew Henry: 2 Samuel 13 (Chapter Introduction) The righteous God had lately told David, by Nathan the prophet, that, to chastise him for his son in the matter of Uriah, he would " raise up evil ...

Constable: 2 Samuel (Book Introduction) Introduction Second Samuel continues the history begun in 1 Samuel. Please see my comments regarding 2 Samuel's title, d...

Constable: 2 Samuel (Outline) Outline (Continued from notes on 1 Samuel) V. David's triumphs chs. 1-8 ...

Constable: 2 Samuel 2 Samuel Bibliography Achtemeier, Paul J., and Elizabeth Achtemeier. The Old Testament Roots of Our Faith. Phil...

Haydock: 2 Samuel (Book Introduction) THE SECOND BOOK OF SAMUEL; otherwise called, THE SECOND BOOK OF KINGS. INTRODUCTION. This Book contains the transactions of David till the end ...

Gill: 2 Samuel (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 2 SAMUEL This book, in many copies of the Hebrew Bible, is carried on without any new title put unto it; the reason of it is, becau...

Gill: 2 Samuel 13 (Chapter Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO SECOND SAMUEL 13 This chapter relates some of the evils that were to arise out of David's house, and which were similar to the evil...

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