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Text -- Colossians 3:21 (NET)

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3:21 Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they will not become disheartened.
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Dictionary Themes and Topics: Parents | PROVOCATION; PROVOKE | Ephesians, Epistle to | EPHESIANS, EPISTLE TO THE | Children | more
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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per phrase)

Robertson: Col 3:21 - -- Provoke not ( mē erethizete ). Present imperative of old verb from erethō , to excite. Only twice in N.T., here in bad sense, in good sense in 2C...

Provoke not ( mē erethizete ).

Present imperative of old verb from erethō , to excite. Only twice in N.T., here in bad sense, in good sense in 2Co 9:2 (to stimulate). Here it means to nag and as a habit (present tense).

Robertson: Col 3:21 - -- That they be not discouraged ( hina mē athumōsin ). Negative purpose (hina mē ) with the present subjunctive (continued discouragement) of ath...

That they be not discouraged ( hina mē athumōsin ).

Negative purpose (hina mē ) with the present subjunctive (continued discouragement) of athumeō , old verb, but only here in N.T., from athumos (dispirited, a privative, thumos , spirit or courage). One does not have to read Jane Eyre or Oliver Twist to know something of the sorrows of childhood as is witnessed by runaway children and even child suicides.

Vincent: Col 3:21 - -- Provoke to anger ( ἐρεθίζετε ) Only here and 2Co 9:2, where it is used of stirring up to good works. To anger is added by A.V.

Provoke to anger ( ἐρεθίζετε )

Only here and 2Co 9:2, where it is used of stirring up to good works. To anger is added by A.V.

Vincent: Col 3:21 - -- Be discouraged ( ἀθυμῶσιν ) Only here in the New Testament. Lose heart, or become dispirited.

Be discouraged ( ἀθυμῶσιν )

Only here in the New Testament. Lose heart, or become dispirited.

Wesley: Col 3:21 - -- Which may occasion their turning either desperate or stupid.

Which may occasion their turning either desperate or stupid.

JFB: Col 3:21 - -- (Eph 6:4.) It is a different Greek verb, therefore translate here, "irritate not." By perpetual fault-finding "children" are "discouraged" or "dishear...

(Eph 6:4.) It is a different Greek verb, therefore translate here, "irritate not." By perpetual fault-finding "children" are "discouraged" or "disheartened." A broken-down spirit is fatal to youth [BENGEL].

Clarke: Col 3:21 - -- Fathers, provoke not - See the notes on Eph 6:4.

Fathers, provoke not - See the notes on Eph 6:4.

TSK: Col 3:21 - -- Psa 103:13; Pro 3:12, Pro 4:1-4; Eph 6:4; 1Th 2:11; Heb 12:5-11

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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)

Barnes: Col 3:21 - -- Fathers, provoke not ... - Notes, Eph 6:4. Lest they be discouraged - Lest, by your continually finding fault with them, they should lose...

Fathers, provoke not ... - Notes, Eph 6:4.

Lest they be discouraged - Lest, by your continually finding fault with them, they should lose all courage, and despair of ever pleasing you. There is much sound sense and practical wisdom in this observation of the apostle. Children should not be flattered, but they should be encouraged. They should not be so praised as to make them vain and proud, but they should be commended when they do well. The desire of praise should not be the principle from which they should be taught to act, but they should feel that the approbation of parents is a desirable thing, and when they act so as to deserve that approbation, no injury is done them by their understanding it. He who always finds fault with a child; who is never satisfied with what he does; who scolds and frets and complains, let him do as he will, breaks his spirit, and soon destroys in the delicate texture of his soul all desire of doing well. The child in despair soon gives over every effort to please. He becomes sullen, morose, stupid, and indifferent to all the motives that can be presented to him, and becomes to a great extent indifferent as to what he does - since all that he does meets with the same reception from the parent.

Poole: Col 3:21 - -- Fathers, provoke not your children to anger: and to moderate the parental authority, that they may exercise it Christianly, he allows not parents to ...

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger: and to moderate the parental authority, that they may exercise it Christianly, he allows not parents to do that which is in a direct tendency to irritate or move the passions of their children merely for their own pleasure, without a principal regard to God’ s glory, and their children’ s profit, Heb 12:10 . Indeed, he seems here more strictly to guard fathers against mal-administration of their power in this extreme than he doth elsewhere, when writing upon the same subject, Eph 6:4 , considering the original word he here puts the negative upon, to engage them to lay aside rigour in their government, (as well as unwarrantable indulgence), and that upon a very weighty reason, drawn from the end, viz.

lest they be discouraged lest some children, who might with a moderate hand be reduced to obedience, should be (as it were) dispirited, by the roughness of their father’ s discipline, and even pine away with grief, or grow desperate.

Gill: Col 3:21 - -- Fathers, provoke not your children to anger,.... See Gill on Eph 6:4. lest they be discouraged; or disheartened and dispirited; their spirits be br...

Fathers, provoke not your children to anger,.... See Gill on Eph 6:4.

lest they be discouraged; or disheartened and dispirited; their spirits be broke through grief and trouble, and they become indolent, sluggish, and unfit for business; or, despairing of having any share in the affections of their parents, disregard their commands, instructions, and corrections, and grow obdurate, stubborn, and rebellious.

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: Col 3:21 Or “do not cause your children to become resentful” (L&N 88.168). BDAG 391 s.v. ἐρεθίζω states, &#...

Geneva Bible: Col 3:21 ( 13 ) Fathers, provoke not your children [to anger], lest they be discouraged. ( 13 ) Of parents, that they are gentle towards their children.

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Commentary -- Verse Range Notes

TSK Synopsis: Col 3:1-25 - --1 He shows where we should seek Christ.5 He exhorts to mortification;10 to put off the old man, and put on Christ;12 exhorting to charity, humility, a...

MHCC: Col 3:18-25 - --The epistles most taken up in displaying the glory of the Divine grace, and magnifying the Lord Jesus, are the most particular in pressing the duties ...

Matthew Henry: Col 3:18-25 - -- The apostle concludes the chapter with exhortations to relative duties, as before in the epistle to the Ephesians. The epistles which are most taken...

Barclay: Col 3:18-25 - --Here the ethical part of the letter becomes more and more practical. Paul turns to the working out of Christianity in the everyday relationships of l...

Barclay: Col 3:18-25 - --Let us look briefly at each of these three spheres of human relationships. (i) The wife is to be submissive to her husband; but the husband is to lov...

Barclay: Col 3:18-25 - --(iii) Paul then turns to the greatest problem of all--the relationship between slave and master. It will be noted that this section is far longer tha...

Constable: Col 3:18--4:2 - --C. The fundamental relationships 3:18-4:1 Paul next set forth certain principles to guide his readers in...

Constable: Col 3:20-21 - --2. Children and parents 3:20-21 (cf. Eph. 6:1-4) 3:20 Children are to obey (hypakoute) both parents. The Greek word for obey implies a readiness to li...

College: Col 3:1-25 - --COLOSSIANS 3 VIII. SEEK THE THINGS ABOVE (3:1-4) 1 Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is s...

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Introduction / Outline

Robertson: Colossians (Book Introduction) The Epistle to the Colossians From Rome a.d. 63 By Way of Introduction Genuineness The author claims to be Paul (Col_1:1) and there is no real...

JFB: Colossians (Book Introduction) The GENUINENESS of this Epistle is attested by JUSTIN MARTYR [Dialogue with Trypho, p. 311, B.], who quotes "the first-born of every creature," in ref...

JFB: Colossians (Outline) ADDRESS: INTRODUCTION: CONFIRMING EPAPHRAS' TEACHING: THE GLORIES OF CHRIST: THANKSGIVING AND PRAYER FOR THE COLOSSIANS: HIS OWN MINISTRY OF THE MYST...

TSK: Colossians (Book Introduction) Colosse was a large and populous city of Phrygia Pacatiana, in Asia Minor, seated on an eminence to the south of the river Meander. It is supposed to...

TSK: Colossians 3 (Chapter Introduction) Overview Col 3:1, He shows where we should seek Christ; Col 3:5, He exhorts to mortification; Col 3:10, to put off the old man, and put on Christ;...

Poole: Colossians 3 (Chapter Introduction) CHAPTER 3

MHCC: Colossians (Book Introduction) This epistle was sent because of some difficulties which arose among the Colossians, probably from false teachers, in consequence of which they sent t...

MHCC: Colossians 3 (Chapter Introduction) (Col 3:1-4) The Colossians exhorted to be heavenly-minded. (Col 3:5-11) To mortify all corrupt affections. (Col 3:12-17) To live in mutual love, for...

Matthew Henry: Colossians (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The Epistle of St. Paul to the Colossians Colosse was a considerable city of Phrygia, and probably not ...

Matthew Henry: Colossians 3 (Chapter Introduction) I. The apostle exhorts us to set our hearts upon heaven and take them off from this world (Col 3:1-4). II. He exhorts to the mortification of sin,...

Barclay: Colossians (Book Introduction) A GENERAL INTRODUCTION TO THE LETTERS OF PAUL The Letters Of Paul There is no more interesting body of documents in the New Testament than the letter...

Barclay: Colossians 3 (Chapter Introduction) The Risen Life (Col_3:1-4) Christ Our Life (Col_3:1-4 Continued) The Things Which Lie Behind (Col_3:5-9) The Things Which Must Be Left Behind (C...

Constable: Colossians (Book Introduction) Introduction Historical background The city of Colosse lay in the beautiful Lycus Vall...

Constable: Colossians (Outline) Outline I. Introduction 1:1-14 A. Salutation 1:1-2 B. Thanksgiving 1:3-8...

Constable: Colossians Colossians Bibliography Abbott, T. K. A Critical and Exegetical Commentary on the Epistles to the Ephesians and...

Haydock: Colossians (Book Introduction) THE EPISTLE OF ST. PAUL, THE APOSTLE, TO THE COLOSSIANS. INTRODUCTION. Colosse was a city of Phrygia, near Laodicea. It does not appear that ...

Gill: Colossians (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO COLOSSIANS The Colossians, to whom this epistle is written, were not the Rhodians, by some called Colossians, from Colossus, the la...

Gill: Colossians 3 (Chapter Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO COLOSSIANS 3 This chapter contains exhortations to several duties, some more general, which relate to all Christians, and others mo...

College: Colossians (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION THE CITY Colosse had been a thriving and important city several centuries before Christ, but by the time this letter was written its im...

College: Colossians (Outline) OUTLINE SALUTATION - 1:1-2 I. THANKSGIVING - 1:3-8 II. PAUL'S PRAYER FOR THE COLOSSIANS - 1:9-14 III. THE HYMN ABOUT CHRIST - 1:15-20 IV. ...

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