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Text -- Matthew 19:10 (NET)

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19:10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the case of a husband with a wife, it is better not to marry!”
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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per phrase)

Robertson: Mat 19:10 - -- The disciples say unto him ( legousin autōi hoi mathētai ). "Christ’ s doctrine on marriage not only separated Him toto caelo from Pharisa...

The disciples say unto him ( legousin autōi hoi mathētai ).

"Christ’ s doctrine on marriage not only separated Him toto caelo from Pharisaic opinions of all shades, but was too high even for the Twelve"(Bruce).

Robertson: Mat 19:10 - -- The case ( hē aitia ). The word may refer to the use in Mat 19:3 "for every cause."It may have a vague idea here = res , condition. But the point c...

The case ( hē aitia ).

The word may refer to the use in Mat 19:3 "for every cause."It may have a vague idea here = res , condition. But the point clearly is that "it is not expedient to marry"(ou sumpherei gamēsai ) if such a strict view is held. If the bond is so tight a man had best not commit matrimony. It is a bit unusual to have anthrōpos and gunē contrasted rather than anēr and gunē .||

Vincent: Mat 19:10 - -- The case ( αἰτία ) Not the relation of the man to his wife, nor the circumstances, the state of the case. Αἰτία refers to ...

The case ( αἰτία )

Not the relation of the man to his wife, nor the circumstances, the state of the case. Αἰτία refers to cause (Mat 19:3), and the meaning is, if the matter stands thus with reference to the cause which the man must have for putting away his wife.

JFB: Mat 19:10 - -- That is, "In this view of marriage, surely it must prove a snare rather than a blessing, and had better be avoided altogether."

That is, "In this view of marriage, surely it must prove a snare rather than a blessing, and had better be avoided altogether."

Clarke: Mat 19:10 - -- If the case of the man - Του ανθρωπου, of a husband, so I think the word should be translated here. The Codex Bezae, Armenian, and most ...

If the case of the man - Του ανθρωπου, of a husband, so I think the word should be translated here. The Codex Bezae, Armenian, and most of the Itala, have του ανδρος, which, perhaps, more properly signifies a husband, though both words are used in this sense

Our word husband comes from the Anglo-Saxon, hus and band : the bond of the house, anciently spelt housebond, - so in my old MS. Bible. It is a lamentable case when the husband, instead of being the bond and union of the family, scatters and ruins it by dissipation, riot, and excess

Clarke: Mat 19:10 - -- It is not good to marry - That is, if a man have not the liberty to put away his wife when she is displeasing to him. God had said, Gen 2:18, It is ...

It is not good to marry - That is, if a man have not the liberty to put away his wife when she is displeasing to him. God had said, Gen 2:18, It is not good for man to be alone, i.e. unmarried. The disciples seem to say, that if the husband have not the power to divorce his wife when she is displeasing to him, it is not good for him to marry. Here was a flat contradiction to the decision of the Creator. There are difficulties and trials in all states; but let marriage and celibacy be weighed fairly, and I am persuaded the former will be found to have fewer than the latter. However, before we enter into an engagement which nothing but death can dissolve, we had need to act cautiously, carefully consulting the will and word of God. Where an unbridled passion, or a base love of money, lead the way, marriage is sure to be miserable.

Calvin: Mat 19:10 - -- 10.His disciples say to him As if it were a hard condition for husbands to be so bound to their wives, that, so long as they remain chaste, they are ...

10.His disciples say to him As if it were a hard condition for husbands to be so bound to their wives, that, so long as they remain chaste, they are compelled to endure every thing rather than leave them, the disciples, roused by this answer of Christ, reply, that it is better to want wives than to submit to a knot of this kind. 603 But why do they not, on the other hand, consider how hard is the bondage of wives, 604 but because, devoted to themselves and their own convenience, they are driven by the feeling of the flesh to disregard others, and to think only of what is advantageous for themselves? Meanwhile, it is a display of base ingratitude that, from the dread or dislike of a single inconvenience, they reject a wonderful gift of God. It is better, according to them, to avoid marriage than to bind one’s self by the bond of living always together. 605 But if God has ordained marriage for the general advantage of mankind, though it may be attended by some things that are disagreeable, it is not on that account to be despised. Let us therefore learn not to be delicate and saucy, but to use with reverence the gifts of God, even if there be something in them that does not please us. Above all, let us guard against this wickedness in reference to holy marriage; for, in consequence of its being attended by many annoyances, Satan has always endeavored to make it an object of hatred and detestation, in order to withdraw men from it. And Jerome has given too manifest a proof of a malicious and wicked disposition, in not only loading with calumnies that sacred and divinely appointed condition of life, but in collecting as many terms of reproach ( λοιδορίας) as he could from profane authors, in order to take away its respectability. But let us recollect that whatever annoyances belong to marriage are accidental, for they arise out of the depravity of man. Let us remember that, since our nature was corrupted, marriage began to be a medicine, and therefore we need not wonder if it have a bitter taste mixed with its sweetness. But we must see how our Lord confutes this folly.

TSK: Mat 19:10 - -- Gen 2:18; Pro 5:15-19, Pro 18:22, Pro 19:13, Pro 19:14, Pro 21:9, Pro 21:19; 1Co 7:1, 1Co 7:2, 1Co 7:8, 1Co 7:26-28; 1Co 7:32-35, 1Co 7:39, 1Co 7:40; ...

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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)

Barnes: Mat 19:10 - -- His disciples say ... - The disciples were full of Jewish notions. They thought that the privilege of divorcing a wife when there was a quarrel...

His disciples say ... - The disciples were full of Jewish notions. They thought that the privilege of divorcing a wife when there was a quarrelsome disposition, or anything else that rendered the marriage unhappy, was a great privilege; and that in such cases to be always bound to live with a wife was a great calamity. They said, therefore, that if such was the case - such the condition on which people married - it was better not to marry.

Poole: Mat 19:10 - -- This is a very strange saying, and discovers to us both the imperfect state of Christ’ s disciples, and also the tyranny of a sinful practice g...

This is a very strange saying, and discovers to us both the imperfect state of Christ’ s disciples, and also the tyranny of a sinful practice grown up into a custom. The Jews had assumed a liberty of turning their wives out of doors upon every light and trivial offence or dislike; the disciples think, if this licentiousness may not be allowed it is not good to marry. So a holy institution of God, ordained for the propagation of mankind, for the restraint of extravagant lust, and for the solace and comfort of man’ s life, should be despised, rather than those unquiet lusts and corruptions mortified, the mortification of which would have made those irregular separations both needless and undesirable. Surely they should rather have said, If the case of a man be so with his wife, then both husbands and wives had need to learn to deny themselves, to comply each with another, to silence their brutish and boisterous passions, that, being the same flesh, they might also have one and the same spirit, and not be like a diseased piece of flesh, where humours so quarrel that one piece need be cut off to preserve the other. But the best of men have their infirmities; and, as the Hebrews said, Spiritus Dei non semper tangit corda prophetarum, The Spirit of God was not always upon the hearts of the prophets; so it is as true, Spiritius Dei non semper et ubique tangit corda fidelium, All that the saints say is not gospel. Their flesh hath its turn to speak, as well as the Spirit in them. A sinful liberty conceded, indulged, or connived at, by the laws, or by the rulers of a church or place where we live, for a long time, is not easily restrained, and even good men may for a time be carried away with the error of it, so as they cannot discern it, be convinced of it, or be brought clear of it to a conformity to the will of God.

Gill: Mat 19:10 - -- His disciples say unto him,.... Being surprised at this account of things, it being quite contrary to what they had been taught, and very different fr...

His disciples say unto him,.... Being surprised at this account of things, it being quite contrary to what they had been taught, and very different from the general practice and usage of their nation:

if the case of a man be so with his wife; if they are so closely joined together in marriage; if they are, as it were, one flesh, or one body, that a man's wife is himself: that the bond between them is so inviolable, that it is not to be dissolved, but in case of adultery; that if a separation be made by a bill of divorce, in any other case, and either party marry again, they are guilty of adultery; if a man cannot part with his wife lawfully, provided she be chaste, and is faithful to his bed, let her be what she will otherwise, though ever so disagreeable in her person, and troublesome in her behaviour; though she may be passionate, and a brawler; though she may be drunken, luxurious, and extravagant, and mind not the affairs of her family, yet if she is not an adulteress, must not be put away:

it is not good to marry; it would be more expedient and advisable for a man to live always a single life, than to run the risk of marrying a woman, that may prove very disagreeable and uncomfortable; to whom he must be bound all the days of his or her life, and, in such a case, not to be able to relieve and extricate himself. This they said under the prejudice of a national law and custom, which greatly prevailed, and under the influence of a carnal heart.

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: Mat 19:10 ‡ Some significant witnesses, along with the majority of later mss (Ì25 C D L W Z 078 Ë1,13 33 Ï lat sy samss bo), read α...

Geneva Bible: Mat 19:10 His disciples say unto him, If the ( i ) case of the man be so with [his] wife, it is not good to marry. ( i ) If the matter stands in this way betwe...

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Commentary -- Verse Range Notes

TSK Synopsis: Mat 19:1-30 - --1 Christ heals the sick;3 answers the Pharisees concerning divorcement;10 shows when marriage is necessary;13 receives little children;16 instructs th...

MHCC: Mat 19:3-12 - --The Pharisees were desirous of drawing something from Jesus which they might represent as contrary to the law of Moses. Cases about marriage have been...

Matthew Henry: Mat 19:3-12 - -- We have here the law of Christ in the case of divorce, occasioned, as some other declarations of his will, by a dispute with the Pharisees. So pat...

Barclay: Mat 19:10-12 - --Here we come to the necessary amplification of what has gone before. When the disciples heard the ideal of marriage which Jesus set before them, the...

Barclay: Mat 19:10-12 - --It would be wrong to leave this matter without some attempt to see what it actually means for the question of divorce at the present time. We may at t...

Constable: Mat 19:3--26:1 - --VI. The official presentation and rejection of the King 19:3--25:46 This section of the Gospel continues Jesus' ...

Constable: Mat 19:3--21:1 - --A. Jesus' instruction of His disciples around Judea 19:3-20:34 The primary emphasis in this section of M...

Constable: Mat 19:3-12 - --1. Instruction about marriage 19:3-12 (cf. Mark 10:2-12) Matthew evidently included this instruction because the marriage relationships of His discipl...

College: Mat 19:1-30 - --MATTHEW 19 H. TRANSITION FROM GALILEE TO JUDEA (19:1-2) An overview of the various episodes comprising chapters 19 and 20 reveals a series of events...

McGarvey: Mat 19:1-12 - -- XCVIII. JOURNEY TO JERUSALEM. CONCERNING DIVORCE. aMATT. XIX. 1-12; bMARK X. 1-12.    a1 And it came to pass when Jesus had finished ...

Lapide: Mat 19:1-24 - --1-30 CHAPTER 19 And it came to pass, &c. This is the same history as that related by S. Mark (Mar 10:1), by S. Luke (Luk 9:51), and, as it would see...

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Introduction / Outline

Robertson: Matthew (Book Introduction) THE GOSPEL ACCORDING TO MATTHEW By Way of Introduction The passing years do not make it any plainer who actually wrote our Greek Matthew. Papias r...

JFB: Matthew (Book Introduction) THE author of this Gospel was a publican or tax gatherer, residing at Capernaum, on the western shore of the Sea of Galilee. As to his identity with t...

JFB: Matthew (Outline) GENEALOGY OF CHRIST. ( = Luke 3:23-38). (Mat. 1:1-17) BIRTH OF CHRIST. (Mat 1:18-25) VISIT OF THE MAGI TO JERUSALEM AND BETHLEHEM. (Mat 2:1-12) THE F...

TSK: Matthew (Book Introduction) Matthew, being one of the twelve apostles, and early called to the apostleship, and from the time of his call a constant attendant on our Saviour, was...

TSK: Matthew 19 (Chapter Introduction) Overview Mat 19:1, Christ heals the sick; Mat 19:3, answers the Pharisees concerning divorcement; Mat 19:10, shows when marriage is necessary; Mat...

Poole: Matthew 19 (Chapter Introduction) CHAPTER 19

MHCC: Matthew (Book Introduction) Matthew, surnamed Levi, before his conversion was a publican, or tax-gatherer under the Romans at Capernaum. He is generally allowed to have written h...

MHCC: Matthew 19 (Chapter Introduction) (Mat 19:1, Mat 19:2) Jesus enters Judea. (Mat 19:3-12) The Pharisees' question about divorces. (Mat 19:13-15) Young children brought to Jesus. (Mat...

Matthew Henry: Matthew (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The Gospel According to St. Matthew We have now before us, I. The New Testament of our Lord and Savior...

Matthew Henry: Matthew 19 (Chapter Introduction) In this chapter, we have, I. Christ changing his quarters, leaving Galilee, and coming into the coasts of Judea (Mat 19:1, Mat 19:2). II. His dis...

Barclay: Matthew (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO THE GOSPEL ACCORDING TO SAINT MATTHEW The Synoptic Gospels Matthew, Mark and Luke are usually known as the Synoptic Gospels. Synopt...

Barclay: Matthew 19 (Chapter Introduction) Jewish Marriage And Divorce (Mat_19:1-9) Jewish Grounds Of Divorce (Mat_19:1-9 Continued) The Answer Of Jesus (Mat_19:1-9 Continued) The High Id...

Constable: Matthew (Book Introduction) Introduction The Synoptic Problem The synoptic problem is intrinsic to all study of th...

Constable: Matthew (Outline) Outline I. The introduction of the King 1:1-4:11 A. The King's genealogy 1:1-17 ...

Constable: Matthew Matthew Bibliography Abbott-Smith, G. A. A Manual Greek Lexicon of the New Testament. Edinburgh: T. & T. Cl...

Haydock: Matthew (Book Introduction) THE HOLY GOSPEL OF JESUS CHRIST, ACCORDING TO ST. MATTHEW INTRODUCTION. THIS and other titles, with the names of those that wrote the Gospels,...

Gill: Matthew (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO MATTHEW The subject of this book, and indeed of all the writings of the New Testament, is the Gospel. The Greek word ευαγγελ...

College: Matthew (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION HISTORY OF INTERPRETATION It may surprise the modern reader to realize that for the first two centuries of the Christian era, Matthew's...

College: Matthew (Outline) OUTLINE I. ESTABLISHING THE IDENTITY AND ROLE OF JESUS THE CHRIST - Matt 1:1-4:16 A. Genealogy of Jesus - 1:1-17 B. The Annunciation to Joseph...

Lapide: Matthew (Book Introduction) PREFACE. —————— IN presenting to the reader the Second Volume [Matt X to XXI] of this Translation of the great work of Cornelius à Lapi...

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