
Text -- Proverbs 25:9 (NET)




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Wesley: Pro 25:9 - -- If thou hast any quarrel with him, first try to compose it by private discourse with him.
If thou hast any quarrel with him, first try to compose it by private discourse with him.

Wesley: Pro 25:9 - -- Let not heat of contention provoke thee to divulge any of his secrets committed to thy trust.
Let not heat of contention provoke thee to divulge any of his secrets committed to thy trust.
JFB -> Pro 25:9-10; Pro 25:9-10
(Compare Mat 5:25, Margin).

JFB: Pro 25:9-10 - -- That is, of your opponent, for his disadvantage, and so you be disgraced, not having discussed your difficulties with him.
That is, of your opponent, for his disadvantage, and so you be disgraced, not having discussed your difficulties with him.
Clarke -> Pro 25:9
Clarke: Pro 25:9 - -- Debate thy cause with thy neighbor - Take the advice of friends. Let both sides attend to their counsels; but do not tell the secret of thy business...
Debate thy cause with thy neighbor - Take the advice of friends. Let both sides attend to their counsels; but do not tell the secret of thy business to any. After squandering your money away upon lawyers, both they and the judge will at last leave it to be settled by twelve of your fellow citizens! O the folly of going to law! O the blindness of men, and the rapacity of unprincipled lawyers
On this subject I cannot but give the following extract from Sir John Hawkins’ s Life of Dr. Johnson, which he quotes from Mr. Selwin, of London: "A man who deliberates about going to law should have
1. A good cause
2. A good purse
3. A good skillful attorney
4. Good evidence
5. Good able counsel
6. A good upright judge
7. A good intelligent jury; and with all these on his side, if he have not
8. Good luck, it is odds but he miscarries in his suit."O the glorious uncertainty of the law!
TSK -> Pro 25:9
TSK: Pro 25:9 - -- with : Mat 18:5-17
a secret to another : or, the secret of another, Pro 11:13, Pro 20:19
with : Mat 18:5-17
a secret to another : or, the secret of another, Pro 11:13, Pro 20:19

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Barnes -> Pro 25:9
Barnes: Pro 25:9 - -- An anticipation of the highest standard of ethical refinement Mat 18:15, but with a difference. Here the motive is prudential, the risk of shame, th...
An anticipation of the highest standard of ethical refinement Mat 18:15, but with a difference. Here the motive is prudential, the risk of shame, the fear of the irretrievable infamy of the betrayer of secrets. In the teaching of Christ the precept rests upon the divine authority and the perfect example.
Poole -> Pro 25:9
Poole: Pro 25:9 - -- Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself if thou hast any quarrel with him, first try to compose it by private discourse with him. Compare Mat 5:2...
Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself if thou hast any quarrel with him, first try to compose it by private discourse with him. Compare Mat 5:25 18:15 Luk 12:58 .
Discover not a secret any secret. Let no heat of contention provoke thee to divulge any of his secret counsels committed to thy trust, or to reproach him with any of his secret faults, as is usual in lawsuits and other contentions. Or, the secret ; any secret difference between thee and him, which therefore is fittest to be ended secretly between you, and not to be imparted to any other.
Haydock -> Pro 25:9
Haydock: Pro 25:9 - -- Stranger. It sometimes happens that friends fall out; but if either disclose the secret of the other, he will be deemed infamous. (Calmet) (Joseph...
Stranger. It sometimes happens that friends fall out; but if either disclose the secret of the other, he will be deemed infamous. (Calmet) (Josephus, contra Apion 2.) ---
St. Ambrose says of his brother Satyrus, "though we had all things in common, yet the secret of our friends was not so."
Gill -> Pro 25:9
Gill: Pro 25:9 - -- Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself,.... Between thee and him alone; lay the matter before him, and hear what he has to say for himself, by w...
Debate thy cause with thy neighbour himself,.... Between thee and him alone; lay the matter before him, and hear what he has to say for himself, by which you will better judge of the nature of the cause; try to compromise things, and make up the difference between you, which is much better than to commence a lawsuit; at least such a step should be taken first; see Mat 5:25;
and discover not a secret to another; if the thing in controversy is a secret, do not acquaint another person with it; keep it among yourselves, if the affair can be made up without bringing it into a court of judicature; besides, by communicating it to others, you may have bad counsel given, and be led to take indirect methods: or, "the secret of another", or, "another secret do not discover" b; if you know anything scandalous and reproachful of your neighbour and his family, you are contending with, which does not concern the cause in hand, do not divulge it, as persons from a spirit of revenge are apt to do, when they are quarrelling or litigating a point with each other.

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TSK Synopsis -> Pro 25:1-28
TSK Synopsis: Pro 25:1-28 - --1 Observations about kings,8 and about avoiding causes of quarrels, and sundry causes thereof.
MHCC -> Pro 25:8-10
MHCC: Pro 25:8-10 - --To be hasty in beginning strife, will bring into difficulties. War must at length end, and might better be prevented. It is so in private quarrels; do...
Matthew Henry -> Pro 25:8-10
Matthew Henry: Pro 25:8-10 - -- I. Here is good counsel given about going to law: - 1. "Be not hasty in bringing an action, before thou hast thyself considered it, and consulted wi...
Keil-Delitzsch -> Pro 25:8-10
Keil-Delitzsch: Pro 25:8-10 - --
8 Go not forth hastily to strife,
That it may not be said, "What wilt thou do in the end thereof,
When now thy neighbour bringeth disgrace upon th...
Constable -> Pro 25:1--29:27; Pro 25:1-28
Constable: Pro 25:1--29:27 - --IV. MAXIMS EXPRESSING WISDOM chs. 25--29
We return now to the proverbs of Solomon (cf. 1:1-22:16). Chapters 25-2...
