1 Timothy 3:4

3:4 He must manage his own household well and keep his children in control without losing his dignity. ¹ 

1 Timothy 3:12-13

3:12 Deacons must be husbands of one wife ²  and good managers of their children and their own households. 3:13 For those who have served well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves ³  and great boldness in the faith that is in Christ Jesus. ⁴ 

1 Timothy 5:17

5:17 Elders who provide effective leadership ⁵  must be counted worthy ⁶  of double honor, ⁷  especially those who work hard in speaking ⁸  and teaching.

[3:4]  ¹ tn Grk “having children in submission with all dignity.” The last phrase, “keep his children in control without losing his dignity,” may refer to the children rather than the parent: “having children who are obedient and respectful.”

[3:12]  ² tn Or “men married only once,” “devoted solely to their wives” (see the note on “wife” in 1 Tim 3:2; also 1 Tim 5:9; Titus 1:6).

[3:13]  ³ sn The statement those who have served well as deacons gain a good standing for themselves is reminiscent of Jesus’ teaching (Matt 20:26-28; Mark 10:43-45) that the one who wishes to be great must be a servant (διάκονος [diakonos], used here of deacons) of all, just as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve (διακονέω [diakonew], as in 1 Tim 3:10, 13).

[3:13]  ⁴ sn In the phrase the faith that is in Christ Jesus, the term faith seems to mean “what Christians believe, Christian truth,” rather than personal trust in Christ. So the whole phrase could mean that others will come to place greater confidence in them regarding Christian truth; but the word “confidence” is much more likely to refer to their own boldness to act on the truth of their convictions.

[5:17]  ⁴ tn Grk “who lead well.”

[5:17]  ⁵ tn Or “deserving.”

[5:17]  ⁶ tn Like the similar use of “honor” in v. 3, this phrase
denotes both respect and remuneration: “honor plus honorarium.”

[5:17]  ⁷ tn Or “in preaching”; Grk “in word.”