
Text -- Ephesians 5:22 (NET)




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Robertson: Eph 5:22 - -- Be in subjection.
Not in the Greek text of B and Jerome knew of no MS. with it. K L and most MSS. have hupotassesthe like Col 3:18, while Aleph A P...
Be in subjection.
Not in the Greek text of B and Jerome knew of no MS. with it. K L and most MSS. have
Vincent -> Eph 5:22
Vincent: Eph 5:22 - -- Your own ( ἰδίοις )
The peculiar personal relationship is emphasized as the ground of the duty.
Your own (
The peculiar personal relationship is emphasized as the ground of the duty.
Wesley: Eph 5:22 - -- In the following directions concerning relative duties, the inferiors are all along placed before the superiors, because the general proposition is co...
In the following directions concerning relative duties, the inferiors are all along placed before the superiors, because the general proposition is concerning submission; and inferiors ought to do their duty, whatever their superiors do. Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands - Unless where God forbids. Otherwise, in all indifferent things, the will of the husband is a law to the wife.

Wesley: Eph 5:22 - -- The obedience a wife pays to her husband is at the same time paid to Christ himself; he being head of the wife, as Christ is head of the church.
The obedience a wife pays to her husband is at the same time paid to Christ himself; he being head of the wife, as Christ is head of the church.
JFB: Eph 5:22 - -- (Eph 6:9.) The Church's relation to Christ in His everlasting purpose, is the foundation and archetype of the three greatest of earthly relations, tha...
(Eph 6:9.) The Church's relation to Christ in His everlasting purpose, is the foundation and archetype of the three greatest of earthly relations, that of husband and wife (Eph 5:22-33), parent and child (Eph 6:1-4), master and servant (Eph 6:4-9). The oldest manuscripts omit "submit yourselves"; supplying it from Eph 5:21, "Ye wives (submitting yourselves) unto your own husbands." "Your own" is an argument for submissiveness on the part of the wives; it is not a stranger, but your own husbands whom you are called on to submit unto (compare Gen 3:16; 1Co 7:2; 1Co 14:34; Col 3:18; Tit 2:5; 1Pe 3:1-7). Those subject ought to submit themselves, of whatever kind their superiors are. "Submit" is the term used of wives: "obey," of children (Eph 6:1), as there is a greater equality between wives and husbands, than between children and parents.

JFB: Eph 5:22 - -- Submissiveness is rendered by the wife to the husband under the eye of Christ, and so is rendered to Christ Himself. The husband stands to the wife in...
Submissiveness is rendered by the wife to the husband under the eye of Christ, and so is rendered to Christ Himself. The husband stands to the wife in the relation that the Lord does to the Church, and this is to be the ground of her submission: though that submission is inferior in kind and degree to that which she owes Christ (Eph 5:24).
Clarke: Eph 5:22 - -- Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands - As the Lord, viz. Christ, is the head or governor of the Church, and the head of the man, so is th...
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands - As the Lord, viz. Christ, is the head or governor of the Church, and the head of the man, so is the man the head or governor of the woman. This is God’ s ordinance, and should not be transgressed. The husband should not be a tyrant, and the wife should not be the governor. Old Francis Quarles, in his homely rhymes, alluding to the superstitious notion, that the crowing of a hen bodes ill luck to the family, has said: -
"Ill thrives the hapless family that show
A cock that’ s silent, and a hen that crows
I know not which live most unnatural lives
Obeying husbands or commanding wives.

Clarke: Eph 5:22 - -- As unto the Lord - The word Church seems to be necessarily understood here; that is: Act under the authority of your husbands, as the Church acts un...
As unto the Lord - The word Church seems to be necessarily understood here; that is: Act under the authority of your husbands, as the Church acts under the authority of Christ. As the Church submits to the Lord, so let wives submit to their husbands.
Calvin -> Eph 5:22
Calvin: Eph 5:22 - -- 22.Wives, submit yourselves He comes now to the various conditions of life; for, besides the universal bond of subjection, some are more closely boun...
22.Wives, submit yourselves He comes now to the various conditions of life; for, besides the universal bond of subjection, some are more closely bound to each other, according to their respective callings. The community at large is divided, as it were, into so many yokes, out of which arises mutual obligation. There is, first, the yoke of marriage between husband and wife; — secondly, the yoke which binds parents and children; — and, thirdly, the yoke which connects masters and servants. By this arrangement there are six different classes, for each of whom Paul lays down peculiar duties. He begins with wives, whom he enjoins to be subject to their husbands, in the same manner as to Christ, — as to the Lord. Not that the authority is equal, but wives cannot obey Christ without yielding obedience to their husbands.
Defender -> Eph 5:22
Defender: Eph 5:22 - -- The instructions concerning the proper relations between husbands and wives - the wife submitting to her husband, the husband loving his wife with dee...
The instructions concerning the proper relations between husbands and wives - the wife submitting to her husband, the husband loving his wife with deeply sacrificial love - found in Eph 5:22-23 should be understood as included in the exhortation to be filled with the Spirit (Eph 5:18). They follow both from the original created purpose for men and women (Eph 5:30, Eph 5:31) and the relation between Christ and the church (Eph 5:25-27)."
TSK -> Eph 5:22
TSK: Eph 5:22 - -- submit : Eph 5:24; Gen 3:16; Est 1:16-18, Est 1:20; 1Co 14:34; Col 3:18-25; 1Ti 2:11, 1Ti 2:12; Tit 2:5; 1Pe 3:1-6
as : Eph 6:5; Col 3:22, Col 3:23

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Barnes -> Eph 5:22
Barnes: Eph 5:22 - -- Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands - On this passage, compare notes on 1Co 11:3-9. The duty of the submission of the wife to her h...
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands - On this passage, compare notes on 1Co 11:3-9. The duty of the submission of the wife to her husband is everywhere enjoined in the Scriptures; see 1Pe 3:1; Col 3:18; Tit 2:5. While Christianity designed to elevate the character of the wife, and to make her a fit companion of an intelligent and pious husband, it did not intend to destroy all subordination and authority. Man, by the fact that he was first created; that the woman was taken from him; that he is better qualified for ruling than she is, is evidently designed to be at the head of the little community that constitutes a family. In many other things, woman may be his equal; in loveliness, and grace, and beauty, and tenderness, and gentleness, she is far his superior; but these are not the qualities adapted for government. Their place is in another sphere; and "there,"man should be as cautious about invading her prerogative, or abridging her liberty, as "she"should be about invading the prerogative that belongs to him. In every family there should be a head - someone who is to be looked up to as the counselor and the ruler; someone to whom all should be subordinate. God has given that prerogative to man; and no family prospers where that arrangement is violated. Within proper metes and limits, therefore, it is the duty of the wife to obey, or to submit herself to her husband. Those limits are such as the following:
1. In domestic arrangements, the husband is to be regarded as the head of the family; and he has a right to direct as to the style of living, the expenses of the family, the clothing, etc.
2. In regard to the laws which are to regulate the family, he is the head. It is his to say what is to be done; in what way the children are to employ themselves, and to give directions in regard to their education, etc.
3. In business matters, the wife is to submit to the husband. She may counsel with him, if he chooses; but the affairs of business and property are under his control, and must be left at his disposal.
4. In everything, except that which relates to "conscience and religion,"he has authority. But there his authority ceases. He has no right to require her to commit an act of dishonesty, to connive at wrong-doing, to visit a place of amusement which her conscience tells her is wrong, nor has he a right to interfere with the proper discharge of her religious duties. He has no right to forbid her to go to church at the proper and usual time, or to make a profession of religion when she pleases. He has no right to forbid her endeavoring to exercise a religious influence over her children, or to endeavor to lead them to God. She is bound to obey God, rather than any man (see the notes on Act 4:19); and when even a husband interferes in such cases, and attempts to control her, he steps beyond his proper bounds, and invades the prerogative of God, and his authority ceases to be binding. It ought to be said, however, that in order to justify her acting independently in such a case, the following things are proper:
(1) It should be really a case of conscience - a case where the Lord has plainly required her to do what she proposes to do - and not a mere matter of whim, fancy, or caprice.
\caps1 (2) w\caps0 hen a husband makes opposition to the course which a wife wishes to pursue in religious duties, it should lead her to re-examine the matter, to pray much over it, and to see whether she cannot, with a good conscience, comply with his wishes.
\caps1 (3) i\caps0 f she is convinced that she is right, she should still endeavor to see whether it is not "possible"to win him to her views, and to persuade him to accord with her; see 1Pe 3:1. It is "possible"that, if she does right, he may be "persuaded"to do right also.
\caps1 (4) i\caps0 f she is constrained, however, to differ from him, it should be with mildness and gentleness. There should be no reproach, and no contention. She should simply state her reasons, and leave the event to God.
\caps1 (5) s\caps0 he should, "after"this, be a better wife, and put forth more and more effort to make her husband and family happy. She should show that the effect of her religion has been to make her love her husband and children more; to make her more and more attentive to her domestic duties, and more and more kind in affliction. By a "life"of pure religion, she should aim to secure what she could not by her entreaties - his consent that she should live as she thinks she ought to, and and walk to heaven in the path in which she believes that her Lord calls her. While, however, it is to be conceded that the husband has "authority"over the wife, and a "right"to command in all cases that do not pertain to the conscience, it should be remarked:
(1) That his command should be reasonable and proper.
\caps1 (2) h\caps0 e has no right to require anything wrong, or contrary to the will of God.
(3) Where commands begin "in this relation,"happiness usually ends; and the moment a husband "requires"a wife to do anything, it is usually a signal of departing or departed affection and peace. When there are proper feelings in both parties in this relation there will be no occasion either to command or to obey. There should be such mutual love and confidence, that the known "wish"of the husband should be a law to the wife: and that the known desires of the wife should be the rule which he would approve. A perfect government is that where the known wish of the lawgiver is a sufficient rule to the subject. Such is the government of heaven; and a family on earth should approximate as nearly as possible to that.
As unto the Lord - As you would to the Lord, because the Lord requires it, and has given to the husband this authority.
Poole -> Eph 5:22
Poole: Eph 5:22 - -- Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands yielding honour and obedience to them.
As unto the Lord for the Lord’ s sake who hath commande...
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands yielding honour and obedience to them.
As unto the Lord for the Lord’ s sake who hath commanded it, so that ye cannot be subject to him without being subject to them: see 1Ti 2:12 .
Gill -> Eph 5:22
Gill: Eph 5:22 - -- Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands,.... This is an instance, explaining the above general rule; which subjection lies in honour and rever...
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands,.... This is an instance, explaining the above general rule; which subjection lies in honour and reverence, Eph 5:33, and in obedience; they should think well of their husbands, speak becomingly to them, and respectfully of them; the wife should take care of the family, and family affairs, according to the husband's will; should imitate him in what is good, and bear with that which is not so agreeable; she should not curiously inquire into his business, but leave the management of it to him; she should help and assist in caring and providing for the family; and should abide with him in prosperity and adversity, and do nothing without his will and consent: and this subjection is only to her husband; not to any other man, nor to her children, nor to her servants, or any brought into her house; and this consideration should render the subjection more easy, voluntary, and cheerful: and which is but reasonable that it should be; as may be gathered from the time, matter, and end of the woman's creation, she was made after him, out of him, and for him; and from her fall, and being first in the transgression; and from her being the weaker and inferior sex; and from the profitableness and comeliness of it; and the credit of religion requires it, that so the word of God be not blasphemed: wherefore it follows,
as unto the Lord; that is, either as the Lord has commanded, that so it should be, showing a regard to his precepts; or as in the sight of the Lord, and so yielding it sincerely and heartily; or in things pertaining to the Lord, which are consistent with the law of the Lord, and the Gospel of Christ; and in like manner as the church is subject to Christ, her Lord and husband, as follows.

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NET Notes: Eph 5:22 The witnesses for the shorter reading (in which the verb “submit” is only implied) are minimal (Ì46 B Cl Hiermss), but significant an...
Geneva Bible -> Eph 5:22
Geneva Bible: Eph 5:22 ( 7 ) Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, ( 8 ) as unto the Lord.
( 7 ) Now he descends to a family, dividing orderly all the parts of a...

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TSK Synopsis -> Eph 5:1-33
TSK Synopsis: Eph 5:1-33 - --1 After general exhortations to love;3 to flee fornication;4 and all uncleanness;7 not to converse with the wicked;15 to walk warily;18 and to be fill...
Combined Bible -> Eph 5:22
Combined Bible: Eph 5:22 - --There should be no question as to an individual believer's submission to the Lord Jesus. Paul says here that the wife is to be submissive to her husb...
MHCC -> Eph 5:22-33
MHCC: Eph 5:22-33 - --The duty of wives is, submission to their husbands in the Lord, which includes honouring and obeying them, from a principle of love to them. The duty ...
Matthew Henry -> Eph 5:21-33
Matthew Henry: Eph 5:21-33 - -- Here the apostle begins his exhortation to the discharge of relative duties. As a general foundation for these duties, he lays down that rule Eph 5:...
Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --No one reading this passage in the twentieth century can fully realize how great it is. Throughout the years the Christian view of marriage has come ...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --The situation was worse in the Greek world. Prostitution was an essential part of Greek life. Demosthenes had laid it down as the accepted rule of l...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --In Rome the matter was still worse; its degeneracy was tragic. For the first five hundred years of the Roman Republic there had been not one single ...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --In this passage we find Paul's real thought on marriage. There are things which Paul wrote about marriage which puzzle us and may make us wish that h...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --Sometimes the emphasis of this passage is entirely misplaced; and it is read as if its essence was the subordination of wife to husband. The single ...
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Practical application (chs. 4-6) now follows doctrinal instruction (chs. ...

Constable: Eph 4:1--6:10 - --A. Spiritual walk 4:1-6:9
Paul had explained the unity of Jewish and Gentile believers in the church and...

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Paul introduced a new thought with the repetition of "Therefore" a...
