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Text -- 1 Corinthians 7:10 (NET)

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7:10 To the married I give this command– not I, but the Lord– a wife should not divorce a husband
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Robertson: 1Co 7:10 - -- To the married ( tois gegamēkosin ). Perfect active participle of gameō , old verb, to marry, and still married as the tense shows.

To the married ( tois gegamēkosin ).

Perfect active participle of gameō , old verb, to marry, and still married as the tense shows.

Robertson: 1Co 7:10 - -- I give charge ( paraggellō ). Not mere wish as in 1Co 7:7, 1Co 7:8.

I give charge ( paraggellō ).

Not mere wish as in 1Co 7:7, 1Co 7:8.

Robertson: 1Co 7:10 - -- Not I, but the Lord ( ouk egō alla ho kurios ). Paul had no commands from Jesus to the unmarried (men or women), but Jesus had spoken to the marrie...

Not I, but the Lord ( ouk egō alla ho kurios ).

Paul had no commands from Jesus to the unmarried (men or women), but Jesus had spoken to the married (husbands and wives) as in Mat 5:31.; Mat 19:3-12; Mar 10:9-12; Luk 16:18. The Master had spoken plain words about divorce. Paul reenforces his own inspired command by the command of Jesus. In Mar 10:9 we have from Christ: "What therefore God joined together let not man put asunder"(mē chorizetō ).

Robertson: 1Co 7:10 - -- That the wife depart not from her husband ( gunaika apo andros mē choristhēnai ). First aorist passive infinitive (indirect command after paragge...

That the wife depart not from her husband ( gunaika apo andros mē choristhēnai ).

First aorist passive infinitive (indirect command after paraggellō ) of chorizō , old verb from adverbial preposition chōris , separately, apart from, from. Here used of divorce by the wife which, though unusual then, yet did happen as in the case of Salome (sister of Herod the Great) and of Herodias before she married Herod Antipas. Jesus also spoke of it (Mar 10:12). Now most of the divorces are obtained by women. This passive infinitive is almost reflexive in force according to a constant tendency in the Koiné[28928]š (Robertson, Grammar , p. 817).||

Vincent: 1Co 7:10 - -- Not I, but the Lord Referring to Christ's declarations respecting divorce, Mat 5:31, Mat 5:32; Mat 19:3-12. Not a distinction between an inspired...

Not I, but the Lord

Referring to Christ's declarations respecting divorce, Mat 5:31, Mat 5:32; Mat 19:3-12. Not a distinction between an inspired and an uninspired saying. Paul means that his readers had no need to apply to him for instruction in the matter of divorce, since they had the words of Christ himself.

Wesley: 1Co 7:10 - -- Only.

Only.

Wesley: 1Co 7:10 - -- Christ; by his express command, Mat 5:32.

Christ; by his express command, Mat 5:32.

JFB: 1Co 7:10 - -- (Compare 1Co 7:12, 1Co 7:25, 1Co 7:40). In ordinary cases he writes on inspired apostolic authority (1Co 14:37); but here on the direct authority of t...

(Compare 1Co 7:12, 1Co 7:25, 1Co 7:40). In ordinary cases he writes on inspired apostolic authority (1Co 14:37); but here on the direct authority of the Lord Himself (Mar 10:11-12). In both cases alike the things written are inspired by the Spirit of God "but not all for all time, nor all on the primary truths of the faith" [ALFORD].

JFB: 1Co 7:10 - -- Literally, "be separated from." Probably the separation on either side, whether owing to the husband or to the wife, is forbidden.

Literally, "be separated from." Probably the separation on either side, whether owing to the husband or to the wife, is forbidden.

Clarke: 1Co 7:10 - -- I command, yet not I, but the Lord - I do not give my own private opinion or judgment in this case; for the Lord Jesus commands that man shall not p...

I command, yet not I, but the Lord - I do not give my own private opinion or judgment in this case; for the Lord Jesus commands that man shall not put asunder them whom God hath joined, Mat 5:32; Mat 19:6. And God has said the same, Gen 2:24. The following extracts will prove that the law among the Jews was very loose relative to the firmness of the marriage bond: -

A woman might put away or depart from her husband by giving this simple reason to the elders, who would give the following certificate

"In ____ day of ____ week, of ____ year, A., daughter of B., put away before us and said: My mother, or my brethren, deceived me, and wedded me or betrothed me, when I was a very young maid, to C., son of D.; but I now reveal my mind before you, that I will not have him.

Sometimes they parted with mutual consent, and this also was considered legal, as was also the marriage of the separated parties to others. Witness the following story: "A good man had a good wife; but because they had no children, they mutually put away each other. The good man married a bad (a heathen) wife, and she made him bad (a heathen); the good woman married a bad (a heathen) husband, and she made him good."Divorces were easily obtained among them, and they considered them the dissolving of the marriage bond; and, in consequence of these, the parties might remarry with others. This was contrary to the original institution of marriage, and is opposed both by our Lord and the apostle.

Calvin: 1Co 7:10 - -- 10.To the married I command He now treats of another condition of marriage — its being an indissoluble tie. Accordingly, he condemns all those divo...

10.To the married I command He now treats of another condition of marriage — its being an indissoluble tie. Accordingly, he condemns all those divorces that were of daily occurrence among the heathens, and were not punished among the Jews by the law of Moses. Let not, says he, the husband put away his wife, and let not the wife depart from her husband. Why? Because they are joined together by an indissoluble bond. It is surprising, however, that he does not make an exception, at least in case of adultery; for it is not likely that he designed to curtail in anything the doctrine of Christ. To me it appears clear, that the reason why he has made no mention of this 399 is, that as he is discoursing of these things only in passing, he chose rather to send back the Corinthians to the Lord’s permission or prohibition, than to go over everything in detail. For when persons intend to teach anything in short compass, they content themselves with a general statement. Exceptions are reserved for a minuter and more extended and particular discussion.

But as to what he subjoins — not I, but the Lord — he intimates by this correction, that what he teaches here is taken from the law of God. For other things that he taught he had also from the revelation of the Spirit; but he declares that God is the author of this, in respect of its being expressly taken from the law of God. If you inquire as to the particular passage, you will nowhere find it in so many words; but as Moses in the beginning testifies, that the connection between a husband and wife is so sacred, that for the sake of it

a man ought to leave his father and mother. (Gen 2:24.)

It is easy to gather from this, how inviolable a connection it is. For by right of nature a son is bound to his father and mother, and cannot shake off that yoke. As the connection of marriage is preferred to that bond, much less ought it to be dissolved.

Defender: 1Co 7:10 - -- In this case, Paul was not citing his own divinely-inspired authority for his teaching (as in 1Co 7:6 and 1Co 7:12), but to a specific teaching of Scr...

In this case, Paul was not citing his own divinely-inspired authority for his teaching (as in 1Co 7:6 and 1Co 7:12), but to a specific teaching of Scripture (Gen 2:24; Mat 19:3-6). The Lord had already established and commanded the marriage relation to be permanent."

TSK: 1Co 7:10 - -- yet : 1Co 7:12, 1Co 7:25, 1Co 7:40 Let : 1Co 7:15; Jer 3:20; Mal 2:14-16; Mat 5:32, Mat 19:6-9; Mar 10:11, Mar 10:12; Luk 16:18

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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)

Barnes: 1Co 7:10 - -- And unto the married - This verse commences the second subject of inquiry; to wit, whether it was proper, in the existing state of things, for ...

And unto the married - This verse commences the second subject of inquiry; to wit, whether it was proper, in the existing state of things, for those who were married to continue this relation, or whether they ought to separate. The reasons why any may have supposed that it was best to separate, may have been:

(1)    That their troubles and persecutions might be such that they might judge it best that families should be broken up; and,

(2)    Probably many supposed that it was unlawful for a Christian wife or husband to be connected at all with a pagan and an idolater.

I command, yet not I, but the Lord - Not I so much as the Lord. This injunction is not to be understood as adVice merely, but as a solemn, divine command, from which you are not at liberty to depart. Paul here professes to utter the language of inspiration, and demands obedience. The express command of "the Lord"to which he refers, is probably the precept recorded in Mat 5:32, and Mat 19:3-10. These precepts of Christ asserted that the marriage tie was sacred and inviolable.

Let not the wife depart ... - Let her not prove faithless to her marriage vows; let her not, on any pretence, desert her husband. Though she is a Christian. and he is not, yet let her not seek, on that account, to be separate from him - The law of Moses did not permit a wife to divorce herself from her husband, though it was sometimes done (compare Mat 10:12); but the Greek and Roman laws allowed it - Grotius. But Paul here refers to a formal and legal separation before the magistrates, and not to a voluntary separation, without intending to be formally divorced. The reasons for this opinion are:

(1) That such divorces were known and practiced among both Jews and pagans.

\caps1 (2) i\caps0 t was important to settle the question whether they were to be allowed in the Christian church.

\caps1 (3) t\caps0 he claim would be set up, probably, that it might be done.

\caps1 (4) t\caps0 he question whether a "voluntary separation"might not be proper, where one party was a Christian, and the other not, he discusses in the following verses, 1Co 7:12-17. Here, therefore, he solemnly repeats the law of Christ, that divorce, under the Christian economy, was not to be in the power either of the husband or wife.

Poole: 1Co 7:10 - -- The apostle had spoke to the married before, but in another case, he now returneth in his discourse to them again, speaking to another case, which i...

The apostle had spoke to the married before, but in another case, he now returneth in his discourse to them again, speaking to another case, which it should seem they had put to him; what it was is not plainly expressed, but it may easily be gathered from 1Co 7:12,13 , as also from the apostle’ s determination in this verse: or it was this: Whether it was lawful for the husband to depart from his wife, or the wife from her husband, unless it were in the case of adultery; for though here be nothing spoken as to that case, yet it plainly must be excepted, as determined before by our Saviour; but as the Jews, so the heathens amongst whom these Corinthians lived, had entertained much too mean thoughts about the marriage bond, indulging themselves in a liberty to break it for every slight cause; and it should seem by 1Co 7:12,13 , it was judged by them a sufficient cause, if one of them were not converted to the faith of Christ. Now in this case, saith the apostle,

I command and what I tell you is the will of God; it is not I alone who command it, but you are to look upon it as the will of God concerning you, though revealed to you by me that am the minister of God to you.

Let not the wife depart from her husband she may be divorced from her husband in case of fornication, but let her not for any other cause make a voluntary secession.

Haydock: 1Co 7:10 - -- But to them that are married, &c. He tells these persons that they ought not to part, or if a separation for weighty reasons can be allowed, neither...

But to them that are married, &c. He tells these persons that they ought not to part, or if a separation for weighty reasons can be allowed, neither party can marry another. (Witham) ---

That the wife. Jesus Christ has expressly declared, that in one case only a divorce may be allowable, and that is in the case of adultery. (Estius)

Gill: 1Co 7:10 - -- And unto the married I command,.... To the unmarried and widows he spoke by permission, or only gave advice and counsel to remain unmarried, provided ...

And unto the married I command,.... To the unmarried and widows he spoke by permission, or only gave advice and counsel to remain unmarried, provided they could contain; but if not, it was advisable to marry; but to persons already in a married state, what he has to say to them is by commandment, enjoining what they are under obligation to observe, not being at liberty to do as they will:

yet not I, but the Lord; not as if he took upon him the dominion over them, to make laws for them, and, in an imperious authoritative way, oblige them to obedience to them; no; what he was about to deliver, was not a law of his own enacting and obtruding, but what their Lord, their Creator, head, husband, and Redeemer, had ordered and enjoined; and this grave solemn way of speaking he makes use of, to excite their attention, command awe and reverence, make the greater impression upon their minds, and show the obligation they were under to regard what was said:

let not the wife depart from her husband; for the same law that obliges a man to cleave to his wife, obliges the wife to cleave to her husband, Gen 2:24 and those words of Christ, "what God hath joined together, let no man put asunder", Mat 19:6 regard the one as well as the other; and the rules he has given, forbidding divorces only in case of adultery, Mat 5:32 are as binding upon the wife as upon the husband. The wife therefore should not depart from her husband upon every slight occasion; not on account of any quarrel, or disagreement that may arise between them; or for every instance of moroseness and inhumanity; or because of diseases and infirmities; nor even on the score of difference in religion which, by what follows, seems to be greatly the case in view. The apostle observes this, in opposition to some rules and customs which obtained among Jews and Gentiles, divorcing and separating from one another upon various accounts; not only husbands put away their wives, but wives also left their husbands: for women to put away, or leave their husbands, were not in former times allowed of among the Jews, but from other nations crept in among them; indeed if a man married one under age, and she did not like him for her husband, she might refuse him, and go away without a bill of divorce; the manner of refusal was, by saying before two witnesses, I do not like such an one for my husband, or I do not like the espousals, with which my mother or my brother espoused me, or in such like words; and sometimes a written form of refusal was given m; but otherwise where marriage was consummated, such a departure of the wife was not allowed. Salome, the sister of Herod, is thought to be the first that introduced it, who sent a bill of divorce to Costobarus n her husband; and in this she was followed by Herodias, the daughter of Aristobulus, who left her husband, and married Herod Antipas o; and it seems certain, that this practice prevailed in Christ's time, since not only such a case is supposed, Mar 10:12 but a very flagrant instance is given in the woman of Samaria, Joh 4:18 who had had five husbands, not in a lawful regular manner, one after another upon their respective deaths, but she had married them, and put them away one after another: and as for the Gentiles, the account the Jews p give of them is, that though they had

"no divorces in form, they put away one another; R. Jochanan says, אשתו מגרשתו, "a man's wife might put him away", and give him the dowry:''

though, according to other accounts, they had divorces in form, which, when a man put away a woman, were called γραμματα αποπομπης, "letters of dismission"; and when a woman left her husband, απολειψεως γραμματα, "letters of dereliction", such as Hipparchia the wife of Alcibiades gave to him q; and Justin Martyr r gives us an instance of a Christian woman, who gave her husband what the Roman senate called a divorce.

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: 1Co 7:10 Not I, but the Lord. Here and in v. 12 Paul distinguishes between his own apostolic instruction and Jesus’ teaching during his earthly ministry....

Geneva Bible: 1Co 7:10 ( 7 ) And unto the married I command, [yet] not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from [her] husband: ( 7 ) Seventhly, he forbids contentions ...

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TSK Synopsis: 1Co 7:1-40 - --1 He treats of marriage;4 shewing it to be a remedy against fornication,10 and that the bond thereof ought not lightly to be dissolved.20 Every man mu...

MHCC: 1Co 7:10-16 - --Man and wife must not separate for any other cause than what Christ allows. Divorce, at that time, was very common among both Jews and Gentiles, on ve...

Matthew Henry: 1Co 7:10-16 - -- In this paragraph the apostle gives them direction in a case which must be very frequent in that age of the world, especially among the Jewish conve...

Barclay: 1Co 7:8-16 - --This passage deals with three different sets of people. (i) It deals with those who are unmarried or who are widows. In the circumstances of an age w...

Constable: 1Co 7:1--16:13 - --III. Questions asked of Paul 7:1--16:12 The remainder of the body of this epistle deals with questions the Corin...

Constable: 1Co 7:1-40 - --A. Marriage and related matters ch. 7 The first subject with which he dealt was marriage. He began with ...

Constable: 1Co 7:1-16 - --1. Advice to the married or formerly married 7:1-16 Paul proceeded to give guidelines to the mar...

Constable: 1Co 7:10-11 - --No divorce for Christians whose mates are believers 7:10-11 Again Paul advised remaining as they were, but he also allowed an exception. "While Paul d...

College: 1Co 7:1-40 - --1 CORINTHIANS 7 IV. SEXUALITY, CELIBACY, AND MARRIAGE (7:1-40) It is not easy to discover the Corinthian situation and issues that lie behind Paul'...

McGarvey: 1Co 7:10 - --But unto the married I give charge, yea not I, but the Lord [by his own lips -- Mat 5:31-32 ; Mat 19:3-12 ; Mar 10:12], That the wife depart not from ...

Lapide: 1Co 7:1-40 - --CHAPTER 7 SYNOPSIS OF THE CHAPTER In this chapter he answers five questions of the Corinthians about the laws of matrimony, and about the counsel of...

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Critics Ask: 1Co 7:10 1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 —Does Paul contradict what Jesus said about divorce? PROBLEM: This passage from 1 Corinthians talks about a Christian who...

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Introduction / Outline

Robertson: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) First Corinthians From Ephesus a.d. 54 Or 55 By Way of Introduction It would be a hard-boiled critic today who would dare deny the genuineness o...

JFB: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) The AUTHENTICITY of this Epistle is attested by CLEMENT OF ROME [First Epistle to the Corinthians, 47], POLYCARP [Epistle to the Philippians, 11], and...

JFB: 1 Corinthians (Outline) THE INSCRIPTION; THANKSGIVING FOR THE SPIRITUAL STATE OF THE CORINTHIAN CHURCH; REPROOF OF PARTY DIVISIONS: HIS OWN METHOD OF PREACHING ONLY CHRIST. ...

TSK: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) Overview 1Co 7:1, He treats of marriage; 1Co 7:4, shewing it to be a remedy against fornication, 1Co 7:10. and that the bond thereof ought not lig...

Poole: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 7

MHCC: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) The Corinthian church contained some Jews, but more Gentiles, and the apostle had to contend with the superstition of the one, and the sinful conduct ...

MHCC: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) (1Co 7:1-9) The apostle answers several questions about marriage. (1Co 7:10-16) Married Christians should not seek to part from their unbelieving con...

Matthew Henry: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The First Epistle of St. Paul to the Corinthians Corinth was a principal city of Greece, in that partic...

Matthew Henry: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) In this chapter the apostle answers some cases proposed to him by the Corinthians about marriage. He, I. Shows them that marriage was appointed as...

Barclay: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) A GENERAL INTRODUCTION TO THE LETTERS OF PAUL The Letters Of Paul There is no more interesting body of documents in the New Testament than the letter...

Barclay: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) Complete Asceticism (1Co_7:1-2) The Partnership Of Marriage (1Co_7:3-7) The Bond That Must Not Be Broken (1Co_7:8-16) Serving God Where God Has Se...

Constable: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) Introduction Historical Background Corinth had a long history stretching back into the...

Constable: 1 Corinthians (Outline) Outline I. Introduction 1:1-9 A. Salutation 1:1-3 B. Thanksgiving 1:4-9 ...

Constable: 1 Corinthians 1 Corinthians Bibliography Adams, Jay. Marriage, Divorce and Remarriage in the Bible. Phillipsburg, N.J.: Presb...

Haydock: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) THE FIRST EPISTLE OF ST. PAUL, THE APOSTLE, TO THE CORINTHIANS. INTRODUCTION. Corinth was the capital of Achaia, a very rich and populous city...

Gill: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 CORINTHIANS This was not the first epistle that was written by the apostle to the Corinthians, for we read in this of his having ...

Gill: 1 Corinthians 7 (Chapter Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 CORINTHIANS 7 In this, chapter, various cases concerning marriage being proposed to the apostle, are answered by him; and he disc...

College: 1 Corinthians (Book Introduction) FOREWORD Since the past few decades have seen an explosion in the number of books, articles, and commentaries on First Corinthians, a brief word to t...

College: 1 Corinthians (Outline) OUTLINE I. INTRODUCTION - 1:1-9 A. Salutation - 1:1-3 B. Thanksgiving - 1:4-9 II. DISUNITY AND COMMUNITY FRAGMENTATION - 1:10-4:21 A. ...

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