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Wives and Husbands
3:1 In the same way, wives, be subject to your own husbands. Then, even if some are disobedient to the word, they will be won over without a word by the way you live, 3:2 when they see your pure and reverent conduct. 3:3 Let your beauty not be external– the braiding of hair and wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes3:4 but the inner person of the heart, the lasting beauty of a gentle and tranquil spirit, which is precious in God’s sight. 3:5 For in the same way the holy women who hoped in God long ago adorned themselves by being subject to their husbands, 3:6 like Sarah who obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. You become her children when you do what is good and have no fear in doing so. 3:7 Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as the weaker partners and show them honor as fellow heirs of the grace of life. In this way nothing will hinder your prayers.
Suffering for Doing Good
3:8 Finally, all of you be harmonious, sympathetic, affectionate, compassionate, and humble.
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Names, People and Places:
 · Abraham a son of Terah; the father of Isaac; ancestor of the Jewish nation.,the son of Terah of Shem
 · Sarah the wife of Abraham and the mother of Isaac,daughter of Terah; wife of Abraham


Dictionary Themes and Topics: Women | Wife | WOMAN | Righteousness | REVERENCE | MARRIAGE | HUMILITY | GOLD | GIVE | FEMALE | ESSENES | COUPLE | COMPASSION | BRAIDED; BRAIDING | BEHOLDING | BEHAVIOR | APPAREL | ANTHROPOLOGY | AFORE | ADORN | more
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Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- In like manner ( homoiōs ). Adverb closely connected with hupotassomenoi , for which see note on 1Pe 2:18.

In like manner ( homoiōs ).

Adverb closely connected with hupotassomenoi , for which see note on 1Pe 2:18.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Ye wives ( gunaikes ). Without article. About wives see note on Col 3:18; and note on Eph 5:22; and note on Tit 2:4.

Ye wives ( gunaikes ).

Without article. About wives see note on Col 3:18; and note on Eph 5:22; and note on Tit 2:4.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- To your own husbands ( tois idiois andrasin ). Idiois occurs also in Ephesians and Titus, but not in Colossians. It strengthens the idea of possess...

To your own husbands ( tois idiois andrasin ).

Idiois occurs also in Ephesians and Titus, but not in Colossians. It strengthens the idea of possession in the article tois . Wives are not enjoined to be in subjection to the husbands of other women, as some think it fine to be (affinities!)

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Even if any obey not the word ( kai ei tines apeithousin tōi logōi ). Condition of first class and dative case of logos (1Pe 1:23, 1Pe 1:25; 1P...

Even if any obey not the word ( kai ei tines apeithousin tōi logōi ).

Condition of first class and dative case of logos (1Pe 1:23, 1Pe 1:25; 1Pe 2:8), that is, remain heathen.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- That they be gained ( hina kerdēthēsontai ). Purpose clause with hina and first future passive indicative of kerdainō , old verb, to gain (fr...

That they be gained ( hina kerdēthēsontai ).

Purpose clause with hina and first future passive indicative of kerdainō , old verb, to gain (from kerdos , gain, interest) as in Mat 18:15. See the future with hina also in Luk 20:10; Rev 3:9.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Without the word ( aneu logou ). Probably here "word from their wives"(Hart), the other sense of logos (talk, not technical "word of God").

Without the word ( aneu logou ).

Probably here "word from their wives"(Hart), the other sense of logos (talk, not technical "word of God").

Robertson: 1Pe 3:1 - -- By the behaviour of their wives ( dia tēs tōn gunaikōn anastrophēs ). Won by pious living, not by nagging. Many a wife has had this blessed v...

By the behaviour of their wives ( dia tēs tōn gunaikōn anastrophēs ).

Won by pious living, not by nagging. Many a wife has had this blessed victory of grace.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Beholding ( epopteusantes ). First aorist active participle of epopteuō , for which see note on 1Pe 2:12. See 1Pe 2:12 also for anastrophēn man...

Beholding ( epopteusantes ).

First aorist active participle of epopteuō , for which see note on 1Pe 2:12. See 1Pe 2:12 also for anastrophēn manner of life).

Robertson: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Chaste ( hagnēn ). Pure because "in fear"(en phobōi ), no word in the Greek for "coupled,"fear of God, though in Eph 5:33 fear (reverence for) o...

Chaste ( hagnēn ).

Pure because "in fear"(en phobōi ), no word in the Greek for "coupled,"fear of God, though in Eph 5:33 fear (reverence for) of the husband is urged.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning ( hōn kosmos ). Genitive plural of the relative referring to gunaikōn (wives). Kosmos has here its old meaning of ornament (cf...

Whose adorning ( hōn kosmos ).

Genitive plural of the relative referring to gunaikōn (wives). Kosmos has here its old meaning of ornament (cf. our cosmetics), not the common one of world (Joh 17:5) considered as an orderly whole. Mundus in Latin is used in this double sense (ornament, world).

Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Let it be ( estō ). Imperative third singular of eimi . Not the outward adorning of plaiting the hair (ouch ho exōthen emplokēs trichōn ). T...

Let it be ( estō ).

Imperative third singular of eimi . Not the outward adorning of plaiting the hair (ouch ho exōthen emplokēs trichōn ). The use of ouch here rather than mē (usual negative with the imperative) because of the sharp contrast in 1Pe 3:4 (all' ). The old adverb exōthen (from without) is in the attributive position like an adjective. Emplokē is a late word (from emplekō , to inweave, 2Ti 2:4; 2Pe 2:20) in Strabo, but often in the papyri for struggle as well as plaiting, here only in N.T.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Of wearing ( peritheseōs ). Late and rare word (Galen, Arrian) from peritithēmi (Mat 27:28), to put around, a placing around. Ornaments of gold...

Of wearing ( peritheseōs ).

Late and rare word (Galen, Arrian) from peritithēmi (Mat 27:28), to put around, a placing around. Ornaments of gold were worn round the hair as nets and round the finger, arm, or ankle.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Or of putting on ( enduseōs ). Old word from enduō (to put on), here only in N.T. Peter is not forbidding the wearing of clothes and ornaments ...

Or of putting on ( enduseōs ).

Old word from enduō (to put on), here only in N.T. Peter is not forbidding the wearing of clothes and ornaments by women, but the display of finery by contrast. Cf. 1Ti 2:9-13; Isa 3:16.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:4 - -- But the hidden man of the heart ( all' ho kruptos tēs kardias anthrōpos ). Here anthrōpos is in contrast with kosmos just before. See Paul&...

But the hidden man of the heart ( all' ho kruptos tēs kardias anthrōpos ).

Here anthrōpos is in contrast with kosmos just before. See Paul’ s use of anthrōpos for the outer and old, the inner and new man (2Co 4:16; Rom 7:22; Col 3:9; Eph 3:16; Eph 4:22, Eph 4:24). See also the Jew en kruptōi (Rom 2:29) and what Jesus said about God seeing "in secret"(Mat 6:4, Mat 6:6).

Robertson: 1Pe 3:4 - -- In the incorruptible apparel of a meek and quiet spirit ( en tōi aphthartōi tou hēsuchiou kai praeōs pneumatos ). No word in the Greek for "a...

In the incorruptible apparel of a meek and quiet spirit ( en tōi aphthartōi tou hēsuchiou kai praeōs pneumatos ).

No word in the Greek for "apparel"(kosmōi ). For aphthartos see note on 1Pe 1:4 and note on 1Pe 1:23. For praus see Mat 5:5; Mat 11:29. Pneuma (spirit) is here disposition or temper (Bigg), unlike any other use in the N.T. In 1Pe 3:18, 1Pe 3:19; 1Pe 4:6 it means the whole inner man as opposed to sarx or sōma , very much as psuchē is used as opposed to sōma .

Robertson: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Which ( ho ). Spirit just mentioned.

Which ( ho ).

Spirit just mentioned.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Of great price ( poluteles ). Old word (from polu and telos , cost), in N.T. only here, Mar 14:3; 1Ti 2:9.

Of great price ( poluteles ).

Old word (from polu and telos , cost), in N.T. only here, Mar 14:3; 1Ti 2:9.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Adorned themselves ( ekosmoun heautas ). Imperfect active of customary action, "used to adorn themselves."Kosmeō is old verb from kosmos in the...

Adorned themselves ( ekosmoun heautas ).

Imperfect active of customary action, "used to adorn themselves."Kosmeō is old verb from kosmos in the sense in 1Pe 3:3. See Heb 11:11, Heb 11:35 for like tribute to holy women of the O.T. The participle hupotassomenai repeats 1Pe 3:1.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:6 - -- As Sarah ( hōs Sarra ).

As Sarah ( hōs Sarra ).

Robertson: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Obeyed Abraham ( hupēkouen tōi Abraam ). Imperfect active of hupakouō , "used to obey"(with dative).

Obeyed Abraham ( hupēkouen tōi Abraam ).

Imperfect active of hupakouō , "used to obey"(with dative).

Robertson: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Calling him lord ( kurion auton kalousa ). Present active participle of kaleō . See Gen 18:12.

Calling him lord ( kurion auton kalousa ).

Present active participle of kaleō . See Gen 18:12.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Whose children ye now are ( hēs egenēthēte tekna ). First aorist passive indicative of ginomai , "whose children ye became."

Whose children ye now are ( hēs egenēthēte tekna ).

First aorist passive indicative of ginomai , "whose children ye became."

Robertson: 1Pe 3:6 - -- If ye do well ( agathopoiousai ). Present active feminine plural participle of agathopoieō (1Pe 2:15), "doing good."

If ye do well ( agathopoiousai ).

Present active feminine plural participle of agathopoieō (1Pe 2:15), "doing good."

Robertson: 1Pe 3:6 - -- And are not put in fear by any terror ( kai mē phoboumenai mēdemian ptoēsin ). Free quotation from Pro 3:25, "and not fearing any terror"(cogna...

And are not put in fear by any terror ( kai mē phoboumenai mēdemian ptoēsin ).

Free quotation from Pro 3:25, "and not fearing any terror"(cognate accusative of ptoēsis , after phoboumenai , present middle participle, late and rare word from ptoeō , to terrify, as in Luk 21:9, here only in N.T.). Perhaps Peter regards Sarah’ s falsehood as the yielding to a sudden terror (Hart). Hannah could also be named along with Sarah. The women somehow do not organize "daughters of Sarah"societies.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Ye husbands likewise ( hoi andres homoiōs ). Probably "likewise"here refers to honouring all men (1Pe 2:17), not "likewise"of 1Pe 3:1.

Ye husbands likewise ( hoi andres homoiōs ).

Probably "likewise"here refers to honouring all men (1Pe 2:17), not "likewise"of 1Pe 3:1.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Dwell with ( sunoikountes ). Present active participle of sunoikeō , old verb for domestic association, here only in N.T. Used as imperative here l...

Dwell with ( sunoikountes ).

Present active participle of sunoikeō , old verb for domestic association, here only in N.T. Used as imperative here like the participle in 1Pe 2:18; 1Pe 3:1.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:7 - -- According to knowledge ( kata gnōsin ). "With an intelligent recognition of the nature of the marriage relation"(Vincent).

According to knowledge ( kata gnōsin ).

"With an intelligent recognition of the nature of the marriage relation"(Vincent).

Robertson: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Giving honour unto the woman as unto the weaker vessel ( hōs asthenesterōi skeuei tōi gunaikeiōi aponemontes timēn ). Present active partic...

Giving honour unto the woman as unto the weaker vessel ( hōs asthenesterōi skeuei tōi gunaikeiōi aponemontes timēn ).

Present active participle of aponemō , old verb, to assign, to portion out (or off), here only in N.T. Skeuos is an old and common word for vessel, furniture, utensil (Mat 12:29; 2Ti 2:20). Here both husband and wife are termed vessels or "parts of the furniture of God’ s house"(Bigg). See Paul’ s use of skeuos for ministers (2Co 4:7). Gunaikeiōi here is an adjective (female, feminine) from gunē (woman, wife). She is termed "the weaker"(tōi asthenesterōi ), not for intellectual or moral weakness, but purely for physical reasons, which the husband must recognize with due consideration for marital happiness.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Joint-heirs of the grace of life ( sunklēronomoi charitos zōēs ). Late double compound found in an Ephesian inscription and the papyri, in N.T....

Joint-heirs of the grace of life ( sunklēronomoi charitos zōēs ).

Late double compound found in an Ephesian inscription and the papyri, in N.T. only here, Rom 8:17; Eph 3:6; Heb 11:9. God’ s gift of life eternal belongs to woman as well as to man. In the eyes of God the wife may be superior to the husband, not merely equal.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:7 - -- To the end that your prayers be not hindered ( eis to mē egkoptesthai tas proseuchas humōn ). Purpose clause with eis to and the present passiv...

To the end that your prayers be not hindered ( eis to mē egkoptesthai tas proseuchas humōn ).

Purpose clause with eis to and the present passive infinitive (with negative mē ) of egkoptō , to cut in, to interrupt, late verb (Polybius), as in Rom 15:22, etc. Very vivid to us now with our telephones and radios when people cut in on us. Proseuchas (prayers) is the accusative of general reference. Husbands surely have here cause to consider why their prayers are not answered.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Finally ( to telos ). Adverbial accusative. Conclusion, not of the Epistle, but only of the addresses to various classes. No verb (este imperative,...

Finally ( to telos ).

Adverbial accusative. Conclusion, not of the Epistle, but only of the addresses to various classes. No verb (este imperative, be) here.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Likeminded ( homophrones ). Old compound (homos , phrēn ), here only in N.T.

Likeminded ( homophrones ).

Old compound (homos , phrēn ), here only in N.T.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Compassionate ( sumpatheis ). Old adjective (sun , paschō ), in N.T. only here and Rom 12:15. Our "sympathetic"in original sense.

Compassionate ( sumpatheis ).

Old adjective (sun , paschō ), in N.T. only here and Rom 12:15. Our "sympathetic"in original sense.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Loving as brethren ( philadelphoi ). Old compound (philos , adelphos ), here only in N.T.

Loving as brethren ( philadelphoi ).

Old compound (philos , adelphos ), here only in N.T.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Tender-hearted ( eusplagchnoi ). Late and rare compound (eu and splagchnon ), in Hippocrates, Apocrypha, in N.T. only here and Eph 4:32.

Tender-hearted ( eusplagchnoi ).

Late and rare compound (eu and splagchnon ), in Hippocrates, Apocrypha, in N.T. only here and Eph 4:32.

Robertson: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Humble minded ( tapeinophrones ). Late compound (tapeinos , phrēn ), in Plutarch, Pro 29:23, here only in N.T.

Humble minded ( tapeinophrones ).

Late compound (tapeinos , phrēn ), in Plutarch, Pro 29:23, here only in N.T.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise ( ὁμοίως ) Rev., in like manner; better, because likewise in popular speech has, wrongly, the sense of also. Peter means...

Likewise ( ὁμοίως )

Rev., in like manner; better, because likewise in popular speech has, wrongly, the sense of also. Peter means in like manner with servants (1Pe 2:18).

Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Be in subjection ( ὑποτασσόμεναι ) Lit., being in subjection, or submitting yourselves; the same word which is used of the s...

Be in subjection ( ὑποτασσόμεναι )

Lit., being in subjection, or submitting yourselves; the same word which is used of the submission of servants (1Pe 2:18).

Vincent: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Be won ( κερδηθήσονται ) Rev., be gained. The word used by Christ, Mat 18:15 : " gained thy brother."

Be won ( κερδηθήσονται )

Rev., be gained. The word used by Christ, Mat 18:15 : " gained thy brother."

Vincent: 1Pe 3:2 - -- While they behold ( ἐποπτεύσαντες ) See on 1Pe 2:12.

While they behold ( ἐποπτεύσαντες )

See on 1Pe 2:12.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Conversation See on 1Pe 1:15. Rev., behavior.

Conversation

See on 1Pe 1:15. Rev., behavior.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Coupled with fear ( ἐν φόβῳ ) Lit., in fear.

Coupled with fear ( ἐν φόβῳ )

Lit., in fear.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Of plaiting ( ἐμπλοκῆς ) Only here in New Testament. Compare 1Ti 2:9. The Roman women of the day were addicted to ridiculous extravag...

Of plaiting ( ἐμπλοκῆς )

Only here in New Testament. Compare 1Ti 2:9. The Roman women of the day were addicted to ridiculous extravagance in the adornment of the hair. Juvenal (" Satire," vi.) satirizes these customs. He says: " The attendants will vote on the dressing of the hair as if a question of reputation or of life were at stake, so great is the trouble she takes in quest of beauty; with so many tiers does she lead, with so many continuous stories does she build up on high her head. She is tall as Andromache in front, behind she is shorter. You would think her another person." The hair was dyed, and secured with costly pins and with nets of gold thread. False hair and blond wigs were worn.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Putting on ( ἐνδύσεως ) Only here in New Testament. Female extravagance in dress in the days of the empire reached an alarming pitch.

Putting on ( ἐνδύσεως )

Only here in New Testament. Female extravagance in dress in the days of the empire reached an alarming pitch.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Meek ( πραέος ) See on Mat 5:5.

Meek ( πραέος )

See on Mat 5:5.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Of great price ( πολυτελές ) The word used to describe costly raiment, 1Ti 2:9.

Of great price ( πολυτελές )

The word used to describe costly raiment, 1Ti 2:9.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Adorned ( ἐκόσμουν ) Imperfect tense. Were accustomed to adorn.

Adorned ( ἐκόσμουν )

Imperfect tense. Were accustomed to adorn.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Amazement ( πτόησιν ) Rev., terror. Compare the kindred verb πτοηθῆτε , be terrified, Luk 21:9; Luk 24:37; on which, see n...

Amazement ( πτόησιν )

Rev., terror. Compare the kindred verb πτοηθῆτε , be terrified, Luk 21:9; Luk 24:37; on which, see note. The word means a scare, or nervous excitem ent.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:7 - -- According to knowledge With an intelligent recognition of the nature of the marriage relation.

According to knowledge

With an intelligent recognition of the nature of the marriage relation.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:7 - -- The woman ( τῷ γυναικείῳ ) Not a noun, however, as would appear from the ordinary rendering, but an adjective, agreeing with ...

The woman ( τῷ γυναικείῳ )

Not a noun, however, as would appear from the ordinary rendering, but an adjective, agreeing with σκεύει , vessel, as does also ἀσθενεστέρῳ , weaker. Both are attributes of vessel; the female vessel as weaker. So Rev., in margin.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Vessel ( σκεύει ) Compare 1Th 4:4. The primary idea of vessel, which is formed from the Latin vasellum , the diminutive of vas , a ...

Vessel ( σκεύει )

Compare 1Th 4:4. The primary idea of vessel, which is formed from the Latin vasellum , the diminutive of vas , a vase , is that of the receptacle which covers and contains; the case or protecting cover. Hence it is allied, etymologically, with vest, vestment, and wear. It is used in the New Testament (1) in the sense of a cup or dish (Luk 8:16; Joh 19:29; 2Ti 2:20; Rev 2:27; Rev 18:12). (2) Of the man, as containing the divine energy, or as a subject of divine mercy or wrath, and hence becoming a divine instrument. Thus Paul is a chosen vessel to bear God's name (Act 9:15). Vessels of wrath (Rom 9:22); of mercy (Rom 9:23). So of the woman, as God's instrument, along with man, for his service in the family and in society. (3) Collectively, in the plural, of all the implements of any particular economy, as a house, or a ship. Mat 12:29, goods; Act 27:17, the tackling or gear of a ship.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Giving ( ἀπονέμοντες ) Only here in New Testament. The word means, literally, to portion out, and is appropriate to the husband ...

Giving ( ἀπονέμοντες )

Only here in New Testament. The word means, literally, to portion out, and is appropriate to the husband as controlling what is to be meted out to the wife.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Hindered ( ἐγκόπτεσθαι ) So A. V. and Rev., and the best texts, and the majority of commentators. The word means, literally, to k...

Hindered ( ἐγκόπτεσθαι )

So A. V. and Rev., and the best texts, and the majority of commentators. The word means, literally, to knock in; make an incision into; and hence, generally, to hinder or thwart (Gal 5:7; 1Th 2:18). Some, however, read ἐκκόπτεσθαι , to cut off or destroy.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Of one mind ( ὁμόφρονες ) Rev., like-minded. Only here in New Testament. Compare Rom 12:16; Rom 15:5; Phi 2:2, etc. Indicating uni...

Of one mind ( ὁμόφρονες )

Rev., like-minded. Only here in New Testament. Compare Rom 12:16; Rom 15:5; Phi 2:2, etc. Indicating unity of thought and feeling. From ὁμός , one and the same, and φρήν , the mind.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Having compassion one of another ( συμπαθεῖς ) Only here in New Testament, though the kindred verb is found Heb 4:15; Heb 10:34. The r...

Having compassion one of another ( συμπαθεῖς )

Only here in New Testament, though the kindred verb is found Heb 4:15; Heb 10:34. The rendering is needlessly diffuse. Rev., much better, compassionate; sympathetic, in margin. Interchange of fellow-feeling in joy or sorrow. Our popular usage errs in limiting sympathy to sorrow.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Love as brethren ( φιλάδελφοι ) Rev., more strictly, loving as brethren. Only here in New Testament.

Love as brethren ( φιλάδελφοι )

Rev., more strictly, loving as brethren. Only here in New Testament.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Pitiful ( εὔσπλαγχνοι ) Only here and Eph 4:32. Rev., better, tender-hearted. From εὖ , well, and σπλάγχνα , t...

Pitiful ( εὔσπλαγχνοι )

Only here and Eph 4:32. Rev., better, tender-hearted. From εὖ , well, and σπλάγχνα , the nobler entrails, which are regarded as the seat of the affections, and hence equivalent to our popular use of heart. The original sense has given rise to the unfortunate translation bowels in the A. V., which occurs in its literal meaning only at Act 1:18.

Vincent: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Courteous The A. V. has here followed the reading of the Tex. Rec., φιλόφρονες . But the best texts read ταπεινόφρονες...

Courteous

The A. V. has here followed the reading of the Tex. Rec., φιλόφρονες . But the best texts read ταπεινόφρονες , humble-minded. So Rev. This occurs nowhere else in the New Testament, though the kindred noun ταπεινοφροσύνη , humility, is found often. See on ταπεινός , lowly, notes on Mat 11:29.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:1 - -- He speaks tenderly.

He speaks tenderly.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Gained over to Christ.

Gained over to Christ.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Joined with a loving fear of displeasing them.

Joined with a loving fear of displeasing them.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Three things are here expressly forbidden: curling the hair, wearing gold, (by way of ornament,) and putting on costly or gay apparel. These, therefor...

Three things are here expressly forbidden: curling the hair, wearing gold, (by way of ornament,) and putting on costly or gay apparel. These, therefore, ought never to be allowed, much less defended, by Christians.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Complete inward holiness, which implies a meek and quiet spirit. A meek spirit gives no trouble willingly to any: a quiet spirit bears all wrongs with...

Complete inward holiness, which implies a meek and quiet spirit. A meek spirit gives no trouble willingly to any: a quiet spirit bears all wrongs without being troubled.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Who looks at the heart. All superfluity of dress contributes more to pride and anger than is generally supposed. The apostle seems to have his eye to ...

Who looks at the heart. All superfluity of dress contributes more to pride and anger than is generally supposed. The apostle seems to have his eye to this by substituting meekness and quietness in the room of the ornaments he forbids. "I do not regard these things," is often said by those whose hearts are wrapped up in them: but offer to take them away, and you touch the very idol of their soul. Some, indeed only dress elegantly that they may be looked on; that is, they squander away their Lord's talent to gain applause: thus making sin to beget sin, and then plead one in excuse of the other.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:5 - -- The adorning of those holy women, who trusted in God, and therefore did not act thus from servile fear, was, Their meek subjection to their husbands: ...

The adorning of those holy women, who trusted in God, and therefore did not act thus from servile fear, was, Their meek subjection to their husbands: Their quiet spirit, "not afraid," or amazed: and Their unblamable behaviour, "doing" all things "well."

Wesley: 1Pe 3:6 - -- In a spiritual as well as natural sense, and entitled to the same inheritance, while ye discharge your conjugal duties, not out of fear, but for consc...

In a spiritual as well as natural sense, and entitled to the same inheritance, while ye discharge your conjugal duties, not out of fear, but for conscience' sake. Gen 18:12.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Knowing they are weak, and therefore to be used with all tenderness. Yet do not despise them for this, but give them honour - Both in heart, in word, ...

Knowing they are weak, and therefore to be used with all tenderness. Yet do not despise them for this, but give them honour - Both in heart, in word, and in action; as those who are called to be joint - heirs of that eternal life which ye and they hope to receive by the free grace of God.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:7 - -- On the one part or the other. All sin hinders prayer; particularly anger. Anything at which we are angry is never more apt to come into our mind than ...

On the one part or the other. All sin hinders prayer; particularly anger. Anything at which we are angry is never more apt to come into our mind than when we are at prayer; and those who do not forgive will find no forgiveness from God.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:8 - -- This part of the epistle reaches to 1Pe 4:11. The apostle seems to have added the rest afterwards.

This part of the epistle reaches to 1Pe 4:11. The apostle seems to have added the rest afterwards.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Rejoicing and sorrowing together. Love all believers as brethren.

Rejoicing and sorrowing together. Love all believers as brethren.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Toward the afflicted.

Toward the afflicted.

Wesley: 1Pe 3:8 - -- To all men. Courtesy is such a behaviour toward equals and inferiors as shows respect mixed with love.

To all men. Courtesy is such a behaviour toward equals and inferiors as shows respect mixed with love.

JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Greek, "In like manner," as "servants" in their sphere; compare the reason of the woman's subjection, 1Co 11:8-10; 1Ti 2:11-14.

Greek, "In like manner," as "servants" in their sphere; compare the reason of the woman's subjection, 1Co 11:8-10; 1Ti 2:11-14.

JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Enforcing the obligation: it is not strangers ye are required to be subject to. Every time that obedience is enjoined upon women to their husbands, th...

Enforcing the obligation: it is not strangers ye are required to be subject to. Every time that obedience is enjoined upon women to their husbands, the Greek, "idios," "one's own peculiarly," is used, while the wives of men are designated only by heauton, "of themselves." Feeling the need of leaning on one stronger than herself, the wife (especially if joined to an unbeliever) might be tempted, though only spiritually, to enter into that relation with another in which she ought to stand to "her own spouse (1Co 14:34-35, "Let them ask their own [idious] husbands at home"); an attachment to the person of the teacher might thus spring up, which, without being in the common sense spiritual adultery, would still weaken in its spiritual basis the married relation [STEIGER].

JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Greek, "that even if." Even if you have a husband that obeys not the word (that is, is an unbeliever).

Greek, "that even if." Even if you have a husband that obeys not the word (that is, is an unbeliever).

JFB: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Independently of hearing the word preached, the usual way of faith coming. But BENGEL, "without word," that is, without direct Gospel discourse of the...

Independently of hearing the word preached, the usual way of faith coming. But BENGEL, "without word," that is, without direct Gospel discourse of the wives, "they may (literally, in oldest manuscripts, 'shall,' which marks the almost objective certainty of the result) be won" indirectly. "Unspoken acting is more powerful than unperformed speaking" [œCUMENIUS]. "A soul converted is gained to itself, to the pastor, wife, or husband, who sought it, and to Jesus Christ; added to His treasury who thought not His own precious blood too dear to lay out for this gain" [LEIGHTON]. "The discreet wife would choose first of all to persuade her husband to share with her in the things which lead to blessedness; but if this be impossible, let her then alone diligently press after virtue, in all things obeying him so as to do nothing at any time against his will, except in such things as are essential to virtue and salvation" [CLEMENT OF ALEXANDRIA].

JFB: 1Pe 3:2 - -- On narrowly looking into it, literally, "having closely observed."

On narrowly looking into it, literally, "having closely observed."

JFB: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Pure, spotless, free from all impurity.

Pure, spotless, free from all impurity.

JFB: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Reverential, towards your husbands. Scrupulously pure, as opposed to the noisy, ambitious character of worldly women.

Reverential, towards your husbands. Scrupulously pure, as opposed to the noisy, ambitious character of worldly women.

JFB: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Literally, "To whom let there belong (namely, as their peculiar ornament) not the outward adornment (usual in the sex which first, by the fall, brough...

Literally, "To whom let there belong (namely, as their peculiar ornament) not the outward adornment (usual in the sex which first, by the fall, brought in the need of covering, Note, see on 1Pe 5:5) of," &c.

JFB: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Artificial braiding, in order to attract admiration.

Artificial braiding, in order to attract admiration.

JFB: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Literally, "putting round," namely, the head, as a diadem--the arm, as a bracelet--the finger, as rings.

Literally, "putting round," namely, the head, as a diadem--the arm, as a bracelet--the finger, as rings.

JFB: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Showy and costly. "Have the blush of modesty on thy face instead of paint, and moral worth and discretion instead of gold and emeralds" [MELISSA].

Showy and costly. "Have the blush of modesty on thy face instead of paint, and moral worth and discretion instead of gold and emeralds" [MELISSA].

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- "Rather." The "outward adornment" of jewelry, &c., is forbidden, in so far as woman loves such things, not in so far as she uses them from a sense of ...

"Rather." The "outward adornment" of jewelry, &c., is forbidden, in so far as woman loves such things, not in so far as she uses them from a sense of propriety, and does not abuse them. Singularity mostly comes from pride and throws needless hindrances to religion in the way of others. Under costly attire there may be a humble mind. "Great is he who uses his earthenware as if it were plate; not less great is he who uses his silver as if it were earthenware" [SENECA in ALFORD].

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Inner man, which the Christian instinctively hides from public view.

Inner man, which the Christian instinctively hides from public view.

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Consisting in the heart regenerated and adorned by the Spirit. This "inner man of the heart" is the subject of the verb "be," 1Pe 3:3, Greek: "Of whom...

Consisting in the heart regenerated and adorned by the Spirit. This "inner man of the heart" is the subject of the verb "be," 1Pe 3:3, Greek: "Of whom let the inner man be," namely, the distinction or adornment.

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Consisting or standing in that as its element.

Consisting or standing in that as its element.

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Not transitory, nor tainted with corruption, as all earthly adornments.

Not transitory, nor tainted with corruption, as all earthly adornments.

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Meek, not creating disturbances: quiet, bearing with tranquillity the disturbances caused by others. Meek in affections and feelings; quiet in words, ...

Meek, not creating disturbances: quiet, bearing with tranquillity the disturbances caused by others. Meek in affections and feelings; quiet in words, countenance, and actions [BENGEL].

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Who looks to inward, not merely outward things.

Who looks to inward, not merely outward things.

JFB: 1Pe 3:4 - -- The results of redemption should correspond to its costly price (1Pe 1:19).

The results of redemption should correspond to its costly price (1Pe 1:19).

JFB: 1Pe 3:5 - -- With the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit (compare the portrait of the godly wife, Pro. 31:10-31).

With the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit (compare the portrait of the godly wife, Pro. 31:10-31).

JFB: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Greek, "hoped." "Holy" is explained by "hoped in (so as to be 'united to,' Greek) God." Hope in God is the spring of true holiness [BENGEL].

Greek, "hoped." "Holy" is explained by "hoped in (so as to be 'united to,' Greek) God." Hope in God is the spring of true holiness [BENGEL].

JFB: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Their ornament consisted in their subordination. Vanity was forbidden (1Pe 3:3) as being contrary to female subjection.

Their ornament consisted in their subordination. Vanity was forbidden (1Pe 3:3) as being contrary to female subjection.

JFB: 1Pe 3:6 - -- An example of faith.

An example of faith.

JFB: 1Pe 3:6 - -- (Gen 18:12).

JFB: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Greek, "ye have become": "children" of Abraham and Sara by faith, whereas ye were Gentile aliens from the covenant.

Greek, "ye have become": "children" of Abraham and Sara by faith, whereas ye were Gentile aliens from the covenant.

JFB: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Greek, "fluttering alarm," "consternation." Act well, and be not thrown into sudden panic, as weak females are apt to be, by any opposition from witho...

Greek, "fluttering alarm," "consternation." Act well, and be not thrown into sudden panic, as weak females are apt to be, by any opposition from without. BENGEL translates, "Not afraid OF any fluttering terror coming from without" (1Pe 3:13-16). So the Septuagint, Pro 3:25 uses the same Greek word, which Peter probably refers to. Anger assails men; fear, women. You need fear no man in doing what is right: not thrown into fluttering agitation by any sudden outbreak of temper on the part of your unbelieving husbands, while you do well.

JFB: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Greek, "dwelling": connected with the verb, 1Pe 2:17, "Honor all."

Greek, "dwelling": connected with the verb, 1Pe 2:17, "Honor all."

JFB: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Christian knowledge: appreciating the due relation of the sexes in the design of God, and acting with tenderness and forbearance accordingly: wisely: ...

Christian knowledge: appreciating the due relation of the sexes in the design of God, and acting with tenderness and forbearance accordingly: wisely: with wise consideration.

JFB: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Translate and punctuate the Greek rather, "dwelling according to knowledge with the female (Greek adjective, qualifying 'vessel'; not as English Versi...

Translate and punctuate the Greek rather, "dwelling according to knowledge with the female (Greek adjective, qualifying 'vessel'; not as English Version, a noun) as with the weaker vessel (see on 1Th 4:4. Both husband and wife are vessels in God's hand, and of God's making, to fulfil His gracious purposes. Both weak, the woman the weaker. The sense of his own weakness, and that she, like himself, is God's vessel and fabric, ought to lead him to act with tender and wise consideration towards her who is the weaker fabric), giving (literally, 'assigning,' 'apportioning') honor as being also (besides being man and wife) heirs together," &c.; or, as the Vatican manuscript reads, as to those who are also (besides being your wives) fellow heirs." (The reason why the man should give honor to the woman is, because God gives honor to both as fellow heirs; compare the same argument, 1Pe 3:9). He does not take into account the case of an unbelieving wife, as she might yet believe.

JFB: 1Pe 3:7 - -- God's gracious gift of life (1Pe 1:4, 1Pe 1:13).

God's gracious gift of life (1Pe 1:4, 1Pe 1:13).

JFB: 1Pe 3:7 - -- By dissensions, which prevent united prayer, on which depends the blessing.

By dissensions, which prevent united prayer, on which depends the blessing.

JFB: 1Pe 3:8 - -- General summary of relative duty, after having detailed particular duties from 1Pe 2:18.

General summary of relative duty, after having detailed particular duties from 1Pe 2:18.

JFB: 1Pe 3:8 - -- As to the faith.

As to the faith.

JFB: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Greek, "sympathizing" in the joy and sorrow of others.

Greek, "sympathizing" in the joy and sorrow of others.

JFB: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Greek, "loving the brethren."

Greek, "loving the brethren."

JFB: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Towards the afflicted.

Towards the afflicted.

JFB: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Genuine Christian politeness; not the tinsel of the world's politeness; stamped with unfeigned love on one side, and humility on the other. But the ol...

Genuine Christian politeness; not the tinsel of the world's politeness; stamped with unfeigned love on one side, and humility on the other. But the oldest manuscripts read, "humble-minded." It is slightly different from "humble," in that it marks a conscious effort to be truly humble.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Ye wives, be in subjection - Consider that your husband is, by God’ s appointment, the head and ruler of the house; do not, therefore, attempt ...

Ye wives, be in subjection - Consider that your husband is, by God’ s appointment, the head and ruler of the house; do not, therefore, attempt to usurp his government; for even though he obey not the word - is not a believer in the Christian doctrine, his rule is not thereby impaired; for Christianity never alters civil relations: and your affectionate, obedient conduct will be the most likely means of convincing him of the truth of the doctrine which you have received

Clarke: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Without the word - That your holy conduct may be the means of begetting in them a reverence for Christianity, the preaching of which they will not h...

Without the word - That your holy conduct may be the means of begetting in them a reverence for Christianity, the preaching of which they will not hear. See the notes on 1Co 14:34, and the other places referred to in the margin.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Chaste conversation - with fear - While they see that ye join modesty, chastity, and the purest manners, to the fear of God. Or perhaps fear, φο...

Chaste conversation - with fear - While they see that ye join modesty, chastity, and the purest manners, to the fear of God. Or perhaps fear, φοβος, is taken, as in Eph 5:33, for the reverence due to the husband.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning - Κοσμος . See the note on Heb 9:1, where the word κοσμος, world or ornament, is defined; and also the note on Gen 2:1

Whose adorning - Κοσμος . See the note on Heb 9:1, where the word κοσμος, world or ornament, is defined; and also the note on Gen 2:1

Clarke: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold - Plaiting the hair, and variously folding it about the head, was the most ancient and most simple mode of...

Plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold - Plaiting the hair, and variously folding it about the head, was the most ancient and most simple mode of disposing of this chief ornament of the female head. It was practised anciently in every part of the east, and is so to the present day in India, in China, and also in Barbary. It was also prevalent among the Greeks and Romans, as ancient gems, busts, and statues, still remaining, sufficiently declare. We have a remarkable instance of the plaiting of the hair in a statue of Agrippina, wife of Germanicus, an exact representation of which may be seen in a work of Andre Lens, entitled Le Costume de Peuple de I’ Antiquite, pl. 33. Many plates in the same work show the different modes of dressing the hair which obtained among the Egyptians, Greeks, Romans, Persians, and other nations. Thin plates of gold were often mixed with the hair, to make it appear more ornamental by the reflection of light and of the solar rays. Small golden buckles were also used in different parts; and among the Roman ladies, pearls and precious stones of different colors. Pliny assures us, Hist. Nat., l. ix. c. 35, that these latter ornaments were not introduced among the Roman women till the time of Sylla, about 110 years before the Christian era. But it is evident, from many remaining monuments, that in numerous cases the hair differently plaited and curled was the only ornament of the head. Often a simple pin, sometimes of ivory, pointed with gold, seemed to connect the plaits. In monuments of antiquity the heads of the married and single women may be known, the former by the hair being parted from the forehead over the middle of the top of the head, the latter by being quite close, or being plaited and curled all in a general mass

There is a remarkable passage in Plutarch, Conjugalia Praecept., c. xxvi., very like that in the text: Κοσμος γαρ εστιν, ὡς ελεγε Κρατης, το κοσμουν· κοσμει δε το κοσμιωτεραν γυναικα ποιουν· ποιει δε ταυτην ου χρυσος, ουτε σμαραγδος, ουτε κοκκος, αλλ ὁσα σεμνοτητος, ευταξιας, αιδους εμφασιν περιτιθησιν· Opera a Wyttenb., vol. i., page 390. "An ornament, as Crates said, is that which adorns. The proper ornament of a woman is that which becomes her best. This is neither gold, nor pearls, nor scarlet; but those things which are an evident proof of gravity, regularity, and modesty."The wife of Phocion, a celebrated Athenian general, receiving a visit from a lady who was elegantly adorned with gold and jewels, and her hair with pearls, took occasion to call the attention of her guest to the elegance and costliness of her dress, remarking at the same time, "My ornament is my husband, now for the twentieth year general of the Athenians."Plut., in vit. Phoc. How few Christian women act this part! Women are in general at as much pains and cost in their dress, as if by it they were to be recommended both to God and man. It is, however, in every case, the argument either of a shallow mind, or of a vain and corrupted heart.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:4 - -- The hidden man of the heart - Ὁ κρυπτος της καρδιας ανθρωπος . This phrase is of the same import with that of St. Paul,...

The hidden man of the heart - Ὁ κρυπτος της καρδιας ανθρωπος . This phrase is of the same import with that of St. Paul, Rom 7:22, ὁ εσω ανθρωπος, the inner man; that is, the soul, with the whole system of affections and passions. Every part of the Scripture treats man as a compound being: the body is the outward or visible man; the soul, the inward, hidden, or invisible man. The term ανθρωπος, man, is derived, according to the best etymologists, from ανα τρεπων ωπα, turning the face upward. This derivation of the word is beautifully paraphrased by Ovid. The whole passage is beautiful; and, though well known, I shall insert it. After speaking of the creation and formation of all the irrational animals, he proceeds thus: -

" Sanctius his animal, mentisque capacius alta

Deerat adhuc, et quod dominari in caetera posset

Natus Homo est: sive hunc divino semine feci

Ille opifex rerum, mundi melioris origo

Sive recens tellus, seductaque nuper ab alt

Aethere, cognati retinebat semina coeli. -

Pronaque cum spectent animalia caetera terram

Os Homini Sublime Dedit; Coelumque Tuer

Jussit, et erectos ad sidera tollere veltus .

Metam, lib. i. ver. 76

"A creature of a more exalted kin

Was wanting yet, and then was Man design’ d

Conscious of thought, of more capacious breast

For empire form’ d, and fit to rule the rest

Whether with particles of heavenly fir

The God of nature did his soul inspire

Or earth but new divided from the sky

Which still retain’ d th’ ethereal energy. -

Thus, while the mute creation downward ben

Their sight, and to their earthly mother tend

Man looks aloft, and with erected eye

Beholds his own hereditary skies.

Dryden

The word ανθρωπος, man, is frequently applied to the soul, but generally with some epithet. Thus ὁ εσω ανθρωπος, the inner man, Rom 7:22, to distinguish it from the body, which is called ὁ εξω ανθρωπος, the outer man, 2Co 4:16; ὁ κρυπτος ανθρωπος, the hidden man, as in the text; ὁ καινος ανθρωπος, the new man, the soul renewed in righteousness, Eph 2:15, to distinguish him from ὁ παλαιος ανθρωπος, the old man, that is, man unregenerate or in a state of sin, Rom 6:6. And the soul is thus distinguished by the Greek philosophers

Clarke: 1Pe 3:4 - -- A meek and quiet spirit - That is, a mind that will not give provocation to others, nor receive irritation by the provocation of others. Meekness wi...

A meek and quiet spirit - That is, a mind that will not give provocation to others, nor receive irritation by the provocation of others. Meekness will prevent the first; quietness will guard against the last

Clarke: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Great price - All the ornaments placed on the head and body of the most illustrious female, are, in the sight of God, of no worth; but a meek and si...

Great price - All the ornaments placed on the head and body of the most illustrious female, are, in the sight of God, of no worth; but a meek and silent spirit are, in his sight, invaluable, because proceeding from and leading to himself, being incorruptible, surviving the ruins of the body and the ruins of time, and enduring eternally.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:5 - -- For after this manner - Simplicity reigned in primitive times; natural ornaments alone were then in use. Trade and commerce brought in luxuries; and...

For after this manner - Simplicity reigned in primitive times; natural ornaments alone were then in use. Trade and commerce brought in luxuries; and luxury brought pride, and all the excessive nonsense of Dress. No female head ever looks so well as when adorned with its own hair alone. This is the ornament appointed by God. To cut it off or to cover it is an unnatural practice; and to exchange the hair which God has given for hair of some other color, is an insult to the Creator. How the delicacy of the female character can stoop to the use of false hair, and especially when it is considered that the chief part of this kind of hair was once the natural property of some ruffian soldier, who fell in battle by many a ghastly wound, is more than I can possibly comprehend. See the notes on 1Co 11:14-16 (note); and 1Ti 2:9 (note)

Clarke: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Who trusted in God - The women who trust Not in God are fond of dress and frippery; those who trust in God follow nature and common sense

Who trusted in God - The women who trust Not in God are fond of dress and frippery; those who trust in God follow nature and common sense

Clarke: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Being in subjection unto their own husbands - It will rarely be found that women who are fond of dress, and extravagant in it, have any subjection t...

Being in subjection unto their own husbands - It will rarely be found that women who are fond of dress, and extravagant in it, have any subjection to their husbands but what comes from mere necessity. Indeed, their dress, which they intend as an attractive to the eyes of others, is a sufficient proof that they have neither love nor respect for their own husbands. Let them who are concerned refute the charge.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Even as Sara obeyed - Almost the same words are in Rab. Tanchum, fol. 9, 3: "The wife of Abraham reverenced him, and called him lord, as it is writt...

Even as Sara obeyed - Almost the same words are in Rab. Tanchum, fol. 9, 3: "The wife of Abraham reverenced him, and called him lord, as it is written, Gen 18:12 : And my lord is old."The words of the apostle imply that she acknowledged his superiority, and her own subjection to him, in the order of God

Clarke: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Whose daughters ye are - As Abraham is represented the father of all his male believing descendants, so Sara is represented as the mother of all her...

Whose daughters ye are - As Abraham is represented the father of all his male believing descendants, so Sara is represented as the mother of all her believing female posterity. A son of Abraham is a true believer; a daughter of Sarah is the same

Clarke: 1Pe 3:6 - -- As long as ye do well - For you cannot maintain your relationship to her longer than ye believe; and ye cannot believe longer than ye continue to ob...

As long as ye do well - For you cannot maintain your relationship to her longer than ye believe; and ye cannot believe longer than ye continue to obey

Clarke: 1Pe 3:6 - -- And are not afraid with any amazement - It is difficult to extract any sense out of this clause. The original is not very easy; Μη φοβουμε...

And are not afraid with any amazement - It is difficult to extract any sense out of this clause. The original is not very easy; Μη φοβουμεναι μηδεμιαν πτοησιν may be rendered, And not fearing with any terror. If ye do well, and act conscientiously your part as faithful wives, ye will at no time live under the distressing apprehension of being found out, or terrified at every appearance of the discovery of infidelities, or improper conduct. Being not guilty of these, you will not have occasion to fear detection. On this subject a learned man has quoted these words, which I have produced elsewhere, Eph 6:14 : -

hic murus aheneus esto

Nil conscire sibi, nulla pallescere culpa

"Let this be my brazen wall, to be self-convicted of no private delinquency, nor to change color at being charged with a fault.

Happy is the wife, and happy is the husband, who can conscientiously adopt the saying.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Dwell with them according to knowledge - Give your wives, by no species of unkind carriage, any excuse for delinquency. How can a man expect his wif...

Dwell with them according to knowledge - Give your wives, by no species of unkind carriage, any excuse for delinquency. How can a man expect his wife to be faithful to him, if he be unfaithful to her? and vice versa

Clarke: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Giving honor unto the wife - Using your superior strength and experience in her behalf, and thus honouring her by becoming her protector and support...

Giving honor unto the wife - Using your superior strength and experience in her behalf, and thus honouring her by becoming her protector and support. But the word τιμη honor, signifies maintenance as well as respect; - maintain, provide for the wife

Clarke: 1Pe 3:7 - -- As - the weaker vessel - Being more delicately, and consequently more slenderly, constructed. Roughness and strength go hand in hand; so likewise do...

As - the weaker vessel - Being more delicately, and consequently more slenderly, constructed. Roughness and strength go hand in hand; so likewise do beauty and frailty. The female has what the man wants - beauty and delicacy. The male has what the female wants - courage and strength. The one is as good in its place as the other: and by these things God has made an equality between the man and the woman, so that there is properly very little superiority on either side. See the note on 1Th 4:4

Clarke: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Being heirs together - Both the man and woman being equally called to eternal glory: and as prayer is one great means of obtaining a meetness for it...

Being heirs together - Both the man and woman being equally called to eternal glory: and as prayer is one great means of obtaining a meetness for it, it is necessary that they should live together in such a manner as to prevent all family contentions, that they may not be prevented, by disputes or misunderstandings, from uniting daily in this most important duty - family and social prayer.

Clarke: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Be ye all of one mind - Unity, both in the family and in the Church, being essentially necessary to peace and salvation. See on Rom 12:16 (note); Ro...

Be ye all of one mind - Unity, both in the family and in the Church, being essentially necessary to peace and salvation. See on Rom 12:16 (note); Rom 15:5 (note)

Clarke: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Having compassion - Συμπαθεις· Being sympathetic; feeling for each other; bearing each other’ s burdens

Having compassion - Συμπαθεις· Being sympathetic; feeling for each other; bearing each other’ s burdens

Clarke: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Love as brethren - Φιλαδελφοι· Be lovers of the brethren

Love as brethren - Φιλαδελφοι· Be lovers of the brethren

Clarke: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Pitiful - Ευσπλαγχνοι· Tender-hearted; let your bowels yearn over the distressed and afflicted

Pitiful - Ευσπλαγχνοι· Tender-hearted; let your bowels yearn over the distressed and afflicted

Clarke: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Courteous - Φιλοφρονες· Be friendly-minded; acquire and cultivate a friendly disposition. But instead of this word, ταπεινοφρ...

Courteous - Φιλοφρονες· Be friendly-minded; acquire and cultivate a friendly disposition. But instead of this word, ταπεινοφρονες, be humble-minded, is the reading of ABC, more than twenty others, with the Syriac, Arabic of Erpen, Coptic, Armenian, Slavonic, and some of the fathers. This is probably the true reading, and Griesbach has admitted it into the text.

Calvin: 1Pe 3:1 - -- He proceeds now to another instance of subjection, and bids wives to be subject to their husbands. And as those seemed to have some pretense for shak...

He proceeds now to another instance of subjection, and bids wives to be subject to their husbands. And as those seemed to have some pretense for shaking off the yoke, who were united to unbelieving men, he expressly reminds them of their duty, and brings forward a particular reason why they ought the more carefully to obey, even that they might by their probity allure their husbands to the faith. But if wives ought to obey ungodly husbands, with much more promptness ought they to obey, who have believing husbands.

But it may seem strange that Peter should say, that a husband might be gained to the Lord without the word; for why is it said, that “faith cometh by hearing?” Rom 10:17. To this I reply, that Peter’s words are not to be so understood as though a holy life alone could lead the unbelieving to Christ, but that it softens and pacifies their minds, so that they might have less dislike to religion; for as bad examples create offenses, so good ones afford no small help. Then Peter shews that wives by a holy and pious life could do so much as to prepare their husbands, without speaking to them on religion, to embrace the faith of Christ.

Calvin: 1Pe 3:2 - -- 2.While they behold For minds, however alienated from the true faith, are subdued, when they see the good conduct of believers; for as they understoo...

2.While they behold For minds, however alienated from the true faith, are subdued, when they see the good conduct of believers; for as they understood not the doctrine of Christ, they form an estimate of it by our life. It cannot, then, be but that they will commend Christianity, which teaches purity and fear.

Calvin: 1Pe 3:3 - -- 3.Whose adorning The other part of the exhortation is, that wives are to adorn themselves sparingly and modestly: for we know that they are in this r...

3.Whose adorning The other part of the exhortation is, that wives are to adorn themselves sparingly and modestly: for we know that they are in this respect much more curious and ambitious than they ought to be. Then Peter does not without cause seek to correct in them this vanity. And though he reproves generally sumptuous or costly adorning, yet he points out some things in particular, — that they were not artificially to curl or wreath their hair, as it was usually done by crisping-pins, or otherwise to form it according to the fashion; nor were they to set gold around their head: for these are the things in which excesses especially appear.

It may be now asked, whether the Apostle wholly condemns the use of gold in adorning the body. Were any one to urge these words, it may be said, that he prohibits precious garments no less than gold; for he immediately adds, the putting on of apparel, or, of clothes. But it would be an immoderate strictness wholly to forbid neatness and elegance in clothing. If the material is said to be too sumptuous, the Lord has created it; and we know that skill in art has proceeded from him. Then Peter did not intend to condemn every sort of ornament, but the evil of vanity, to which women are subject. Two things are to be regarded in clothing, usefulness and decency; and what decency requires is moderation and modesty. Were, then, a woman to go forth with her hair wantonly curled and decked, and make an extravagant display, her vanity could not be excused. They who object and say, that to clothe one’s-self in this or that manner is an indifferent thing, in which all are free to do as they please, may be easily confuted; for excessive elegance and superfluous display, in short, all excesses, arise from a corrupted mind. Besides, ambition, pride, affectation of display, and all things of this kind, are not indifferent things. Therefore they whose minds are purified from all vanity, will duly order all things, so as not to exceed moderation.

Calvin: 1Pe 3:4 - -- 4.But let it be the hidden, man of the heart The contrast here ought to be carefully observed. Cato said, that they who are anxiously engaged in ador...

4.But let it be the hidden, man of the heart The contrast here ought to be carefully observed. Cato said, that they who are anxiously engaged in adorning the body, neglect the adorning of the mind: so Peter, in order to restrain this desire in women, introduces a remedy, that they are to devote themselves to the cultivation of their minds. The word heart, no doubt means the whole soul. He at the same time shews in what consists the spiritual adorning of women, even in the incorruptness of a meek and quiet spirit “Incorruptness,” as I think, is set in opposition to things which fade and vanish away, things which serve to adorn the body. Therefore the version of Erasmus departs from the real meaning. In short, Peter means that the ornament of the soul is not like a fading flower, nor consists in vanishing splendor, but is incorruptible. By mentioning quiet and a tranquil spirit, he marks out what especially belongs to women; for nothing becomes them more than a placid and a sedate temper of mind. 36 For we know how outrageous a being is an imperious and a self-willed woman. And further, nothing is more fitted to correct the vanity of which Peter speaks than a placid quietness of spirit.

What follows, that it is in the sight of God of great price, may be referred to the whole previous sentence as well as to the word spirit; the meaning indeed will remain the same. For why do women take so much care to adorn themselves, except that they may turn the eyes of men on themselves? But Peter, on the contrary, bids them to be more anxious for what is before God of a great price.

Calvin: 1Pe 3:5 - -- He sets before them the example of pious women, who sought for spiritual adorning rather than outward meretricious ornaments. But he mentions Sarah a...

He sets before them the example of pious women, who sought for spiritual adorning rather than outward meretricious ornaments. But he mentions Sarah above all others, who, having been the mother of all the faithful, is especially worthy of honor and imitation on the part of her sex. Moreover, he returns again to subjection, and confirms it by the example of Sarah, who, according to the words of Moses, called her husband Lord. (Gen 18:12.) God, indeed, does not regard such titles; and it may sometimes be, that one especially petulant and disobedient should use such a word with her tongue; but Peter means, that Sarah usually spoke thus, because she knew that a command had been given her by the Lord, to be subject to her husband. Peter adds, that they who imitated her fidelity would be her daughters, that is, reckoned among the faithful.

Calvin: 1Pe 3:6 - -- 6.And are not afraid The weakness of the sex causes women to be suspicious and timid, and therefore morose; for they fear lest by their subjection, t...

6.And are not afraid The weakness of the sex causes women to be suspicious and timid, and therefore morose; for they fear lest by their subjection, they should be more reproachfully treated. It was this that Peter seems to have had in view in forbidding them to be disturbed by any fear, as though he had said, “Willingly submit to the authority of your husbands, nor let fear prevent your obedience, as though your condition would be worse, were you to obey.” The words may be more general, “Let them not raise up commotions at home.” For as they are liable to be frightened, they often make much of a little thing, and thus disturb themselves and the family. Others think that the timidity of women, which is contrary to faith, is generally reproved, as though Peter exhorted them to perform the duties of their calling with a courageous and intrepid spirit. However, the first explanation is what I prefer, though the last does not differ much from it. 37

Calvin: 1Pe 3:7 - -- 7.Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them. From husbands he requires prudence; for dominion over their wives is not given them, except on this conditi...

7.Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them. From husbands he requires prudence; for dominion over their wives is not given them, except on this condition, that they exercise authority prudently. Then let husbands remember that they need prudence to do rightly their duty. And doubtless many foolish things must be endured by them, many unpleasant things must be borne with; and they must at the same time beware lest their indulgence should foster folly. Hence the admonition of Peter is not in vain, that the husbands ought to cohabit with them as with a weaker vessel. Part of the prudence which he mentions, is, that the husbands honor their wives. For nothing destroys the friendship of life more than contempt; nor can we really love any but those whom we esteem; for love must be connected with respect.

Moreover, he employs a twofold argument, in order to persuade husbands to treat their wives honourably and kindly. The first is derived from the weakness of the sex; the other, from the honor with which God favors them. These things seem indeed to be in a manner contrary, — that honor ought to be given to wives, because they are weak, and because they excel; but these things well agree together where love exists. It is evident, that God is despised in his gifts, except we honor those on whom he has conferred any excellency. But when we consider that we are members of the same body, we learn to bear with one another, and mutually to cover our infirmities. This is what Paul means when he says that greater honor is given to the weaker members, (1Co 12:23;) even because we are more careful in protecting them from shame. Then Peter does not without reason command that women should be cared for, and that they should be honored with a kind treatment, because they are weak. And then as we more easily forgive children, when they offend through inexperience of age; so the weakness of the female sex ought to make us not to be too rigid and severe towards our wives.

The word vessel, as it is well known, means in Scripture any sort of instrument.

Being heirs together (or co-heirs) of the grace of life Some copies have “of manifold grace;” others, instead of “life,” have the word “living.” Some read “co-heirs” in the dative case, which makes no difference in the sense. A conjunction is put by others between manifold grace and life; which reading is the most suitable. 38 For since the Lord is pleased to bestow in common on husbands and wives the same graces, he invites them to seek an equality in them; and we know that those graces are manifold in which wives are partakers with their husbands. For some belong to the present life, and some to God’s spiritual kingdom. He afterwards adds, that they are co-heirs also of life, which is the chief thing. And though some are strangers to the hope of salvation, yet as it is offered by the Lord to them no less than to their husbands, it is a sufficient honor to the sex.

That your prayers be not hindered For God cannot be rightly called upon, unless our minds be calm and peaceable. Among strifes and contentions there is no place for prayer. Peter indeed addresses the husband and the wife, when he bids them to be at peace one with another, so that they might with one mind pray to God. But we may hence gather a general doctrine — that no one ought to come to God except he is united to his brethren. Then as this reason ought to restrain all domestic quarrels and strifes, in order that each one of the family may pray to God; so in common life it ought to be as it were a bridle to check all contentions. For we are more than insane, if we knowingly and wilfully close up the way to God’s presence by prayer, since this is the only asylum of our salvation.

Some give this explanation, that an intercourse with the wife ought to be sparing and temperate, lest too much indulgence in this respect should prevent attention to prayer, according to that saying of Paul,

“Defraud not one another, unless by consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer.” (1Co 7:5.)

But the doctrine of Peter extends wider: and then Paul does not mean that prayers are interrupted by mutual cohabitation. Therefore the explanation which I have given ought to be retained.

Calvin: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Now follow general precepts which indiscriminately belong to all. 39 Moreover he summarily mentions some things which are especially necessary to fos...

Now follow general precepts which indiscriminately belong to all. 39 Moreover he summarily mentions some things which are especially necessary to foster friendship and love. The first is, Be ye all of one mind, or, think ye all the same thing. For though friends are at liberty to think differently, yet to do so is a cloud which obscures love; yea, from this seed easily arises hatred. Sympathy (συμπάθεια) extends to all our faculties, when concord exists between us; so that every one condoles with us in adversity as well as rejoices with us in prosperity, so that every one not only cares for himself, but also regards the benefit of others.

What next follows, Love as brethren, belongs peculiarly to the faithful; for where God is known as a Father, there only brotherhood really exists. Be pitiful, or merciful, which is added, means that we are not only to help our brethren and relieve their miseries, but also to bear with their infirmities. In what follows there are two readings in Greek; but what seems to me the most probable is the one I have put as the text; for we know that it is the chief bond to preserve friendship, when every one thinks modestly and humbly of himself; as there is nothing on the other hand which produces more discords than when we think too highly of ourselves. Wisely then does Peter bid us to be humble-minded (ταπεινόφρονες,) lest pride and haughtiness should lead us to despise our neighbors. 40

Defender: 1Pe 3:1 - -- This promise must apply especially to those wives who become Christians after they have married. Christian women who have willfully married unbeliever...

This promise must apply especially to those wives who become Christians after they have married. Christian women who have willfully married unbelievers despite God's prohibition against it have no valid claim on God's answer (1Co 7:39; 2Co 6:14). However, God is merciful and forgiving when there is true repentance and confession."

Defender: 1Pe 3:2 - -- "Behold" here connotes "closely behold" (see note on 1Pe 2:12)."

"Behold" here connotes "closely behold" (see note on 1Pe 2:12)."

Defender: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Although male modesty may not have been a problem in the days of the apostles, the principle of modesty in dress and ornamentation would need to be ur...

Although male modesty may not have been a problem in the days of the apostles, the principle of modesty in dress and ornamentation would need to be urged on Christian men as well as women today, especially in these days of flamboyancy and stress on physical attributes (1Ti 2:9)."

Defender: 1Pe 3:4 - -- Compare the description of the "virtuous woman" (Proverbs 31:10-31, especially Pro 31:30)."

Compare the description of the "virtuous woman" (Proverbs 31:10-31, especially Pro 31:30)."

Defender: 1Pe 3:6 - -- This phrase means literally "have become daughters" of Sara, in a spiritual sense.

This phrase means literally "have become daughters" of Sara, in a spiritual sense.

Defender: 1Pe 3:6 - -- That is, with any "hysterical fears," this often being a characteristic of shallow-spirited, self-oriented women, who have not the deep faith of Sara ...

That is, with any "hysterical fears," this often being a characteristic of shallow-spirited, self-oriented women, who have not the deep faith of Sara (Heb 11:11)."

Defender: 1Pe 3:7 - -- See Col 3:19; Pro 31:11, Pro 31:28.

Defender: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Although the husband and wife have been created for very specific roles in the family, the church, and society in general, and although neither will f...

Although the husband and wife have been created for very specific roles in the family, the church, and society in general, and although neither will find real fulfillment in life if they rebel against those roles, they must always remember that spiritually they are equals before God. Both were created "in the image of God" (Gen 1:27) and are "heirs together" of God's grace.

Defender: 1Pe 3:7 - -- It is noteworthy that one important reason for unanswered prayer may be poor home relationships."

It is noteworthy that one important reason for unanswered prayer may be poor home relationships."

Defender: 1Pe 3:8 - -- That "one mind" should be the mind of Christ (Phi 2:2, Phi 2:5).

That "one mind" should be the mind of Christ (Phi 2:2, Phi 2:5).

Defender: 1Pe 3:8 - -- This phrase suggests "sympathizing with" one another.

This phrase suggests "sympathizing with" one another.

Defender: 1Pe 3:8 - -- This phrase means, literally, "loving the brethren" (1Jo 3:14).

This phrase means, literally, "loving the brethren" (1Jo 3:14).

Defender: 1Pe 3:8 - -- This word can be translated "tender-hearted" (Eph 4:32).

This word can be translated "tender-hearted" (Eph 4:32).

Defender: 1Pe 3:8 - -- "Courteous" means "being humble of mind" (Col 3:12)."

"Courteous" means "being humble of mind" (Col 3:12)."

TSK: 1Pe 3:1 - -- ye : Gen 3:16; Est 1:16-20; Rom 7:2 *Gr: 1Co 11:3, 1Co 14:34; Eph 5:22-24, Eph 5:33; Col 3:18; 1Ti 2:11, 1Ti 2:12; Tit 2:3-6 obey : 1Pe 1:22, 1Pe 4:17...

TSK: 1Pe 3:2 - -- behold : 1Pe 3:16, 1Pe 1:15, 1Pe 2:12; Phi 1:27, Phi 3:20; 1Ti 4:12; 2Pe 3:11 with : 1Pe 3:5, 1Pe 3:6, 1Pe 3:15; Eph 5:33, Eph 6:5; Col 3:22

TSK: 1Pe 3:3 - -- adorning let : 1Ti 2:9, 1Ti 2:10; Tit 2:3-15; Rom 12:2 that : Gen 24:22, Gen 24:47, Gen 24:53; Exo 3:22, Exo 32:2, Exo 33:4, Exo 35:22, Exo 38:8; 2Ki ...

TSK: 1Pe 3:4 - -- the hidden : Psa 45:13, Psa 51:6; Mat 23:26; Luk 11:40; Rom 2:29, Rom 6:6, Rom 7:22; 2Co 4:16; Eph 4:22-24; Col 3:3, Col 3:9, Col 3:10 which is not : ...

TSK: 1Pe 3:5 - -- the holy : Pro 31:10,Pro 31:30; Luk 8:2, Luk 8:3; Act 1:14, Act 9:36; 1Ti 2:10, 1Ti 5:10; Tit 2:3, Tit 2:4 who : 1Sa 2:1; Jer 49:11; Luk 2:37; 1Ti 2:1...

TSK: 1Pe 3:6 - -- as Sara : Gen 18:12 daughters : Gr. children, Rom 9:7-9; Gal 4:22-26 and : 1Pe 3:14, 1Pe 3:15; Gen 18:15; Isa 57:11; Dan 3:16-18; Mat 26:69-75; Act 4:...

TSK: 1Pe 3:7 - -- ye : Gen 2:23, Gen 2:24; Pro 5:15-19; Mal 2:14-16; Mat 19:3-9; 1Co 7:3; Col 3:19; Eph 5:25-28, Eph 5:33 giving : 1Co 12:22-24; 1Th 4:4 heirs : Eph 3:6...

TSK: 1Pe 3:8 - -- be : Act 2:1, Act 4:32; Rom 12:16, Rom 15:5; 1Co 1:10; Phi 3:16 having : Zec 7:9; Mat 18:33; Luk 10:33; Rom 12:15; 1Co 12:26; Jam 2:13, Jam 3:17 love ...

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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)

Barnes: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands - On the duty here enjoined, see the 1Co 11:3-9 notes, and Eph 5:22 note. That, ...

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands - On the duty here enjoined, see the 1Co 11:3-9 notes, and Eph 5:22 note.

That, if any obey not the word - The word of God; the gospel. That is, if any wives have husbands who are not true Christians. This would be likely to occur when the gospel was first preached, as it does now, by the fact that wives might be converted, though their husbands were not. It cannot be inferred from this, that after they themselves had become Christians they had married unbelieving husbands. The term "word"here refers particularly to the gospel as preached; and the idea is, that if they were regardless of that gospel when preached - if they would not attend on preaching, or if they were unaffected by it, or if they openly rejected it, there might be hope still that they would be converted by the Christian influence of a wife at home. In such cases, a duty of special importance devolves on the wife.

They also may without the word be won - In some other way than by preaching. This I does not mean that they would be converted independently of the influence of truth - for truth is always the instrument of conversion, Jam 1:18; Joh 17:17; but that it was to be by another influence than preaching.

By the conversation of the wives - By the conduct or deportment of their wives. See the notes at Phi 1:27. The word conversation, in the Scriptures, is never confined, as it is now with us, to oral discourse, but denotes conduct in general. It includes indeed "conversation"as the word is now used, but it embraces also much more - including everything that we do. The meaning here is, that the habitual deportment of the wife was to be such as to show the reality and power of religion; to show that it had such influence on her temper, her words, her whole deportment, as to demonstrate that it was from God.

Barnes: 1Pe 3:2 - -- While they behold your chaste conversation - Your pure conduct. The word chaste here ( ἁγνὴν hagnēn ) refer’ s to purity of...

While they behold your chaste conversation - Your pure conduct. The word chaste here ( ἁγνὴν hagnēn ) refer’ s to purity of conduct in all respects, and not merely to chastity properly so called. It includes that, but it also embraces much more. The conduct of the wife is to be in all respects pure; and this is to be the grand instrumentality in the conversion of her husband. A wife may be strictly chaste, and yet there may be many other things in her conduct and temper which would mar the beauty of her piety, and prevent any happy influence on the mind of her husband,

Coupled with fear - The word fear, in this place, may refer either to the fear of God, or to a proper respect and reverence for their husbands, Eph 5:33. The trait of character which is referred to is that of proper respect and reverence in all the relations which she sustained, as opposed to a trifling and frivolous mind. Leighton suggests that the word fear here relates particularly to the other duty enjoined - that of chaste conversation - "fearing the least stain of chastity, or the very appearance of anything not suiting with it. It is a delicate, timorous grace, afraid of the least air, or shadow of anything that hath but a resemblance of wronging it, in carriage, or speech, or apparel."

Barnes: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning - Whose ornament. The apostle refers here to a propensity which exists in the heart of woman to seek that which would be esteeme...

Whose adorning - Whose ornament. The apostle refers here to a propensity which exists in the heart of woman to seek that which would be esteemed ornamental, or that which will appear well in the sight of others, and commend us to them. The desire of this is laid deep in human nature and therefore, when properly regulated is not wrong. The only question is, what is the true and appropriate ornament? What should be primarily sought as the right kind of adorning? The apostle does not condemn true ornament, nor does he condemn the desire to appear in such a way as to secure the esteem of others. God does not condemn real ornament. The universe is full of it. The colors of the clouds and of the rainbow; the varied hues of flowers; the plumage of birds, and the covering of many of the animals of the forest; the green grass; the variety of hill and dale; the beauty of the human complexion, the ruddy cheek, and the sparkling eye, are all of the nature of ornament. They are something superadded to what would be merely useful, to make them appear well. Few or none of these things are absolutely necessary to the things to which they are attached; for the eye could see without the various tints of beauty that are drawn upon it, and the lips and the cheeks could perform their functions without their beautiful tints, and the vegetable world could exist without the variegated colors that are painted on it; but God meant that this should be a beautiful world; that it should appear well; that there should be something more than mere utility. The true notion of ornament or adorning is that which will make any person or thing appear well, or beautiful, to others; and the apostle does not prohibit that which would have this effect in the wife. The grand thing which she was to seek, was not that which is merely external, but that which is internal, and which God regards as of so great value.

Let it not be that outward adorning - Let not this be the main or principal thing; let not her heart be set on this. The apostle does not say that she should wholly neglect her personal appearance, for she has no more right to be offensive to her husband by neglecting her personal appearance, than by a finical attention to it. Religion promotes neatness, and cleanliness, and a proper attention to our external appearance according to our circumstances in life, as certainly as it does to the internal virtue of the soul. On this whole passage, see the notes at 1Ti 2:9-10.

Of plaiting the hair - See the notes at 1Ti 2:9; Compare the notes at Isa 3:24. Great attention is paid to this in the East, and it is to this that the apostle here refers. "The women in the eastern countries,"says Dr. Shaw, (Travels, p. 294,) "affect to have their hair hang down to the ground, which they collect into one lock, upon the hinder part of the head, binding and plaiting it about with ribbons. Above this, or on the top of their heads, persons of better fashion wear flexible plates of gold or silver, variously cut through, and engraved in imitation of lace."We are not to suppose that a mere braiding or plaiting of the hair is improper, for there may be no more simple or convenient way of disposing of it. But the allusion here is to the excessive care which then prevailed, and especially to their setting the heart on such ornaments rather than on the adorning which is internal. It may not be easy to fix the exact limit of propriety about the method of arranging the hair, or about any other ornament; but those whose hearts are right, generally have little difficulty on the subject. Every ornament of the body, however beautiful, is soon to be laid aside; the adorning of the soul will endure forever.

And of wearing of gold - The gold here particularly referred to is probably that which was interwoven in the hair, and which was a common female ornament in ancient times. Thus, Virgil says, crines nodantur in aurum. And again, crinem implicat auro. See Homer, Iliad , B. 872; Herod. i. 82; and Thucydides i. 6. The wearing of gold in the hair, however, was more common among women of loose morals than among virtuous females - Pollux iv. 153. It cannot be supposed that all wearing of gold about the person is wrong, for there is nothing evil in gold itself, and there may be some articles connected with apparel made of gold that may in no manner draw off the affections from higher things, and may do nothing to endanger piety. The meaning is, that such ornaments should not be sought; that Christians should be in no way distinguished for them; that they should not engross the time and attention; that Christians should so dress as to show that their minds are occupied with nobler objects, and that in their apparel they should be models of neatness, economy, and plainness. If it should be said that this expression teaches that it is wrong to wear gold at all, it may be replied that on the same principle it would follow that the next clause teaches that it is wrong to put on apparel at all. There is really no difficulty in such expressions. We are to dress decently, and in the manner that will attract least attention, and we are to show that our hearts are interested supremely in more important things than in outward adorning.

Or of putting on of apparel - That is, this is not to be the ornament which we principally seek, or for which we are distinguished. We are to desire a richer and more permanent adorning - that of the heart.

Barnes: 1Pe 3:4 - -- But let it be the hidden man of the heart - This expression is substantially the same as that of Paul in Rom 7:22, "the inward man."See the not...

But let it be the hidden man of the heart - This expression is substantially the same as that of Paul in Rom 7:22, "the inward man."See the notes at that place. The word "hidden"here means that which is concealed; that which is not made apparent by the dress, or by ornament. It lies within, pertaining to the affections of the soul.

In that which is not corruptible - Properly, "in the incorruptible ornament of a meek and quiet spirit."This is said to be incorruptible in contradistinction to gold and apparel. They will decay; but the internal ornament is ever enduring. The sense is, that whatever pertains to outward decoration, however beautiful and costly, is fading; but that which pertains to the soul is enduring. As the soul is immortal, so all that tends to adorn that will be immortal too; as the body is mortal, so all with which it can be invested is decaying, and will soon be destroyed.

The ornament of a meek and quiet spirit - Of a calm temper; a contented mind; a heart free from passion, pride, envy, and irritability; a soul not subject to the agitations and vexations of those who live for fashion, and who seek to be distinguished for external adorning. The connection here shows that the apostle refers to this, not only as that which would be of great price in the sight of God, but as that which would tend to secure the affection of their husbands, and win them to embrace the true religion, (see 1Pe 3:1-2); and, in order to this, he recommends them, instead of seeking external ornaments, to seek those of the mind and of the heart, as more agreeable to their husbands; as better adapted to win their hearts to religion; as that which would be most permanently proved. In regard to this point we may observe:

\caps1 (1) t\caps0 hat there are, undoubtedly, some husbands who are pleased with excessive ornaments in their wives, and who take a pleasure in seeing them decorated with gold, and pearls, and costly array.

\caps1 (2) t\caps0 hat all are pleased and gratified with a suitable attention to personal appearance on the part of their wives. It is as much the duty of a wife to be cleanly in her person, and neat in her habits, in the presence of her husband, as in the presence of strangers; and no wife can hope to secure the permanent affection of her husband who is not attentive to her personal appearance in her own family; especially if, while careless of her personal appearance in the presence of her husband, she makes it a point to appear gaily dressed before others. Yet.

\caps1 (3) t\caps0 he decoration of the body is not all, nor is it the principal thing which husband desires. He desires primarily in his wife the more permanent adorning which pertains to the heart. Let it be remembered:

(a) that a large part of the ornaments on which females value themselves are lost to a great extent on the other sex. Many a man cannot tell the difference between diamonds and cut-glass, or paste in the form of diamonds; and few are such connoisseurs in the matter of female ornaments as to appreciate at all the difference in the quality or color of silks, and shawls, and laces, which might appear so important to a female eye. The fact is, that those personal ornaments which to females appear of so much value, are much less regarded and prized by people than they often suppose. It is a rare thing that a man is so thoroughly skilled in the knowledge of the distinctions that pertain to fashions, as to appreciate that on which the heart of a female often so much prides itself; and it is no great credit to him if he can do this. His time usually, unless he is a draper or a jeweler, might have been much better employed than in making those acquisitions which are needful to qualify him to appreciate and admire the specialties of frivilous female apparel.

(b) But a man has a real interest in what constitutes the ornaments of the heart. His happiness, in his contact with his wife, depends on these. He knows what is denoted by a kind temper; by gentle words; by a placid brow; by a modest and patient spirit; by a heart that is calm in trouble, and that is affectionate and pure; by freedom from irritability, fretfulness, and impatience; and he can fully appreciate the value of these things No professional skill is necessary to qualify him to see their worth; and no acquired tact in discrimination is requisite to enable him to estimate them according to their full value. A wife, therefore, if she would permanently please her husband, should seek the adorning of the soul rather than the body; the ornament of the heart rather than gold and jewels. The one can never be a substitute for the other; and whatever outward decorations she may have, unless she have a gentleness of spirit, a calmness of temper, a benevolence and purity of soul, and a cultivation of mind that her husband can love, she cannot calculate on his permanent affection.

Which is in the sight of God of great price - Of great value; that being of great value for which a large price is paid. He has shown his sense of its value:

(a)\caps1     b\caps0 y commending it so often in his word:

(b)\caps1     b\caps0 y making religion to consist so much in it, rather than in high intellectual endowments, learning, skill in the arts, and valor; and,

©\caps1     b\caps0 y the character of his Son, the Lord Jesus, in whom this was so prominent a characteristic.

Sentiments not unlike what is here stated by the apostle, occur not unfrequently in pagan Classic writers. There are some remarkable passages in Plutarch, strongly resembling it: "An ornament, as Crates said, is that which adorns. The proper ornament of a woman is that which becomes her best. This is neither gold, nor pearls, nor scarlet, but those things which are an evident proof of gravity, regularity, and modesty"- Conjugalio Praecept., c. xxvi. The wife of Phocion, a celebrated Athenian general, receiving a visit from a lady who was elegantly adorned with gold and jewels, and her hair with pearls, took occasion to call the attention of her guest to the elegance and costliness of her dress. "My ornament,"said the wife of Phocion, "is my husband, now for the twentieth year general of the Athenians"- Plutarch’ s Life of Phocion. "The Sicilian tyrant sent to the daughters of Lysander garments and tissues of great value, but Lysander refused them, saying, "These ornaments will rather put my daughters out of countenance than adorn them"- Plutarch. So in the fragments of Naumachius, as quoted by Benson, there is a precept much like this of Peter: "Be not too fond of gold, neither wear purple hyacinth about your neck, or the green jasper, of which foolish persons are proud. Do not covet such vain ornaments, neither view yourself too often in the glass, nor twist your hair into a multitude of curls,"etc.

Barnes: 1Pe 3:5 - -- For after this manner, in the old time - The allusion here is particularly to the times of the patriarchs, and the object of the apostle is to ...

For after this manner, in the old time - The allusion here is particularly to the times of the patriarchs, and the object of the apostle is to state another reason why they should seek that kind of ornament which he had been commending. The reason is, that this characterized the pious and honored females of ancient times - those females who had been most commended of God, and who were most worthy to be remembered on earth.

Who trusted in God - Greek, "Who hoped in God;"that is, who were truly pious. They were characterized by simple trust or hope in God, rather than by a fondness for external adorning.

Adorned themselves - To wit, with a meek and quiet spirit, manifested particularly by the respect evinced for their husbands.

Being in subjection unto their own husbands - This was evidently a characteristic of the early periods of the world; and piety was understood to consist much in proper respect for others, according to the relations sustained toward them.

Barnes: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Even as Sara obeyed Abraham - Sarah was one of the most distinguished of the wives of the patriarchs, and her case is referred to as furnishing...

Even as Sara obeyed Abraham - Sarah was one of the most distinguished of the wives of the patriarchs, and her case is referred to as furnishing one of the best illustrations of the duty to which the apostle refers. Nothing is said, in the brief records of her life, of any passion for outward adorning; much is said of her kindness to her husband, and her respect for him. Compare Gen 12:5; Gen 18:6.

Calling him Lord - See Gen 18:12. It was probably inferred from this instance, by the apostle, and not without reason, that Sarah habitually used this respectful appellation, acknowledging by it that he was her superior, and that he had a right to rule in his own house. The word lord has the elementary idea of ruling, and this is the sense here - that she acknowledged that he had a right to direct the affairs of his household, and that it was her duty to be in subjection to him as the head of the family. In what respects this is a duty, may be seen by consulting the notes at Eph 5:22. Among the Romans, it was quite common for wives to use the appellation lord, (dominus), when speaking of their husbands. The same custom also prevailed among the Greeks. See Grotius, in loc. This passage does not prove that the term lord should be the particular appellation by which Christian wives should address their husbands now, but it proves that there should be the same respect and deference which was implied by its use in patriarchal times. The welfare of society, and the happiness of individuals, are not diminished by showing proper respect for all classes of persons in the various relations of life.

Whose daughters ye are - That is, you will be worthy to be regarded as her daughters, if you manifest the same spirit that she did. The margin here, as the Greek, is children. The sense is that if they demeaned themselves correctly in the relation of wives, it would be proper to look upon her as their mother, and to feel that they were not unworthy to be regarded as her daughters.

As long as ye do well - In respect to the particular matter under consideration.

And are not afraid with any amazement - This passage has been variously understood, Some have supposed that this is suggested as an argument to persuade them to do well, from the consideration that by so doing they would be preserved from those alarms and terrors which a contest with superior power might bring with it, and which would prove as injurious to their peace as to their character. Rosenmuller explains it, "If ye do well, terrified by no threats of unbelieving husbands, if they should undertake to compel you to deny the Christian faith."Doddridge supposes that it means that they were to preserve their peace and fortitude in any time of danger, so as not to act out of character, through amazement or danger. Calvin, Benson, and Bloomfield understand it of that firmness and intrepidity of character which would be necessary to support their religious independence, when united with pagan husbands; meaning that they were not to be deterred from doing their duty by any threats or terrors, either of their unbelieving husbands, or of their enemies and persecutors. Dr. Clarke supposes that it means that if they did well, they would live under no dread of being detected in improprieties of life, or being found out in their infidelities to their husbands, as those must always be who are unfaithful to their marriage vows. The word rendered "amazement" ptonsis - does not elsewhere occur in the New Testament. It means terror, trepidation, fear; and the literal translation of the Greek is, "not fearing any fear."It seems to me that the following may express the sense of the passage:

(1) There is undoubtedly an allusion to the character of Sarah, and the object of the apostle is to induce them to follow her example.

\caps1 (2) t\caps0 he thing in Sarah which he would exhort them to imitate, was her pure and upright life, her faithful discharge of her duties as a woman fearing God. This she did constantly wherever she was, regardless of consequences. Among friends and strangers, at home and abroad, she was distinguished for doing well. Such was her character, such her fidelity to her husband and her God, such her firm integrity and benevolence, that she at all times lived to do good, and would have done it, unawed by terror, undeterred by threats, To whatever trial her piety was exposed, it bore the trial; and such was her strength of virtue, that it was certain her integrity would be firm by whatever consequences she might have been threatened for her adherence to her principles.

\caps1 (3) t\caps0 hey were to imitate her in this, and were thus to show that they were worthy to be regarded as her daughters. They were to do well; to be faithful to their husbands; to be firm in their principles; to adhere steadfastly to what was true and good, whatever trials they might pass through, however much they might be threatened with persecution, or however any might attempt to deter them from the performance of their duty. Thus, by a life of Christian fidelity, unawed by fear from any quarter, they would show that they were imbued with the same principles of unbending virtue which characterised the wife of the father of the faithful, and that they were not unworthy to be regarded as her daughters.

Barnes: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Likewise, ye husbands - On the general duty of husbands, see the notes at Eph 5:25 ff. Dwell with them - That is, "Let your manner of liv...

Likewise, ye husbands - On the general duty of husbands, see the notes at Eph 5:25 ff.

Dwell with them - That is, "Let your manner of living with them be that which is immediately specified."

According to knowledge - In accordance with an intelligent view of the nature of the relation; or, as becomes those who have been instructed in the duties of this relation according to the gospel. The meaning evidently is, that they should seek to obtain just views of what Christianity enjoins in regard to this relation, and that they should allow those intelligent views to control them in all their contact with their wives.

Giving honor unto the wife - It was an important advance made in society when the Christian religion gave such a direction as this, for everywhere among the pagan, and under all false systems of religion, woman has been regarded as worthy of little honor or respect. She has been considered as a slave, or as a mere instrument to gratify the passions of man. It is one of the elementary doctrines of Christianity, however, that woman is to be treated with respect; and one of the first and most marked effects of religion on society is to elevate the wife to a condition in which she will be worthy of esteem. The particular reasons for the honor which husbands are directed to show to their wives, here specified, are two: she is to be treated with special kindness as being more feeble than man, and as having a claim therefore to delicate attention; and she is to be honored as the equal heir of the grace of life. Doddridge, Clarke, and some others, suppose that the word honor here refers to maintenance or support; and that the command is, that the husband is to provide for his wife so that she may not want. But it seems to me that the word is to be understood here in its more usual signification, and that it inculcates a higher duty than that of merely providing for the temporal needs of the wife, and strikes at a deeper evil than a mere neglect of meeting her temporal necessities. The reasons assigned for doing this seem to imply it.

As unto the weaker vessel - It is not uncommon in the Scriptures to compare the body to a vessel, (Compare the notes at 1Th 4:4), and thence the comparison is extended to the whole person. This is done either because the body is frail and feeble, like an earthen vessel easily broken; or because it is that in which the soul is lodged; or because, in accordance with a frequent use of the word, (see below,) the body is the instrument by which the soul accomplishes its purposes, or is the helper of the soul. Compare Act 9:15; Rom 9:22-23; 2Co 4:7. In the later Hebrew usage it was common to apply the term vessel (Hebrew כלי ke liy , Greek σκεύος skeuos ) to a wife, as is done here. See Schoettgen, Hor. Heb. p. 827. Expressions similar to this, in regard to the comparative feebleness of woman, occur frequently in the classic writers. See Wetstein in loc. The reasons why the term vessel was given to a wife, are not very apparent.

A not unfrequent sense of the word used here ( σκεύος skeuos ) in the Greek classics was that of an instrument; a helper; one who was employed by another to accomplish anything, or to aid him (Passow), and it seems probable that this was the reason why the term was given to the wife. Compare Gen 2:18. The reason here assigned for the honor that was to be shown to the wife is, that she is "the weaker vessel."By this it is not necessarily meant that she is of feebler capacity, or inferior mental endowments, but that she is more tender and delicate; more subject to infirmities and weaknesses; less capable of enduring fatigue and toil; less adapted to the rough and stormy scenes of life. As such, she should be regarded and treated with special kindness and attention. This is a reason, the force of which all can see and appreciate. So we feel toward a sister; so we feel toward a beloved child, if he is of feeble frame and delicate constitution; and so every man should feel in relation to his wife. She may have mental endowments equal to his own; she may have moral qualities in every way superior to his; but the God of nature has made her with a more delicate frame, a more fragile structure, and with a body subject to many infirmities to which the more hardy frame of man is a stranger.

And as being heirs together of the grace of life - The grace that is connected with eternal life; that is, as fellow-Christians. They were equal heirs of the everlasting inheritance, called in the Scripture "life;"and the same "grace"connected with that inheritance had been conferred on both. This passage contains a very important truth in regard to the female sex. Under every other system of religion but the Christian system, woman has been regarded as in every way inferior to man. Christianity teaches that, in respect to her higher interests, the interests of religion, she is every way his equal. She is entitled to all the hopes and promises which religion imparts. She is redeemed as he is. She is addressed in the same language of tender invitation. She has the same privileges and comforts which religion imparts here, and she will be elevated to the same rank and privileges in heaven. This single truth would raise the female sex everywhere from degradation, and check at once half the social evils of the race. Make her the equal of man in the hope of heaven, and at once she rises to her appropriate place. Home is made what it should be, a place of intelligence and pure friendship; and a world of suffering and sadness smiles under the benefactions of Christian woman.

That your prayers be not hindered - It is fairly implied here:

\caps1 (1) t\caps0 hat it was supposed there would be united or family prayer. The apostle is speaking of "dwelling with the wife,"and of the right manner of treating her; and it is plainly supposed that united prayer would be one thing that would characterise their living together. He does not direct that there should be prayer. He seems to take it for granted that there would be; and it may be remarked, that where there is true religion in right exercise, there is prayer as a matter of course. The head of a family does not ask whether he must establish family worship; he does it as one of the spontaneous fruits of religion - as a thing concerning which no formal command is necessary. Prayer in the family, as everywhere else, is a privilege; and the true question to be asked on the subject is not whether a man must, but whether he may pray.

\caps1 (2) i\caps0 t is implied that there might be such a way of living as effectually to hinder prayer; that is, to prevent its being offered aright, and to prevent any answer. This might occur in many ways. If the husband treated the wife unkindly; if he did not show her proper respect and affection; if there were bickerings, and jealousies, and contentions between them, there could be no hope that acceptable prayer would be offered. A spirit of strife; irritability and unevenness of temper; harsh looks and unkind words; a disposition easily to take offence, and an unwillingness to forgive, all these prevent a "return of prayers."Acceptable prayer never can be offered in the tempest of passion, and there can be no doubt that such prayer is often "hindered"by the inequalities of temper, and the bickerings and strifes that exist in families. Yet how desirable is it that husband and wife should so live together that their prayers may not be hindered! How desirable for their own peace and happiness in that relation; how desirable for the welfare of children! In view of the exposition in this verse we may remark:

(a) that Christianity has done much to elevate the female sex. It has taught that woman is an heir of the grace of life as well as man; that, while she is inferior in physical vigor, she is his equal in the most important respect; that she is a fellow-traveler with him to a higher world; and that in every way she is entitled to all the blessings which redemption confers, as much as he is. This single truth has done more than all other things combined to elevate the female sex, and is all that is needful to raise her from her degradation all over the world.

(b) They, therefore, who desire the elevation of the female sex, who see woman ignorant and degraded in the dark parts of the earth, should be the friends of all well-directed efforts to send the gospel to pagan lands. Every husband who has a pure and intelligent wife, and every father who has an accomplished daughter, and every brother who has a virtuous sister, should seek to spread the gospel abroad. To that gospel only he owes it that he has such a wife, daughter, sister; and that gospel, which has given to him such an intelligent female friend, would elevate woman everywhere to the same condition. The obligation which he owes to religion in this respect can be discharged in no better way than by aiding in diffusing that gospel which would make the wife, the daughter, the sister, everywhere what she is in his own dwelling.

© Especially is this the duty of the Christian female. She owes her elevation in society to Christianity, and what Christianity has made her, it would make the sunken and debased of her own sex all over the earth; and how can she better show her gratitude than by aiding in any and every way in making that same gospel known in the dark parts of the world?

(d) Christianity makes a happy home. Let the principles reign in any family which are here enjoined by the apostle, and that family will be one of intelligence, contentment, and peace. There is a simple and easy way of being happy in the family relation. It is to allow the spirit of Christ and his gospel to reign there. That done, though there be poverty, and disappointment, and sickness, and cares, and losses, yet there will be peace within, for there will be mutual love, and the cheerful hope of a brighter world. Where that is missing, no outward splendor, no costly furniture or viands, no gilded equipage, no long train of servants, no wine, or music, or dances, can secure happiness in a dwelling. With all these things there may be the most corroding passions; in the mansion where these things are, pale disease, disappointment, and death may come, and there shall be nothing to console and support.

Barnes: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Finally - As the last direction, or as general counsel in reference to your conduct in all the relations of life. The apostle had specified mos...

Finally - As the last direction, or as general counsel in reference to your conduct in all the relations of life. The apostle had specified most of the important relations which Christians sustain, 1Pe 2:13-25; 1Pe 3:1-7; and he now gives a general direction in regard to their conduct in all those relations.

Be ye all of one mind - See the notes at Rom 12:16. The word used here ( ὁμόφρων homophrōn ) does not elsewhere occur in the New Testament. It means, of the same mind; like-minded; and the object is to secure harmony in their views and feelings.

Having compassion one of another - "Sympathizing,"( συμπαθεῖς sumpatheis ;) entering into one another’ s feelings, and evincing a regard for each other’ s welfare. See the notes at Rom 12:15. Compare 1Co 12:26; Joh 11:35. The Greek word used here does occur not elsewhere in the New Testament. It describes that state of mind which exists when we enter into the feelings of others as if they were our own, as the different parts of the body are affected by that which affects one. See the notes at 1Co 12:26.

Love as brethren - Margin, "loving to the;"that is, the brethren. The Greek word ( φιλάδελφος philadelphos ) does not elsewhere occur in the New Testament. It means loving one’ s brethren; that is, loving each other as Christian brethren - Robinson, Lexicon. Thus, it enforces the duty so often enjoined in the New Testament, that of love to Christians as brethren of the same family. See the notes at Rom 12:10. Compare Heb 13:1; Joh 13:34.

Be pitiful - The word used here ( εὔσπλαγχνος eusplangchnos ) occurs nowhere else in the New Testament, except in Eph 4:32, where it is rendered "tender-hearted."See the notes at that verse.

Be courteous - This word also φιλόφρων (philophrōn ) occurs nowhere else in the New Testament. It means "friendly-minded, kind, courteous."Later editions of the New Testament, instead of this, read ( ταπεινόφρονες tapeinophrones ) of a lowly or humble mind. See Hahn. The sense is not materially varied. In the one word, the idea of "friendliness"is the one that prevails; in the other, that of "humility."Christianity requires both of these virtues, and either word enforces an important injunction. The authority is in favor of the latter reading; and though Christianity requires that we should be courteous and gentlemanly in our treatment of others, this text can hardly be relied on as a prooftext of that point.

Poole: 1Pe 3:1 - -- 1Pe 3:1-7 The apostle teacheth the duty of wives and husbands, 1Pe 3:8-13 exhorting all men to unity and love, and to return good for evil, 1Pe 3...

1Pe 3:1-7 The apostle teacheth the duty of wives and husbands,

1Pe 3:8-13 exhorting all men to unity and love, and to return good

for evil,

1Pe 3:14-18 to suffer boldly for righteousness’ sake, and to give

a reason of their hope with meekness and fear;

taking especial care to suffer, as Christ did, for

well-doing, and not for evil-doing.

1Pe 3:19,20 The preaching of Christ by his Spirit to the old world.

1Pe 3:21,22 After what manner Christian baptism saveth us.

To your own husbands this he adds both to mitigate the difficulty of the duty,

subjection in that they were their

own husbands to whom they were to be subject, and likewise to bound and circumscribe their obedience, that it was to be only to their own husbands, not to others; and so while he persuades them to subjection, he cautions them against unchastity.

That if any obey not the word the word of the gospel. He exhorts not only them that had believing husbands, but unbelieving ones, to be in subjection to them.

They also may without the word: not that they could be converted to Christ without the knowledge of the word, when faith cometh by hearing, Rom 10:17 , but that they who either would not endure their wives’ instructing them, or who had before rejected the word, yet, by seeing the effects and fruits of it in their wives, might be brought to have good thoughts of it, and thereby be the more prepared for the hearing of it, whereby faith might be wrought in them.

Be won or gained, viz. to Christ and his church: the same metaphor Paul useth, 1Co 9:19-21 Phi 3:8 .

Poole: 1Pe 3:2 - -- Chaste conversation free from all manner of impurities, and any thing contrary to the marriage covenant. Coupled with fear such a fear or reverence...

Chaste conversation free from all manner of impurities, and any thing contrary to the marriage covenant.

Coupled with fear such a fear or reverence of your husbands, whereby out of the fear of God, and conscience of his command, you give them all due respect, and do not willingly displease them. See Eph 5:1-33 ; subjection is required, Eph 5:22 , and fear, Eph 5:33 .

Poole: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Let it not be let it not be chiefly, or not so much the adorning of the outward man as the inward; the negative here is to be taken as a comparative,...

Let it not be let it not be chiefly, or not so much the adorning of the outward man as the inward; the negative here is to be taken as a comparative, as Exo 16:8 Luk 14:12 . The apostle doth not absolutely condemn all kind of ornaments, or rich attire, which we find used sometimes by the godly themselves in the Scripture, Gen 24:22,30 Es 5:1 ; compared with Psa 45:9,13 , where the spiritual ornaments of Christ’ s spouse are set forth by terms taken from the external ornaments of Solomon’ s wife; and Eze 16:12 , these things are spoken of as God’ s gifts. But he taxeth all vanity, levity, immoderate sumptuousness or luxury in apparel, and bodily ornaments in women, (or men), whatsoever is above their place and condition in the world, or above their estate and ability; such as proceeds from any lust, (pride, wantonness, &c.), or tends to the provoking or cherishing any, or is accompanied with the neglecting or slighting of inward beauty and spiritual ornaments.

Poole: 1Pe 3:4 - -- The hidden man of the heart the inward man, Rom 7:22 2Co 4:16 ; either the soul in opposition to the body, or the image of God, and graces of his Spi...

The hidden man of the heart the inward man, Rom 7:22 2Co 4:16 ; either the soul in opposition to the body, or the image of God, and graces of his Spirit in the soul, called elsewhere the new man, and opposed to natural corruption, or the old man, Eph 4:24 Col 3:9,10 .

In that which is not corruptible: this relates to what follows,

the ornament of a meek & c., and is opposed to those external ornaments before mentioned, which are of a fading, perishing nature, whereas this is constant and durable: and therefore women who are more apt to be overmuch pleased with external dresses, and bodily ornaments, are exhorted rather to enrich and beautify their souls with Divine graces, than their bodies with gaudy clothes.

Even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit: this notes the particular grace or graces (parts of the new man) in which the spiritual beauty and adorning of women’ s souls consists; and either these two words, meek and quiet, are but indifferent expressions of the same grace; or, by meekness may be meant gentleness, easiness and sweetness of spirit, in opposition to moroseness, frowardness, pride, passion, &c.; and by quietness, a peaceable, still, modest temper, in opposition to pragmaticalness, talkativeness, clamorousness. These two usually go in conjunction together, and the latter is the effect of the former: see 1Ti 2:9-12 .

Which: either this refers to spirit, or to the whole sentence, the ornament of a meek, & c., but the sense is still the same.

Is in the sight of God who can best judge, (as looking to the inner man, which is not obvious to the eyes of others), and whose judgment is most to be valued: here God’ s judgment is opposed to the judgment of vain women, who think to commend themselves to others by outward bravery, and of a vain world, which esteems such things.

Of great price: the excellency of grace and spiritual ornaments is set in opposition to gold and costly apparel: q.d. If women will be fine that they may appear beautiful, let them choose the best ornaments, those of the mind and heart, a meek and quiet spirit, which are precious in the sight of God himself, rather than these external ones, which serve only to draw men’ s eyes toward them.

Poole: 1Pe 3:5 - -- Holy women and therefore worthy of imitation. Who trusted in God whose only hope was in God, and therefore their care to please him. Adorned thems...

Holy women and therefore worthy of imitation.

Who trusted in God whose only hope was in God, and therefore their care to please him.

Adorned themselves viz. with a meek and quiet spirit, counting that the best ornament.

Poole: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Even as Sara after ger name was changed from Sarai, my lady, to Sarah, simply a lady or princess, because kings were to come of her, Gen 17:15,16 : y...

Even as Sara after ger name was changed from Sarai, my lady, to Sarah, simply a lady or princess, because kings were to come of her, Gen 17:15,16 : yet even then she obeyed Abraham; and this is spoken in commendation of her obedience.

Calling him lord not merely in compliment, but in reality, hereby acknowledging his authority and her own subjection.

Whose daughters ye are not only according to the flesh, but spiritually, according to the promise.

Ye are either ye are made or become, viz. by imitation of her faith and holiness, as well as ye are by kindred and succession; or, ye are declared and known to be, as the phrase is elsewhere used, Joh 15:8 .

As long as ye do well follow her in good works, 1Ti 2:10 .

And are not afraid with any amazement or, afraid of any amazement, any thing frightful, or which might terrify you, taking amazement for the object or cause or fear, as 1Pe 3:14 Psa 53:5 Pro 3:25 ; and the sense may be, either, so long as ye perform your duty with a resolute mind, and keep from that which is contrary to your faith; or, as long as you subject yourselves to your husbands willingly, cheerfuly, and without slavish fear of being losers by your obedience, and faring the worse for your patience and submission.

Poole: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Dwell with them perform all matrimonial duties to them; by a synecdoche, all the duties of that relation are contained under this one of cohabitation...

Dwell with them perform all matrimonial duties to them; by a synecdoche, all the duties of that relation are contained under this one of cohabitation.

According to knowledge either, according to that knowledge of the Divine will, which by the gospel ye have obtained; or, prudently and wisely, and as becomes those that understand their duty.

Giving honour unto the wife not despising them because of their weakness, or using them as slaves, but respecting them, caring for them, as Mat 15:6 1Ti 5:3using them gently, covering their infirmities.

As unto the weaker vessel weaker than the husbands, and that both in body and mind, as women usually are. In Scripture any instrument is called a vessel, and the wife is here called so, as being not only an ornament, but a help to the husband and family, Gen 2:18 . This he adds as a reason why the husband should give honour to the wife, viz. her being the weaker vessel; weak vessels must be gently handled; the infirmities of children bespeak their pardon when they offend; and those members of the body which we think less honourable, on them we bestow more abundant honour, 1Co 12:23 . It is a part of that prudence according to which men should dwell with their wives, to have the more regard to them because of their infirmities, (in bearing with them and hiding them), lest they should be discouraged, if they find their weakness makes them contemptible.

And as being heirs together: another reason why husbands should give honour to their wives, viz. because though by nature they are weak and unequal to their husbands, yet they are equal to them in respect of their being called to the same grace and glory, there being neither male nor female in Christ, Gal 3:28 .

Of the grace of life i.e. eternal life, which is the gift of grace; or, is to be given out of grace.

That your prayers be not hindered either, that ye be not diverted and hindered from praying; or, that the efficacy of your prayers be not hindered, viz. by those contentions and differences which are like to arise, if you do not dwell with your own wives according to knowledge, and give them the honour that belongs to them.

Poole: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Be ye all of one mind either, be of one mind in the things of faith, and then this implies the consent of the understanding, and the next, that of th...

Be ye all of one mind either, be of one mind in the things of faith, and then this implies the consent of the understanding, and the next, that of the affections; or, be united both in faith and affection: see Rom 12:16 2Co 13:11 Phi 4:2 .

Having compassion one of another: mutually affected with each other’ s good or evil, Rom 12:15 Heb 10:34 13:3 . This he joins with the other as the consequent of it; they that are united in faith and love are of the same body; and where one member suffers, the rest suffer, 1Co 12:26 .

Love as brethren viz. in Christ: see 1Pe 3:17 .

Be pitiful ready to show mercy, of a merciful disposition, Eph 4:32 Col 3:12 .

Be courteous kind, affable, humane, of a sweet conversation, in opposition to sourness and moroseness: the same word is used, Act 27:3 .

PBC: 1Pe 3:1 - -- 1Pe 3:1 Wives: Submissive Without Fear Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may with...

1Pe 3:1

Wives: Submissive Without Fear

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement. {1Pe 3:1-6}

When reading a book in the Bible, we should keep in mind that the chapter divisions were added over a thousand years after the New Testament letters were originally written. The books were compiled as flowing letters whose contents were inspired of God. As in a number of other contexts, the chapter break in this context breaks a flowing context. " Likewise" directly unites this lesson to Peter’s teaching at the end of chapter 2. {1Pe 2:1-25}

As servants are to respect their masters and submit to them, even so Peter directs wives to submit to their husbands. Wives, don’t worry. In the next lesson Peter uses another " likewise" toward husbands. The sexist schism of our culture has devastated the Biblical model of marriage. Sadly, many Christian teachers have given the sexists the rocks they hurl back at Christians by teaching one side of this truth while neglecting the other. They emphasize the wife’s obligation to submit, but they either ignore or contradict the husband’s equal obligation to submit to his wife. God did not inherently create woman inferior to man. He made her to fill in the weak spots in the man and to complete him. Thus the divinely assigned roles of man and woman are to be distinct, but mutually submissive and supportive. Husbands and wives in God’s model are to function as a cooperative team of two equals, not as a master and a slave.

In this lesson Peter explains the reason for this urgent requirement upon believing women. He presupposes a marriage in which the wife is a believer, but the husband is not. According to Peter, the wife’s life with her husband is to serve as a living, walking, talking Bible. She reads the Bible, but he doesn’t. However, her life before him is to model the godly teachings of Scripture. He may not attend church with her, or he may reluctantly attend but prefer to do other things. She reads the Bible; he doesn’t. She listens to the Biblical teaching; he looks out the window and wishes he were somewhere else.

Paul taught the Corinthian church that a marriage should be between a husband and wife in which both members of the union are believers, equal in this area as in others. {2Co 6:14-18; while the exhortation applies to more than marriage, we cannot exclude the marriage union from this passage, instruction that young people frequently ignore in choosing their friends and eventually their marriage partners.} Peter understands that all marriages will not occur in this model of faith. Either people will marry before they become believers, or they will ignore Paul’s teaching and marry outside their faith in Christ. Thus Peter instructs wives who find themselves in an " unequal" marriage; she is a believer, but her husband is not.

In our culture all too often wives in this situation ignore Peter’s instruction. Some women join the husband at the lower level of human conduct, effectively forsaking their faith. Then they wonder why they do not find joy and fulfillment in life. Other women will become bitter, submitting to the husband and forsaking their faith, but resenting him for pushing them into their neglect of faith. In either of these choices the wife forsakes Biblical instruction.

What does Peter teach a wife of an unbelieving husband to do? Maintain her faith and live so winsomely, so graciously, as to win him over time by her conduct. Become a walking, talking Bible before him. He may refuse to read the Bible, but the wife is to model the grace of God in her conduct so as to bear constant witness to her husband of God’s grace toward us. If God touches the husband’s heart, in time the gracious conduct of the wife will have such a powerful impact on him as to win him to the faith. " ... be won by the conversation of the wives." In this phrase conversation is a word that refers to the wife’s whole demeanor, not just her words.

" Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel."  Sometimes Christian teachers interpret this verse so as to forbid women from wearing contemporary hair styles, or jewelry. Peter’s dominant thought is not that these things are to be forbidden, but that they are not to be the dominant characteristic of the woman’s life. If he intended a literal prohibition against all these items, he also forbids the wearing of clothes. Obviously that point is not his intent. In no place in Scripture do we find people encouraged to practice nudism. The obvious point in the context is that a believing woman should make her godly life the mark of her relationship with her husband. She should not live so as to lead him to think that hair style, jewelry, and clothes are the most important issues of her life.

" Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement."

 Not only does the Bible hold Abraham forth as an example of godly faith, in this lesson, as in several others in the New Testament, Scripture holds Sarah forth equally as a model of godly faith for women. Heb 11:11 clearly identifies Sarah’s model faith in that she considered God faithful who promised to give her a son in her old age. She had already experienced menopause; yet she believed that God could reverse the whole process of her body’s state and give her a son according to his promise. That is model faith!

" ... as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement."

 How often we ignore nuances of Biblical teaching when it surprises us or appears in a setting that we do not readily grasp. Peter’s model for both husbands and wives requires godly conduct, regardless of the state of faith in the other partner. The overarching principle applies as instructively to men in an unequal marriage as to women. Perhaps with a man in this setting the issues to be avoided relate to career and to hobbies more than to hairstyles, jewelry, and dress. A man who neglects his family for career or for indulgent hobbies is no different from a woman who lives for her appearance. Pride and self-indulgence drive both in their faulty conduct.

Peter allows nothing to hinder any believer from the constant practice of godliness. Strong defines the Greek word translated as " do well" instructively. " 1 to do good, do something which profits others. 1a to be a good help to someone. 1b to do someone a favour. 1c to benefit. 2 to do well, do right. Additional Information: At Sparta, this was the name of the five oldest knights, who went on missions for the state." To " do something which profits others" captures Peter’s thought precisely. The godly wife who lives her faith wisely with her husband will demonstrate grace toward her husband by working conscientiously for his benefit.

" ... and are not afraid with any amazement."

 Afraid, what is Peter’s point here? How does this thought blend with the context? Peter has not left his contextual thought. A believing wife might feel quite vulnerable to practice Peter’s directions toward her husband with winsome boldness. As in the exhortation of the prior chapter, Jesus’ life is to serve as our example. Just as he refused to strike back against those who mistreated him, so we are to live according to his example. When faced with situations in which we might feel vulnerable, we are to commit our safe keeping to God. {1Pe 2:23}

If a believing wife gives up her faith because she fears losing her husband, she not only loses her faith; she also risks losing his respect towards her. He might view her as being generally weak and not willing to stand up for other things that she believes strongly. However, if she stands winsomely firm in her faith, consistently models her faith before her husband, and remains faithful, serving God without fearing her spouse, she more likely will gain his respect. She is to trust God more than fear her husband’s rejection. How delightfully God often blesses such faithful women with a wonderful surprise. With time, her faithful devotion to God and to her faith will win the husband to the faith. God works in his heart, and he honors his wife’s gracious faithfulness by joining her in the faith. We should never be afraid to be faithful to God.

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PBC: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Husbands: Submissive in the Grace of Life For too long in our Western culture Christian husbands have insisted on their wives wearing the submission ...

Husbands: Submissive in the Grace of Life

For too long in our Western culture Christian husbands have insisted on their wives wearing the submission shoe, while they politely ignored the matching shoe that Scripture puts on their foot.

"Likewise"

in this verse applies every principle of Peter’s exhortation to wives equally to husbands! Further Peter adds the exhortations that follow in the verse to the husband’s exhortation. In addition to every point made to the wife Peter directs godly husbands to show special grace and consideration to their wives.

When challenged with this idea, many Christian husbands will immediately go to Eph 5:1-33 and Paul’s command for wives to submit to their husbands. However, a careful study of this lesson will affirm the same reciprocal command from Paul to husbands. Once again in that context, as we see in Peter’s instructions here, Paul adds to the husbands’ duties. To love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her imposes an incredible challenge upon a godly husband. In no instance did Paul {in Eph 5:1-33 or elsewhere} tell husbands that their assignment included constantly reminding their wives to submit. Rather he directed them to show reciprocal submission, as well as to show that special sacrificial love that we see so perfectly modeled in our Lord’s death for his beloved bride, his people. In Peter’s lesson " likewise" applies to men all the rules Peter applied to women in the prior verses. Then he adds the special exhortations that follow in this verse. Christian men would enhance their marriages-and their Christian testimony to a skeptical world-by applying these teachings to their conduct toward their wives.

Rather than establishing the typical competitive spirit in the marriage, New Testament teachings establish a godly partnership between equals. God defines their roles differently, but not unequally.

We should distinguish pretense from reality in this area. I have talked with several godly men whom I deeply respect, along with their wives whom I equally respect. Both the husband and the wife defended the more traditional view of an unequal relationship within the marriage. However, without exception as I observe the actually dynamics of their marriage, I see far more true equality in fact than their words would suggest. Several years ago I heard of a situation in which both the husband and wife verbally defended the traditional role. However, a few minutes later in private conversation with other women the wife chuckled at her success in controlling her husband while leaving him to think he was in control. This wife’s thin façade of obedience to her concept of the Biblical role dishonored both her husband and herself. She wanted to leave the impression of submission, but she had no intention of actually obeying what she perceived God to require of her. One wife offered this quip. " I wholly agree that the husband is to be the head of the family, but the wife is the neck, and the neck can turn the head any way she wishes." These observations sadly reveal the fairly typical disunion in Christian marriages between fact and the words offered by both spouses. Some live closer to the Biblical model than their words suggest, but they seem compelled to give lip-service to the traditional model of an unequal relationship. Consider these Biblical ideas that affirm an equal, though divinely defined, relationship within a godly marriage:

1. Believers are urged to avoid " unequal" relationships with unbelievers, marriage included. {2Co 6:14-18} How can we miss the obvious point? A godly marriage is a union of equals, in this case a union of equal believers.

 2. Paul introduces the lesson in Eph 5:1-33 with a specific command for all believers to submit to each other in the fear of God. {Eph 5:21} In the verses that follow he clearly defines a leadership role for the husband, but not a superiority role.

 3. In our study lesson Peter distinctly defines the godly results of a mutually submissive, respectful marriage; "... heirs together [emphasis mine] of the grace of life, that your prayers be not hindered."

 4. Lastly, I suggest that the contemporary Christian male idea that a woman should not work outside the home should be exposed to the model of the virtuous woman in Pr 31:1-31. I strongly defend that the woman, particularly this virtuous model woman, will in fact make her family’s interest first in anything that she does, something that many career-driven men could also do to their family’s vast benefit. However, the virtuous woman of Pr 31:1-31 wisely bargains in the shopping center of the culture. She even investigates and purchases real estate! Her public conduct outside the home becomes the basis for her husband’s friends to praise both him and his wife. When we attempt to recreate a Biblical culture, we must face the consistent weight of all Scripture on our cultural model, not merely select the verses that appear to fit our preconceptions.

No doubt many readers will raise a question. Didn’t Peter describe the wife as the " weaker vessel" ?I offer that Peter was referring to the wife’s physical, not to her emotional, intellectual, or spiritual stature. This distinction forms part of the divinely imposed " job descriptions" for husbands and wives. God directs godly husbands to stand between their wives and physical harm. The hormonal distinctions between a man and a woman typically make the man more muscular than the woman. A godly husband will protect his wife from exposure to physical danger in any way he can. Here is an example. A little over a year ago Sandra and I were visiting our daughter, her husband, and our infant grandson. We had walked up the street to their mailbox to get the mail. It was a warm sunny day, so we decided to walk down the street past their home. Suddenly a dog barked and started running towards us, growling, hair standing on end. My first thought was for our grandson, but immediately I jumped in front of our group to put myself between them and the dog. I doubt that I could have prevented the dog from getting by me, but I hoped that he would engage me and spare them. Sandra also took measures to protect our little Noah. What I did was not calculated; it was instinctive. Gratefully the dog’s owner ran out quickly, controlled his dog, and apologized for our fright. I believe this simple experience illustrates Peter’s point regarding the husband-wife role and the husband’s obligation to protect his wife from exposure to physical harm. To interpret this phrase so as to diminish a woman’s intellectual, moral, or spiritual stature is to pour far more into the lesson than Peter intended. Frequently in our culture we see the wife standing tall as the moral leader of the family, much to the husband’s shame? Do we see the Biblical model of moral leadership in the hypocritical standard that many families allow with their children? Where is the Biblical provision that boys may follow a double standard while girls are to live faithfully on the high moral ground? Scripture clearly imposes exactly the same moral expectations on men and women alike. I believe the false double standard between boys and girls that we typically see in families, including Christian families, grows out of the false idea that God made the man somehow superior to the woman. If we fully embrace the divine equality that I here defend, I believe the hypocritical double standard between men and women would disappear.

According to Peter, a mutually respectful and submissive marital relationship will foster a healthy spiritual growth in both husbands and wives. Husbands and wives are " heirs together" of the grace of life. They do not compete for supremacy; rather they accept God’s defined roles with mutual submission, first to God, and then to each other. They strive to fulfill God’s model for their relationship. Rather than modeling the strife of life, they become a godly model for the " grace of life."

Peter caps the lesson with a preeminently spiritual tone, " ... that your prayers be not hindered." As surely as a husband and wife are playing mind games with each other or competing with each other-as with the wife who pretended to submit, but immediately reversed her tone when her husband left the room (or the more honest wife who claimed the role of neck)-their spiritual life, including their intimate prayers to God, will suffer. God makes no distinction in the prayers of a wife or a husband. Are we willing to submit to God and serve as equals? As Christian husbands and wives, will we model honest equality and reject traditional hypocrisy? To Him be the glory!

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PBC: 1Pe 3:8 - -- "Finally," this is not the end of Peter’s letter; what does he mean? We have studied a number of exhortations that all stand on the weight of Jesus...

"Finally,"

this is not the end of Peter’s letter; what does he mean? We have studied a number of exhortations that all stand on the weight of Jesus’ personal example. These two verses, and perhaps the Old Testament citation that follows, will conclude that series of exhortations. In fact it appears that the theme set by these two verses continues through verse 14. {1Pe 3:8-14} As Peter leads us through seasons of suffering with Christ, he never moves far away from our Lord, and the power of Jesus’ example for us in all things energizes and enables the activities set forth in this series of duties. {1Pe 2:18-3:14}

Be ye all of one mind.

We have all encountered that church member who lives his life on the edge of the church’s fellowship. " I want to be part of the church, but I’ll do so on my own terms, not someone else’s." One must wonder; has this person ever considered what Jesus intended by His command to deny self? I doubt it. " ... Of one mind" means that you think alike. You agree, not just in words and superficial interaction; you agree to the depth of your thoughts. Two strategies occasionally appear among church people, both of which avoid this exhortation. One is the independent attitude of the person who wants to be a member of the church on his terms. The other is the person who thinks he/she knows more about what is best for the church than anyone else in the group, so they try to manipulate others into agreeing with them. Whenever this person asks you about something, it is usually with a lead-in that nudges you, not with a true solicitation of your viewpoint. The man in the pulpit must perform his assignment with the heart of a servant; the people in the pew must practice their Christianity with the servant’s heart no less than the pastor. Agreement at the depth that Peter directs in this verse clashes intensely with our rebellious, self-centered, fallen inclinations. How refreshing it is when you see a believer who truly lives out his faith with a servant’s heart.

... having compassion one of another

The Greek word translated compassion means to "suffer with." The truly compassionate believer doesn’t monitor the activities of others in the church to have something to gossip to others about; he stands close to others so as to feel their heartbeat and to stand closely beside them during trials. Almost exactly a year ago I faced a major crisis in my personal health. One of the most difficult issues I faced was a pervasive sense of loneliness. I felt as if I were the only person who ever faced this problem. Shortly after coming home from the hospital, I found an internet forum of other men who survived prostate cancer. To read their experiences and to see in their struggles the exact experience I had just gone through became a great encouragement to me. They didn’t need to play Pollyanna and pretend that nothing was wrong. They didn’t need to tell me how much they felt for me. Their common experience spoke volumes that helped me to realize that I was indeed not alone in this ordeal, that other men had suffered the same disease, faced the same procedures to correct it, and lived to see another day, even lived to encourage others who faced the same disease. Often someone will speak this sentiment, " I want to help, to encourage others, but I simply don’t know what to say." You don’t have to say anything! The spirit of true sympathy (Perhaps in twenty first century language the word is empathy.), spoken from the heart, will communicate itself to others without a single word. During Queen Victoria’s reign, the story is told of one of her servant’s wife who lost an infant child. The queen directed her staff to arrange for her to pay a personal visit to this grieving mother. When the royal carriage arrived at the humble servant’s home, the queen directed that all her staff remain outside; she alone would go inside to visit the woman. She remained in the house for over an hour. After the queen left, a neighbor visited the mother and asked, " What did she talk about with you? What did she say?" The bereaved mother responded, " She didn’t say a word the whole time she was here. She simply held my hand, and we wept together." That, my friends, is the spirit of Peter’s exhortation.

... love as brethren

People in a local church are not brothers. They come from various walks of life, from different families, cultures, and traditions. If you set aside their common faith, they likely have less in common than the people with whom they work in their careers. However, the pervasive impact of this common faith urges us to take steps, to make a conscious and determined effort to live together and to love each other as brothers in the common faith. This brotherly love does not spontaneously occur. It grows out of a conscious decision to act in a certain way towards others. Have you made that decision? Have you taken calculated steps to live with your brothers and sisters in the church as part of a family?

... be pitiful

Over the centuries since the King James Bible was translated this word has evolved. Peter has not thought of urging his readers to act pathetically. The Greek word translated pitiful means to be tender hearted, full of compassion. We might easily criticize a brother or sister who doesn’t always walk according to our personal drumbeat. Rather than critiquing them, Peter urges us to show compassion to them.

... be courteous

Vine defines the Greek word translated courteous, " friendly thoughtfulness." It suggests that you remain " tuned into" those around you. You develop the habit of gently stepping into their life at just the right time, of having a knack of knowing what to say or do to encourage others. May their tribe increase!

... not rendering evil for evil

Peter confronts us with a dynamic choice. Will we practice the Golden Rule that Jesus taught in the Sermon on the Mount? Or will we practice the " Golden Rule" of man, " He who has the most gold rules" ?In our fallen, sinful world we should not expect that people will always treat us kindly. Sometimes we will face unexpected cruelty or thoughtlessness from others, even at times from other believers. How do you respond when someone treats you with thoughtless insensitivity? Whether people interact with us with harshness in deeds (evil) or in words (railing), Peter directs us back to our Lord’s personal example. {1Pe 2:23}

"called"

The Bible reserves the idea of calling for special occasions. We enjoy a " high calling" in our Lord Jesus Christ. The idea that we are pursuing something to which God has uniquely called us to do, and for which He has uniquely prepared us, dominates the New Testament concept of calling. Peter applies this term to God’s direction for our lives with others, particularly toward those who respond with insensitivity or cruelty toward us. To respond to harsh words with blessing instead of retaliation reflects our response to a divine calling.

... that ye might inherit a blessing

Peter stretches the fabric of our emotions. Will we respond to harsh words from others in the mirror image of their thoughtless cruelty? Or will we respond to them with Jesus’ example foremost in our minds?

As we survey Peter’s list of exhortations in these two verses, we must return to the power of our Lord’s example. {1Pe 2:21-23} Has anyone ever treated us with the incredible cruelty that our Lord suffered on our behalf? Nothing that we ever faced at the hands of thoughtless people can compare, even remotely, with the cruelty that He suffered without complaint. If we attempt to practice Peter’s teaching on the basis of our stubborn determination, and in our own power, we will fail miserably. If we live on the edge of our human emotions, we might think momentarily that we should respond according to Jesus’ example, but we will in fact fall into a retaliatory spirit of the hatefulness that the other person hurled upon us. Then we will struggle with self-loathing guilt that we failed to live up to our true calling in Christ.

There is something quite unique about God’s calling. Whenever He calls one of His own to perform a divine assignment, He always provides the empowerment to fulfill that calling. We readily grasp the idea as we think of it in terms of the ministry. We know that a man cannot preach the gospel apart from God’s empowerment. The man may stand in the pulpit, quote Scriptures precisely, and speak the right words for the occasion, but if God doesn’t empower the words, they fall fruitless to the ground. Apply the same simple principle to your divine calling to respond with kindness when treated with cruelty. God will provide the power you need to fulfill His example.

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Haydock: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Let wives, &c. In the first six verses he gives instructions to married women. 1. By their modest and submissive dispositions to endeavour to gain ...

Let wives, &c. In the first six verses he gives instructions to married women. 1. By their modest and submissive dispositions to endeavour to gain and convert their husbands, shewing them such a respect as Sara did, (whose daughters they ought to esteem themselves) who called Abraham her lord, or master; (Genesis xviii. 12.) 2. To be modest in their dress, without vanity; 3. That women take the greatest care of the hidden man, i.e. of the interior disposition of their heart, which he calls the incorruptibility of a quiet and a meek spirit; 4. Not fearing any trouble, when God's service or the duty to their husbands require it. (Witham)

Haydock: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Husbands, &c. His advice to husbands: 1. To carry themselves towards their wives with knowledge, prudence, and discretion; 2. Not in any imperious m...

Husbands, &c. His advice to husbands: 1. To carry themselves towards their wives with knowledge, prudence, and discretion; 2. Not in any imperious manner, but treating their wives with respect and honour, though a wife be the weaker vessel both in body and mind; 3. Considering themselves and their wives to be joint heirs with them of God's graces and favours, both in this world and the next; 4. That their prayers and duty to God be not hindered, neither by too great a fondness and compliance, nor by disagreements and dissensions. (Witham)

Haydock: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Be ye all of one mind. These instructions are not only for man and wife, but for every one, to whom in general these virtues are recommended. And e...

Be ye all of one mind. These instructions are not only for man and wife, but for every one, to whom in general these virtues are recommended. And every one's duty is comprised in these few words of Psalm xxxiii. "Turn away from evil, and do good....The eyes of the Lord are upon the just....But the countenance of the Lord is against them that do evil things," &c. Nothing can hurt you, and you need fear no menaces, no terrors, if with zeal you follow and adhere to what is good. (Witham)

Gill: 1Pe 3:1 - -- Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands,.... As well as subjects to princes, and servants to masters; though not with the same sort ...

Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands,.... As well as subjects to princes, and servants to masters; though not with the same sort of subjection, but what is suitable to the relation they stand in to their husbands; See Gill on Eph 5:22. See Gill on Col 3:18.

that if any obey not the word; any husband who is an unbeliever, has no love for the Gospel, and gives no credit to it, but despises, disbelieves, and rejects it, the word of truth, of faith, of righteousness, reconciliation, and salvation. The apostle, though he includes all wives, and exhorts them in general to subjection to their own husbands, yet has a particular regard to such as had unbelieving husbands, and who, on that account, were scrupulous of living with them, and of being in subjection to them; and therefore, as the Apostle Paul also did, he advises them to abide with them, and behave well to them, using much the same argument as he does in 1Co 7:10.

they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; for though the ordinary way and means of conversion is the word, faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word; yet it may be sometimes done without it; or however by the agreeable conversation of professors, and so of religious wives, the hearts of such as were averse to Christianity, and the Gospel, as unbelieving husbands, may be so softened, and wrought upon, as to entertain a better opinion of it, and in process of time be inclined to hear and attend it; the consequence of which may prove their conversion, which is a gaming, or winning of souls; and which, as it is for their good, is for the glory of Christ; for as every soul that is delivered from the power of darkness, and is translated into the kingdom of Christ, is a loss to Satan, it is a gain to Christ, and to his church. The Syriac version, instead of "without the word", reads, "without labour"; as if the winning of unbelieving husbands was easily obtained by the conversation of their wives.

Gill: 1Pe 3:2 - -- While they behold your chaste conversation,.... Cheerful subjection, strong affection, and inviolable attachment to them, and strict regard to the hon...

While they behold your chaste conversation,.... Cheerful subjection, strong affection, and inviolable attachment to them, and strict regard to the honour of the marriage state, and to the preserving of the bed undefiled with lusts and adulteries:

coupled with fear; with reverence of their husbands, giving them due honour, and showing all proper respect; or with the fear of God, which being before their eyes, and upon their hearts, engages them to such an agreeable conversation.

Gill: 1Pe 3:3 - -- Whose adorning, let it not be that outward adorning,.... Or that only and principally; let not that be solely or chiefly attended to, nor anxiously so...

Whose adorning, let it not be that outward adorning,.... Or that only and principally; let not that be solely or chiefly attended to, nor anxiously sought after, nor ever in order to allure and ensnare others, or to fill with pride and vanity; nor should it be indecent and luxurious, immodest and immoderate, and unsuitable to the age, character, and station of persons; otherwise clothing is both convenient and necessary; and a decent garb, neat and modest apparel, and what is suitable to the years, rank, and quality of persons, is very commendable: nor are we to suppose that the apostle forbids the use of what follows, but only when used in a luxurious and extravagant manner, and to feed pride and vanity, and encourage, lasciviousness and wantonness:

of plaiting the hair; folding it up in curls, tying it up in knots, and putting it into the form of horns and towers, made by their crisping pins, with their cauls and round tires, like the moon, as was the custom of those times, and still is. There were women among the Jews, whose business it was to plait women's hair; Mary Magdalene is thought to have her name from thence, and that to be her business. The Jews often speak of one Miriam or Mary, by whom they seem to mean the mother of our Lord, who, they say m was ayyvn reyv aldgmmgdla vyer nvyya , "a plaiter of women's hair"; see Gill on Mat 27:56.

And of wearing of gold; or "golden things"; golden ornaments, as bracelets, chains, and rings, or pieces of gold stuck in the plaitings and folds of the hair. The Jewish women used to wear a crown of gold on their head, in the form of the city of Jerusalem, called a golden city n; and which they wore, after its destruction, in memory of it; but with those they might not go out on a sabbath day. R. Akibah, it is said o, made a golden city for his wife, and the wife of Rabban Gamaliel envied her, for it seems this was reckoned a grand dress. Not that the sense is, that every thing of this kind is forbidden, but when used to excess and extravagance; otherwise the daughters of Abraham and Sarah were decked with ear rings, bracelets, and jewels of gold; see Gen 24:22.

or of putting on of apparel; that is "excellent", or precious, as the Syriac version adds; or "of great price", as the Ethiopic; that is beyond a person's ability or rank; the apostle means such apparel as is unbecoming and unsuitable, for he cannot be thought to forbid the putting on of any apparel; but his sense is, that women should not so much regard, and be so intent upon the outward adorning of their bodies, with any sort of clothing, and especially such as does not become them, as the inward adorning of their minds, next mentioned,

Gill: 1Pe 3:4 - -- But let it be the hidden man of the heart,.... By which is meant internal grace; which gives a beauty and ornament to the soul, far preferable to tha...

But let it be the hidden man of the heart,.... By which is meant internal grace; which gives a beauty and ornament to the soul, far preferable to that which plaiting of the hair, wearing of gold, or any costly apparel, can give to the body: and this is called a man, as it is elsewhere the new man, Eph 4:24 because it has that which answers to what is in man, to his soul, and the powers and faculties of it: this man, or new creature, has a new heart and Spirit; it has a will to that which is spiritually good, and an understanding of divine things, and affections for Christ, for his Gospel, ordinances, ways, and people, and for things above: it has what answers to all the five senses; there is in it a seeing of the Son of God in the glories of his person and the fulness of his grace, and of the invisible things of another world; an hearing of the word, of the voice of Christ, so as to understand it, and live, and to distinguish it from the voice of a stranger; a smelling a sweet savour in the things of God, and of his Spirit, and in the person, blood, righteousness, and sacrifice of Christ; a tasting that the Lord is gracious, his fruits pleasant, and his word sweeter than the honey, or the honeycomb; and a feeling of the burden of sin, an handling of the word of life, a laying hold on Christ, and retaining him: and it has what answers to the parts and members of the body; it has eyes to see with, ears to hear with, hands to receive from Christ, and work with, to his glory, and feet to walk with: it has, in short, all the parts of a man, though these are not yet grown up to perfection; and so that is not yet a perfect man, or arrived to the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ; but a man it is: and "a man of the heart"; it has its seat there; it is an inward principle in the soul; hence it is called the "inner" and "inward man"; and nothing outward is it, as external humiliation for sin, abstinence from it, reformation of life and manners, a profession of religion, and conformity to Gospel ordinances; but it is something inward, as appears from its names, both here and elsewhere; it is called spirit, seed, the root of the matter, and oil in the vessels; and from the seat and subject of it, the heart, the spirit, the understanding and will, the mind, conscience, and affections: and it is the "hidden man"; it is wisdom in the hidden part; it is hidden from the men of the world; they do not know what it is, nor what it means, nor how it is, or can be; the life of it is hidden from them, and the food it lives upon is hidden manna to them, and so are both its joys and sorrows: it is sometimes hidden from the saints themselves; when they walk in darkness, and see no light, they are at a loss to know whether this principle is in them or not; and it is hidden from other believers, till they give an account of it to them, when by comparing it with the word of God, and their own experience, they perceive it is the grace of God in them; and it is hidden from Satan, it is out of his reach, he cannot touch it; though he can touch the old man, and stir up the corruptions of it, yet he cannot touch the new man, that which is born of God, nor hurt or destroy it; but it is not hidden from God; he sees it where men cannot, being covered with a variety of infirmities and sins, and knows it is not where men sometimes think it is. The nature of this hidden man is further expressed by what follows,

in that which is not corruptible; it is opposed to corruptible things, as the outward adorning consists of, such as plaited hair, silver and gold, golden chains, rings, &c. and costly apparel; nor is it corrupt in itself; the old man is corrupt according to its deceitful lusts, but this new man, the hidden man of the heart, has no corruption in it, nor cleaving to it: it is the workmanship of God, and is created in righteousness and holiness; though it is as yet imperfect, there is nothing impure in it; nor can it ever perish, or be lost; it is an incorruptible seed, and will always remain when gold will perish, and the best of garments be moth eaten, and decay:

even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit; this is one, and a principal part of the inward adorning, or hidden man of the heart; and those that are possessed of such a spirit are not easily provoked to anger; patiently bear, and put up with injuries; carry themselves affably and courteously unto all; entertain the meanest thoughts of themselves, and the best of others; do not envy the gifts and graces of others, and are willing to be instructed and admonished by the meanest saint; quietly submit to the will of God, in all adverse dispensations of Providence; and ascribe all they have, and are, to the free grace of God, and reckon that when they have done all they can, they are but unprofitable servants. This grace of meekness, humility, and quietness, is a fruit of the Spirit, and so a part of the hidden man, and is what is very ornamental to a believer; it is his clothing, his inward adorning, and what makes him lovely in the sight of God, and of his people; see 1Pe 5:5 and it is very useful to him in hearing the word, in giving a reason of the hope that is in him, in restoring others, and in showing forth a good conversation; and particularly it greatly becomes, and exceedingly beautifies women professing godliness; who ought to bear much with their husbands, and be in silence, which is what the apostle has a principal regard unto: and to encourage the more to the exercise of it, adds,

which is in the sight of God of great price; which may refer to the whole adorning, to the hidden man of the heart, which is incorruptible, in opposition to the outward adorning, which may be esteemed by men, and be precious in their sight; and particularly to the ornament of meekness and quietness of spirit; for God has a great regard to the meek, humble, and quiet souls; he lifts them up, when cast down; he causes glad tidings to be preached to them; he increases their joy in the Lord; he feeds them, when hungry, to their satisfaction; he guides them in judgment, and teaches them his ways; he will rise up in judgment for them, and reprove with equity for their sake; he gives more grace unto them, and beautifies them with salvation, and will cause them to inherit the earth.

Gill: 1Pe 3:5 - -- For after this manner in the old time,.... In ages past, the years of many generations, since the time that God created man upon earth; in the times b...

For after this manner in the old time,.... In ages past, the years of many generations, since the time that God created man upon earth; in the times before the flood, and after it; in the times of the patriarchs, judges, kings, and prophets of Israel, under the Old Testament dispensation. The apostle exhorts and encourages to this inward dress and ornament, from the antiquity of it: for in this way, and after this fashion,

the holy women also: who were sanctified by the Spirit of God, and lived holy lives and conversations, such as Sarah, Rebekah, Rachel, Leah, Ruth, Hannah, and others:

who trusted in God; that he would send the Messiah, and make good all his promises, judging and believing him to be faithful to his word, and able to fulfil whatever he had promised, as Sarah, Heb 11:11. Such holy and believing women as these are worthy of imitation in their adorning and dress, and who, in the manner before described by the apostle, adorned themselves; or this was the adorning which they sought after, valued, and chiefly regarded; not what was external, but internal: and which lay in meekness and humility, and in a quiet deportment, and in

being in subjection unto their own husbands; according to their original make, and natural relation, and the laws of God, and of creation; which is more becoming and adorning than plaiting of hair, wearing of gold, or costly raiment, and recommends them more, both in the sight of God and men; nothing being a more indecent and uncomely sight than a woman not in subjection to her husband.

Gill: 1Pe 3:6 - -- Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham,.... Going along with him wherever he went, as from Chaldea to Canaan, and into Egypt, and the land of the Philistines, s...

Even as Sarah obeyed Abraham,.... Going along with him wherever he went, as from Chaldea to Canaan, and into Egypt, and the land of the Philistines, saying the words he put into her mouth, Gen 12:5 and doing the things he bid her do, Gen 18:6 "calling him lord"; or "my lord", as the Syriac and Ethiopic versions render it, and as it appears she did from Gen 18:12. The Jews use this instance to the same purpose the apostle does, saying p,

"the wife ought to take care of the family, to educate her children, to serve and minister to her husband in all things, "calling him her own lord"; which is what we learn from the example of Sarah, who called Abraham her lord, saying, "my lord is old".

Whose daughters ye are; meaning not by natural descent, though they were, these being Jews the apostle writes to, but by grace, and in a spiritual sense; just as those are the children of Abraham, who walk in the steps of his faith, whether they be Jews or Gentiles; so such are the daughters of Sarah, the children of the free woman, who imitate her in faith and obedience; that is, they appear, and are declared to be so:

as long as ye do well: do acts of beneficence and hospitality to strangers, and proper objects, as Sarah did, and all and every good work, according to the will of God, from love, and in faith, and with a view to his glory; and particularly obey and live in subjection to their husbands, as she did: and are not afraid with any amazement; are not deterred from doing well, nor scared by the terrors and menaces of wicked men, either their own husbands, or others; or who with fortitude and intrepidity of mind continue in the discharge of their duty to God and men, and particularly to their husbands, following them, and obeying their lawful commands, as Sarah did in Egypt, and in Gerar, though she exposed herself to great danger: this is said, because women are timorous, and apt to be frightened at everything, from the performance of their duty,

Gill: 1Pe 3:7 - -- Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them,.... "With your wives", as the Syriac and Ethiopic versions read; which not only included dwelling together in ...

Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them,.... "With your wives", as the Syriac and Ethiopic versions read; which not only included dwelling together in the same house, and bedding together in the same bed, but the whole of conjugal conversation, and all the offices and duties incumbent on men in a married state:

according to knowledge; of themselves, and their wives, and the duties belonging to the conjugal state, and the laws of God and man respecting it; and according to their knowledge of the Gospel, and the Christian dispensation, which no ways breaks in upon, but strengthens and encourages to the observance of things belonging to natural religion, and civil life; and according to that superior knowledge of things, which, generally speaking, men have to women; as also wisely, prudently, becoming their characters as men and Christians:

particularly giving honour to the wife; by speaking well of her, and respectfully to her, and by deeds as well as words; not only by clothing her in a decent and becoming manner, suitable to her station; but by providing everything honest and comely for her, food and raiment, a suitable maintenance, all the necessaries, conveniences, and delights of life, that are laudable and proper; in which sense the word honour is used in 1Ti 5:3 and this was agreeably to the doctrine of the Jews q, who say,

"let a man always take care בכבוד אשתו, "of the glory of his wife"; for there is no blessing found in a man's house, but for the sake of his wife, as it is said, Gen 12:16 "and he entreated Abraham well for her sake": and Rabba used to say to the citizens, אוקירו לנשייכו, "honour your wives", that ye may be rich.

And indeed this is what they promised in their marriage contract, which runs thus r:

"be thou unto me for a wife, according to the law of Moses and Israel, and I, by the word of heaven, or God, will worship, ואוקיר, "and honour", and nourish, and take care of thee, according to the custom of the Jews, who worship, and "honour", and nourish, and take care of their wives.

As unto the weaker vessel; so in 1Th 4:4 the wife is called a vessel; see Gill on 1Th 4:4, and here "the weaker"; being so for the most part, both as to strength of body, and endowments of mind; and therefore to be used gently and tenderly, and not be treated with neglect and contempt, or with inhumanity and severity; but as, in every state and condition, the strong are to bear the infirmities of the weak; so a man should bear with, and accommodate himself to the infirmities of his wife, and hide them as much as he can, and not expose them, nor despise her on account of them. It is a saying of the Jews s,

"if thy wife be short of stature, bow thyself, and whisper to her.

The meaning of the proverb is, that he ought to suit himself to her capacity and weakness:

and as being heirs together of the grace of life; not of a natural life, and the good things of it; though husbands and wives partake of the same kind of life, and have a right unto, and share in the same necessaries of life; so Adam and Eve were partakers of the same life, and sharers of the same benefits; and which is a reason indeed why they ought to live lovingly together: but something more is intended; not the external gifts of the Spirit, which, unless in some few instances, are bestowed on men, and not on women; nor the Gospel, and the ordinances of it, which are the means of grace and life; though men and women, called by grace, have an equal right to them, and enjoy them; see Gal 3:28 but grace here, and glory hereafter, are here meant. Some copies, as the Alexandrian, and others, read, "heirs together of the manifold grace of life"; God's own people, without any difference as to sex, as men and women, equally share in grace, as it signifies the love and favour of God; which is the same to all the objects, as to the date of it, which is from everlasting, one not being loved before another; and as to the quality of it, which is free, sovereign, special, discriminating and unchangeable, one being loved not with one sort of love, another with another; and as to the quantity of it, it not admitting of more or less; and as to the duration, which is for ever: and so they are heirs of it, as it denotes the blessings of grace; being equally heirs of, and sharers in electing, redeeming, justifying, pardoning, and adopting grace: and as it may intend the internal graces of the Spirit, as faith, hope, and love; which as to their principles are the same in all the saints, though different as to the degree of the exercise of them: and which may be called "the grace of life"; or "living grace", as some copies and the Complutensian edition read, and so the Arabic version, because by it men and women, who were dead in trespasses and sins, are quickened; and in distinction to counterfeit grace, which differs as much from true grace, as the picture of a man from a living man; and because it lives for ever, and never dies, and gives a meetness for eternal life, which it springs up to, issues in, and is inseparably connected with. Moreover, by it may be meant eternal life and salvation, of which the saints, without any difference as to sex, are heirs of: so some copies read, "heirs of manifold grace, and life"; by the former, meaning grace here, and by the latter, glory hereafter; which is a life of vision of God, and uninterrupted communion with him; of perfection and pleasure, and which will last for ever; and may be called

the grace of life, because it is the free gift of God's grace: and agreeably the Syriac version renders it, "the gift of eternal life"; and the Ethiopic version, glorious life: and this is represented as an inheritance, being what belongs only to the children; and which they have not by their own works, as an acquisition of theirs, but by the free grace of their heavenly Father, and as his gift and bequest unto them. Now all the saints, of whatever state, condition, or sex, are equally heirs of this inheritance; for there is but one inheritance, one kingdom, one crown of glory, which all shall enjoy; and whatever disparity there may be, particularly between husband and wife, in their natural relation, there is none in the things of grace, and with regard to the kingdom of glory; and which is an argument why husbands should dwell peaceably and comfortably with their wives, and give all due honour to them, since they are upon a par in spiritual things, there being neither male nor female in Christ Jesus, and because they are now joint heirs of, and shall equally share in eternal life and happiness,

That your prayers be not hindered: as they would be were they not to dwell together; or should not the husband give honour to his wife, and take care of her as he ought to do: hence would arise strifes and quarrels, when they could not cordially, and to edification, join together in prayer; nor would such prayers, put up in wrath, be acceptable unto God, who requires that men should lift up holy hands everywhere, whether in public, or in private, in God's house, or in their own houses, without wrath and doubting. From hence we may observe, that family prayer is a duty incumbent on professors of religion, and great care should be taken that it be not neglected and hindered,

Gill: 1Pe 3:8 - -- Finally, be ye all of one mind,.... Not that the apostle was about to conclude his epistle; but having finished his exhortations respecting the obedie...

Finally, be ye all of one mind,.... Not that the apostle was about to conclude his epistle; but having finished his exhortations respecting the obedience of subjects to magistrates, and of servants to their masters, and the duties incumbent on husbands and wives, he proceeds to sum up what he had further to say, in general rules; which regarded all sorts of Christians, magistrates and subjects, masters and servants, husbands and wives, parents and children, old and young, rich and poor, of whatsoever state, age, sex, or condition; and so the Arabic version renders it, "the sum of the commandment is"; and the Ethiopic version, "the sum of all is this"; namely, what follows; "be ye all of one mind"; whatever difference there might be in their natural and civil relation and character; and which is to be understood not of the sameness of affection to one another, or of an humble and condescending spirit, disposition, and carriage to each other, for these are expressed in some following exhortations; but of sameness of judgment with respect to the doctrines and ordinances of the Gospel, in which saints should be perfectly joined together in the same mind, and in the same judgment; for as the church is but one body, of which Christ is the head, there should be but one mind in it; even as there is but one Spirit of God, who convinces, enlightens, and leads into truth; and but one heart and way, given to fear the Lord; and there is but one hope of our calling, or to which we are called; and one way to it, and therefore ought to agree in everything respecting the way, the truth, and the life; though in things which do not, should bear with one another; and there is but one Lord, who gives the same laws and ordinances to one as to another, and which are to be kept alike by all; and there is but one faith, one doctrine of faith, which is uniform and all of a piece, and but one rule and standard of faith, the sacred Scriptures, and but one baptism, to be administered in the same way, and upon the same sort of subjects, and in the same name of the Father, Son, and Spirit; and but one God and Father of all; all belong to the same family, and therefore should preserve a unity of spirit and mind, and speak the same things; which is necessary to carry on the worship of God, honourably and regularly, to the glorifying of him, and for the peace, comfort, and safety of the churches of Christ:

having compassion one of another; or sympathizing with each other, both in prosperity and adversity, whether in temporal or spiritual things; rejoicing with them that rejoice in Christ, make their boast of him, and have communion with him, and who are also blessed with health of body, and a competency of the good things of this life; and weeping with them that weep for the loss of goods, relations, &c. and being in bonds and afflictions; or because of sin, the absence of Christ, and the temptations of Satan; and being concerned also for such who are fallen into immorality, or error, and heresy; endeavouring to restore them out of the one or the other, in a spirit of meekness and tenderness: to all which they should be engaged by the example of Christ, the sympathizing high priest; by the consideration of the divine compassion to them, both in a providential way, and in a way of grace; and on account of their union and relation to each other, as members of the same body:

love as brethren; not in a natural and civil, but in a spiritual relation, being children of God, and brethren of Christ, and in a Gospel church state; and whose love to each other ought to be universal, fervent, without dissimulation, and as Christ has loved them; and which should show itself in praying for each other, in bearing one another's burdens, in forgiving each other, in admonishing in love, and building up one another on their most holy faith, and communicating to each other both in temporals and spirituals: and of a very excellent nature is it; it is the bond of perfectness, and evidence of regeneration; the glory and ornament of a profession, and without which it is nothing; and what renders the communion of the saints with each other pleasant and profitable, comfortable to themselves, and honourable in the eyes of others; and to which they should be induced from the consideration of the love of God and Christ unto them, and from their relation to each other, as brethren:

be pitiful; to those that are in distress; put on bowels of mercy, and relieve and succour them, distributing cheerfully to their necessities:

be courteous; gentle and affable, carrying it friendly to one another, seeking those things which may be most agreeable to each other, shunning all moroseness, stiffness, and incivility. The Vulgate Latin version renders it by two words, "modest, humble": not proud, haughty, and overbearing, but condescending to each other, and to men of low estates; and so the Syriac version renders it, "kind and meek".

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: 1Pe 3:1 Grk “by the wives’ behavior.”

NET Notes: 1Pe 3:2 Grk “behavior,” the same word translated “the way you live” in vs. 1.

NET Notes: 1Pe 3:3 The word “jewelry” is not in the Greek text, but has been supplied to indicate that gold ornaments or jewelry is intended; otherwise the r...

NET Notes: 1Pe 3:4 Grk “the hidden man.” KJV’s “the hidden man of the heart,” referring to a wife, could be seriously misunderstood by the ...

NET Notes: 1Pe 3:6 Grk “doing good and not fearing any intimidation.”

NET Notes: 1Pe 3:7 Grk “so that your prayers may not be hindered.” Because of the length and complexity of the Greek, this clause was translated as a separat...

NET Notes: 1Pe 3:8 There is no main verb in this verse (Grk “Finally, all [ ] harmonious”), but it continues the sense of command from the previous paragraph...

Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:1 Likewise, ( 1 ) ye wives, [be] in subjection to your own husbands; ( 2 ) that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the ...

Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:3 ( 3 ) Whose adorning let it not be that outward [adorning] of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; ( 3 ) He condem...

Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:4 But [let it be] the ( a ) hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, [even the ornament] of a meek and quiet spirit, which is ( b ) in...

Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:5 ( 4 ) For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: ...

Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:6 Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are ( 5 ) not afraid with any amazement. ( 5 ) Beca...

Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:7 ( 6 ) Likewise, ye husbands, ( c ) dwell with [them] according to ( d ) knowledge, ( 7 ) giving ( e ) honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker ( f ) v...

Geneva Bible: 1Pe 3:8 ( 10 ) Finally, [be ye] all of one mind, having compassion one of another, love as brethren, [be] pitiful, [be] courteous: ( 10 ) He turns to common ...

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Commentary -- Verse Range Notes

TSK Synopsis: 1Pe 3:1-22 - --1 He teaches the duty of wives and husbands to each other;8 exhorting all men to unity and love;14 and to suffer persecution.19 He declares also the b...

MHCC: 1Pe 3:1-7 - --The wife must discharge her duty to her own husband, though he obey not the word. We daily see how narrowly evil men watch the ways and lives of profe...

MHCC: 1Pe 3:8-13 - --Though Christians cannot always be exactly of the same mind, yet they should have compassion one of another, and love as brethren. If any man desires ...

Matthew Henry: 1Pe 3:1-7 - -- The apostle having treated of the duties of subjects to their sovereigns, and of servants to their masters, proceeds to explain the duty of husbands...

Matthew Henry: 1Pe 3:8-15 - -- The apostle here passes from special to more general exhortations. I. He teaches us how Christians and friends should treat one another. He advises ...

Barclay: 1Pe 3:1-2 - --Peter turns to the domestic problems which Christianity inevitably produced. It was inevitable that one marriage partner might be won for Christ, wh...

Barclay: 1Pe 3:3-6 - --Bengel speaks of "the labour bestowed on dress which consumes much time." Such labour is no modern thing. We have already seen that in the ancient ...

Barclay: 1Pe 3:7 - --Short as this passage is, it has in it much of the very essence of the Christian ethic. That ethic is what may be called a reciprocal ethic. It nev...

Barclay: 1Pe 3:8-12 - --Peter, as it were, gathers together the great qualities of the Christian life. (i) Right in the forefront he sets Christian unity. It is worth whil...

Barclay: 1Pe 3:8-12 - --(ii) Second, Peter sets sympathy. Here again the whole New Testament urges this duty upon us. We are to rejoice with those who rejoice and to weep ...

Constable: 1Pe 2:11--4:12 - --III. The responsibilities of the christian individually 2:11--4:11 Since Christians have a particular vocation i...

Constable: 1Pe 2:13--3:13 - --B. Respect for Others 2:13-3:12 This section of the letter clarifies what it means to function obedientl...

Constable: 1Pe 3:1-6 - --3. Wives' respect for their husbands 3:1-6 Having explained before how Christians should conduct themselves in the world, Peter next gave directions a...

Constable: 1Pe 3:7 - --4. Husbands' respect for their wives 3:7 Why did Peter write more about the conduct of women (vv...

Constable: 1Pe 3:8-12 - --5. The importance of loving enemies 3:8-12 Peter concluded this section of instructions concerning respect for others with a discussion of the importa...

College: 1Pe 3:1-22 - --1 PETER 3 D. WIVES, SUBMIT TO YOUR HUSBANDS (3:1-6) 1 Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe t...

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Commentary -- Other

Evidence: 1Pe 3:1 Do not preach to loved ones, or express frustration or anger because they don’t believe. Win them with your works rather than your words. Buy them g...

Evidence: 1Pe 3:8 Witnessing tips. “When you approach a careless individual, be sure to treat him kindly. Let him see that you are talking with him, not because you ...

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Introduction / Outline

Robertson: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) THE FIRST EPISTLE GENERAL OF PETER ABOUT a.d. 65 By Way of Introduction The Author The Epistle is not anonymous, but claims to be written by "...

JFB: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) ITS GENUINENESS is attested by 2Pe 3:1. On the authority of Second Peter, see the Introduction. Also by POLYCARP (in EUSEBIUS [Ecclesiastical History,...

JFB: 1 Peter (Outline) ADDRESS TO THE ELECTED OF THE GODHEAD: THANKSGIVING FOR THE LIVING HOPE TO WHICH WE ARE BEGOTTEN, PRODUCING JOY AMIDST SUFFERINGS: THIS SALVATION AN ...

TSK: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) As the design of this Epistle is excellent, remarks Dr. Macknight, so is its execution, in the judgment of the best critics, does not fall short of it...

TSK: 1 Peter 3 (Chapter Introduction) Overview 1Pe 3:1, He teaches the duty of wives and husbands to each other; 1Pe 3:8, exhorting all men to unity and love; 1Pe 3:14, and to suffer p...

Poole: 1 Peter 3 (Chapter Introduction) PETER CHAPTER 3

MHCC: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) The same great doctrines, as in St. Paul's epistles, are here applied to same practical purposes. And this epistle is remarkable for the sweetness, ge...

MHCC: 1 Peter 3 (Chapter Introduction) (1Pe 3:1-7) The duties of wives and husbands. (1Pe 3:8-13) Christians exhorted to agree. (1Pe 3:14-22) And encouraged to patience under persecutions...

Matthew Henry: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The First Epistle General of Peter Two epistles we have enrolled in the sacred canon of the scripture w...

Matthew Henry: 1 Peter 3 (Chapter Introduction) Wherein the apostle describes the duties of husbands and wives one to another, beginning with the duty of the wife (1Pe 3:1-7). He exhorts Christia...

Barclay: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO THE FIRST LETTER OF PETER The Catholic Or General Epistles First Peter belongs to that group of New Testament letters which are k...

Barclay: 1 Peter 3 (Chapter Introduction) The Silent Preaching Of A Lovely Life (1Pe_3:1-2) The True Adornment (1Pe_3:3-6) The Husband's Obligation (1Pe_3:7) (1) The Marks Of The Christian...

Constable: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) Introduction Historical background This epistle claims that the Apostle Peter wrote it...

Constable: 1 Peter (Outline) Outline I. Introduction 1:1-2 II. The identity of Christians 1:3-2:10 A....

Constable: 1 Peter 1 Peter Bibliography Bailey, Mark L., and Thomas L. Constable. The New Testament Explorer. Nashville: Word Publ...

Haydock: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) THE FIRST EPISTLE OF ST. PETER, THE APOSTLE. INTRODUCTION. This first Epistle of St. Peter, though brief, contains much doctrine concerning fa...

Gill: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 PETER That Simon, called Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, was the writer of this epistle, is not questioned by any; nor was the...

Gill: 1 Peter 3 (Chapter Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 PETER 3 In this chapter the apostle instructs wives how to behave towards their husbands, and husbands how to behave towards thei...

College: 1 Peter (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION This commentary is written for the general reader with a serious interest in Scripture. Its purpose is to provide a historical interpret...

College: 1 Peter (Outline) OUTLINE I. THE GREETING - 1:1-2 II. A CALL TO BE HOLY - 1:3-2:10 A. The Hope of Salvation - 1:3-9 B. The Glory of This Salvation - 1:10-1...

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