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Text -- 1 Timothy 3:4 (NET)

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3:4 He must manage his own household well and keep his children in control without losing his dignity.
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Dictionary Themes and Topics: SPIRITUAL GIFTS | Parents | Minister | GRAVITY | Family | Commandments | Church | Children | Bishop | more
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Robertson , Vincent , Wesley , JFB , Clarke , Calvin , TSK

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Barnes , Poole , PBC , Haydock , Gill

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TSK Synopsis , MHCC , Matthew Henry , Barclay , Constable , College

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Robertson: 1Ti 3:4 - -- Ruling ( proistamenon ). Present middle participle of proistēmi , old word to place before and (intransitive as here) to stand before. See note on ...

Ruling ( proistamenon ).

Present middle participle of proistēmi , old word to place before and (intransitive as here) to stand before. See note on 1Th 5:12; Rom 12:8.

Robertson: 1Ti 3:4 - -- In subjection ( en hupotagēi ). See 1Ti 3:11.

In subjection ( en hupotagēi ).

See 1Ti 3:11.

Vincent: 1Ti 3:4 - -- That ruleth ( προΐστάμενον ) Mostly in the Pastorals, but also in Rom 12:8; 1Th 5:12. The participle means placed in front ....

That ruleth ( προΐστάμενον )

Mostly in the Pastorals, but also in Rom 12:8; 1Th 5:12. The participle means placed in front . Here in a general sense, but in 1Th 1:5 of church authorities, but only functionally, not as a title of specially appointed officers. It is characteristic of the loose and unsettled ecclesiastical nomenclature of the apostolic age.

Vincent: 1Ti 3:4 - -- Having in subjection ( ἔχοντα ἐν ὑποταγῇ ) The phrase is unique in N.T. Ὑποταγή subjection is a Pauline...

Having in subjection ( ἔχοντα ἐν ὑποταγῇ )

The phrase is unique in N.T. Ὑποταγή subjection is a Pauline word: see 2Co 9:13; Gal 2:5. o lxx.

Wesley: 1Ti 3:4 - -- For levity undermines all domestic authority; and this direction, by a parity of reason, belongs to all parents.

For levity undermines all domestic authority; and this direction, by a parity of reason, belongs to all parents.

JFB: 1Ti 3:4 - -- Greek, "presiding over."

Greek, "presiding over."

JFB: 1Ti 3:4 - -- Children and servants, as contrasted with "the church" (house) of God (1Ti 3:5, 1Ti 3:15) which he may be called on to preside over.

Children and servants, as contrasted with "the church" (house) of God (1Ti 3:5, 1Ti 3:15) which he may be called on to preside over.

JFB: 1Ti 3:4 - -- Rather as Greek, "having children (who are) in subjection" (Tit 1:6).

Rather as Greek, "having children (who are) in subjection" (Tit 1:6).

JFB: 1Ti 3:4 - -- Propriety: reverent modesty on the part of the children [ALFORD]. The fact that he has children who are in subjection to him in all gravity, is the re...

Propriety: reverent modesty on the part of the children [ALFORD]. The fact that he has children who are in subjection to him in all gravity, is the recommendation in his favor as one likely to rule well the Church.

Clarke: 1Ti 3:4 - -- The fourteenth qualification of a Christian bishop is, that he ruleth well his own house; του ιδιου οικου καλως προΐσταμ...

The fourteenth qualification of a Christian bishop is, that he ruleth well his own house; του ιδιου οικου καλως προΐσταμενον, one who properly presides over and governs his own family. One who has the command, of his own house, not by sternness, severity, and tyranny, but with all gravity; governing his household by rule, every one knowing his own place, and each doing his own work, and each work having the proper time assigned for its beginning and end. This is a maxim of common sense; no family can be prosperous that is not under subjection, and no person can govern a family but the head of it, the husband, who is, both by nature and the appointment of God, the head or governor of his own house. See the note on Eph 5:22.

Calvin: 1Ti 3:4 - -- 4.Who ruleth well his own house Hence it is evident, that Paul does not demand that a bishop shall be unacquainted within human life, 59 but that he ...

4.Who ruleth well his own house Hence it is evident, that Paul does not demand that a bishop shall be unacquainted within human life, 59 but that he shall be a good and praiseworthy master of a household; for, whatever may be the admiration commonly entertained for celibacy and a philosophical life altogether removed from ordinary custom, yet wise and thoughtful men are convinced by experience, that they who are not ignorant of ordinary life, but are practiced in the duties of human intercourse, are better trained and adapted for governing the Church. And, therefore, we ought to observe the reason which is added, (1Ti 3:5,) that he who does not know how to rule his family, Will not be qualified for governing the Church. Now, this is the case with very many persons, and indeed with almost all who have been drawn out of an idle and solitary life, 60 as out of dens and caverns; for they are a sort of savages and destitute of humanity.

Who hath his children in subjection with, all reverence The apostle does not recommend a clever man, and deeply skilled in domestic matters, but one who has learned to govern a family by wholesome discipline. He speaks chiefly of children, who may be expected to possess the natural disposition of their father; and therefore it will be a great disgrace to a bishop, if he has children who lead a wicked and scandalous life. As to wives, he will speak of them afterwards; but at present, as I have said, he glances at the most important part of a house.

In the Epistle to Titus, (Tit 1:6,) he shows what is here meant by the word reverence; for, after having said that the children of a bishop must not be unruly and disobedient, he likewise adds,

“nor liable to the reproach of profligacy or of intemperance.”

He therefore means, in a word, that their morals shall be regulated by all chastity, modesty, and gravity.

TSK: 1Ti 3:4 - -- ruleth : 1Ti 3:12; Gen 18:19; Jos 24:15; Psa 101:2-8; Act 10:2; Tit 1:6 with : Phi 4:8 *Gr: Tit 2:2, Tit 2:7

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Barnes: 1Ti 3:4 - -- One that ruleth well his own house - This implies that a minister of the gospel would be, and ought to be, a married man. It is everywhere in t...

One that ruleth well his own house - This implies that a minister of the gospel would be, and ought to be, a married man. It is everywhere in the New Testament supposed that he would be a man who could be an example in all the relations of life. The position which he occupies in the church has a strong resemblance to the relation which a father sustains to his household; and a qualification to govern a family well, would be an evidence of a qualification to preside properly in the church. It is probable that, in the early Christian church, ministers were not unfrequently taken from those of mature life, and who were, at the time, at the head of families; and, of course, such would be men who had had an opportunity of showing that they had this qualification for the office. Though, however, this cannot be insisted on now as a "previous"qualification for the office, yet it is still true that, if he has a family, it is a necessary qualification, and that a man in the ministry "should be"one who governs his own house well. A want of this will always be a hindrance to extensive usefulness.

Having his children in subjection with all gravity - This does not mean that his "children"should evince gravity, whatever may be true on that point; but it refers "to the father."He should be a grave or serious man in his family; a man free from levity of character, and from frivolity and fickleness, in his conversation with his children. It does not mean that he should be severe, stern, morose - which are traits that are often mistaken for gravity, and which are as inconsistent with the proper spirit of a father as frivolity of manner - but that he should be a serious and sober-minded man. He should maintain proper "dignity"( σεμνότης semnotēs ); he should maintain self-respect, and his deportment should be such as to inspire others with respect for him.

Poole: 1Ti 3:4 - -- One that ruleth well his own house if he he one to whom God hath given a family, one who hath given an experiment of his conversation and ability to ...

One that ruleth well his own house if he he one to whom God hath given a family, one who hath given an experiment of his conversation and ability to take care of a church, by the care that he hath taken of his family, and his ruling in that lesser society.

Having his children in subjection with all gravity one that hath not let his children behave themselves rudely, and indecently, and rebelliously, but kept them in order by a grave demeanour towards them.

PBC: 1Ti 3:4 - -- ruleth well his own house - He rules his own house (home) well. Here Paul makes a pertinent point. Watch this man in his home with family members, bot...

ruleth well his own house - He rules his own house (home) well. Here Paul makes a pertinent point. Watch this man in his home with family members, both wife and children. If you observe his interaction with them, you can predict how he will function in a leadership role in the church. If you don’t approve of his role in his family, beware ordaining him. He will function much the same way in his church position.  41

Haydock: 1Ti 3:4 - -- Ruleth well his own house, &c. Before he is set over the Church, let him have given proofs of his talents for governing within his own house, by the...

Ruleth well his own house, &c. Before he is set over the Church, let him have given proofs of his talents for governing within his own house, by the regularity he has made all his dependants observe. In the infancy of the Church, it was frequently necessary to ordain the most regular fathers of families bishops, for want of others of a sufficient age who had observed perpetual continency. ---

With all chastity. The Greek implies, grave, sober, temperate; but as this seems to answer what is said Titus i. 6. it seems to be properly understood of chastity. (Witham)

Gill: 1Ti 3:4 - -- One that ruleth well his own house,.... His family, wife, children, and servants; and is not to be understood of his body, and of keeping of that unde...

One that ruleth well his own house,.... His family, wife, children, and servants; and is not to be understood of his body, and of keeping of that under, and of preserving it chaste and temperate, as appears from what follows:

having his children in subjection with all gravity; keeping a good decorum in his family; obliging his children to observe his orders, and especially the rules of God's word; and not as Eli, who did not use his authority, or lay his commands upon his sons, nor restrain them from evil, or severely reprove them for their sins, but neglected them, and was too mild and gentle with them;

1Sa 2:23 3:13 but like Abraham, who not only taught, but commanded his children and his household, to keep the way of the Lord; Gen 18:19 and so should those act who are in such an office as is here treated of; and should not only rule well in their families, preside over them, go before them, and set an example to them, and keep their children in obedience and subjection; but this should be "with all gravity": not only in the master of the family, but in the children; who as their father is, or should be, should be brought up in, and used to gravity in words and in dress; and in the whole of their deportment and conversation. This may he observed against the Papists, who forbid marriage to the ministers of the Gospel.

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: 1Ti 3:4 Grk “having children in submission with all dignity.” The last phrase, “keep his children in control without losing his dignity,R...

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Commentary -- Verse Range Notes

TSK Synopsis: 1Ti 3:1-16 - --1 How bishops and deacons, and their wives should be qualified;14 and to what end Saint Paul wrote to Timothy of these things.15 Of the church, and th...

MHCC: 1Ti 3:1-7 - --If a man desired the pastoral office, and from love to Christ, and the souls of men, was ready to deny himself, and undergo hardships by devoting hims...

Matthew Henry: 1Ti 3:1-7 - -- The two epistles to Timothy, and that to Titus, contain a scripture-plan of church-government, or a direction to ministers. Timothy, we suppose, was...

Barclay: 1Ti 3:1-7 - --This is a very important passage from the point of view of Church government. It deals with the man whom the King James and Revised Standard Versions...

Barclay: 1Ti 3:1-7 - --This passage is further interesting in that it tells us something of the appointment and the duties of the leaders of the Church. (i) They were formal...

Barclay: 1Ti 3:1-7 - --We have just seen that the Christian leader must be a man who has won the respect of all. In this passage there is a great series of words and phrase...

Barclay: 1Ti 3:1-7 - --The Christian leader must be sober (nephalios, 3524) and he must not over-indulge in wine, (paroinos, 3943). In the ancient world wine was continu...

Barclay: 1Ti 3:1-7 - --The Christian leader must be hospitable (philoxenos, 5382). This is a quality on which the New Testament lays much stress. Paul bids the Roman Chur...

Constable: 1Ti 2:1--4:6 - --III. INSTRUCTIONS CONCERNING THE LIFE OF THE LOCAL CHURCH 2:1--4:5 Paul moved on from instructions aimed primari...

Constable: 1Ti 3:1-16 - --C. The qualifications for church leaders 3:1-16 Paul proceeded from his instructions concerning worship ...

Constable: 1Ti 3:1-7 - --1. Qualifications for elders 3:1-7 The Ephesian church already had elders long before Paul wrote this letter (Acts 20:17-35). "If our identification o...

College: 1Ti 3:1-16 - --1 TIMOTHY 3 IV. DIRECTION FOR CHURCH LEADERS (3:1-16) A. QUALIFICATIONS OF OVERSEERS (3:1-7) 1 Here is a trustworthy saying: If anyone sets his hea...

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Introduction / Outline

Robertson: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) First Timothy Probably a.d. 65 From Macedonia By Way of Introduction Assuming the Pauline authorship the facts shape up after this fashion. Pau...

JFB: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) GENUINENESS.--The ancient Church never doubted of their being canonical and written by Paul. They are in the Peschito Syriac version of the second cen...

JFB: 1 Timothy (Outline) ADDRESS: PAUL'S DESIGN IN HAVING LEFT TIMOTHY AT EPHESUS, NAMELY, TO CHECK FALSE TEACHERS; TRUE USE OF THE LAW; HARMONIZING WITH THE GOSPEL; GOD'S GR...

TSK: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) This Epistle bears the impress of its genuineness and authenticity, which are corroborated by the most decisive external evidence; and its Divine insp...

TSK: 1 Timothy 3 (Chapter Introduction) Overview 1Ti 3:1, How bishops and deacons, and their wives should be qualified; 1Ti 3:14, and to what end Saint Paul wrote to Timothy of these thi...

Poole: 1 Timothy 3 (Chapter Introduction) TIMOTHY CHAPTER 3

MHCC: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) The design of the epistle appears to be, that Timothy having been left at Ephesus, St. Paul wrote to instruct him in the choice of proper officers in ...

MHCC: 1 Timothy 3 (Chapter Introduction) (1Ti 3:1-7) The qualifications and behaviour of gospel bishops. (1Ti 3:8-13) And of deacons and their wives. (1Ti 3:14-16) The reason of writing abo...

Matthew Henry: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The First Epistle of St. Paul to Timothy Hitherto Paul's epistles were directed to churches; now follow...

Matthew Henry: 1 Timothy 3 (Chapter Introduction) In this chapter our apostle treats of church-officers. He specifies, I. The qualifications of a person to be admitted to the office of a bishop (1...

Barclay: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) A GENERAL INTRODUCTION TO THE LETTERS OF PAUL The Letters Of Paul There is no more interesting body of documents in the New Testament than the letter...

Barclay: 1 Timothy 3 (Chapter Introduction) The Leaders Of The Church (1Ti_3:1-7) The Appointment And Duties Of The Leaders In The Church (1Ti_3:1-7 Continued) The Character Of The Christian...

Constable: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) Introduction Historical background Timothy apparently became a Christian as a result o...

Constable: 1 Timothy (Outline) Outline I. Salutation 1:1-2 II. Timothy's mission in Ephesus 1:3-20 A. T...

Constable: 1 Timothy 1 Timothy Bibliography Andrews, J. N. "May Women Speak in Meeting?" Review and Herald. January 2, 1879. Reprint...

Haydock: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) THE FIRST EPISTLE OF ST. PAUL, THE APOSTLE, TO TIMOTHY. INTRODUCTION. St. Paul passing through Lycaonia, about the year 51, some of the brethr...

Gill: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 TIMOTHY Timothy, to whom this epistle is written, was eminent for his early piety and acquaintance with the sacred Scriptures; hi...

Gill: 1 Timothy 3 (Chapter Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO 1 TIMOTHY 3 In this chapter the apostle treats of the qualifications of officers of churches, bishops and deacons, and of their wiv...

College: 1 Timothy (Book Introduction) FOREWORD A movement which prides itself in its back-to-the-Bible underpinnings and its plea for unity should welcome any effort of the stature of the...

College: 1 Timothy (Outline) OUTLINE I. THE SALUTATION - 1:1-2 II. PAUL'S CHARGE TO TIMOTHY - 1:3-20 A. The Charge and the False Teachers - 1:3-7 B. The Lawful Use of...

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