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Text -- 2 Samuel 13:1-8 (NET)
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His sister by father and mother.
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And therefore diligently kept, so he could not get private converse with her.
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Wesley: 2Sa 13:5 - -- So he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation.
So he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation.
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Wesley: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Pretending, his stomach was so nice, that he could eat nothing but what he saw dressed, and that by a person whom he much esteemed.
Pretending, his stomach was so nice, that he could eat nothing but what he saw dressed, and that by a person whom he much esteemed.
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JFB: 2Sa 13:2 - -- Unmarried daughters were kept in close seclusion from the company of men; no strangers, nor even their relatives of the other sex, being permitted to ...
Unmarried daughters were kept in close seclusion from the company of men; no strangers, nor even their relatives of the other sex, being permitted to see them without the presence of witnesses. Of course, Amnon must have seen Tamar, for he had conceived a violent passion for her, which, though forbidden by the law (Lev 18:11), yet with the sanction of Abraham's example (Gen 20:12), and the common practice in neighboring countries for princes to marry their half sisters, he seems not to have considered an improper connection. But he had no means of making it known to her, and the pain of that disappointment preying upon his mind produced a visible change in his appearance and health.
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JFB: 2Sa 13:3 - -- Or Shammah (1Sa 16:9). By the counsel and contrivance of this scheming cousin a plan was devised for obtaining an unrestricted interview with the obje...
Or Shammah (1Sa 16:9). By the counsel and contrivance of this scheming cousin a plan was devised for obtaining an unrestricted interview with the object of his attachment.
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JFB: 2Sa 13:4 - -- In Eastern countries, where polygamy prevails, the girls are considered to be under the special care and protection of their uterine brother, who is t...
In Eastern countries, where polygamy prevails, the girls are considered to be under the special care and protection of their uterine brother, who is the guardian of their interests and their honor, even more than their father himself (see on Gen. 34:6-25).
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JFB: 2Sa 13:6-8 - -- The Orientals are great adepts in feigning sickness, whenever they have any object to accomplish.
The Orientals are great adepts in feigning sickness, whenever they have any object to accomplish.
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JFB: 2Sa 13:6-8 - -- To the king Amnon spoke of Tamar as "his sister," a term artfully designed to hoodwink his father; and the request appeared so natural, the delicate a...
To the king Amnon spoke of Tamar as "his sister," a term artfully designed to hoodwink his father; and the request appeared so natural, the delicate appetite of a sick man requiring to be humored, that the king promised to send her. The cakes seem to have been a kind of fancy bread, in the preparation of which Oriental ladies take great delight. Tamar, flattered by the invitation, lost no time in rendering the required service in the house of her sick brother.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:1 - -- Whose name was Tamar - Tamar was the daughter of David and Maacah, daughter of the king of Geshur, and the uterine sister of Absalom. Amnon was Davi...
Whose name was Tamar - Tamar was the daughter of David and Maacah, daughter of the king of Geshur, and the uterine sister of Absalom. Amnon was David’ s eldest son by Ahinoam. She was therefore sister to Amnon only by the father’ s side, i.e., half-sister; but whole sister to Absalom.
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Clarke: 2Sa 13:2 - -- Amnon was so vexed - for she was a virgin - It has been well remarked that "the passion of love is nowhere so wasting and vexatious, as where it is ...
Amnon was so vexed - for she was a virgin - It has been well remarked that "the passion of love is nowhere so wasting and vexatious, as where it is unlawful. A quick sense of guilt, especially where it is enormous, as in the present instance, strikes the soul with horror; and the impossibility of an innocent gratification loads that horror with desperation: a conflict too cruel and too dreadful for human bearing."- Delaney.
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Clarke: 2Sa 13:3 - -- Jonadab was a very subtle man - And most diabolic advice did he give to his cousin. We talk of the simplicity and excellence of primitive times! "Sa...
Jonadab was a very subtle man - And most diabolic advice did he give to his cousin. We talk of the simplicity and excellence of primitive times! "Say not thou what is the cause that the former days were better than these."Take them altogether, we may thank God that they are past, and pray him that they may never return.
Defender -> 2Sa 13:1
Defender: 2Sa 13:1 - -- Both Absalom and Tamar were children of Maacah, one of David's many wives. Amnon was David's eldest son, born of Ahinoam (2Sa 3:2). The tragic events ...
Both Absalom and Tamar were children of Maacah, one of David's many wives. Amnon was David's eldest son, born of Ahinoam (2Sa 3:2). The tragic events described in this chapter, Amnon's rape of Tamar and murder by Absalom, followed by the scattering of David's other sons were at least in part an outgrowth of the polygamous relationships contracted by David. Even though he was a godly man in many respects, David took many wives and concubines, and he should have known this was not pleasing to God (Gen 2:18, Gen 2:21-24)."
TSK: 2Sa 13:1 - -- am 2972, bc 1032, A.Ex, Is, 459
Absalom : 2Sa 3:2, 2Sa 3:3; 1Ch 3:2
a fair sister : 2Sa 11:2; Gen 6:2, Gen 39:6, Gen 39:7; Pro 6:25, Pro 31:30
Tamar :...
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TSK: 2Sa 13:2 - -- vexed : 1Ki 21:4; Son 5:8; 2Co 7:10
Amnon : etc. Heb. it was marvellous, or hidden, in the eyes of Amnon
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TSK: 2Sa 13:3 - -- a friend : Gen 38:1, Gen 38:20; Jdg 14:20; Est 5:10, Est 5:14, Est 6:13; Pro 19:6
Shimeah : 2Sa 13:32; 1Sa 16:9
Shimeah : subtil man, 2Sa 14:2, 2Sa 14...
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TSK: 2Sa 13:4 - -- Why art : 1Ki 21:7; Est 5:13, Est 5:14; Luk 12:32
lean : Heb. thin
from day to day : Heb. morning by morning, I love. Isa 3:9; Jer 8:12; Mic 7:3
my br...
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TSK: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Lay thee : 2Sa 16:21-23, 2Sa 17:1-4; Psa 50:18, Psa 50:19; Pro 19:27; Mar 6:24, Mar 6:25; Act 23:15
Lay thee : 2Sa 16:21-23, 2Sa 17:1-4; Psa 50:18, Psa 50:19; Pro 19:27; Mar 6:24, Mar 6:25; Act 23:15
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TSK: 2Sa 13:8 - -- she took : Dr. Russell says, ""The Eastern ladies often wash their own hands, prepare cakes, pastry, etc. in their apartments; and some few particular...
she took : Dr. Russell says, ""The Eastern ladies often wash their own hands, prepare cakes, pastry, etc. in their apartments; and some few particular dishes are cooked by themselves, but not in their apartmentscaps1 . ocaps0 n such occasions, they go to some room near the kitchen."
flour : or, paste
and made cakes : Rather, as Mr. Parkhurst renders, ""and tossed it (
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Barnes: 2Sa 13:1 - -- The history here, down to the end of 2 Sam. 23 (excepting a few particulars), is omitted in the Book of Chronicles.
The history here, down to the end of 2 Sam. 23 (excepting a few particulars), is omitted in the Book of Chronicles.
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Barnes: 2Sa 13:3 - -- Shimeah - Called Shamma (marginal reference), was Jesse’ s third son. Subtil - literally, wise. The word is generally used in a good...
Shimeah - Called Shamma (marginal reference), was Jesse’ s third son.
Subtil - literally, wise. The word is generally used in a good sense, but here, and in Job 5:13, it means crafty.
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Barnes: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Make thyself sick - " Feign thyself to be ill."(Compare 2Sa 14:2.) That I may see it - He was to feign that he could not fancy anything th...
Make thyself sick - " Feign thyself to be ill."(Compare 2Sa 14:2.)
That I may see it - He was to feign that he could not fancy anything that came from the kitchen, but that if he saw it cooked he should be able to eat it.
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Barnes: 2Sa 13:6-9 - -- Make me cakes ... a pan - The words here used occur nowhere else, and the etymology is doubtful. Some particular kind of cake or pudding is mea...
Make me cakes ... a pan - The words here used occur nowhere else, and the etymology is doubtful. Some particular kind of cake or pudding is meant 2Sa 13:8, called a
The dish into which she poured the
A fair sister his sister by father and mother: see 2Sa 3:3 .
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Poole: 2Sa 13:2 - -- He fell sick the passion of his mind disturbed his body, as is usual. She was a virgin, and therefore diligently kept, so as he could not get private...
He fell sick the passion of his mind disturbed his body, as is usual. She was a virgin, and therefore diligently kept, so as he could not get private converse with her; and withal modest, and abhorring any compliance with his lustful desires, both from her inclination and interest.
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Poole: 2Sa 13:4 - -- From day to day Heb. from morning to morning ; for whereas in the day he had many diversions and refreshments, in the night he was pestered with tor...
From day to day Heb. from morning to morning ; for whereas in the day he had many diversions and refreshments, in the night he was pestered with tormenting thoughts and passions; the effects whereof appeared in his countenance in the morning.
Wilt thou not tell me thy sure friend and faithful servant, who am ready to advise and assist thee?
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Poole: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Let my sister Tamar come so he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation, whom neither nature nor respect a...
Let my sister Tamar come so he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation, whom neither nature nor respect and affection would permit him to vitiate.
Eat it at her hand pretending that his stomach was so nice that he could eat nothing but what he saw dressed, and that by a person whom he much affected.
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Poole: 2Sa 13:7 - -- It is strange that so wise and sagacious a person as David did not see through so vain a pretence; but that must be ascribed partly to the instincts...
It is strange that so wise and sagacious a person as David did not see through so vain a pretence; but that must be ascribed partly to the instincts of nature, which generally preserve near relations from such monstrous actions; and partly to God’ s providence, which blinded David’ s mind, that he might bring upon him the designed and threatened judgments.
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He was laid down upon his bed or rather his couch.
Thamar was born of Maacha, as well as Absalom.
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Haydock: 2Sa 13:2 - -- Her. He had seen her on some solemn occasions, when virgins were allowed to go out, well attended. At other times they were so strictly guarded, th...
Her. He had seen her on some solemn occasions, when virgins were allowed to go out, well attended. At other times they were so strictly guarded, that Amnon thought it almost impossible to gratify his passion, (Calmet) which made him grow pale. He afterwards feigned himself to be more sickly than he really was, ver. 6. (Haydock)
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Haydock: 2Sa 13:3 - -- A very wise man. That is, a crafty and subtle man: for the counsel he gave on this occasion shews that his wisdom was but carnal and worldly. (Chal...
A very wise man. That is, a crafty and subtle man: for the counsel he gave on this occasion shews that his wisdom was but carnal and worldly. (Challoner) ---
Jonadab seems to be styled Jonathan, chap. xxi. 21. (Calmet)
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King? to whom every indulgence must be allowed. (Menochius)
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Haydock: 2Sa 13:5 - -- To me. Hebrew, "and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it, " &c. (Haydock) ---
He pretends to be disguste...
To me. Hebrew, "and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it, " &c. (Haydock) ---
He pretends to be disgusted with food, (Calmet) unless he see his sister make it ready. (Haydock)
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Haydock: 2Sa 13:6 - -- Messes. Hebrew, "cakes, or cordials;" what which refresh the heart, and give an appetite. The queen of Perdiccas, of Macedon, baked bread for her...
Messes. Hebrew, "cakes, or cordials;" what which refresh the heart, and give an appetite. The queen of Perdiccas, of Macedon, baked bread for her servants. (Herodotus viii. 137.) (Genesis xviii. 6.)
Gill: 2Sa 13:1 - -- And it came to pass after this,.... After the sin of David with Bathsheba, his repentance for it, and pardon of it, and the birth of Solomon as a toke...
And it came to pass after this,.... After the sin of David with Bathsheba, his repentance for it, and pardon of it, and the birth of Solomon as a token of reconciliation; yet after all this the divine threatenings must take place; they had begun already in the death of the child begotten in adultery, and others here follow:
that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; she was his sister both by father and mother's side; the mother o, f them was Maacah, the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur; she was a very comely person, her name signifies a palm tree:
and Amnon the son of David loved her; not in an honourable way, to make her his wife, but in a lustful manner, to make an harlot of her; he was David's eldest son by Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, 2Sa 3:2.
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Gill: 2Sa 13:2 - -- And Amnon was so vexed,.... Distressed, straitened, and perplexed in his mind through unruly and unbridled lusts that raged in him:
that he fell si...
And Amnon was so vexed,.... Distressed, straitened, and perplexed in his mind through unruly and unbridled lusts that raged in him:
that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; as Antiochus son of Seleucus did for his mother in law Stratonice, who, to cure him of it, was delivered to him by his father s:
for she was a virgin; and so kept very recluse from the company of men, that he could not come at her; so Philo t, speaking of the Jewish women, and particularly virgins, says, that they were shut up in their chambers, and through modesty shun the sight of men, even those of their own house; hence they are called
and Amnon thought it hard for him to do anything to her; that it was difficult to have access to her, almost impossible, what he despaired of, and what, if attained to, would be wonderful and amazing; he was at his wits' end how to contrive any scheme to get at her, and obtain his desire.
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Gill: 2Sa 13:3 - -- But Amnon had a friend,.... Though in the issue his friendship proved his ruin:
whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David's brother; so th...
But Amnon had a friend,.... Though in the issue his friendship proved his ruin:
whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David's brother; so that they were own cousins, the same with Shammah, 1Sa 16:9,
and Jonadab was a very subtle man; a very penetrating man into the dispositions of men, and could judge by their countenances what they were, and the affections of their minds, and had a talent in forming schemes; he was wise to do evil and was wickedly cunning.
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Gill: 2Sa 13:4 - -- And he said unto him, why art thou, being the king's son,
lean from day today?.... Or "morning by morning", w; he was the king's eldest son, heir...
And he said unto him, why art thou, being the king's son,
lean from day today?.... Or "morning by morning", w; he was the king's eldest son, heir to the crown, fed at his table, had everything to make him gay and cheerful, and yet pined away; his flesh wasted x, his countenance waxed wan and pale, and especially in the mornings; in the daytime he met with diversions which, in some measure, took off his thoughts from the object his mind was impressed with, but in the night season they were continually employed about it; so that he could have no rest and sleep, which made him look ruefully in the morning; and this man had a suspicion of his case, and therefore put this and the following question to him:
wilt thou not tell me? who am so nearly related to thee, and who have such a particular value and affection for thee:
and Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister; he does not call her his sister, but Absalom's sister, to lessen his sin of unlawful love to her, which, being thus closely pressed, and by a friend, he could not conceal.
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Gill: 2Sa 13:5 - -- And Jonadab said unto him,.... Being a subtle man, he presently formed a scheme to relieve him, and open a way for the enjoyment of what he desired:
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And Jonadab said unto him,.... Being a subtle man, he presently formed a scheme to relieve him, and open a way for the enjoyment of what he desired:
lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick; feign thyself sick, pretend that thou art so, by lying down on the bed, and making complaints of one kind or another:
and when thy father cometh to see thee; as he quickly would, after hearing of his illness, being very affectionate to his children:
say unto him, I pray thee let, my sister Tamar come, and give me meat; here he is directed to call her not Absalom's sister, but his own, the more to cover his ill design upon her:
and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand; pretending that his stomach was very weak and squeamish, that he could not eat anything which his servants dressed for him, and which he did not see done with his own eyes.
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Gill: 2Sa 13:6 - -- So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick,.... Took the advice of his cousin Jonadab, and acted according to it:
and when the king was come to see h...
So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick,.... Took the advice of his cousin Jonadab, and acted according to it:
and when the king was come to see him; as he quickly did, after he had heard of his illness:
Amnon said unto the king; who perhaps inquired of his appetite, whether he could eat anything, and what:
I pray thee let my sister Tamar come; he calls her sister, as Jonadab had directed, the more to blind his design; though it is much that so sagacious a man as David was had not seen through it; but the notion he had of his being really ill, and the near relation between him and Tamar, forbad his entertaining the least suspicion of that kind:
and make me a couple of cakes in my sight; heart cakes, as the word may be thought to signify; called so either from the form of them, such as We have with us, or from the effect of them, comforting and refreshing the heart:
that I may eat at her hand; both what is made by her hand, and received from it.
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Gill: 2Sa 13:7 - -- Then David sent home to Tamar,.... Who perhaps was not in the king's palace, but at her brother Absalom's house, 2Sa 13:20,
saying, go now to thy b...
Then David sent home to Tamar,.... Who perhaps was not in the king's palace, but at her brother Absalom's house, 2Sa 13:20,
saying, go now to thy brother Amnon's house; who also had a separate house and equipage, being the king's son, and his eldest son:
and dress him meat; such as he may desire, and his stomach will bear.
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Gill: 2Sa 13:8 - -- So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house,.... In obedience to the king's commands, and in affection to her brother, with an innocent breast, having ...
So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house,.... In obedience to the king's commands, and in affection to her brother, with an innocent breast, having no suspicion of any design upon her chastity:
(and he was laid down); upon a couch or bed in his chamber, as being sick as was pretended, into which she was introduced:
and she took flour, and kneaded it; made it into a paste:
and made cakes in his sight; a kind of fritters of them, as in the Talmud y:
and did bake the cakes: or fried them in a frying pan, in oil.
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NET Notes: 2Sa 13:5 This verb is used in the Hitpael stem only in this chapter of the Hebrew Bible. With the exception of v. 2 it describes not a real sickness but one pr...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:1 And it came to pass after this, that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name [was] ( a ) Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:2 And Amnon was so vexed, that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; for she [was] a ( b ) virgin; and Amnon thought it hard for him to do any thing to her...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:5 And Jonadab said unto him, ( c ) Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, l...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:6 So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick: and when the king was come to see him, Amnon said unto the king, I pray thee, let Tamar my sister come, and ...
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TSK Synopsis -> 2Sa 13:1-39
TSK Synopsis: 2Sa 13:1-39 - --1 Amnon loving Tamar, by Jonadab's counsel feigning himself sick, ravishes her.15 He hates her, and shamefully turns her away.19 Absalom entertains he...
MHCC -> 2Sa 13:1-20
MHCC: 2Sa 13:1-20 - --From henceforward David was followed with one trouble after another. Adultery and murder were David's sins, the like sins among his children were the ...
Matthew Henry -> 2Sa 13:1-20
Matthew Henry: 2Sa 13:1-20 - -- We have here a particular account of the abominable wickedness of Amnon in ravishing his sister, a subject not fit to be enlarged upon nor indeed to...
Keil-Delitzsch -> 2Sa 13:1-22
Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:1-22 - --
Amnon's Incest. - 2Sa 13:1-14. The following occurrences are assigned in a general manner to the times succeeding the Ammonitish war, by the words ...
Constable: 2Sa 9:1--20:26 - --VI. DAVID'S TROUBLES chs. 9--20
Chapters 9-20 contrast with chapters 2-8 in that this later section is negative ...
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Constable: 2Sa 13:1--20:26 - --C. David's Rejection and Return chs. 13-20
This is the longest literary section in the Court History of ...
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Constable: 2Sa 13:1--14:33 - --1. Events leading up to Absalom's rebellion chs. 13-14
David's disobedience to the Mosaic Covena...
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