
Text -- 2 Samuel 13:25-39 (NET)




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Wesley: 2Sa 13:26 - -- For the king designed (as the following words shew) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir of his kingdom: otherwise Absalom ...
For the king designed (as the following words shew) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir of his kingdom: otherwise Absalom would never have made particular mention of him; which now he was forced to do. Nor did this desire of Amnon's presence want specious pretences, as that seeing the king would not, he who was next to him might, honour him with his company; and that this might be a publick token of friendship between him and his brother, notwithstanding the former occasion of difference.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:27 - -- It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon's company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God suffered him to be blinded that he might execut...
It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon's company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God suffered him to be blinded that he might execute his judgments upon David, and bring upon Amnon the just punishment of his lewdness.

When he least suspects, and will be most unable to prevent the evil.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:28 - -- I who am the king's son, and, when Amnon is gone, his heir: who therefore shall easily obtain pardon for you, and will liberally reward you.
I who am the king's son, and, when Amnon is gone, his heir: who therefore shall easily obtain pardon for you, and will liberally reward you.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Now the threatened sword is drawn in David's house, which will not depart from it. His eldest son falls by it, thro' his own wickedness, and his fathe...
Now the threatened sword is drawn in David's house, which will not depart from it. His eldest son falls by it, thro' his own wickedness, and his father by his connivance is accessory to it.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:37 - -- His mother's father, that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediation he might obtain his father's pardon.
His mother's father, that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediation he might obtain his father's pardon.

Wesley: 2Sa 13:39 - -- And could not he recalled, to visit him, or to send for him. What amazing weakness was this! At first he could not find in his heart, to do justice to...
And could not he recalled, to visit him, or to send for him. What amazing weakness was this! At first he could not find in his heart, to do justice to the ravisher of his sister! And now he can almost find in his heart to receive into favour the murderer of his brother? How can we excuse David from the sin of Eli; who honoured his sons more than God?
JFB: 2Sa 13:23-27 - -- A sheep-shearing feast is a grand occasion in the East. Absalom proposed to give such an entertainment at his estate in Baal-hazor, about eight miles ...
A sheep-shearing feast is a grand occasion in the East. Absalom proposed to give such an entertainment at his estate in Baal-hazor, about eight miles northeast of Jerusalem near a town called Ephraim (Jos 11:10). He first invited the king and his court; but the king declining, on account of the heavy expense to which the reception of royalty would subject him [2Sa 13:25], Absalom then limited the invitation to the king's sons [2Sa 13:26], which David the more readily agreed to, in the hope that it might tend to the promotion of brotherly harmony and union.

JFB: 2Sa 13:28 - -- On a preconcerted signal from their master, the servants, rushing upon Amnon, slew him at the table, while the rest of the brothers, horror-struck, an...
On a preconcerted signal from their master, the servants, rushing upon Amnon, slew him at the table, while the rest of the brothers, horror-struck, and apprehending a general massacre, fled in affrighted haste to Jerusalem.

JFB: 2Sa 13:29 - -- This had become the favorite equipage of the great. King David himself had a state mule (1Ki 1:33). The Syrian mules are, in activity, strength, and c...
This had become the favorite equipage of the great. King David himself had a state mule (1Ki 1:33). The Syrian mules are, in activity, strength, and capabilities, still far superior to ours.

JFB: 2Sa 13:30-31 - -- It was natural that in the consternation and tumult caused by so atrocious a deed, an exaggerated report should reach the court, which was at once plu...
It was natural that in the consternation and tumult caused by so atrocious a deed, an exaggerated report should reach the court, which was at once plunged into the depths of grief and despair. But the information of Jonadab, who seems to have been aware of the plan, and the arrival of the other princes, made known the real extent of the catastrophe.

JFB: 2Sa 13:37 - -- The law as to premeditated murder (Num 35:21) gave him no hope of remaining with impunity in his own country. The cities of refuge could afford him no...
The law as to premeditated murder (Num 35:21) gave him no hope of remaining with impunity in his own country. The cities of refuge could afford him no sanctuary, and he was compelled to leave the kingdom, taking refuge at the court of Geshur, with his maternal grandfather, who would, doubtless, approve of his conduct.|| 08359||1||20||0||@@JOAB INSTRUCTS A WOMAN OF TEKOAH.==== (2Sa. 14:1-21)

JFB: 2Sa 13:37 - -- The king was strongly attached to Absalom; and having now got over his sorrow for the violent death of Amnon, he was desirous of again enjoying the so...
The king was strongly attached to Absalom; and having now got over his sorrow for the violent death of Amnon, he was desirous of again enjoying the society of his favorite son, who had now been three long years absent. But a dread of public opinion and a regard to the public interests made him hesitate about recalling or pardoning his guilty son; and Joab, whose discerning mind perceived this struggle between parental affection and royal duty, devised a plan for relieving the scruples, and, at the same time, gratifying the wishes, of his master. Having procured a countrywoman of superior intelligence and address, he directed her to seek an audience of the king, and by soliciting his royal interposition in the settlement of a domestic grievance, convinced him that the life of a murderer might in some cases be saved. Tekoah was about twelve miles south of Jerusalem, and six south of Beth-lehem; and the design of bringing a woman from such a distance was to prevent either the petitioner being known, or the truth of her story easily investigated. Her speech was in the form of a parable--the circumstances--the language--the manner--well suited to the occasion, represented a case as like David's as it was policy to make it, so as not to be prematurely discovered. Having got the king pledged, she avowed it to be her design to satisfy the royal conscience, that in pardoning Absalom he was doing nothing more than he would have done in the case of a stranger, where there could be no imputation of partiality. The device succeeded; David traced its origin to Joab; and, secretly pleased at obtaining the judgment of that rough, but generally sound-thinking soldier, he commissioned him to repair to Geshur and bring home his exiled son.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Let my brother Amnon go - He urged this with the more plausibility, because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the kingdom; and he ha...
Let my brother Amnon go - He urged this with the more plausibility, because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the kingdom; and he had disguised his resentment so well before, that he was not suspected.

Clarke: 2Sa 13:30 - -- Absalom hath slain all the king’ s sons - Fame never lessens but always magnifies a fact. Report, contrary to the nature of all other things, g...
Absalom hath slain all the king’ s sons - Fame never lessens but always magnifies a fact. Report, contrary to the nature of all other things, gains strength by going
Virgil has given, in his best manner, a fine personification of Fame or Evil Report. - Aen. iv., 173
Extemplo Libyae magnas it Fama per urbes
Fama, malum qua non aliud velocius ullum
Mobilitate viget, viresque adquirit eundo , etc
"Now Fame, tremendous fiend! without delay
Through Libyan cities took her rapid way
Fame, the swift plague, that every moment grows
And gains new strength and vigor as she goes,"etc.

Clarke: 2Sa 13:32 - -- And Jonadab - said - Amnon only is dead - This was a very bad man, and here speaks coolly of a most bloody tragedy, which himself had contrived.
And Jonadab - said - Amnon only is dead - This was a very bad man, and here speaks coolly of a most bloody tragedy, which himself had contrived.

Clarke: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Absalom fled - As he had committed wilful murder, he could not avail himself of a city of refuge, and was therefore obliged to leave the land of Isr...
Absalom fled - As he had committed wilful murder, he could not avail himself of a city of refuge, and was therefore obliged to leave the land of Israel, and take refuge with Talmai, king of Geshur, his grandfather by his mother’ s side. See 2Sa 3:3.

Clarke: 2Sa 13:39 - -- David longed to go forth unto Absalom - We find that he had a very strong paternal affection for this young man, who appears to have had little to c...
David longed to go forth unto Absalom - We find that he had a very strong paternal affection for this young man, who appears to have had little to commend him but the beauty of his person. David wished either to go to him, or to bring him back; for the hand of time had now wiped off his tears for the death of his son Amnon. Joab had marked this disposition, and took care to work on it, in order to procure the return of Absalom. It would have been well for all parties had Absalom ended his days at Geshur. His return brought increasing wretchedness to his unfortunate father. And it may be generally observed that those undue, unreasonable paternal attachments are thus rewarded.
Defender -> 2Sa 13:37
Defender: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Talmai was Absalom's grandfather (2Sa 3:3), ruling Geshur, a small city-state in what is now Syria. Although David was angry with Amnon for raping Tam...
Talmai was Absalom's grandfather (2Sa 3:3), ruling Geshur, a small city-state in what is now Syria. Although David was angry with Amnon for raping Tamar (2Sa 13:21), he had apparently done nothing to punish him, and Absalom was afraid that he himself would be executed for taking the law into his own hands and slaying the king's firstborn son."
TSK: 2Sa 13:25 - -- pressed : Gen 19:2, Gen 19:3; Jdg 19:7-10; Luk 14:23, Luk 24:29; Act 16:15
blessed : 2Sa 14:22 *marg. Rth 2:4

TSK: 2Sa 13:26 - -- let my brother : He urged this with the more plausibility because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the crown; and he had dissembled h...
let my brother : He urged this with the more plausibility because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the crown; and he had dissembled his resentment so long and so well that he was not suspected. 2Sa 3:27, 2Sa 11:13-15, 2Sa 20:9; Psa 55:21

TSK: 2Sa 13:28 - -- commanded : 2Sa 11:15; Exo 1:16, Exo 1:17; 1Sa 22:17, 1Sa 22:18; Act 5:29
heart is merry : 2Sa 11:13; Gen 9:21, Gen 19:32-35; Jdg 19:6, Jdg 19:9, Jdg ...
commanded : 2Sa 11:15; Exo 1:16, Exo 1:17; 1Sa 22:17, 1Sa 22:18; Act 5:29
heart is merry : 2Sa 11:13; Gen 9:21, Gen 19:32-35; Jdg 19:6, Jdg 19:9, Jdg 19:22; Rth 3:7; 1Sa 25:36-38; 1Ki 20:16; Est 1:10; Psa 104:15; Ecc 9:7, Ecc 10:19; Dan 5:2-6, Dan 5:30; Nah 1:10; Luk 21:34
fear not : Num 22:16, Num 22:17; 1Sa 28:10, 1Sa 28:13
have not I : or, Will you not, since I have, etc. Jos 1:9
valiant : Heb. sons of valour

TSK: 2Sa 13:29 - -- servants : 1Sa 22:18, 1Sa 22:19; 1Ki 21:11-13; 2Ki 1:9-12; Pro 29:12; Mic 7:3
gat him up : Heb. rode
mule : 2Sa 18:9; Gen 36:24; Lev 19:19; 1Ki 1:33
servants : 1Sa 22:18, 1Sa 22:19; 1Ki 21:11-13; 2Ki 1:9-12; Pro 29:12; Mic 7:3
gat him up : Heb. rode

TSK: 2Sa 13:31 - -- arose : 2Sa 12:16; Gen 37:29, Gen 37:34; Jos 7:6; Job 1:20
all his servants : 2Sa 1:11, 2Sa 3:31

TSK: 2Sa 13:32 - -- Jonadab : 2Sa 13:3-5
Shimeah : 1Sa 16:9, Shammah
David’ s brother : This was a very bad mancaps1 . hcaps0 e had given his cousin Amnon the most ...
Jonadab : 2Sa 13:3-5
Shimeah : 1Sa 16:9, Shammah
David’ s brother : This was a very bad mancaps1 . hcaps0 e had given his cousin Amnon the most detestable advice; and here speaks coolly of a most bloody tragedy of which he had been the cause.
appointment : Heb. mouth
determined : or, settled, Gen 27:41; Psa 7:14; Pro 24:11, Pro 24:12

TSK: 2Sa 13:36 - -- very sore : Heb. with a great weeping greatly, 2Sa 13:15 *marg. 2Sa 12:21, 2Sa 18:33

TSK: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Absalom fled : As Absalom had committed wilful murder, he could not avail himself of a city of refuge; but went to Talmai, king of Geshur, his materna...

TSK: 2Sa 13:38 - -- am 2974-2977, bc 1030-1027, An, Ex, Is, 461-464, Geshur. This was not the Geshur lying between Philistia and Egypt (Jos 13:13. 1Sa 27:8), but another...
am 2974-2977, bc 1030-1027, An, Ex, Is, 461-464, Geshur. This was not the Geshur lying between Philistia and Egypt (Jos 13:13. 1Sa 27:8), but another in Syria; probably the same as that beyond Jordan, whose inhabitants are joined with those of Maachathi, Deu 3:14. Jos 12:5. 2Sa 14:23, 2Sa 14:32, 2Sa 15:8

TSK: 2Sa 13:39 - -- the soul of : Gen 31:30; Deu 28:32; Phi 2:26
longed : or, was consumed, Psa 84:2, Psa 119:20
comforted : 2Sa 12:23; Gen 24:67, Gen 37:35, Gen 38:12

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Barnes: 2Sa 13:26 - -- He mentions Amnon as being the king’ s first-born. If he could not have the king’ s company, let him at least have that of the heir appare...
He mentions Amnon as being the king’ s first-born. If he could not have the king’ s company, let him at least have that of the heir apparent, and the king’ s other sons.

Barnes: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Upon his mule - So in 1Ki 1:33, 1Ki 1:38 the mule is the royal animal on which David himself rides. In 2Sa 18:9 Absalom rides upon a mule.

Barnes: 2Sa 13:32 - -- The history supplies another (compare 2Sa 13:3) instance of Jonadab’ s subtlety and sagacity. He at once gave the true explanation of the catas...
The history supplies another (compare 2Sa 13:3) instance of Jonadab’ s subtlety and sagacity. He at once gave the true explanation of the catastrophe at Baal-hazor, in spite of the false rumour.
By the appointment of Absalom ... - Meaning that Absalom’ s resolution to slay Amnon had been formed at the time, and only waited an opportunity to give expression to it.

Barnes: 2Sa 13:34 - -- Absalom fled - This is the sequel to 2Sa 13:29. The king’ s sons rose from table and fled, and Absalom taking advantage of the confusion, ...
Absalom fled - This is the sequel to 2Sa 13:29. The king’ s sons rose from table and fled, and Absalom taking advantage of the confusion, also escaped and fled. This information is inserted here to account for the king’ s sons returning unmolested.

Barnes: 2Sa 13:35 - -- The watchman, as his duty was, had sent immediate notice to the king that he saw a crowd approaching (see 2Ki 9:17-20). Jonadab, who was with the ki...
The watchman, as his duty was, had sent immediate notice to the king that he saw a crowd approaching (see 2Ki 9:17-20). Jonadab, who was with the king, was prompt to give the explanation.

Barnes: 2Sa 13:37 - -- See the marginal reference. Ammihur (see the margin) is found as a Punic name.
See the marginal reference.
Ammihur (see the margin) is found as a Punic name.

Barnes: 2Sa 13:39 - -- Longed to go forth - Rather, "longed after Absalom,"literally, was consumed in going forth, with a sense of disappointed hope.
Longed to go forth - Rather, "longed after Absalom,"literally, was consumed in going forth, with a sense of disappointed hope.
Poole: 2Sa 13:25 - -- He pressed him pretending great desire of his presence there, to prevent any jealousies, which otherwise he thought would arise in the breast of a ki...
He pressed him pretending great desire of his presence there, to prevent any jealousies, which otherwise he thought would arise in the breast of a king so wise and experienced, and under the expectation of God’ s dreadful judgments to be inflicted upon his family.
Blessed him dismissed him with thanks for his kindness, and with his fatherly blessing

Poole: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Let my brother Amnon go with us for the king designed (as the following words show) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir o...
Let my brother Amnon go with us for the king designed (as the following words show) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir of his kingdom; otherwise Absalom would never have made particular mention of him, which now he was forced to do. Nor did this desire of Amnon’ s presence want specious pretences, as that seeing the king would not, he who was next to him might, honour him with his company; and that this might be a manifest and public token of that love and friendship which was between him and his brother, notwithstanding the former occasion of difference

Poole: 2Sa 13:27 - -- It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon’ s company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God blinded his mind, that he might execute...
It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon’ s company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God blinded his mind, that he might execute his judgments upon David, and bring upon Amnon the just punishment of his lewdness.

Poole: 2Sa 13:28 - -- When Amnon’ s heart is merry with wine when he least suspects, and will be most unable to prevent the evil.
Have not I commanded you I who am ...
When Amnon’ s heart is merry with wine when he least suspects, and will be most unable to prevent the evil.
Have not I commanded you I who am the king’ s son, and, when Amnon is gone, his heir; who therefore shall easily obtain pardon for you, and will liberally reward you?

Poole: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Mules were in use amongst the Israelites. See 1Ki 1:33 . For though they might not promote such mixed kinds of procreation, Lev 19:19 , yet they mig...

Poole: 2Sa 13:30 - -- Which was not improbable, when the sword was once drawn among them, and one of them killed, which might provoke the rest to draw their swords, both ...
Which was not improbable, when the sword was once drawn among them, and one of them killed, which might provoke the rest to draw their swords, both to defend themselves, and to revenge their brother’ s death, and thereby occasion the death of all. And God suffered this false report to be spread for David’ s greater terror and humiliation, that he who had formerly rejoiced in the tidings of Uriah’ s death, might now be tormented with the report of the death of all his sons.

Poole: 2Sa 13:32 - -- Jonadab was a man of great craft and subtlety, and one that had exact knowledge of Amnon’ s fact, and of Absalom’ s temper.
By the appoint...
Jonadab was a man of great craft and subtlety, and one that had exact knowledge of Amnon’ s fact, and of Absalom’ s temper.
By the appointment or, by the command ; Heb. mouth , put for command , Num 3:16 . From the day; it was resolved from that time in his breast; but the word of command was not then given to others, for that would probably have hindered his design. But all this he seems to have spoken from a probable conjecture, rather than of certain knowledge, as appears by the sequel.

Poole: 2Sa 13:34 - -- Absalom fled he who had undertaken to defend his servants flees or his own life.
Behind him behind the watchman; for it seems they did not come in ...
Absalom fled he who had undertaken to defend his servants flees or his own life.
Behind him behind the watchman; for it seems they did not come in the direct road, where the watchman looked for them, but (for some reason or fancy they had) fetched a compass, and came that way which he least expected them.

Poole: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Talmai, the son of Ammihud his mother’ s father, 2Sa 3:3 ; that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediat...
Talmai, the son of Ammihud his mother’ s father, 2Sa 3:3 ; that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediation he might obtain his father’ s pardon and favour.

Poole: 2Sa 13:39 - -- To go forth unto Absalom to wit, to visit him, or to send for him. And thus this word the soul is here understood, partly from the Hebrew verb, whi...
To go forth unto Absalom to wit, to visit him, or to send for him. And thus this word the soul is here understood, partly from the Hebrew verb, which being of the feminine gender, agrees not with David, but with David’ s soul; and partly by comparing this with other places, where the same verb is used, and the soul expressed, as Psa 84:2 119:81 . But as this supplement may seem too bold, so this version seems not so well to agree with that phrase of going out to Absalom ; for David neither desired nor intended to go out to Absalom, but that Absalom should come home to him. And these words may be and are otherwise rendered, by the most ancient and remarkable interpreters, to this purpose; And king David made an end of going out (to wit, in an hostile manner, as that verb is oft used, Gen 14:18 2Sa 11:1 ) against (for so the Hebrew particle el is oft used, as Jer 34:7 Eze 13 9,20 Am 7:15 ). Absalom ; i. e. having used some, though it is probable but cold and remiss, endeavours to pursue after Absalom, and to fetch him from his grandfather’ s to receive condign punishment, he now gave over thoughts of it. Thus the same verb, and that in the same conjugation, is used in the same manner, 1Ki 3:1 , he made an end of building . It is to be objected, That the Hebrew verb is of the feminine gender, and therefore doth not agree with king David, which is masculine. It may be answered, That enallage of genders is a most frequent figure; and as the masculine gender is sometimes applied to women when they do some manly and gallant action, Exo 1:21 , so the feminine gender is sometimes used of men when they show an effeminate tenderness in their disposition; which is the case here, as some learned Hebricians have noted.
Haydock: 2Sa 13:25 - -- Blessed him, wishing him joy. Absalom kept a separate establishment, and had many children, chap. xiv. 27. (Menochius)
Blessed him, wishing him joy. Absalom kept a separate establishment, and had many children, chap. xiv. 27. (Menochius)

Haydock: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Amnon. He mentions him as the eldest, and that David might suppose that they were perfectly reconciled. (Calmet) ---
The unhappy father seems for ...
Amnon. He mentions him as the eldest, and that David might suppose that they were perfectly reconciled. (Calmet) ---
The unhappy father seems for a long time to have expressed a reluctance and foreboding. (Haydock)

Haydock: 2Sa 13:28 - -- It is I: the blame will fall on me; I will rescue all from danger. These servants were probably infidels, of Gessur, and fled with their master. (M...
It is I: the blame will fall on me; I will rescue all from danger. These servants were probably infidels, of Gessur, and fled with their master. (Menochius)

Haydock: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Mule. This is the first time we find these animals used to ride on. The judges had fair asses. These mules were not the offspring of horses and as...
Mule. This is the first time we find these animals used to ride on. The judges had fair asses. These mules were not the offspring of horses and asses. They bear young in Syria, (Aristotle, anim. vi. 24.) and are little inferior to horses in size, though they are shaped like our mules. (Aristotle, anim. xxxvi.)

Left. Fame often magnifies. (Menochius) ---
Crescit eundo. (Haydock)

Haydock: 2Sa 13:32 - -- Mouth. Chaldean [and] Syriac, "heart." Aquila, "because Absalom was in wrath against him." He had resolved upon his destruction. (Calmet) ---
Pe...
Mouth. Chaldean [and] Syriac, "heart." Aquila, "because Absalom was in wrath against him." He had resolved upon his destruction. (Calmet) ---
Perhaps he had expressed his intention to some of the court; and this Jonadab (by whose means the crime had been committed, ver. 5) had heard of it. (Haydock)

Haydock: 2Sa 13:34 - -- Mountain. Olivet. (Calmet) ---
They had not kept the high road through fear of Absalom; (Abulensis) who, on his part, fled out of the country, as ...
Mountain. Olivet. (Calmet) ---
They had not kept the high road through fear of Absalom; (Abulensis) who, on his part, fled out of the country, as no city of refuge was able to protect wilful murderers. (Haydock)

Haydock: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Tholomai, or Tholmai, (Haydock; chap. iii. 3.) his maternal grandfather. (Calmet)
Tholomai, or Tholmai, (Haydock; chap. iii. 3.) his maternal grandfather. (Calmet)

Haydock: 2Sa 13:38 - -- Ceased. We do not read that he had pursued Absalom before. (Calmet) ---
Now he laid aside all thoughts of punishing him, as he began even to desir...
Ceased. We do not read that he had pursued Absalom before. (Calmet) ---
Now he laid aside all thoughts of punishing him, as he began even to desire to see him again, when he reflected that Amnon had deserved death. (Haydock) ---
Hebrew also, "he burnt with a secret desire to receive Absalom," chap. xiv. 1. (Jonathan; Vatable, &c.) (Calmet) ---
Protestants, " the soul of king David longed to go forth unto," &c. (Haydock)
Gill: 2Sa 13:25 - -- And the king said to Absalom, nay, my son, let us not all now go,.... He did not object to the invitation entirely, he was willing some of the family ...
And the king said to Absalom, nay, my son, let us not all now go,.... He did not object to the invitation entirely, he was willing some of the family should go, but not all; it seems probable that he particularly excepted himself and his eldest son, the heir to his crown, for the reason following:
lest we be chargeable unto thee; one or two persons more, supposing them to be private persons, would have added but little to the expense, if any; but as David was a king, he must have come with the retinue of a king, with a large number of servants and guards, and must be entertained as such; and Amnon, his eldest son, and heir apparent to the crown, must make a figure suitable to his quality, which would have considerably raised the expense; and perhaps Absalom's estate he had to live upon might be but small, which David knew, and therefore chose not to be burdensome to him:
and he pressed him; urged him to go; not that he expected he would, or really desired he should, but this he did to hide his intention, that he might have no suspicion of his design against Amnon; or otherwise he might think he would not have been so pressing upon him to go with him:
howbeit he would not go, but blessed him; thanked him for the invitation he gave him, and wished him much happiness and pleasure at his entertainment with his friends.

Gill: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Then said Absalom, if not,.... If it is not thy pleasure to go with me, if I cannot have the honour of thy company:
I pray thee, let my brother Amn...
Then said Absalom, if not,.... If it is not thy pleasure to go with me, if I cannot have the honour of thy company:
I pray thee, let my brother Amnon go with us; let me have the next mark of honour that can be given me, the presence of the king's eldest son, and heir to the crown; he seems to express affection for him, and a particular desire of his company, as if all ill will towards him was removed from him, and this would be a public declaration of reconciliation between them:
and the king said unto him, why should he go with thee? he particularly, he more than any other; David seems to have suspected some design, and it is strange he should not; and yet if he had, it is much, notwithstanding the pressing arguments used, he should let him go; or he might think it would be more expensive to have him than the rest, and therefore asks why he should desire his company above all others.

Gill: 2Sa 13:27 - -- But Absalom pressed him,.... Which one would think would have increased his suspicion, if he had any, or have raised it in him; but his mind was blind...
But Absalom pressed him,.... Which one would think would have increased his suspicion, if he had any, or have raised it in him; but his mind was blinded, that Amnon's incest might be punished and the threatening to David and his house be fulfilled on account of the affair of Uriah and Bathsheba:
that he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him; if he had any suspicion at all, he might choose they should all go, that they might protect and defend him, if any attempt was made upon him; or, as others think, that no exceptions might be taken, as might be, if Amnon had gone alone.

Gill: 2Sa 13:28 - -- Now Absalom had commanded his servants,.... Before he and his guests were set down to the entertainment:
saying, mark ye now when Amnon's heart is ...
Now Absalom had commanded his servants,.... Before he and his guests were set down to the entertainment:
saying, mark ye now when Amnon's heart is merry with wine; as he was determined to make him if possible, and as he supposed he would be, knowing his inclination to drink:
and when I say unto you, smite Amnon, then kill him; smite him that he die, and be sure he is dead before you leave him:
fear not, have not I commanded you? who am your lord, the king's son, and will then be heir to the crown; fear not, I will protect you; let all the blame be laid to me, if any; I will be answerable for it, you have nothing to do but to obey my commands:
be courageous, and be valiant; show yourselves to be men of courage and valour, not fearing the king's sons, or any in company, or what will be the consequences of it; do your business effectually, and leave all with me; it is very reasonably supposed that Absalom had not only in view to revenge the rape of his sister, but to get himself next heir to the crown.

Gill: 2Sa 13:29 - -- And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded,.... They smote him, and killed him, when he gave the word:
then all the king's...
And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded,.... They smote him, and killed him, when he gave the word:
then all the king's sons arose; from the feast, imagining they were all designed to be slain:
and every man gat him up upon his mule, and fled; creatures much used in Judea instead of horses, which, though they might not be bred, might be used o.

Gill: 2Sa 13:30 - -- And it came to pass while they were in the way,.... On their road homewards, before they got to Jerusalem:
that tidings came to David; perhaps brou...
And it came to pass while they were in the way,.... On their road homewards, before they got to Jerusalem:
that tidings came to David; perhaps brought by one who was at the entertainment, who upon seeing Amnon smitten, immediately rose up and fled with the news of it to David:
saying, Absalom hath slain all the king's sons, and there is not one of them left; which he might suppose was the design of Absalom, and was done before that time; however, so it was ordered in Providence, that David, that rejoiced at the news of the death of Uriah, might be terrified with the tidings of the death of all his sons; and for a while it was as if it was really so, which occasioned the following behaviour in him.

Gill: 2Sa 13:31 - -- Then the king arose, and tore his garments,.... In token of extreme grief and sorrow, as Jacob did when he was shown the coat of Joseph, supposing him...
Then the king arose, and tore his garments,.... In token of extreme grief and sorrow, as Jacob did when he was shown the coat of Joseph, supposing him to have been slain, as David thought all his sons were, Gen 37:34,
and lay on the earth; on the bare ground, another token of mourning; so Job did on hearing the death of his sons, Job 1:20,
and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent: did as David did, in imitation of him, joining with him in expressions of sorrow; these were his courtiers, ministers of state, and principal officers in his household.

Gill: 2Sa 13:32 - -- And Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother,.... The same that advised Amnon to feign himself sick, to get Tamar sent to him, that he might enjoy ...
And Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother,.... The same that advised Amnon to feign himself sick, to get Tamar sent to him, that he might enjoy her, 2Sa 13:3,
answered and said; said in answer to the report brought to the king, which threw him into such an agony:
let not my lord suppose that they have slain all the young men the king's sons; he did not believe it himself, and would not have the king entertain such a thought, and distress himself with it:
for Amnon only is dead; he is very positive, and speaks with great assurance; it looks as if he was in the secret, and knew of the plot against Amnon's life; and, if so, he must be a very wicked man, first to form a scheme whereby Amnon might come at Tamar to ravish her, and then be accessory to the murder of him, as he must, if he knew of the design against his life, and did not acquaint him and the king of it; and this seems to be confirmed by what follows:
for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined, from the day that he forced his sister Tamar; that is, the slaying of Amnon; the meaning is, either that Absalom had given orders to his servants to slay him, whenever they had an opportunity; or it was "in the mouth of Absalom" p, as it may be rendered; he used to declare it to his intimate friends, that it was the purpose and resolution of his heart to kill Amnon some time or another; and this he had taken up from the time of his sister Tamar's being forced, and because of that, of which Jonadab had intelligence by some means or another; and who speaks of this rape without any seeming emotion, as if he had no concern at all in it.

Gill: 2Sa 13:33 - -- Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart,.... Neither suppose it, nor be troubled for it:
to think that all the king's so...
Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart,.... Neither suppose it, nor be troubled for it:
to think that all the king's sons are dead: which was not to be thought, nor could any good reason be given for such a supposition
for Amnon only is dead; he repeats it again with great assurance, which seems to confirm the suspicion of him before suggested; though some think he said this not from certain knowledge, but by conjecture.

Gill: 2Sa 13:34 - -- But Absalom fled,.... He who promised his servants protection could not protect himself, and who no doubt fled with him; he knew what he had done was ...
But Absalom fled,.... He who promised his servants protection could not protect himself, and who no doubt fled with him; he knew what he had done was death by law, and that there was no city of refuge for such sort of murder as this, and he had no reason to hope the king would suffer so foul a crime as this to pass unpunished:
and the young man that kept the watch lifted up his eyes, and looked: to the way that led from Absalom's house to Jerusalem, to see if he could spy any other messenger on the road from thence:
and, behold, there came much people by the way of the hill side behind him; that is, behind the watchman, who, looking round him, saw them; these people were the king's sons and their attendants, who, being at some distance, the young man could not discern who they were; they did not come the direct road from Absalom's house, but came a round about way, for fear, as R. Isaiah rightly conjectures, lest Absalom should pursue, or send pursuers after them, and slay them; though others, as Kimchi, think this refers to the hill, and that the sense is, that the watchman saw them coming from the way which was behind the hill, and began to see them when they came to the side of it, which was the way that led to the city, surrounded by mountains, see Psa 125:2.

Gill: 2Sa 13:35 - -- And Jonadab said to the king, behold, the king's sons come,.... For as they came nearer, it was plainly discovered that they were the king's sons, see...
And Jonadab said to the king, behold, the king's sons come,.... For as they came nearer, it was plainly discovered that they were the king's sons, seen on the side of the hill:
as thy servant said, so it is; he seems to applaud himself, and exult at his penetration and foresight.

Gill: 2Sa 13:36 - -- And it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking,.... As soon as the above words were out of his mouth:
that, behold, the king's sons...
And it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking,.... As soon as the above words were out of his mouth:
that, behold, the king's sons came: into the palace, and into the apartment where the king was:
and lifted up their voice and wept; not being able to tell the sorrowful news with their mouths, but declared it by gestures:
and the king also and all his servants wept very sore; they joined the king's sons in weeping, and were the more moved to it by their weeping, and the rather, since hereby the news of Amnon's murder was confirmed.

Gill: 2Sa 13:37 - -- But Absalom fled,.... As before related, but here repeated for the sake of what follows:
and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur: hi...
But Absalom fled,.... As before related, but here repeated for the sake of what follows:
and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur: his mother's father, see 2Sa 3:3, where he might hope for protection and safety:
and David mourned for his son every day; or "all the days" q, i.e. of the three years Absalom was in Geshur, about the end of which he was comforted concerning Amnon, as the following verses show. Some think it was for Absalom he mourned, but rather for Amnon. The reason why he mourned for him, when he did not for his child by Bathsheba, who died, because that was an infant, this a grown man, and heir to his crown, and was slain by the sword of his brother, and so fulfilled a threatening to himself on account of his own sin, which, hereby no doubt, was brought fresh to his mind.

Gill: 2Sa 13:38 - -- So Absalom fled,.... This is the third time it is mentioned, and the reason of it here Abarbinel thinks is, that when he first fled to his grandfather...
So Absalom fled,.... This is the third time it is mentioned, and the reason of it here Abarbinel thinks is, that when he first fled to his grandfather, he used to stand openly in the court of his palace, and go with him wherever he went from place to place; but when he understood that his father mourned so for the death of Amnon, he was afraid he would send some person to lay hold on him, and take vengeance on him; and therefore he would go no more with the king from place to place, but went and abode in Geshur always, which was a fortified city, as it follows:
and went to Geshur, and was there three years: and never went out of it, until he was fetched by Joab, as 2Sa 14:23 relates; nor is there anything in 2Sa 13:37 disturbed and mutilated, as Spinosa r intimates, but the whole is very expressive and emphatic.

Gill: 2Sa 13:39 - -- And the soul of King David longed to go forth unto Absalom,.... In like manner it is supplied and paraphrased in the Targum, because the word rendere...
And the soul of King David longed to go forth unto Absalom,.... In like manner it is supplied and paraphrased in the Targum, because the word rendered "longed" is feminine; though it may be used to denote the effeminateness of David's disposition and carriage on this occasion. Aben Ezra thinks the word "wife", should be supplied, and then the sense is, that the wife of King David, the mother of Absalom, made supplication to him to send forth one of the young men to fetch Absalom, and that by her importunity to him she stirred up a longing desire in David after him. Abarbinel observes, from another writer of theirs, that all the three years David was mourning for his son, he went out continually to seek to take vengeance on Absalom; but after that time, the mother of Absalom, or Tamar his sister, or his daughter, was importunate with the king, and restrained him from going forth to seek vengeance on Absalom; and when he was comforted concerning Amnon, that woman found means to restrain him from going out, and he restrained his servants from going forth against Absalom; and so he observes the word is used for withholding or restraining in Psa 40:10; and this agrees with several ancient versions, as the Vulgate Latin,"King David ceased to persecute Absalom;''and the Septuagint,"King David ceased to go out to Absalom;''and the Syriac version,"and King David abstained from going out after Absalom:"
for he was comforted concerning Amnon, seeing he was dead; and could not be brought back from the grave, though Absalom might be from his exile, to which he had an inclination; but he knew not how to do it, consistent with justice and his own honour.

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NET Notes: 2Sa 13:25 Heb “he”; the referent (David) has been specified in the translation for clarity.



NET Notes: 2Sa 13:32 Heb “he”; the referent (Amnon) has been specified in the translation for clarity.



NET Notes: 2Sa 13:37 The Hebrew text leaves the word “David” to be inferred. The Syriac Peshitta and Vulgate add the word “David.” Most of the Gree...

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:26 Then said Absalom, If not, I pray thee, let my brother ( l ) Amnon go with us. And the king said unto him, Why should he go with thee?
( l ) Pretendi...

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:28 Now Absalom had commanded his servants, saying, Mark ye now when Amnon's heart is merry with wine, and when I say unto you, Smite Amnon; then kill him...

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:31 Then the king arose, and tare his garments, and lay on the ( n ) earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent.
( n ) Lamenting, as he...

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:35 And Jonadab said unto the king, Behold, the king's sons come: as thy servant said, ( o ) so it is.
( o ) That only Amnon is dead.

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 13:37 But Absalom fled, and went to ( p ) Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur. And [David] mourned for his son every day.
( p ) For Maachah his moth...

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TSK Synopsis -> 2Sa 13:1-39
TSK Synopsis: 2Sa 13:1-39 - --1 Amnon loving Tamar, by Jonadab's counsel feigning himself sick, ravishes her.15 He hates her, and shamefully turns her away.19 Absalom entertains he...
MHCC -> 2Sa 13:21-29; 2Sa 13:30-39
MHCC: 2Sa 13:21-29 - --Observe the aggravations of Absalom's sin: he would have Ammon slain, when least fit to go out of the world. He engaged his servants in the guilt. Tho...

MHCC: 2Sa 13:30-39 - --Jonadab was as guilty of Ammon's death, as of his sin; such false friends do they prove, who counsel us to do wickedly. Instead of loathing Absalom as...
Matthew Henry -> 2Sa 13:21-29; 2Sa 13:30-39
Matthew Henry: 2Sa 13:21-29 - -- What Solomon says of the beginning of strife is as true of the beginning of all sin, it is as the letting forth of water; when once the flood-gates ...

Matthew Henry: 2Sa 13:30-39 - -- Here is, I. The fright that David was put into by a false report brought to Jerusalem that Absalom had slain all the king's sons, 2Sa 13:30. It is...
Keil-Delitzsch -> 2Sa 13:25; 2Sa 13:26-27; 2Sa 13:28; 2Sa 13:29-30; 2Sa 13:31; 2Sa 13:32-33; 2Sa 13:36; 2Sa 13:37-38; 2Sa 13:39
Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:25 - --
The king declined the invitation that he might not be burdensome to Absalom. Absalom pressed him indeed, but he would not go, and blessed him, i.e.,...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:26-27 - --
Then Absalom said, "And not (i.e., if thou doest not go), may my brother Amnon go with me?" The king would not give his consent to this; whether ...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:28 - --
Absalom then commanded his servants to put Amnon to death without fear, as he had commanded, as soon as his heart should become merry with wine and ...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:29-30 - --
The servants did as he commanded, whereupon the other king's sons all fled upon their mules. - 2Sa 13:30. But whilst they were on the road, the repo...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:31 - --
The king rent his clothes with horror at such a deed, and sat down upon the ground, and all his servants (courtiers) stood motionless by, with their...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:32-33 - --
Then Jonadab, the same person who had helped Amnon to commit his crime, said, "Let not my lord say (or think) that they have slain all the young ...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:36 - --
Jonadab had hardly said this when the king's sons arrived and wept aloud, sc., as they related what had occurred; whereupon the king and all his ret...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:37-38 - --
"Only Absalom had fled and gone to Talmai the son of Ammihud, the king of Geshur."These words form a circumstantial clause, which the writer has ins...

Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 13:39 - --
"And it (this) held king David back from going out to Absalom, for he comforted himself concerning Amnon, because he was dead." In adopting this t...
Constable -> 2Sa 9:1--20:26; 2Sa 13:1--20:26; 2Sa 13:1--14:33; 2Sa 13:23-39; 2Sa 13:23-29; 2Sa 13:30-39
Constable: 2Sa 9:1--20:26 - --VI. DAVID'S TROUBLES chs. 9--20
Chapters 9-20 contrast with chapters 2-8 in that this later section is negative ...

Constable: 2Sa 13:1--20:26 - --C. David's Rejection and Return chs. 13-20
This is the longest literary section in the Court History of ...

Constable: 2Sa 13:1--14:33 - --1. Events leading up to Absalom's rebellion chs. 13-14
David's disobedience to the Mosaic Covena...

Constable: 2Sa 13:23-39 - --Absalom's murder of Amnon 13:23-39
References to two years (v. 23) and three years (v. 3...

Constable: 2Sa 13:23-29 - --Amnon's murder 13:23-29
Absalom patiently and carefully plotted revenge on Amnon...
