
Text -- 2 Samuel 14:1-7 (NET)




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Wesley: 2Sa 14:1 - -- He desired to see him, but was ashamed to shew kindness to one whom God's law and his own conscience obliged him to punish; he wanted therefore a fair...
He desired to see him, but was ashamed to shew kindness to one whom God's law and his own conscience obliged him to punish; he wanted therefore a fair pretence, which therefore Joab gave him.

As they used to do when they were out of a mourning state.

Wesley: 2Sa 14:5 - -- One of them who most need thy compassion, and whom thou art by God's law obliged in a singular manner to relieve.
One of them who most need thy compassion, and whom thou art by God's law obliged in a singular manner to relieve.
JFB -> 2Sa 14:7
JFB: 2Sa 14:7 - -- The life of man is compared in Scripture to a light. To quench the light of Israel (2Sa 21:17) is to destroy the king's life; to ordain a lamp for any...
The life of man is compared in Scripture to a light. To quench the light of Israel (2Sa 21:17) is to destroy the king's life; to ordain a lamp for any one (Psa 132:17) is to grant him posterity; to quench a coal signifies here the extinction of this woman's only remaining hope that the name and family of her husband would be preserved. The figure is a beautiful one; a coal live, but lying under a heap of embers--all that she had to rekindle her fire--to light her lamp in Israel.
Clarke: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Joab sent to Tekoah - Tekoah, according to St. Jerome, was a little city in the tribe of Judah, about twelve miles from Jerusalem
There are several ...
Joab sent to Tekoah - Tekoah, according to St. Jerome, was a little city in the tribe of Judah, about twelve miles from Jerusalem
There are several circumstances relative to this woman and her case which deserve to be noticed: -
1. She was a widow, and therefore her condition of life was the better calculated to excite compassion
2. She lived at some distance from Jerusalem, which rendered the case difficult to be readily inquired into; and consequently there was the less danger of detection
3. She was advanced in years, as Josephus says, that her application might have the more weight
4. She put on mourning, to heighten the idea of distress
5. She framed a case similar to that in which David stood, in order to convince him of the reasonableness of sparing Absalom
6. She did not make the similitude too plain and visible, lest the king should see her intention before she had obtained a grant of pardon. Thus her circumstances, her mournful tale, her widow’ s needs, her aged person, and her impressive manner, all combined to make one united impression on the king’ s heart. We need not wonder at her success. See Bishop Patrick.

Clarke: 2Sa 14:5 - -- I am indeed a widow woman - It is very possible that the principal facts mentioned here were real, and that Joab found out a person whose circumstan...
I am indeed a widow woman - It is very possible that the principal facts mentioned here were real, and that Joab found out a person whose circumstances bore a near resemblance to that which he wished to represent.

Clarke: 2Sa 14:7 - -- The whole family is risen - They took on them the part of the avenger of blood; the nearest akin to the murdered person having a right to slay the m...
The whole family is risen - They took on them the part of the avenger of blood; the nearest akin to the murdered person having a right to slay the murderer

Clarke: 2Sa 14:7 - -- They shall quench my coal which is left - A man and his descendants or successors are often termed in Scripture a lamp or light. So, 2Sa 21:17, the ...
They shall quench my coal which is left - A man and his descendants or successors are often termed in Scripture a lamp or light. So, 2Sa 21:17, the men of David said, when they sware that he should no more go out with them to battle, That thou Quench not the Light of Israel. See also Psa 132:17. And to raise up a lamp to a person signifies his having a posterity to continue his name and family upon the earth: thus, quench my coal that is left means destroying all hope of posterity, and extinguishing the family from among the people. The heathens made use of the same similitude. The few persons who survived the deluge of Deucalion are termed
TSK: 2Sa 14:1 - -- am 2977, bc 1027, An, Ex, Is, 464
Joab : 2Sa 2:18; 1Ch 2:16
toward Absalom : 2Sa 13:39, 2Sa 18:33, 2Sa 19:2, 2Sa 19:4; Pro 29:26

TSK: 2Sa 14:2 - -- to Tekoah : Tekoah was a city of Judah, situated, according to Eusebius and Jerome, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. Josephus says it was not far fro...
to Tekoah : Tekoah was a city of Judah, situated, according to Eusebius and Jerome, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. Josephus says it was not far from the castle of Herodium; and Jerome ( Prologue to Amos ) says it stood on a hill six miles south from Bethlehem. Dr. Poccocke places it at the same distance; and says there are still considerable ruins on the top of a hill, which is about half a mile long and a furlong broad. 2Ch 11:6, 2Ch 20:20; Neh 3:5, Neh 3:27; Jer 6:1; Amo 1:1, Tekoa
mourning : 2Sa 11:26; Rth 3:3; Psa 104:15; Ecc 9:8; Mat 6:17

TSK: 2Sa 14:3 - -- put the words : 2Sa 14:19; Exo 4:15; Num 23:5; Deu 18:18; Isa 51:16, Isa 59:21; Jer 1:9

TSK: 2Sa 14:4 - -- fell on her : 2Sa 1:2; 1Sa 20:41, 1Sa 25:23
Help : Heb. Save, 2Ki 6:26-28; Job 29:12-14; Luk 18:3-5
fell on her : 2Sa 1:2; 1Sa 20:41, 1Sa 25:23
Help : Heb. Save, 2Ki 6:26-28; Job 29:12-14; Luk 18:3-5

TSK: 2Sa 14:5 - -- I am indeed : It is very possible that the principal incidents mentioned here were real; and that Joab found out a person whose circumstances bore a n...
I am indeed : It is very possible that the principal incidents mentioned here were real; and that Joab found out a person whose circumstances bore a near resemblance to that which he wished to represent. She did not make the similitude too plain and visible, lest the king should see her intention before she had obtained a grant of pardon; and thus her circumstances, her mournful tale, her widow’ s dress, her aged person (for Josephus says she was advanced in years), and her impressive manner, all combined to make one united irresistible impression on the heart of the aged monarch 2Sa 12:1-3; Jdg 9:8-15

TSK: 2Sa 14:6 - -- and they two : Gen 4:8; Exo 2:13; Deu 22:26, Deu 22:27
none to part : Heb. no deliverer between

TSK: 2Sa 14:7 - -- the whole : Gen 4:14; Num 35:19; Deu 19:12
so they : Gen 27:45; Deu 25:6
quench : 2Sa 12:17
upon the earth : Heb. upon the face of the earth

collapse allCommentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)
Barnes: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Tekoah - In the south of Judah, six miles from Bethlehem, the modern Tekua. The rough, wild district was well suited for the lawless profession...
Tekoah - In the south of Judah, six miles from Bethlehem, the modern Tekua. The rough, wild district was well suited for the lawless profession of the wise woman; it abounds in caves, as does the country near Endor.

Barnes: 2Sa 14:3 - -- Come to the king - The king as a judge was accessible to all his subjects (2Sa 15:2; compare 1Ki 3:16).

Barnes: 2Sa 14:4 - -- Spake - Seems to be an accidental error for came, which is found in many manuscipts and versions. Help - literally, save (see the margin)...
Spake - Seems to be an accidental error for came, which is found in many manuscipts and versions.
Help - literally, save (see the margin). It is the same cry as Hosanna, i. e. save now Psa 118:25.

Barnes: 2Sa 14:7 - -- The whole family ... - This indicates that all the king’ s sons, and the whole court, were against Absalom, and that the knowledge of this...
The whole family ... - This indicates that all the king’ s sons, and the whole court, were against Absalom, and that the knowledge of this was what hindered David from yielding to his affection and recalling him.
Poole: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Tekoah a city of Judah, 2Ch 11:5,6 . One of Jerusalem was not convenient, lest the king might know the person, or search out the business. And beside...
Tekoah a city of Judah, 2Ch 11:5,6 . One of Jerusalem was not convenient, lest the king might know the person, or search out the business. And besides, this woman seems to be of great eminency for her wisdom, as the following discourse manifests.
A wise woman rather than a man, because women can more easily express their passions, and do sooner procure pity in their miseries, and an answer to their requests.
Anoint not thyself with oil as they used to do when they were out of a mourning state. See Rth 3:3 Mat 6:17 .

Poole: 2Sa 14:5 - -- I am indeed a widow woman one of them who most need thy compassion and assistance, and whom thou art by God’ s law obliged in a singular manner ...
I am indeed a widow woman one of them who most need thy compassion and assistance, and whom thou art by God’ s law obliged in a singular manner to protect and relieve.

Poole: 2Sa 14:6 - -- There was none to part them and therefore there is no witness, either that he killed him, or how he killed him, whether from some sudden passion and ...
There was none to part them and therefore there is no witness, either that he killed him, or how he killed him, whether from some sudden passion and great provocation, or in his own necessary defence, or otherwise.
Slew him as the avengers of blood report.

Poole: 2Sa 14:7 - -- That we may kill him according to the law, Num 35:19 Deu 19:12 .
We will destroy the heir also so they plainly discover that their prosecution of h...
That we may kill him according to the law, Num 35:19 Deu 19:12 .
We will destroy the heir also so they plainly discover that their prosecution of him was not so much from love of justice, as from a covetous desire to deprive him of the inheritance, and to transfer it to themselves; which self-interest might justly render their testimony suspected. Or perhaps these words are not spoken as the expresswords of the prosecutors, (who can hardly be thought so directly to express a sinister design,) but as the woman’ s inference or comment upon what they were doing, (for this would be indeed the result of it, though they did not say so in express words,) thereby to represent her case as the more deserving pity.
My coal which is left the poor remainder of my light and comfort, by whom alone my hopes may be revived and repaired.
To my husband she names him rather than herself, because children bear the names of their fathers, not of their mothers.
Haydock: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Thecua, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. (St. Jerome) ---
Joab causes this unknown woman to come from the country to conceal his design, (Calmet) h...
Thecua, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. (St. Jerome) ---
Joab causes this unknown woman to come from the country to conceal his design, (Calmet) hoping that Absalom would be his father's successor. (Menochius)

Haydock: 2Sa 14:4 - -- Save me. So the Jews frequently repeated Hosanna; and David addressed God, save us, 1 Paralipomenon xvi. 35. (Tirinus)
Save me. So the Jews frequently repeated Hosanna; and David addressed God, save us, 1 Paralipomenon xvi. 35. (Tirinus)

Haydock: 2Sa 14:5 - -- Dead. Some conclude from ver. 16, that this is a true history; but it appears rather, that it was only a parable, (ver. 19.; Calmet) invented by Joa...

Haydock: 2Sa 14:7 - -- Heir. She expresses their sentiments more than their words. (Calmet) ---
Some of the relations might desire to obtain the inheritance. (Menochius...
Heir. She expresses their sentiments more than their words. (Calmet) ---
Some of the relations might desire to obtain the inheritance. (Menochius) ---
See Numbers xxxv. 18. ---
Spark. Posterity is often denoted by a lamp, chap. xxi. 17. Hebrew and Septuagint, "my coal," reserved to enkindle my fire, (Calmet) or to perpetuate our name in Israel, (Haydock) or that of his father, to whose title the son succeeded. The mother could claim no inheritance. (Menochius)
Gill: 2Sa 14:1 - -- Now Joab the son of Zeruiah,.... The general of David's army:
perceived that the king's heart was towards Absalom; and longed to have him returned...
Now Joab the son of Zeruiah,.... The general of David's army:
perceived that the king's heart was towards Absalom; and longed to have him returned, though he knew not how to bring it about with credit to himself, his crime being so foul, and worthy of death. This Joab perceived by some words he now and then dropped, and by his conduct, not seeking by any ways and means to bring him to justice, and being now reconciled to the death of Amnon; wherefore Joab devised a way to make known to him his own mind, and the sense of the people, which would serve to encourage him to restore him; and the rather Joab was inclined to take such a step, as he knew it would establish him in the king's favour, and ingratiate him into the affection of Absalom, the next heir to the crown, as well as please the people, whose darling he was. Though Abarbinel is of opinion that Joab proceeded upon another view of things, not because he saw the heart and affection of David were towards Absalom, but the reverse; that though David restrained himself and his servants from going out after Absalom, yet Joab knew that the heart of the king was against him, and that his heart was to take vengeance on him, though he did not go out to seek him; he perceived there was still enmity and hatred in his heart to take vengeance on Absalom, and therefore he took the following method to remove it, and reconcile his mind to him; and so the Targum,"and Joab the son of Zeruiah knew that the heart of the king was to go, out against Absalom;''and it may be observed, that when Joab had so far prevailed upon him as to admit him to bring him back to Jerusalem, he would not suffer him to see his face, nor did he for two years after.

Gill: 2Sa 14:2 - -- And Joab sent to Tekoah,.... Which Kimchi says was a city in the tribe of Asher, and others in the tribe of Benjamin, but it seems rather to be in the...
And Joab sent to Tekoah,.... Which Kimchi says was a city in the tribe of Asher, and others in the tribe of Benjamin, but it seems rather to be in the tribe, of Judah, 2Ch 11:5; according Jerom s, it was twelve miles from Jerusalem, though in another place t he says it was but nine; of this place was Amos, and some think u the woman after mentioned was his grandmother. It was proper to lay the scene of the affair to be proposed to the king at some distance, that it might not soon and easily be inquired into:
and fetched thence a wise woman; one much advanced in years, as Josephus says w, whose years had taught her wisdom by experience; a woman of good sense, and of a good address, apt at expression and reply, and knew how to manage an affair committed to her; and among other things, perhaps, was famous for acting the part of a mourner at funerals, for which sometimes women were hired; however, she was one that was talked of for her wisdom and prudence, and Joab having heard of her, sent for her as one for his purpose. The Jews x say, that Tekoah was the first place in the land of Israel for oil, and because the inhabitants were much used to oil, wisdom was found among them:
and said unto her, I pray thee feign thyself to be a mourner; a woman of a sorrowful spirit, and in great distress, and show it by cries and tears:
and put on now mourning apparel; black clothes, such as mourners usually wore:
and anoint not thyself with oil; as used to be done in times of feasting and rejoicing, to make them look smooth, and gay, and cheerful, and of which there might be much use at Tekoah, if so famous for oil:
but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead; her countenance pale and foul with weeping, her mourning clothes almost worn out, &c.

Gill: 2Sa 14:3 - -- And come to the king,.... At his palace, in the above condition and circumstances:
and speak on this manner unto him; something to the following pu...
And come to the king,.... At his palace, in the above condition and circumstances:
and speak on this manner unto him; something to the following purpose he dictated to her:
so Joab put the words in her mouth; the substance of what she should say; the fable she was to deliver as her own case might be framed by Joab, and which she delivered word for word exactly as he put it, and the application of it; but as he knew not what questions the king would ask her, so he could not dictate to her what to reply, unless he supposed this and the other, and so formed answers; but this he left to her prudence, and for the sake of which he chose a wise woman to manage this affair.

Gill: 2Sa 14:4 - -- And when the woman of Tekoah spake to the king,.... Or after she had spoken to him, being introduced by Joab, as is probable; when she had saluted him...
And when the woman of Tekoah spake to the king,.... Or after she had spoken to him, being introduced by Joab, as is probable; when she had saluted him with God save the king, or May the king live, or some such like expressions:
she fell on her face to the ground, and did obeisance; to him as her king, in reverence of his majesty:
and said, help, O king; signifying that she was in great distress, and came to him for assistance and deliverance.

Gill: 2Sa 14:5 - -- And the king said unto her, what aileth thee?.... Or what is thy case? What is the condition, and what the circumstances, that thou art in, which requ...
And the king said unto her, what aileth thee?.... Or what is thy case? What is the condition, and what the circumstances, that thou art in, which require help and assistance? intimating that he was ready to grant it on knowledge thereof; however, he was ready to hear what she had to say:
and she answered, I am indeed a widow woman; of a truth a widow, as the Targum; she was really one, a widow indeed, as in 1Ti 5:3; not one that was separated from her husband, he being alive, or divorced from him on any account; and therefore she adds:
and mine husband is dead; and has been a long time; this she said to move the pity and compassion of the king, who, as the supreme magistrate in God's stead, was a Father of the fatherless, and the judge of the widow.

Gill: 2Sa 14:6 - -- And thy handmaid had two sons,.... Two are observed, that her case might suit with Amnon and Absalom:
and they two strove together in the field; th...
And thy handmaid had two sons,.... Two are observed, that her case might suit with Amnon and Absalom:
and they two strove together in the field; they quarrelled, and fought in the field, where there were no witnesses of what they did to each other; whereby she would suggest that Ammon was killed in the field, of which there were no witnesses, and therefore Absalom ought not to die; whereas it was in Absalom's house, at his table, and where the rest of the king's sons were present, and witnesses of it:
and there was none to part them; which, had there been, might have prevented the sad disaster; this, as Abarbinel thinks, is pointed at David, who when Amnon forced Tamar, did not correct him for it, nor seek to make peace between the brethren, and hence followed what had happened:
but the one smote the other, and slew him; as say the accusers of him that is living; for the fable supposes there was none with them; however, she suggests, as the above writer observes, that one gave the first blow, and so was the aggressor; and that he that was smitten rose up in his own defence, and in his passion slew him that smote him; which is observed to lessen the crime, and to intimate that Amnon was the aggressor, who first began the sin and quarrel, in ravishing Tamar, and so reproaching Absalom; and therefore his blood was upon his own head.

Gill: 2Sa 14:7 - -- And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid,.... Who had sheltered her son, that slew his brother, from the avenger of blood; and no...
And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid,.... Who had sheltered her son, that slew his brother, from the avenger of blood; and not only the next akin, the avenger of blood, but even all the kindred and relations of the deceased, those of her husband's family rose up as one man, demanding justice:
and they said, deliver him that smote his brother, that we may kill him for the life of his brother whom he slew; pretending great regard to the deceased, and a zeal for justice, when the main thing aimed at was to get the inheritance into their own hands, as appears by what follows:
and we will destroy the heir also; and hereby she would insinuate to the king, that the reason why the rest of the king's sons spake against Absalom to him, and stirred him up to punish him with death, was because he was heir to the crown, and they thought by removing him to make way for themselves:
and so they shall quench my coal that is left; she had but one son, as she represents her case, who was like a coal left among ashes, in the ruins of her family; the only one to support her, keep alive her family, and bear up and continue her husband's name; and, as the Targum,"they seek to kill the only one that is left;''
and so the family be extinct:
and shall not leave to my husband neither name nor remainder upon the earth; should he be delivered up to them and slain; but herein the fable or apologue differed greatly from the case it was intended to represent; for had Absalom been put to death, as the law required, David had sons enough to inherit his throne, and keep up his name.

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NET Notes: 2Sa 14:1 Heb “the heart of the king was upon.” The Syriac Peshitta adds the verb ’ethre’i (“was reconciled”).



NET Notes: 2Sa 14:4 The word “me” is left to be inferred in the Hebrew text; it is present in the Syriac Peshitta and Vulgate.


NET Notes: 2Sa 14:6 Here and elsewhere (vv. 7, 12, 15a, 17, 19) the woman uses a term which suggests a lower level female servant. She uses the term to express her humili...

NET Notes: 2Sa 14:7 My remaining coal is here metaphorical language, describing the one remaining son as her only source of lingering hope for continuing the family line.
Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:1 Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king's ( a ) heart [was] toward Absalom.
( a ) That the king favoured him.

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:2 And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning appar...

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:6 And thy handmaid had two ( c ) sons, and they two strove together in the field, and [there was] none to part them, but the one smote the other, and sl...

Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:7 And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid, and they said, Deliver him that smote his brother, that we may kill him, for the ( d ) ...

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TSK Synopsis -> 2Sa 14:1-33
TSK Synopsis: 2Sa 14:1-33 - --1 Joab, suborning a widow of Tekoah by a parable to incline the king's heart to fetch home Absalom, brings him to Jerusalem.25 Absalom's beauty, hair,...
MHCC -> 2Sa 14:1-20
MHCC: 2Sa 14:1-20 - --We may notice here, how this widow pleads God's mercy, and his clemency toward poor guilty sinners. The state of sinners is a state of banishment from...
Matthew Henry -> 2Sa 14:1-20
Matthew Henry: 2Sa 14:1-20 - -- Here is, I. Joab's design to get Absalom recalled out of banishment, his crime pardoned, and his attainder reversed, 2Sa 14:1. Joab made himself ver...
Keil-Delitzsch -> 2Sa 14:1-20
Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 14:1-20 - --
When Joab perceived that the king's heart was against Absalom, he sent for a cunning woman from Tekoah, to work upon the king and change his mind, s...
Constable: 2Sa 9:1--20:26 - --VI. DAVID'S TROUBLES chs. 9--20
Chapters 9-20 contrast with chapters 2-8 in that this later section is negative ...

Constable: 2Sa 13:1--20:26 - --C. David's Rejection and Return chs. 13-20
This is the longest literary section in the Court History of ...

Constable: 2Sa 13:1--14:33 - --1. Events leading up to Absalom's rebellion chs. 13-14
David's disobedience to the Mosaic Covena...
