
Text -- Ephesians 5:24-33 (NET)




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Robertson: Eph 5:24 - -- But ( alla ).
Perhaps, "nevertheless,"in spite of the difference just noted. Once again the verb hupotassō has to be supplied in the principal cl...
But (
Perhaps, "nevertheless,"in spite of the difference just noted. Once again the verb

Robertson: Eph 5:25 - -- Even as Christ also loved the church ( kathōs kai ho Christos ēgapēsen tēn ekklēsian ).
This is the wonderful new point not in Col 3:19 tha...
Even as Christ also loved the church (
This is the wonderful new point not in Col 3:19 that lifts this discussion of the husband’ s love for his wife to the highest plane.

Robertson: Eph 5:26 - -- That he might sanctify it ( hina autēn hagiasēi ).
Purpose clause with hina and the first aorist active subjunctive of hagiazō . Jesus stated...
That he might sanctify it (
Purpose clause with

Robertson: Eph 5:26 - -- Having cleansed it ( katharisas ).
First aorist active participle of katharizō , to cleanse, either simultaneous action or antecedent.
Having cleansed it (
First aorist active participle of

Robertson: Eph 5:26 - -- By the washing of water ( tōi loutrōi tou hudatos ).
If loutron only means bath or bathing-place ( = loutron ), then loutrōi is in the loc...
By the washing of water (
If

Robertson: Eph 5:27 - -- That he might present ( hina parastēsēi ).
Final clause with hina and first aorist active subjunctive of paristēmi (see note on Col 1:22 fo...

Robertson: Eph 5:27 - -- Spot ( spilos ).
Late word, in N.T. only here and 2Pe 2:13, but spiloō , to defile in Jam 3:6; Jud 1:23.

Wrinkle (
Old word from

Robertson: Eph 5:27 - -- But that it should be holy and without blemish ( all' hina ēi hagia kai amōmos ).
Christ’ s goal for the church, his bride and his body, bot...
But that it should be holy and without blemish (
Christ’ s goal for the church, his bride and his body, both negative purity and positive.

Robertson: Eph 5:28 - -- Even so ought ( houtōs opheilousin ).
As Christ loves the church (his body). And yet some people actually say that Paul in 1 Corinthians 7 gives a ...
Even so ought (
As Christ loves the church (his body). And yet some people actually say that Paul in 1 Corinthians 7 gives a degrading view of marriage. How can one say that after reading Eph 5:22-33 where the noblest picture of marriage ever drawn is given?

Robertson: Eph 5:29 - -- Nourisheth ( ektrephei ).
Old compound with perfective sense of ek (to nourish up to maturity and on). In N.T. only here and Eph 6:4.
Nourisheth (
Old compound with perfective sense of

Robertson: Eph 5:29 - -- Cherisheth ( thalpei ).
Late and rare word, once in a marriage contract in a papyrus. In N.T. only here and 1Th 2:7. Primarily it means to warm (Lati...
Cherisheth (
Late and rare word, once in a marriage contract in a papyrus. In N.T. only here and 1Th 2:7. Primarily it means to warm (Latin foveo ), then to foster with tender care as here.

Robertson: Eph 5:29 - -- Even as Christ also ( kathōs kai ho Christos ).
Relative (correlative) adverb pointing back to houtōs at the beginning of the sentence (Eph 5:2...

Robertson: Eph 5:30 - -- Of his flesh and of his bones ( ek tēs sarkos autou kai ek tōn osteōn autou ).
These words are in the Textus Receptus (Authorized Version) supp...
Of his flesh and of his bones (
These words are in the Textus Receptus (Authorized Version) supported by D G L P cursives Syriac, etc., though wanting in Aleph A B 17 Bohairic. Certainly not genuine.

Robertson: Eph 5:31 - -- For this cause ( anti toutou ).
"Answering to this"= heneken toutou of Gen 2:24, in the sense of anti seen in anth' hōn (Luk 12:3). This whol...
For this cause (
"Answering to this"=

Robertson: Eph 5:32 - -- This mystery is great ( to mustērion touto mega estin ).
For the word "mystery"see note on Eph 1:9. Clearly Paul means to say that the comparison o...
This mystery is great (
For the word "mystery"see note on Eph 1:9. Clearly Paul means to say that the comparison of marriage to the union of Christ and the church is the mystery. He makes that plain by the next words.


Robertson: Eph 5:32 - -- In regard of Christ and of the church ( eis Christon kai ̣eiš tēn ekklēsian ).
"With reference to Christ and the church."That is all that eis ...
In regard of Christ and of the church (
"With reference to Christ and the church."That is all that

Robertson: Eph 5:33 - -- Nevertheless ( plēn ).
"Howbeit,"not to dwell unduly (Abbott) on the matter of Christ and the church.
Nevertheless (
"Howbeit,"not to dwell unduly (Abbott) on the matter of Christ and the church.

Robertson: Eph 5:33 - -- Do ye also severally love ( kai humeis hoi kath' hena hekastos agapātō ).
An unusual idiom. The verb agapātō (present active imperative) ag...
Do ye also severally love (
An unusual idiom. The verb

Robertson: Eph 5:33 - -- Let the wife see that she fear ( hē gunē hina phobētai ).
There is no verb in the Greek for "let see"(blepetō ). For this use of hina with...
Let the wife see that she fear (
There is no verb in the Greek for "let see"(
Vincent: Eph 5:24 - -- Therefore ( ἀλλὰ )
Rev, correctly, but . Offsetting the relation of savior. The comparison does not hold in respect of salvation , but...
Therefore (
Rev, correctly, but . Offsetting the relation of savior. The comparison does not hold in respect of salvation , but it does hold in respect of subjection .

Vincent: Eph 5:26 - -- Sanctify and cleanse ( ἁγιάσῃ καθαρίσας )
Rev., might sanctify , having cleansed . The Rev. brings out the proper su...
Sanctify and cleanse (
Rev., might sanctify , having cleansed . The Rev. brings out the proper succession of sanctification as a consequence of cleansing: might sanctify after having cleansed.

Vincent: Eph 5:26 - -- With the washing of water ( τῷ λουτρῷ τοῦ ὕδατος )
Λουτρόν washing is properly laver . Note the articl...
With the washing of water (

Vincent: Eph 5:26 - -- By the word ( ἐν ῥήματι )
Rev., correctly, with the word. To be connected with having cleansed it by the laver of ...
By the word (
Rev., correctly, with the word. To be connected with having cleansed it by the laver of water : not with might sanctify , nor with the laver of water alone, as a descriptive epithet. With the word describes that which accompanies the rite and which is the peculiar element of baptismal purification. Compare Joh 15:3. Augustine says: " Take away the word, and what is the water but water?"

Vincent: Eph 5:27 - -- He might present it to Himself ( παραστήσῃ αὐτὸς ἑαυτῷ )
As a bride. Compare 2Co 11:2. Notice the two pronouns i...
He might present it to Himself (
As a bride. Compare 2Co 11:2. Notice the two pronouns in conjunction, He , to Himself . Christ Himself presents the bride.

Vincent: Eph 5:27 - -- Spot ( σπίλον )
Only here and 2Pe 2:13; The kindred verb σπιλόω to defile , occurs Jam 3:6; Jud 1:23.

Wrinkle (
Only here in the New Testament.

As their own bodies (
As being: since they are.

Vincent: Eph 5:31 - -- Shall be joined ( προσκολληθήσεται )
Only here; and Mar 10:7. See on Luk 15:15. The compound verb denotes most intimate union.

Vincent: Eph 5:31 - -- Shall be one flesh ( ἔσονται εἰς σάρκα μίαν )
The A.V. overlooks the force of εἰς unto . Lit., shall be u...
Shall be one flesh (
The A.V. overlooks the force of

Vincent: Eph 5:32 - -- A great mystery
Great is predicative, not attributive. Rev., correctly, this mystery is great . The reference in this mystery is to ...
A great mystery
Great is predicative, not attributive. Rev., correctly, this mystery is great . The reference in this mystery is to the preceding statement of the conjugal relation of the Church with Christ, typified by the human marriage relation.

Vincent: Eph 5:32 - -- Concerning Christ and the Church
Rev., in regard of (εἰς ). Not calling your attention to the mere human relationship, but to the myst...
Concerning Christ and the Church
Rev., in regard of (

Nevertheless
Not to dwell longer on the mystical aspect of the subject.

Vincent: Eph 5:33 - -- Even as himself
Not as much as he loves himself , but as being his very self .
Even as himself
Not as much as he loves himself , but as being his very self .
Which is not contrary to any command of God.

Wesley: Eph 5:25 - -- Here is the true model of conjugal affection. With this kind of affection, with this degree of it, and to this end, should husbands love their wives.
Here is the true model of conjugal affection. With this kind of affection, with this degree of it, and to this end, should husbands love their wives.

Wesley: Eph 5:26 - -- In baptism; if, with "the outward and visible sign," we receive the "inward and spiritual grace."
In baptism; if, with "the outward and visible sign," we receive the "inward and spiritual grace."

Which is not a sin, but an indisputable duty.

Wesley: Eph 5:30 - -- The reason why Christ nourishes and cherishes the church is, that close connexion between them which is here expressed in the words of Moses, original...
The reason why Christ nourishes and cherishes the church is, that close connexion between them which is here expressed in the words of Moses, originally spoken concerning Eve.

Wesley: Eph 5:30 - -- Are as intimately united to Christ, in a spiritual sense, as if we were literally "flesh of his flesh, and bone of his bone."
Are as intimately united to Christ, in a spiritual sense, as if we were literally "flesh of his flesh, and bone of his bone."
JFB: Eph 5:24 - -- Translate, as Greek, "But," or "Nevertheless," that is, though there be the difference of headships mentioned in Eph 5:23, nevertheless, thus far they...
Translate, as Greek, "But," or "Nevertheless," that is, though there be the difference of headships mentioned in Eph 5:23, nevertheless, thus far they are one, namely, in the subjection or submission (the same Greek stands for "is subject," as for "submit," Eph 5:21-22) of the Church to Christ, being the prototype of that of the wife to the husband.

Not in most of the oldest manuscripts, and not needed by the argument.

JFB: Eph 5:24 - -- Appertaining to a husband's legitimate authority; "in the Lord" (Col 3:18); everything not contrary to God.
Appertaining to a husband's legitimate authority; "in the Lord" (Col 3:18); everything not contrary to God.

JFB: Eph 5:25 - -- "Thou hast seen the measure of obedience; now hear also the measure of love. Do you wish your wife to obey you, as the Church is to obey Christ? Then ...
"Thou hast seen the measure of obedience; now hear also the measure of love. Do you wish your wife to obey you, as the Church is to obey Christ? Then have a solicitude for her as Christ had for the Church (Eph 5:23, "Himself the Saviour of the body"); and "if it be necessary to give thy life for her, or to be cut in ten thousand pieces, or to endure any other suffering whatever, do not refuse it; and if you suffer thus, not even so do you do what Christ has done; for you indeed do so being already united to her, but He did so for one that treated Him with aversion and hatred. As, therefore, He brought to His feet one that so treated Him, and that even wantonly spurned Him, by much tenderness of regard, not by threats, insults, and terror: so also do you act towards your wife, and though you see her disdainful and wantonly wayward, you will be able to bring her to your feet by much thoughtfulness for her, by love, by kindness. For no bound is more sovereign in binding than such bonds, especially in the case of husband and wife. For one may constrain a servant by fear, though not even he is so to be bound to you; for he may readily run away. But the companion of your life, the mother of your children, the basis of all your joy, you ought to bind to you, not by fear and threats, but by love and attachment" [CHRYSOSTOM].

JFB: Eph 5:25 - -- Translate, "for her." The relation of the Church to Christ is the ground of Christianity's having raised woman to her due place in the social scale, f...
Translate, "for her." The relation of the Church to Christ is the ground of Christianity's having raised woman to her due place in the social scale, from which she was, and is, excluded in heathen lands.

JFB: Eph 5:26 - -- That is, consecrate her to God. Compare Joh 17:19, meaning, "I devote Myself as a holy sacrifice, that My disciples also may be devoted or consecrated...

Rather, as Greek, "cleansing," without the "and."

JFB: Eph 5:26 - -- Rather as Greek, "with," or "by the laver of the water," namely, the baptismal water. So it ought to be translated in Tit 3:5, the only other passage ...
Rather as Greek, "with," or "by the laver of the water," namely, the baptismal water. So it ought to be translated in Tit 3:5, the only other passage in the New Testament where it occurs. As the bride passed through a purifying bath before marriage, so the Church (compare Rev 21:2). He speaks of baptism according to its high ideal and design, as if the inward grace accompanied the outward rite; hence he asserts of outward baptism whatever is involved in a believing appropriation of the divine truths it symbolizes, and says that Christ, by baptism, has purified the Church [NEANDER] (1Pe 3:21).

JFB: Eph 5:26 - -- Greek, "IN the word." To be joined with "cleansing it," or "her." The "word of faith" (Rom 10:8-9, Rom 10:17), of which confession is made in baptism,...
Greek, "IN the word." To be joined with "cleansing it," or "her." The "word of faith" (Rom 10:8-9, Rom 10:17), of which confession is made in baptism, and which carries the real cleansing (Joh 15:3; Joh 17:17) and regenerating power (1Pe 1:23; 1Pe 3:21) [ALFORD]. So AUGUSTINE [Tract 80, in John], "Take away the word, and what is the water save water? Add the word to the element, and it becomes a sacrament, being itself as it were the visible word." The regenerating efficacy of baptism is conveyed in, and by, the divine word alone.

JFB: Eph 5:27 - -- The oldest manuscripts and authorities read, "That He might Himself present unto Himself the Church glorious," namely, as a bride (2Co 11:2). Holiness...
The oldest manuscripts and authorities read, "That He might Himself present unto Himself the Church glorious," namely, as a bride (2Co 11:2). Holiness and glory are inseparable. "Cleansing" is the necessary preliminary to both. Holiness is glory internal; glory is holiness shining forth outwardly. The laver of baptism is the vehicle, but the word is the nobler and true instrument of the cleansing [BENGEL]. It is Christ that prepares the Church with the necessary ornaments of grace, for presentation to Himself, as the Bridegroom at His coming again (Mat 25:1, &c.; Rev 19:7; Rev 21:2).

JFB: Eph 5:27 - -- (Son 4:7). The visible Church now contains clean and unclean together, like Noah's ark; like the wedding room which contained some that had, and othe...
(Son 4:7). The visible Church now contains clean and unclean together, like Noah's ark; like the wedding room which contained some that had, and others that had not, the wedding garment (Mat 22:10-14; compare 2Ti 2:20); or as the good and bad fish are taken in the same net because it cannot discern the bad from the good, the fishermen being unable to know what kind of fish the nets have taken under the waves. Still the Church is termed "holy" in the creed, in reference to her ideal and ultimate destination. When the Bridegroom comes, the bride shall be presented to Him wholly without spot, the evil being cut off from the body for ever (Mat 13:47-50). Not that there are two churches, one with bad and good intermingled, another in which there are good alone; but one and the same Church in relation to different times, now with good and evil together, hereafter with good alone [PEARSON].

JFB: Eph 5:28 - -- Translate, "So ought husbands also (thus the oldest manuscripts read) to love their own (compare Note, see on Eph 5:22) wives as their own bodies."
Translate, "So ought husbands also (thus the oldest manuscripts read) to love their own (compare Note, see on Eph 5:22) wives as their own bodies."

JFB: Eph 5:28 - -- So there is the same love and the same union of body between Christ and the Church (Eph 5:30, Eph 5:32).

Supply, and we all love ourselves: "For no man," &c.

JFB: Eph 5:29 - -- Greek, "nourisheth it up," namely, to maturity. "Nourisheth," refers to food and internal sustenance; "cherisheth," to clothing and external fostering...
Greek, "nourisheth it up," namely, to maturity. "Nourisheth," refers to food and internal sustenance; "cherisheth," to clothing and external fostering.

JFB: Eph 5:29 - -- The oldest manuscripts read, "Christ." Exo 21:10 prescribes three duties to the husband. The two former (food and raiment) are here alluded to in a sp...
The oldest manuscripts read, "Christ." Exo 21:10 prescribes three duties to the husband. The two former (food and raiment) are here alluded to in a spiritual sense, by "nourisheth and cherisheth"; the third "duty of marriage" is not added in consonance with the holy propriety of Scripture language: its antitype is, "know the Lord" (Hos 2:19-20) [BENGEL].

JFB: Eph 5:30 - -- Greek, "Because" (1Co 6:15). Christ nourisheth and cherisheth the Church as being of one flesh with Him. Translate, "Because we are members of His bod...
Greek, "Because" (1Co 6:15). Christ nourisheth and cherisheth the Church as being of one flesh with Him. Translate, "Because we are members of His body (His literal body), being OF His flesh and of His bones" [ALFORD] (Gen 2:23-24). The Greek expresses, "Being formed out of" or "of the substance of His flesh." Adam's deep sleep, wherein Eve was formed from out of his opened side, is an emblem of Christ's death, which was the birth of the Spouse, the Church. Joh 12:24; Joh 19:34-35, to which Eph 5:25-27 allude, as implying atonement by His blood, and sanctification by the "water," answering to that which flowed from His side (compare also Joh 7:38-39; 1Co 6:11). As Adam gave Eve a new name, Hebrew, "Isha," "woman," formed from his own rib, Ish, "man," signifying her formation from him, so Christ, Rev 2:17; Rev 3:12. Gen 2:21, Gen 2:23-24 puts the bones first because the reference there is to the natural structure. But Paul is referring to the flesh of Christ. It is not our bones and flesh, but "we" that are spiritually propagated (in our soul and spirit now, and in the body hereafter, regenerated) from the manhood of Christ which has flesh and bones. We are members of His glorified body (Joh 6:53). The two oldest existing manuscripts, and Coptic or Memphitic version, omit "of His flesh and of His bones"; the words may have crept into the text through the Margin from Gen 2:23, Septuagint. However, IRENÆUS, 294, and the old Latin and Vulgate versions, with some good old manuscripts, have them.

JFB: Eph 5:31 - -- The propagation of the Church from Christ, as that of Eve from Adam, is the foundation of the spiritual marriage. The natural marriage, wherein "a man...
The propagation of the Church from Christ, as that of Eve from Adam, is the foundation of the spiritual marriage. The natural marriage, wherein "a man leaves father and mother (the oldest manuscripts omit 'his') and is joined unto his wife," is not the principal thing meant here, but the spiritual marriage represented by it, and on which it rests, whereby Christ left the Father's bosom to woo to Himself the Church out of a lost world: Eph 5:32 proves this: His earthly mother as such, also, He holds in secondary account as compared with His spiritual Bride (Luk 2:48-49; Luk 8:19-21; Luk 11:27-28). He shall again leave His Father's abode to consummate the union (Mat 25:1-10; Rev 19:7).

JFB: Eph 5:31 - -- So the Samaritan Pentateuch, the Septuagint, &c., read (Gen 2:24), instead of "they shall be one flesh." So Mat 19:5. In natural marriage, husband and...
So the Samaritan Pentateuch, the Septuagint, &c., read (Gen 2:24), instead of "they shall be one flesh." So Mat 19:5. In natural marriage, husband and wife combine the elements of one perfect human being: the one being incomplete without the other. So Christ, as God-man, is pleased to make the Church, the body, a necessary adjunct to Himself, the Head. He is the archetype of the Church, from whom and according to whom, as the pattern, she is formed. He is her Head, as the husband is of the wife (Rom 6:5; 1Co 11:3; 1Co 15:45). Christ will never allow any power to sever Himself and His bride, indissolubly joined (Mat 19:6; Joh 10:28-29; Joh 13:1).

JFB: Eph 5:32 - -- Rather, "This mystery is a great one." This profound truth, beyond man's power of discovering, but now revealed, namely, of the spiritual union of Chr...
Rather, "This mystery is a great one." This profound truth, beyond man's power of discovering, but now revealed, namely, of the spiritual union of Christ and the Church, represented by the marriage union, is a great one, of deep import. See on Eph 5:30. So "mystery" is used of a divine truth not to be discovered save by revelation of God (Rom 11:25; 1Co 15:51). The Vulgate wrongly translates, "This is a great sacrament," which is made the plea by the Romish Church (in spite of the blunder having been long ago exposed by their own commentators, CAJETAN and ESTIUS) for making marriage a sacrament; it is plain not marriage in general, but that of Christ and the Church, is what is pronounced to be a "great mystery," as the words following prove, "I [emphatic] say it in regard to Christ and to the Church" (so the Greek is best translated). "I, while I quote these words out of Scripture, use them in a higher sense" [CONYBEARE and HOWSON].

JFB: Eph 5:33 - -- Not to pursue further the mystical meaning of marriage. Translate, as Greek, "Do ye also (as Christ does) severally each one so love," &c. The words, ...
Not to pursue further the mystical meaning of marriage. Translate, as Greek, "Do ye also (as Christ does) severally each one so love," &c. The words, "severally each one," refer to them in their individual capacity, contrasted with the previous collective view of the members of the Church as the bride of Christ.
Clarke: Eph 5:24 - -- In every thing - That is, every lawful thing; for it is not intimated that they should obey their husbands in any thing criminal, or in any thing de...
In every thing - That is, every lawful thing; for it is not intimated that they should obey their husbands in any thing criminal, or in any thing detrimental to the interests of their souls. The husband may be profligate, and may wish his wife to become such also; he may be an enemy to true religion, and use his authority to prevent his wife from those means of grace which she finds salutary to her soul; in none of these things should she obey him.

Clarke: Eph 5:25 - -- Husbands, love your wives - Here is a grand rule, according to which every husband is called to act: Love your wife as Christ loved the Church. But ...
Husbands, love your wives - Here is a grand rule, according to which every husband is called to act: Love your wife as Christ loved the Church. But how did Christ love the Church? He gave himself for it - he laid down his life for it. So then husbands should, if necessary, lay down their lives for their wives: and there is more implied in the words than mere protection and support; for, as Christ gave himself for the Church to save it, so husbands should, by all means in their power, labor to promote the salvation of their wives, and their constant edification in righteousness. Thus we find that the authority of the man over the woman is founded on his love to her, and this love must be such as to lead him to risk his life for her. As the care of the family devolves on the wife, and the children must owe the chief direction of their minds and formation of their manners to the mother, she has need of all the assistance and support which her husband can give her; and, if she performs her duty well, she deserves the utmost of his love and affection.

Clarke: Eph 5:26 - -- That he might sanctify and cleanse it - The Church is represented as the spouse of Christ, as the woman is the spouse of the man; and, to prepare th...
That he might sanctify and cleanse it - The Church is represented as the spouse of Christ, as the woman is the spouse of the man; and, to prepare this Church for himself, he washes, cleanses, and sanctifies it. There is certainly an allusion here to the ancient method of purifying women, who were appointed to be consorts to kings; twelve months, it appears, were in some instances spent in this purification: Six months with oil of myrrh, and six months with sweet odors and with other things, for the purifying of women. See the case of Esther, Est 2:12; see also Psa 45:13, Psa 45:14; Eze 16:7-14

Clarke: Eph 5:26 - -- With the washing of water - Baptism, accompanied by the purifying influences of the Holy Spirit
With the washing of water - Baptism, accompanied by the purifying influences of the Holy Spirit

Clarke: Eph 5:26 - -- By the word - The doctrine of Christ crucified, through which baptism is administered, sin canceled, and the soul purified from all unrighteousness;...
By the word - The doctrine of Christ crucified, through which baptism is administered, sin canceled, and the soul purified from all unrighteousness; the death of Christ giving efficacy to all.

Clarke: Eph 5:27 - -- That he might present it to himself - It was usual to bring the royal bride to the king in the most sumptuous apparel; and is there not here an allu...
That he might present it to himself - It was usual to bring the royal bride to the king in the most sumptuous apparel; and is there not here an allusion to Psa 45:13, Psa 45:14 : The king’ s daughter (Pharaoh’ s) is all glorious within, her clothing is of wrought gold; she shall be brought unto the king (Solomon) in raiment of needlework? This presentation here spoken of by the apostle will take place on the last day. See the note on 2Co 11:2

A glorious Church - Every way splendid and honorable, because pure and holy

Clarke: Eph 5:27 - -- Not having spot - Σπιλος· No blemish on the face; no spots upon the garment; the heart and life both holy
Not having spot -

Clarke: Eph 5:27 - -- Wrinkle - Ῥυτιδα· No mark of superannuation or decay. The word is commonly applied to wrinkles on the face, indicative of sickness or dec...
Wrinkle -

Clarke: Eph 5:27 - -- Holy and without blemish - In every sense holy, pure, and perfect. Now it was for this purpose that Christ gave himself for the Church; and for this...
Holy and without blemish - In every sense holy, pure, and perfect. Now it was for this purpose that Christ gave himself for the Church; and for this purpose he continues the different ordinances which he has appointed; and, particularly, the preaching of the word - the doctrine of reconciliation through faith in his blood. And it is in this life that all this purification is to take place; for none shall be presented at the day of judgment to him who has not here been sanctified, cleansed, washed, made glorious, having neither spot, wrinkle, blemish, nor any such thing. How vain is the pretension of multitudes to be members of the true Church while full of spots, wrinkles, blemishes, and Many such things; fondly supposing that their holiness is in their surety, because not in themselves! Reader, lay thy hand on thy conscience and say, Dost thou believe that this is St. Paul’ s meaning? See the notes on Eph 3:14, etc.

Clarke: Eph 5:28 - -- As their own bodies - For the woman is, properly speaking, a part of the man; for God made man male and female, and the woman was taken out of his s...
As their own bodies - For the woman is, properly speaking, a part of the man; for God made man male and female, and the woman was taken out of his side; therefore is she flesh of his flesh, and bone of his bone; and therefore, he that loveth his wife loveth himself, for they two are one flesh. The apostle, in all these verses, refers to the creation and original state of the first human pair.

Clarke: Eph 5:29 - -- No man ever yet hated his own flesh - And this is a natural reason why he should love his wife, and nourish and cherish her.
No man ever yet hated his own flesh - And this is a natural reason why he should love his wife, and nourish and cherish her.

Clarke: Eph 5:30 - -- We are members of his body - He has partaken of our nature, as we have partaken of the nature of Adam. And as he is the head of the Church and the S...
We are members of his body - He has partaken of our nature, as we have partaken of the nature of Adam. And as he is the head of the Church and the Savior of this body; so we, being members of the Church, are members of his mystical body. That is, we are united to him by one Spirit in the closest intimacy, even similar to that which the members have with the body.

Clarke: Eph 5:31 - -- Shall be joined unto his wife - Προσκολληθησεται· He shall be glued or cemented to her; and, as a well-glued board will sooner br...
Shall be joined unto his wife -

Clarke: Eph 5:32 - -- This is a great mystery - Το μυστηριον τουτο μεγα εστιν· This mystery is great. Sacramentum hoc magnum est ; this sacra...
This is a great mystery -

Clarke: Eph 5:33 - -- Nevertheless - Πλην· Moreover, or therefore, on the consideration of God’ s design in the institution of marriage, let every one of you ...
Nevertheless -

Clarke: Eph 5:33 - -- That she reverence her husband - Let the wife ever consider the husband as her head, and this he is, not only by nature, but also by the ordinance o...
That she reverence her husband - Let the wife ever consider the husband as her head, and this he is, not only by nature, but also by the ordinance of God. These are very important matters, and on them the apostle lays great stress. See the following observations
There is one subject in the preceding verse on which I could not enlarge sufficiently in the notes, and which I have reserved for this place; viz. what the apostle says concerning the mystery of marriage, which certainly has a deeper meaning than what is generally apprehended. Dr. Macknight has some good observations on this part of the subject, which I shall beg leave to lay before my readers
1. "The apostle calls the formation of Eve from Adam’ s body, his marriage with her; and the intimate union established between them by that marriage, a great mystery, because it contained an important emblematical meaning concerning the regeneration of believers, and their union with Christ, which hitherto had been kept secret, but which he had discovered in the 30th verse. For there, in allusion to what Adam said concerning Eve, ‘ This now is bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh,’ the apostle says, concerning Christ and believers: We are bone of his bones, and flesh of his flesh: that is, we are parts of his body, the Church. And by this application of Adam’ s words concerning Eve to Christ and to his Church, he intimates
First, That the formation of Eve of a rib taken out of Adam’ s body was a figure of the regeneration of believers by the breaking of Christ’ s body, mentioned Eph 5:25
Secondly, That Adam’ s love to Eve, on account of her being formed of his body, was a figure of Christ’ s love to believers because they are become his body, Eph 5:30
Thirdly, That Adam’ s marriage with Eve was a figure of the eternal union of Christ with believers in heaven, mentioned Eph 5:27. For he left his Father to be united to his Church
2. "In giving this emblematical representation of these ancient facts, the apostle has not exceeded the bounds of probability. In the first age, neither the art of writing, nor any permanent method of conveying instruction, being invented, it was necessary to make such striking actions and events as could not easily be forgotten emblems of the instruction meant to be perpetuated. On this supposition, Adam, in whom the human race began, was a natural image of Christ, in whom the human race was to be restored; and his deep sleep, the opening of his side, and the formation of Eve of a rib taken out of his side, were fit emblems of Christ’ s death, of the opening of his side on the cross, and of the regeneration of believers by his death. The love which Adam expressed towards Eve, and his union with her by marriage, were lively images of Christ’ s love to believers, and of his eternal union with them in one society after their resurrection; and Eve herself, who was formed of a rib taken from Adam’ s side, was a natural image of believers, who are regenerated, both in their body and in their mind, by the breaking of Christ’ s side on the cross. Thus, the circumstances which accompanied the formation of Eve being fit emblems of the formation of the Church, we may suppose they were brought to pass to prefigure that great event; and, by prefiguring it, to show that it was decreed of God from the very beginning
3. "The aptness, however, of these images is not the only reason for supposing that the formation of Eve, and her marriage with Adam in paradise, were emblems of the regeneration of believers by the death of Christ, and of their eternal union with him in heaven. The singular manner in which Eve was formed, and the declaration at her marriage with Adam, ‘ Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and cleave unto his wife, and they shall be one flesh,’ strongly lead to that conclusion. Eve was not formed of the dust of the earth, as all other living things were made, (not excepting Adam himself), but of a rib taken from Adam’ s side while he was in a deep sleep. Now, for this diversity, what reason can be assigned, if that which the apostle hath suggested is not admitted? Farther: unless some deep instruction were couched under the formation of Eve, what occasion was there for Adam, at his marriage with her, to declare, ‘ This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man: therefore shall a man leave,’ etc.? For although the taking of Eve out of Adam might be a reason for Adam’ s affection towards her, it was no reason for the affection of his posterity towards their wives, who were not so formed. The reason of their love to their wives is their being creatures of the same species with themselves. This Eve might have been, though, like Adam, she had been formed of the dust of the earth. Wherefore Adam’ s declaration concerning Eve being taken out of his body, and concerning his love to her on that account, was intended for some purpose peculiar to himself; namely, as he was a type of Him who was to restore the human race by the breaking of his body on the cross, and who on that account loves them, and will unite them to himself for ever. Upon the whole, the formation of Eve and her marriage with Adam, and his love to and union with her because she was taken out of his side, and the declaration that, on that account, all his posterity should love their wives, and continue united to them through life, (a union which does not subsist among other animals), are events so singular, that I do not see what account can be given of them, unless, with the Apostle Paul, we suppose that, agreeably to the most ancient method of instruction, God intended these things as figurative representations of the regeneration of believers by the death of Christ, and of his eternal union with them in heaven; and that Adam and Eve were taught by God himself to consider them as such
4. "It is no small confirmation of the apostle’ s emblematical interpretation of the formation and marriage of Eve, that in Scripture we find a variety of images and expressions founded on that interpretation. For example, Rom 5:14, Adam is expressly called a type of him who was to come, on which account, 1Co 15:45, Christ is called the last Adam. Next, the catholic Church, consisting of believers of all nations, is called the body of Christ, and the members thereof are said to be members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones; in allusion to the formation of Eve, the emblem of the Church. For, as Eve was formed of a rib taken out of Adam’ s body during his deep sleep, so believers are regenerated both in mind and body, and formed into one great society, and united to Christ as their head and governor, by the breaking of his body on the cross. Thirdly, to this emblematical meaning of the formation of Eve, our Lord, I think, alluded when he instituted his supper. For instead of appointing one symbol only of his death, he appointed two; and, in explaining the first of them, he expressed himself in such a manner as to show that he had his eye on what happened to Adam when Eve was formed: This is my body which is broken for you - for your regeneration. Fourthly, the eternal union of the regenerated with Christ after the resurrection is called a marriage, Rev 19:7; and the new Jerusalem, that is, the inhabitants of the new Jerusalem, the society of the redeemed, is termed the bride, the Lamb’ s wife; and the preparing of men for that happy union, by introducing them into the Church upon earth through faith, and by sanctifying them through the word, is called, 2Co 11:2, A fitting them for one husband, that at the resurrection they may be presented a chaste virgin to Christ; in allusion, I suppose, to the presenting of Eve to Adam, in order to her marriage with him; and to show that, in this expression, the apostle had the figurative meaning of Eve’ s marriage in his mind, he mentions, 2Co 11:3, the subtlety of the devil in deceiving Eve. Finally, the union of the Jewish Church with God, as the figure of the catholic Church, consisting of the regenerated of all nations, is by God himself termed a marriage, Jer 3:14; Ezekiel 16:8-32; and God is called the husband of that people, Isa 54:5; and their union to him by the law of Moses is termed, The day of their espousals, Jer 2:2.
1. A truly Christian marriage has an excellence, holiness, and unity in it, that cannot be easily described; and let it be observed that, while it prefigures the union of Christ with his Church, it is one means of giving children to the Church, and members to the mystical body of Christ. It is an ordinance of God, and, cannot be too highly honored; endless volumes might be written on its utility to man: without marriage, by which every man is assigned his own wife, and every woman her own husband, even the multitude of spurious births which would take place would fail to keep up the population of the earth; and natural, moral, and political wretchedness would be the consequence of promiscuous, fortuitous, and transitory connections. For without that ascertainment of peculiar property which marriage gives to every man in his wife, and to every woman in her husband, the human progeny would be unnoticed, unclaimed, uneducated, and totally neglected. This would continually increase the wretchedness, and in process of time bring about the total depopulation of the world
2. The husband is to love his wife, the wife to obey and venerate her husband; love and protection on the one hand, affectionate subjection and fidelity on the other. The husband should provide for his wife without encouraging profuseness; watch over her conduct without giving her vexation; keep her in subjection without making her a slave; love her without jealousy; oblige her without flattery; honor her without making her proud; and be hers entirely, without becoming either her footman or her slave. In short, they have equal rights and equal claims; but superior strength gives the man dominion, affection and subjection entitle the woman to love and protection. Without the woman, man is but half a human being; in union with the man, the woman finds her safety and perfection. In the above remarks there are many things solid and useful; there are others which rest more on fancy than judgment
3. Of marriage the Church of Rome has made a sacrament, and it is one of the seven which that Church acknowledges. That it is an ordinance of God is sufficiently evident; that he has not made it a sacrament is not less so. Though the minister of religion celebrates it, yet the regulation of it, in reference to inheritance, etc., is assumed by the state. This is of great moment, as by it many evils are prevented, and many political and domestic advantages secured. If a man enter hastily into this state it is at his own risk; after he has once entered it, the seal of the legislature is imposed upon it, and with his engagements, he cannot trifle. A consideration of this has prevented many hasty and disproportionate alliances. Though they might hope to trifle with the Church, they dare not do it with the state.
Calvin: Eph 5:24 - -- 24.=== But, === as the church is subject to Christ. The particle but, may lead some to believe that the words, he is the savior of the body, are ...
24.=== But, === as the church is subject to Christ. The particle but, may lead some to believe that the words, he is the savior of the body, are intended to anticipate an objection. Christ has, no doubt, this peculiar claim, that he is the Savior of the Church: nevertheless, let wives know, that their husbands, though they cannot produce equal claims, have authority over them, after the example of Christ. I prefer the former interpretation; for the argument derived from the word but, (

Calvin: Eph 5:25 - -- 25.Husbands, love your wives From husbands, on the other hand, the apostle requires that they cherish toward their wives no ordinary love; for to the...
25.Husbands, love your wives From husbands, on the other hand, the apostle requires that they cherish toward their wives no ordinary love; for to them, also, he holds out the example of Christ, — even as Christ also loved the church. If they are honored to bear his image, and to be, in some measure, his representatives, they ought to resemble him also in the discharge of duty.
And gave himself for it This is intended to express the strong affection which husbands ought to have for their wives, though he takes occasion, immediately afterwards, to commend the grace of Christ. Let husbands imitate Christ in this respect, that he scrupled not to die for his church. One peculiar consequence, indeed, which resulted from his death, — that by it he redeemed his church, — is altogether beyond the power of men to imitate.

Calvin: Eph 5:26 - -- 26.That he might sanctify, — or, that he might separate it to himself; for such I consider to be the meaning of the word sanctify This is accompl...
26.That he might sanctify, — or, that he might separate it to himself; for such I consider to be the meaning of the word sanctify This is accomplished by the forgiveness of sins, and the regeneration of the Spirit.
Washing it with the washing of water Having mentioned the inward and hidden sanctification, he now adds the outward symbol, by which it is visibly confirmed; as if he had said, that a pledge of that sanctification is held out to us by baptism. Here it is necessary to guard against unsound interpretation, lest the wicked superstition of men, as has frequently happened, change a sacrament into an idol. When Paul says that we are washed by baptism, his meaning is, that God employs it for declaring to us that we are washed, and at the same time performs what it represents. If the truth — or, which is the same thing, the exhibition of the truth — were not connected with baptism, it would be improper to say that baptism is the washing of the soul. At the same time, we must beware of ascribing to the sign, or to the minister, what belongs to God alone. We must not imagine that washing is performed by the minister, or that water cleanses the pollutions of the soul, which nothing but the blood of Christ can accomplish. In short, we must beware of giving any portion of our confidence to the element or to man; for the true and proper use of the sacrament is to lead us directly to Christ, and to place all our dependence upon him.
Others again suppose that too much importance is given to the sign, by saying that baptism is the washing of the soul. Under the influence of this fear, they labor exceedingly to lessen the force of the eulogium which is here pronounced on baptism. But they are manifestly wrong; for, in the first place, the apostle does not say that it is the sign which washes, but declares it to be exclusively the work of God. It is God who washes, and the honor of performing it cannot lawfully be taken from its Author and given to the sign. But there is no absurdity in saying that God employs a sign as the outward means. Not that the power of God is limited by the sign, but this assistance is accommodated to the weakness of our capacity. Some are offended at this view, imagining that it takes from the Holy Spirit a work which is peculiarly his own, and which is everywhere ascribed to him in Scripture. But they are mistaken; for God acts by the sign in such a manner, that its whole efficacy depends upon his Spirit. Nothing more is attributed to the sign than to be an inferior organ, utterly useless in itself, except so far as it derives its power from another source.
Equally groundless is their fear, that by this interpretation the freedom of God will be restrained. The grace of God is not confined to the sign; so that God may not, if he pleases, bestow it without the aid of the sign. Besides, many receive the sign who are not made partakers of grace; for the sign is common to all, to the good and to the bad alike; but the Spirit is bestowed on none but the elect, and the sign, as we have said, has no efficacy without the Spirit. The Greek participle
In the word 165 This is very far from being a superfluous addition; for, if the word is taken away, the whole power of the sacraments is gone. What else are the sacraments but seals of the word? This single consideration will drive away superstition. How comes it that superstitious men are confounded by signs, but because their minds are not directed to the Word, which would lead them to God? Certainly, when we look to anything else than to the word, there is nothing sound, nothing pure; but one absurdity springs out of another, till at length the signs, which were appointed by God for the salvation of men, become profane, and degenerate into gross idolatry. The only difference, therefore, between the sacraments of the godly and the contrivances of unbelievers, is found in the Word.
By the Word is here meant the promise, which explains the value and use of the signs. Hence it appears, that the Papists do not at all observe the signs in a proper manner. They boast indeed, of having “the Word,” but appear to regard it as a sort of enchantment; for they mutter it in an unknown tongue; as if it were addressed to dead matter, and not to men. No explanation of the mystery is made to the people; and in this respect, were there no other, the sacrament begins to be nothing more than the dead element of water. In the word is equivalent to “By the word.”

Calvin: Eph 5:27 - -- 27.That he might present it to himself He declares what is the design of baptism and of our being washed. It is, that we may live in a holy and unbla...
27.That he might present it to himself He declares what is the design of baptism and of our being washed. It is, that we may live in a holy and unblamable manner before God. We are washed by Christ, not that we may return to our pollution, but that we may retain through our life the purity which we have once received. This is described in metaphorical language appropriate to his argument.
Not having spot or wrinkle As the beauty of the wife produces love in the husband, so Christ adorns the Church his bride with holiness as a proof of his regard. This metaphor contains an allusion to marriage; but he afterwards lays aside the figure, and says plainly, that Christ has reconciled the church, that it might be holy and without blemish. The true beauty of the church consists in this conjugal chastity, that is, in holiness and purity.
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Calvin: Eph 5:28 - -- 28.He that loveth his wife An argument is now drawn from nature itself, to prove that men ought to love their wives. Every man, by his very nature, l...
28.He that loveth his wife An argument is now drawn from nature itself, to prove that men ought to love their wives. Every man, by his very nature, loves himself. But no man can love himself without loving his wife. Therefore, the man who does not love his wife is a monster. The minor proposition is proved in this manner. Marriage was appointed by God on the condition that the two should be one flesh; and that this unity may be the more sacred, he again recommends it to our notice by the consideration of Christ and his church. Such is the amount of his argument, which to a certain extent applies universally to human society. To shew what man owes to man, Isaiah says, “hide not thyself from thine own flesh.” (Isa 58:7.) But this refers to our common nature. Between a man and his wife there is a far closer relation; for they not only are united by a resemblance of nature, but by the bond of marriage have become one man. Whoever considers seriously the design of marriage cannot but love his wife.

Calvin: Eph 5:29 - -- 29.Even as Christ the church He proceeds to enforce the obligations of marriage by representing to us Christ and his Church; for a more powerful exam...
29.Even as Christ the church He proceeds to enforce the obligations of marriage by representing to us Christ and his Church; for a more powerful example could not have been adduced. The strong affection which a husband ought to cherish towards his wife is exemplified by Christ, and an instance of that unity which belongs to marriage is declared to exist between himself and the Church. This is a remarkable passage on the mysterious intercourse which we have with Christ.

Calvin: Eph 5:30 - -- 30.For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones First, this is no exaggeration, but the simple truth. Secondly, he does not simply ...
30.For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones First, this is no exaggeration, but the simple truth. Secondly, he does not simply mean that Christ is a partaker of our nature, but expresses something higher (

Calvin: Eph 5:31 - -- 31.For this cause This is an exact quotation from the writings of Moses. (Gen 2:24.) And what does it mean? As Eve was formed out of the substance of...
31.For this cause This is an exact quotation from the writings of Moses. (Gen 2:24.) And what does it mean? As Eve was formed out of the substance of her husband, and thus was a part of himself; so, if we are the true members of Christ, we share his substance, and by this intercourse unite into one body. In short, Paul describes our union to Christ, a symbol and pledge of which is given to us in the ordinance of the supper. Those who talk about the torture exercised on this passage to make it refer to the Lord’s supper, while no mention is made of the supper, but of marriage, are egregiously mistaken. When they admit that the death of Christ is commemorated in the supper, but not that such intercourse exists as we assert from the words of Christ, we quote this passage against them. Paul says that we are members of his flesh and of his bones. Do we wonder then, that in the Lord’s supper he holds out his body to be enjoyed by us, and to nourish us unto eternal life? Thus we prove that the only union which we maintain to be represented by the Lord’s supper is here declared in its truth and consequences by the apostle.
Two subjects are exhibited together; for the spiritual union between Christ and his church is so treated as to illustrate the common law of marriage, to which the quotation from Moses relates. He immediately adds, that the saying is fulfilled in Christ and the church. Every opportunity which presents itself for proclaiming our obligations to Christ is readily embraced, but he adapts his illustration of them to the present subject. It is uncertain whether Moses introduces Adam as using these words, or gives them as an inference drawn by himself from the creation of man. Nor is it of much consequence which of these views be taken; for, in either case, we must hold it to be an announcement of the will of God, enjoining the duties which men owe to their wives.
He shall leave his father and mother As if he had said, “Let him rather leave his father and mother than not cleave to his wife.” The marriage bond does not set aside the other duties of mankind, nor are the commandments of God so inconsistent with each other, that a man cannot be a good and faithful husband without ceasing to be a dutiful son. It is altogether a question of degree. Moses draws the comparison, in order to express more strongly the close and sacred union which subsists between husband and wife. A son is bound by an inviolable law of nature to perform his duties towards his father; and when the obligations of a husband towards his wife are declared to be stronger, their force is the better understood. He who resolves to be a good husband will not fail to perform his filial duties, but will regard marriage as more sacred than all other ties.
And they two shall be one flesh They shall be one man, or, to use a common phrase, they shall constitute one person; which certainly would not hold true with regard to any other kind of relationship. All depends on this, that the wife was formed of the flesh and bones of her husband. Such is the union between us and Christ, who in some sort makes us partakers of his substance. “We are bone of his bone, and flesh of his flesh,” (Gen 2:23;) not because, like ourselves, he has a human nature, but because, by the power of his Spirit, he makes us a part of his body, so that from him we derive our life.

Calvin: Eph 5:32 - -- 32.This is a great mystery He concludes by expressing his astonishment at the spiritual union between Christ and the church. This is a great mystery...
32.This is a great mystery He concludes by expressing his astonishment at the spiritual union between Christ and the church. This is a great mystery; by which he means, that no language can explain fully what it implies. It is to no purpose that men fret themselves to comprehend, by the judgment of the flesh, the manner and character of this union; for here the infinite power of the Divine Spirit is exerted. Those who refuse to admit anything on this subject beyond what their own capacity can reach, act an exceedingly foolish part. We tell them that the flesh and blood of Christ are exhibited to us in the Lord’s supper. “Explain to us the manner,” they reply, “or you will not convince us.” For my own part, I am overwhelmed by the depth of this mystery, and am not ashamed to join Paul in acknowledging at once my ignorance and my admiration. How much more satisfactory would this be than to follow my carnal judgment, in undervaluing what Paul declares to be a deep mystery! Reason itself teaches how we ought to act in such matters; for whatever is supernatural is clearly beyond our own comprehension. Let us therefore labor more to feel Christ living in us, than to discover the nature of that intercourse.
We cannot avoid admiring the acuteness of the Papists, who conclude from the word mystery (
We see then the hammer and anvil with which they fabricated this sacrament. But they have given another proof of their indolence in not attending to the correction which is immediately added,
But I speak concerning Christ and the church He intended to give express warning that no man should understand him as speaking of marriage; so that his meaning is more fully expressed than if he had uttered the former sentiment without any exception. The great mystery is, that Christ breathes into the church his own life and power. But who would discover here anything like a sacrament? This blunder arose from the grossest ignorance.

Calvin: Eph 5:33 - -- 33.Nevertheless, let every one Having digressed a little from this subject, though the very digression aided his design, he adopts the method usually...
33.Nevertheless, let every one Having digressed a little from this subject, though the very digression aided his design, he adopts the method usually followed in short precepts, by giving a brief summary of duties. Husbands are required to love their wives, and wives to fear (
Defender: Eph 5:26 - -- Sanctification and cleansing of "the church" - which certainly must include individual members - is accomplished through the Word (Joh 17:17)."
Sanctification and cleansing of "the church" - which certainly must include individual members - is accomplished through the Word (Joh 17:17)."

Defender: Eph 5:27 - -- There is no spotless church in existence today, but when Christ returns, "we shall be like him" (1Jo 3:2) and shall all be in "the general assembly an...

Defender: Eph 5:29 - -- A modern pseudo-psychological cliche is that the troubles in modern life are due to lack of self-love in criminals and anti-social misfits. However, t...
A modern pseudo-psychological cliche is that the troubles in modern life are due to lack of self-love in criminals and anti-social misfits. However, the Scriptural fact is that no man hates himself - everyone loves himself too much. The first prophesied characteristic of the perilous last days is that "men shall be lovers of their own selves" (2Ti 3:1, 2Ti 3:2)."

Defender: Eph 5:30 - -- The amazing truth of the union of Christ and His church thus is tied to the historical reality of the union of Adam and Eve (Gen 2:23). Just as Adam g...

Defender: Eph 5:31 - -- This phrase is cited from Gen 2:24. This passage was also quoted by Christ in His teaching on the permanence of marriage (Mat 19:5, Mat 19:6). Thus bo...

TSK: Eph 5:25 - -- love : Eph 5:28; Gen 2:24, Gen 24:67; 2Sa 12:3; Pro 5:18, Pro 5:19; Col 3:19; 1Pe 3:7
loved : Eph 5:2; Mat 20:28; Luk 22:19, Luk 22:20; Joh 6:51; Act ...

TSK: Eph 5:26 - -- he : Joh 17:17-19; Act 26:18; 1Co 6:11; Tit 2:14; Heb 9:14, Heb 10:10; 1Pe 1:2; Jud 1:1
with : Eze 16:9, Eze 36:25; Zec 13:1; Joh 3:5; Act 22:16; Tit ...

TSK: Eph 5:27 - -- he : 2Co 4:14, 2Co 11:2; Col 1:22, Col 1:28; Jud 1:24
glorious : Psa 45:13, Psa 87:3; Isa 60:15-20, Isa 62:3; Jer 33:9; Heb 12:22-24; Rev 7:9-17, 21:1...

TSK: Eph 5:29 - -- hated : Eph 5:31; Pro 11:17; Ecc 4:5; Rom 1:31
nourisheth : Isa 40:11; Eze 34:14, Eze 34:15, Eze 34:27; Mat 23:37; Joh 6:50-58



TSK: Eph 5:32 - -- a great : Eph 6:19; Col 2:2; 1Ti 3:8, 1Ti 3:16
speak : Psa 45:9-17; Song 1:1-8:14; Isa 54:5, Isa 62:4, Isa 62:5; Joh 3:29; 2Co 11:2; Rev 19:7, Rev 19:...

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Barnes: Eph 5:24 - -- In everything - In everything which is not contrary to the will of God; see the notes on Eph 5:23.
In everything - In everything which is not contrary to the will of God; see the notes on Eph 5:23.

Barnes: Eph 5:25 - -- Husbands, love your wives - The duty of the wife is to obey; the right of the husband is to command. But the apostle would guard against the ab...
Husbands, love your wives - The duty of the wife is to obey; the right of the husband is to command. But the apostle would guard against the abuse of that right by enjoining the manifestation of such a spirit on the husband as would secure obedience on the part of the wife. He proceeds, therefore, to show, that the husband, in all his conversation with the wife, should manifest the same spirit which the Lord Jesus did toward the church; or, in other words, he holds up the conduct of the Redeemer toward the church, as the model for a husband to imitate. If a husband wished a rule that would be short, simple, clear, and efficacious, about the manner in which he should regard and treat his wife, he could not find a better one than that here suggested.
Even as Christ loved the church - This was the strongest love that has ever been evinced in this world. It follows, that a husband is in no danger of loving his wife too much, provided she be not loved more than God. We are to make the love which Christ had for the church the model.
And gave himself for it - Gave himself to die to redeem it. The meaning here is, that husbands are to imitate the Redeemer in this respect. As he gave himself to suffer on the cross to save the church, so we are to be willing to deny ourselves, and to bear toil and trial, that we may promote the happiness of the wife. It is the duty of the husband to toil for her support; to provide for her needs; to deny himself of rest and ease, if necessary, in order to attend on her in sickness to go before her in danger; to defend her if she is in peril; and to be ready to die to save her Why should he not be? If they are shipwrecked, and there is a single plank on which safety can be secured, should he not be willing to place her on that, and see her safe at all hazards to himself? But there may be more implied in this than that a man is to toil, and even to lay down his life for the welfare of his wife. Christ laid down his life to save the church; and a husband should feel that it should be one great object of his life to promote the salvation of his wife. He is bound so to live as not to interfere with her salvation, but so as to promote it in every way possible. He is to furnish her all the "facilities"that she may need, to enable her to attend on the worship of God; and to throw no obstacles in her way. He is to set her the example; to counsel her if she needs counsel, and to make the path of salvation as easy for her as possible. If a husband has the spirit and self-denial of the Saviour, he will regard no sacrifice too great if he may promote the salvation of his family.

Barnes: Eph 5:26 - -- That he might sanctify - The great object of the Redeemer was to purify and save the church. The meaning here is, that a husband is to manifest...
That he might sanctify - The great object of the Redeemer was to purify and save the church. The meaning here is, that a husband is to manifest similar love toward his wife, and a similar desire that she should be prepared to "walk before him in white".
And cleanse it with the washing of water - In all this there is an allusion doubtless to the various methods of purifying and cleansing those who were about to be married, and who were to be united to monarchs as their brides. In some instances this previous preparation continued for twelve months. The means of purification were various, but consisted usually in the use of costly unguents; see Est 2:12. "Six months with oil of myrrh, and six months with sweet odors, and with other things for the purifying of women;"compare Psa 45:13-14; Eze 16:7-14. As such a virgin was purified and prepared for her husband by washing and by anointing, so the church is to be prepared for Christ. It is to be made pure and holy. Outwardly there is to be the application of water - the symbol of purity; and within there is to be holiness of heart; see the notes on 2Co 11:2, where Paul says of the Corinthians, "I have espoused you to one husband, that I may present you as a chaste virgin to Christ."
By the word - There has been much diversity of opinion respecting the meaning of this. Probably the sense of the expression is, that all this was to be accomplished by the instrumentality of the truth - the Word of God. By that truth they were to be sanctified Joh 17:17; and in accordance with that the whole work from the commencement to the close was to be accomplished. It was not by external ceremonies, and not by any miraculous power on the heart, but by the faithful application of truth to the heart.

Barnes: Eph 5:27 - -- That he may present it to himself - In the last day, when he shall receive the church as his spouse to heaven; Rev 21:9. Perhaps the word "prep...
That he may present it to himself - In the last day, when he shall receive the church as his spouse to heaven; Rev 21:9. Perhaps the word "prepare"would better express the sense here than "present"- that he may prepare it for himself as a holy church. Tyndale renders it, "to make it unto himself."
A glorious church - A church full of honor, splendor, beauty. The idea of "shining,"or of being "bright,"would convey the sense here. Probably there is still here an allusion to a bride "adorned for her husband"(Rev 21:2; compare Psa 45:9-14); and the ideal is, that the church will be worthy of the love of the bridegroom, to whom it will then be presented.
Not having spot - Not having a stain, a defect, or any impurity - still retaining the allusion to a bride, and to the care taken to remove every blemish.
Or wrinkle - In the vigor and beauty of youth like a bride in whom there is no wrinkle of age.
Or any such thing - Nothing to deform, disfigure, or offend. To this beautiful illustration of the final glory of the church, the apostle was led by the mention of the relation of the husband and the wife. It shows:
(1) The tendency of the thoughts of Paul. He delighted to allow the associations in his mind, no matter what the subject was, to draw him along to the Redeemer.
\caps1 (2) t\caps0 he passage here shows us what the church will yet be. There will be a period in its history when there shall not be any imperfection; when there shall be neither spot, nor wrinkle, nor any such thing. In heaven all will be pure. On earth we are preparing for that world of purity; and it cannot be denied that here there is much that is imperfect and impure. But in that future world, where the church shall be presented to Christ, clothed in the robes of salvation, there shall not be one unholy member; one deceiver or hypocrite; one covetous or avaricious man; one that shall pain the hearts of the friends of purity by an unholy life. And in all the million that shall be gathered there out of every land, and people, and tongue, and age, there shall be no envy, malice, backbiting, pride, vanity, worldliness; there shall be no annoying and vexing conflict in the heart with evil passions, "nor any such thing."How different from the church as it now is; and how we should pant for that blessed world!

Barnes: Eph 5:28 - -- So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies - Because they are one flesh; Eph 5:31. This is the subject on which Paul had been speakin...
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies - Because they are one flesh; Eph 5:31. This is the subject on which Paul had been speaking, and from which he had been diverted by the allusion to the glorified church. The doctrine here is, that a husband should have the same care for the comfort of his wife which he has for himself. He should regard her as one with himself; and as he protects his own body from cold and hunger, and, when sick and suffering, endeavors to restore it to health, so he should regard and treat her.
He that loveth his wife loveth himself -
(1) Because she is one with him, and their interests are identified.
\caps1 (2) b\caps0 ecause, by this, he really promotes his own welfare, as much as he does when he takes care of his own body. A man’ s kindness to his wife will be more than repaid by the happiness which she imparts; and all the real solicitude which he shows to make her happy, will come to more than it costs. If a man wishes to promote his own happiness in the most effectual way, he had better begin by showing kindness to his wife.

Barnes: Eph 5:29 - -- For no man ever yet hated his own flesh - This is urged as an argument why a man should love his wife and show kindness to her. As no man disre...
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh - This is urged as an argument why a man should love his wife and show kindness to her. As no man disregards the happiness of his own body, or himself, so he should show equal care to promote the happiness of his wife. A sentiment similar to this is found in the classic writers. Thus, Curtius (lib. vii.) says, "Corporibus nostris quoe utique non odimus"- "We do not hate those things that pertain to our own bodies."So Seneca (Epis. 14), "Fateor insitam nobis esse corporis nostri charitatem "- "I confess that there is implanted in us the love of our own body."The word nourisheth here means properly to bring up, as e. g., children. The sense here is, that he provides for it, and guards it from exposure and want. The word "cherisheth"-

Barnes: Eph 5:30 - -- For we are members of his body - Of the body of Christ; see 1Co 11:3, note; 1Co 12:27, note; Joh 15:1-6, notes, and Eph 1:23, note. The idea he...
For we are members of his body - Of the body of Christ; see 1Co 11:3, note; 1Co 12:27, note; Joh 15:1-6, notes, and Eph 1:23, note. The idea here is, that there is a close and intimate union between the Christian and the Saviour - a union so intimate that they may be spoken of as "one".
Of his flesh, and of his bones - There is an allusion here evidently to the language which Adam used respecting Eve. "This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh;"Gen 2:23. It is language which is employed to denote the closeness of the marriage relation, and which Paul applies to the connection between Christ and his people. Of course, it cannot be understood "literally."It is not true literally that our bones are a part of the bones of Christ, or our flesh of his flesh; nor should language ever be used that would imply a miraculous union. It is not a physical union, but a union of attachment; of feeling; of love. If we avoid the notion of a "physical"union, however, it is scarcely possible to use too strong language in describing the union of believers with the Lord Jesus. The Scriptures make use of language which is stronger than that employed to describe any other connection; and there is no union of affection so powerful as that which binds the Christian to the Saviour. So strong is it, that he is willing for it to forsake father, mother, and home; to leave his country, and to abandon his possessions; to go to distant lands and dwell among barbarians to make the Redeemer known; or to go to the cross or the stake from simple love to the Saviour. Account for it as people may, there has been manifested on earth nowhere else so strong an attachment as that which binds the Christian to the cross. It is stronger love that that which a man has for his own flesh and bones; for it makes him willing that his flesh should be consumed by fire, or his bones broken on the wheel rather than deny him. Can the infidel account for this strength of attachment on any other principle than that it has a divine origin?
(See the supplementary note, Rom 8:10, on the union between Christ and his people, in which it is shown that a mere union of feeling and love is far beneath the truth.)

Barnes: Eph 5:31 - -- For this cause - Ἀντὶ τόυτου Anti toutou . This verse is a quotation from Gen 2:24, and contains the account of the instit...
For this cause -

Barnes: Eph 5:32 - -- This is a great mystery - The Latin Vulgate translates this, "sacramentum hoc magnum est "- "this is a great sacrament"- and this is the proof,...
This is a great mystery - The Latin Vulgate translates this, "sacramentum hoc magnum est "- "this is a great sacrament"- and this is the proof, I suppose, and the only proof adduced by the papists that marriage is a "sacrament."But the original here conveys no such idea. The word "mystery"-
But I speak concerning Christ and the church - This, it seems to me, is an explicit disclaimer of any intention to be understood as affirming that the marriage contract was designed to be a "type"of the union of the Redeemer and his people. The apostle says expressly, that his remarks do not refer to "marriage at all"when he speaks of the mystery. They refer "solely"to the union of the Redeemer and his people. How strange and unwarranted, therefore, are all the comments of expositors on this passage designed to explain marriage as "a mysterious type"of the union of Christ and the church! If people would allow the apostle to speak for himself, and not force on him sentiments which he expressly disclaims, the world would be saved from such insipid allegories as Macknight and others have derived from this passage. The Bible is a book of sense; and the time will come, it is hoped, when, freed from all such allegorizing expositions, it will commend itself to the good sense of mankind. Marriage is an important, a holy, a noble, a pure institution, altogether worthy of God; but it does not thence follow that marriage was designed to be a type of the union between Christ and the church, and it is certain that the apostle Paul meant; to teach no such thing.

Barnes: Eph 5:33 - -- Nevertheless - The apostle here resumes the subject which he had been discussing in Eph 5:21-29, and says that it was the duty of every man to ...
Nevertheless - The apostle here resumes the subject which he had been discussing in Eph 5:21-29, and says that it was the duty of every man to love his wife as he did himself. This was the main topic, from which he had been diverted by the discussion respecting the love which the Redeemer had shown for his church.
And the wife see that she reverence her husband - The word "see"is supplied by our translators. The meaning is, that it was the special duty of the wife to show respect for her husband as the head of the family, and as set over her in the Lord; see on Eph 5:22, note 28, note. The word rendered "reverence,"is that which usually denotes "fear"-
From what is here said of the duties of husband and wife we may remark:
(1) That the happiness of society depends on just views of the marriage relation. It is true the world over, that the views which prevail in regard to this relation, determine everything in reference to all other relations of life, and to all other sources of enjoyment.
(2) God designed that woman should occupy a subordinate, though an important place in the relations of social life. This arrangement is never disregarded without evils which cannot be corrected until the original intention is secured. No imaginary good that can come out of the violation of the original design; no benefits which females, individual or associated, can confer on mankind by disregarding this arrangement, can be a compensation for the evil that is done, nor can the evil be remedied unless woman occupies the place which God designed she should fill. There nothing else can supply her place; and when she is absent from that situation - no matter what good she may be doing elsewhere - there is a silent evil reigning, which can be removed only by her return. It is not hers to fight battles, or to command armies and navies, or to control kingdoms, or to make laws. Nor is it hers to go forward as a public leader even in enterprises of benevolence, or in associations designed to act on the public mind. Her empire is the domestic circle; her first influence is there; and in connection with that, in such scenes as she can engage in without trenching on the prerogative of man, or neglecting the duty which she owes to her own family.
\caps1 (3) i\caps0 t is not best that there should be the open exercise of authority in a family. When "commands"begin in the relation of husband and wife, "happiness"flies; and the moment a husband is "disposed"to command his wife, or is "under a necessity"of doing it, that moment he may bid adieu to domestic peace and joy.
\caps1 (4) a\caps0 wife, therefore, should never give her husband "occasion"to command her to do anything, or forbid anything. His known wish, except in cases of conscience, should be law to her. The moment she can ascertain what his will is, that moment ought to settle her mind as to what is to be done.
\caps1 (5) a\caps0 husband should never "wish"or "expect"anything that it may not be perfectly proper for a wife to render. He, too, should consult "her"wishes; and when he understands what they are, he should regard what she prefers as the very thing which he would command. The known wish and preference of a wife, unless there be something wrong in it, should be allowed to influence his mind, and be that which he directs in the family.
\caps1 (6) t\caps0 here is no danger that a husband will love a wife too much, provides his love be subordinate to the love of God. The command is, to love her as Christ loved the church. What love has ever been like that? How can a husband exceed it? What did not Christ endure to redeem the church? So should a husband be willing to deny himself to promote the happiness of his wife; to watch by her in sickness, and, if need be, to peril health and life to promote her welfare. Doing this, he will not go beyond what Christ did for the church. He should remember that she has a special claim of justice on him. For him she has left her father’ s home, forsaken the friends of her youth, endowed him with whatever property she may have, sunk her name in his, confided her honor, her character, and her happiness, to his virtue; and the least that he can do for her is to love her, and strive to make her happy. This was what she asked when she consented to become his; and a husband’ s love is what she still asks to sustain and cheer her in the trials of life. If she has not this, whither shall she go for comfort?
\caps1 (7) w\caps0 e may see, then, the guilt of those husbands who withhold their affections from their wives, and forsake those to whom they had solemnly pledged themselves at the altar; those who neglect to provide for their needs, or to minister to them in sickness; and those who become the victims of intemperance, and leave their wives to tears. There is much, much guilt of this kind on earth. There are many, many broken vows. There are many, many hearts made to bleed. There is many a pure and virtuous woman who was once the object of tender affection, now, by no fault of hers, forsaken, abused, broken-hearted, by the brutal conduct of a husband,
\caps1 (8) w\caps0 ives should manifest such a character as to be worthy of love. They owe this to their husbands. They demand the confidence and affection of man; and they should show that they are worthy of that confidence and affection. It is not possible to love that which is unlovely, nor to force affection where it is undeserved; and, as a wife expects that a husband will love her more than he does any other earthly being, it is but right that she should evince such a spirit as shall make that proper. A wife may easily alienate the affections of her partner in life. If she is irritable and fault-finding; if none of his ways please her; if she takes no interest in his plans, and in what he does; if she forsakes her home when she should he there, and seeks happiness abroad; or if, at home, she never greets him with a smile; if she is wasteful of his earnings, and extravagant in her habits, it will be impossible to prevent the effects of such a course of life on his mind. And when a wife perceives the slightest evidence of alienated affection in her husband, she should inquire at once whether she has not given occasion for it, and exhibited such a spirit as tended inevitably to produce such a result.
\caps1 (9) t\caps0 o secure mutual love, therefore, it is necessary that there should be mutual kindness, and mutual loveliness of character. Whatever is seen to be offensive or painful, should be at once abandoned. All the little peculiarities of temper and modes of speech that are observed to give pain, should be forsaken; and, while one party should endeavor to tolerate them, and not to be offended, the other should make it a matter of conscience to remove them.
(10) the great secret of conjugal happiness is in the cultivation of a proper temper. It is not so much in the great and trying scenes of life that the strength of virtue is tested; it is in the events that are constantly occurring; the manifestation of kindness in the things that are happening every moment; the gentleness that flows along every day, like the stream that winds through the meadow and around the farm-house, noiseless but useful, diffusing fertility by day and by night. Great deeds rarely occur. The happiness of life depends little on them, but mainly on the little acts of kindness in life. We need them everywhere; we need them always. And eminently in the marriage relation there is need of gentleness and love, returning each morning, beaming in the eye, and dwelling in the heart through the livelong day.
Poole: Eph 5:24 - -- As the church is subject to Christ viz. with cheerfulness, chastity, humility, obedience, &c.
So let the wives be to their own husbands in imitatio...
As the church is subject to Christ viz. with cheerfulness, chastity, humility, obedience, &c.
So let the wives be to their own husbands in imitation of the church’ s subjection to Christ, as a pattern of their subjection to their husbands.
In every thing understand, to which the authority of the llusband extends itself.

Poole: Eph 5:25 - -- Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church viz. with a sincere, pure, ardent, and constant affection. As they resemble Christ in...
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church viz. with a sincere, pure, ardent, and constant affection. As they resemble Christ in the honour they have of being the heads of their wives, so they must likewise in performing the duty of loving them, under which all matrimonial duties are comprehended.
And gave himself for it whereby he testified the greatness of his love.

Poole: Eph 5:26 - -- That he might sanctify purify from its filth, and consecrate unto God: implying the whole translation of it out of a state of sin and misery into a s...
That he might sanctify purify from its filth, and consecrate unto God: implying the whole translation of it out of a state of sin and misery into a state of grace and life, consisting in the remission of sin, and renovation of nature.
And cleanse it or, cleansing it, importing the means whereby he works the former effect.
With the washing of water viz. in baptism, in which the external washing represents seals, and exhibits the internal cleansing from both the guilt and defilement of sin by the blood of Christ, Heb 9:14 Rev 1:5 .
By the word the word of the gospel, especially the promise of free justification and sanctification by Christ, which received by faith is a means of this sanctification, and without which the external washing is ineffectual; the sign, without the word whereof it is a seal, being no sacrament.

Poole: Eph 5:27 - -- That he might present it to himself hereafter in heaven; that the whole church of the elect may be present with him, 2Co 5:6,8 1Th 4:17 .
A glorious...
That he might present it to himself hereafter in heaven; that the whole church of the elect may be present with him, 2Co 5:6,8 1Th 4:17 .
A glorious church perfect in knowledge and holiness, shining with a heavenly glory, and fully conformed to himself, 1Jo 3:2 .
Not having spot spot of sin, in allusion to spots in garments.
Or wrinkle any relic of old Adam, in allusion to wrinkles in the body, which are signs of old age, and imply deformity.
Or any such thing viz. which is contrary to the beauty of the church, and might make her unpleasing to Christ her Husband.
Without blemish without any fault to be found in her. He seems to allude to the sacrifices, which were to be without blemish, Lev 1:3 : see Son 4:7 .

Poole: Eph 5:28 - -- So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies with the same kind of love wherewith they love their own bodies. The woman at first was taken ou...
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies with the same kind of love wherewith they love their own bodies. The woman at first was taken out of the man, and on that account the wife may be said to be a part of her husband.
He that loveth his wife loveth himself either this explains the former, and himself here is the same as
their own bodies before; or it adds to it, and is as much as, his own person, the wife being another self, one flesh, the same person (in a civil sense) with her husband.

Poole: Eph 5:29 - -- No man none in his right senses; or no man hates his flesh absolutely, but the diseases or miseries of it.
His own flesh his body.
Nourisheth and ...
No man none in his right senses; or no man hates his flesh absolutely, but the diseases or miseries of it.
His own flesh his body.
Nourisheth and cherisheth it feeds and clothes it, and supplies it with things necessary for it.
Even as the Lord the church which he furnisheth with all things needful to salvation.

Poole: Eph 5:30 - -- We are members of his body his mystical body.
Of his flesh, and of his bones as Eve was of Adam’ s, Gen 2:23 ; only that was in a carnal way, ...
We are members of his body his mystical body.
Of his flesh, and of his bones as Eve was of Adam’ s, Gen 2:23 ; only that was in a carnal way, this in a spiritual, as by the communication of Christ’ s flesh and blood to us by the Spirit we are united to him, and members of him.

Poole: Eph 5:31 - -- For this cause because the woman was formed of the flesh and bones of the man. He refers to Adam’ s words, Gen 2:24 .
Shall a man leave his fat...
For this cause because the woman was formed of the flesh and bones of the man. He refers to Adam’ s words, Gen 2:24 .
Shall a man leave his father and mother as to cohabitation, and domestic conversation; or, let a inan rather leave his father and mother than not cleave to his wife. The apostle doth not cancel the obligations of other relations, but prefers this before them.
They two shall be one flesh i.e. one body, or one man, viz. by the marriage bond, whereby each hath power over the other’ s body, 1Co 7:4 .

Poole: Eph 5:32 - -- This is a great mystery either, this that was spoken before of a marriage union between Christ and the church, and its being of his flesh and of his ...
This is a great mystery either, this that was spoken before of a marriage union between Christ and the church, and its being of his flesh and of his bones, is a great mystery, and so in the latter part of the verse the apostle explains himself. Or, this that was said of the conjunction of Adam and Eve was a great mystery, (i.e. a great secret in religion), as being a type of Christ’ s marriage with his church; though not an instituted type appointed by God to signify this, yet a kind of natural type, as having a resemblance to it.

Poole: Eph 5:33 - -- Nevertheless q.d. Setting aside this mystery; or, to return to my former exhortation.
Love his wife even as himself as her that is one flesh with h...
Nevertheless q.d. Setting aside this mystery; or, to return to my former exhortation.
Love his wife even as himself as her that is one flesh with him.
Reverence her husband or fear, yet not with a servile, but ingenuous fear, and such as proceeds from love.
Haydock: Eph 5:24 - -- As the church is subject to Christ. The Church then, according to St. Paul, is ever obedient to Christ: and can never fall from him, but remain fait...
As the church is subject to Christ. The Church then, according to St. Paul, is ever obedient to Christ: and can never fall from him, but remain faithful to him, unspotted and unchanged to the end of the world. (Challoner)

Haydock: Eph 5:26 - -- Cleansing it by the laver [3] of water, in the word of life. By this washing is generally understood the sacrament of baptism; and by the word of...
Cleansing it by the laver [3] of water, in the word of life. By this washing is generally understood the sacrament of baptism; and by the word of life, not the word of the gospel preached, but the words or form used in the administration of baptism, according to Christ's institution: but this is not so certain. (Witham)
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Lavacro aquæ in verbo vitæ, Greek: to loutro tou udatos en remati loutron, be taken for a bath of water, or the water itself. See Titus iii. 5. Vitæ is now wanting in the Greek. See Estius. St. John Chrysostom, by the word, understands the form of baptism in the name of the Father, &c. (Hom. xx.)
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Haydock: Eph 5:27 - -- Not having spot or wrinkle. St. Augustine and others expound it of the glorious Church of Christ, in heaven: others even of the Church of Christ in ...
Not having spot or wrinkle. St. Augustine and others expound it of the glorious Church of Christ, in heaven: others even of the Church of Christ in this world, as to its doctrines, sacraments, and disciplines, or practices approved by the Catholic Church. (Witham)

Haydock: Eph 5:28-31 - -- He that loveth his wife, loveth himself. St. Paul would have this a love like that which a man hath for himself, or for his own flesh, when they are...
He that loveth his wife, loveth himself. St. Paul would have this a love like that which a man hath for himself, or for his own flesh, when they are now joined in wedlock, and are become as it were one flesh and one person, as a civil life and society. See Matthew xix. 5. The wife is to be considered as a part of the husband, as a member of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. The words are to be taken with an allusion to what Adam said, (Genesis ii. 23.) This is now bone of my bones, &c. And so, according to the apostle, speaking figuratively, the Church, which is the spouse of Christ, is framed as it were of his bones and of his flesh sacrificed on the cross. (Witham)

Haydock: Eph 5:32 - -- This....sacrament, (or mystery).... in Christ, and in the Church. This sacrament, in construction, must be referred to what immediately went before...
This....sacrament, (or mystery).... in Christ, and in the Church. This sacrament, in construction, must be referred to what immediately went before, i.e. to the conjunction of marriage betwixt man and wife; and this is called a great sacrament, or mystery, as representing the union or spiritual nuptials of Christ with his spouse, the Church. (Witham)
Gill: Eph 5:24 - -- Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,.... Her head, being wholly dependent upon him, and entirely resigned to him, and receiving all from hi...
Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ,.... Her head, being wholly dependent upon him, and entirely resigned to him, and receiving all from him; from whom alone is all her expectation of provision, protection, comfort, and happiness; wherefore she has respect to all his commands, and esteems all his precepts concerning all things to be right; and yields a cheerful, voluntary, sincere, and hearty obedience to them; arising from a principle of love to him, and joined with honour, fear, and reverence of him:
so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything: political, domestic, and ecclesiastic; that is consistent with the laws of God, and the Gospel of Christ.

Gill: Eph 5:25 - -- Husbands, love your wives,.... Which consists in a strong and cordial affection for them; in a real delight and pleasure in them; in showing respect, ...
Husbands, love your wives,.... Which consists in a strong and cordial affection for them; in a real delight and pleasure in them; in showing respect, and doing honour to them; in seeking their contentment, satisfaction, and pleasure; in a quiet, constant, and comfortable dwelling with them; in providing all things necessary for them; in protecting them from all injuries and abuses; in concealing their faults, and covering their infirmities; in entertaining the best opinion of their persons and actions; and in endeavouring to promote their spiritual good and welfare: this love ought to be hearty and sincere, and not feigned and selfish; it should be shown in private, as well as in public: it should be chaste and single, constant and perpetual; it should exceed that which is bore to neighbours, or even to parents, and should be equal to that a man bears to himself; though not so as to hinder, and break in upon love to God and Christ: many are the reasons why husbands should love their wives; they are given to be helps unto them; they are companions of them; they are wives of covenant; they are their own wives, yea, their own bodies, their own flesh, nay, as themselves; they are their image and their glory; and especially the example of Christ, in his love to his church and people, should engage to it:
even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it: See Gill on Eph 5:2; the Syriac and Ethiopic versions read, "his own church"; his bride and spouse, whom he betrothed to himself from all eternity, the Father having given her to him; and is no other than the church of the firstborn, whose names are written in heaven, even all the elect of God.

Gill: Eph 5:26 - -- Being defiled, both with original sin and actual transgressions; for God's elect, whom Christ loved and espoused from everlasting, fell in Adam with t...
Being defiled, both with original sin and actual transgressions; for God's elect, whom Christ loved and espoused from everlasting, fell in Adam with the rest of mankind; and, in their natural state, live in sin as others do; and so are under the guilt, and in the pollution of it, as others be: Christ gave himself for them, that he might deliver them out of this state; he gave himself a sacrifice for them, that he might expiate their sins and make atonement and satisfaction for them; he shed his blood that he might cleanse them from them; and he wrought out a righteousness that he might justify them from all their iniquities; and which being put upon them, makes them to appear pure and spotless in the sight of divine justice; for this sanctifying and cleansing does not so much refer to the inward work of sanctification of the Spirit, though that is a fruit and effect of the death of Christ, and is brought about by the following means, as to the justification of them by the blood and righteousness of Christ: which is said to be,
with the washing of water; not baptism, which is never expressed by washing; nor does it purify or cleanse from sin; nor is it the means of sanctification and regeneration, which ought to be before it; nor the grace of the Spirit, though that is often compared to water, and regeneration and sanctification are owing to it; yet the saints are not so cleansed from sin by it, as to be without spot or wrinkle; but the blood of Christ, which is the fountain to wash in, and which cleanses from all sin:
by the word; not the form of words in baptism; but either the Gospel, which brings the good news and glad tidings of peace, pardon, atonement, and justification by Christ; or the sentence of justification pronounced upon the conscience by him; see Joh 15:2.

Gill: Eph 5:27 - -- That he might present it to himself a glorious church,.... There is a presentation of the church by Christ to his Father at his death, when he gathere...
That he might present it to himself a glorious church,.... There is a presentation of the church by Christ to his Father at his death, when he gathered the elect together in one, brought them nigh, and reconciled them to God, and presented them to holy, unblamable, and unreproveable in his sight; and now in heaven, where he represents their persons, appears and makes intercession for them; and at the last day, when he will deliver the whole number of them complete and perfect, in consequence of his suretyship engagements: but this is a presentation of them to himself; and is either in this life, when they are brought to him in raiment of needlework, clothed with his righteousness, and washed in his blood, and he beholds them all fair, and without spot; or at the first resurrection, and during the thousand years' reign; as well as in the ultimate glory, when the open marriage of the Lamb will be come, when his bride will be arrayed with line linen, clean and white; and have the glory of God upon her, and appear in glory with Christ, and will be a glorious church indeed:
not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; the bodies of the saints will be like to Christ's glorious body, and will shine as the sun in the kingdom of their Father; and in their souls they will be completely conformed to the image of Christ, and enjoy uninterrupted communion with him, and have perfect knowledge of him; they will be always in his presence, and he will take unspeakable delight and complacency in them, which his presentation of them to himself is expressive of; the church will then be free from all spots and blemishes; from all hypocrites and formal professors; and all heresies and heretics; from all declensions and infirmities, and from all sin and iniquity: the allusion seems to be to the customs and practices of the Jews, in their espousals: if a man espoused a woman on condition that she had no spots in her, and afterwards spots were found in her, she was not espoused; for spots or blemishes, as in priests, so in women, render them unfit; as the one for service, so the other for marriage; and they reckon up eight several spots or blemishes, for which they may be rejected q: but Christ's church has no spots or blemishes, nor anything like them; and will never be rejected by him, but will be always pleasing in his sight:
but that it should be holy and without blemish; as it is, being justified by his righteousness, washed in his blood, and sanctified by his Spirit.

Gill: Eph 5:28 - -- So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies,.... It is a common saying with the Jews, that a man's wife is כגופו, "as his own body" r; a...
So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies,.... It is a common saying with the Jews, that a man's wife is
he that loveth his wife loveth himself; because she is one body and flesh with him.

Gill: Eph 5:29 - -- For no man ever yet hated his own flesh,.... This is unnatural, contrary to the first principles of nature; see Isa 58:7; which the u Jews understand ...
For no man ever yet hated his own flesh,.... This is unnatural, contrary to the first principles of nature; see Isa 58:7; which the u Jews understand of one that is near akin, and there is none nearer than a wife:
but nourisheth and cherisheth it; feeds and clothes it:
even as the Lord the church; who never hated her, but nourishes and cherishes her: Christ never hated his church and people; for his love is not only a love of benevolence, but of complacency and delight: there is a difference between anger and hatred, Christ may be angry with them, but not hate them; and there is a difference between persons and actions, Christ may hate their actions, but not their persons; and there is a difference between desert and fact, they may be deserving of his wrath and hatred, but are not the objects of it in fact; and there is a difference between what is real, and what is imaginary, they may imagine themselves to be hated by him, when they are not; and there is a difference between hatred, and a non-discovery of love, Christ may not manifest his love, and yet not hate; as he never does his own people, for his love is everlasting and unchangeable: and he "nourishes" them, as a father his child, as a shepherd his flock, and as an husband his wife; he feeds them with that which is nourishing, and with himself the bread of life, with his covenant and promises, with the Gospel and the doctrines of it, and with his love and grace; and by his Spirit, ministers, word, and ordinances: and he "cherishes" them, he grants them near and intimate communion with himself, than which nothing is more desirable by them, or joyful to them; nor is there anything that more revives and encourages faith, hope, and love; he clothes them suitable to their dignity and character, as his spouse and bride; and with which they are well contented, and in which they look exceeding comely in his sight: these phrases are expressive of the whole care Christ takes of his church, in furnishing her with everything pertaining to life and godliness; for her comfort and happiness in this world, and that to come: instead of the Lord, the Alexandrian copy, and some others, the Vulgate Latin, Syriac, and Ethiopic versions read, Christ; and the Arabic version reads, "as the Lord loves the church".

Gill: Eph 5:30 - -- For we are members of his body,.... Not of his natural body, for this would make Christ's human nature monstrous; Christ, as man, is of our flesh and ...
For we are members of his body,.... Not of his natural body, for this would make Christ's human nature monstrous; Christ, as man, is of our flesh and of our bones, or a partaker of the same flesh and blood with us; or otherwise, his incarnation would have been of no service to us; and had our human nature been from Christ, it would not have been corrupted; but our bodies, flesh, and bones, are from the first, and not the second Adam, and so corrupt and sinful; Christ indeed, as God, is the former of all human nature, and, as man, was set up in God's thoughts as the pattern of it; but the apostle is here speaking of the saints, not as men, but as Christians, as new creatures in Christ; and of what is peculiar to them; and therefore this must be understood of Christ's mystical body the church; which is his by the Father's gift, and his own purchase; and of which he is the head, and which is united to him; now of this saints are members; see Rom 12:5.
Of his flesh and of his bones: for so the church may be called, his own flesh, his flesh and bones, on account of the marriage relation she stands in to him, and that spiritual union there is between them, which these phrases are expressive of; and which the near relation of man and wife is an emblem of; these words are wanting in the Alexandrian copy, and in the Ethiopic version.

Gill: Eph 5:31 - -- For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother,.... These words contain the law of marriage, and are cited from Gen 2:24; and declare what oug...

Gill: Eph 5:32 - -- This is a great mystery,.... It has something mysterious in it; it is a figure and emblem of the mysterious union between Christ and his people: for s...
This is a great mystery,.... It has something mysterious in it; it is a figure and emblem of the mysterious union between Christ and his people: for so it follows,
but I speak concerning Christ and the church; or mention this law and institution of marriage, with respect to them; for the leaving of father and mother prefigured Christ's coming forth from the Father, and coming into this world in human nature, and his disregard to his earthly parents, in comparison with his people, and his service for them; the man cleaving to the wife very aptly expresses the strong affection of Christ to his church, and the near communion there is between them; and their being one flesh denotes the union of them; and indeed, the marriage of Adam and Eve was a type of Christ and his church; for in this the first Adam was a figure of him that was to come, as well as in being a federal head to his posterity: Adam was before Eve, so Christ was before his church; God thought it not proper that man should be alone, so neither Christ, but that he should have some fellows and companions with him: the formation of Eve from Adam was typical of the church's production from Christ; she was made of him while he was asleep, which sleep was from the Lord, and it was not an ordinary one; which may resemble the sufferings and death of Christ, which were from the Lord, and were not common; and which are the redemption of his church and people; and which secure their comfort and happiness, and wellbeing: she was taken out of his side, and built up a woman of one of his ribs; both the justification and sanctification of the church are from Christ, from the water and the blood which issued out of his side, when on the cross: the bringing and presentation of Eve to Adam has its mystery; it was God that brought her to him; and she was the same that was made out of him; and to the same Adam was she brought of whose rib she was made, and that not against her will: so it is God that draws souls to Christ, and espouses them to him, even the same that he has chosen in him, and Christ has redeemed by his blood; and to the same are they brought, who was wounded for their transgressions, and bruised for their sins; and they are made willing in the day of his power upon them, to come and give themselves to him. Adam's consent and acknowledgment of Eve to be his wife, shadow forth Christ's hearty reception and acknowledgment of the saints, as being of him, and his, when they are brought unto him under the influences of his grace and Spirit.

Gill: Eph 5:33 - -- Nevertheless, let everyone of you in particular,.... The apostle returns to his former subject, and recapitulates the mutual duties of husband and wif...
Nevertheless, let everyone of you in particular,.... The apostle returns to his former subject, and recapitulates the mutual duties of husband and wife, after he had enforced them from the instance and example of Christ, and his church; and would have every married person in particular take the directions and instructions given, to themselves: as that the husband
so love his wife even as himself; since they two are one flesh:
and the wife see that she reverence her husband; since he leaves father and mother for her, and is the head of her; See Gill on Eph 5:22.

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NET Notes: Eph 5:26 The direct object “her” is implied, but not found in the Greek text. It has been supplied in the English translation to clarify the sense ...




NET Notes: Eph 5:30 Most Western witnesses, as well as the majority of Byzantine mss and a few others (א2 D F G Ψ 0278 0285vid Ï lat), add the following w...


NET Notes: Eph 5:32 The term “actually” is not in the Greek text, but is supplied in the English translation to bring out the heightened sense of the statemen...

NET Notes: Eph 5:33 The Greek verb φοβέομαι (fobeomai) here has been translated “respect” and the noun form of the wor...
Geneva Bible: Eph 5:24 ( 11 ) Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so [let] the wives [be] to their own husbands in every thing.
( 11 ) The conclusion of the wiv...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:25 ( 12 ) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
( 12 ) The husbands duty towards their wives is to l...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:26 ( 13 ) That he might ( m ) sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the ( n ) word,
( 13 ) Because many men pretend the infirmities of th...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, ( o ) not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without bl...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:28 ( 14 ) So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
( 14 ) Another argument: every man loves himself...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:29 For no man ever yet hated his ( p ) own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
( p ) His own body.

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:30 For we are members of his body, ( q ) of his flesh, and of his bones.
( q ) He alludes to the making of the woman, which signifies our union with Chr...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall ( r ) be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
( r ) See Mat 19:5...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:32 ( 15 ) This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
( 15 ) That no man might dream of natural union or knitting of Christ a...

Geneva Bible: Eph 5:33 ( 16 ) Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife [see] that she reverence [her] husband.
( 16 ) ...

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TSK Synopsis -> Eph 5:1-33
TSK Synopsis: Eph 5:1-33 - --1 After general exhortations to love;3 to flee fornication;4 and all uncleanness;7 not to converse with the wicked;15 to walk warily;18 and to be fill...
Combined Bible: Eph 5:25 - --Husbands are commanded to "love your wives". "Love" is agape in the Greek. This is source love that requires no particular response on the part of t...

Combined Bible: Eph 5:26 - --The object of Christ's love for His church was to "make her holy". "Holy" means "to set apart to a purpose." The purpose of the Church is to represe...

Combined Bible: Eph 5:28 - --Now, just as Christ loves the Church, His Body, husbands are to "love their wives as their own bodies". This is not to extol self-love, but self-less...

Combined Bible: Eph 5:31 - --Paul borrows the command of God to Adam in Genesis that made the marriage bond the primary union for man on earth. Man and woman who come together in...

Combined Bible: Eph 5:32 - --We are reminded that this whole discussion is in reference to "Christ and the Church", but, it presents very practical application to that which must ...
MHCC -> Eph 5:22-33
MHCC: Eph 5:22-33 - --The duty of wives is, submission to their husbands in the Lord, which includes honouring and obeying them, from a principle of love to them. The duty ...
Matthew Henry -> Eph 5:21-33
Matthew Henry: Eph 5:21-33 - -- Here the apostle begins his exhortation to the discharge of relative duties. As a general foundation for these duties, he lays down that rule Eph 5:...
Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --No one reading this passage in the twentieth century can fully realize how great it is. Throughout the years the Christian view of marriage has come ...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --The situation was worse in the Greek world. Prostitution was an essential part of Greek life. Demosthenes had laid it down as the accepted rule of l...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --In Rome the matter was still worse; its degeneracy was tragic. For the first five hundred years of the Roman Republic there had been not one single ...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --In this passage we find Paul's real thought on marriage. There are things which Paul wrote about marriage which puzzle us and may make us wish that h...

Barclay: Eph 5:22-33 - --Sometimes the emphasis of this passage is entirely misplaced; and it is read as if its essence was the subordination of wife to husband. The single ...
Constable: Eph 4:1--6:21 - --III. THE CHRISTIAN'S CONDUCT 4:1--6:20
Practical application (chs. 4-6) now follows doctrinal instruction (chs. ...

Constable: Eph 4:1--6:10 - --A. Spiritual walk 4:1-6:9
Paul had explained the unity of Jewish and Gentile believers in the church and...

Constable: Eph 5:15--6:10 - --5. Walking in wisdom 5:15-6:9
Paul introduced a new thought with the repetition of "Therefore" a...

Constable: Eph 5:22-24 - --The duty of wives 5:22-24
"After centuries of Christian teaching, we scarcely appreciate the revolutionary nature of Paul's views on family life set f...
