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Text -- Genesis 24:33-67 (NET)
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Wesley: Gen 24:34 - -- Abraham's name, no doubt, was well known among them, and respected; and we may suppose them not altogether ignorant of his state, for Abraham knew the...
Abraham's name, no doubt, was well known among them, and respected; and we may suppose them not altogether ignorant of his state, for Abraham knew theirs, Gen 22:20.
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Wesley: Gen 24:45 - -- Which perhaps he mentions, lest it should be suspected that Rebekah had overheard his prayer, and designedly humoured it; no, saith he, I spake it in ...
Which perhaps he mentions, lest it should be suspected that Rebekah had overheard his prayer, and designedly humoured it; no, saith he, I spake it in my heart, so that none heard it but God, to whom thoughts are words, and from him the answer came.
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Wesley: Gen 24:50 - -- Providence smiles upon it, and we have nothing to say against it. A marriage is then likely to be comfortable when it appears to proceed from the Lord...
Providence smiles upon it, and we have nothing to say against it. A marriage is then likely to be comfortable when it appears to proceed from the Lord.
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Wesley: Gen 24:52 - -- As his good success went on, he went on to bless God: those that pray without ceasing should in every thing give thanks, and own God in every step of ...
As his good success went on, he went on to bless God: those that pray without ceasing should in every thing give thanks, and own God in every step of mercy.
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Wesley: Gen 24:55 - -- They had consented to the marriage, and yet were loth to part with her. It is an instance of the vanity of this world, that there is nothing in it so ...
They had consented to the marriage, and yet were loth to part with her. It is an instance of the vanity of this world, that there is nothing in it so agreeable but has its allay. They were pleased that they had matched a daughter of their family so well, and yet it was with reluctancy that they sent her away.
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Wesley: Gen 24:57 - -- As children ought not to marry without their parents consent, so parents ought not to marry them without their own. Before the matter is resolved on, ...
As children ought not to marry without their parents consent, so parents ought not to marry them without their own. Before the matter is resolved on, ask at the damsel's mouth, she is a party principally concerned; and therefore ought to be principally consulted.
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Wesley: Gen 24:61 - -- It seems then, when she went to the well for water, it was not because she had no servants at command, but because she took pleasure in the instances ...
It seems then, when she went to the well for water, it was not because she had no servants at command, but because she took pleasure in the instances of humanity and industry.
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Wesley: Gen 24:63 - -- Some think he expected his servants about this time, and went out on purpose to meet them. But it should seem he went out to take the advantage of a s...
Some think he expected his servants about this time, and went out on purpose to meet them. But it should seem he went out to take the advantage of a silent evening, and a solitary field, for mediation and prayer. Our walks in the field are then truly pleasant, when in them we apply ourselves to meditation and prayer we there have a free and open prospect of the heavens above us, and the earth around us, and the hosts and riches of both, by the view of which we should he led to the contemplation of the Maker and Owner of all. Merciful providences are then doubly comfortable, when they find us in the way of our duty: some think Isaac was now praying for good success in this affair, and meditating upon that which was proper to encourage his hope in God concerning it; and now when he sets himself, as it were, upon his watch - tower, to see what God would answer him, he sees the camels coming.
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In token of humility, modesty and subjection.
JFB: Gen 24:50 - -- The brothers conduct all the marriage negotiations, their father being probably dead, and without consulting their sister. Their language seems to ind...
The brothers conduct all the marriage negotiations, their father being probably dead, and without consulting their sister. Their language seems to indicate they were worshippers of the true God.
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JFB: Gen 24:53 - -- These are the usual articles, with money, that form a woman's dowry among the pastoral tribes. Rebekah was betrothed and accompanied the servant to Ca...
These are the usual articles, with money, that form a woman's dowry among the pastoral tribes. Rebekah was betrothed and accompanied the servant to Canaan.
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JFB: Gen 24:64 - -- If Isaac were walking, it would have been most unmannerly for her to have continued seated; an inferior, if riding, always alights in presence of a pe...
If Isaac were walking, it would have been most unmannerly for her to have continued seated; an inferior, if riding, always alights in presence of a person of rank, no exception being made for women.
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JFB: Gen 24:65 - -- The veil is an essential part of female dress. In country places it is often thrown aside, but on the appearance of a stranger, it is drawn over the f...
The veil is an essential part of female dress. In country places it is often thrown aside, but on the appearance of a stranger, it is drawn over the face, as to conceal all but the eyes. In a bride it was a token of her reverence and subjection to her husband.
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JFB: Gen 24:67 - -- Thus establishing her at once in the rights and honors of a wife before he had seen her features. Disappointments often take place, but when Isaac saw...
Thus establishing her at once in the rights and honors of a wife before he had seen her features. Disappointments often take place, but when Isaac saw his wife, "he loved her."
Clarke: Gen 24:33 - -- I will not eat until I have told - In Hindoostan it is not unusual for a Brahmin to enter a house and sit down, and when meat is offered, refuse to ...
I will not eat until I have told - In Hindoostan it is not unusual for a Brahmin to enter a house and sit down, and when meat is offered, refuse to eat till he has obtained the object of his errand. Here is a servant who had his master’ s interest more at heart than his own. He refuses to take even necessary refreshment till he knows whether he is likely to accomplish the object of his journey. Did not our blessed Lord allude to the conduct of Abraham’ s servant, Joh 4:34 : My meat is to do the will of him that sent me, and to finish his work?
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Clarke: Gen 24:36 - -- Unto him hath he given all that he hath - He has made Isaac his sole heir. These things appear to be spoken to show the relatives of Rebekah that hi...
Unto him hath he given all that he hath - He has made Isaac his sole heir. These things appear to be spoken to show the relatives of Rebekah that his master’ s son was a proper match for her; for even in those primitive times there was regard had to the suitableness of station and rank in life, as well as of education, in order to render a match comfortable. Persons of dissimilar habits, as well as of dissimilar religious principles, are never likely to be very happy in a married life. Even the poor and the rich may better meet together in matrimonial alliances than the religious and the profane, the well-bred and the vulgar. A person may be unequally yoked in a great variety of ways: Bear ye one another’ s burdens is the command of God; but where there is unsuitableness in the dispositions, education, mental capacity, etc., of the persons, then one side is obliged to bear the whole burden, and endless dissatisfaction is the result. See at the end, Gen 24:67 (note).
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Clarke: Gen 24:42 - -- O Lord God of my master - As Abraham was the friend of God, Eliezer makes use of this to give weight and consequence to his petitions.
O Lord God of my master - As Abraham was the friend of God, Eliezer makes use of this to give weight and consequence to his petitions.
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Clarke: Gen 24:43 - -- When the virgin - העלמה haalmah , from עלם alam , to hide, cover, or conceal; a pure virgin, a woman not uncovered, and in this respect st...
When the virgin -
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Clarke: Gen 24:45 - -- Before I had done speaking in mine heart - So we find that the whole of this prayer, so circumstantially related Gen 24:12-14, and again Gen 24:42-4...
Before I had done speaking in mine heart - So we find that the whole of this prayer, so circumstantially related Gen 24:12-14, and again Gen 24:42-44, was mental, and heard only by that God to whom it was directed. It would have been improper to have used public prayer on the occasion, as his servants could have felt no particular interest in the accomplishment of his petitions, because they were not concerned in them, having none of the responsibility of this mission.
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Clarke: Gen 24:49 - -- That I may turn to the right hand or to the left - That is, That I may go elsewhere and seek a proper match for the son of my master. Some have imag...
That I may turn to the right hand or to the left - That is, That I may go elsewhere and seek a proper match for the son of my master. Some have imagined that Eliezer intimated by these expressions that if he did not succeed in obtaining Rebekah, he would go and seek for a wife either among the descendants of Ishmael or the descendants of Lot. This interpretation is fanciful.
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Clarke: Gen 24:50 - -- Laban and Bethuel - These seem both to be brothers, of whom Laban was the eldest and chief; for the opinion of Josephus appears to be very correct, ...
Laban and Bethuel - These seem both to be brothers, of whom Laban was the eldest and chief; for the opinion of Josephus appears to be very correct, viz., that Bethuel, the father, had been some time dead. See note Gen 24:28
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Clarke: Gen 24:50 - -- Bad or good - We can neither speak for nor against; it seems to be entirely the work of God, and we cordially submit: consult Rebekah; if she be wil...
Bad or good - We can neither speak for nor against; it seems to be entirely the work of God, and we cordially submit: consult Rebekah; if she be willing, take her and go. See note Gen 24:58.
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Clarke: Gen 24:53 - -- Jewels of silver, and jewels of gold - The word כלי keley , which we here translate jewels signifies properly vessels or instruments; and those ...
Jewels of silver, and jewels of gold - The word
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Clarke: Gen 24:53 - -- Precious things - מגדנת migdanoth . This word is used to express exquisite fruits or delicacies, Deu 33:13-16; precious plants or flowers, So...
Precious things -
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Clarke: Gen 24:54 - -- And they did eat and drink - When Eliezer had got a favorable answer, then he and his servants sat down to meat; this he had refused to do till he h...
And they did eat and drink - When Eliezer had got a favorable answer, then he and his servants sat down to meat; this he had refused to do till he had told his message, Gen 24:33.
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Clarke: Gen 24:55 - -- Let the damsel abide with us a few days, at the least ten - The original is very abrupt and obscure, because we are not acquainted with the precise ...
Let the damsel abide with us a few days, at the least ten - The original is very abrupt and obscure, because we are not acquainted with the precise meaning of the form of speech which is here used;
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Clarke: Gen 24:58 - -- Wilt thou go with this man? - So it appears it was left ultimately to the choice of Rebekah whether she would accept the proposals now made to her, ...
Wilt thou go with this man? - So it appears it was left ultimately to the choice of Rebekah whether she would accept the proposals now made to her, unless we suppose that the question meant, Wilt thou go immediately, or stay with us a month longer? She said, I will go - It fully appears to be the will of God that it should be so, and I consent. This at once determined the whole business.
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Clarke: Gen 24:59 - -- And her nurse - Whose name, we learn from Gen 35:8, was Deborah, and who, as a second mother, was deemed proper to accompany Rebekah. This was a mea...
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Clarke: Gen 24:60 - -- Be thou the mother of thousands of millions - לאלפי רבבה lealphey rebabah , for thousands ten thousand, or for myriads of thousands, a lar...
Be thou the mother of thousands of millions -
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Clarke: Gen 24:62 - -- And Isaac came - Concerning this well see Gen 16:13, Gen 16:14, etc. As it appears from Gen 25:11, that Isaac dwelt at the well Lahai-roi, it has be...
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Clarke: Gen 24:62 - -- For he dwelt in the south country - The southern part of the land of Canaan. See Gen 12:9.
For he dwelt in the south country - The southern part of the land of Canaan. See Gen 12:9.
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Clarke: Gen 24:63 - -- Isaac went out to meditate - לשוח lasuach , to bend down the body, or the mind, or both. He was probably in deep thought, with his eyes fixed u...
Isaac went out to meditate -
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Clarke: Gen 24:65 - -- She took a veil - הצעיף hatstsaaif . This is the first time this word occurs, and it is of doubtful signification; but most agree to render i...
She took a veil -
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Clarke: Gen 24:67 - -- Sarah’ s tent - Sarah being dead, her tent became now appropriated to the use of Rebekah
Sarah’ s tent - Sarah being dead, her tent became now appropriated to the use of Rebekah
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Clarke: Gen 24:67 - -- And took Rebekah, etc. - After what form this was done we are not told; or whether there was any form used on the occasion, more than solemnly recei...
And took Rebekah, etc. - After what form this was done we are not told; or whether there was any form used on the occasion, more than solemnly receiving her as the person whom God had chosen to be his wife; for it appears from Gen 24:66 that the servant told him all the especial providential circumstances which had marked his journey. The primitive form of marriage we have already seen, Gen 2:23, Gen 2:24, which, it is likely, as far as form was attended to, was that which was commonly used in all the patriarchal times
In this chapter we have an affecting and edifying display of that providence by which God disposes and governs the affairs of the universe, descending to the minutest particulars, and managing the great whole by directing and influencing all its parts. This particular or especial providence we see is not confined to work by general laws; it is wise and intelligent, for it is the mind, the will, and energy of God; it steps out of common ways, and takes particular directions, as endlessly varied human necessities may need, or the establishment and maintenance of godliness in the earth may require. What a history of providential occurrences, coming all in answer to the prayer and faith of a simple, humble individual, does this chapter exhibit
As Abraham’ s servant has God’ s glory only in view in the errand on which he is going, he may well expect the Divine direction. See with what simplicity and confidence he prays to God! He even prescribes the way in which the Divine choice and approbation shall be made known; and God honors the purity of his motives and his pious faith, by giving him precisely the answer he wished. How honorable in the sight of God is simplicity of heart! It has nothing to fear, and all good to hope for; whereas a spirit warped by self-interest and worldly views is always uncertain and agitated, as it is ever seeking that from its own counsels, projects, and schemes, which should be sought in God alone. In every place the upright man meets with his God; his heart acknowledges his Maker, and his Maker acknowledges him; for such a one the whole economy of providence and grace is ever at work
Abraham’ s solicitude to get a suitable wife for his son is worthy of the most serious regard. He was well aware that if Isaac formed a matrimonial alliance with the Canaanites it might be ruinous to his piety, and prevent the dissemination of the true religion; therefore he binds his most trusty servant by a solemn oath not to take a wife for his son from the daughters of Canaan, but from his own kindred, among whom the knowledge of the true God was best preserved. Others had different rays of the light of truth, but Abraham’ s family alone had The truth; and to the descendants of this family were the promises made
How careful should parents be to procure alliances for their children with those who fear God, as so much of the peace and comfort of the children, and the happiness of their posterity, depend on this circumstance! But alas! how many sacrifice the comfort and salvation of their offspring at the shrine of Mammon! If they can procure rich husbands and wives for their daughters and sons, then all, in their apprehension, is well. Marriages of this kind may be considered as mere bargain and sale; for there is scarcely ever any reference to God or eternity in them. The Divine institution of marriage is left out of sight; and the persons are united, not properly to each other, in the love, fear, and according to the ordinance of God, but they are wedded to so many thousand pounds sterling, and to so many houses, fields, etc. Thus like goes to like, metal to metal, earth to earth. Marriages formed on such principles are mere licensed adulteries. Let such contractors hear these awful words of God: "Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God?"Jam 4:4. See note on Gen 24:36
Although under the patriarchal dispensation parents had a kind of absolute authority over their children, and might dispose of them as they pleased in general cases, yet it appears that in matrimonial connections they were under no compulsion. The suitable person was pointed out and recommended; but it does not appear that children were forced, against the whole tide of their affections, to take those persons who were the objects of the parent’ s choice. Wilt thou go with this man? was, in all likelihood, deemed essential to the completion of the contract; and by the answer, I will go, was the contract fully ratified. Thus the persons were ultimately left to their own choice, though the most prudent and proper means were no doubt used in order to direct and fix it. Whether this was precisely the plan followed in primitive times we cannot absolutely say: they were times of great simplicity; and probably connections on the mere principle of affection, independently of all other considerations, seldom existed. And it must be allowed that matches formed on the sole principle of convenience might as well be formed by the parents as by any others; and in Asiatic countries it was generally so, for there the female seldom presumes to have a choice of her own
In all cases of this kind the child should invariably consult the experience and wisdom of the parents; and the parents should ever pay much respect to the feelings of the child, nor oppose an alliance which may be in all other respects suitable, because there may be a lack of property on one side of the intended match. If parents would proceed in this way, God would pour his blessing on their seed, and his Spirit upon their offspring.
Calvin: Gen 24:33 - -- 33.I will not eat until I have told my errand 9 Moses begins to show by what means the parents of Rebekah were induced to give her in marriage to the...
33.I will not eat until I have told my errand 9 Moses begins to show by what means the parents of Rebekah were induced to give her in marriage to their nephew. That the servant, when food was set before him, should refuse to eat till he had completed his work is a proof of his diligence and fidelity; and it may with propriety be regarded as one of the benefits which God had vouchsafed to Abraham, that he should have a servant so faithful, and so intent upon his duty. Since, however, this was the reward of the holy discipline which Abraham maintained, we cannot wonder that very few such servants are to be found, seeing that everywhere they are so ill-governed.
Moreover, although the servant seems to weave a superfluous story, yet there is nothing in it which is not available to his immediate purpose. He knew that it was a feeling naturally inherent in parents, not willingly to send away their children to a distance. He therefore first commemorates Abraham’s riches, that they might not hesitate to connect their daughter with a husband so wealthy. He secondly explains that Isaac was born of his mother in her old age; not merely for the purpose of informing them that he had been miraculously given to his father, whence they might infer that he had been divinely appointed to this greatness and eminence; but that an additional commendation might be given on account of Isaac’s age. In the third place, he affirms that Isaac would be the sole heir of his father. Fourthly, he relates that he had been bound by an oath to seek a wife for his master Isaac, from among his own kindred; which special choice on the part of Abraham was very effectual in moving them to compliance. Fifthly, he states that Abraham, in full confidence that God would be the leader of his journey, had committed the whole business to him. Sixthly, he declares, that whatever he had asked in prayer he had obtained from the Lord; whence it appeared that the marriage of which he was about to treat was according to the will of God. We now see the design of his narration: First, to persuade the parents of Rebekah that he had not been sent for the purpose of deceiving them, that he had not in anything acted craftily, or by oblique methods, but in the fear of the Lord, as the religious obligation of marriage requires. Secondly, that he was desiring nothing which would not be profitable and honorable for them. And lastly, that God had been the director of the whole affair.
Moreover, since the servant of Abraham, though persuaded that the angel of God would be the guide of his journey, yet neither directs his prayers nor his thanksgivings to him, we may hence learn that angels are not, in such a sense, constituted the ministers of God to us, as that they should be invoked by us, or should transfer to themselves the worship due to God; a superstition which prevails nearly over the whole world to such a degree, that men turn aside a portion of their faith from the only fountain of all good to the rivulets which flow from it. The clause, the Lord, before whom I walk, (Gen 24:40,) which some refer to the probity and good conscience of Abraham, I rather explain as applying to the faith, by which he set God before him, as the governor of his life, being confident that he was the object of God’s care, and dependent upon his grace.
If ye will deal kindly 10 I have lately related the force of this expression; namely, to act with humanity and good faith. He thus modestly and suppliantly asks them to consent to the marriage of Isaac and Rebekah: should he meet with a repulse from them, he says, he will go either to the right hand or to the left; that is, he will look around elsewhere. For he places the right hand and the left in contrast with the straight way in which he had been led to them. It is, however, with fertile ingenuity that some of the Hebrews explain the words as meaning, that he would go to Lot, or to Ishmael.
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Calvin: Gen 24:50 - -- 50.The thing proceedeth from the Lord. Whereas they are convinced by the discourse of the man, that God was the Author of this marriage, they avow th...
50.The thing proceedeth from the Lord. Whereas they are convinced by the discourse of the man, that God was the Author of this marriage, they avow that it would be unlawful for them to offer anything in the way of contradiction. They declare that the thing proceedeth from the Lord; because he had, by the clearest signs, made his will manifest. Hence we perceive, that although the true religion was in part observed among them, and in part infected with vicious errors, yet the fear of God was never so utterly extinguished, but this axiom remained firmly fixed in all their minds, that God must be obeyed. If, then, wretched idolaters, who had almost fallen away from religion, nevertheless so subjected themselves to God, as to acknowledge it to be unlawful for them to swerve from his will, how much more prompt ought our obedience to be? Therefore, as soon as the will of God is made known to us, not only let our tongues be silent, but let all our senses be still; because it is an audacious profanation to admit any thought which is opposed to that will.
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Calvin: Gen 24:52 - -- 52.He worshipped. Moses again repeats that Abraham’s servant gave thanks to God; and it is not without reason that he so often inculcates this reli...
52.He worshipped. Moses again repeats that Abraham’s servant gave thanks to God; and it is not without reason that he so often inculcates this religious duty; because, since God requires nothing greater from us, the neglect of it betrays the most shameful indolence. The acknowledgment of God’s kindness is a sacrifice of sweet-smelling savor; yea, it is a more acceptable service than all sacrifices. God is continually heaping innumerable benefits upon men. Their ingratitude, therefore, is intolerable, if they fail to exercise themselves in celebrating those benefits.
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Calvin: Gen 24:54 - -- 54.And they rose up in the morning. On this point Moses insists the more particularly; partly, for the purpose of commending the faithful industry of...
54.And they rose up in the morning. On this point Moses insists the more particularly; partly, for the purpose of commending the faithful industry of the servant in fulfilling his master’s commands; partly, for that of teaching, that his mind was inflamed by the Spirit of God, for he is so ardent as to allow no truce to others, and no relaxation to himself. Thus, although he conducted himself as became an honest and prudent servant, it is still not to be doubted that the Lord impelled him, for Isaac’s sake, to act as he did. So the Lord watches over his own people while they sleep, expedites and accomplishes their affairs in their absence, and influences the dispositions of all, so far as is expedient, to render them assistance. It is by a forced interpretation, that some would explain the ten days, during which Laban and his mother desire the departure of Rebekah to be deferred, as meaning years or months. For it was merely the tender wish of the mother, who could ill bear that her daughter should thus suddenly be torn away from her bosom.
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Calvin: Gen 24:57 - -- 57.We will call the damsel. Bethuel, who had before unreservedly given his daughter in marriage, now seems to adhere, with but little constancy, to h...
57.We will call the damsel. Bethuel, who had before unreservedly given his daughter in marriage, now seems to adhere, with but little constancy, to his purpose. When, however, he had previously offered his daughter, without making any exception, he is to be understood as having done it, only so far as he was able. But now, Moses declares that he did not exercise tyranny over his daughter, so as to thrust her out reluctantly, or to compel her to marry against her will, but left her to her own free choice. Truly, in this matter, the authority of parents ought to be sacred: but a middle course is to be pursued, so that the parties concerned may make their contract spontaneously, and with mutual consent. It is not right to understand that Rebekah in answering so explicitly, showed contempt for the paternal roof, or too anxiously desired a husband; 11 but since she saw that the affair was transacted by the authority of her father, and with the consent of her mother, she also herself acquiesced in it.
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Calvin: Gen 24:59 - -- 59.And they sent away Rebekah. Moses first relates, that Rebekah was honorably dismissed; because her nurse was given unto her. Moreover, I doubt not...
59.And they sent away Rebekah. Moses first relates, that Rebekah was honorably dismissed; because her nurse was given unto her. Moreover, I doubt not that they had domestic nurses, who were their handmaidens; not that mothers entirely neglected that duty, but that they committed the care of education to one particular maid. They therefore who assisted mothers with subsidiary service were called nurses. Moses afterwards adds, that Rebekah’s relatives “blessed her,” (Gen 24:60,) by which expression he means, that they prayed that her condition might be a happy one. We know that it was a solemn custom, in all ages, and among all people, to accompany marriages with all good wishes. And although posterity has greatly degenerated from the pure and genuine method of celebrating marriages used by the fathers; yet it is God’s will that some public testimony should stand forth, by which men may be admonished, that no nuptials are lawful, except those which are rightly consecrated. Now, the particular form of benediction which is here related, was probably in common use, because nature dictates that the propagation of offspring is the special end of marriage. Under the notion of victory (Gen 24:60) is comprehended a prosperous state of life. The Lord, however, directed their tongues to utter a prophecy of which they themselves were ignorant. To possess the gates of enemies, means to obtain dominion over them; because judgment was administered in the gates, and the bulwarks of the city were placed there.
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Calvin: Gen 24:63 - -- 63.And Isaac went out. It appears that Isaac dwelt apart from his father; either because the family was too large, or because such was the custom. An...
63.And Isaac went out. It appears that Isaac dwelt apart from his father; either because the family was too large, or because such was the custom. And perhaps Abraham had already married another wife; so that, for the sake of avoiding contentions, it would seem more convenient for him to have a house of his own. Thus great wealth has its attendant troubles. Doubtless, of all earthly blessings granted by God, none would have been sweeter to Abraham than that of living with his son. However, I by no means think that he was deprived of his society and assistance. For such was the piety of Isaac, that he undoubtedly studied to discharge every duty towards his father: this alone was wanting, that they did not live in the same house. Moses also relates how it happened that Isaac met with his wife before she reached his home. For he says, that Isaac went out in the evening to meditate or to pray. For the Hebrew word
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Calvin: Gen 24:64 - -- 64.And Rebekah lifted up her eyes. We may easily conjecture that Isaac, when he saw the camels, turned his steps towards them, from the desire of see...
64.And Rebekah lifted up her eyes. We may easily conjecture that Isaac, when he saw the camels, turned his steps towards them, from the desire of seeing his bride; this gave occasion to the inquiry of Rebekah. Having received the answer, she immediately, for the sake of doing honor to her husband, dismounted her camel to salute him. For that she fell, struck with fear, as some suppose, in no way agrees with the narrative. She had performed too long a journey, under the protection of many attendants, to be so greatly afraid at the sight of one man. But these interpreters are deceived, because they do not perceive, that in the words of Moses, the reason is afterwards given to this effect, that when Rebekah saw Isaac, she alighted from her camel; because she had inquired of the servant who he was, and had been told that he was the son of his master Abraham. It would not have entered into her mind to make such inquiry respecting any person whom she might accidentally meet: but seeing she had been informed that Abraham’s house was not far distant, she supposes him at least to be one of the domestics. Moses also says that she took a veil: which was a token of shame and modesty. For hence also, the Latin word which signifies “to marry,” 12 is derived, because it was the custom to give brides veiled to their husbands. That the same rite was also observed by the fathers, I have no doubt. 13 So much the more shameful, and the less capable of excuse, is the licentiousness of our own age; in which the apparel of brides seems to be purposely contrived for the subversion of all modesty.
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Calvin: Gen 24:67 - -- 67.And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent. He first brought her into the tent, then took her as his wife. By the very arrangement of hi...
67.And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’s tent. He first brought her into the tent, then took her as his wife. By the very arrangement of his words, Moses distinguishes between the legitimate mode of marriage and barbarism. And certainly the sanctity of marriage demands that man and woman should not live together like cattle; but that, having pledged their mutual faith, and invoked the name of God, they might dwell with each other. Besides, it is to be observed, that Isaac was not compelled, by the tyrannical command of his father, to marry; but after he had given his mind to her he took her freely, and cordially gave her the assurance of conjugal fidelity.
And Isaac was comforted after his mother’s death. Since his grief for the death of his mother was now first assuaged, we infer how great had been its vehemence; for a period sufficiently long had already elapsed. 14 We may also hence infer, that the affection of Isaac was tender and gentle: and that his love to his mother was of no common kind, seeing he had so long lamented her death. And the knowledge of this fact is useful to prevent us from imagining that the holy patriarchs were men of savage manners and of iron hardness of heart, and from becoming like those who conceive fortitude to consist in brutality. Only care must be taken that grief should be duly mitigated; lest it burst forth in impious murmurings, or subvert the hope of a future resurrection. I do not however entirely excuse the sorrow of Isaac; I only advise, that what belongs to humanity, ought not to be altogether condemned. And although it was culpable not to be able to efface grief from the mind, until the opposite joy of marriage prevailed over it; Moses still reckons it among the benefits conferred by God, that he applies a remedy of any kind to his servant.
Defender -> Gen 24:67
Defender: Gen 24:67 - -- Although the New Testament does not specifically say that Isaac and Rebekah constitute a "type" of Christ and His Church, the numerous parallels are m...
Although the New Testament does not specifically say that Isaac and Rebekah constitute a "type" of Christ and His Church, the numerous parallels are more than coincidental, and do follow naturally from the clear identification of Isaac himself as a type of Christ (Gal 3:16; Heb 11:17-19). In the symbolic parallel, the servant dispatched by Abraham to seek a bride for his son becomes the Holy Spirit, sent by the Heavenly Father to find and bring the heavenly Bride, the Church, to His Son (Joh 14:26; Joh 16:13, Joh 16:14; Act 15:14). After she accepts the invitation, the Spirit, like Abraham's servant, guides the Bride through the wilderness to join the Bridegroom when he comes out to meet her at the end of the journey. There are numerous detailed parallels one can discern as the passage is studied in depth."
TSK -> Gen 24:33; Gen 24:34; Gen 24:35; Gen 24:36; Gen 24:37; Gen 24:38; Gen 24:39; Gen 24:40; Gen 24:41; Gen 24:42; Gen 24:43; Gen 24:44; Gen 24:45; Gen 24:47; Gen 24:48; Gen 24:49; Gen 24:50; Gen 24:51; Gen 24:52; Gen 24:53; Gen 24:54; Gen 24:55; Gen 24:56; Gen 24:58; Gen 24:59; Gen 24:60; Gen 24:61; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:63; Gen 24:64; Gen 24:65; Gen 24:66; Gen 24:67
TSK: Gen 24:33 - -- Job 23:12; Psa 132:3-5; Pro 22:29; Ecc 9:10; Joh 4:14, Joh 4:31-34; Eph 6:5-8; 1Ti 6:2
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TSK: Gen 24:35 - -- the Lord : Gen 24:1, Gen 12:2, Gen 13:2, Gen 25:11, Gen 26:12, Gen 49:25; Psa 18:35, Psa 112:3; Pro 10:22, Pro 22:4; 1Ti 4:8
flocks : Gen 12:16, Gen 1...
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TSK: Gen 24:36 - -- Sarah : Gen 11:29, Gen 11:30, Gen 17:15-19, Gen 18:10-14, Gen 21:1-7; Rom 4:19
unto : Gen 21:10, Gen 25:5
Sarah : Gen 11:29, Gen 11:30, Gen 17:15-19, Gen 18:10-14, Gen 21:1-7; Rom 4:19
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TSK: Gen 24:37 - -- And my : Gen 24:2-9, Gen 6:2, Gen 27:46; Ezr 9:1-3
Canaanites : The Canaanites were infected with gross idolatry; and consequently, not proper persons...
And my : Gen 24:2-9, Gen 6:2, Gen 27:46; Ezr 9:1-3
Canaanites : The Canaanites were infected with gross idolatry; and consequently, not proper persons with whom to form so intimate a connection; especially as Jehovah had shown Abraham that they were filling up the measure of their iniquity, and were doomed to destruction.
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TSK: Gen 24:38 - -- But : Gen 24:4, Gen 12:1
my father’ s : i.e., Where the family of Haran his brother had settled; and where he himself had remained some time with...
my father’ s : i.e., Where the family of Haran his brother had settled; and where he himself had remained some time with his father Terah. Nahor did not dwell at Ur of the Chaldees, but at Haran in Mesopotamia. The true worship of God seems to have been in some measure preserved in this family, though afterwards corrupted. Gen 31:19
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TSK: Gen 24:39 - -- Gen 24:5
Peradventure : We may see, says Calmet, by this and other passages of Scripture (Jos 9:18), what the sentiments of the ancients were relative...
Peradventure : We may see, says Calmet, by this and other passages of Scripture (Jos 9:18), what the sentiments of the ancients were relative to an oath. They believed that they were bound precisely by what was spoken, and had no liberty to interpret the intentions of those by whom the oath was made.
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TSK: Gen 24:40 - -- And he : Gen 24:7
before : Gen 5:22, Gen 5:24, Gen 6:9, Gen 17:1, Gen 48:15; 1Ki 2:3, 1Ki 8:23; 2Ki 20:3; Psa 16:8
will : Gen 24:7; Exo 23:20, Exo 33:...
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TSK: Gen 24:42 - -- O Lord : Gen 24:12-14; Act 10:7, Act 10:8, Act 10:22
prosper : Gen 24:12, Gen 24:31, Gen 39:3; Ezr 8:21; Neh 1:11; Psa 37:5, Psa 90:17; Rom 1:10
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TSK: Gen 24:44 - -- Both : Isa 32:8; 1Ti 2:10; Heb 13:2; 1Pe 3:8
the woman : Gen 24:14, Gen 2:22; Pro 16:33, Pro 18:22, Pro 19:14
appointed : Those events, which appear t...
Both : Isa 32:8; 1Ti 2:10; Heb 13:2; 1Pe 3:8
the woman : Gen 24:14, Gen 2:22; Pro 16:33, Pro 18:22, Pro 19:14
appointed : Those events, which appear to us the effect of choice, contrivance, or chance, are matters of appointment with God; and the persuasion of this does not prevent, but rather encourage, the use of all proper means; at the same time that it confines us to proper means, and delivers the mind from useless anxiety about consequences.
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TSK: Gen 24:45 - -- before : Gen 24:15-20; Isa 58:9, Isa 65:24; Dan 9:19, Dan 9:23; Act 4:24-33, Act 10:30, Act 12:12-17; Mat 7:7
speaking : 1Sa 1:13-15; 2Sa 7:27; Neh 2:...
before : Gen 24:15-20; Isa 58:9, Isa 65:24; Dan 9:19, Dan 9:23; Act 4:24-33, Act 10:30, Act 12:12-17; Mat 7:7
speaking : 1Sa 1:13-15; 2Sa 7:27; Neh 2:4; Rom 8:26
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TSK: Gen 24:47 - -- I put : Gen 24:22, Gen 24:53; Psa 45:9, Psa 45:13, Psa 45:14; Isa 62:3-5; Eze 16:10-13; Eph 5:26, Eph 5:27
I put : Gen 24:22, Gen 24:53; Psa 45:9, Psa 45:13, Psa 45:14; Isa 62:3-5; Eze 16:10-13; Eph 5:26, Eph 5:27
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TSK: Gen 24:48 - -- bowed : Gen 24:26, Gen 24:27, Gen 24:52
led me : Gen 24:27, Gen 22:23; Exo 18:20; Ezr 8:21; Psa 32:8, Psa 48:14, Psa 107:7; Pro 3:5, Pro 3:6, Pro 4:11...
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TSK: Gen 24:49 - -- now if : Gen 47:29; Jos 2:14
deal kindly and truly : Heb. do mercy and truth, Gen 32:10; Pro 3:3
that I : Num 20:17; Deu 2:27
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TSK: Gen 24:50 - -- Laban : These seem both to be brothers, of whom Laban was the eldest and chief. The opinion of Josephus appears to be very correct, that Bethuel, the...
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TSK: Gen 24:52 - -- worshipped : Gen 24:26, Gen 24:48; 1Ch 29:20; 2Ch 20:18; Psa 34:1, Psa 34:2, Psa 95:6, Psa 107:21, Psa 107:22, Psa 116:1, Psa 116:2; Mat 2:11; Act 10:...
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TSK: Gen 24:53 - -- jewels : Heb. vessels, The original word denotes vessels, utensils, instruments, furniture, or dress; and these presented by Abraham’ s servant m...
jewels : Heb. vessels, The original word denotes vessels, utensils, instruments, furniture, or dress; and these presented by Abraham’ s servant might have been of various kinds. Exo 3:22, Exo 11:2, Exo 12:35
brother : No mention is made of her father.
precious : This term, rendered ""precious things,""as may be seen in the parallel texts, is used to express exquisite fruits or delicacies, and precious plants or flowers, but here it may mean gifts in general, though rather of an inferior kind to those mentioned above. Deu 33:13-16; 2Ch 21:3; Ezr 1:6; Son 4:13; Isa 39:2
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TSK: Gen 24:54 - -- Send me : Gen 24:56, Gen 24:59, Gen 28:5, Gen 28:6, Gen 45:24; 2Sa 18:19, 2Sa 18:27, 2Sa 18:28; Pro 22:29; Ecc 7:10; Luk 8:38, Luk 8:39
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TSK: Gen 24:60 - -- they : Gen 1:28, Gen 9:1, Gen 14:19, Gen 17:16, Gen 28:3, Gen 48:15, Gen 48:16, Gen 48:20; Rth 4:11, Rth 4:12
be thou the mother : Or, ""be thou for t...
they : Gen 1:28, Gen 9:1, Gen 14:19, Gen 17:16, Gen 28:3, Gen 48:15, Gen 48:16, Gen 48:20; Rth 4:11, Rth 4:12
be thou the mother : Or, ""be thou for thousands of myriads;""a large family being always considered, in ancient times, as a proof of the peculiar blessing and favour of God.
thousands : Dan 7:10
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TSK: Gen 24:61 - -- they rode : Gen 31:34; 1Sa 30:17; Est 8:10, Est 8:14
followed : Gen 2:24; Psa 45:10
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TSK: Gen 24:63 - -- to meditate : or, to pray, They who acknowledge God in all their ways, will find him present to direct their paths, and make their way prosperous; and...
to meditate : or, to pray, They who acknowledge God in all their ways, will find him present to direct their paths, and make their way prosperous; and when the prayer of faith meets with an immediate answer, the glory ought as speedily to be rendered to God in solemn praise and thanksgiving. Jos 1:8; Psa 1:2, Psa 77:11, Psa 77:12, Psa 104:34, Psa 119:15, Psa 139:17, Psa 139:18, Psa 143:5, Psa 143:6
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TSK: Gen 24:67 - -- his mother : Gen 18:6, Gen 18:9, Gen 18:10; Son 8:2; Isa 54:1-5
Sarah’ s tent : Sarah, being dead, her tent, which, according to the custom of th...
his mother : Gen 18:6, Gen 18:9, Gen 18:10; Son 8:2; Isa 54:1-5
Sarah’ s tent : Sarah, being dead, her tent, which, according to the custom of the east, was distinct from that of Abraham, became now appropriated to the use of Rebekah.
and took : Gen 2:22-24; 2Co 11:1, 2Co 11:2; Eph 5:22-33
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Barnes -> Gen 24:1-67
Barnes: Gen 24:1-67 - -- - The Marriage of Isaac 26. קרד qādad , "bow the head." השׁתחוה shâchâh , "bow the body." 29. לבן lābān , "L...
- The Marriage of Isaac
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In this circumstantial account of the marriage of Isaac, we have a beautiful picture of ancient manners in the East, the living original of which the present customs of that cradle of mankind are a striking copy.
Abraham binds the chief servant of his house to seek a wife for his son Isaac among his kindred. The first movement in this matrimonial arrangement is on the part of the father, who does not consult his son, but the chief manager of his household affairs. Abraham is now a hundred and forty years of age, and Sarah has been three years dead. Isaac seems to have been of an easy, sedate turn of mind, and was not in circumstances to choose a partner for life such as his father would approve. The promise of a numerous offspring by the son of Sarah is before the mind of the patriarch. All these considerations impel him to look out for a suitable wife for his son, and the blessing of the Lord encourages him to proceed. The person whom Abraham intrusted with this delicate task has a threefold designation. First, he is "his servant"or minister. Secondly, he is the old man, ancient, or elder of his house. Here the term "elder"approaches its official signification. In early times age was taken into account, along with good conduct and aptitude, as the qualification for services of trust. Thirdly, he "ruled over all that he had."He was therefore a master as well as a minister. If this be Eliezer of mascus Gen 15:2, he was the steward of Abraham before the birth of Ishmael fifty-four Years ago. "Under my thigh."The thigh was the seat of generative power, and the region of sacramental consecration, and to put the hand under the thigh was to acknowledge and pledge obedience to him who requires the oath.
The appeal is to God as "Yahweh, God of heaven and God of the earth."Yahweh is the personal name of God, which is properly used by those who are in fellowship with him. He is the Author of all being, and therefore of heaven and earth; and hence the arbiter of the destiny of the oath-taker, both in spiritual and material things, both in this life and in what is to come. "Not of the daughters of the Kenaanite,"a race sinking fast into ungodliness and unrighteousness, doomed to extirpation, to whom the promised seed is to succeed. The kindred of Abraham were Shemites, Hebrews, and still retained some knowledge of the true God, and some reverence for him and his will. The experienced elder of Abraham’ s house does not wish to bind himself by an oath to what it may be impossible to fulfill. He makes the supposition of the unwillingness of the bride whom he may select, and obtains a quittance from his oath in that ease. The patriarch, however, charges him not to bring his son back to the land of his fathers, and expresses his confidence in the God of promise, that he will direct his servant to the suitable wife for his son. "His angel"Gen 16:7. This is the Lord in the function of an angel or messenger opening the way for the servant of Abraham. He does not make any appearance to the servant, though a superintending Providence is strikingly displayed in the whole affair. The faithful elder now understands and takes the required oath.
He proceeds on his journey. "Took ten camels."These are designed for conducting the bride and her companions home to his master. "All the best belonging to his master in his hand."This refers to the presents for the bride and her friends, and to the accommodations for her comfort on the journey. "Aram-Naharaim."Aram was an extensive area, embracing not only the country west of the Frat and north of Palestine, but the northern part of Mesopotamia, or the country between the Frat and the Dijlah. The latter region is for the sake of distinction called Aram of the two rivers. It did not include the southern part of Mesopotamia, which was called Shinar Gen 11:2, and probably extended only to the Chaboras, Khabour. The part of it in which Haran was situated was called Padan-aram Gen 28:2. "The city of Nahor."It is probable that Nahor accompanied his father, Terah, to Haran Gen 11:31. If not, he must have followed him very soon.
Made the camels kneel, - for repose. "The time when the maidens that draw water come out."The evening was the cool part of the day. The simple maidens of primitive days attended personally to domestic affairs. The experienced steward might therefore naturally expect to see the high-born damsels of the land at the public well, which had probably given rise to the neighboring town. The prayer of the aged servant is conceived in a spirit of earnest, childlike faith. The matter in hand is of extraordinary importance. A wife is to be found for the heir of promise. This was a special concern of God, and so the single-hearted follower of Abraham makes it. He takes upon himself the choice of a maiden among those that come to draw, to whom he will make the request of a particular act of kindness to a stranger, and he prays God that the intended bride may be known by a ready compliance with his request. The three qualifications, then, in the mind of the venerable domestic for a bride for his master’ s son, are a pleasing exterior, a kindly disposition, and the approval of God.
The answer is immediate and direct. "He had not yet done speaking,"when the answer came. A damsel "very fair to look upon,"satisfying the taste of the old man, appears. He thereupon prefers his request, with which she promptly complies. The old man waits in wonder and silence to see if the Lord’ s approval will follow.
Rebekah makes herself known in reply to his inquiries. "A ring of gold."The single ring was worn in the nose, the side cartilage of which was pierced for the purpose. This is a custom of the East. "A beka"was half a shekel, somewhat less than a quarter of an ounce. "Ten of gold in weight."Ten bekas would be about two ounces and a quarter. If shekels, however, be understood, the weight will be double. These were merely a reward for her kindness and courtesy to a stranger. Two questions are now asked by the stranger - the one relating to her kindred, and the other to the means and the inclination they had to entertain a stranger, when inns were not yet in existence. She announces herself to be the daughter of his master’ s nephew, and assures him of the requisite accommodation.
Bowed his head and worshipped. - The bowing of the head and of the body are here combined to indicate the aged servant’ s deep thankfulness for the guidance of the Lord. The utterance of the mouth accompanies the external gesture of reverence. "Her mother’ s house;"those who were in the department of the females. We may imagine with what excitement and alacrity Rebekah would communicate the extraordinary intelligence.
The reception of Abraham’ s servant. Laban now comes on the scene. He is ready to run with his sister to find the man, and invite him, as a matter of course, to his father’ s house. "When he saw the ring."The presents to his sister assure him that this is the envoy of some man of wealth and position. "Thou blessed of the Lord."The name of Yahweh was evidently not unfamiliar to Laban’ s ears. He calls this stranger "blessed of Yahweh,"on account of his language, demeanor, and manifest prosperity. The knowledge and worship of the living God, the God of truth and mercy, was still retained in the family of Nahor. Being warmly invited, the man enters the house. "And he ungirded the camels."Laban is the actor here, and in the following duties of hospitality. "The men’ s feet that were with him."It comes out here, incidentally, as it was reasonable to infer from the number of camels, that Abraham’ s steward had a retinue of servants with him. The crowning act of an Eastern reception is the presenting of food. But the faithful servant must deliver his message before partaking of the friendly meal.
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The servant’ s errand is told. He explains his business in a singularly artless and pleasing manner. He then leaves the matter in the hands of the family. "Given unto him all that he hath."His children by Hagar and Keturah were dismissed with portions during his life, and the main bulk of his property was conveyed to Isaac.
The servant’ s return with Rebekah. So plain an interposition of Providence admits of no refusal on the part of those who revere the Lord. Bethuel now appears as a concurring party. Laban, as the full brother of Rebekah, has a voice in the disposal of her hand; but the father only has the power to ratify the contract. The patriarch’ s servant first bows in acknowledgment to the Lord, who had now manifested his approval of the choice he had made, and then proceeds to distribute costly gifts to the bride, and to her brother and mother. Now at length the thankful guest partakes of the fare set before him along with his entertainers, and after the night’ s repose requests to be dismissed. "A few days;"perhaps a week or ten days. The mother and brother naturally plead for a little time to prepare for parting with Rebekah. They could not expect the servant, however, to stay months.
"Inquire at her mouth."This is the only free choice in the matter that seems to be given to Rebekah. Her consent may have been modestly indicated, before her family ratified the contract. It is plain, however, that it was thought proper that the parents should receive and decide upon a proposal of marriage. The extent to which the maiden’ s inclinations would be consulted would depend very much on the custom of the country, and the intelligence and good feeling of the parents. In later times the custom became very arbitrary. Rebekah’ s decision shows that she concurred in the consent of her relatives. "And her nurse."Her name, we learn afterward Gen 35:8, was Deborah. The nurse accompanied the bride as her confidential adviser and faithful attendant, and died in her service; a beautiful trait of ancient manners. The blessing consists in a boundless offspring, and the upper hand over their enemies. These are indicative of a thin population, and a comparatively rude state of society. "And her damsels."We here learn, again, incidentally, that Rebekah had more female attendants than her nurse.
Isaac receives his bride. He had been at Beer-lahai-roi, the scene of the interview of Hagar with the angel of the Lord - a spot calculated to awaken thoughts of an overruling Providence. "To meditate."This is a characteristic of Isaac’ s retiring, contemplative mood. Abraham was the active, authoritative father; Isaac was the passive, submissive son. To meditate was to hold converse with his own thoughts, to ponder on the import of that never-to-be-forgotten scene when he was laid on the altar by a father’ s hand, and a ram caught in the thicket became his substitute, and to pour out his soul unto the God of his salvation. In this hour of his grave reflection comes his destined bride with her faithful escort upon his view. Rebekah lights off the camel. Doubtless the conversation by the way with the elder of Abraham’ s house had made her aware of their approach to the residence of her future husband.
She concludes at once that this must be he, and, alighting, asks if it be. On being informed by the servant that this is his young master, she puts on the veil, which covers the head, and hangs down gracefully both behind and before. The aged servant reports the success of his mission, and presents Rebekah. Isaac brings his cousin’ s daughter into the apartments formerly occupied by his mother, and accepts her as his wife. The formalities of the interview, and of her presentation to Abraham as his daughter-in-law, are all untold. "And he loved her."This is the first mention of the social affections. It comes in probably because Isaac had not before seen his bride, and now felt his heart drawn toward her, when she was presented to his view. All things were evidently done in the fear of God, as became those who were to be the progenitors of the seed of promise. We have here a description of the primeval marriage. It is a simple taking of a woman for a wife before all witnesses, and with suitable feelings and expression of reverence toward God, and of desire for his blessing. It is a pure and holy relation, reaching back into the realms of innocence, and fit to be the emblem of the humble, confiding, affectionate union between the Lord and his people.
Poole: Gen 24:36 - -- i.e. Hath purposed and promised, and doth by me engage that he will give. Things are oft said to be done, in Scripture language, when they will cert...
i.e. Hath purposed and promised, and doth by me engage that he will give. Things are oft said to be done, in Scripture language, when they will certainly and shortly be done.
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Poole: Gen 24:40 - -- Before whom I walk in obedience to all his commands, and in hearty trust in his promises and gracious providence towards me and mine.
Before whom I walk in obedience to all his commands, and in hearty trust in his promises and gracious providence towards me and mine.
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Poole: Gen 24:41 - -- Clear from this my oath Heb. from my curse, denounced against thee if thou shouldst violate thine oath. The words oath and curse are ofttimes ...
Clear from this my oath Heb. from my curse, denounced against thee if thou shouldst violate thine oath. The words oath and curse are ofttimes indifferently used, because they commonly go together, and sometimes they are both expressed, as Num 5:21 .
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Poole: Gen 24:42 - -- i.e. The design or course in which I am engaged, as the word way is frequently used.
i.e. The design or course in which I am engaged, as the word way is frequently used.
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Poole: Gen 24:47 - -- First he asks who she was, then he gives the gifts to her; which is the right order, and is here observed in the repetition; which was inverted in t...
First he asks who she was, then he gives the gifts to her; which is the right order, and is here observed in the repetition; which was inverted in the first relation, Gen 24:22,23 .
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Poole: Gen 24:49 - -- If you will show true kindness and real friendship to him in giving your daughter to his son,
tell me; and if not, tell me that I may look out a w...
If you will show true kindness and real friendship to him in giving your daughter to his son,
tell me; and if not, tell me that I may look out a wife for him elsewhere. It is a proverbial expression, Num 20:17 22:26 Deu 2:27 .
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Poole: Gen 24:50 - -- Laban is put first, either because this Bethuel was not his father, but his younger brother, as Josephus thinks; or because Laban was the chief mana...
Laban is put first, either because this Bethuel was not his father, but his younger brother, as Josephus thinks; or because Laban was the chief manager of this business, to whom his father seems to have committed the care of his family, being himself unfit for it through age or infirmity.
The thing proceedeth from the Lord from God’ s counsel and special providence. Hereby it appears they had the knowledge and worship of the true God among them, though they added idols to him. We cannot without opposing God speak or act any thing which may hinder thy design, or thwart thy desire. Compare Gen 31:24,29 2Sa 13:22 .
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Poole: Gen 24:51 - -- Rebekah is before thee i.e. in thy power and disposal; as this phrase is taken, Gen 20:15 , and elsewhere.
Rebekah is before thee i.e. in thy power and disposal; as this phrase is taken, Gen 20:15 , and elsewhere.
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Poole: Gen 24:53 - -- The precious fruits of the land from which he came; see Deu 33:13 , &c.; or in general, other rare and excellent things. In those days men gave port...
The precious fruits of the land from which he came; see Deu 33:13 , &c.; or in general, other rare and excellent things. In those days men gave portions for their wives, as now they have portions with them.
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Poole: Gen 24:55 - -- Others thus, a year, or at the least ten months, the word days being put for a year, as elsewhere. But it is very improbable that they would d...
Others thus, a year, or at the least ten months, the word days being put for a year, as elsewhere. But it is very improbable that they would demand or expect such a thing from this man, whom they saw bent so much upon expedition.
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Poole: Gen 24:57 - -- i.e. Understand her mind by her words, not so much concerning the marriage itself, in which she resigned up herself to the disposal of her parents a...
i.e. Understand her mind by her words, not so much concerning the marriage itself, in which she resigned up herself to the disposal of her parents and friends, and to which she had given an implicit consent by her acceptance of those presents which were made to her for that end, as concerning the hastiness of her departure.
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Poole: Gen 24:59 - -- Her nurse was Deborah, by comparing Gen 35:8 . In this corrupt family, the mother and the nurse are two distinct persons; but in Abraham’ s p...
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Poole: Gen 24:60 - -- Thou art our sister i.e. our near kinswoman; distance of place shall not alienate our affections from thee, but we shall still own thee as our sister...
Thou art our sister i.e. our near kinswoman; distance of place shall not alienate our affections from thee, but we shall still own thee as our sister, and, as far as we can, be ready to perform all the duties of brethren to thee.
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Poole: Gen 24:62 - -- In the southern parts of Canaan, as Gen 12:9 , at Beer-sheba, whither it seems, Abraham returned after Sarah’ s death.
In the southern parts of Canaan, as Gen 12:9 , at Beer-sheba, whither it seems, Abraham returned after Sarah’ s death.
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Poole: Gen 24:63 - -- To meditate to converse with God, and with himself, by pious and profitable thoughts and ejaculations, and fervent prayers, as for other things, so p...
To meditate to converse with God, and with himself, by pious and profitable thoughts and ejaculations, and fervent prayers, as for other things, so particularly for God’ s blessing upon this great affair, and so his prayers are eminently answered. He chooseth a solitary place, wherein he might more freely attend upon God without any interruption or distraction,
in the field at the eventide that as he had begun the day with God, so he might close it with him, and commit himself to his protection. Compare Psa 55:17 .
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Poole: Gen 24:64 - -- As a testimony of her respect to him, whom by the servant she understood to be her lord and husband. Compare Jos 15:18 1Sa 25:23 .
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Poole: Gen 24:67 - -- Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’ s tent partly to give her possession of it, and partly to consummate the marriage. Women then had their...
Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah’ s tent partly to give her possession of it, and partly to consummate the marriage. Women then had their tents apart from men. See Gen 18:10 24:67 31:33 .
Isaac was comforted after his mother’ s death a sorrowful sense whereof he yet had retained, though she died three years before this time.
Haydock: Gen 24:41 - -- Curse, which always attends the person who does not endeavour to comply with a lawful oath. (Haydock) ---
The Hebrews commonly added in this sense, ...
Curse, which always attends the person who does not endeavour to comply with a lawful oath. (Haydock) ---
The Hebrews commonly added in this sense, May God do these things to me, and still more, if I prove false. (Menochius) ---
In this sense, Abraham's steward gives the meaning of his master, as he had hitherto repeated his very words at full length. This perfectly agrees with the style of the heroic ages; such as we find expressed in the poems of Homer, the most ancient work of any heathen author. The account which he gives of the noble simplicity of those ages, when the ladies went for water, and princes prepared the entertainments for their guests, cannot fail to strike us, when we compare the works of that admired author with the inspired writings. (Haydock)
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Haydock: Gen 24:49 - -- Left, in quest of some other lady of my master's kindred; as some of Bathuel's brothers might also have children. He was the youngest. (Haydock)
Left, in quest of some other lady of my master's kindred; as some of Bathuel's brothers might also have children. He was the youngest. (Haydock)
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Haydock: Gen 24:50 - -- Laban is placed before his father, having perhaps the administration of affairs in Bathuel's old age; and he had first introduced the stranger. (Men...
Laban is placed before his father, having perhaps the administration of affairs in Bathuel's old age; and he had first introduced the stranger. (Menochius)
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Haydock: Gen 24:53 - -- Present. Thus ratifying what he had already done, (ver. 22,) and obtaining full consent, both of the virgin, and of her father and brother.
Present. Thus ratifying what he had already done, (ver. 22,) and obtaining full consent, both of the virgin, and of her father and brother.
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Haydock: Gen 24:54 - -- Morning. He loses no time to afford comfort to his masters, and to give proof that he was not esteemed by them without reason.
Morning. He loses no time to afford comfort to his masters, and to give proof that he was not esteemed by them without reason.
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Haydock: Gen 24:57 - -- Let us call the maid, and ask her will. Not as to her marriage, as she had already consented, but of her quitting her parents and going to her husba...
Let us call the maid, and ask her will. Not as to her marriage, as she had already consented, but of her quitting her parents and going to her husband. (Challoner)
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Haydock: Gen 24:58 - -- I will go, without delay, being well convinced that the good steward was directed by God. Hence she was guilty of no imprudence or levity, in yieldi...
I will go, without delay, being well convinced that the good steward was directed by God. Hence she was guilty of no imprudence or levity, in yielding herself up to the divine will, and consenting so readily to the proposed marriage.
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The well of Agar, not far from Bersabee.
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Haydock: Gen 24:63 - -- To meditate on the obligations of the state on which he was about to enter, and on other pious subjects, free from noise and distraction. (Haydock) -...
To meditate on the obligations of the state on which he was about to enter, and on other pious subjects, free from noise and distraction. (Haydock) ---
In profane authors, the word used by the Septuagint means to talk about trifles, &c. (Calmet) ---
But the known piety of Isaac, and the authority of that version, forbid that we should take it here in that sense. (Haydock)
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Haydock: Gen 24:65 - -- Cloak, or summer veil, covering the whole body, and having an opening only for the eyes; such as the Eastern ladies use. St. Jerome in Isai. iii, R...
Cloak, or summer veil, covering the whole body, and having an opening only for the eyes; such as the Eastern ladies use. St. Jerome in Isai. iii, Rebecca does this out of modesty. (Haydock) ---
She prefigures the Gentiles, whom Jesus calls by his servants laden with his gifts, to become his spouse, or his Church, (Calmet) at the fountain of baptism. He adorns her with the ear-rings of obedience, and the bracelets of good works. (Du Hamel)
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Haydock: Gen 24:67 - -- Mother's death, which happened about three years before. (Menochius) ---
Isaac was now forty years old, and yet he does not pretend to take a wife ...
Mother's death, which happened about three years before. (Menochius) ---
Isaac was now forty years old, and yet he does not pretend to take a wife for himself; leaving the choice to his good father, and to God. (Du Hamel)
Gill -> Gen 24:33; Gen 24:34; Gen 24:35; Gen 24:36; Gen 24:37; Gen 24:38; Gen 24:39; Gen 24:40; Gen 24:41; Gen 24:42; Gen 24:43; Gen 24:44; Gen 24:45; Gen 24:46; Gen 24:47; Gen 24:48; Gen 24:49; Gen 24:50; Gen 24:51; Gen 24:52; Gen 24:53; Gen 24:54; Gen 24:55; Gen 24:56; Gen 24:57; Gen 24:58; Gen 24:59; Gen 24:60; Gen 24:61; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:63; Gen 24:64; Gen 24:65; Gen 24:66; Gen 24:67
Gill: Gen 24:33 - -- And there was set meat before them to eat,.... By the order of Bethuel or Laban, or both; or, "afterwards was set" l; that is after care had been tak...
And there was set meat before them to eat,.... By the order of Bethuel or Laban, or both; or, "afterwards was set" l; that is after care had been taken the camels, then food being provided was set before the men to refresh them:
but he said, I will not eat until I have told mine errand; or, "spoke my words" m; delivered the message he was sent with, and declared the business he came about; which shows him to be a diligent faithful servant, who had his master's interest at heart, and preferred it to his necessary food:
and he said; either Bethuel or Laban, for both were present, to whom the servant directed his discourse, Gen 24:47; perhaps Laban spoke in the name of his father, and bid him
speak on; go on with his discourse until he had said all he had to say, signifying that they were ready to give attention to him.
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Gill: Gen 24:34 - -- And he said, I am Abraham's servant. Not Abraham himself, this undeceived Laban, if he so thought, but a servant of his; which was enough to introduc...
And he said, I am Abraham's servant. Not Abraham himself, this undeceived Laban, if he so thought, but a servant of his; which was enough to introduce his discourse, his master being a near relation of theirs, and well known to them by name, if not in person.
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Gill: Gen 24:35 - -- And the Lord hath blessed my master greatly,.... With temporal blessings, after enumerated, which are of God, and are here ascribed to him, the Father...
And the Lord hath blessed my master greatly,.... With temporal blessings, after enumerated, which are of God, and are here ascribed to him, the Father, fountain, author, and giver of all such mercies:
and he is become great; in the world, and highly honoured and esteemed among men:
and he hath given him flocks and herds, and silver and gold, and menservants and maidservants, and camels and asses; though many of them were obtained in the diligent use of means, yet with the blessing of God; and others were the gifts of princes to him, as of Pharaoh king of Egypt, and Abimelech king of Gerar; yet, as it was the Lord that put it into their hearts to be so liberal to him, they are here called his gifts; see Gen 12:16.
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Gill: Gen 24:36 - -- And Sarah, my master's wife,.... Who must be well known to this family, by name at least, being, as is generally supposed, the sister of Milcah, Nahor...
And Sarah, my master's wife,.... Who must be well known to this family, by name at least, being, as is generally supposed, the sister of Milcah, Nahor's wife, and Bethuel's mother; the same
bare a son to my master when she was old; even when ninety years of age, Gen 17:17; this is mentioned because it was an extraordinary thing, and an instance of divine power and of the favour of God; and this son of their old age must be very dear unto Abraham, as it follows:
and unto him hath he given all that he hath; by his will: Jarchi says, the servant had now the schedule of all in his hands, which he showed; but this is mere conjecture.
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Gill: Gen 24:37 - -- And my master made me swear,.... See Gill on Gen 24:3. In Gen 24:37, the servant relates the oath his master made him take, and the charge he gave him...
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Gill: Gen 24:38 - -- But thou shalt go unto my father's house, and to my kindred,
and take a wife unto my son. See Gill on Gen 24:4.
But thou shalt go unto my father's house, and to my kindred,
and take a wife unto my son. See Gill on Gen 24:4.
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Gill: Gen 24:39 - -- And I said unto my master, Peradventure the woman will not follow me. See Gill on Gen 24:5.
And I said unto my master, Peradventure the woman will not follow me. See Gill on Gen 24:5.
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Gill: Gen 24:40 - -- And he said unto me, the Lord, before whom I walk, will send his angel with thee. See Gill on Gen 24:7.
And he said unto me, the Lord, before whom I walk, will send his angel with thee. See Gill on Gen 24:7.
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Gill: Gen 24:42 - -- And I came this day unto the well,.... Hither he was come at length by several days' journey; not on the same day he came from Abraham, as the Jewish ...
And I came this day unto the well,.... Hither he was come at length by several days' journey; not on the same day he came from Abraham, as the Jewish writers say n, by means of a miracle:
and said, O Lord God of my master Abraham; being come to the well, he prayed as follows:
if now thou do prosper the way which I go; his meaning is, that if it was the pleasure of God that he should succeed in what he was come about, that he would let him know it by a token; and in Gen 24:42 he relates the token he desired, which was granted him, and his success, as before recorded, from Gen 24:21.
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Gill: Gen 24:43 - -- Behold, I stand by the well of water, and it shall come to pass,.... See Gill on Gen 24:14.
Behold, I stand by the well of water, and it shall come to pass,.... See Gill on Gen 24:14.
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Gill: Gen 24:44 - -- And she say to me, both drink thou, and I will also draw for thy camels,.... See Gill on Gen 24:14.
And she say to me, both drink thou, and I will also draw for thy camels,.... See Gill on Gen 24:14.
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Gill: Gen 24:45 - -- And before I had done speaking in mine heart, behold, Rebekah came forth with her pitcher on her shoulder,.... See Gill on Gen 24:15.
and she went ...
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Gill: Gen 24:46 - -- And she made haste, and let down her pitcher from her shoulder,.... See Gill on Gen 24:18.
And said, drink, and I will give thy camels drink also....
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Gill: Gen 24:47 - -- And I asked her, and said, Whose daughter art thou?.... See Gill on Gen 24:23.
And she said, The daughter of Bethuel, Nahor's son, whom Milcah bar...
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Gill: Gen 24:48 - -- And I bowed down my head, and worshipped the Lord,.... See Gill on Gen 24:26.
And blessed the Lord God of my master Abraham, which had led me in th...
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Gill: Gen 24:49 - -- And now, if you deal kindly and truly with my master, tell me,.... The servant directs himself to more than one, to the whole family, especially to La...
And now, if you deal kindly and truly with my master, tell me,.... The servant directs himself to more than one, to the whole family, especially to Laban and Bethuel; if you will do my master a kindness, and grant him the favour he requests, that a damsel of this family may be given for a wife to his son; and, if you are hearty and sincere in granting this, tell me at once:
and if not, tell me: if you do not choose to gratify my master, and are not hearty in this matter, let me know:
that I may turn to the right hand or to the left; look out elsewhere among the daughters of some of the other sons of Nahor; for he had seven more which Milcah bare to him besides Bethuel, as well as four others by a concubine, Gen 22:20; though some of the Jewish writers o by "the right hand" understand the daughters of Ishmael, that dwelt to the right, and by "the left hand" the daughters of Lot, who were to the left, which is not likely: it seems to be only a proverbial expression, that, if they did not choose to attend to his proposal in his master's name, he must take some other method, as he might be directed; he knew not for the present which way, whether he should steer his course to the right or left, but some way he must take. The Targum of Jonathan paraphrases it,"to the south or to the north;''because when a man stands with his face to the east, the south is on his right hand, and the north on his left.
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Gill: Gen 24:50 - -- Then Laban and Bethuel answered,.... The order of the words in the original is, "then answered Laban and Bethuel"; the word for "answered" is in the s...
Then Laban and Bethuel answered,.... The order of the words in the original is, "then answered Laban and Bethuel"; the word for "answered" is in the singular number, from whence it may be concluded, that Laban gave the answer in the name of Bethuel, he consenting to it, who might be an old man, and left the management of his family affairs to his son, who, Aben Ezra thinks, excelled his father in wisdom and honour; but Jarchi represents him as a wicked and impudent man, who took upon him to speak before his father: but some have thought that this Bethuel was not old Bethuel, the father of Rebekah, but young Bethuel his son, the younger brother of Laban and Rebekah, their father Bethuel being dead, as Josephus says, before observed; and this seems to be countenanced by Gen 24:59, where they are represented as blessing Rebekah, and calling her their sister:
and said, the thing proceedeth from the Lord: that Rebekah should be given to Isaac, as the Targum of Jonathan adds: this matter appears to be according to his will and pleasure, he seems to have appointed it in his decree, and to be bringing it about by his providence; for these men, though they were in part idolaters yet had some good notions of the true God, and of his government of the world, and of his ordering all things in it according to the counsel of his will:
we cannot speak unto thee good or bad; cannot deny the request; the thing was so plain that they had not anything to object to it.
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Gill: Gen 24:51 - -- Behold, Rebekah is before thee,.... Not only was present, but she was delivered to him, or his request was granted:
take her, and go, and let her...
Behold, Rebekah is before thee,.... Not only was present, but she was delivered to him, or his request was granted:
take her, and go, and let her be thy master's son's wife; not that they meant he should go away directly with her; for they afterwards solicit her stay with them some time; but they agreed that he should bare her and conduct her to Isaac, to be taken by him for his wife:
as the Lord hath spoken; for so they understood the token given to the servant to know her by, as the determination of God.
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Gill: Gen 24:52 - -- And it came to pass, that when Abraham's servant heard these words,.... That Laban and Bethuel said; and no doubt but the mother of Rebekah, and she h...
And it came to pass, that when Abraham's servant heard these words,.... That Laban and Bethuel said; and no doubt but the mother of Rebekah, and she herself consented that she should be the wife of Isaac, believing it was agreeable to the will of God:
he worshipped the Lord, bowing himself to the earth; in the most humble manner he prostrated himself before the Lord, acknowledging his kindness, and goodness, his faithfulness and truth, his power and his providence in this affair.
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Gill: Gen 24:53 - -- And the servant brought forth jewels of silver, and jewels of gold,.... Ornaments for women, which he had brought along with him for presents, and whi...
And the servant brought forth jewels of silver, and jewels of gold,.... Ornaments for women, which he had brought along with him for presents, and which were a proof of the riches of his master, and of his generosity and liberality, who had furnished him with such a profusion of rich things to bestow on the person that should be got for his son's wife:
and raiment, and gave them to Rebekah; costly suits of clothes such as in those times were given to persons at their marriage, or in order to it; and which custom still continues among the Arabs, who, as Dr. Shaw says p, have the marriage contract previously made between the parents, wherein is express mention made not only of the "saddock", as they call that particular sum which the bridegroom settles on the bride; but of the several changes of raiment, and the quantity of jewels, and the number of slaves that the bride is to be attended with when she first waits upon her husband; a gold and silver "sarmah", he says q, which is a thin flexible plate of gold or silver, of a triangular shape, artfully cut through and engraven in imitation of lace; one or two sets of earrings bracelets and shekels, a gold chain to hang over their breasts, with half a dozen vests, some of brocades, others of rich silk, were usually the wedding clothes of a lady of fashion. And so in Barbary, the man buys his bride a suit of apparel, earrings, bracelets, a chest, &c. and gives the father a considerable sum of money, according to the qualities and circumstances of the parties r:
and he gave also to her brother, and to her mother, precious things; things of worth and value, which were part of the good things he brought with him from Abraham, Gen 24:10; the word being sometimes used for fruit, Jarchi interprets it of various kinds of the fruits s of the land of Israel; but it is not likely that these should be carried by him on so long a journey; much better Aben Ezra understands by them honourable and costly raiment; and it is observed by some t, that the word in general signifies everything valuable and excellent, as gold, silver, &c. no mention being made of her father, only of her brother Laban, and of her mother, seems to confirm the notion of Josephus that he was dead; or however he concerned himself no further in this affair than to give his consent to the marriage, and left everything else to his wife and son to take care of, and therefore the presents are only made to them.
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Gill: Gen 24:54 - -- And they did eat and drink, he, and the men that were with him,.... Every thing being settled with respect to the affair he came about, he then sat d...
And they did eat and drink, he, and the men that were with him,.... Every thing being settled with respect to the affair he came about, he then sat down at table, and ate of the provisions set before him; he and the men that came along with him; and refreshed themselves:
and tarried all night; lodged there all night:
and they rose up in the morning; the servant and his men:
and he said, send me away to my master; either to Abraham, who was waiting to hear what success his servant would have; or to Isaac, who also was solicitous about the matter: the sense is, that he desired leave to go away, and begged he might not be detained any longer, having now done the business he came about; still showing himself a diligent faithful servant, heartily and sincerely attached to his master's interest, and not consulting his own ease and pleasure, which might have been indulged by staying longer in a family, where he would have been entertained in a sumptuous manner.
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Gill: Gen 24:55 - -- And her brother and her mother said,.... Here her brother Laban is set before his mother, as above before his father, being the chief speaker and the ...
And her brother and her mother said,.... Here her brother Laban is set before his mother, as above before his father, being the chief speaker and the principal manager of business:
let the damsel abide with us a few days, at the least ten; which was but a reasonable request; and if no more time is intended, it is much the servant should object, and not readily agree to it; but in the margin it is, "a full year" or "ten months"; and so Onkelos and Jonathan, and other Jewish writers u, who say it was customary for a virgin to have twelve months allowed her to furnish herself with ornaments; and therefore if a full year could not be admitted of, it is requested that at least ten months would be granted: this by many is thought to be unreasonable, that a servant should be desired to stay so long from his master, and especially it would not be asked, when it was perceived he was in such haste to be gone directly; but when it is observed that it was the usual custom of those times for virgins espoused to continue in their father's house a considerable time before the marriage was consummated, and that Rebekah was going into a distant country, and very likely she and her friends would never see each other, the motion will not appear so very extravagant:
after that she shall go; when that time is elapsed, but cannot think of it before.
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Gill: Gen 24:56 - -- And he said unto them, hinder me not,.... Do not detain me, let me set forward on my journey:
seeing, the Lord hath prospered my way; succeeded him...
And he said unto them, hinder me not,.... Do not detain me, let me set forward on my journey:
seeing, the Lord hath prospered my way; succeeded him in what he came about; and by his being succeeded so well, and so soon, it seemed to be the mind of the Lord that he should hasten his journey homeward:
send me away, that I may go to my master; and carry him the good news of his success, and attend his domestic affairs, over which he was set.
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Gill: Gen 24:57 - -- And they said, we will call the damsel,.... Who perhaps through modesty had withdrawn herself to her own apartment, while the man and her friends were...
And they said, we will call the damsel,.... Who perhaps through modesty had withdrawn herself to her own apartment, while the man and her friends were discoursing on this subject:
and inquire at her mouth; what she says to it, whether willing to go directly or not; the matter in question was referred to her, and left to her decision.
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Gill: Gen 24:58 - -- And they called Rebekah,.... Or ordered her to be called by one of the servants:
and said unto her, wilt thou go with this man? that is, directly; ...
And they called Rebekah,.... Or ordered her to be called by one of the servants:
and said unto her, wilt thou go with this man? that is, directly; the question was not about her marriage of Isaac, that was agreed upon, and she had doubtless given her consent, and which she tacitly did by accepting of the presents, but about taking the journey immediately:
and she said, I will go; the note of Jarchi is,"of myself, and even if you are not willing,''which seems to make her answer rude, as well as resolute; but it must be interpreted consistent with her decent and modest behaviour, and as expressive of her agreeing to go with the man directly, having no manner of objection on her mind to it; but on the contrary found a strong inclination to it, and was determined on it; and perhaps was under a divine impulse, which strongly wrought upon her, and caused her to be so willing to leave her own people, and her father's house.
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Gill: Gen 24:59 - -- And they sent away Rebekah their sister,.... Not in a pet or angry humour, but with good will; they agreed she should go, and took their leave in a ve...
And they sent away Rebekah their sister,.... Not in a pet or angry humour, but with good will; they agreed she should go, and took their leave in a very honourable and affectionate manner. This is to be understood of her brother Laban, and of other brethren and sisters she might have; though by the connection of the words with the preceding, they seem to design her brother and mother, who spoke last; and probably all her relations are meant, who call her their sister, because so nearly related to them:
and her nurse: who had been her nurse in former times, as Aben Ezra observes, in her infancy, for whom she had a particular affection, as is often the case; her name was Deborah, as appears from Gen 35:8,
and Abraham's servant, and his men; who were dismissed in an handsome manner by the family.
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Gill: Gen 24:60 - -- And they blessed Rebekah,.... That is, her parents and her friends, they wished the best and choicest of blessings might descend upon her:
and said...
And they blessed Rebekah,.... That is, her parents and her friends, they wished the best and choicest of blessings might descend upon her:
and said unto her, thou art our sister; the Targum of Jonathan is,"hitherto thou hast been our sister,''as if the relation now ceased, having entered into another; and especially as she was going away from them into a distant country, and might never see her more, it was as if she was no more to them or to be enjoyed by them:
be thou the mother of thousands of millions; as she was, the Edomites and Israelites both springing from her:
and let thy seed possess the gate of those that hate them; exercise dominion and authority over their enemies: let them not only be numerous, but powerful and victorious, as both the nations were at times, and especially the latter; and particularly this had its accomplishment in Christ, who sprung from her in the line of Jacob, Mat 1:2; some respect seems to be had to the promise made to Abraham, Gen 22:17; of which this family might have knowledge from Abraham's servant, who might report not only how great his master was, but what promises were made to him with respect to his posterity.
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Gill: Gen 24:61 - -- And Rebekah arose, and her damsels,.... Her maids that were given her by her parents to wait upon her, as was usual in those times and countries:
a...
And Rebekah arose, and her damsels,.... Her maids that were given her by her parents to wait upon her, as was usual in those times and countries:
and they rode upon the camels; that Abraham's servant had brought with him:
and followed the man; who rode before and directed the way; the sense is only, that she went along with him:
and the servant took Rebekah, and went his way; took her under his care, and to be the wife of his master's son, at the hands of her friends, and then set forward on his journey.
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Gill: Gen 24:62 - -- And Isaac came from the way of the well Lahairoi,.... The well at which the angel met with Hagar, when she fled from her mistress, Gen 16:7. The Targu...
And Isaac came from the way of the well Lahairoi,.... The well at which the angel met with Hagar, when she fled from her mistress, Gen 16:7. The Targums of Jonathan and Jerusalem say, that Isaac came from the school of Shem the great:
for he dwelt in the south country: at Beersheba, to which Abraham, it seems, was returned again; for that they dwelt together as yet, is clear from his mother Sarah's tent, into which he introduced Rebekah, Gen 24:67; see Gen 22:19.
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Gill: Gen 24:63 - -- And Isaac went out to meditate in the field at eventide,.... Both the time and place were very proper for meditation: the place, "in the field": where...
And Isaac went out to meditate in the field at eventide,.... Both the time and place were very proper for meditation: the place, "in the field": where he might view the works of nature, and be led to the Creator of them, and the praise of him, and where he might be alone, and nothing to disturb his thoughts: and the time, "at evening"; after the labour, care, and hurry of the day were over, and before repose at night, and when the air was cool and refreshing, and everything was assisting to, and served to compose the mind, and help thought and contemplation. Onkelos and Jonathan render the word "to pray", and the time and place he chose were very fit for that service; and perhaps his thoughts in prayer might be directed to, and greatly employed in desiring success to his father's servant in the business he was gone on his account, and that he might safely and speedily arrive, and if so, his prayers were quickly answered:
and he lifted up his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels were coming; which his servant had took with him in his journey, and was now returning with them, and which Isaac knew full well.
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Gill: Gen 24:64 - -- And Rebekah lifted up her eyes,.... And looked about:
and when she saw Isaac; whom she suspected him to be, and therefore inquired of the servant, ...
And Rebekah lifted up her eyes,.... And looked about:
and when she saw Isaac; whom she suspected him to be, and therefore inquired of the servant, who told her who he was:
she lighted off the camel; or "fell" w from it, not accidentally, or through surprise, but willingly, and in honour to Isaac, as was customary; for had she sat on her camel when she met him, it would not have seemed respectful enough to him; though Jarchi thinks she did not get off, but only bowed herself upon the camel, when she came near him.
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Gill: Gen 24:65 - -- For she had said unto the servant,.... As soon as she saw a man walking towards them, who she thought with herself might be Isaac:
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For she had said unto the servant,.... As soon as she saw a man walking towards them, who she thought with herself might be Isaac:
what man is this that walketh in the field to meet us? for by the course he steered, she perceived that he was coming towards them, and so concluded it must be one of the family, and probably the person she was to be married to; for otherwise, had he not by his look and motion discovered that he knew the servant, and was coming towards them, she would have took no notice of him
and the servant had said, it is my master: meaning not Abraham, but his son, who also was his master:
therefore she took a veil, and covered herself; both out of modesty, and as a token of subjection to him: for the veil was put on when the bride was introduced to the bridegroom, as among the Romans x in later times. The Arab women always have veils when they appear in public, so that their faces cannot be seen; and though in the summer months they walk abroad with less caution, yet then, upon the approach of a stranger, they put on their veils y.
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Gill: Gen 24:66 - -- And the servant told Isaac all things that he had done. By what means he found out the person designed for his wife, and got knowledge of her father's...
And the servant told Isaac all things that he had done. By what means he found out the person designed for his wife, and got knowledge of her father's house, to which he was introduced, and where he was made welcome; and what agreement he had made with the parents and relations of Rebekah to be his wife, whom he had brought with him.
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Gill: Gen 24:67 - -- And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent,.... The apartment in which she dwelt when living; for women in those times and places had separate...
And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent,.... The apartment in which she dwelt when living; for women in those times and places had separate apartments from their husbands; this was done after many other things had passed, not here recorded; a conversation with her, an espousal of her, and an introduction of her to Abraham, with whose consent, no doubt, she had his wife's apartment allotted to her:
and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; consummated the marriage, first contracted by his servant, then confirmed by himself, and now finished:
and he loved her; as a man ought to love his wife, even as his own body, Eph 5:28; and she was a person to be beloved, being very fair, and of a goodly countenance, Gen 24:16. The Jews say z she was but fourteen years of age at this time:
and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death; which was three years ago; see Gill on Gen 25:20; and had made such impressions upon his spirit, that at times he was very sorrowful, and much distressed on that account; but now being blessed with so agreeable a yokefellow, his sorrow for his mother subsided, and he became cheerful and comfortable.
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expand allCommentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes
NET Notes -> Gen 24:33; Gen 24:33; Gen 24:33; Gen 24:33; Gen 24:35; Gen 24:35; Gen 24:36; Gen 24:36; Gen 24:36; Gen 24:38; Gen 24:39; Gen 24:39; Gen 24:40; Gen 24:41; Gen 24:42; Gen 24:42; Gen 24:43; Gen 24:43; Gen 24:45; Gen 24:45; Gen 24:47; Gen 24:48; Gen 24:49; Gen 24:50; Gen 24:50; Gen 24:51; Gen 24:51; Gen 24:53; Gen 24:54; Gen 24:54; Gen 24:55; Gen 24:56; Gen 24:56; Gen 24:57; Gen 24:58; Gen 24:60; Gen 24:60; Gen 24:60; Gen 24:60; Gen 24:61; Gen 24:61; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:62; Gen 24:63; Gen 24:63; Gen 24:63; Gen 24:63; Gen 24:63; Gen 24:64; Gen 24:65; Gen 24:65; Gen 24:65; Gen 24:67; Gen 24:67; Gen 24:67; Gen 24:67
NET Notes: Gen 24:33 Heb “and he said, ‘Speak.’” The referent (Laban) has been specified in the translation for clarity.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:35 Heb “and he.” The referent (the Lord) has been specified in the translation for clarity.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:36 Heb “and he.” The referent (the servant’s master, Abraham) has been specified in the translation for clarity.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:38 Heb “but to the house of my father you must go and to my family and you must take a wife for my son.”
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NET Notes: Gen 24:40 The verb is the Hitpael of הָלַךְ (halakh), meaning “live one’s life” (see Gen 17:1). The statem...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:41 Heb “my oath” (twice in this verse). From the Hebrew perspective the oath belonged to the person to whom it was sworn (Abraham), although ...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:42 The words “may events unfold as follows” are supplied in the translation for clarification and for stylistic reasons.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:45 Heb “Look, Rebekah was coming out.” As in 24:15, the particle הִנֵּה (hinneh, “look”) is u...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:47 Heb “whom Milcah bore to him.” The referent (Nahor) has been specified in the translation for clarity.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:48 Heb “daughter.” Rebekah was actually the granddaughter of Nahor, Abraham’s brother. One can either translate the Hebrew term ב...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:49 Heb “and I will turn to the right or to the left.” The expression apparently means that Abraham’s servant will know where he should ...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:50 Heb “We are not able to speak to you bad or good.” This means that Laban and Bethuel could not say one way or the other what they wanted, ...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:53 Heb “the servant”; the noun has been replaced by the pronoun (“he”) in the translation for stylistic reasons.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:55 Heb “her”; the referent (Rebekah) has been specified in the translation for clarity.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:56 After the preceding imperative, the cohortative with the prefixed conjunction indicates purpose or result.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:60 Heb “gate,” which here stands for a walled city. In an ancient Near Eastern city the gate complex was the main area of defense (hence the ...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:61 Heb “the servant”; the word “Abraham’s” has been supplied in the translation for stylistic reasons.
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NET Notes: Gen 24:63 Heb “and look.” The clause introduced by the particle הִנֵּה (hinneh, “look”) invites the ...
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NET Notes: Gen 24:65 Heb “and the servant said.” The order of the introductory clause and the direct discourse has been rearranged in the translation for styli...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:33 And there was set [meat] before him to eat: but he said, I ( q ) will not eat, until I have told mine errand. And he said, Speak on.
( q ) The faithf...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:35 And the LORD hath ( r ) blessed my master greatly; and he is become great: and he hath given him flocks, and herds, and silver, and gold, and menserva...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:37 And my master made me swear, saying, ( s ) Thou shalt not take a wife to my son of the daughters of the Canaanites, in whose land I dwell:
( s ) The ...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:38 But thou shalt go unto my ( t ) father's house, and to my kindred, and take a wife unto my son.
( t ) Meaning among his relatives, as in (Gen 24:40)....
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:41 Then shalt thou be clear from [this] ( u ) my oath, when thou comest to my kindred; and if they give not thee [one], thou shalt be clear from my oath....
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:45 And before I had done speaking in mine ( x ) heart, behold, Rebekah came forth with her pitcher on her shoulder; and she went down unto the well, and ...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:48 ( y ) And I bowed down my head, and worshipped the LORD, and blessed the LORD God of my master Abraham, which had led me in the right way to take my m...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:49 And now if ye will deal ( z ) kindly and truly with my master, tell me: and if not, tell me; that I may turn to the ( a ) right hand, or to the left. ...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:50 Then Laban and Bethuel answered and said, ( b ) The thing proceedeth from the LORD: we cannot speak unto thee bad or good.
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:57 And they said, We will call the damsel, and enquire at ( c ) her mouth.
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:60 And they blessed Rebekah, and said unto her, Thou [art] our sister, be thou [the mother] of thousands of millions, and let thy seed possess the ( d ) ...
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Geneva Bible: Gen 24:63 And Isaac went out to ( e ) meditate in the field at the eventide: and he lifted up his eyes, and saw, and, behold, the camels [were] coming.
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TSK Synopsis -> Gen 24:1-67
TSK Synopsis: Gen 24:1-67 - --1 Abraham swears his servant.10 The servant's journey.12 His prayer.14 His sign.15 Rebekah meets him;18 fulfils his sign;22 receives jewels;23 shows h...
MHCC -> Gen 24:29-53; Gen 24:54-67
MHCC: Gen 24:29-53 - --The making up of the marriage between Isaac and Rebekah is told very particularly. We are to notice God's providence in the common events of human lif...
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MHCC: Gen 24:54-67 - --Abraham's servant, as one that chose his work before his pleasure, was for hastening home. Lingering and loitering no way become a wise and good man w...
Matthew Henry: Gen 24:29-53 - -- We have here the making up of the marriage between Isaac and Rebekah. It is related very largely and particularly, even to the minute circumstances,...
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Matthew Henry: Gen 24:54-61 - -- Rebekah is here taking leave of her father's house; and 1. Abraham's servant presses for a dismission. Though he and his company were very welcome, ...
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Matthew Henry: Gen 24:62-67 - -- Isaac and Rebekah are, at length, happily brought together. Observe, I. Isaac was well employed when he met Rebekah: He went out to meditate, or p...
Keil-Delitzsch: Gen 24:29-49 - --
As soon as Laban her brother had seen the splendid presents and heard her account, he hurried out to the stranger at the well, to bring him to the h...
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Keil-Delitzsch: Gen 24:50-51 - --
Laban and Bethuel recognised in this the guidance of God, and said, " From Jehovah (the God of Abraham) the thing proceedeth; we cannot speak unto ...
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Keil-Delitzsch: Gen 24:52-53 - --
After receiving their assent, the servant first of all offered thanks to Jehovah with the deepest reverence; he then gave the remaining presents to...
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Keil-Delitzsch: Gen 24:54-60 - --
The next morning he desired at once to set off on the journey home; but her brother and mother wished to keep her with them עשׁור או ימי...
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Keil-Delitzsch: Gen 24:61-67 - --
When the caravan arrived in Canaan with Rebekah and her maidens, Isaac had just come from going to the well Lahai-Roi (Gen 16:14), as he was then li...
Constable: Gen 11:27--Exo 1:1 - --II. PATRIARCHAL NARRATIVES 11:27--50:26
One of the significant changes in the emphasis that occurs at this point...
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Constable: Gen 11:27--25:12 - --A. What became of Terah 11:27-25:11
A major theme of the Pentateuch is the partial fulfillment of the pr...
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