Text -- 2 Samuel 13:1-38 (NET)
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Wesley -> 2Sa 13:1; 2Sa 13:2; 2Sa 13:5; 2Sa 13:5; 2Sa 13:9; 2Sa 13:10; 2Sa 13:12; 2Sa 13:12; 2Sa 13:12; 2Sa 13:13; 2Sa 13:13; 2Sa 13:15; 2Sa 13:16; 2Sa 13:16; 2Sa 13:18; 2Sa 13:19; 2Sa 13:19; 2Sa 13:19; 2Sa 13:20; 2Sa 13:20; 2Sa 13:20; 2Sa 13:20; 2Sa 13:21; 2Sa 13:22; 2Sa 13:23; 2Sa 13:26; 2Sa 13:27; 2Sa 13:28; 2Sa 13:28; 2Sa 13:29; 2Sa 13:37
His sister by father and mother.
And therefore diligently kept, so he could not get private converse with her.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:5 - -- So he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation.
So he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Pretending, his stomach was so nice, that he could eat nothing but what he saw dressed, and that by a person whom he much esteemed.
Pretending, his stomach was so nice, that he could eat nothing but what he saw dressed, and that by a person whom he much esteemed.
Out of the frying - pan into the dish.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:10 - -- Amnon lying upon his couch in one chamber where the company were with him, where also she made the cakes before him, first sends all out of that room,...
Amnon lying upon his couch in one chamber where the company were with him, where also she made the cakes before him, first sends all out of that room, and then rises from his couch, and, upon some pretence, goes into another secret chamber.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:12 - -- Whom nature both teaches to abhor such thoughts and obliges to defend me from such a mischief with thy utmost hazard, if another should attempt it.
Whom nature both teaches to abhor such thoughts and obliges to defend me from such a mischief with thy utmost hazard, if another should attempt it.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:12 - -- Thou shouldst abhor it, if I were willing; but to add violence, is abominable.
Thou shouldst abhor it, if I were willing; but to add violence, is abominable.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:12 - -- Among God's people who are taught better things; who also will be infinitely reproached for such a base action.
Among God's people who are taught better things; who also will be infinitely reproached for such a base action.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:13 - -- How can I either endure or avoid the shame? Fools - That is, contemptible to all the people, whereas now thou art heir apparent of the crown.
How can I either endure or avoid the shame? Fools - That is, contemptible to all the people, whereas now thou art heir apparent of the crown.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:13 - -- This she spoke, because she thought her royal father would dispense with it, upon this extraordinary occasion, to save his first-born son's life:
This she spoke, because she thought her royal father would dispense with it, upon this extraordinary occasion, to save his first-born son's life:
Wesley: 2Sa 13:15 - -- By the just judgment of God both upon Amnon and David, that so the sin might be made publick, and way for the succeeding tragedies.
By the just judgment of God both upon Amnon and David, that so the sin might be made publick, and way for the succeeding tragedies.
For me to go.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:16 - -- This she might truly say, because though the other was in itself a greater sin, yet this was an act of greater cruelty, and a greater calamity to her ...
This she might truly say, because though the other was in itself a greater sin, yet this was an act of greater cruelty, and a greater calamity to her because it exposed her to publick infamy and contempt, and besides, it turned a private offence into a publick scandal, to the great dishonour of God and of his people, and especially of all the royal family.
Of embroidered work.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:19 - -- To signify her grief for some calamity which had befallen her, and what that was, concurring circumstances easily discovered.
To signify her grief for some calamity which had befallen her, and what that was, concurring circumstances easily discovered.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:19 - -- In token of grief and shame, as if she were unable and ashamed to shew her face.
In token of grief and shame, as if she were unable and ashamed to shew her face.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:19 - -- To manifest her abhorrency of the fact, and that it was not done by her consent.
To manifest her abhorrency of the fact, and that it was not done by her consent.
Behold, and imitate the modesty of scripture expressions.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Wherefore thou must forgive and forgot the injury; therefore thy disgracing of him will be a blot to us all; therefore thou wilt not get right from Da...
Wherefore thou must forgive and forgot the injury; therefore thy disgracing of him will be a blot to us all; therefore thou wilt not get right from David against him, because he is as near and dear to him as thou; therefore thy dishonour is the less, because thou wast not abused by any mean person, but by a king's son; therefore this evil must be borne, because it cannot be revenged: and thus he covers his design of taking vengeance upon him at the first opportunity.
So as to torment thyself.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Through shame and dejection of mind, giving her self up to solitude and retirement.
Through shame and dejection of mind, giving her self up to solitude and retirement.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:21 - -- With Amnon: whom yet he did not punish, at least so severely as he should either from the consciousness of his own guilt in the like kind; or, from th...
With Amnon: whom yet he did not punish, at least so severely as he should either from the consciousness of his own guilt in the like kind; or, from that foolish indulgence which he often shewed to his children.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:22 - -- That is, he said nothing at all to him, about that business. He neither debated it with him, nor threatened him for it; but seemed willing to pass it ...
That is, he said nothing at all to him, about that business. He neither debated it with him, nor threatened him for it; but seemed willing to pass it by with brotherly kindness. If he had wholly forborne all discourse with him, it would have raised jealousies in Amnon and David.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:23 - -- This circumstance of time is noted, as an aggravation of Absalom's malice, which was so implacable: and as an act of policy, that both Amnon and David...
This circumstance of time is noted, as an aggravation of Absalom's malice, which was so implacable: and as an act of policy, that both Amnon and David might more securely comply with his desires.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:26 - -- For the king designed (as the following words shew) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir of his kingdom: otherwise Absalom ...
For the king designed (as the following words shew) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir of his kingdom: otherwise Absalom would never have made particular mention of him; which now he was forced to do. Nor did this desire of Amnon's presence want specious pretences, as that seeing the king would not, he who was next to him might, honour him with his company; and that this might be a publick token of friendship between him and his brother, notwithstanding the former occasion of difference.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:27 - -- It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon's company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God suffered him to be blinded that he might execut...
It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon's company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God suffered him to be blinded that he might execute his judgments upon David, and bring upon Amnon the just punishment of his lewdness.
When he least suspects, and will be most unable to prevent the evil.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:28 - -- I who am the king's son, and, when Amnon is gone, his heir: who therefore shall easily obtain pardon for you, and will liberally reward you.
I who am the king's son, and, when Amnon is gone, his heir: who therefore shall easily obtain pardon for you, and will liberally reward you.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Now the threatened sword is drawn in David's house, which will not depart from it. His eldest son falls by it, thro' his own wickedness, and his fathe...
Now the threatened sword is drawn in David's house, which will not depart from it. His eldest son falls by it, thro' his own wickedness, and his father by his connivance is accessory to it.
Wesley: 2Sa 13:37 - -- His mother's father, that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediation he might obtain his father's pardon.
His mother's father, that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediation he might obtain his father's pardon.
JFB: 2Sa 13:2 - -- Unmarried daughters were kept in close seclusion from the company of men; no strangers, nor even their relatives of the other sex, being permitted to ...
Unmarried daughters were kept in close seclusion from the company of men; no strangers, nor even their relatives of the other sex, being permitted to see them without the presence of witnesses. Of course, Amnon must have seen Tamar, for he had conceived a violent passion for her, which, though forbidden by the law (Lev 18:11), yet with the sanction of Abraham's example (Gen 20:12), and the common practice in neighboring countries for princes to marry their half sisters, he seems not to have considered an improper connection. But he had no means of making it known to her, and the pain of that disappointment preying upon his mind produced a visible change in his appearance and health.
JFB: 2Sa 13:3 - -- Or Shammah (1Sa 16:9). By the counsel and contrivance of this scheming cousin a plan was devised for obtaining an unrestricted interview with the obje...
Or Shammah (1Sa 16:9). By the counsel and contrivance of this scheming cousin a plan was devised for obtaining an unrestricted interview with the object of his attachment.
JFB: 2Sa 13:4 - -- In Eastern countries, where polygamy prevails, the girls are considered to be under the special care and protection of their uterine brother, who is t...
In Eastern countries, where polygamy prevails, the girls are considered to be under the special care and protection of their uterine brother, who is the guardian of their interests and their honor, even more than their father himself (see on Gen. 34:6-25).
JFB: 2Sa 13:6-8 - -- The Orientals are great adepts in feigning sickness, whenever they have any object to accomplish.
The Orientals are great adepts in feigning sickness, whenever they have any object to accomplish.
JFB: 2Sa 13:6-8 - -- To the king Amnon spoke of Tamar as "his sister," a term artfully designed to hoodwink his father; and the request appeared so natural, the delicate a...
To the king Amnon spoke of Tamar as "his sister," a term artfully designed to hoodwink his father; and the request appeared so natural, the delicate appetite of a sick man requiring to be humored, that the king promised to send her. The cakes seem to have been a kind of fancy bread, in the preparation of which Oriental ladies take great delight. Tamar, flattered by the invitation, lost no time in rendering the required service in the house of her sick brother.
JFB: 2Sa 13:12-14 - -- The remonstrances and arguments of Tamar were so affecting and so strong, that had not Amnon been violently goaded on by the lustful passion of which ...
The remonstrances and arguments of Tamar were so affecting and so strong, that had not Amnon been violently goaded on by the lustful passion of which he had become the slave, they must have prevailed with him to desist from his infamous purpose. In bidding him, however, "speak to the king, for he will not withhold me from thee," it is probable that she urged this as her last resource, saying anything she thought would please him, in order to escape for the present out of his hands.
JFB: 2Sa 13:15 - -- It is not unusual for persons instigated by violent and irregular passions to go from one extreme to another. In Amnon's case the sudden revulsion is ...
It is not unusual for persons instigated by violent and irregular passions to go from one extreme to another. In Amnon's case the sudden revulsion is easily accounted for; the atrocity of his conduct, with all the feelings of shame, remorse, and dread of exposure and punishment, now burst upon his mind, rendering the presence of Tamar intolerably painful to him.
JFB: 2Sa 13:17 - -- The street door of houses in the East is always kept barred--the bolts being of wood. In the great mansions, where a porter stands at the outside, thi...
The street door of houses in the East is always kept barred--the bolts being of wood. In the great mansions, where a porter stands at the outside, this precaution is dispensed with; and the circumstance, therefore, of a prince giving an order so unusual shows the vehement perturbation of Ammon's mind.
JFB: 2Sa 13:18 - -- As embroidery in ancient times was the occupation or pastime of ladies of the highest rank, the possession of these parti-colored garments was a mark ...
As embroidery in ancient times was the occupation or pastime of ladies of the highest rank, the possession of these parti-colored garments was a mark of distinction; they were worn exclusively by young women of royal condition. Since the art of manufacturing cloth stuffs has made so great progress, dresses of this variegated description are now more common in the East.
JFB: 2Sa 13:19-20 - -- That is, sobbing. Oriental manners would probably see nothing beyond a strong sense of the injury she had sustained, if Tamar actually rent her garmen...
That is, sobbing. Oriental manners would probably see nothing beyond a strong sense of the injury she had sustained, if Tamar actually rent her garments. But, as her veil is not mentioned, it is probable that Amnon had turned her out of doors without it, and she raised her hand with the design to conceal her face. By these signs, especially the rending of her distinguishing robe, Absalom at once conjectured what had taken place. Recommending her to be silent about it and not publish her own and her family's dishonor, he gave no inkling of his angry feelings to Amnon. But all the while he was in secret "nursing his wrath to keep it warm," and only "biding his time" to avenge his sister's wrongs, and by the removal of the heir-apparent perhaps further also his ambitious designs.
JFB: 2Sa 13:20 - -- He was her natural protector, and the children of polygamists lived by themselves, as if they constituted different families.
He was her natural protector, and the children of polygamists lived by themselves, as if they constituted different families.
JFB: 2Sa 13:23-27 - -- A sheep-shearing feast is a grand occasion in the East. Absalom proposed to give such an entertainment at his estate in Baal-hazor, about eight miles ...
A sheep-shearing feast is a grand occasion in the East. Absalom proposed to give such an entertainment at his estate in Baal-hazor, about eight miles northeast of Jerusalem near a town called Ephraim (Jos 11:10). He first invited the king and his court; but the king declining, on account of the heavy expense to which the reception of royalty would subject him [2Sa 13:25], Absalom then limited the invitation to the king's sons [2Sa 13:26], which David the more readily agreed to, in the hope that it might tend to the promotion of brotherly harmony and union.
JFB: 2Sa 13:28 - -- On a preconcerted signal from their master, the servants, rushing upon Amnon, slew him at the table, while the rest of the brothers, horror-struck, an...
On a preconcerted signal from their master, the servants, rushing upon Amnon, slew him at the table, while the rest of the brothers, horror-struck, and apprehending a general massacre, fled in affrighted haste to Jerusalem.
JFB: 2Sa 13:29 - -- This had become the favorite equipage of the great. King David himself had a state mule (1Ki 1:33). The Syrian mules are, in activity, strength, and c...
This had become the favorite equipage of the great. King David himself had a state mule (1Ki 1:33). The Syrian mules are, in activity, strength, and capabilities, still far superior to ours.
JFB: 2Sa 13:30-31 - -- It was natural that in the consternation and tumult caused by so atrocious a deed, an exaggerated report should reach the court, which was at once plu...
It was natural that in the consternation and tumult caused by so atrocious a deed, an exaggerated report should reach the court, which was at once plunged into the depths of grief and despair. But the information of Jonadab, who seems to have been aware of the plan, and the arrival of the other princes, made known the real extent of the catastrophe.
JFB: 2Sa 13:37 - -- The law as to premeditated murder (Num 35:21) gave him no hope of remaining with impunity in his own country. The cities of refuge could afford him no...
The law as to premeditated murder (Num 35:21) gave him no hope of remaining with impunity in his own country. The cities of refuge could afford him no sanctuary, and he was compelled to leave the kingdom, taking refuge at the court of Geshur, with his maternal grandfather, who would, doubtless, approve of his conduct.|| 08359||1||20||0||@@JOAB INSTRUCTS A WOMAN OF TEKOAH.==== (2Sa. 14:1-21)
JFB: 2Sa 13:37 - -- The king was strongly attached to Absalom; and having now got over his sorrow for the violent death of Amnon, he was desirous of again enjoying the so...
The king was strongly attached to Absalom; and having now got over his sorrow for the violent death of Amnon, he was desirous of again enjoying the society of his favorite son, who had now been three long years absent. But a dread of public opinion and a regard to the public interests made him hesitate about recalling or pardoning his guilty son; and Joab, whose discerning mind perceived this struggle between parental affection and royal duty, devised a plan for relieving the scruples, and, at the same time, gratifying the wishes, of his master. Having procured a countrywoman of superior intelligence and address, he directed her to seek an audience of the king, and by soliciting his royal interposition in the settlement of a domestic grievance, convinced him that the life of a murderer might in some cases be saved. Tekoah was about twelve miles south of Jerusalem, and six south of Beth-lehem; and the design of bringing a woman from such a distance was to prevent either the petitioner being known, or the truth of her story easily investigated. Her speech was in the form of a parable--the circumstances--the language--the manner--well suited to the occasion, represented a case as like David's as it was policy to make it, so as not to be prematurely discovered. Having got the king pledged, she avowed it to be her design to satisfy the royal conscience, that in pardoning Absalom he was doing nothing more than he would have done in the case of a stranger, where there could be no imputation of partiality. The device succeeded; David traced its origin to Joab; and, secretly pleased at obtaining the judgment of that rough, but generally sound-thinking soldier, he commissioned him to repair to Geshur and bring home his exiled son.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:1 - -- Whose name was Tamar - Tamar was the daughter of David and Maacah, daughter of the king of Geshur, and the uterine sister of Absalom. Amnon was Davi...
Whose name was Tamar - Tamar was the daughter of David and Maacah, daughter of the king of Geshur, and the uterine sister of Absalom. Amnon was David’ s eldest son by Ahinoam. She was therefore sister to Amnon only by the father’ s side, i.e., half-sister; but whole sister to Absalom.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:2 - -- Amnon was so vexed - for she was a virgin - It has been well remarked that "the passion of love is nowhere so wasting and vexatious, as where it is ...
Amnon was so vexed - for she was a virgin - It has been well remarked that "the passion of love is nowhere so wasting and vexatious, as where it is unlawful. A quick sense of guilt, especially where it is enormous, as in the present instance, strikes the soul with horror; and the impossibility of an innocent gratification loads that horror with desperation: a conflict too cruel and too dreadful for human bearing."- Delaney.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:3 - -- Jonadab was a very subtle man - And most diabolic advice did he give to his cousin. We talk of the simplicity and excellence of primitive times! "Sa...
Jonadab was a very subtle man - And most diabolic advice did he give to his cousin. We talk of the simplicity and excellence of primitive times! "Say not thou what is the cause that the former days were better than these."Take them altogether, we may thank God that they are past, and pray him that they may never return.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:12 - -- Nay, my brother - There is something exceedingly tender and persuasive in this speech of Tamar; but Amnon was a mere brute, and it was all lost on h...
Nay, my brother - There is something exceedingly tender and persuasive in this speech of Tamar; but Amnon was a mere brute, and it was all lost on him.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:13 - -- Speak unto the king - So it appears that she thought that the king, her father, would give her to him as wife. This is another strong mark of indeli...
Speak unto the king - So it appears that she thought that the king, her father, would give her to him as wife. This is another strong mark of indelicacy in those simple but barbarous times. There might have been some excuse for such connections under the patriarchal age, but there was none now. But perhaps she said this only to divert him from his iniquitous purpose, that she might get out of his hands.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:15 - -- Hated her exceedingly - Amnon’ s conduct to his sister was not only brutal but inexplicable. It would be easy to form conjectures concerning th...
Hated her exceedingly - Amnon’ s conduct to his sister was not only brutal but inexplicable. It would be easy to form conjectures concerning the cause, but we can arrive at no certainty.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:18 - -- A garment of divers colors - See the note on Gen 37:3, where the same words occur.
A garment of divers colors - See the note on Gen 37:3, where the same words occur.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:21 - -- But when King David heard - To this verse the Septuagint add the following words: Και ουκ ελυπησε το πνευμα Αμνων του ...
But when King David heard - To this verse the Septuagint add the following words:
Clarke: 2Sa 13:23 - -- Absalom had sheep-shearers - These were times in which feasts were made, to which the neighbors and relatives of the family were invited.
Absalom had sheep-shearers - These were times in which feasts were made, to which the neighbors and relatives of the family were invited.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Let my brother Amnon go - He urged this with the more plausibility, because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the kingdom; and he ha...
Let my brother Amnon go - He urged this with the more plausibility, because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the kingdom; and he had disguised his resentment so well before, that he was not suspected.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:30 - -- Absalom hath slain all the king’ s sons - Fame never lessens but always magnifies a fact. Report, contrary to the nature of all other things, g...
Absalom hath slain all the king’ s sons - Fame never lessens but always magnifies a fact. Report, contrary to the nature of all other things, gains strength by going
Virgil has given, in his best manner, a fine personification of Fame or Evil Report. - Aen. iv., 173
Extemplo Libyae magnas it Fama per urbes
Fama, malum qua non aliud velocius ullum
Mobilitate viget, viresque adquirit eundo , etc
"Now Fame, tremendous fiend! without delay
Through Libyan cities took her rapid way
Fame, the swift plague, that every moment grows
And gains new strength and vigor as she goes,"etc.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:32 - -- And Jonadab - said - Amnon only is dead - This was a very bad man, and here speaks coolly of a most bloody tragedy, which himself had contrived.
And Jonadab - said - Amnon only is dead - This was a very bad man, and here speaks coolly of a most bloody tragedy, which himself had contrived.
Clarke: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Absalom fled - As he had committed wilful murder, he could not avail himself of a city of refuge, and was therefore obliged to leave the land of Isr...
Absalom fled - As he had committed wilful murder, he could not avail himself of a city of refuge, and was therefore obliged to leave the land of Israel, and take refuge with Talmai, king of Geshur, his grandfather by his mother’ s side. See 2Sa 3:3.
Defender: 2Sa 13:1 - -- Both Absalom and Tamar were children of Maacah, one of David's many wives. Amnon was David's eldest son, born of Ahinoam (2Sa 3:2). The tragic events ...
Both Absalom and Tamar were children of Maacah, one of David's many wives. Amnon was David's eldest son, born of Ahinoam (2Sa 3:2). The tragic events described in this chapter, Amnon's rape of Tamar and murder by Absalom, followed by the scattering of David's other sons were at least in part an outgrowth of the polygamous relationships contracted by David. Even though he was a godly man in many respects, David took many wives and concubines, and he should have known this was not pleasing to God (Gen 2:18, Gen 2:21-24)."
Defender: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Talmai was Absalom's grandfather (2Sa 3:3), ruling Geshur, a small city-state in what is now Syria. Although David was angry with Amnon for raping Tam...
Talmai was Absalom's grandfather (2Sa 3:3), ruling Geshur, a small city-state in what is now Syria. Although David was angry with Amnon for raping Tamar (2Sa 13:21), he had apparently done nothing to punish him, and Absalom was afraid that he himself would be executed for taking the law into his own hands and slaying the king's firstborn son."
TSK -> 2Sa 13:1; 2Sa 13:2; 2Sa 13:3; 2Sa 13:4; 2Sa 13:5; 2Sa 13:6; 2Sa 13:8; 2Sa 13:9; 2Sa 13:11; 2Sa 13:12; 2Sa 13:13; 2Sa 13:14; 2Sa 13:15; 2Sa 13:18; 2Sa 13:19; 2Sa 13:20; 2Sa 13:21; 2Sa 13:22; 2Sa 13:23; 2Sa 13:24; 2Sa 13:25; 2Sa 13:26; 2Sa 13:27; 2Sa 13:28; 2Sa 13:29; 2Sa 13:31; 2Sa 13:32; 2Sa 13:33; 2Sa 13:34; 2Sa 13:35; 2Sa 13:36; 2Sa 13:37; 2Sa 13:38
TSK: 2Sa 13:1 - -- am 2972, bc 1032, A.Ex, Is, 459
Absalom : 2Sa 3:2, 2Sa 3:3; 1Ch 3:2
a fair sister : 2Sa 11:2; Gen 6:2, Gen 39:6, Gen 39:7; Pro 6:25, Pro 31:30
Tamar :...
TSK: 2Sa 13:2 - -- vexed : 1Ki 21:4; Son 5:8; 2Co 7:10
Amnon : etc. Heb. it was marvellous, or hidden, in the eyes of Amnon
TSK: 2Sa 13:3 - -- a friend : Gen 38:1, Gen 38:20; Jdg 14:20; Est 5:10, Est 5:14, Est 6:13; Pro 19:6
Shimeah : 2Sa 13:32; 1Sa 16:9
Shimeah : subtil man, 2Sa 14:2, 2Sa 14...
TSK: 2Sa 13:4 - -- Why art : 1Ki 21:7; Est 5:13, Est 5:14; Luk 12:32
lean : Heb. thin
from day to day : Heb. morning by morning, I love. Isa 3:9; Jer 8:12; Mic 7:3
my br...
TSK: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Lay thee : 2Sa 16:21-23, 2Sa 17:1-4; Psa 50:18, Psa 50:19; Pro 19:27; Mar 6:24, Mar 6:25; Act 23:15
Lay thee : 2Sa 16:21-23, 2Sa 17:1-4; Psa 50:18, Psa 50:19; Pro 19:27; Mar 6:24, Mar 6:25; Act 23:15
TSK: 2Sa 13:8 - -- she took : Dr. Russell says, ""The Eastern ladies often wash their own hands, prepare cakes, pastry, etc. in their apartments; and some few particular...
she took : Dr. Russell says, ""The Eastern ladies often wash their own hands, prepare cakes, pastry, etc. in their apartments; and some few particular dishes are cooked by themselves, but not in their apartmentscaps1 . ocaps0 n such occasions, they go to some room near the kitchen."
flour : or, paste
and made cakes : Rather, as Mr. Parkhurst renders, ""and tossed it (
TSK: 2Sa 13:12 - -- force me : Heb. humble me, Gen 34:2; Deu 22:29
no such thing ought : Heb. it ought not so, Lev 18:9, Lev 18:11, Lev 20:17
folly : Gen 34:7; Jdg 19:23,...
forced her : 2Sa 12:11; Deu 22:25-27; Jdg 20:5; Est 7:8
hated her : Eze 23:17
exceedingly : Heb. with great hatred greatly
TSK: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Amnon : Heb. Aminon
but hold : Pro 26:24; Rom 12:19
regard not : Heb. set not thine heart on
desolate : Heb. and desolate. Gen 34:2, Gen 46:15
TSK: 2Sa 13:21 - -- he was very wroth : The Septuagint and Vulgate add, και ουκ ελυπησε το πνευμα Αμνων του υιου αυτου, ο...
he was very wroth : The Septuagint and Vulgate add,
""But he would not grieve the soul of Amnon his son, for he loved him because he was his first-born.""The same addition is found in Josephus; and it is probable that it once formed a part of the Hebrew Text. 2Sa 3:28, 2Sa 3:29, 2Sa 12:5, 2Sa 12:10; Gen 34:7; 1Sa 2:22-25, 1Sa 2:29; Psa 101:8
TSK: 2Sa 13:22 - -- spake : Lev 19:17, Lev 19:18; Pro 25:9; Mat 18:15
neither good : Gen 24:50, Gen 31:24, Gen 31:29
hated : Lev 19:17, Lev 19:18; Pro 10:18, Pro 26:24, P...
TSK: 2Sa 13:23 - -- am 2974, bc 1030, An, Ex, Is 461
sheepshearers : Gen 38:12, Gen 38:13; 1Sa 25:2, 1Sa 25:4, 1Sa 25:36; 2Ki 3:4; 2Ch 26:10
invited : 1Ki 1:9, 1Ki 1:19, ...
let the king : 2Sa 11:8-15; Psa 12:2, Psa 55:21; Jer 41:6, Jer 41:7
TSK: 2Sa 13:25 - -- pressed : Gen 19:2, Gen 19:3; Jdg 19:7-10; Luk 14:23, Luk 24:29; Act 16:15
blessed : 2Sa 14:22 *marg. Rth 2:4
TSK: 2Sa 13:26 - -- let my brother : He urged this with the more plausibility because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the crown; and he had dissembled h...
let my brother : He urged this with the more plausibility because Amnon was the first-born, and presumptive heir to the crown; and he had dissembled his resentment so long and so well that he was not suspected. 2Sa 3:27, 2Sa 11:13-15, 2Sa 20:9; Psa 55:21
Absalom : Pro 26:24-26
TSK: 2Sa 13:28 - -- commanded : 2Sa 11:15; Exo 1:16, Exo 1:17; 1Sa 22:17, 1Sa 22:18; Act 5:29
heart is merry : 2Sa 11:13; Gen 9:21, Gen 19:32-35; Jdg 19:6, Jdg 19:9, Jdg ...
commanded : 2Sa 11:15; Exo 1:16, Exo 1:17; 1Sa 22:17, 1Sa 22:18; Act 5:29
heart is merry : 2Sa 11:13; Gen 9:21, Gen 19:32-35; Jdg 19:6, Jdg 19:9, Jdg 19:22; Rth 3:7; 1Sa 25:36-38; 1Ki 20:16; Est 1:10; Psa 104:15; Ecc 9:7, Ecc 10:19; Dan 5:2-6, Dan 5:30; Nah 1:10; Luk 21:34
fear not : Num 22:16, Num 22:17; 1Sa 28:10, 1Sa 28:13
have not I : or, Will you not, since I have, etc. Jos 1:9
valiant : Heb. sons of valour
TSK: 2Sa 13:29 - -- servants : 1Sa 22:18, 1Sa 22:19; 1Ki 21:11-13; 2Ki 1:9-12; Pro 29:12; Mic 7:3
gat him up : Heb. rode
mule : 2Sa 18:9; Gen 36:24; Lev 19:19; 1Ki 1:33
servants : 1Sa 22:18, 1Sa 22:19; 1Ki 21:11-13; 2Ki 1:9-12; Pro 29:12; Mic 7:3
gat him up : Heb. rode
TSK: 2Sa 13:31 - -- arose : 2Sa 12:16; Gen 37:29, Gen 37:34; Jos 7:6; Job 1:20
all his servants : 2Sa 1:11, 2Sa 3:31
TSK: 2Sa 13:32 - -- Jonadab : 2Sa 13:3-5
Shimeah : 1Sa 16:9, Shammah
David’ s brother : This was a very bad mancaps1 . hcaps0 e had given his cousin Amnon the most ...
Jonadab : 2Sa 13:3-5
Shimeah : 1Sa 16:9, Shammah
David’ s brother : This was a very bad mancaps1 . hcaps0 e had given his cousin Amnon the most detestable advice; and here speaks coolly of a most bloody tragedy of which he had been the cause.
appointment : Heb. mouth
determined : or, settled, Gen 27:41; Psa 7:14; Pro 24:11, Pro 24:12
Absalom fled : 2Sa 13:38; Gen 4:8-14; Pro 28:17; Amo 5:19
as they servant said, Heb. according to the word of thy servant, 2Sa 13:35
TSK: 2Sa 13:36 - -- very sore : Heb. with a great weeping greatly, 2Sa 13:15 *marg. 2Sa 12:21, 2Sa 18:33
TSK: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Absalom fled : As Absalom had committed wilful murder, he could not avail himself of a city of refuge; but went to Talmai, king of Geshur, his materna...
TSK: 2Sa 13:38 - -- am 2974-2977, bc 1030-1027, An, Ex, Is, 461-464, Geshur. This was not the Geshur lying between Philistia and Egypt (Jos 13:13. 1Sa 27:8), but another...
am 2974-2977, bc 1030-1027, An, Ex, Is, 461-464, Geshur. This was not the Geshur lying between Philistia and Egypt (Jos 13:13. 1Sa 27:8), but another in Syria; probably the same as that beyond Jordan, whose inhabitants are joined with those of Maachathi, Deu 3:14. Jos 12:5. 2Sa 14:23, 2Sa 14:32, 2Sa 15:8
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Barnes: 2Sa 13:1 - -- The history here, down to the end of 2 Sam. 23 (excepting a few particulars), is omitted in the Book of Chronicles.
The history here, down to the end of 2 Sam. 23 (excepting a few particulars), is omitted in the Book of Chronicles.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:3 - -- Shimeah - Called Shamma (marginal reference), was Jesse’ s third son. Subtil - literally, wise. The word is generally used in a good...
Shimeah - Called Shamma (marginal reference), was Jesse’ s third son.
Subtil - literally, wise. The word is generally used in a good sense, but here, and in Job 5:13, it means crafty.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Make thyself sick - " Feign thyself to be ill."(Compare 2Sa 14:2.) That I may see it - He was to feign that he could not fancy anything th...
Make thyself sick - " Feign thyself to be ill."(Compare 2Sa 14:2.)
That I may see it - He was to feign that he could not fancy anything that came from the kitchen, but that if he saw it cooked he should be able to eat it.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:6-9 - -- Make me cakes ... a pan - The words here used occur nowhere else, and the etymology is doubtful. Some particular kind of cake or pudding is mea...
Make me cakes ... a pan - The words here used occur nowhere else, and the etymology is doubtful. Some particular kind of cake or pudding is meant 2Sa 13:8, called a
The dish into which she poured the
Barnes: 2Sa 13:12 - -- Tamar’ s words are a verbal quotation from Gen 34:7. The natural inference is that Tamar knew the passage in Genesis, and wished to profit by t...
Barnes: 2Sa 13:13 - -- My shame - Better, "my reproach."Compare Gen 30:23; Gen 34:14; 1Sa 11:2. Speak unto the king ... - It cannot be inferred with certainty f...
My shame - Better, "my reproach."Compare Gen 30:23; Gen 34:14; 1Sa 11:2.
Speak unto the king ... - It cannot be inferred with certainty from this that marriages were usual among half brothers and sisters in the time of David. The Levitical law forbade them (marginal reference), and Tamar may have merely wished to temporize. On the other hand, the debasing and unhumanizing institution of the harem, itself contrary to the law of Moses Deu 17:17, may well have led to other deviations from its precepts, and the precedent of Abraham Gen 20:12 may have seemed to give some sanction to this particular breach of it.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:16 - -- The sense of the passage probably is, "And she spake with him on account of this great wrong in sending me away, greater than the other wrong which ...
The sense of the passage probably is, "And she spake with him on account of this great wrong in sending me away, greater than the other wrong which thou hast done me (said she), but he hearkened not unto her."The Hebrew text is probably corrupt, and the writer blends Tamar’ s words with his own narrative.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:18 - -- A garment of divers colors - See Gen 37:3. Some prefer here (and there) "a tunic with sleeves,"a tunic reaching to the extremities, i. e. the h...
A garment of divers colors - See Gen 37:3. Some prefer here (and there) "a tunic with sleeves,"a tunic reaching to the extremities, i. e. the hands and feet, and worn over the common tunic, in room of a robe.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:19 - -- Laid her hand on her head - To hold on the ashes (see the marginal references). Went on crying - i. e. "went away, crying out as she went...
Laid her hand on her head - To hold on the ashes (see the marginal references).
Went on crying - i. e. "went away, crying out as she went."
Barnes: 2Sa 13:21 - -- The Septuagint adds, what is a good explanation, "but he did not vex the spirit of Amnon his son, because he loved him, because he was his first-bor...
The Septuagint adds, what is a good explanation, "but he did not vex the spirit of Amnon his son, because he loved him, because he was his first-born."This want of justice in David’ s conduct, and favoritism to Amnon, probably rankled in Absalom’ s heart, and was the first seed of his after rebellion.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:23 - -- Sheepshearing was always a time of feasting (marginal references). Baal-hazor is not known.
Sheepshearing was always a time of feasting (marginal references). Baal-hazor is not known.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:26 - -- He mentions Amnon as being the king’ s first-born. If he could not have the king’ s company, let him at least have that of the heir appare...
He mentions Amnon as being the king’ s first-born. If he could not have the king’ s company, let him at least have that of the heir apparent, and the king’ s other sons.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Upon his mule - So in 1Ki 1:33, 1Ki 1:38 the mule is the royal animal on which David himself rides. In 2Sa 18:9 Absalom rides upon a mule.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:32 - -- The history supplies another (compare 2Sa 13:3) instance of Jonadab’ s subtlety and sagacity. He at once gave the true explanation of the catas...
The history supplies another (compare 2Sa 13:3) instance of Jonadab’ s subtlety and sagacity. He at once gave the true explanation of the catastrophe at Baal-hazor, in spite of the false rumour.
By the appointment of Absalom ... - Meaning that Absalom’ s resolution to slay Amnon had been formed at the time, and only waited an opportunity to give expression to it.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:34 - -- Absalom fled - This is the sequel to 2Sa 13:29. The king’ s sons rose from table and fled, and Absalom taking advantage of the confusion, ...
Absalom fled - This is the sequel to 2Sa 13:29. The king’ s sons rose from table and fled, and Absalom taking advantage of the confusion, also escaped and fled. This information is inserted here to account for the king’ s sons returning unmolested.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:35 - -- The watchman, as his duty was, had sent immediate notice to the king that he saw a crowd approaching (see 2Ki 9:17-20). Jonadab, who was with the ki...
The watchman, as his duty was, had sent immediate notice to the king that he saw a crowd approaching (see 2Ki 9:17-20). Jonadab, who was with the king, was prompt to give the explanation.
Barnes: 2Sa 13:37 - -- See the marginal reference. Ammihur (see the margin) is found as a Punic name.
See the marginal reference.
Ammihur (see the margin) is found as a Punic name.
Poole -> 2Sa 13:1; 2Sa 13:2; 2Sa 13:3; 2Sa 13:4; 2Sa 13:5; 2Sa 13:7; 2Sa 13:8; 2Sa 13:9; 2Sa 13:10; 2Sa 13:12; 2Sa 13:13; 2Sa 13:15; 2Sa 13:16; 2Sa 13:18; 2Sa 13:19; 2Sa 13:20; 2Sa 13:21; 2Sa 13:22; 2Sa 13:23; 2Sa 13:24; 2Sa 13:25; 2Sa 13:26; 2Sa 13:27; 2Sa 13:28; 2Sa 13:29; 2Sa 13:30; 2Sa 13:32; 2Sa 13:34; 2Sa 13:37
A fair sister his sister by father and mother: see 2Sa 3:3 .
Poole: 2Sa 13:2 - -- He fell sick the passion of his mind disturbed his body, as is usual. She was a virgin, and therefore diligently kept, so as he could not get private...
He fell sick the passion of his mind disturbed his body, as is usual. She was a virgin, and therefore diligently kept, so as he could not get private converse with her; and withal modest, and abhorring any compliance with his lustful desires, both from her inclination and interest.
Shimeah, called also Shammah, 1Sa 16:9 .
Poole: 2Sa 13:4 - -- From day to day Heb. from morning to morning ; for whereas in the day he had many diversions and refreshments, in the night he was pestered with tor...
From day to day Heb. from morning to morning ; for whereas in the day he had many diversions and refreshments, in the night he was pestered with tormenting thoughts and passions; the effects whereof appeared in his countenance in the morning.
Wilt thou not tell me thy sure friend and faithful servant, who am ready to advise and assist thee?
Poole: 2Sa 13:5 - -- Let my sister Tamar come so he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation, whom neither nature nor respect a...
Let my sister Tamar come so he calls her, to prevent the suspicion of any dishonest design upon so near a relation, whom neither nature nor respect and affection would permit him to vitiate.
Eat it at her hand pretending that his stomach was so nice that he could eat nothing but what he saw dressed, and that by a person whom he much affected.
Poole: 2Sa 13:7 - -- It is strange that so wise and sagacious a person as David did not see through so vain a pretence; but that must be ascribed partly to the instincts...
It is strange that so wise and sagacious a person as David did not see through so vain a pretence; but that must be ascribed partly to the instincts of nature, which generally preserve near relations from such monstrous actions; and partly to God’ s providence, which blinded David’ s mind, that he might bring upon him the designed and threatened judgments.
He was laid down upon his bed or rather his couch.
Poured them out out of the frying-pan into the dish.
Poole: 2Sa 13:10 - -- Into the chamber an inner chamber; either,
1. That wherein he lay sick upon his bed, where also Tamar made the cakes in his sight, who then carried ...
Into the chamber an inner chamber; either,
1. That wherein he lay sick upon his bed, where also Tamar made the cakes in his sight, who then carried them out into the next room, to bring them in again when he called for them. Or rather,
2. Another chamber; Ammnon lying upon his couch in one chamber where the company were with him, where also she made the cakes before him, first sendeth all out of that room, and then riseth from his couch, and, upon some pretence, goes into another secret chamber, where he might have the better opportunity for his intended wickedness.
Poole: 2Sa 13:12 - -- Nay, my brother whom nature both teacheth to abhor such thoughts, and obligeth to defend me from such a mischief with thy utmost hazard if another sh...
Nay, my brother whom nature both teacheth to abhor such thoughts, and obligeth to defend me from such a mischief with thy utmost hazard if another should attempt it.
Do not force me: thou shouldst abhor it, if I were willing; but to add violence to thy filthiness is abominable.
In Israel among God’ s people, who are taught better things; who also will be infinitely reproached for such a base action.
Poole: 2Sa 13:13 - -- Whither shall I cause my shame to go? how can I either endure or avoid the shame and reproach of it?
As one of the fools in Israel i.e. loathsome a...
Whither shall I cause my shame to go? how can I either endure or avoid the shame and reproach of it?
As one of the fools in Israel i.e. loathsome and contemptible to all the people, whereas now thou art in great reputation, and heir apparent of the crown.
He will not withhold me from thee: this she spake, either because she did not understand or not remember that the law of God prohibited such marriages between a brother and his half-sister; or because she thought her royal father could or would dispense with it, upon this extraordinary occasion, to save his first-born son’ s life; or that by this pretence she might free herself from her present and most urgent danger, knowing she should have opportunity enough to prevent other mischiefs.
Poole: 2Sa 13:15 - -- Then Amnon hated her exceedingly partly because, his lust being now satisfied, his mind and conscience had a true and clear prospect and deep sense o...
Then Amnon hated her exceedingly partly because, his lust being now satisfied, his mind and conscience had a true and clear prospect and deep sense of the natural turpitude and baseness of the action, and of that shame, and contempt, and loss, and mischief which was likely to follow it, and consequently an utter aversion from her who had been the instrument and occasion of his sin; and principally by the just judgment of God, both upon Amnon and David, that so the sin might be made public, and way made for the succeeding tragedies; for otherwise it would probably produce love and kindness to her, as it did in another, Gen 34:2,3 ; especially, in him, whom both nature, and interest, and even lust itself, obliged to allay her grief and shame by all possible demonstrations of kindness.
Poole: 2Sa 13:16 - -- There is no cause to wit, given thee by me.
This evil is greater than the other: this she might truly say, because though the other was in itself a...
There is no cause to wit, given thee by me.
This evil is greater than the other: this she might truly say, because though the other was in itself a greater sin, yet this was an act of greater inhumanity and barbarous cruelty, and a greater wrong and calamity to her, (which she means by evil,) because it exposed her to public infamy and contempt, as if she had been an impudent strumpet, and had either enticed him to the sin, or at least consented to it; and besides, it turned a private offence into a public scandal, to the great dishonour of God and of his people Israel, and especially of all the royal family, and was likely to cause direful passions, and breaches, and mischiefs among them.
Of divers colours of embroidered work. Compare Gen 37:3 .
Poole: 2Sa 13:19 - -- Put ashes on her head, and rent her garment to signify her grief for some calamity which had befallen her, and what that was concurring circumstances...
Put ashes on her head, and rent her garment to signify her grief for some calamity which had befallen her, and what that was concurring circumstances did easily discover.
Laid her hand on her head in token of grief and shame, as if she were unable and ashamed to show her face. See Jer 2:37 .
Went on crying to manifest her abhorrency of the fact, and that it was not done by her consent.
Poole: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Been with thee i.e. lain with thee. Behold, and imitate the modesty of Scripture expressions.
He is thy brother therefore thou must forgive and for...
Been with thee i.e. lain with thee. Behold, and imitate the modesty of Scripture expressions.
He is thy brother therefore thou must forgive and forget the injury; therefore thy disgracing of him will be a blot to us all; therefore thou wilt not get right from David against him, because he is as near and dear to him as thou; therefore thy dishonour is the less, because thou wast not abused by any mean person, but by a king’ s son; therefore this evil must be borne, because it cannot be revenged. And thus he covers his design of taking vengeance upon him at the first opportunity.
Regard not this thing so as to torment thyself.
Desolate neglected and forsaken by others, none now seeking her in marriage; and through shame and dejection of mind, giving herself up to solitude and retirement.
Poole: 2Sa 13:21 - -- To wit, with Amnon; whom yet he did not punish, at least so severely as he should; either from the conscience of his own guilt in the like kind; or ...
To wit, with Amnon; whom yet he did not punish, at least so severely as he should; either from the conscience of his own guilt in the like kind; or from that foolish indulgence which he oft showed to his children; or because the case was perplexed; for if he had been put to death for the fact, by virtue of that law, Deu 22:23,24 , she also, who was innocent, must have died with him, because she did not cry out; although indeed that law did not reach the present case, Tamar not being betrothed to a husband: and for the following law concerning a virgin not betrothed, that could have no place here: he could not force Amnon to marry Tamar, because that marriage had been incestuous.
Poole: 2Sa 13:22 - -- Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad, i. e. he said nothing at all to him, to wit, about that business. It is a synecdochical e...
Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad, i. e. he said nothing at all to him, to wit, about that business. It is a synecdochical expression, used in like manner, Gen 31:24 . He neither debated it with him, nor threatened him for it; but seemed willing to cover it, and pass it by with brotherly kindness. For if he had wholly forborne all discourse and converse with him, it would have raised great jealousies in Amnon and David, and hindered him in his intended and desired revenge.
For Absalom hated Amnon or rather, but , or though Absalom , as the Hebrew particle chi commonly signifies; for the following clause is not added as a reason of the former, but by way of exception or opposition. Though he outwardly expressed no dislike of the fact, yet he inwardly hated him.
Poole: 2Sa 13:23 - -- After two full years: this circumstance of time is noted, partly as an aggravation of Absalom’ s malice, which was so inveterate and implacable;...
After two full years: this circumstance of time is noted, partly as an aggravation of Absalom’ s malice, which was so inveterate and implacable; and partly as an act of Absalom’ s policy, that both Amnon and David might more securely comply with his desires, as being now free from all suspicion of revenge.
Absalom had sheep-shearers according to the manner of those ancient times, when princes did not give themselves up to sloth and luxury, but spent their time and pains in some honest employment.
Ephraim either, first, The city called Ephraim , or Ephrem , Joh 11:54 . Or, secondly, The tribe of Ephraim, towards or nigh unto which this place was situate.
Poole: 2Sa 13:24 - -- To the feast which was usual upon those occasions. See Gen 38:12 1Sa 25:7,11 .
To the feast which was usual upon those occasions. See Gen 38:12 1Sa 25:7,11 .
Poole: 2Sa 13:25 - -- He pressed him pretending great desire of his presence there, to prevent any jealousies, which otherwise he thought would arise in the breast of a ki...
He pressed him pretending great desire of his presence there, to prevent any jealousies, which otherwise he thought would arise in the breast of a king so wise and experienced, and under the expectation of God’ s dreadful judgments to be inflicted upon his family.
Blessed him dismissed him with thanks for his kindness, and with his fatherly blessing
Poole: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Let my brother Amnon go with us for the king designed (as the following words show) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir o...
Let my brother Amnon go with us for the king designed (as the following words show) to keep him at home with him, as being his eldest son, and heir of his kingdom; otherwise Absalom would never have made particular mention of him, which now he was forced to do. Nor did this desire of Amnon’ s presence want specious pretences, as that seeing the king would not, he who was next to him might, honour him with his company; and that this might be a manifest and public token of that love and friendship which was between him and his brother, notwithstanding the former occasion of difference
Poole: 2Sa 13:27 - -- It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon’ s company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God blinded his mind, that he might execute...
It is strange that his urgent desire of Amnon’ s company raised no suspicion in so wise a king; but God blinded his mind, that he might execute his judgments upon David, and bring upon Amnon the just punishment of his lewdness.
Poole: 2Sa 13:28 - -- When Amnon’ s heart is merry with wine when he least suspects, and will be most unable to prevent the evil.
Have not I commanded you I who am ...
When Amnon’ s heart is merry with wine when he least suspects, and will be most unable to prevent the evil.
Have not I commanded you I who am the king’ s son, and, when Amnon is gone, his heir; who therefore shall easily obtain pardon for you, and will liberally reward you?
Poole: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Mules were in use amongst the Israelites. See 1Ki 1:33 . For though they might not promote such mixed kinds of procreation, Lev 19:19 , yet they mig...
Poole: 2Sa 13:30 - -- Which was not improbable, when the sword was once drawn among them, and one of them killed, which might provoke the rest to draw their swords, both ...
Which was not improbable, when the sword was once drawn among them, and one of them killed, which might provoke the rest to draw their swords, both to defend themselves, and to revenge their brother’ s death, and thereby occasion the death of all. And God suffered this false report to be spread for David’ s greater terror and humiliation, that he who had formerly rejoiced in the tidings of Uriah’ s death, might now be tormented with the report of the death of all his sons.
Poole: 2Sa 13:32 - -- Jonadab was a man of great craft and subtlety, and one that had exact knowledge of Amnon’ s fact, and of Absalom’ s temper.
By the appoint...
Jonadab was a man of great craft and subtlety, and one that had exact knowledge of Amnon’ s fact, and of Absalom’ s temper.
By the appointment or, by the command ; Heb. mouth , put for command , Num 3:16 . From the day; it was resolved from that time in his breast; but the word of command was not then given to others, for that would probably have hindered his design. But all this he seems to have spoken from a probable conjecture, rather than of certain knowledge, as appears by the sequel.
Poole: 2Sa 13:34 - -- Absalom fled he who had undertaken to defend his servants flees or his own life.
Behind him behind the watchman; for it seems they did not come in ...
Absalom fled he who had undertaken to defend his servants flees or his own life.
Behind him behind the watchman; for it seems they did not come in the direct road, where the watchman looked for them, but (for some reason or fancy they had) fetched a compass, and came that way which he least expected them.
Poole: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Talmai, the son of Ammihud his mother’ s father, 2Sa 3:3 ; that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediat...
Talmai, the son of Ammihud his mother’ s father, 2Sa 3:3 ; that he might have present protection and sustenance from him; and that by his mediation he might obtain his father’ s pardon and favour.
Thamar was born of Maacha, as well as Absalom.
Haydock: 2Sa 13:2 - -- Her. He had seen her on some solemn occasions, when virgins were allowed to go out, well attended. At other times they were so strictly guarded, th...
Her. He had seen her on some solemn occasions, when virgins were allowed to go out, well attended. At other times they were so strictly guarded, that Amnon thought it almost impossible to gratify his passion, (Calmet) which made him grow pale. He afterwards feigned himself to be more sickly than he really was, ver. 6. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:3 - -- A very wise man. That is, a crafty and subtle man: for the counsel he gave on this occasion shews that his wisdom was but carnal and worldly. (Chal...
A very wise man. That is, a crafty and subtle man: for the counsel he gave on this occasion shews that his wisdom was but carnal and worldly. (Challoner) ---
Jonadab seems to be styled Jonathan, chap. xxi. 21. (Calmet)
King? to whom every indulgence must be allowed. (Menochius)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:5 - -- To me. Hebrew, "and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it, " &c. (Haydock) ---
He pretends to be disguste...
To me. Hebrew, "and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it, " &c. (Haydock) ---
He pretends to be disgusted with food, (Calmet) unless he see his sister make it ready. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:6 - -- Messes. Hebrew, "cakes, or cordials;" what which refresh the heart, and give an appetite. The queen of Perdiccas, of Macedon, baked bread for her...
Messes. Hebrew, "cakes, or cordials;" what which refresh the heart, and give an appetite. The queen of Perdiccas, of Macedon, baked bread for her servants. (Herodotus viii. 137.) (Genesis xviii. 6.)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:9 - -- Out. This conveys the idea of something liquid. (Calmet) ---
It was a thin wafer, (Haydock) or cake, of which there were different sorts.
Out. This conveys the idea of something liquid. (Calmet) ---
It was a thin wafer, (Haydock) or cake, of which there were different sorts.
Haydock: 2Sa 13:10 - -- Chamber. Hebrew Chadera, "bed-place," (Canticle of Canticles i. 4.) where Amnon was lying. (Calmet)
Chamber. Hebrew Chadera, "bed-place," (Canticle of Canticles i. 4.) where Amnon was lying. (Calmet)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:12 - -- Folly, or impiety, so directly contrary to the law, Leviticus xviii. 6. and 9. and 11. (Haydock)
Folly, or impiety, so directly contrary to the law, Leviticus xviii. 6. and 9. and 11. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:13 - -- Thee. Was she ignorant that such marriages could not be allowed? (Calmet) ---
Some think she was. (Grotius) (Menochius) ---
Others believe that...
Thee. Was she ignorant that such marriages could not be allowed? (Calmet) ---
Some think she was. (Grotius) (Menochius) ---
Others believe that, in her present situation, she said what first came into her head, to get out of the hands of her brother. The Rabbins pretend that she was conceived before David married her mother, and that the latter was a pagan; so that they suppose there was no relationship between Thamar and Amnon. But this is all asserted without proof. (Calmet)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:15 - -- Before. Such changes are not unfrequent in those who give way to disordered passions, as Aristotle (prob. iv.) proves. Semiramis slew her lovers, a...
Before. Such changes are not unfrequent in those who give way to disordered passions, as Aristotle (prob. iv.) proves. Semiramis slew her lovers, and among the rest her own son. (Tirinus) ---
God caused Amnon to be stung with remorse, and the evil spirit pushed him on to extremities, which filled the palace with scandal and bloodshed. (Menochius)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:16 - -- Greater, as being more public; (Tirinus) and all would think her guilty of some horrible misdemeanor. (Haydock) ---
It made the divulging of the cr...
Greater, as being more public; (Tirinus) and all would think her guilty of some horrible misdemeanor. (Haydock) ---
It made the divulging of the crime in some degree necessary. (Menochius) ---
Unhappy woman! why did she not cry out, at least, before the perpetration of the act, as the law directed? (Deuteronomy xxii. 24.) (Salien, the year of the world 3000.)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:18 - -- Robe. Hebrew passim; long and variegated, like Joseph's, Genesis xxxvii. 3. The Septuagint call it, Greek: karpotos, to insinuate that it was "...
Robe. Hebrew passim; long and variegated, like Joseph's, Genesis xxxvii. 3. The Septuagint call it, Greek: karpotos, to insinuate that it was "adorned with fruits," &c. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:19 - -- Head, as if to hide her face, Ezechiel xxvii. 30., and Jeremias ii. 37. So Mezentius: "Canitiem immundo deformat pulvere et ambas
Ad Cœlum tendit...
Head, as if to hide her face, Ezechiel xxvii. 30., and Jeremias ii. 37. So Mezentius: "Canitiem immundo deformat pulvere et ambas
Ad Cœlum tendit palmas."----- (Virgil, Æneid x.) See Homer, Iliad 2. (Calmet)
--- Crying, that no one might think she had consented. (Menochius) ---
She probably went directly to her brother's house, and related the affair to him; or he met her in this condition. (Salien)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:20 - -- Brother. His disgrace will fall upon the whole royal family, and the king will not bring him to punishment, like another. (Calmet) ---
Away. Heb...
Brother. His disgrace will fall upon the whole royal family, and the king will not bring him to punishment, like another. (Calmet) ---
Away. Hebrew and Chaldean, "desolate." (Menochius) ---
Septuagint, "like a widow."
Haydock: 2Sa 13:21 - -- And he, &c. This is not in Hebrew, &c., nor in St. Jerome's version. Josephus and some copies of the Septuagint read it. But the reason here alleg...
And he, &c. This is not in Hebrew, &c., nor in St. Jerome's version. Josephus and some copies of the Septuagint read it. But the reason here alleged would not suffice to excuse David. (Calmet) ---
He might think that, as he had shewn such a bad example himself, he could not with a good grace punish others. (Sanctius) ---
This however was requisite, as long as he was king. Whatever faults he might have fallen into, he was not on that account to suffer crimes to remain unpunished; (Haydock) and it is supposed that he testified his resentment to Amnon; (Salien, &c.) though the Scripture be silent thereon. (Haydock) ---
Abulensis condemns him for too great remissness. (Menochius)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:23 - -- Two. Hebrew, "full years." He waited so long, that he might put his murderous designs in execution with less suspicion. (Haydock) ---
Sheep. It...
Two. Hebrew, "full years." He waited so long, that he might put his murderous designs in execution with less suspicion. (Haydock) ---
Sheep. It was esteemed the best husbandry, "to have fine flocks;" bene pascere: (Cato) even for the nobility. ---
Ephraim, or Ephrem; (John xi. 54.) probably near Bethel. (Josephus, Jewish Wars v. 33.) (Calmet) ---
Nabal had made a feast on a similar occasion, 1 Kings xxv. Absalom invites his father to avoid suspicion; (Menochius) though he would be glad at his refusing to come, unless perhaps he would not have hesitated to order his brother to be murdered in his very presence, in order to punish both. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:25 - -- Blessed him, wishing him joy. Absalom kept a separate establishment, and had many children, chap. xiv. 27. (Menochius)
Blessed him, wishing him joy. Absalom kept a separate establishment, and had many children, chap. xiv. 27. (Menochius)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Amnon. He mentions him as the eldest, and that David might suppose that they were perfectly reconciled. (Calmet) ---
The unhappy father seems for ...
Amnon. He mentions him as the eldest, and that David might suppose that they were perfectly reconciled. (Calmet) ---
The unhappy father seems for a long time to have expressed a reluctance and foreboding. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:28 - -- It is I: the blame will fall on me; I will rescue all from danger. These servants were probably infidels, of Gessur, and fled with their master. (M...
It is I: the blame will fall on me; I will rescue all from danger. These servants were probably infidels, of Gessur, and fled with their master. (Menochius)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:29 - -- Mule. This is the first time we find these animals used to ride on. The judges had fair asses. These mules were not the offspring of horses and as...
Mule. This is the first time we find these animals used to ride on. The judges had fair asses. These mules were not the offspring of horses and asses. They bear young in Syria, (Aristotle, anim. vi. 24.) and are little inferior to horses in size, though they are shaped like our mules. (Aristotle, anim. xxxvi.)
Left. Fame often magnifies. (Menochius) ---
Crescit eundo. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:32 - -- Mouth. Chaldean [and] Syriac, "heart." Aquila, "because Absalom was in wrath against him." He had resolved upon his destruction. (Calmet) ---
Pe...
Mouth. Chaldean [and] Syriac, "heart." Aquila, "because Absalom was in wrath against him." He had resolved upon his destruction. (Calmet) ---
Perhaps he had expressed his intention to some of the court; and this Jonadab (by whose means the crime had been committed, ver. 5) had heard of it. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:34 - -- Mountain. Olivet. (Calmet) ---
They had not kept the high road through fear of Absalom; (Abulensis) who, on his part, fled out of the country, as ...
Mountain. Olivet. (Calmet) ---
They had not kept the high road through fear of Absalom; (Abulensis) who, on his part, fled out of the country, as no city of refuge was able to protect wilful murderers. (Haydock)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:37 - -- Tholomai, or Tholmai, (Haydock; chap. iii. 3.) his maternal grandfather. (Calmet)
Tholomai, or Tholmai, (Haydock; chap. iii. 3.) his maternal grandfather. (Calmet)
Haydock: 2Sa 13:38 - -- Ceased. We do not read that he had pursued Absalom before. (Calmet) ---
Now he laid aside all thoughts of punishing him, as he began even to desir...
Ceased. We do not read that he had pursued Absalom before. (Calmet) ---
Now he laid aside all thoughts of punishing him, as he began even to desire to see him again, when he reflected that Amnon had deserved death. (Haydock) ---
Hebrew also, "he burnt with a secret desire to receive Absalom," chap. xiv. 1. (Jonathan; Vatable, &c.) (Calmet) ---
Protestants, " the soul of king David longed to go forth unto," &c. (Haydock)
Gill -> 2Sa 13:1; 2Sa 13:2; 2Sa 13:3; 2Sa 13:4; 2Sa 13:5; 2Sa 13:6; 2Sa 13:7; 2Sa 13:8; 2Sa 13:9; 2Sa 13:10; 2Sa 13:11; 2Sa 13:12; 2Sa 13:13; 2Sa 13:14; 2Sa 13:15; 2Sa 13:16; 2Sa 13:17; 2Sa 13:18; 2Sa 13:19; 2Sa 13:20; 2Sa 13:21; 2Sa 13:22; 2Sa 13:23; 2Sa 13:24; 2Sa 13:25; 2Sa 13:26; 2Sa 13:27; 2Sa 13:28; 2Sa 13:29; 2Sa 13:30; 2Sa 13:31; 2Sa 13:32; 2Sa 13:33; 2Sa 13:34; 2Sa 13:35; 2Sa 13:36; 2Sa 13:37; 2Sa 13:38
Gill: 2Sa 13:1 - -- And it came to pass after this,.... After the sin of David with Bathsheba, his repentance for it, and pardon of it, and the birth of Solomon as a toke...
And it came to pass after this,.... After the sin of David with Bathsheba, his repentance for it, and pardon of it, and the birth of Solomon as a token of reconciliation; yet after all this the divine threatenings must take place; they had begun already in the death of the child begotten in adultery, and others here follow:
that Absalom the son of David had a fair sister, whose name was Tamar; she was his sister both by father and mother's side; the mother o, f them was Maacah, the daughter of Talmai king of Geshur; she was a very comely person, her name signifies a palm tree:
and Amnon the son of David loved her; not in an honourable way, to make her his wife, but in a lustful manner, to make an harlot of her; he was David's eldest son by Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, 2Sa 3:2.
Gill: 2Sa 13:2 - -- And Amnon was so vexed,.... Distressed, straitened, and perplexed in his mind through unruly and unbridled lusts that raged in him:
that he fell si...
And Amnon was so vexed,.... Distressed, straitened, and perplexed in his mind through unruly and unbridled lusts that raged in him:
that he fell sick for his sister Tamar; as Antiochus son of Seleucus did for his mother in law Stratonice, who, to cure him of it, was delivered to him by his father s:
for she was a virgin; and so kept very recluse from the company of men, that he could not come at her; so Philo t, speaking of the Jewish women, and particularly virgins, says, that they were shut up in their chambers, and through modesty shun the sight of men, even those of their own house; hence they are called
and Amnon thought it hard for him to do anything to her; that it was difficult to have access to her, almost impossible, what he despaired of, and what, if attained to, would be wonderful and amazing; he was at his wits' end how to contrive any scheme to get at her, and obtain his desire.
Gill: 2Sa 13:3 - -- But Amnon had a friend,.... Though in the issue his friendship proved his ruin:
whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David's brother; so th...
But Amnon had a friend,.... Though in the issue his friendship proved his ruin:
whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David's brother; so that they were own cousins, the same with Shammah, 1Sa 16:9,
and Jonadab was a very subtle man; a very penetrating man into the dispositions of men, and could judge by their countenances what they were, and the affections of their minds, and had a talent in forming schemes; he was wise to do evil and was wickedly cunning.
Gill: 2Sa 13:4 - -- And he said unto him, why art thou, being the king's son,
lean from day today?.... Or "morning by morning", w; he was the king's eldest son, heir...
And he said unto him, why art thou, being the king's son,
lean from day today?.... Or "morning by morning", w; he was the king's eldest son, heir to the crown, fed at his table, had everything to make him gay and cheerful, and yet pined away; his flesh wasted x, his countenance waxed wan and pale, and especially in the mornings; in the daytime he met with diversions which, in some measure, took off his thoughts from the object his mind was impressed with, but in the night season they were continually employed about it; so that he could have no rest and sleep, which made him look ruefully in the morning; and this man had a suspicion of his case, and therefore put this and the following question to him:
wilt thou not tell me? who am so nearly related to thee, and who have such a particular value and affection for thee:
and Amnon said unto him, I love Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister; he does not call her his sister, but Absalom's sister, to lessen his sin of unlawful love to her, which, being thus closely pressed, and by a friend, he could not conceal.
Gill: 2Sa 13:5 - -- And Jonadab said unto him,.... Being a subtle man, he presently formed a scheme to relieve him, and open a way for the enjoyment of what he desired:
...
And Jonadab said unto him,.... Being a subtle man, he presently formed a scheme to relieve him, and open a way for the enjoyment of what he desired:
lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick; feign thyself sick, pretend that thou art so, by lying down on the bed, and making complaints of one kind or another:
and when thy father cometh to see thee; as he quickly would, after hearing of his illness, being very affectionate to his children:
say unto him, I pray thee let, my sister Tamar come, and give me meat; here he is directed to call her not Absalom's sister, but his own, the more to cover his ill design upon her:
and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand; pretending that his stomach was very weak and squeamish, that he could not eat anything which his servants dressed for him, and which he did not see done with his own eyes.
Gill: 2Sa 13:6 - -- So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick,.... Took the advice of his cousin Jonadab, and acted according to it:
and when the king was come to see h...
So Amnon lay down, and made himself sick,.... Took the advice of his cousin Jonadab, and acted according to it:
and when the king was come to see him; as he quickly did, after he had heard of his illness:
Amnon said unto the king; who perhaps inquired of his appetite, whether he could eat anything, and what:
I pray thee let my sister Tamar come; he calls her sister, as Jonadab had directed, the more to blind his design; though it is much that so sagacious a man as David was had not seen through it; but the notion he had of his being really ill, and the near relation between him and Tamar, forbad his entertaining the least suspicion of that kind:
and make me a couple of cakes in my sight; heart cakes, as the word may be thought to signify; called so either from the form of them, such as We have with us, or from the effect of them, comforting and refreshing the heart:
that I may eat at her hand; both what is made by her hand, and received from it.
Gill: 2Sa 13:7 - -- Then David sent home to Tamar,.... Who perhaps was not in the king's palace, but at her brother Absalom's house, 2Sa 13:20,
saying, go now to thy b...
Then David sent home to Tamar,.... Who perhaps was not in the king's palace, but at her brother Absalom's house, 2Sa 13:20,
saying, go now to thy brother Amnon's house; who also had a separate house and equipage, being the king's son, and his eldest son:
and dress him meat; such as he may desire, and his stomach will bear.
Gill: 2Sa 13:8 - -- So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house,.... In obedience to the king's commands, and in affection to her brother, with an innocent breast, having ...
So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house,.... In obedience to the king's commands, and in affection to her brother, with an innocent breast, having no suspicion of any design upon her chastity:
(and he was laid down); upon a couch or bed in his chamber, as being sick as was pretended, into which she was introduced:
and she took flour, and kneaded it; made it into a paste:
and made cakes in his sight; a kind of fritters of them, as in the Talmud y:
and did bake the cakes: or fried them in a frying pan, in oil.
Gill: 2Sa 13:9 - -- And she took a pan, and poured them out before him,.... Out of the frying pan, in which they were, into another dish; and all this was done in his pr...
And she took a pan, and poured them out before him,.... Out of the frying pan, in which they were, into another dish; and all this was done in his presence, that he might see and know of what, and in what manner it was made, that his stomach might not recoil at it:
but he refused to eat: for that was not what he wanted:
and Amnon said, have out all men from me; as if company was troublesome to him, and he wanted rest, &c.
and they went out every man from him; at his orders, that he might get some sleep, as he seemed desirous of it.
Gill: 2Sa 13:10 - -- And Amnon said unto Tamar, bring the meat into the chamber,.... An inner chamber, at a greater distance, where they might be more secret, and out of t...
And Amnon said unto Tamar, bring the meat into the chamber,.... An inner chamber, at a greater distance, where they might be more secret, and out of the reach of the hearing of any of his domestics:
that I may eat of thine hand; this he pretended, though his design was of another kind:
and Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the chamber to Amnon her brother; being quite innocent herself, and having no suspicion of a brother having any ill design upon her, she made no scruple of going into an inner chamber alone with him.
Gill: 2Sa 13:11 - -- And when she had brought them unto him to eat,.... Not only into the chamber, but to the side of the bed or couch where he had laid himself, or sat, ...
And when she had brought them unto him to eat,.... Not only into the chamber, but to the side of the bed or couch where he had laid himself, or sat, in a proper position to answer his purpose:
he took hold of her; by the arm, or threw his hands about her:
and said unto her, come, lie with me, my sister; one would think the relation he observes she stood in to him would have checked him from making so vile a motion.
Gill: 2Sa 13:12 - -- And she answered him, nay, my brother,.... Which carried in it a reason sufficient for her denial, that he was her brother, and she his sister, and th...
And she answered him, nay, my brother,.... Which carried in it a reason sufficient for her denial, that he was her brother, and she his sister, and therefore should not offer such an indignity to her:
do not force me; which was another forbidding expression, signifying she would never freely yield to his will; and to force her, to defile her against her will, to commit a rape upon her, would be very criminal indeed:
for no such thing ought to be done in Israel; among God's professing people, who were better taught and instructed; and to give into such impure practices would bring a dishonour upon them, and upon the religion they professed; she urges the honour of religion, and the reputation of Israel, and the glory of the God of Israel:
do not thou this folly: as all sin is, especially such an impure and indecent action as this.
Gill: 2Sa 13:13 - -- And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go?.... She desires him to consider hey reputation, which would be lost; was she to go into a corner, into a ...
And I, whither shall I cause my shame to go?.... She desires him to consider hey reputation, which would be lost; was she to go into a corner, into a place the most private and retired, yet she would blush at the thought of the crime committed; and still less able would she be to lift up her face in any public company; nor could she ever expect to be admitted into the matrimonial state; in short, her character would be entirely ruined:
and as for thee, thou shalt be as one of the fools in Israel; as the vilest and basest and most abandoned in the nation; who ought of all men to be most careful of his reputation, being a prince in Israel, and heir apparent to the throne:
now therefore, I pray thee, speak unto the king: to give me to thee in marriage:
for he will not withhold me from thee; this she said, either as ignorant of the law, which forbids such marriages, or as supposing the king had a power to dispense with it, and, rather than he should die for love, would; though she seems to say this, and anything that occurred to her mind, to put him off of his wicked design for the present, holding then she should be delivered from him; besides, she was not his sister by the mother's side, and, as the Jews say, was born of a captive woman before she was proselyted and married to David, and so was free for Amnon z; and others say a she was the daughter of Maacah by a former husband, and not by David.
Gill: 2Sa 13:14 - -- Howbeit, he would not hearken unto her voice,.... His lust was so inflamed and enraged, that he could not attend to any arguments, though ever so forc...
Howbeit, he would not hearken unto her voice,.... His lust was so inflamed and enraged, that he could not attend to any arguments, though ever so forcible, that were offered to him:
but being stronger than she, forced her, and lay with her; whether she cried out or not, as the law directs in such cases, Deu 22:25; is not said; she might, and nobody hear her and come to her assistance; or she might not choose to expose her brother to his servants.
Gill: 2Sa 13:15 - -- Then Amnon hated her exceedingly,.... Having gratified his lust, his conscience stung him for it, that he could not bear the sight of the object that ...
Then Amnon hated her exceedingly,.... Having gratified his lust, his conscience stung him for it, that he could not bear the sight of the object that had been the instrument of it; and it may be the sharp words she had used, representing him as one of the fools in Israel, and perhaps she used sharper words still after he had abused her, filled him with hatred to her:
so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her; a like instance of love being changed into hatred, after the gratification of lust, we have in Honorius towards his sister Placidia b:
and Amnon said unto her, arise, be gone; without calling her by her name, or owning the relation she bore to him, using her as the basest and vilest of creatures. This conduct was very brutish, as well as imprudent, and foolish to the last degree; had he had any regard to his own reputation, he would never have turned her out of doors so soon, and in such a public manner; but so it was ordered by divine Providence, that his sin might be made known, and so the murder of him for it by Absalom was brought on, and both were suffered as a correction and chastisement to David for his sins of adultery and murder, 2Sa 12:11.
Gill: 2Sa 13:16 - -- And she said unto him, there is no cause,.... For such treatment as this:
this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst ...
And she said unto him, there is no cause,.... For such treatment as this:
this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me; not that this was a greater sin, but it was a greater evil or injury to her, that being done secretly, this openly; being turned out in that open manner, it might look as if she was the aggressor, and had drawn her brother into this sin, or however had consented to it; had it been kept a secret, she would not have been exposed to public shame and disgrace, and she might have been disposed of in marriage to another; it would not have been known to the grief of her father, to the revenge of Absalom, and to the dishonour of religion; besides, the sin of Amnon might have been more easily excused, if any excuse could be made for it, as that it arose from the force of lust, and a strong impure affection, but this from barbarity and inhumanity:
but he would not hearken unto her; but insisted upon her immediate departure.
Gill: 2Sa 13:17 - -- Then he called his servants that ministered unto him,.... His domestic servants that waited on him:
and said, put now this woman out from me; she ...
Then he called his servants that ministered unto him,.... His domestic servants that waited on him:
and said, put now this woman out from me; she not willing to depart at once, he ordered her to be put out immediately by force; using her and speaking of her in a very rude and scandalous manner, calling her this, leaving it to be supplied, as they would understand it, this base woman, this strumpet, &c.
and bolt the door after her; that she might not return; this was more disgraceful still.
Gill: 2Sa 13:18 - -- And she had a garment of divers colours upon her,.... Of embroidered work, which made her the more observable, and her shame the more manifest. Wheth...
And she had a garment of divers colours upon her,.... Of embroidered work, which made her the more observable, and her shame the more manifest. Whether this was interwoven with threads of various colours, or embroidered with figures of flowers, animals, &c. and wrought with the needle, or was painted with different colours, or made up of pieces of various colours, is not certain. See Gill on Gen 37:3; but according to Braunius c it was neither, and so the coat of Joseph, but was a garment with sleeves, reaching down to the ankles, and pieced at the borders with fringe; and, indeed, garments of flowers and various colours were such as in other nations, as in Athens, harlots wore d and not virgins, as follows:
for with such robes were the king's daughters that were virgins apparelled; which they wore to distinguish them both from common people, and from married persons of the same quality:
then the servants brought her out, and bolted the door after her; laid hold on her, and brought her out by main force; thrust her out of doors, and turned the key upon her.
Gill: 2Sa 13:19 - -- And Tamar put ashes on her head,.... In token of sorrow and distress; see Jos 7:6,
and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her; signify...
And Tamar put ashes on her head,.... In token of sorrow and distress; see Jos 7:6,
and rent her garment of divers colours that was on her; signifying that her virginity was rent from her in a forcible manner, or that she was ravished:
and laid her hand on her head; through grief and shame; see Jer 2:37,
and went on crying; from Amnon's house to her brother Absalom's, as one abused and injured.
Gill: 2Sa 13:20 - -- And Absalom her brother said unto her,.... Either meeting her in the street, or rather when come to his house:
hath Amnon thy brother been with the...
And Absalom her brother said unto her,.... Either meeting her in the street, or rather when come to his house:
hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? been rude with thee, and lain with thee, which is the meaning of this modest expression; which he guessed at, having heard of her being sent to his house, and knowing his lustful disposition, and seeing her in such a forlorn condition: he calls him Aminon, for so it is in the Hebrew text, and not Amnon, by way of contempt, as Kimchi observes:
but hold now thy peace, my sister; be silent, take no notice of this matter, say nothing of it to the king, nor any other, keep it in thine own breast, and make thyself easy:
he is thy brother, regard not this thing; it is thy brother that has done it, and not so disgraceful as a meaner person, done in the heat of lust, and a youthful one, and should be forgiven; besides, to divulge it would bring disgrace upon the whole family, and no recompence would be obtained by telling the king of it, since he was his son, his firstborn, and heir to the crown; this he said not out of love of Amnon, but as desirous of gratifying private revenge upon him for it when opportunity should serve.
So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house; not seeing any company, being filled with grief and shame, and none applying to her as a suitor, knowing she was vitiated; how long she continued here, or lived after this, is not certain; no mention is made of her afterwards.
Gill: 2Sa 13:21 - -- But when King David heard of all these things,.... Of Amnon's ravishing Tamar, and turning her out of doors in that inhuman manner he did, and of her ...
But when King David heard of all these things,.... Of Amnon's ravishing Tamar, and turning her out of doors in that inhuman manner he did, and of her distress upon it:
he was very wroth; with Amnon; but we read not of any reproof he gave him, nor of any punishment inflicted on him by him. Abarbinel thinks the reason why he was not punished was because his sin was not cognizable by a court of judicature, nor was punishable by any way, or with any kind of death inflicted by the sanhedrim, as stoning, burning, &c. nor even by scourging, because there were no witnesses; but the punishment of it was cutting off, i.e. by the hand of God. The Jews say e a law was made on this, that virgins or unmarried persons should not be alone; for if this was done to the daughter of a king, much more might it be done to the daughter of a private man; and if to a modest person, much more to an impudent one.
Gill: 2Sa 13:22 - -- And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad,.... That is, said nothing at all to him about the rape of his sister; not that he was s...
And Absalom spake unto his brother Amnon neither good nor bad,.... That is, said nothing at all to him about the rape of his sister; not that he was sulky with him, and would not converse with him at all; for then Amnon would have mistrusted that he was meditating revenge, and therefore would have been upon his guard; but on the contrary he talked freely, and in appearance friendly, on other things, the better to conceal his hatred of him, and his design to avenge the injury of his sister:
for Absalom hated Amnon; or, "though" f he hated him, yet he behaved in this manner towards him:
because he had forced his sister Tamar: who was so by father and mother's side, and so near and dear unto him, and therefore resented the injury done her.
Gill: 2Sa 13:23 - -- And it came to pass after two full years,.... Two complete years after the rape was committed; so long Absalom kept it in his mind, and was contriving...
And it came to pass after two full years,.... Two complete years after the rape was committed; so long Absalom kept it in his mind, and was contriving how to avenge it; he let it alone so long, that it might be thought by the king and Amnon, and all the family, that it was quite worn out of his mind, and entirely forgotten by him, and therefore might the more safely confide in him:
that Absalom had sheepshearers in Baalhazor, which is beside Ephraim; though a prince, the son of a king, he had his flocks, and attended to the care of them, and had shearers to shear them at the proper time of the year, which it now was. The Chinese shear their sheep three times a year, the spring, summer, and autumn; but the first time of shearing yields the best wool g. The place of shearing them was, no doubt, near where they were kept in Baalhazor, in the plain of Hazor, as the Targum, and so some versions; which was a city in the tribe of Judah, Jos 15:25; and near to Ephraim; not that it was a city in the tribe of Ephraim, as Josephus says h; but it was near to another city called Ephraim, perhaps the same as in 2Ch 13:19 and in Joh 11:54; it lay to the northeast of Jerusalem, as you go to Jericho, and is thought by Reland i to lie between Bethel and Jericho; and, according to Eusebius k, it was eight miles from Jerusalem; though Jerom l, through mistake, says twenty; and both these places, according to Bunting m, were eight miles from Jerusalem; it seems to be the same place that was spoken of in the Misnah n, called Ephraim in the valley, and which is said to be the second place in the land of Israel for fine flour, and might have its name from its fruitfulness:
and Absalom invited all the king's sons; to the sheepshearing: that is, to the feast which was usually made at such times, and still is; see Gen 38:12.
Gill: 2Sa 13:24 - -- And Absalom came to the king,.... At Jerusalem, to invite him in person:
and said, behold now, thy servant hath sheepshearers; persons employed in ...
And Absalom came to the king,.... At Jerusalem, to invite him in person:
and said, behold now, thy servant hath sheepshearers; persons employed in shearing his sheep: and this being a time of entertainment and joy:
let the king, I beseech thee, and his servants, go with thy servant; he invited the king and the whole royal family to go with him to Baalhazor, and partake of the sheepshearing feast; for by "his servants" are not meant the king's domestic servants, his guard and retinue, but his sons, as appears by what follows.
Gill: 2Sa 13:25 - -- And the king said to Absalom, nay, my son, let us not all now go,.... He did not object to the invitation entirely, he was willing some of the family ...
And the king said to Absalom, nay, my son, let us not all now go,.... He did not object to the invitation entirely, he was willing some of the family should go, but not all; it seems probable that he particularly excepted himself and his eldest son, the heir to his crown, for the reason following:
lest we be chargeable unto thee; one or two persons more, supposing them to be private persons, would have added but little to the expense, if any; but as David was a king, he must have come with the retinue of a king, with a large number of servants and guards, and must be entertained as such; and Amnon, his eldest son, and heir apparent to the crown, must make a figure suitable to his quality, which would have considerably raised the expense; and perhaps Absalom's estate he had to live upon might be but small, which David knew, and therefore chose not to be burdensome to him:
and he pressed him; urged him to go; not that he expected he would, or really desired he should, but this he did to hide his intention, that he might have no suspicion of his design against Amnon; or otherwise he might think he would not have been so pressing upon him to go with him:
howbeit he would not go, but blessed him; thanked him for the invitation he gave him, and wished him much happiness and pleasure at his entertainment with his friends.
Gill: 2Sa 13:26 - -- Then said Absalom, if not,.... If it is not thy pleasure to go with me, if I cannot have the honour of thy company:
I pray thee, let my brother Amn...
Then said Absalom, if not,.... If it is not thy pleasure to go with me, if I cannot have the honour of thy company:
I pray thee, let my brother Amnon go with us; let me have the next mark of honour that can be given me, the presence of the king's eldest son, and heir to the crown; he seems to express affection for him, and a particular desire of his company, as if all ill will towards him was removed from him, and this would be a public declaration of reconciliation between them:
and the king said unto him, why should he go with thee? he particularly, he more than any other; David seems to have suspected some design, and it is strange he should not; and yet if he had, it is much, notwithstanding the pressing arguments used, he should let him go; or he might think it would be more expensive to have him than the rest, and therefore asks why he should desire his company above all others.
Gill: 2Sa 13:27 - -- But Absalom pressed him,.... Which one would think would have increased his suspicion, if he had any, or have raised it in him; but his mind was blind...
But Absalom pressed him,.... Which one would think would have increased his suspicion, if he had any, or have raised it in him; but his mind was blinded, that Amnon's incest might be punished and the threatening to David and his house be fulfilled on account of the affair of Uriah and Bathsheba:
that he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him; if he had any suspicion at all, he might choose they should all go, that they might protect and defend him, if any attempt was made upon him; or, as others think, that no exceptions might be taken, as might be, if Amnon had gone alone.
Gill: 2Sa 13:28 - -- Now Absalom had commanded his servants,.... Before he and his guests were set down to the entertainment:
saying, mark ye now when Amnon's heart is ...
Now Absalom had commanded his servants,.... Before he and his guests were set down to the entertainment:
saying, mark ye now when Amnon's heart is merry with wine; as he was determined to make him if possible, and as he supposed he would be, knowing his inclination to drink:
and when I say unto you, smite Amnon, then kill him; smite him that he die, and be sure he is dead before you leave him:
fear not, have not I commanded you? who am your lord, the king's son, and will then be heir to the crown; fear not, I will protect you; let all the blame be laid to me, if any; I will be answerable for it, you have nothing to do but to obey my commands:
be courageous, and be valiant; show yourselves to be men of courage and valour, not fearing the king's sons, or any in company, or what will be the consequences of it; do your business effectually, and leave all with me; it is very reasonably supposed that Absalom had not only in view to revenge the rape of his sister, but to get himself next heir to the crown.
Gill: 2Sa 13:29 - -- And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded,.... They smote him, and killed him, when he gave the word:
then all the king's...
And the servants of Absalom did unto Amnon as Absalom had commanded,.... They smote him, and killed him, when he gave the word:
then all the king's sons arose; from the feast, imagining they were all designed to be slain:
and every man gat him up upon his mule, and fled; creatures much used in Judea instead of horses, which, though they might not be bred, might be used o.
Gill: 2Sa 13:30 - -- And it came to pass while they were in the way,.... On their road homewards, before they got to Jerusalem:
that tidings came to David; perhaps brou...
And it came to pass while they were in the way,.... On their road homewards, before they got to Jerusalem:
that tidings came to David; perhaps brought by one who was at the entertainment, who upon seeing Amnon smitten, immediately rose up and fled with the news of it to David:
saying, Absalom hath slain all the king's sons, and there is not one of them left; which he might suppose was the design of Absalom, and was done before that time; however, so it was ordered in Providence, that David, that rejoiced at the news of the death of Uriah, might be terrified with the tidings of the death of all his sons; and for a while it was as if it was really so, which occasioned the following behaviour in him.
Gill: 2Sa 13:31 - -- Then the king arose, and tore his garments,.... In token of extreme grief and sorrow, as Jacob did when he was shown the coat of Joseph, supposing him...
Then the king arose, and tore his garments,.... In token of extreme grief and sorrow, as Jacob did when he was shown the coat of Joseph, supposing him to have been slain, as David thought all his sons were, Gen 37:34,
and lay on the earth; on the bare ground, another token of mourning; so Job did on hearing the death of his sons, Job 1:20,
and all his servants stood by with their clothes rent: did as David did, in imitation of him, joining with him in expressions of sorrow; these were his courtiers, ministers of state, and principal officers in his household.
Gill: 2Sa 13:32 - -- And Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother,.... The same that advised Amnon to feign himself sick, to get Tamar sent to him, that he might enjoy ...
And Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David's brother,.... The same that advised Amnon to feign himself sick, to get Tamar sent to him, that he might enjoy her, 2Sa 13:3,
answered and said; said in answer to the report brought to the king, which threw him into such an agony:
let not my lord suppose that they have slain all the young men the king's sons; he did not believe it himself, and would not have the king entertain such a thought, and distress himself with it:
for Amnon only is dead; he is very positive, and speaks with great assurance; it looks as if he was in the secret, and knew of the plot against Amnon's life; and, if so, he must be a very wicked man, first to form a scheme whereby Amnon might come at Tamar to ravish her, and then be accessory to the murder of him, as he must, if he knew of the design against his life, and did not acquaint him and the king of it; and this seems to be confirmed by what follows:
for by the appointment of Absalom this hath been determined, from the day that he forced his sister Tamar; that is, the slaying of Amnon; the meaning is, either that Absalom had given orders to his servants to slay him, whenever they had an opportunity; or it was "in the mouth of Absalom" p, as it may be rendered; he used to declare it to his intimate friends, that it was the purpose and resolution of his heart to kill Amnon some time or another; and this he had taken up from the time of his sister Tamar's being forced, and because of that, of which Jonadab had intelligence by some means or another; and who speaks of this rape without any seeming emotion, as if he had no concern at all in it.
Gill: 2Sa 13:33 - -- Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart,.... Neither suppose it, nor be troubled for it:
to think that all the king's so...
Now therefore let not my lord the king take the thing to his heart,.... Neither suppose it, nor be troubled for it:
to think that all the king's sons are dead: which was not to be thought, nor could any good reason be given for such a supposition
for Amnon only is dead; he repeats it again with great assurance, which seems to confirm the suspicion of him before suggested; though some think he said this not from certain knowledge, but by conjecture.
Gill: 2Sa 13:34 - -- But Absalom fled,.... He who promised his servants protection could not protect himself, and who no doubt fled with him; he knew what he had done was ...
But Absalom fled,.... He who promised his servants protection could not protect himself, and who no doubt fled with him; he knew what he had done was death by law, and that there was no city of refuge for such sort of murder as this, and he had no reason to hope the king would suffer so foul a crime as this to pass unpunished:
and the young man that kept the watch lifted up his eyes, and looked: to the way that led from Absalom's house to Jerusalem, to see if he could spy any other messenger on the road from thence:
and, behold, there came much people by the way of the hill side behind him; that is, behind the watchman, who, looking round him, saw them; these people were the king's sons and their attendants, who, being at some distance, the young man could not discern who they were; they did not come the direct road from Absalom's house, but came a round about way, for fear, as R. Isaiah rightly conjectures, lest Absalom should pursue, or send pursuers after them, and slay them; though others, as Kimchi, think this refers to the hill, and that the sense is, that the watchman saw them coming from the way which was behind the hill, and began to see them when they came to the side of it, which was the way that led to the city, surrounded by mountains, see Psa 125:2.
Gill: 2Sa 13:35 - -- And Jonadab said to the king, behold, the king's sons come,.... For as they came nearer, it was plainly discovered that they were the king's sons, see...
And Jonadab said to the king, behold, the king's sons come,.... For as they came nearer, it was plainly discovered that they were the king's sons, seen on the side of the hill:
as thy servant said, so it is; he seems to applaud himself, and exult at his penetration and foresight.
Gill: 2Sa 13:36 - -- And it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking,.... As soon as the above words were out of his mouth:
that, behold, the king's sons...
And it came to pass, as soon as he had made an end of speaking,.... As soon as the above words were out of his mouth:
that, behold, the king's sons came: into the palace, and into the apartment where the king was:
and lifted up their voice and wept; not being able to tell the sorrowful news with their mouths, but declared it by gestures:
and the king also and all his servants wept very sore; they joined the king's sons in weeping, and were the more moved to it by their weeping, and the rather, since hereby the news of Amnon's murder was confirmed.
Gill: 2Sa 13:37 - -- But Absalom fled,.... As before related, but here repeated for the sake of what follows:
and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur: hi...
But Absalom fled,.... As before related, but here repeated for the sake of what follows:
and went to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, king of Geshur: his mother's father, see 2Sa 3:3, where he might hope for protection and safety:
and David mourned for his son every day; or "all the days" q, i.e. of the three years Absalom was in Geshur, about the end of which he was comforted concerning Amnon, as the following verses show. Some think it was for Absalom he mourned, but rather for Amnon. The reason why he mourned for him, when he did not for his child by Bathsheba, who died, because that was an infant, this a grown man, and heir to his crown, and was slain by the sword of his brother, and so fulfilled a threatening to himself on account of his own sin, which, hereby no doubt, was brought fresh to his mind.
Gill: 2Sa 13:38 - -- So Absalom fled,.... This is the third time it is mentioned, and the reason of it here Abarbinel thinks is, that when he first fled to his grandfather...
So Absalom fled,.... This is the third time it is mentioned, and the reason of it here Abarbinel thinks is, that when he first fled to his grandfather, he used to stand openly in the court of his palace, and go with him wherever he went from place to place; but when he understood that his father mourned so for the death of Amnon, he was afraid he would send some person to lay hold on him, and take vengeance on him; and therefore he would go no more with the king from place to place, but went and abode in Geshur always, which was a fortified city, as it follows:
and went to Geshur, and was there three years: and never went out of it, until he was fetched by Joab, as 2Sa 14:23 relates; nor is there anything in 2Sa 13:37 disturbed and mutilated, as Spinosa r intimates, but the whole is very expressive and emphatic.