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Text -- 2 Samuel 14:1-15 (NET)
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:1 - -- He desired to see him, but was ashamed to shew kindness to one whom God's law and his own conscience obliged him to punish; he wanted therefore a fair...
He desired to see him, but was ashamed to shew kindness to one whom God's law and his own conscience obliged him to punish; he wanted therefore a fair pretence, which therefore Joab gave him.
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As they used to do when they were out of a mourning state.
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:5 - -- One of them who most need thy compassion, and whom thou art by God's law obliged in a singular manner to relieve.
One of them who most need thy compassion, and whom thou art by God's law obliged in a singular manner to relieve.
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:9 - -- If through thy forgetfulness or neglect of this my just cause, my adversaries prevail and destroy my son, my desire is, that God would not lay it to t...
If through thy forgetfulness or neglect of this my just cause, my adversaries prevail and destroy my son, my desire is, that God would not lay it to the king's charge, but rather to me and mine, so the king may be exempted thereby. Whereby she insinuates, that such an omission will bring guilt upon him; and yet most decently orders her phrase so as not to seem to blame or threaten the king. This sense seems best to agree with David's answer, which shew's that she desired some farther assurances of the king's care.
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:11 - -- Remember the Lord, in whose presence thou hast made me this promise, and who will be a witness against thee, if thou breakest it.
Remember the Lord, in whose presence thou hast made me this promise, and who will be a witness against thee, if thou breakest it.
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:13 - -- If thou shouldst not permit the avengers of blood to molest me, or to destroy my son, who are but two persons; how unreasonable is it that thou should...
If thou shouldst not permit the avengers of blood to molest me, or to destroy my son, who are but two persons; how unreasonable is it that thou shouldest proceed in thy endeavours to avenge Amnon's blood upon Absalom, whose death would be grievous to the whole commonwealth of Israel, all whose eyes are upon him as the heir of the crown, and a wise, and valiant, and amiable person, unhappy only in this one act of killing Amnon, which was done upon an high provocation, and whereof thou thyself didst give the occasion by permitting Amnon to go unpunished? Faulty - By thy word, and promise, and oath given to me for my son, thou condemnest thyself for not allowing the same equity towards thy own son. It is true, Absalom's case was widely different from that which she had supposed. But David was too well affected to him, to remark that difference, and was more desirous than she could be, to apply that favourable judgment to his own son, which he had given concerning hers.
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:14 - -- We shall certainly die, both thou, O king, who art therefore obliged to take care of thy successor, Absalom; and Absalom, who, if he do not die by the...
We shall certainly die, both thou, O king, who art therefore obliged to take care of thy successor, Absalom; and Absalom, who, if he do not die by the hand of justice, must shortly die by the necessity of nature: and Amnon too must have died in the common way of all flesh, if Absalom had not cut him off.
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So far as to exempt him from this common law of dying.
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:14 - -- He hath given laws to this purpose, that the man - slayer who is banished should not always continue in banishment, but upon the High-priest's death r...
He hath given laws to this purpose, that the man - slayer who is banished should not always continue in banishment, but upon the High-priest's death return to his own city.
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Wesley: 2Sa 14:15 - -- The truth is, I was even forced to this bold address to thee by the disposition of thy people, who are discontented at Absalom's perpetual banishment,...
The truth is, I was even forced to this bold address to thee by the disposition of thy people, who are discontented at Absalom's perpetual banishment, lest, if Absalom by his father - in - law's assistance invade the land, the people who have a great kindness for him, and think he is very hard used, should take up arms.
JFB: 2Sa 14:7 - -- The life of man is compared in Scripture to a light. To quench the light of Israel (2Sa 21:17) is to destroy the king's life; to ordain a lamp for any...
The life of man is compared in Scripture to a light. To quench the light of Israel (2Sa 21:17) is to destroy the king's life; to ordain a lamp for any one (Psa 132:17) is to grant him posterity; to quench a coal signifies here the extinction of this woman's only remaining hope that the name and family of her husband would be preserved. The figure is a beautiful one; a coal live, but lying under a heap of embers--all that she had to rekindle her fire--to light her lamp in Israel.
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JFB: 2Sa 14:9 - -- That is, the iniquity of arresting the course of justice and pardoning a homicide, whom the Goel was bound to slay wherever he might find him, unless ...
That is, the iniquity of arresting the course of justice and pardoning a homicide, whom the Goel was bound to slay wherever he might find him, unless in a city of refuge. This was exceeding the royal prerogative, and acting in the character of an absolute monarch. The woman's language refers to a common precaution taken by the Hebrew judges and magistrates, solemnly to transfer from themselves the responsibility of the blood they doomed to be shed, either to the accusers or the criminals (2Sa 1:16; 2Sa 3:28); and sometimes the accusers took it upon themselves (Mat 27:25).
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JFB: 2Sa 14:13-17 - -- Her argument may be made clear in the following paraphrase:--You have granted me the pardon of a son who had slain his brother, and yet you will not g...
Her argument may be made clear in the following paraphrase:--You have granted me the pardon of a son who had slain his brother, and yet you will not grant to your subjects the restoration of Absalom, whose criminality is not greater than my son's, since he killed his brother in similar circumstances of provocation. Absalom has reason to complain that he is treated by his own father more sternly and severely than the meanest subject in the realm; and the whole nation will have cause for saying that the king shows more attention to the petition of a humble woman than to the wishes and desires of a whole kingdom. The death of my son is a private loss to my family, while the preservation of Absalom is the common interest of all Israel, who now look to him as your successor on the throne.
Clarke: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Joab sent to Tekoah - Tekoah, according to St. Jerome, was a little city in the tribe of Judah, about twelve miles from Jerusalem
There are several ...
Joab sent to Tekoah - Tekoah, according to St. Jerome, was a little city in the tribe of Judah, about twelve miles from Jerusalem
There are several circumstances relative to this woman and her case which deserve to be noticed: -
1. She was a widow, and therefore her condition of life was the better calculated to excite compassion
2. She lived at some distance from Jerusalem, which rendered the case difficult to be readily inquired into; and consequently there was the less danger of detection
3. She was advanced in years, as Josephus says, that her application might have the more weight
4. She put on mourning, to heighten the idea of distress
5. She framed a case similar to that in which David stood, in order to convince him of the reasonableness of sparing Absalom
6. She did not make the similitude too plain and visible, lest the king should see her intention before she had obtained a grant of pardon. Thus her circumstances, her mournful tale, her widow’ s needs, her aged person, and her impressive manner, all combined to make one united impression on the king’ s heart. We need not wonder at her success. See Bishop Patrick.
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:5 - -- I am indeed a widow woman - It is very possible that the principal facts mentioned here were real, and that Joab found out a person whose circumstan...
I am indeed a widow woman - It is very possible that the principal facts mentioned here were real, and that Joab found out a person whose circumstances bore a near resemblance to that which he wished to represent.
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:7 - -- The whole family is risen - They took on them the part of the avenger of blood; the nearest akin to the murdered person having a right to slay the m...
The whole family is risen - They took on them the part of the avenger of blood; the nearest akin to the murdered person having a right to slay the murderer
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:7 - -- They shall quench my coal which is left - A man and his descendants or successors are often termed in Scripture a lamp or light. So, 2Sa 21:17, the ...
They shall quench my coal which is left - A man and his descendants or successors are often termed in Scripture a lamp or light. So, 2Sa 21:17, the men of David said, when they sware that he should no more go out with them to battle, That thou Quench not the Light of Israel. See also Psa 132:17. And to raise up a lamp to a person signifies his having a posterity to continue his name and family upon the earth: thus, quench my coal that is left means destroying all hope of posterity, and extinguishing the family from among the people. The heathens made use of the same similitude. The few persons who survived the deluge of Deucalion are termed
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:8 - -- I will give charge concerning thee - This would not do, it was too distant; and she could not by it bring her business to a conclusion: so she proce...
I will give charge concerning thee - This would not do, it was too distant; and she could not by it bring her business to a conclusion: so she proceeds: -
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:9 - -- The iniquity be on me - She intimates that, if the king should suppose that the not bringing the offender to the assigned punishment might reflect o...
The iniquity be on me - She intimates that, if the king should suppose that the not bringing the offender to the assigned punishment might reflect on the administration of justice in the land, she was willing that all blame should attach to her and her family, and the king and his throne be guiltless.
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:10 - -- Whosoever saith aught unto thee - Neither did this bring the matter to such a bearing that she could come to her conclusion, which was, to get the k...
Whosoever saith aught unto thee - Neither did this bring the matter to such a bearing that she could come to her conclusion, which was, to get the king pledged by a solemn promise that all proceedings relative to the case should be stopped.
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:11 - -- Let the king remember the Lord thy God - Consider that when God is earnestly requested to show mercy, he does it in the promptest manner; he does no...
Let the king remember the Lord thy God - Consider that when God is earnestly requested to show mercy, he does it in the promptest manner; he does not wait till the case is hopeless: the danger to which my son is exposed is imminent; if the king do not decide the business instantly, it may be too late
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:11 - -- And he said, As the Lord liveth - Thus he binds himself by a most solemn promise and oath; and this is what the woman wanted to extort.
And he said, As the Lord liveth - Thus he binds himself by a most solemn promise and oath; and this is what the woman wanted to extort.
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:13 - -- Wherefore then hast thou thought such a thing - The woman, having now got the king’ s promise confirmed by all oath, that her son should not su...
Wherefore then hast thou thought such a thing - The woman, having now got the king’ s promise confirmed by all oath, that her son should not suffer for the murder of his brother, comes immediately to her conclusion: Is not the king to blame? Does he now act a consistent part? He is willing to pardon the meanest of his subjects the murder of a brother at the instance of a poor widow, and he is not willing to pardon his son Absalom, whose restoration to favor is the desire of the whole nation. Is that clemency to be refused to the king’ s son, the hope of the nation and heir to the throne, which is shown to a private individual, whose death or life can only be of consequence to one family? Why, therefore, dost thou not bring back thy banished child?
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Clarke: 2Sa 14:14 - -- For we must needs die - Whatever is done must be done quickly; all must die; God has not exempted any person from this common lot. Though Amnon be d...
For we must needs die - Whatever is done must be done quickly; all must die; God has not exempted any person from this common lot. Though Amnon be dead, yet the death of Absalom cannot bring him to life, nor repair this loss. Besides, for his crime, he justly deserved to die; and thou, in this case didst not administer justice. Horrible as this fratricide is, it is a pardonable case: the crime of Amnon was the most flagitious; and the offense to Absalom, the ruin of his beloved sister, indescribably great. Seeing, then, that the thing is so, and that Amnon can be no more recalled to life than water spilt upon the ground can be gathered up again; and that God, whose vicegerent thou art, and whose example of clemency as well as justice thou art called to imitate, devises means that those who were banished from him by sin and transgression, may not be finally expelled from his mercy and his kingdom; restore thy son to favor, and pardon his crime, as thou hast promised to restore my son, and the Lord thy God will be with thee. This is the sum and sense of the woman’ s argument
The argument contained in this 14th verse is very elegant, and powerfully persuasive; but one clause of it has been variously understood, Neither doth God respect any person; the Hebrew is,
Defender -> 2Sa 14:14
Defender: 2Sa 14:14 - -- The inevitability of death is, quite incisively, here compared to water spilt on the ground, an irreversible process operating (as do all real process...
The inevitability of death is, quite incisively, here compared to water spilt on the ground, an irreversible process operating (as do all real processes) in accordance with the universal law of increasing entropy (or disorganization), also known as the Second Law of Thermodynamics. This ubiquitous scientific principle of increasing disorganization is clearly opposed to the anti-scientific theory of evolution, despite the widespread commitment of intellectuals to evolutionism. Only a miracle of creation, requiring the divine intervention of the Creator Himself, could suspend or reverse the law of entropy in a given process or system (restoration to life after death, gathering spilled water back up into its container). Evolution - with its cruelty and waste - is so contrary to God's nature that He could never be responsible for it."
TSK: 2Sa 14:1 - -- am 2977, bc 1027, An, Ex, Is, 464
Joab : 2Sa 2:18; 1Ch 2:16
toward Absalom : 2Sa 13:39, 2Sa 18:33, 2Sa 19:2, 2Sa 19:4; Pro 29:26
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TSK: 2Sa 14:2 - -- to Tekoah : Tekoah was a city of Judah, situated, according to Eusebius and Jerome, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. Josephus says it was not far fro...
to Tekoah : Tekoah was a city of Judah, situated, according to Eusebius and Jerome, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. Josephus says it was not far from the castle of Herodium; and Jerome ( Prologue to Amos ) says it stood on a hill six miles south from Bethlehem. Dr. Poccocke places it at the same distance; and says there are still considerable ruins on the top of a hill, which is about half a mile long and a furlong broad. 2Ch 11:6, 2Ch 20:20; Neh 3:5, Neh 3:27; Jer 6:1; Amo 1:1, Tekoa
mourning : 2Sa 11:26; Rth 3:3; Psa 104:15; Ecc 9:8; Mat 6:17
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TSK: 2Sa 14:3 - -- put the words : 2Sa 14:19; Exo 4:15; Num 23:5; Deu 18:18; Isa 51:16, Isa 59:21; Jer 1:9
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TSK: 2Sa 14:4 - -- fell on her : 2Sa 1:2; 1Sa 20:41, 1Sa 25:23
Help : Heb. Save, 2Ki 6:26-28; Job 29:12-14; Luk 18:3-5
fell on her : 2Sa 1:2; 1Sa 20:41, 1Sa 25:23
Help : Heb. Save, 2Ki 6:26-28; Job 29:12-14; Luk 18:3-5
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TSK: 2Sa 14:5 - -- I am indeed : It is very possible that the principal incidents mentioned here were real; and that Joab found out a person whose circumstances bore a n...
I am indeed : It is very possible that the principal incidents mentioned here were real; and that Joab found out a person whose circumstances bore a near resemblance to that which he wished to represent. She did not make the similitude too plain and visible, lest the king should see her intention before she had obtained a grant of pardon; and thus her circumstances, her mournful tale, her widow’ s dress, her aged person (for Josephus says she was advanced in years), and her impressive manner, all combined to make one united irresistible impression on the heart of the aged monarch 2Sa 12:1-3; Jdg 9:8-15
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TSK: 2Sa 14:6 - -- and they two : Gen 4:8; Exo 2:13; Deu 22:26, Deu 22:27
none to part : Heb. no deliverer between
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TSK: 2Sa 14:7 - -- the whole : Gen 4:14; Num 35:19; Deu 19:12
so they : Gen 27:45; Deu 25:6
quench : 2Sa 12:17
upon the earth : Heb. upon the face of the earth
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TSK: 2Sa 14:8 - -- I will give : 2Sa 12:5, 2Sa 12:6, 2Sa 16:4; Job 29:16; Pro 18:13; Isa 11:3, Isa 11:4
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TSK: 2Sa 14:9 - -- the iniquity : Gen 27:13; 1Sa 25:24; Mat 27:25
and the king : 2Sa 3:28, 2Sa 3:29; Num 35:33; Deu 21:1-9; 1Ki 2:33
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TSK: 2Sa 14:11 - -- let the king : Gen 14:22, Gen 24:2, Gen 24:3, Gen 31:50; 1Sa 20:42
thou : etc. Heb. the revenger of blood do not multiply to destroy
the revengers : N...
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TSK: 2Sa 14:12 - -- Let thine : 1Sa 25:24
speak one word : Gen 18:27, Gen 18:32, Gen 44:18; Jer 12:1
Say on : Act 26:1
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TSK: 2Sa 14:13 - -- Wherefore : 2Sa 12:7; 1Ki 20:40-42; Luk 7:42-44
people : 2Sa 7:8; Jdg 20:2
in that the king : 2Sa 13:37, 2Sa 13:38
Wherefore : 2Sa 12:7; 1Ki 20:40-42; Luk 7:42-44
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TSK: 2Sa 14:14 - -- we must : 2Sa 11:25; Job 30:23, Job 34:15; Psa 90:3, Psa 90:10; Ecc 3:19, Ecc 3:20, Ecc 9:5; Heb 9:27
as water : Job 14:7-12, Job 14:14; Psa 22:14, Ps...
we must : 2Sa 11:25; Job 30:23, Job 34:15; Psa 90:3, Psa 90:10; Ecc 3:19, Ecc 3:20, Ecc 9:5; Heb 9:27
as water : Job 14:7-12, Job 14:14; Psa 22:14, Psa 79:3
neither : etc. or, because God hath not taken away his life, he hath also devised means, etc. God. Deu 10:17; Job 34:19; Mat 22:16; Act 10:34; Rom 2:11; 1Pe 1:17
he devise : Exo 21:13; Lev 26:40; Num 35:15, Num 35:25, Num 35:28; Isa 50:1, Isa 50:2
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Tekoah - In the south of Judah, six miles from Bethlehem, the modern Tekua. The rough, wild district was well suited for the lawless profession...
Tekoah - In the south of Judah, six miles from Bethlehem, the modern Tekua. The rough, wild district was well suited for the lawless profession of the wise woman; it abounds in caves, as does the country near Endor.
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:3 - -- Come to the king - The king as a judge was accessible to all his subjects (2Sa 15:2; compare 1Ki 3:16).
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:4 - -- Spake - Seems to be an accidental error for came, which is found in many manuscipts and versions. Help - literally, save (see the margin)...
Spake - Seems to be an accidental error for came, which is found in many manuscipts and versions.
Help - literally, save (see the margin). It is the same cry as Hosanna, i. e. save now Psa 118:25.
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:7 - -- The whole family ... - This indicates that all the king’ s sons, and the whole court, were against Absalom, and that the knowledge of this...
The whole family ... - This indicates that all the king’ s sons, and the whole court, were against Absalom, and that the knowledge of this was what hindered David from yielding to his affection and recalling him.
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:8 - -- I will give charge ... - Indirectly granting her petition, and assenting that her son’ s life should be spared.
I will give charge ... - Indirectly granting her petition, and assenting that her son’ s life should be spared.
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:9 - -- The iniquity be on me ... - Compare the principle in Gen 9:5-6; Num 35:30-34. The woman therefore says, if there is any such guilt in sparing m...
The iniquity be on me ... - Compare the principle in Gen 9:5-6; Num 35:30-34. The woman therefore says, if there is any such guilt in sparing my son, may it rest upon me and my house, not on David and his throne. Compare 2Sa 3:28. The cunning speech of the woman extracted a more direct promise of protection from the king 2Sa 14:1.
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:12 - -- Having at last obtained what she wanted, the king’ s oath that her son should not die, she proceeds to the case of Absalom. The meaning of 2Sa ...
Having at last obtained what she wanted, the king’ s oath that her son should not die, she proceeds to the case of Absalom. The meaning of 2Sa 14:13 may be paraphrased thus: "If you have done right as regards my son, how is it that you harbor such a purpose of vengeance against Absalom as to keep him, one of God’ s people, an outcast in a pagan country, far from the worship of the God of Israel? Upon your own showing you are guilty of a great fault in not allowing Absalom to return."
The king doth speak ... - literally, "And from the king speaking this word (this sentence of absolution to my son) he is as one guilty; i. e. the sentence you have pronounced in favor of my son condemns your own conduct toward Absalom."
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:14 - -- His banished - The use of the word as applied to one of the people of God driven into a pagan land, is well illustrated by Deu 30:4-5; Jer 40:1...
His banished - The use of the word as applied to one of the people of God driven into a pagan land, is well illustrated by Deu 30:4-5; Jer 40:12; Mic 4:6; Zep 3:19.
Neither doth God respect any person - Some prefer the margin: "And God does not take away life, in the case of every sin that deserves death, e. g. David’ s own case 2Sa 12:13, but devises devices that the wanderer may not be forever expelled from him, i. e., for the return of penitent sinners."
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Barnes: 2Sa 14:15 - -- The people have made me afraid - She pretends still that her suit was a real one, and that she was in fear of the people ("the whole family,"2S...
The people have made me afraid - She pretends still that her suit was a real one, and that she was in fear of the people ("the whole family,"2Sa 14:7) setting upon her and her son.
Poole: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Tekoah a city of Judah, 2Ch 11:5,6 . One of Jerusalem was not convenient, lest the king might know the person, or search out the business. And beside...
Tekoah a city of Judah, 2Ch 11:5,6 . One of Jerusalem was not convenient, lest the king might know the person, or search out the business. And besides, this woman seems to be of great eminency for her wisdom, as the following discourse manifests.
A wise woman rather than a man, because women can more easily express their passions, and do sooner procure pity in their miseries, and an answer to their requests.
Anoint not thyself with oil as they used to do when they were out of a mourning state. See Rth 3:3 Mat 6:17 .
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Poole: 2Sa 14:5 - -- I am indeed a widow woman one of them who most need thy compassion and assistance, and whom thou art by God’ s law obliged in a singular manner ...
I am indeed a widow woman one of them who most need thy compassion and assistance, and whom thou art by God’ s law obliged in a singular manner to protect and relieve.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:6 - -- There was none to part them and therefore there is no witness, either that he killed him, or how he killed him, whether from some sudden passion and ...
There was none to part them and therefore there is no witness, either that he killed him, or how he killed him, whether from some sudden passion and great provocation, or in his own necessary defence, or otherwise.
Slew him as the avengers of blood report.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:7 - -- That we may kill him according to the law, Num 35:19 Deu 19:12 .
We will destroy the heir also so they plainly discover that their prosecution of h...
That we may kill him according to the law, Num 35:19 Deu 19:12 .
We will destroy the heir also so they plainly discover that their prosecution of him was not so much from love of justice, as from a covetous desire to deprive him of the inheritance, and to transfer it to themselves; which self-interest might justly render their testimony suspected. Or perhaps these words are not spoken as the expresswords of the prosecutors, (who can hardly be thought so directly to express a sinister design,) but as the woman’ s inference or comment upon what they were doing, (for this would be indeed the result of it, though they did not say so in express words,) thereby to represent her case as the more deserving pity.
My coal which is left the poor remainder of my light and comfort, by whom alone my hopes may be revived and repaired.
To my husband she names him rather than herself, because children bear the names of their fathers, not of their mothers.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:8 - -- That thy cause may be justly and truly examined, and thy son preserved from their unjust and malicious proceedings.
That thy cause may be justly and truly examined, and thy son preserved from their unjust and malicious proceedings.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:9 - -- The sense is, either, first, this, If I do not inform thee aright, and thou thereby be drawn to give an unrighteous sentence on my behalf, I am will...
The sense is, either, first, this, If I do not inform thee aright, and thou thereby be drawn to give an unrighteous sentence on my behalf, I am willing to bear the whole blame of it before God, and men; I acknowledge thou art wholly innocent in the case. Compare Gen 27:13 . Or, secondly, this, If through thy forgetfulness or neglect of this my just cause, my adversaries prevail and destroy my son, my desire is, that God would not lay it to the king’ s charge, but rather to me and mine, so the king may be exempted thereby. Whereby she both insinuates her great esteem of and affection for the king, thereby winning upon him to compass her design; and withal implies that such an omission of the king’ s will bring guilt upon him; and yet most prudently and decently orders her phrase so as not to seem to blame or threaten the king. Compare Exo 5:16,2Sa 20:16 . This sense seems best to agree with David’ s answer, which shows that she desired some further assurance of the king’ s care and justice in her concern.
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i.e. So as to hurt or molest thee, by pursuing thy son.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:11 - -- Let the king remember the Lord thy God: the sense is, either, first, Make mention (as this Hebrew verb is oft rendered) of the name of the Lord thy G...
Let the king remember the Lord thy God: the sense is, either, first, Make mention (as this Hebrew verb is oft rendered) of the name of the Lord thy God, to wit, in an oath, i.e. swear to me by God, that thou wilt protect me and my son against the revenger of blood; for so David did in compliance with this desire of hers. Only she was forced to express her mind in more general and ambiguous terms, because it had been presumption and rudeness for her in plain terms to desire the king’ s oath, as if she durst not trust his word; yet withal she insinuates her meaning so plainly that the king understood it; and yet so handsomely and elegantly, that the king was much pleased with her wisdom, and thereby inclined to grant her request. Or, secondly, this, Remember the gracious nature of thy God, who is not too severe and rigorous to mark at all that is amiss, nor doth cut off every man-slayer, as appears from Nu 35 , and from the example of Cain, and from thyself, O king; though this she expresseth not, but only useth such words which she knew would give so wise and good a king occasion to reflect upon himself, and upon the goodness of God in sparing him, though a wilful murderer, that thereby he might be obliged to imitate God, in sparing the person whom she designed. Or, thirdly, this, Remember the Lord in whose presence thou hast made me this promise, and who will be a witness against thee, if thou breakest it.
That thou wouldest not suffer the revengers of blood to destroy any more Heb. lest the avenger of blood multiply to destroy , i. e. lest they cause one destruction to another, and add my surviving son to him who is slain already. Or, lest thou dost multiply avengers of blood to destroy , i. e. lest by thy connivance at their cruel and malicious proceedings against my son, thou dost encourage avengers of blood to the like furious practices, and thereby increase the number of that sort of men, and upon that pretence occasion multitudes of murders.
Lest they destroy my son or, and let them not destroy my son ; the future tense being put for the imperative mood, as is frequent.
There shall not one hair of thy son fall to the earth i. e. he shall not suffer the least damage. We have the same phrase used 1Sa 14:45 1Ki 1:52 Act 27:34 : compare Mat 10:30 .
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Poole: 2Sa 14:12 - -- Having obliged the king by his oath in her supposed case, she now throws off the veil, and begins to apply this parable to the king’ s and king...
Having obliged the king by his oath in her supposed case, she now throws off the veil, and begins to apply this parable to the king’ s and kingdom’ s present case.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:13 - -- If thou wouldst not permit the avengers of blood to molest me, or to destroy my son, who are but two persons; how unreasonable is it that thou shoul...
If thou wouldst not permit the avengers of blood to molest me, or to destroy my son, who are but two persons; how unreasonable is it that thou shouldst proceed in thy endeavours to avenge Amnon’ s blood upon Absalom, whose death would be highly injurious and grievous to the whole commonwealth of Israel, all whose eyes are upon him as the heir of the crown, and a wise, and valiant, and amiable person, unhappy only in this one act of killing Amnon, which was done upon a high and heinous provocation, and whereof thou thyself didst give the occasion, by permitting Amnon to go unpunished!
The king doth speak this thing as one which is faulty by thy word, and promise, and oath given to me for thy son, thou condemnest thyself for not allowing the same equity towards thy own son.
His banished to wit, Absalom, from that heathenish country, where he is in evident danger of being infected with their idolatry and other vices; which is likely to be a great and public mischief to all thy people, if he come to reign in thy stead, which he is very likely to do. It is true, there was a considerable disparity between her son’ s and Absalom’ s case, the one being a rash and sudden action, the other a deliberate and premeditated murder; but that may seem to be balanced in some measure, partly by Amnon’ s great and lasting provocation, and principally by the vast difference between a private injury, which was her case, and in a public calamity and grievance, which she affirmed, and the king easily believed, was Absalom’ s case: and what David said in the case of Joab’ s murder of Abner, that he could not revenge it, because the sons of Zeruiah were too hard for him , 2Sa 3:39 ; the like peradventure might have been said in this case, where the people’ s hearts may seem to have been universally and vehemently set upon Absalom, and the rather, because his long banishment moved their pity, and his absence made him more desirable, as it frequently happens among people; and therefore it might really be out of the king’ s power to punish him; and so he might seem to be obliged to spare him for the common safety of his whole kingdom.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:14 - -- We must needs die Heb. in dying we shall die , i. e. we shall certainly and suddenly die all of us; both thou, O king, who therefore art obliged to ...
We must needs die Heb. in dying we shall die , i. e. we shall certainly and suddenly die all of us; both thou, O king, who therefore art obliged to take due care of thy successor, who is Absalom; and Absalom, who, if he do not die by the hand of justice, must shortly die by the necessity of nature; and Amnon too must have died in the common way of all flesh, if Absalom had not cut him off. Therefore, O king, be not implacable towards Absalom for nipping a flower a little before its time of fading, and restore him to us all before he die in a strange land.
Spilt on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again which is quickly drunk up and buried in the earth, and cannot be recovered.
Neither doth God respect any person to wit, so far as to exempt him from this common law of dying. But this version seems not to agree with the Scripture phrase; for
the accepting of a person is never to my knowledge expressed in Hebrew by nasa nephesh , which is the phrase here, but by nasa panira , every where. The words therefore may be rendered either thus, yet God will not take away , or doth not use to take away , (the future tense oft noting a continued act, as Hebricians observe,) the soul , or souls , or lives of men, to wit, by violence. God doth not severely and instantly cut off offenders, but suffers them to live till they die by the course of nature; and therefore so shouldst thou do too. Or rather thus yet God hath not taken away his soul or life ; the pronoun his being understood here as it is in many other places, and as being easily supplied out of the context. So the sense is, God hath hitherto spared him, and did not suffer his brethren to kill him, as in reason might have been expected; nor hath God himself yet cut him off for his murder, as he oft doth with persons who are out of the magistrate’ s reach; but hath hitherto preserved him even in a heathenish land; all which are intimations that God would have him spared.
Yet doth he devise means, that his banished be not expelled from him or, but hath devised means , &c., i.e. hath given laws to this purpose, that the man-slayer who is banished should not always continue in banishment, but upon the high priest’ s death return to his own city; whereby he hath showed his pleasure that the avenger of blood should not implacably persist in seeking revenge, and that the man-slayer should be spared. Or rather thus, but thinketh thoughts , or, but hath designed , or, therefore he intendeth that he who is banished (to wit, Absalom) be not (always) expelled or banished from him , i.e. from God and from his people, and from the place of his worship, but that he should return home to him. So the sense is, that God, by sparing Absalom’ s life in the midst of dangers, did sufficiently intimate that he would in due time bring him back to his land and people.
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Poole: 2Sa 14:15 - -- It is because the people have made me afraid the truth is, I was even forced to this bold address to thee by the disposition and condition of thy peo...
It is because the people have made me afraid the truth is, I was even forced to this bold address to thee by the disposition and condition of thy people, who are discontented at Absalom’ s perpetual banishment, and full of fears; either lest, upon thy death, which none knoweth how soon it may happen, they should be involved in a civil war about thy successor; or lest, in the mean time, if Absalom by his father-in-law’ s assistance invade the land, and endeavour by force to regain and secure his right to the succession, the people, who have a great opinion of him, and kindness for him, and think he is very hardly used, should take up arms for him; or lest he who is thy heir and successor should by continual and familiar conversation with heathens be ensnared in their errors, or alienated from the true religion, and from God’ s worship, from which he is now utterly excluded.
And thy handmaid said or, therefore thy handmaid said ; either within myself, i.e. I intended; or to the people, to quiet them.
Haydock: 2Sa 14:2 - -- Thecua, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. (St. Jerome) ---
Joab causes this unknown woman to come from the country to conceal his design, (Calmet) h...
Thecua, twelve miles south of Jerusalem. (St. Jerome) ---
Joab causes this unknown woman to come from the country to conceal his design, (Calmet) hoping that Absalom would be his father's successor. (Menochius)
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Haydock: 2Sa 14:4 - -- Save me. So the Jews frequently repeated Hosanna; and David addressed God, save us, 1 Paralipomenon xvi. 35. (Tirinus)
Save me. So the Jews frequently repeated Hosanna; and David addressed God, save us, 1 Paralipomenon xvi. 35. (Tirinus)
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Haydock: 2Sa 14:5 - -- Dead. Some conclude from ver. 16, that this is a true history; but it appears rather, that it was only a parable, (ver. 19.; Calmet) invented by Joa...
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Haydock: 2Sa 14:7 - -- Heir. She expresses their sentiments more than their words. (Calmet) ---
Some of the relations might desire to obtain the inheritance. (Menochius...
Heir. She expresses their sentiments more than their words. (Calmet) ---
Some of the relations might desire to obtain the inheritance. (Menochius) ---
See Numbers xxxv. 18. ---
Spark. Posterity is often denoted by a lamp, chap. xxi. 17. Hebrew and Septuagint, "my coal," reserved to enkindle my fire, (Calmet) or to perpetuate our name in Israel, (Haydock) or that of his father, to whose title the son succeeded. The mother could claim no inheritance. (Menochius)
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Haydock: 2Sa 14:9 - -- Guiltless, if the murderer be not brought to execution. I am willing to bear all the blame and punishment. (Calmet) ---
Abigail and Rebecca speak ...
Guiltless, if the murderer be not brought to execution. I am willing to bear all the blame and punishment. (Calmet) ---
Abigail and Rebecca speak in the same manner, 1 Kings xxv. 24., and Genesis xxvii. 13. (Tirinus) ---
Though kings may not pardon as they please, yet in this instance David might protect the widow's son, as there was no witness to prove that he had committed the murder. (Menochius) ---
The woman was not satisfied with the former promise. She wished to extort something more decisive. She intimates that the danger is pressing, and if any misfortune should arrive, she cannot impute it to the king, (Calmet) which gives him occasion to encourage her the more. (Haydock)
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Multiplied, or overwhelm me with their numbers. (Calmet)
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Haydock: 2Sa 14:13 - -- Exile, the banished Absalom, (Haydock) who, in similar circumstances, has only committed a crime like that which the king is willing to pardon at the...
Exile, the banished Absalom, (Haydock) who, in similar circumstances, has only committed a crime like that which the king is willing to pardon at the entreaty of a poor widow; though all the people of God seem interested for the welfare of Absalom, whom they look upon as the heir apparent. This was the drift of the whole parable. (Calmet) ---
To sin, may be referred to Absalom, who might be driven by despair to worship idols. (Menochius)
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Haydock: 2Sa 14:14 - -- Earth; so great was the distress of the people at the absence of their darling prince. (Haydock) ---
His death would not bring Amnon to life again....
Earth; so great was the distress of the people at the absence of their darling prince. (Haydock) ---
His death would not bring Amnon to life again. We must not cherish sentiments of eternal enmity. ---
Perish. Chaldean, "a just judge cannot take the money of iniquity." Le Clerc, "And cannot the prince (or judge) pardon a man, and devise means to leave his son no longer in exile?" (Calmet) ---
Protestants, "neither doth God respect any person; yet doth he devise means, that his banished son be not expelled from him." Let the king imitate this example. (Haydock)
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Haydock: 2Sa 14:15 - -- Before the people. Hebrew also, "through fear, or respect for the people," who generally wished that Absalom might return. (Haydock) ---
Joab wa...
Before the people. Hebrew also, "through fear, or respect for the people," who generally wished that Absalom might return. (Haydock) ---
Joab was present, (ver. 21) and no doubt many others; who, if requisite, might join their prayers with hers. (Calmet)
Gill: 2Sa 14:1 - -- Now Joab the son of Zeruiah,.... The general of David's army:
perceived that the king's heart was towards Absalom; and longed to have him returned...
Now Joab the son of Zeruiah,.... The general of David's army:
perceived that the king's heart was towards Absalom; and longed to have him returned, though he knew not how to bring it about with credit to himself, his crime being so foul, and worthy of death. This Joab perceived by some words he now and then dropped, and by his conduct, not seeking by any ways and means to bring him to justice, and being now reconciled to the death of Amnon; wherefore Joab devised a way to make known to him his own mind, and the sense of the people, which would serve to encourage him to restore him; and the rather Joab was inclined to take such a step, as he knew it would establish him in the king's favour, and ingratiate him into the affection of Absalom, the next heir to the crown, as well as please the people, whose darling he was. Though Abarbinel is of opinion that Joab proceeded upon another view of things, not because he saw the heart and affection of David were towards Absalom, but the reverse; that though David restrained himself and his servants from going out after Absalom, yet Joab knew that the heart of the king was against him, and that his heart was to take vengeance on him, though he did not go out to seek him; he perceived there was still enmity and hatred in his heart to take vengeance on Absalom, and therefore he took the following method to remove it, and reconcile his mind to him; and so the Targum,"and Joab the son of Zeruiah knew that the heart of the king was to go, out against Absalom;''and it may be observed, that when Joab had so far prevailed upon him as to admit him to bring him back to Jerusalem, he would not suffer him to see his face, nor did he for two years after.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:2 - -- And Joab sent to Tekoah,.... Which Kimchi says was a city in the tribe of Asher, and others in the tribe of Benjamin, but it seems rather to be in the...
And Joab sent to Tekoah,.... Which Kimchi says was a city in the tribe of Asher, and others in the tribe of Benjamin, but it seems rather to be in the tribe, of Judah, 2Ch 11:5; according Jerom s, it was twelve miles from Jerusalem, though in another place t he says it was but nine; of this place was Amos, and some think u the woman after mentioned was his grandmother. It was proper to lay the scene of the affair to be proposed to the king at some distance, that it might not soon and easily be inquired into:
and fetched thence a wise woman; one much advanced in years, as Josephus says w, whose years had taught her wisdom by experience; a woman of good sense, and of a good address, apt at expression and reply, and knew how to manage an affair committed to her; and among other things, perhaps, was famous for acting the part of a mourner at funerals, for which sometimes women were hired; however, she was one that was talked of for her wisdom and prudence, and Joab having heard of her, sent for her as one for his purpose. The Jews x say, that Tekoah was the first place in the land of Israel for oil, and because the inhabitants were much used to oil, wisdom was found among them:
and said unto her, I pray thee feign thyself to be a mourner; a woman of a sorrowful spirit, and in great distress, and show it by cries and tears:
and put on now mourning apparel; black clothes, such as mourners usually wore:
and anoint not thyself with oil; as used to be done in times of feasting and rejoicing, to make them look smooth, and gay, and cheerful, and of which there might be much use at Tekoah, if so famous for oil:
but be as a woman that had a long time mourned for the dead; her countenance pale and foul with weeping, her mourning clothes almost worn out, &c.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:3 - -- And come to the king,.... At his palace, in the above condition and circumstances:
and speak on this manner unto him; something to the following pu...
And come to the king,.... At his palace, in the above condition and circumstances:
and speak on this manner unto him; something to the following purpose he dictated to her:
so Joab put the words in her mouth; the substance of what she should say; the fable she was to deliver as her own case might be framed by Joab, and which she delivered word for word exactly as he put it, and the application of it; but as he knew not what questions the king would ask her, so he could not dictate to her what to reply, unless he supposed this and the other, and so formed answers; but this he left to her prudence, and for the sake of which he chose a wise woman to manage this affair.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:4 - -- And when the woman of Tekoah spake to the king,.... Or after she had spoken to him, being introduced by Joab, as is probable; when she had saluted him...
And when the woman of Tekoah spake to the king,.... Or after she had spoken to him, being introduced by Joab, as is probable; when she had saluted him with God save the king, or May the king live, or some such like expressions:
she fell on her face to the ground, and did obeisance; to him as her king, in reverence of his majesty:
and said, help, O king; signifying that she was in great distress, and came to him for assistance and deliverance.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:5 - -- And the king said unto her, what aileth thee?.... Or what is thy case? What is the condition, and what the circumstances, that thou art in, which requ...
And the king said unto her, what aileth thee?.... Or what is thy case? What is the condition, and what the circumstances, that thou art in, which require help and assistance? intimating that he was ready to grant it on knowledge thereof; however, he was ready to hear what she had to say:
and she answered, I am indeed a widow woman; of a truth a widow, as the Targum; she was really one, a widow indeed, as in 1Ti 5:3; not one that was separated from her husband, he being alive, or divorced from him on any account; and therefore she adds:
and mine husband is dead; and has been a long time; this she said to move the pity and compassion of the king, who, as the supreme magistrate in God's stead, was a Father of the fatherless, and the judge of the widow.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:6 - -- And thy handmaid had two sons,.... Two are observed, that her case might suit with Amnon and Absalom:
and they two strove together in the field; th...
And thy handmaid had two sons,.... Two are observed, that her case might suit with Amnon and Absalom:
and they two strove together in the field; they quarrelled, and fought in the field, where there were no witnesses of what they did to each other; whereby she would suggest that Ammon was killed in the field, of which there were no witnesses, and therefore Absalom ought not to die; whereas it was in Absalom's house, at his table, and where the rest of the king's sons were present, and witnesses of it:
and there was none to part them; which, had there been, might have prevented the sad disaster; this, as Abarbinel thinks, is pointed at David, who when Amnon forced Tamar, did not correct him for it, nor seek to make peace between the brethren, and hence followed what had happened:
but the one smote the other, and slew him; as say the accusers of him that is living; for the fable supposes there was none with them; however, she suggests, as the above writer observes, that one gave the first blow, and so was the aggressor; and that he that was smitten rose up in his own defence, and in his passion slew him that smote him; which is observed to lessen the crime, and to intimate that Amnon was the aggressor, who first began the sin and quarrel, in ravishing Tamar, and so reproaching Absalom; and therefore his blood was upon his own head.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:7 - -- And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid,.... Who had sheltered her son, that slew his brother, from the avenger of blood; and no...
And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid,.... Who had sheltered her son, that slew his brother, from the avenger of blood; and not only the next akin, the avenger of blood, but even all the kindred and relations of the deceased, those of her husband's family rose up as one man, demanding justice:
and they said, deliver him that smote his brother, that we may kill him for the life of his brother whom he slew; pretending great regard to the deceased, and a zeal for justice, when the main thing aimed at was to get the inheritance into their own hands, as appears by what follows:
and we will destroy the heir also; and hereby she would insinuate to the king, that the reason why the rest of the king's sons spake against Absalom to him, and stirred him up to punish him with death, was because he was heir to the crown, and they thought by removing him to make way for themselves:
and so they shall quench my coal that is left; she had but one son, as she represents her case, who was like a coal left among ashes, in the ruins of her family; the only one to support her, keep alive her family, and bear up and continue her husband's name; and, as the Targum,"they seek to kill the only one that is left;''
and so the family be extinct:
and shall not leave to my husband neither name nor remainder upon the earth; should he be delivered up to them and slain; but herein the fable or apologue differed greatly from the case it was intended to represent; for had Absalom been put to death, as the law required, David had sons enough to inherit his throne, and keep up his name.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:8 - -- And the king said to the woman, go to thine house,.... Go home and make thyself easy:
and I will give charge concerning thee; intimating that he wo...
And the king said to the woman, go to thine house,.... Go home and make thyself easy:
and I will give charge concerning thee; intimating that he would inquire into her case; and if it was as she had represented it, he would give orders that she should not be disturbed, or be obliged to deliver up her son, and that he should be safe from those that sought his life.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:9 - -- And the woman of Tekoah said unto the king, my lord and king,.... With much vehemence, and yet with great respect, fearing an inquisition into her cas...
And the woman of Tekoah said unto the king, my lord and king,.... With much vehemence, and yet with great respect, fearing an inquisition into her case; which it would not bear, being a fable, and being very desirous of having sentence on it immediately pronounced:
the iniquity be on me and on my father's house; let the crime be imputed to me and my family, and punishment inflicted on us for it, if I have misrepresented the case, told lies, and deceived the king:
and the king and his throne be guiltless; let neither he nor his kingdom be charged with any sin, or suffer any damage on that account: or else the sense is, supposing that the king through much business should forget and neglect this affair; and her son should be put to death, through the violence and rage of the family; then she wishes that the fault and punishment of such neglect might not fall upon the king and his kingdom, but upon her and her family: in this form she put it, for the honour of the king, and because she would not be thought to wish ill to him and his kingdom; yet tacitly suggests, that should this be the case, he and his kingdom must expect to answer and suffer for it.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:10 - -- And the king said, whoever saith ought unto thee,.... Demanding her to deliver up her son to justice, and reproaching her for not doing it:
bring ...
And the king said, whoever saith ought unto thee,.... Demanding her to deliver up her son to justice, and reproaching her for not doing it:
bring him to me; give him in charge to a proper officer to be brought before me, and I shall chastise him for it:
and he shall not touch thee any more; give her any further trouble, by words or deeds.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:11 - -- Then said she, I pray thee, let the king remember the Lord thy God,.... Who is a God gracious and merciful, and imitate him in showing mercy to the di...
Then said she, I pray thee, let the king remember the Lord thy God,.... Who is a God gracious and merciful, and imitate him in showing mercy to the distressed; pitying their case, having compassion upon them, and relieving them, as she hoped he would commiserate her case, and provide for the safety of her son. Some think she desires not only to give his word, but his oath, for her son's safety: "remember the Lord thy God"; i.e. make mention of him, as men do when they swear by him; swear to me by the Lord thy God:
that thou wouldest not suffer the revengers of blood to destroy any more, lest they destroy my son, or, "from multiplying the avenger of blood" o; that there might not rise one after another to destroy her son: her meaning is, that the king would swear to her, and give out a general prohibition, an universal edict, that no one should slay her son; otherwise if only the avenger of blood that was next of kin was forbidden, others would rise up one after another, so that he would never be in safety:
and he said, as the Lord liveth; if she desired an oath, he granted her request, and swore by the living God:
there shall not one hair of thy son fall to the earth; so far shall his life be from being touched, or taken away, that the least hurt shall not be done him, as this proverbial expression signifies.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:12 - -- Then the woman said, let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak one word unto my Lord the king,.... Having gained her point, and gotten a decree from him...
Then the woman said, let thine handmaid, I pray thee, speak one word unto my Lord the king,.... Having gained her point, and gotten a decree from him confirmed by an oath, that her son though he had killed his brother should not die; she proceeds to accommodate the parable, and apply it to the case of Absalom, and improve it in his favour:
and he said, say on; gave her leave to say what she had further to observe to him; see Luk 7:40.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:13 - -- Wherefore then hast thou thought such a thing against the people of God?.... That they would be so wicked as to slay my son, or that they are the peop...
Wherefore then hast thou thought such a thing against the people of God?.... That they would be so wicked as to slay my son, or that they are the people of God that would slay Absalom; people so cruel could not be reckoned such, as the king's sons; so Abarbinel; who gives it as the sense of Ephodaeus, that by the people of God are meant Absalom, and his men; or Absalom only, one man being sometimes called people, Exo 21:8; and she expostulates with the king how he could entertain such a thought, as to seek to take away his life, when he had so fully expressed himself in her case on behalf of her son, who had slain his brother; or rather the meaning is, why he should think of doing such a thing as this, so contrary to the will of the people of Israel, the people of God, who would be greatly offended and grieved at it; so contrary to their wishes, which were to see him fetched back from an Heathenish court and country, where he was in danger of being corrupted, and to be restored to his father's favour and to his country, that he might be upon the spot at his death, to succeed in the throne and kingdom; for the provocation that Absalom had to kill Amnon had greatly lessened the evil in the esteem of the people:
for the king doth speak this thing as one which is faulty: he contradicts and condemns himself, in swearing that her son who had killed his brother should not die, nor an hair of his head be hurt, but should be in the utmost safety; and yet he sought to put his own son to death for a like crime, as the next clause explains it:
in that the king doth not fetch home again his banished; meaning Absalom, who was in a foreign country, an exile, 2Sa 13:34, and in danger of falling into idolatry; not daring to come home, lest his father should order him to be put to death; and which he might justly fear he would, should he return without leave, since he sought not by any means to fetch him back.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:14 - -- For we must needs die,.... As all must, herself, the king, and his sons, and indeed all men; this is the common case and lot of men; particularly she ...
For we must needs die,.... As all must, herself, the king, and his sons, and indeed all men; this is the common case and lot of men; particularly she insinuates that David must die, and that there must be a successor named, and perhaps a dispute would arise about one; which might be fatal, if Absalom was not recalled in his lifetime; and that Amnon must have died in a little time if he had not been killed by his brother; and Absalom, he must die also quickly, and therefore what signifies taking away his life? he may as well live a little longer; this, however plausible, was but bad reasoning in the case of a malefactor:
and are as water spilt on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again; which sinks into the earth, and cannot be got out of it again; so men, when they die, are buried in the earth, and cannot be gathered or restored to life again, until the resurrection of the dead; and since Amnon is dead, and he cannot be brought to life again, it is best to be easy, and not seek to take away the life of another; which is to bring him into the same irrecoverable state and condition:
neither doth God respect any person; the words in the original are, "God doth not take away the soul or life" p; of every offender, but spares them notwithstanding the crimes they have committed; and therefore it became the king to be sparing and merciful to offenders, and particularly to his own son; and perhaps she any tacitly have respect to David himself who had been guilty both of murder and adultery, either of which deserved death; and yet God had not taken away his life, but in his great mercy had spared him; and therefore, since he had received mercy, he should show it: or "God hath not taken away his soul or life"; the life of Absalom; he had not cut him off himself by his immediate hand, nor suffered the king's sons to take away his life, nor any other to seize upon him, and bring him to justice, whom David might have employed; but had by his providence protected and preserved him; so that it seemed to be his will and pleasure that he should not be put to death:
yet doth he devise means that his banished be not expelled from him; from his word, worship, and ordinances, as Absalom was; and by protecting him by his providence, it looked as if it was his will, and he would find out ways and means for bringing him back to his country, his father's court, and the sanctuary of the Lord; even as, by the law concerning the cities of refuge for the manslayer, provision was made that at the death of the high priest the exiled person might return to his country.
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Gill: 2Sa 14:15 - -- Now therefore that I am come to speak of this thing unto my lord the king,.... Of the case of Absalom, under a feigned one of hers:
it is because ...
Now therefore that I am come to speak of this thing unto my lord the king,.... Of the case of Absalom, under a feigned one of hers:
it is because the people have made me afraid; having heard of their whisperings, murmurings, and uneasiness among them, because Absalom was not sent for home, fearing there would be an insurrection in the nation, or an invasion of it by Absalom at the request of his friends; in which he might be supported by the king of Geshur; or however that disputes would arise about the succession, at the death of David; on these accounts she determined to speak to the king, and him them to him in the manner she had done; though some understand this of the discouragement the people laid her under, telling her the king would not hear her; nevertheless she was resolved to make trial:
and thy handmaid said, I will now speak unto the king; it may be the king will perform the request of his handmaid; not only with respect to her own son, as feigned; but with respect to Absalom, the grand thing in view.
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NET Notes: 2Sa 14:1 Heb “the heart of the king was upon.” The Syriac Peshitta adds the verb ’ethre’i (“was reconciled”).
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NET Notes: 2Sa 14:4 The word “me” is left to be inferred in the Hebrew text; it is present in the Syriac Peshitta and Vulgate.
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NET Notes: 2Sa 14:6 Here and elsewhere (vv. 7, 12, 15a, 17, 19) the woman uses a term which suggests a lower level female servant. She uses the term to express her humili...
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NET Notes: 2Sa 14:7 My remaining coal is here metaphorical language, describing the one remaining son as her only source of lingering hope for continuing the family line.
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NET Notes: 2Sa 14:15 Here and in v. 16 the woman refers to herself as the king’s אָמָה (’amah), a term that refers to a higher le...
Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:1 Now Joab the son of Zeruiah perceived that the king's ( a ) heart [was] toward Absalom.
( a ) That the king favoured him.
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:2 And Joab sent to Tekoah, and fetched thence a wise woman, and said unto her, I pray thee, feign thyself to be a mourner, and put on now mourning appar...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:6 And thy handmaid had two ( c ) sons, and they two strove together in the field, and [there was] none to part them, but the one smote the other, and sl...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:7 And, behold, the whole family is risen against thine handmaid, and they said, Deliver him that smote his brother, that we may kill him, for the ( d ) ...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:9 And the woman of Tekoah said unto the king, My lord, O king, the ( e ) iniquity [be] on me, and on my father's house: and the king and his throne [be]...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:11 Then said she, I pray thee, let the king ( f ) remember the LORD thy God, that thou wouldest not suffer the revengers of blood to destroy any more, le...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:13 And the woman said, Wherefore then hast thou ( g ) thought such a thing against the people of God? for the king doth speak this thing as one which is ...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:14 For we must needs die, and [are] as water spilt on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again; neither doth God respect [any] person: yet doth he d...
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Geneva Bible: 2Sa 14:15 Now therefore that I am come to speak of this thing unto my lord the king, [it is] because the people ( i ) have made me afraid: and thy handmaid said...
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TSK Synopsis -> 2Sa 14:1-33
TSK Synopsis: 2Sa 14:1-33 - --1 Joab, suborning a widow of Tekoah by a parable to incline the king's heart to fetch home Absalom, brings him to Jerusalem.25 Absalom's beauty, hair,...
Maclaren -> 2Sa 14:14
Maclaren: 2Sa 14:14 - --2 Samuel 14:14
David's good-for-nothing son Absalom had brought about the murder of one of his brothers, and had fled the country. His father weakly l...
MHCC -> 2Sa 14:1-20
MHCC: 2Sa 14:1-20 - --We may notice here, how this widow pleads God's mercy, and his clemency toward poor guilty sinners. The state of sinners is a state of banishment from...
Matthew Henry -> 2Sa 14:1-20
Matthew Henry: 2Sa 14:1-20 - -- Here is, I. Joab's design to get Absalom recalled out of banishment, his crime pardoned, and his attainder reversed, 2Sa 14:1. Joab made himself ver...
Keil-Delitzsch -> 2Sa 14:1-20
Keil-Delitzsch: 2Sa 14:1-20 - --
When Joab perceived that the king's heart was against Absalom, he sent for a cunning woman from Tekoah, to work upon the king and change his mind, s...
Constable: 2Sa 9:1--20:26 - --VI. DAVID'S TROUBLES chs. 9--20
Chapters 9-20 contrast with chapters 2-8 in that this later section is negative ...
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Constable: 2Sa 13:1--20:26 - --C. David's Rejection and Return chs. 13-20
This is the longest literary section in the Court History of ...
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Constable: 2Sa 13:1--14:33 - --1. Events leading up to Absalom's rebellion chs. 13-14
David's disobedience to the Mosaic Covena...
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