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6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord for this is right. 6:2 “Honor your father and mother,” which is the first commandment accompanied by a promise, namely, 6:3 “that it may go well with you and that you will live a long time on the earth.” 6:4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but raise them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. 6:5 Slaves, obey your human masters with fear and trembling, in the sincerity of your heart as to Christ, 6:6 not like those who do their work only when someone is watching– as people-pleasers– but as slaves of Christ doing the will of God from the heart.
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Robertson: Eph 6:1 - -- Right ( dikaion ). In Col 3:20 it is euareston (well-pleasing).

Right ( dikaion ).

In Col 3:20 it is euareston (well-pleasing).

Robertson: Eph 6:2 - -- Which ( hētis ). "Which very"= "for such is."

Which ( hētis ).

"Which very"= "for such is."

Robertson: Eph 6:2 - -- The first commandment with promise ( entolē prōtē en epaggeliāi ). En here means "accompanied by"(Alford). But why "with a promise"? The se...

The first commandment with promise ( entolē prōtē en epaggeliāi ).

En here means "accompanied by"(Alford). But why "with a promise"? The second has a general promise, but the fifth alone (Exo 20:12) has a specific promise. Perhaps that is the idea. Some take it to be first because in the order of time it was taught first to children, but the addition of en epaggeliāi here to prōtē points to the other view.

Robertson: Eph 6:3 - -- That it may be well with thee ( hina eu soi genētai ). From Exo 20:12, "that it may happen to thee well."

That it may be well with thee ( hina eu soi genētai ).

From Exo 20:12, "that it may happen to thee well."

Robertson: Eph 6:3 - -- And thou mayest live long on the earth ( kai esēi makrochronios epi tēs gēs ). Here esēi (second person singular future middle) takes the p...

And thou mayest live long on the earth ( kai esēi makrochronios epi tēs gēs ).

Here esēi (second person singular future middle) takes the place of genēi in the lxx (second person singular second aorist middle subjunctive). Makrochronios is a late and rare compound adjective, here only in N.T. (from lxx, Ex 20:12).

Robertson: Eph 6:4 - -- Provoke not to anger ( mē parorgizete ). Rare compound, both N.T. examples (here and Rom 10:19) are quotations from the lxx. The active, as here, h...

Provoke not to anger ( mē parorgizete ).

Rare compound, both N.T. examples (here and Rom 10:19) are quotations from the lxx. The active, as here, has a causative sense. Parallel in sense with mē erethizete in Col 3:21. Paul here touches the common sin of fathers.

Robertson: Eph 6:4 - -- In the chastening and admonition of the Lord ( en paideiāi kai nouthesiāi tou kuriou ). En is the sphere in which it all takes place. There are...

In the chastening and admonition of the Lord ( en paideiāi kai nouthesiāi tou kuriou ).

En is the sphere in which it all takes place. There are only three examples in the N.T. of paideia , old Greek for training a pais (boy or girl) and so for the general education and culture of the child. Both papyri and inscriptions give examples of this original and wider sense (Moulton and Milligan, Vocabulary ). It is possible, as Thayer gives it, that this is the meaning here in Eph 6:4. In 2Ti 3:16 adults are included also in the use. In Heb 12:5, Heb 12:7, Heb 12:11 the narrower sense of "chastening"appears which some argue for here. At any rate nouthesia (from nous , tithēmi ), common from Aristophanes on, does have the idea of correction. In N.T. only here and 1Co 10:11; Tit 3:10.

Robertson: Eph 6:5 - -- With fear and trembling ( meta phobou kai tromou ). This addition to Col 3:22.

With fear and trembling ( meta phobou kai tromou ).

This addition to Col 3:22.

Robertson: Eph 6:6 - -- But as servants of Christ ( all' hōs douloi Christou ). Better "slaves of Christ"as Paul rejoiced to call himself (Phi 1:1).

But as servants of Christ ( all' hōs douloi Christou ).

Better "slaves of Christ"as Paul rejoiced to call himself (Phi 1:1).

Robertson: Eph 6:6 - -- Doing the will of God ( poiountes to thelēma tou theou ). Even while slaves of men.

Doing the will of God ( poiountes to thelēma tou theou ).

Even while slaves of men.

Vincent: Eph 6:1 - -- In the Lord The children being with their parents in the Lord, are to be influenced by religious duty as well as by natural affection.

In the Lord

The children being with their parents in the Lord, are to be influenced by religious duty as well as by natural affection.

Vincent: Eph 6:1 - -- Right ( δίκαιον ) Belonging essentially to the very nature of the relation.

Right ( δίκαιον )

Belonging essentially to the very nature of the relation.

Vincent: Eph 6:2 - -- Honor thy father, etc. To what is essentially right the divine ordinance is added. Compare Aeschylus: " For the reverence of parents, this is w...

Honor thy father, etc.

To what is essentially right the divine ordinance is added. Compare Aeschylus: " For the reverence of parents, this is written third in the laws of much-venerated justice" (" Suppliants," 687-689). So Euripides: " There are three virtues which thou shouldst cultivate, my child, to honor the gods, and thy parents who gave thee being and the common laws of Hellas" (Fragment). Honor expresses the frame of mind from which obedience proceeds.

Vincent: Eph 6:2 - -- First - with promise ( πρώτη εν ἐπαγγελίᾳ ) First in point of promise, as it also is in order the first with promise.

First - with promise ( πρώτη εν ἐπαγγελίᾳ )

First in point of promise, as it also is in order the first with promise.

Vincent: Eph 6:3 - -- Thou mayest live long ( ἔσῃ μακροχρόνιος ) Lit., mayest be long-lived . The adjective occurs only here.

Thou mayest live long ( ἔσῃ μακροχρόνιος )

Lit., mayest be long-lived . The adjective occurs only here.

Vincent: Eph 6:4 - -- Nurture and admonition ( παιδείᾳ καὶ νουθεσίᾳ ) Πας δείᾳ from παίς a child . In classical usage,...

Nurture and admonition ( παιδείᾳ καὶ νουθεσίᾳ )

Πας δείᾳ from παίς a child . In classical usage, that which is applied to train and educate a Child. So Plato: " Education (παιδεία ) is the constraining and directing of youth toward that right reason which the law affirms, and which the experience of the best of our elders has agreed to be truly right" (" Laws," 659). In scriptural usage another meaning has come into it and its kindred verb παιδεύειν , which recognizes the necessity of correction or chastisement to thorough discipline. So Lev 26:18; Psa 6:1; Isa 53:5; Heb 12:5-8. In Act 7:22 παιδεύω occurs in the original classical sense: " Moses was instructed (ἐπαιδεύθη ) in all the wisdom," etc. The term here covers all the agencies which contribute to moral and spiritual training. Discipline is better than Rev., chastening . Νουθεσία admonition occurs only here, 1Co 10:11, and Tit 3:10. The kindred verb νουθετέω to warn or admonish , is found only in Paul's letters, with the single exception of Act 20:31 (see note). Its distinctive feature is training by word of mouth , as is shown by its classical usage in connection with words meaning to exhort or teach . Xenophon uses the phrase νουθετικοὶ λόγοι admonitory words . Yet it may include monition by deed . Thus Plato, speaking of public instruction in music, says that the spectators were kept quiet by the admonition of the wand (ῥάβδου νουθέτησις , " Laws," 700). He also uses the phrase πληγαῖς νουθετεῖν to admonish with blows . It includes rebuke , but not necessarily. Trench happily illustrates the etymological sense (νοῦς the mind , τίθημι to put ): " Whatever is needed to cause the monition to be laid to heart ." Admonition is a mode of discipline, so that the two words nurture and admonition stand related as general and special.

Vincent: Eph 6:4 - -- Of the Lord Such discipline as is prescribed by the Lord and is administered in His name.

Of the Lord

Such discipline as is prescribed by the Lord and is administered in His name.

Vincent: Eph 6:5 - -- Servants ( δοῦλοι ) Bond-servants or slaves . In this appeal Paul was addressing a numerous class. In many of the cities of Asia Minor...

Servants ( δοῦλοι )

Bond-servants or slaves . In this appeal Paul was addressing a numerous class. In many of the cities of Asia Minor slaves outnumbered freemen.

Vincent: Eph 6:5 - -- Masters ( κυρίοις ) See on Col 3:22.

Masters ( κυρίοις )

See on Col 3:22.

Vincent: Eph 6:5 - -- According to the flesh Regarded in their merely human relation.

According to the flesh

Regarded in their merely human relation.

Vincent: Eph 6:5 - -- With fear See on Phi 2:12.

With fear

See on Phi 2:12.

Vincent: Eph 6:5 - -- Singleness See on simplicity , Rom 12:8.

Singleness

See on simplicity , Rom 12:8.

Vincent: Eph 6:5 - -- Unto Christ " Common and secular inducements can have but small influence on the mind of a slave."

Unto Christ

" Common and secular inducements can have but small influence on the mind of a slave."

Vincent: Eph 6:6 - -- Eye service - men-pleasers See on Col 3:22.

Eye service - men-pleasers

See on Col 3:22.

Wesley: Eph 6:1 - -- In all things lawful. The will of the parent is a law to the child.

In all things lawful. The will of the parent is a law to the child.

Wesley: Eph 6:1 - -- For his sake.

For his sake.

Wesley: Eph 6:1 - -- Manifestly just and reasonable.

Manifestly just and reasonable.

Wesley: Eph 6:2 - -- That is, love, reverence, obey, assist, in all things. The mother is particularly mentioned, as being more liable to be slighted than the father.

That is, love, reverence, obey, assist, in all things. The mother is particularly mentioned, as being more liable to be slighted than the father.

Wesley: Eph 6:2 - -- For the promise implied in the second commandment does not belong to the keeping that command in particular, but the whole law. Exo 20:12

For the promise implied in the second commandment does not belong to the keeping that command in particular, but the whole law. Exo 20:12

Wesley: Eph 6:3 - -- This is usually fulfilled to eminently dutiful children; and he who lives long and well has a long seed - time for the eternal harvest. But this promi...

This is usually fulfilled to eminently dutiful children; and he who lives long and well has a long seed - time for the eternal harvest. But this promise, in the Christian dispensation, is to be understood chiefly in a more exalted and Spiritual sense.

Wesley: Eph 6:4 - -- Mothers are included; but fathers are named, as being more apt to be stern and severe.

Mothers are included; but fathers are named, as being more apt to be stern and severe.

Wesley: Eph 6:4 - -- Do not needlessly fret or exasperate them.

Do not needlessly fret or exasperate them.

Wesley: Eph 6:4 - -- With all tenderness and mildness.

With all tenderness and mildness.

Wesley: Eph 6:4 - -- Both in Christian knowledge and practice.

Both in Christian knowledge and practice.

Wesley: Eph 6:5 - -- According to the present state of things: afterward the servant is free from his master.

According to the present state of things: afterward the servant is free from his master.

Wesley: Eph 6:5 - -- A proverbial expression, implying the utmost care and diligence.

A proverbial expression, implying the utmost care and diligence.

Wesley: Eph 6:5 - -- With a single eye to the providence and will of God.

With a single eye to the providence and will of God.

Wesley: Eph 6:6 - -- service - Serving them better when under their eye than at other times.

service - Serving them better when under their eye than at other times.

Wesley: Eph 6:6 - -- Doing whatever you do, as the will of God, and with your might.

Doing whatever you do, as the will of God, and with your might.

JFB: Eph 6:1 - -- Stronger than the expression as to wives, "submitting," or "being subject" (Eph 5:21). Obedience is more unreasoning and implicit; submission is the w...

Stronger than the expression as to wives, "submitting," or "being subject" (Eph 5:21). Obedience is more unreasoning and implicit; submission is the willing subjection of an inferior in point of order to one who has a right to command.

JFB: Eph 6:1 - -- Both parents and children being Christians "in the Lord," expresses the element in which the obedience is to take place, and the motive to obedience. ...

Both parents and children being Christians "in the Lord," expresses the element in which the obedience is to take place, and the motive to obedience. In Col 3:20, it is, "Children, obey your parents in all things." This clause, "in the Lord," would suggest the due limitation of the obedience required (Act 5:29; compare on the other hand, the abuse, Mar 7:11-13).

JFB: Eph 6:1 - -- Even by natural law we should render obedience to them from whom we have derived life.

Even by natural law we should render obedience to them from whom we have derived life.

JFB: Eph 6:2 - -- Here the authority of revealed law is added to that of natural law.

Here the authority of revealed law is added to that of natural law.

JFB: Eph 6:2 - -- The "promise" is not made the main motive to obedience, but an incidental one. The main motive is, because it is God's will (Deu 5:16, "Honor thy fath...

The "promise" is not made the main motive to obedience, but an incidental one. The main motive is, because it is God's will (Deu 5:16, "Honor thy father and mother, as the Lord thy God hath COMMANDED thee"); and that it is so peculiarly, is shown by His accompanying it "with a promise."

JFB: Eph 6:2 - -- In the decalogue with a special promise. The promise in the second commandment is a general one. Their duty is more expressly prescribed to children t...

In the decalogue with a special promise. The promise in the second commandment is a general one. Their duty is more expressly prescribed to children than to parents; for love descends rather than ascends [BENGEL]. This verse proves the law in the Old Testament is not abolished.

JFB: Eph 6:3 - -- In Exo 20:12, "long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee," which Paul adapts to Gospel times, by taking away the local and limited referen...

In Exo 20:12, "long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee," which Paul adapts to Gospel times, by taking away the local and limited reference peculiar to the Jews in Canaan. The godly are equally blessed in every land, as the Jews were in the land which God gave them. This promise is always fulfilled, either literally, or by the substitution of a higher blessing, namely, one spiritual and eternal (Job 5:26; Pro 10:27). The substance and essence of the law are eternally in force: its accidents alone (applying to Israel of old) are abolished (Rom 6:15).

JFB: Eph 6:4 - -- Including mothers; the fathers are specified as being the fountains of domestic authority. Fathers are more prone to passion in relation to their chil...

Including mothers; the fathers are specified as being the fountains of domestic authority. Fathers are more prone to passion in relation to their children than mothers, whose fault is rather over-indulgence.

JFB: Eph 6:4 - -- Irritate not, by vexatious commands, unreasonable blame, and uncertain temper [ALFORD]. Col 3:21, "lest they be discouraged."

Irritate not, by vexatious commands, unreasonable blame, and uncertain temper [ALFORD]. Col 3:21, "lest they be discouraged."

JFB: Eph 6:4 - -- Greek, "discipline," namely, training by chastening in act where needed (Job 5:17; Heb 12:7).

Greek, "discipline," namely, training by chastening in act where needed (Job 5:17; Heb 12:7).

JFB: Eph 6:4 - -- Training by words (Deu 6:7; "catechise," Pro 22:6, Margin), whether of encouragement, or remonstrance, or reproof, according as is required [TRENCH]. ...

Training by words (Deu 6:7; "catechise," Pro 22:6, Margin), whether of encouragement, or remonstrance, or reproof, according as is required [TRENCH]. Contrast 1Sa 3:13, Margin.

JFB: Eph 6:4 - -- Such as the Lord approves, and by His Spirit dictates.

Such as the Lord approves, and by His Spirit dictates.

JFB: Eph 6:5 - -- Literally, "slaves."

Literally, "slaves."

JFB: Eph 6:5 - -- In contrast to your true and heavenly Master (Eph 6:4). A consolatory him that the mastership to which they were subject, was but for a time [CHRYSOST...

In contrast to your true and heavenly Master (Eph 6:4). A consolatory him that the mastership to which they were subject, was but for a time [CHRYSOSTOM]; and that their real liberty was still their own (1Co 7:22).

JFB: Eph 6:5 - -- Not slavish terror, but (See on 1Co 2:3; 2Co 7:15) an anxious eagerness to do your duty, and a fear of displeasing, as great as is produced in the ord...

Not slavish terror, but (See on 1Co 2:3; 2Co 7:15) an anxious eagerness to do your duty, and a fear of displeasing, as great as is produced in the ordinary slave by "threatenings" (Eph 6:9).

JFB: Eph 6:5 - -- Without double-mindedness, or "eye service" (Eph 6:6), which seeks to please outwardly, without the sincere desire to make the master's interest at al...

Without double-mindedness, or "eye service" (Eph 6:6), which seeks to please outwardly, without the sincere desire to make the master's interest at all times the first consideration (1Ch 29:17; Mat 6:22-23; Luk 11:34). "Simplicity."

JFB: Eph 6:6 - -- (Col 3:22). Seeking to please their masters only so long as these have their eyes on them: as Gehazi was a very different man in his master's presence...

(Col 3:22). Seeking to please their masters only so long as these have their eyes on them: as Gehazi was a very different man in his master's presence from what he was in his absence (2Ki. 5:1-18).

JFB: Eph 6:6 - -- Not Christ-pleasers (compare Gal 1:10; 1Th 2:4).

Not Christ-pleasers (compare Gal 1:10; 1Th 2:4).

JFB: Eph 6:6 - -- The unseen but ever present Master: the best guarantee for your serving faithfully your earthly master alike when present and when absent.

The unseen but ever present Master: the best guarantee for your serving faithfully your earthly master alike when present and when absent.

JFB: Eph 6:6 - -- Literally, soul (Psa 111:1; Rom 13:5).

Literally, soul (Psa 111:1; Rom 13:5).

Clarke: Eph 6:1 - -- Children, obey your parents - This is a duty with which God will never dispense; he commands it, and one might think that gratitude, from a sense of...

Children, obey your parents - This is a duty with which God will never dispense; he commands it, and one might think that gratitude, from a sense of the highest obligations, would most strongly enforce the command

Clarke: Eph 6:1 - -- In the Lord - This clause is wanting in several reputable MSS., and in same versions. In the Lord may mean, on account of the commandment of the Lor...

In the Lord - This clause is wanting in several reputable MSS., and in same versions. In the Lord may mean, on account of the commandment of the Lord; or, as far as the parents commands are according to the will and word of God. For surely no child is called to obey any parent if he give unreasonable or unscriptural commands.

Clarke: Eph 6:2 - -- Honor thy father - See the notes on Exo 20:12, etc., where this subject, together with the promises and threatenings connected with it, is particula...

Honor thy father - See the notes on Exo 20:12, etc., where this subject, together with the promises and threatenings connected with it, is particularly considered, and the reasons of the duty laid down at large.

Clarke: Eph 6:4 - -- Fathers, provoke not your children to wrath - Avoid all severity; this will hurt your own souls, and do them no good; on the contrary, if punished w...

Fathers, provoke not your children to wrath - Avoid all severity; this will hurt your own souls, and do them no good; on the contrary, if punished with severity or cruelty, they will be only hardened and made desperate in their sins. Cruel parents generally have bad children. He who corrects his children according to God and reason will feel every blow on his own heart more sensibly than his child feels it on his body. Parents are called to correct; not to punish, their children. Those who punish them do it from a principle of revenge; those who correct them do it from a principle of affectionate concern

Clarke: Eph 6:4 - -- Bring them up, etc - Εκτρεφετε αυτα εν παιδειᾳ και νουθεσια Κυριου· literally, Nourish them in the disci...

Bring them up, etc - Εκτρεφετε αυτα εν παιδειᾳ και νουθεσια Κυριου· literally, Nourish them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. The mind is to be nourished with wholesome discipline and instruction, as the body is with proper food. Παιδεια, discipline, may refer to all that knowledge which is proper for children, including elementary principles and rules for behavior, etc. Νουθεσια, instruction, may imply whatever is necessary to form the mind; to touch, regulate, and purify the passions; and necessarily includes the whole of religion. Both these should be administered in the Lord - according to his will and word, and in reference to his eternal glory. All the important lessons and doctrines being derived from his revelation, therefore they are called the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

Clarke: Eph 6:5 - -- Servants, be obedient - Though δουλος frequently signifies a slave or bondman, yet it often implies a servant in general, or any one bound t...

Servants, be obedient - Though δουλος frequently signifies a slave or bondman, yet it often implies a servant in general, or any one bound to another, either for a limited time, or for life. Even a slave, if a Christian, was bound to serve him faithfully by whose money he was bought, howsoever illegal that traffic may be considered. In heathen countries slavery was in some sort excusable; among Christians it is an enormity and a crime for which perdition has scarcely an adequate state of punishment

Clarke: Eph 6:5 - -- According to the flesh - Your masters in secular things; for they have no authority over your religion, nor over your souls

According to the flesh - Your masters in secular things; for they have no authority over your religion, nor over your souls

Clarke: Eph 6:5 - -- With fear and trembling - Because the law gives them a power to punish you for every act of disobedience

With fear and trembling - Because the law gives them a power to punish you for every act of disobedience

Clarke: Eph 6:5 - -- In singleness of your heart - Not merely through fear of punishment, but from a principle of uprightness, serving them as you would serve Christ.

In singleness of your heart - Not merely through fear of punishment, but from a principle of uprightness, serving them as you would serve Christ.

Clarke: Eph 6:6 - -- Not with eye-service - Not merely in their presence, when their eye is upon you, as unfaithful and hypocritical servants do, without consulting cons...

Not with eye-service - Not merely in their presence, when their eye is upon you, as unfaithful and hypocritical servants do, without consulting conscience in any part of their work

Clarke: Eph 6:6 - -- Doing the will of God - Seeing that you are in the state of servitude, it is the will of God that you should act conscientiously in it.

Doing the will of God - Seeing that you are in the state of servitude, it is the will of God that you should act conscientiously in it.

Calvin: Eph 6:1 - -- 1.Children, obey Why does the apostle use the word obey instead of honor, 167 which has a greater extent of meaning? It is because Obedience is...

1.Children, obey Why does the apostle use the word obey instead of honor, 167 which has a greater extent of meaning? It is because Obedience is the evidence of that honor which children owe to their parents, and is therefore more earnestly enforced. It is likewise more difficult; for the human mind recoils from the idea of subjection, and with difficulty allows itself to be placed under the control of another. Experience shews how rare this virtue is; for do we find one among a thousand that is obedient to his parents? By a figure of speech, a part is here put for the whole, but it is the most important part, and is necessarily accompanied by all the others.

In the Lord Besides the law of nature, which is acknowledged by all nations, the obedience of children is enforced by the authority of God. Hence it follows, that parents are to be obeyed, so far only as is consistent with piety to God, which comes first in order. If the command of God is the rule by which the submission of children is to be regulated, it would be foolish to suppose that the performance of this duty could lead away from God himself.

For this is right This is added in order to restrain the fierceness which, we have already said, appears to be natural to almost all men. He proves it to be right, because God has commanded it; for we are not at liberty to dispute, or call in question, the appointment of him whose will is the unerring rule of goodness and righteousness. That honor should be represented as including obedience is not surprising; for mere ceremony is of no value in the sight of God. The precept, honor thy father and mother, comprehends all the duties by which the sincere affection and respect of children to their parents can be expressed.

Calvin: Eph 6:2 - -- 2.Which is the first commandment with promise The promises annexed to the commandments are intended to excite our hopes, and to impart a greater chee...

2.Which is the first commandment with promise The promises annexed to the commandments are intended to excite our hopes, and to impart a greater cheerfulness to our obedience; and therefore Paul uses this as a kind of seasoning to render the submission, which he enjoins on children, more pleasant and agreeable. He does not merely say, that God has offered a reward to him who obeys his father and mother, but that such an offer is peculiar to this commandment. If each of the commandments had its own promises, there would have been no ground for the commendation bestowed in the present instance. But this is the first commandment, Paul tells us, which God has been pleased, as it were, to seal by a remarkable promise. There is some difficulty here; for the second commandment likewise contains a promise,

“I am the Lord thy God, who shew mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments.”
(Exo 20:5.)

But this is universal, applying indiscriminately to the whole law, and cannot be said to be annexed to that commandment. Paul’s assertion still holds true, that no other commandment but that which enjoins the obedience due by children to their parents is distinguished by a promise.

Calvin: Eph 6:3 - -- 3.That it may be well with thee. The promise is — a long life; from which we are led to understand that the present life is not to be overlooked am...

3.That it may be well with thee. The promise is — a long life; from which we are led to understand that the present life is not to be overlooked among the gifts of God. On this and other kindred subjects I must refer my reader to the Institutes of the Christian Religion; 168 satisfying myself at present with saying, in a few words, that the reward promised to the obedience of children is highly appropriate. Those who shew kindness to their parents from whom they derived life, are assured by God, that in this life it will be well with them.

And that thou mayest live long on the earth Moses expressly mentions the land of Canaan,

“that thy days may be long upon the land which
the Lord thy God giveth thee.” (Exo 20:12.)

Beyond this the Jews could not conceive of any life more happy or desirable. But as the same divine blessing is extended to the whole world, Paul has properly left out the mention of a place, the peculiar distinction of which lasted only till the coming of Christ.

Calvin: Eph 6:4 - -- 4.And, ye fathers Parents, on the other hand, are exhorted not to irritate their children by unreasonable severity. This would excite hatred, and wou...

4.And, ye fathers Parents, on the other hand, are exhorted not to irritate their children by unreasonable severity. This would excite hatred, and would lead them to throw off the yoke altogether. Accordingly, in writing to the Colossians, he adds, “lest they be discouraged.” (Col 3:21.) Kind and liberal treatment has rather a tendency to cherish reverence for their parents, and to increase the cheerfulness and activity of their obedience, while a harsh and unkind manner rouses them to obstinacy, and destroys the natural affections. But Paul goes on to say, “let them be fondly cherished;” for the Greek word, (ἐκτρέφετε,) which is translated bring up, unquestionably conveys the idea of gentleness and forbearance. To guard them, however, against the opposite and frequent evil of excessive indulgence, he again draws the rein which he had slackened, and adds, in the instruction and reproof of the Lord. It is not the will of God that parents, in the exercise of kindness, shall spare and corrupt their children. Let their conduct towards their children be at once mild and considerate, so as to guide them in the fear of the Lord, and correct them also when they go astray. That age is so apt to become wanton, that it requires frequent admonition and restraint.

Calvin: Eph 6:5 - -- 5.Servants, be obedient His exhortation to servants is so much the more earnest, on account of the hardship and bitterness of their condition, which ...

5.Servants, be obedient His exhortation to servants is so much the more earnest, on account of the hardship and bitterness of their condition, which renders it more difficult to be endured. And he does not speak merely of outward obedience, but says more about fear willingly rendered; for it is a very rare occurrence to find one who willingly yields himself to the control of another. The servants (δοῦλοι) whom he immediately addresses were not hired servants, like those of the present day, but slaves, such as were in ancient times, whose slavery was perpetual, unless, through the favor of their masters, they obtained freedom, — whom their masters bought with money, that they might impose upon them the most degrading employments, and might, with the full protection of the law, exercise over them the power of life and death. To such he says, obey your masters, lest they should vainly imagine that carnal freedom had been procured for them by the gospel.

But as some of the worst men were compelled by the dread of punishment, he distinguishes between Christian and ungodly servants, by the feelings which they cherished. With fear and trembling; that is, with the careful respect which springs from an honest purpose. It can hardly be expected, however, that so much deference will be paid to a mere man, unless a higher authority shall enforce the obligation; and therefore he adds, as doing the will of God. (Ver. 6.) Hence it follows, that it is not enough if their obedience satisfy the eyes of men; for God requires truth and sincerity of heart. When they serve their masters faithfully, they obey God. As if he had said, “Do not suppose that by the judgment of men you were thrown into slavery. It is God who has laid upon you this burden, who has placed you in the power of your masters. He who conscientiously endeavors to render what he owes to his master, performs his duty not to man only, but to God.”

Defender: Eph 6:2 - -- Paul here implicitly endorses all ten of God's commandments to Israel, applying them to Christians as well as Jews. The fifth commandment (Exo 20:12; ...

Paul here implicitly endorses all ten of God's commandments to Israel, applying them to Christians as well as Jews. The fifth commandment (Exo 20:12; Deu 5:16) is actually the only commandment accompanied by a specific earthly promise. Obedience and honor to those who give birth and life is regarded as a virtue among all nations and religions; how much more should this be true in the case of children whose parents have led them into spiritual birth and life as well."

Defender: Eph 6:4 - -- "Nurture" (Greek paideia) is the same as "chastening" in Heb 12:5, Heb 12:7 and "instruction" in 2Ti 3:16. It has particular reference to child-traini...

"Nurture" (Greek paideia) is the same as "chastening" in Heb 12:5, Heb 12:7 and "instruction" in 2Ti 3:16. It has particular reference to child-training, carried out with both firmness and gentleness as needed in each particular case. "Admonition" (Greek nouthesia) means literally "putting in mind;" thus "admonition of the Lord" implies teaching the Lord's ways through His Word. Note that both - instruction through actions and instruction through verbal teaching - are primarily the responsibility of the father, although others (especially the mother - Pro 1:8) may be called upon by him to participate in the child-training activities. It is significant that the first reference in the Bible to teaching has to do with Abraham's responsibility to bring up his own son in the nurture and admonition of the Lord (Gen 18:19)."

Defender: Eph 6:5 - -- See also the similar passage in Col 3:22-25. The "servants" here are actually "bond-servants" or "slaves." Although the institution of slavery seems r...

See also the similar passage in Col 3:22-25. The "servants" here are actually "bond-servants" or "slaves." Although the institution of slavery seems repugnant to us today, and certainly inconsistent with Christian ideals, it was a basic part of social order in the ancient world, impossible to eliminate without a revolutionary overturning of the entire society. Consequently, neither Paul nor the other apostles nor even Jesus Himself ever argued against it. Rather they urged true Christian behavior on the part of both master and slave, and eventually these principles would change society itself.

Defender: Eph 6:5 - -- This is an idiomatic expression indicating serious recognition of the importance of a given responsibility, used by Paul of his own attitude in preach...

This is an idiomatic expression indicating serious recognition of the importance of a given responsibility, used by Paul of his own attitude in preaching the gospel (1Co 2:3)."

TSK: Eph 6:1 - -- obey : Gen 28:7, Gen 37:13; Lev 19:3; Deu 21:18; 1Sa 17:20; Est 2:20; Pro 1:8, Pro 6:20; Pro 23:22, Pro 30:11, Pro 30:17; Jer 35:14; Luk 2:51; Col 3:2...

TSK: Eph 6:2 - -- Exo 20:12; Deu 27:16; Pro 20:20; Jer 35:18; Eze 22:7; Mal 1:6; Mat 15:4-6; Mar 7:9-13; Rom 13:7

TSK: Eph 6:3 - -- Deu 4:40, Deu 5:16, Deu 6:3, Deu 6:18, Deu 12:25, Deu 12:28, Deu 22:7; Rth 3:1; Psa 128:1, Psa 128:2; Isa 3:10; Jer 42:6

TSK: Eph 6:4 - -- ye : Gen 31:14, Gen 31:15; 1Sa 20:30-34; Col 3:21 but : Gen 18:19; Exo 12:26, Exo 12:27, Exo 13:14, Exo 13:15; Deu 4:9, Deu 6:7, Deu 6:20-24, Deu 11:1...

TSK: Eph 6:5 - -- be : Gen 16:9; Psa 123:2; Mal 1:6; Mat 6:24, Mat 8:9; Act 10:7, Act 10:8; Col 3:22; 1Ti 6:1-3; Tit 2:9, Tit 2:10; 1Pe 2:18-21 according : Phm 1:16 wit...

TSK: Eph 6:6 - -- eyeservice : Phi 2:12; Col 3:22; 1Th 2:4 doing : Eph 5:17; Mat 7:21, Mat 12:50; Col 1:9, Col 4:12; 1Th 4:3; Heb 10:36, Heb 13:21; 1Pe 2:15, 1Pe 4:2; 1...

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Commentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)

Barnes: Eph 6:1 - -- Children - τέκνα tekna This word usually signifies those who are young; but it is used here, evidently, to denote those who were u...

Children - τέκνα tekna This word usually signifies those who are young; but it is used here, evidently, to denote those who were under the care and government of their parents, or those who were not of age.

Obey your parents - This is the first great duty which God has enjoined on children. It is, to do what their parents command them to do. The God of nature indicates that this is duty; for he has impressed it on the minds of all in every age; and the Author of revelation confirms it. It is particularly important:

(1) Because the good order of a family, and hence of the community, depends on it; no community or family being prosperous where there is not due subordination in the household.

\caps1 (2) b\caps0 ecause the welfare of the child depends on it; it being of the highest importance that a child should be early taught obedience to "law,"as no one can be prosperous or happy who is not thus obedient.

\caps1 (3) b\caps0 ecause the child is not competent as yet; to "reason"on what is right, or qualified to direct himself; and, while that is the case, he must be subject to the will of some other person.

\caps1 (4) b\caps0 ecause the parent, by his age and experience, is to be presumed to be qualified to direct and guide a child. The love which God has implanted in the heart of a parent for a child secures, in general, the administration of this domestic government in such a way as not to injure the child. A father will not, unless under strong passion or the excitement of intoxication, abuse his authority. He loves the child too much. He desires his welfare; and the placing of the child under the authority of the parent is about the same thing in regard to the welfare of the child, as it would be to endow the child at once with all the wisdom and experience of the parent himself.

\caps1 (5) i\caps0 t is important, because the family government is designed to be an imitation of the government of God. The government of God is what a perfect family government would be; and to accustom a child to be obedient to a parent, is designed to be one method of leading him to be obedient to God. No child that is disobedient to a parent will be obedient to God; and that child that is most obedient to a father and mother will be most likely to become a Christian, and an heir of heaven. And it may be observed, in general, that no disobedient child is virtuous, prosperous, or happy. Everyone foresees the ruin of such a child; and most of the cases of crime that lead to the penitentiary, or the gallows, commence by disobedience to parents.

In the Lord - That is, as far as their commandments agree with those of God, and no further. No parent can have a right to require a child to steal, or lie, or cheat, or assist him in committing murder, or in doing any other wrong thing. No parent has a right to forbid a child to pray, to read the Bible, to worship God, or to make a profession of religion. The duties and rights of children in such cases are similar to those of wives (see the notes on Eph 5:22); and in all cases, God is to be obeyed rather than man. When a parent, however, is opposed to a child; when he expresses an unwillingness that a child should attend a particular church, or make a profession of religion, such opposition should in all cases be a sufficient reason for the child to pause and re-examine the subject. he should pray much, and think much, and inquire much, before, in any case, he acts contrary to the will of a father or mother; and, when he does do it, he should state to them, with great gentleness and kindness, that he believes he ought to love and serve God.

For this is right - It is right:

(1)\caps1     b\caps0 ecause it is so appointed by God as a duty;

(2)\caps1     b\caps0 ecause children owe a debt of gratitude to their parents for what they have done for them;

(3)\caps1     b\caps0 ecause it will be for the good of the children themselves, and for the welfare of society.

Barnes: Eph 6:2 - -- Honour thy father and mother - see Exo 20:12; compare notes on Mat 15:4. Which is the first commandment with promise - With a promise ann...

Honour thy father and mother - see Exo 20:12; compare notes on Mat 15:4.

Which is the first commandment with promise - With a promise annexed to it. The promise was, that their days should be long in the land which the Lord their God would give them. It is not to be supposed that the observance of the four first commandments would not be attended with a blessing, but no particular blessing is promised. It is true, indeed, that there is a "general declaration"annexed to the second commandment, that God would show mercy to thousands of generations of them that loved him and that kept his commandments. But that is rather a declaration in regard to all the commands of God than a promise annexed to that specific commandment. It is an assurance that obedience to the law of God would be followed with blessings to a thousand generations, and is given in view of the first and second commandments together, because they related particularly to the honor that was due to God. But the promise in the fifth commandment is a "special promise."It does not relate to obedience to God in general, but it is a particular assurance that they who honor their parents shall have a particular blessing as the result of that obedience.

Barnes: Eph 6:3 - -- That it may be well with thee - This is found in the fifth commandment as recorded in Deu 5:16. The whole commandment as there recorded is, "Ho...

That it may be well with thee - This is found in the fifth commandment as recorded in Deu 5:16. The whole commandment as there recorded is, "Honour thy father and thy mother, as the Lord thy God hath commanded thee; that thy days may be prolonged, and that it may go well with thee in the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee."The meaning here is, that they would be more happy, useful, and virtuous if they obeyed their parents than if they disobeyed them.

And thou mayest live long on the earth - In the commandment as recorded in Exo 20:12, the promise is, "that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee."This referred to the promised land - the land of Canaan. The meaning doubtless, is, that there would be a special providence, securing to those who were obedient to parents length of days. Long life was regarded as a great blessing; and this blessing was promised. The apostle here gives to the promise a more general form, and says that obedience to parents was connected at all times with long life. We may remark here:

\caps1 (1) t\caps0 hat long life is a blessing. It affords a longer space to prepare for eternity; it enables a man to be more useful; and it furnishes a longer opportunity to study the works of God on earth. It is not improper to desire it; and we should make use of all the means in our power to lengthen out our days, and to preserve and protect our lives.

\caps1 (2) i\caps0 t is still true that obedience to parents is conducive to length of life, and that those who are most obedient in early life, other things being equal, have the best prospect of living long. This occurs because:

(a) obedient children are saved from the vices and crimes which shorten life. No parent will command his child to be a drunkard, a gambler, a spendthrift, a pirate, or a murderer. But these vices and crimes, resulting in most cases from disobedience to parents, all shorten life; and they who early commit them are certain of on early grave. No child who disobeys a parent can have any "security"that he will not fall a victim to such vices and crimes.

(b) Obedience to parents is connected with virtuous habits that are conducive to long life. It will make a child industrious, temperate, sober; it will lead him to restrain and govern his wild passions; it will lead him to form habits of self-government which will in future life save him from the snares of vice and temptation.

© Many a life is lost early by disobeying a parent. A child disobeys a father and goes into a dramshop; or he goes to sea; or he becomes the companion of the wicked - and he may be wrecked at sea, or his character on land may be wrecked forever. Of disobedient children there is perhaps not one in a hundred that ever reaches an honored old age.

(d) We may still believe that God, in his providence, will watch over those who are obedient to a father and mother. If he regards a falling sparrow Mat 10:29, he will not be unmindful of an obedient child; if he numbers the hairs of the head Mat 10:30, he will not be regardless of the little boy that honors him by obeying a father and mother.

Barnes: Eph 6:4 - -- And ye fathers - A command addressed particularly to "fathers,"because they are at the head of the family, and its government is especially com...

And ye fathers - A command addressed particularly to "fathers,"because they are at the head of the family, and its government is especially committed to them. The object of the apostle here is, to show parents that their commands should be such that they can be easily obeyed, or such as are entirely reasonable and proper. If children are required to "obey,"it is but reasonable that the commands of the parent should be such that they can be obeyed, or such that the child shall not be discouraged in his attempt to obey. This statement is in accordance with what he had said Eph 5:22-25 of the relation of husband and wife. It was the duty of the wife to obey - but it was the corresponding duty of the husband to manifest such a character that it would be pleasant to yield obedience - so to love her, that his known wish would be law to her. In like manner it is the duty of children to obey a parent; but it is the duty of a parent to exhibit such a character, and to maintain such a government, that it would be proper for the child to obey; to command nothing that is unreasonable or improper, but to train up his children in the ways of virtue and pure religion.

Provoke not your children to wrath - That is, by unreasonable commands; by needless severity; by the manifestation of anger. So govern them, and so punish them - if punishment is necessary - that they shall not lose their confidence in you, but shall love you. The apostle here has hit on the very danger to which parents are most exposed in the government of their children. It is that of souring their temper; of making them feel that the parent is under the influence of anger, and that it is right for them to be so too. This is done:

\caps1 (1) w\caps0 hen the commands of a parent are unreasonable and severe. The spirit of a child then becomes irritated, and he is "discouraged;"Col 3:21.

\caps1 (2) w\caps0 hen a parent is evidently "excited"when he punishes a child. The child then feels:

\tx720 \tx1080 (a)\caps1     t\caps0 hat if his "father"is angry, it is not wrong for him to be angry; and,

(b)\caps1     t\caps0 he very fact of anger in a parent kindles anger in his bosom - just as it does when two men are contending.

If he submits in the case, it is only because the parent is the "strongest,"not because he is "right,"and the child cherishes "anger,"while he yields to power. There is no principle of parental government more important than that a father should command his own temper when he inflicts punishment. He should punish a child not because he is "angry,"but because it is "right;"not because it has become a matter of "personal contest,"but because God requires that he should do it, and the welfare of the child demands it. The moment when a child seem that a parent punishes him under the influence of anger, that moment the child will be likely to be angry too - and his anger will be as proper as that of the parent. And yet, how often is punishment inflicted in this manner! And how often does the child feel that the parent punished him simply because he was the "strongest,"not because it was "right;"and how often is the mind of a child left with a strong conviction that wrong has been done him by the punishment which he has received, rather than with repentance for the wrong that he has himself done.

But bring them up - Place them under such discipline and instruction that they shall become acquainted with the Lord.

In the nurture - ἐν παιδεία en paideia . The word used here means "training of a child;"hence education, instruction, discipline. Here it means that they are to train up their children in such a manner as the Lord approves; that is, they are to educate them for virtue and religion.

And admonition - The word used here - νουθεσία nouthesia means literally, "a putting in mind,"then warning, admonition, instruction. The sense here is, that they were to put them in mind of the Lord - of his existence, perfections, law, and claims on their hearts and lives. This command is positive, and is in accordance with all the requirements of the Bible on the subject. No one can doubt that the Bible enjoins on parents the duty of endeavoring to train up their children in the ways of religion, and of making it the grand purpose of this life to prepare them for heaven. It has been often objected that children should be left on religious subjects to form their own opinions when they are able to judge for themselves. Infidels and irreligious people always oppose or neglect the duty here enjoined; and the plea commonly is, that to teach religion to children is to make them prejudiced; to destroy their independence of mind; and to prevent their judging as impartially on so important a subject as they ought to. In reply to this, and in defense of the requirements of the Bible on the subject, we may remark:

(1) That to suffer a child to grow up without any instruction in religion, is about the same as to suffer a garden to lie without any culture. Such a garden would soon be overrun with weeds, and briars, and thorns - but not sooner, or more certainly, than the mind of a child would.

\caps1 (2) p\caps0 eople do instruct their children in a great many things, and why should they not in religion? They teach them how to behave in company; the art of farming; the way to make or use tools; how to make money; how to avoid the arts of the cunning seducer. But why should it not be said that all this tends to destroy their independence, and to make them prejudiced? Why not leave their minds open and free, and suffer them to form their own judgments about farming and the mechanic arts when their minds are matured?

\caps1 (3) p\caps0 eople do inculcate their own sentiments in religion. An infidel is not usually "very"anxious to conceal his views from his children. People teach by example; by incidental remarks; by the "neglect"of that which they regard as of no value. A man who does not pray, is teaching his children not to pray; he who neglects the public worship of God, is teaching his children to neglect it; he who does not read the Bible, is teaching his children not to read it. Such is the constitution of things, that it is impossible for a parent not to inculcate his own religious views on his children. Since this is so, all that the Bible requires is, that his instructions should be right.

\caps1 (4) t\caps0 o inculcate the truths of religion is not to make the mind narrow, prejudiced, and indisposed to perceive the truth. Religion makes the mind candid, conscientious, open to conviction, ready to follow the truth. Superstition, bigotry, infidelity, and "all"error and falsehood, make the mind narrow and prejudiced.

\caps1 (5) i\caps0 f a man does not teach his children truth, others will teach them "error."The young sceptic that the child meets in the street; the artful infidel; the hater of God; the unprincipled stranger; "will"teach the child. But is it not better for a parent to teach his child the "truth"than for a stranger to teach him error?

(6) Religion is the most important of all subjects, and "therefore"it is of most importance that children on that subject should he taught truth. Of whom can God so properly require this as of a parent? If it be asked "in what way"a parent is to bring up his children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord, I answer:

1.    By directly inculcating the doctrines and duties of religion - just as he does anything else that he regards as of value.

2.    By placing them in the Sunday school, where he may have a guarantee that they will be taught the truth.

3.    By "conducting"them - not merely "sending"them - to the sanctuary, that they may be taught in the house of God.

4.    By example - all teaching being valueless without that.

5.    By prayer for the divine aid in his efforts, and for the salvation of their souls. These duties are plain, simple, easy to be performed, and are such as a man "knows"he ought to perform. If neglected, and the soul of the child be lost, a parent has a most fearful account to render to God.

Barnes: Eph 6:5 - -- Servants - οἵ δοῦλοι hoi douloi . The word used here denotes one who is bound to render service to another, whether that ser...

Servants - οἵ δοῦλοι hoi douloi . The word used here denotes one who is bound to render service to another, whether that service be free or voluntary, and may denote, therefore, either a slave, or one who binds himself to render service to another. It is often used in these senses in the New Testament, just as it is elsewhere. It cannot be demonstrated that the word here necessarily means "slaves;"though, if slavery existed among those to whom this Epistle was written - as there can be little doubt that it did - it is a word which would apply to those in this condition; compare notes on 1Co 7:21; Gal 3:28, note. On the general subject of slavery, and the Scripture doctrine in regard to it; see notes on Isa 58:6. Whether the persons here referred to were slaves, or were those who had bound themselves to render a voluntary servitude, the directions here given were equally appropriate. It was not the design of the Christian religion to produce a rude sundering of the ties which bind man to man, but to teach all to perform their duties aright in the relations in which Christianity found them, and gradually to modify the customs of society, and to produce ultimately the universal prevalence of that which is right.

Be obedient to them - This is the uniform direction in the New Testament; see 1Pe 2:18; 1Ti 6:1-3; notes 1Co 7:21. The idea is that they were to show in that relation the excellence of the religion which they professed. If they could be made free, they were to prefer that condition to a state of bondage 1Co 7:21, but while the relation remained, they were to be kind, gentle, and obedient, as became Christians. In the parallel place in Colossians Col 3:22, it is said that they were to obey their masters "in all things."But evidently this is to be understood with the limitations implied in the case of wives and children (see the notes on Eph 5:24; Eph 6:1, note), and a master would have no right to command that which was morally wrong.

According to the flesh - This is designed, evidently, to limit the obligation to obedience. The meaning is, that they had control over "the body, the flesh."They had the power to command the service which the body could render; but they were not lords of the spirit. The soul acknowledged God as its Lord, and to the Lord they were to be subject in a higher sense than to their masters.

With fear and trembling - With reverence and with a dread of offending them. They have authority and power over you, and you should be afraid to incur their displeasure. Whatever might be true about the propriety of slavery, and whatever might be the duty of the master about setting the slave free, it would be more to the honor of religion for the servant to perform his task with a willing mind than to be contumacious and rebellions. He could do more for the honor of religion by patiently submitting to even what he felt to be wrong, than by being punished for what would be regarded as rebellion. It may be added here, that it was presumed that servants then could read. These directions were addressed to them, not to their masters. Of what use would be directions like these addressed to American slaves - scarce any of whom can read?

In singleness of your heart - With a simple, sincere desire to do what ought to be done.

As unto Christ - Feeling that by rendering proper service to your masters, you are in fact serving the Lord, and that you are doing that which will be well-pleasing to him; see the notes on 1Co 7:22. Fidelity, in whatever situation we may be in life, is acceptable service to the Lord. A Christian may as acceptably serve the Lord Jesus in the condition of a servant, as if he were a minister of the gospel, or a king on a throne. Besides, it will greatly lighten the burdens of such a situation, and make the toils of an humble condition easy, to remember that we are then "serving the Lord."

Barnes: Eph 6:6 - -- Nor with eye-service - That is, not with service rendered only under the eye of the master, or when his eye is fixed on you. The apostle has he...

Nor with eye-service - That is, not with service rendered only under the eye of the master, or when his eye is fixed on you. The apostle has here adverted to one of the evils of involuntary servitude as it exists everywhere. It is, that the slave will usually obey only when the eye of the master is upon him. The freeman who agrees to labor for stipulated wages may be trusted when the master is out of sight; but not the slave. Hence the necessity where there are slaves of having "drivers"who shall attend them, and who shall compel them to work. This evil it is impossible to avoid, except where true religion prevails - and the extensive prevalence of true religion would set the slave at liberty. Yet as long as the relation exists, the apostle would enjoin on the servant the duty of performing his work conscientiously, as rendering service to the Lord. This direction, moreover, is one of great importance to all who are employed in the service of others. They are bound to perform their duty with as much fidelity as though the eye of the employer was always upon them, remembering that though the eye of man may be turned away, that of God never is.

As men-pleasers - As if it were the main object to please people. The object should be rather to please and honor God.

But as the servants of Christ - see the notes on 1Co 7:22.

Doing the will of God from the heart - That is, God requires industry, fidelity, conscientiousness, submission, and obedience in that rank of life. We render acceptable service to God when, from regard to his will, we perform the services which are demanded of us in the situation in life where we may be placed, however humble that may be.

Poole: Eph 6:1 - -- Eph 6:1-3 The relative duties of children, Eph 6:4 and parents, Eph 6:5-8 of servants, Eph 6:9 and masters. Eph 6:10-17 Paul exhortet...

Eph 6:1-3 The relative duties of children,

Eph 6:4 and parents,

Eph 6:5-8 of servants,

Eph 6:9 and masters.

Eph 6:10-17 Paul exhorteth the brethren to resist spiritual

enemies by putting on the whole armour of God,

Eph 6:18-20 and by perseverance in prayer, which he requireth for

all saints, and particularly for himself, that he

might preach the gospel with due boldness.

Eph 6:21,22 He commendeth Tychicus,

Eph 6:23,24 and concludeth with good wishes to all sincere Christians.

Obey your parents with inward reverence and promptness, as well as in the outward act.

In the Lord either, because the Lord commands it; or, in all things agreeable to his will: see Eph 5:21 Act 5:29 .

For this is right or just, every way so, by the law of nature, of nations, and of God.

Poole: Eph 6:2 - -- i.e. A special promise annexed to the particular duty commanded. There being promises added to only two commandments, viz. the second and this fifth...

i.e. A special promise annexed to the particular duty commanded. There being promises added to only two commandments, viz. the second and this fifth; that which is annexed to the second commandment is a general one, and which relates to the whole law, but this a special one, and which respects this commandment in particular.

Poole: Eph 6:3 - -- That thou mayest live long and happily. This promise is still fulfilled to believers, either in the thing itself here promised, or in a better way, G...

That thou mayest live long and happily. This promise is still fulfilled to believers, either in the thing itself here promised, or in a better way, God’ s giving them eternal life.

Poole: Eph 6:4 - -- Provoke not your children to wrath viz. by unreasonable severity, moroseness, unrighteous commands, &c. But bring them up in the nurture or correct...

Provoke not your children to wrath viz. by unreasonable severity, moroseness, unrighteous commands, &c.

But bring them up in the nurture or correction, as the word signifies, Heb 12:6-8 .

And admonition this denotes the end of the former; instruction in their duty must be, as well as correction to drive them to it.

Of the Lord the Lord Jesus Christ; and so it is either that admonition which is commanded by him, or whereby they are brought to be acquainted with him.

Poole: Eph 6:5 - -- Servants these servants were generally slaves: Christian liberty doth not take away civil servitude. Be obedient to them that are your masters whet...

Servants these servants were generally slaves: Christian liberty doth not take away civil servitude.

Be obedient to them that are your masters whether good or bad, as 1Pe 2:18 , is expressly said.

According to the flesh as to your outward state, not as to your souls and consciences.

With fear and trembling either with reverence and fear of offending them, and being punished by them, see Rom 13:4 ; or rather, with humility, as appears by Psa 2:11 1Co 2:3 2Co 7:15 Phi 2:12 : compare Rom 11:20 .

In singleness of your heart sincerity, and without guile.

As unto Christ who hath commanded this obedience, and whom ye obey in yielding it to your masters.

Poole: Eph 6:6 - -- Not with eyeservice not merely having respect to your masters’ presence, and looking upon you in your work. As men-pleasers such as make it t...

Not with eyeservice not merely having respect to your masters’ presence, and looking upon you in your work.

As men-pleasers such as make it their only business to please their masters, right or wrong, and ingratiate themselves with them, though by offending God.

But as the servants of Christ as becomes the servants of Christ, or as those that are the servants of Christ, and seek to please him.

Doing the will of God performing obedience to your masters not barely as their will, but God’ s will, who requires it, as Eph 6:5 .

Haydock: Eph 6:2 - -- With a promise. This commandment being delivered with a special promise of a long life, which promise is to be understood conditionally, especially ...

With a promise. This commandment being delivered with a special promise of a long life, which promise is to be understood conditionally, especially in regard to Christians, i.e. unless it be a greater favour to be taken out of the world young. (Witham)

Haydock: Eph 6:5 - -- Your carnal; temporal masters, whether Christians or heathens. (Witham)

Your carnal; temporal masters, whether Christians or heathens. (Witham)

Haydock: Eph 6:6 - -- Not serving to the eye; to please men only, but to do the will of God. (Witham)

Not serving to the eye; to please men only, but to do the will of God. (Witham)

Gill: Eph 6:1 - -- Children, obey your parents in the Lord,.... The persons whose duty this is, "children", are such of every sex, male and female, and of every age, and...

Children, obey your parents in the Lord,.... The persons whose duty this is, "children", are such of every sex, male and female, and of every age, and of every state and condition; and though the true, legitimate, and immediate offspring of men may be chiefly respected, yet not exclusive of spurious children, and adopted ones, and of children-in-law; and the persons to whom obedience from them is due, are not only real and immediate parents, both father and mother, but such who are in the room of parents, as step-fathers, step-mothers, guardians, nurses, &c. and all who are in the ascending line, as grandfathers, grandmothers, &c. to these, children should be subject and obedient in all things lawful, just, and good; in everything that is not sinful and unlawful, by the word of God; and in things indifferent, as much as in them lies, and even in things which are difficult to perform: and this obedience should be hearty and sincere, and not merely verbal, and in show and appearance, nor mercenary; and should be joined with gratitude and thankfulness for past favours: and it should be "in the Lord"; which may be considered either as a limitation of the obedience, that it should be in things that are agreeable to the mind and will of the Lord; or as an argument to it, because it is the command of the Lord, and is wellpleasing in his sight, and makes for his glory, and therefore should be done for his sake:

for this is right; it appears to be right by the light of nature, by which the very Heathens have taught it; and it is equitable from reason that so it should be; and it is just by the law of God, which commands nothing but what is holy, just, and good.

Gill: Eph 6:2 - -- Honour thy father and mother,.... This explains who parents are, and points at some branches of obedience due unto them; for they are not only to be l...

Honour thy father and mother,.... This explains who parents are, and points at some branches of obedience due unto them; for they are not only to be loved, and to be feared, and reverenced, their corrections to be submitted to, offences against them to be acknowledged, their tempers to be bore with, and their infirmities covered; but they are to be honoured in thought, word, and gesture; they are to be highly thought of and esteemed; they are to be spoken to, and of, very honourably, and with great veneration and to be behaved to in a very respectful manner; and they are to be relieved, assisted, and maintained in comfortable way when aged, and in necessitous circumstances; and which may be chiefly designed. So the Jews explain כבוד, "the honour" due to parents, by, &c. מאכיל, "giving them food, drink", and "clothing", unloosing their shoes, and leading them out and in x. Compare with this 1Ti 5:4; See Gill on Mat 15:4;

which is the first commandment with promise: it is the fifth commandment in the decalogue, but the first that has a promise annexed to it: it is reckoned by the Jews y the weightiest of the weightiest commands of the law; and the reward bestowed on it, is length of days, as follows.

Gill: Eph 6:3 - -- That it may be well with thee,.... In this world, and that which is to come; see Deu 5:16. The Jews z say, "there are four things, which if a man d...

That it may be well with thee,.... In this world, and that which is to come; see Deu 5:16. The Jews z say,

"there are four things, which if a man does, he eats the fruit of them in this world, and the capital part remains for him in the world to come; and they are these, אב ואם כיבוד; "honouring father and mother", doing acts of beneficence, making peace between a man and his neighbour, and learning of the law, which answers to them all.''

And thou mayest live long on the earth: length of days is in itself a blessing; and though men's days cannot be lengthened beyond God's purpose and decree; and though obedient children do not always live long; yet disobedience to parents often brings the judgments of God on children, so that they die not a common death, 2Sa 18:14. On those words in Deu 32:47, the Jews a have this paraphrase;

"because it is your life, זה כיבוד אב ואם, "this is honouring father and mother; and through this thing ye shall prolong your days", this is beneficence.''

It may be observed, that the words in this promissory part are not the same as in the decalogue, where they stand thus, "that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee", Exo 20:12, referring to the land of Canaan; for the law in the form of it, in which it was delivered by Moses, only concerned the people of the Jews; wherefore to suit this law, and the promise of it, to others, the apostle alters the language of it.

Gill: Eph 6:4 - -- And ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath,.... Neither by words; by unjust and, unreasonable commands; by contumelious and reproachful langua...

And ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath,.... Neither by words; by unjust and, unreasonable commands; by contumelious and reproachful language; by frequent and public chidings, and by indiscreet and passionate expressions: nor by deeds; preferring one to another; by denying them the necessaries of life; by not allowing them proper recreation; by severe and cruel blows, and inhuman usage; by not giving them suitable education; by an improper disposal of them in marriage; and by profusely spending their estates, and leaving nothing to them: not but that parents may, and ought to correct and rebuke their children; nor are they accountable to them for their conduct; yet they should take care not to provoke them to wrath, because this alienates their minds from them, and renders their instructions and corrections useless, and puts them upon sinful practices; wrath lets in Satan, and leads to sin against God; and indeed it is difficult in the best of men to be angry and not sin; see Col 3:21. Fathers are particularly mentioned, they being the heads of families, and are apt to be too severe, as mothers too indulgent.

But bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord; instructing them in the knowledge of divine things, setting them good examples, taking care to prevent their falling into bad company, praying with them, and for them, bringing them into the house of God, under the means of grace, to attend public worship; all which, under a divine blessing, may be very useful to them; the example of Abraham is worthy of imitation, Gen 18:19, and the advice of the wise man deserves attention, Pro 22:6.

Gill: Eph 6:5 - -- Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters,.... The apostle enlarges on the duty of servants, as well as frequently inculcates it in his epi...

Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters,.... The apostle enlarges on the duty of servants, as well as frequently inculcates it in his epistles; because, generally speaking, they were more rude and ignorant, and less pains were taken with them to instruct them; they were apt to be impatient and weary of the yoke; and scandal was like to arise from servants in the first ages of Christianity through some libertines, and the licentiousness of the false teachers, who insinuated, that servitude was inconsistent with Christian freedom: the persons exhorted are "servants", bond servants, and hired servants; who are to be subject to, and obey their "masters", of each sex, whether male or female, of every condition, whether poor or rich, believers or unbelievers, good or bad humoured, gentle or froward: such as are their masters

according to the flesh; or "carnal masters", as the Vulgate Latin version renders it; even though they are unregenerate men, and are in a state of nature, and only mind the things of the flesh, yet they are to be obeyed in their lawful commands; or "in things pertaining to the flesh", as the Arabic version renders it; in things temporal, which concern the body, and this temporal life; not in things spiritual and religious, or that belong to conscience, and which are contrary to them: or "according to your flesh", as the Ethiopic version renders it; signifying that they are only masters over their bodies, not their consciences; and that their power only extends to corporeal things, and can last no longer than while they are in the flesh; see Job 3:19; and obedience is to be yielded to them

with fear and trembling; with great humility and respect, with reverence of them, and giving honour to them, with carefulness not to offend them, with submission to their reproofs and corrections, and with fear of punishment; but more especially with the fear of God, being by that influenced and constrained to obedience;

in singleness of heart; with readiness and cheerfulness, without hypocrisy and dissimulation, and with all integrity and faithfulness:

as unto Christ; it being agreeable to his will, and what makes for his glory, and serves to adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour in all things.

Gill: Eph 6:6 - -- Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers,.... Doing nothing but when under the master's eye, and then pretending a great deal of diligence and industry, in...

Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers,.... Doing nothing but when under the master's eye, and then pretending a great deal of diligence and industry, in order to ingratiate themselves into his affections, and neglecting his business when he is absent; whereas they ought to attend his service in his absence, as well as in his presence, and so seek to please him, which is commendable.

But as the servants of Christ; acting in like manner as the servants of Christ, who are not menpleasers; or as if they themselves were serving Christ, as indeed they are, when they are doing that which is the will of Christ:

doing the will of God from the heart; meaning not the will of God in a religious, but in a civil sense, yielding a cheerful and hearty obedience to their own masters.

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Commentary -- Verse Notes / Footnotes

NET Notes: Eph 6:1 B D* F G as well as a few versional and patristic representatives lack “in the Lord” (ἐν κυρίῳ, en ku...

NET Notes: Eph 6:2 A quotation from Exod 20:12 and Deut 5:16.

NET Notes: Eph 6:3 A quotation from Deut 5:16.

NET Notes: Eph 6:4 Or “do not make your children angry.” BDAG 780 s.v. παροργίζω states “make angry.”...

NET Notes: Eph 6:5 Grk “the masters according to the flesh.” In the translation above, the article τοῖς (tois) governing κυ ...

NET Notes: Eph 6:6 Grk “from the soul.”

Geneva Bible: Eph 6:1 Children, ( 1 ) obey your parents ( 2 ) in the ( a ) Lord: ( 3 ) for this is right. ( 1 ) He comes to another part of a family, and shows that the du...

Geneva Bible: Eph 6:2 ( 4 ) Honour thy father and mother; ( 5 ) (which is the first commandment with ( b ) promise;) ( 4 ) A proof of the first argument. ( 5 ) The third a...

Geneva Bible: Eph 6:4 ( 6 ) And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and ( c ) admonition of the Lord. ( 6 ) It is the duty of...

Geneva Bible: Eph 6:5 ( 7 ) Servants, be obedient to them that are [your] masters ( 8 ) according to the flesh, with ( d ) fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, ...

Geneva Bible: Eph 6:6 Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but as the servants of Christ, ( 9 ) doing the will of God from the heart; ( 9 ) To cut off occasion of all pret...

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Commentary -- Verse Range Notes

TSK Synopsis: Eph 6:1-24 - --1 The duty of children towards their parents;5 of servants towards their masters.10 Our life is a warfare, not only against flesh and blood, but also ...

Combined Bible: Eph 6:1 - --The first command--"obey". Obedience is a clear demonstration of submission to authority. It is especially true when you as a child disagree with th...

Combined Bible: Eph 6:2 - --The second command--"Honor". "Honor" means to place in a position of high esteem, to cause respect to be shown. God rewards t\is action on the part ...

Combined Bible: Eph 6:4 - --pay special note that there are no instructions here for mothers. This is because the father is the head of the family and is in the position of auth...

Combined Bible: Eph 6:5 - --"Slaves" were so for any number of reasons. They might have been drawn into slavery by debt, or by an act of war, or by purchase. This is not an end...

MHCC: Eph 6:1-4 - --The great duty of children is, to obey their parents. That obedience includes inward reverence, as well as outward acts, and in every age prosperity h...

MHCC: Eph 6:5-9 - --The duty of servants is summed up in one word, obedience. The servants of old were generally slaves. The apostles were to teach servants and masters t...

Matthew Henry: Eph 6:1-9 - -- Here we have further directions concerning relative duties, in which the apostle is very particular. I. The duty of children to their parents. Come...

Barclay: Eph 6:1-4 - --If the Christian faith did much for women, it did even more for children. In Roman civilization contemporary with Paul there existed certain feature...

Barclay: Eph 6:1-4 - --Paul lays on children that they should obey the commandment and honour their parents. He says this is the first commandment. He probably means that ...

Barclay: Eph 6:5-9 - --When Paul wrote to slaves in the Christian Church he must have been writing to a very large number. It has been computed that in the Roman Empire ther...

Barclay: Eph 6:5-9 - --Paul's advice to slaves provides us with the gospel of the Christian workman. (i) He does not tell them to rebel; he tells them to be Christian where...

Constable: Eph 4:1--6:21 - --III. THE CHRISTIAN'S CONDUCT 4:1--6:20 Practical application (chs. 4-6) now follows doctrinal instruction (chs. ...

Constable: Eph 4:1--6:10 - --A. Spiritual walk 4:1-6:9 Paul had explained the unity of Jewish and Gentile believers in the church and...

Constable: Eph 5:15--6:10 - --5. Walking in wisdom 5:15-6:9 Paul introduced a new thought with the repetition of "Therefore" a...

Constable: Eph 6:1-3 - --The duty of children 6:1-3 The next basic human relationship that needs affecting by the filling of the Spirit (5:15-21) is that of children and paren...

Constable: Eph 6:4 - --The duty of fathers 6:4 Paul addressed fathers because they are God's ordained family he...

Constable: Eph 6:5-8 - --The duty of slaves 6:5-8 The third group that Paul addressed was slaves and masters (cf. 1 Cor. 7:17-24). Most slaves served in the home in Paul's day...

College: Eph 6:1-24 - --EPHESIANS 6 2. Children and Parents (6:1-4) 1 Children obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2"Honor your father and mother" - which is ...

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Commentary -- Other

Critics Ask: Eph 6:5 EPHESIANS 6:5 —Doesn’t this command perpetuate the institution of slavery? (See comments on Phile. 16 .)

Evidence: Eph 6:1 Teaching children God’s Law . Paul uses the Commandment to bring the knowledge of sin. The biblical way to bring a child to the Savior is to teach h...

Evidence: Eph 6:4 " I am much afraid that schools will prove to be the great gates of hell unless they diligently labor in explaining the Holy Scriptures, engraving the...

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Introduction / Outline

Robertson: Ephesians (Book Introduction) The Epistle to the Ephesians From Rome a.d. 63 By Way of Introduction There are some problems of a special nature that confront us about the so-...

JFB: Ephesians (Book Introduction) THE headings (Eph 1:1, and Eph 3:1, show that this Epistle claims to be that of Paul. This claim is confirmed by the testimonies of IRENÆUS, [Against...

JFB: Ephesians (Outline) INSCRIPTION: ORIGIN OF THE CHURCH IN THE FATHER'S ETERNAL COUNSEL, AND THE SON'S BLOODSHEDDING: THE SEALING OF IT BY THE SPIRIT. THANKSGIVING AND PRA...

TSK: Ephesians 6 (Chapter Introduction) Overview Eph 6:1, The duty of children towards their parents; Eph 6:5, of servants towards their masters; Eph 6:10, Our life is a warfare, not onl...

Poole: Ephesians 6 (Chapter Introduction) CHAPTER 6

MHCC: Ephesians (Book Introduction) This epistle was written when St. Paul was a prisoner at Rome. The design appears to be to strengthen the Ephesians in the faith of Christ, and to giv...

MHCC: Ephesians 6 (Chapter Introduction) (Eph 6:1-4) The duties of children and parents. (Eph 6:5-9) Of servants and masters. (Eph 6:10-18) All Christians are to put on spiritual armour aga...

Matthew Henry: Ephesians (Book Introduction) An Exposition, with Practical Observations, of The Epistle of St. Paul to the Ephesians Some think that this epistle to the Ephesians was a circular l...

Matthew Henry: Ephesians 6 (Chapter Introduction) In this chapter, I. The apostle proceeds in the exhortation to relative duties which he began in the former, particularly he insists on the duties...

Barclay: Ephesians (Book Introduction) A GENERAL INTRODUCTION TO THE LETTERS OF PAUL The Letters Of Paul There is no more interesting body of documents in the New Testament than the letter...

Barclay: Ephesians 6 (Chapter Introduction) Children And Parents (Eph_6:1-4) Children And Parents Eph_6:1-4 (Continued) Masters And Slaves (Eph_6:5-9) Masters And Slaves Eph_6:5-9 (Continue...

Constable: Ephesians (Book Introduction) Introduction Historical background Almost all Christians believed in the Pauline autho...

Constable: Ephesians (Outline) Outline I. Salutation 1:1-2 II. The Christian's calling 1:3-3:21 A. Indi...

Constable: Ephesians Ephesians Bibliography Abbot, T. K. A Critical and Exegetical Commentary on the Epistles to the Ephesians and t...

Haydock: Ephesians (Book Introduction) THE EPISTLE OF ST. PAUL, THE APOSTLE, TO THE EPHESIANS. INTRODUCTION. Ephesus was a famous city, the metropolis of Asia Minor, upon the Ægean...

Gill: Ephesians (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO EPHESIANS The city of Ephesus is, by Pliny a, called the other light of Asia; Miletus was one, and Ephesus the other: it was the me...

Gill: Ephesians 6 (Chapter Introduction) INTRODUCTION TO EPHESIANS 6 In this chapter the apostle goes on with his exhortations to relative and domestic duties, and considers those of child...

College: Ephesians (Book Introduction) INTRODUCTION We are saved by grace through faith! We do not earn our salvation - it is the gift of God. This is the shocking good news of Ephesians. ...

College: Ephesians (Outline) OUTLINE I. DOCTRINE: God's Plan for Salvation - Eph 1:1-3:21 A. God's Blessings - 1:1-23 1. Salutation - 1:1-2 2. Present Blessings in Ch...

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