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Text -- 1 Corinthians 7:36-40 (NET)
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Robertson: 1Co 7:36 - -- That he behaveth himself unseemly ( aschēmonein ).
Old verb, here only in N.T., from aschēmōn (1Co 12:23), from a privative and schēma . ...
That he behaveth himself unseemly (
Old verb, here only in N.T., from
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Robertson: 1Co 7:36 - -- If she be past the flower of her age ( ean ēi huperakmos ).
Old word, only here in N.T., from huper (over) and akmē (prime or bloom of life),...
If she be past the flower of her age (
Old word, only here in N.T., from
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Robertson: 1Co 7:36 - -- If need so requireth ( kai houtōs opheilei ginesthai ).
"And it ought to happen."Paul has discussed the problem of marriage for virgins on the grou...
If need so requireth (
"And it ought to happen."Paul has discussed the problem of marriage for virgins on the grounds of expediency. Now he faces the question where the daughter wishes to marry and there is no serious objection to it. The father is advised to consent. Roman and Greek fathers had the control of the marriage of their daughters. "My marriage is my father’ s care; it is not for me to decide about that"(Hermione in Euripides’ Andromache , 987).
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Robertson: 1Co 7:36 - -- Let them marry ( gameitōsan ).
Present active plural imperative (long form).
Let them marry (
Present active plural imperative (long form).
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Robertson: 1Co 7:37 - -- To keep his own virgin daughter ( tērein tēn heautou parthenon ).
This means the case when the virgin daughter does not wish to marry and the fat...
To keep his own virgin daughter (
This means the case when the virgin daughter does not wish to marry and the father agrees with her, he shall do well (
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Robertson: 1Co 7:38 - -- Doeth well ( kalōs poiei ).
So Paul commends the father who gives his daughter in marriage (gamizei ). This verb gamizō has not been found out...
Doeth well (
So Paul commends the father who gives his daughter in marriage (
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Robertson: 1Co 7:38 - -- Shall do better ( kreisson poiēsei ).
In view of the present distress (1Co 7:26) and the shortened time (1Co 7:29). And yet, when all is said, Paul...
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Robertson: 1Co 7:39 - -- For so long time as her husband liveth ( Ephesians' hoson chronon zēi ho anēr autēs ).
While he lives (tōi zōnti andri ) Paul says in Rom ...
For so long time as her husband liveth (
While he lives (
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Robertson: 1Co 7:39 - -- To be married ( gamēthēnai )
is first aorist passive infinitive followed by the dative relative hōi with unexpressed antecedent toutōi .
To be married (
is first aorist passive infinitive followed by the dative relative
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Robertson: 1Co 7:40 - -- Happier ( makariōterā ).
Comparative of makarios used in the Beatitudes (Mat 5:3.).
Happier (
Comparative of
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Robertson: 1Co 7:40 - -- After my judgment ( kata tēn emēn gnōmēn ).
The same word used in 1Co 7:25, not a command.
After my judgment (
The same word used in 1Co 7:25, not a command.
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Robertson: 1Co 7:40 - -- I think ( dokō ).
From dokeō , not nomizō of 1Co 7:26. But he insists that he has "the spirit of God"(pneuma theou ) in the expression of hi...
I think (
From
Vincent: 1Co 7:36 - -- Behaveth himself uncomely ( ἀσχημονεῖν )
Acts unbecomingly, either by throwing temptation in the daughter's way by constraining her...
Behaveth himself uncomely (
Acts unbecomingly, either by throwing temptation in the daughter's way by constraining her to remain unmarried, or by exposing her to the disgrace which was supposed to attach to the unmarried state. But Paul, in his preceding words, has regarded the latter consideration as set aside by the peculiar circumstances of the time.
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Vincent: 1Co 7:36 - -- His virgin ( τὴν παρθένον αὐτοῦ )
Rev. properly inserts daughter . It is an unusual expression for daughter . Xenophon ...
His virgin (
Rev. properly inserts daughter . It is an unusual expression for daughter . Xenophon uses it with the word
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Vincent: 1Co 7:36 - -- Pass the flower of her age ( ᾐ ὑπέρακμος )
Rev., correctly, be past . Beyond the bloom of life. Plato fixes the point at twe...
Pass the flower of her age (
Rev., correctly, be past . Beyond the bloom of life. Plato fixes the point at twenty years (" Republic," 460). Diogenes Laertius says: " An undowered maiden is a heavy burden to a father after she has outrun the flower of her age" (" Lycon," v., 65)
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Vincent: 1Co 7:36 - -- Let them marry
Evidently there was assumed to be another in the case beside the father and the virgin.
Let them marry
Evidently there was assumed to be another in the case beside the father and the virgin.
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Vincent: 1Co 7:37 - -- Necessity ( ἀνάγκην )
Either outward or moral constraint. See on 1Co 7:26, and note on Luk 14:18.
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Vincent: 1Co 7:37 - -- Power over his own will ( ἐξουσίαν περὶ τοῦ ἰδίου θελήματος )
The A.V. is ambiguous, and might be unde...
Power over his own will (
The A.V. is ambiguous, and might be understood to imply self-control. The meaning is rather: is free to act as he pleases . Rev., as touching his own will . The repetition of his own emphasizes the fact that the disposal of the daughter lay wholly in the parent's power. Among the Greeks and Romans the choice of a wife was rarely grounded upon affection. In many cases the father chose for his son a wife whom the latter had never seen, or compelled him to marry for the sake of checking his extravagances. Thus Terence pictures a father meeting his son in the forum, and saving. " You are to be married to-day, get ready" (" Andria," i., 5) Nor was the consent of a woman generally thought necessary. She was obliged to submit to the wishes of her parents, and perhaps to receive a stranger. Thus Hermione says: " My marriage is my father's care: it is not for me to decide about that" (Euripides, " Andromache," 987). Under the patriarchal and Mosaic dispensations, the father's power over the children in the matter of marriage was paramount, and their consent was not required. After the Exile the parents could betroth their children, while minors, at their pleasure; but when they became of age their consent was required, and if betrothed during minority, they had afterward the right of insisting upon divorce.
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Vincent: 1Co 7:39 - -- Be dead ( κοιμηθῇ )
Lit., have fallen asleep . See on Act 7:60; see on 2Pe 3:4; compare Rom 7:2, where the usual word for die , ...
Be dead (
Lit., have fallen asleep . See on Act 7:60; see on 2Pe 3:4; compare Rom 7:2, where the usual word for die ,
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Vincent: 1Co 7:40 - -- Happier ( μακαριωτέρα )
More blessed is preferable. The word has a higher meaning than happy . See on Mat 5:3.
" Such, if on hig...
Happier (
More blessed is preferable. The word has a higher meaning than happy . See on Mat 5:3.
" Such, if on high their thoughts are set,
Nor in the stream the source forget,
If prompt to quit the bliss they know,
Following the Lamb where'er He go,
By purest pleasure unbeguiled
To idolize or wife or child:
Such wedded souls our God shall own
For faultless virgins round His throne."
Keble, " Christian Year ," Wednesday before Easter .
Wesley: 1Co 7:36 - -- Unbecoming his character. Toward his virgin daughter, if she be above age, (or of full age,) and need so require, 1Co 7:9, let them marry - Her suitor...
Unbecoming his character. Toward his virgin daughter, if she be above age, (or of full age,) and need so require, 1Co 7:9, let them marry - Her suitor and she.
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Wesley: 1Co 7:37 - -- Which would incline him to desire the increase of his family, and the strengthening it by new relations.
Which would incline him to desire the increase of his family, and the strengthening it by new relations.
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Wesley: 1Co 7:39 - -- That is, only if Christians marry Christians: a standing direction, and one of the utmost importance.
That is, only if Christians marry Christians: a standing direction, and one of the utmost importance.
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Wesley: 1Co 7:40 - -- Teaching me all things This does not imply any doubt; but the strongest certainty of it, together with a reproof of them for calling it in question. W...
Teaching me all things This does not imply any doubt; but the strongest certainty of it, together with a reproof of them for calling it in question. Whoever, therefore, would conclude from hence, that St. Paul was not certain he had the Spirit of Christ, neither understands the true import of the words, nor considers how expressly he lays claim to the Spirit, both in this epistle, 1Co 2:16, 1Co 14:37, and the other. 2Co 13:3. Indeed, it may be doubted whether the word here and elsewhere translated think, does not always imply the fullest and strongest assurance. See 1Co 10:12.
JFB: 1Co 7:36 - -- Is not treating his daughter well in leaving her unmarried beyond the flower of her age, and thus debarring her from the lawful gratification of her n...
Is not treating his daughter well in leaving her unmarried beyond the flower of her age, and thus debarring her from the lawful gratification of her natural feeling as a marriageable woman.
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JFB: 1Co 7:36 - -- If the exigencies of the case require it; namely, regard to the feelings and welfare of his daughter. Opposed to "having no necessity" (1Co 7:37).
If the exigencies of the case require it; namely, regard to the feelings and welfare of his daughter. Opposed to "having no necessity" (1Co 7:37).
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Not to be turned from his purpose by the obloquy of the world.
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Arising from the natural inclinations of the daughter.
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JFB: 1Co 7:37 - -- When, owing to his daughter's will not opposing his will, he has power to carry into effect his will or wish.
When, owing to his daughter's will not opposing his will, he has power to carry into effect his will or wish.
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The oldest manuscripts have "his own virgin daughter."
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The oldest manuscripts omit "by the law."
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JFB: 1Co 7:40 - -- "I also think"; just as you Corinthians and your teachers think much of your opinions, so I also give my opinion by inspiration; so in 1Co 7:25, "my j...
Clarke: 1Co 7:36 - -- Uncomely towards his virgin - Different meanings have been assigned to this verse; I shall mention three of the principal
1. "In t...
Uncomely towards his virgin - Different meanings have been assigned to this verse; I shall mention three of the principal
1. "In those early times, both among the Hebrews and Christians, the daughters were wholly in the power of the father, so that he might give or not give them in marriage as he chose; and might bind them to perpetual celibacy if he thought proper; and to this case the apostle alludes. If the father had devoted his daughter to perpetual virginity, and he afterwards found that she had fixed her affections upon a person whom she was strongly inclined to marry, and was now getting past the prime of life; he, seeing from his daughter’ s circumstances that it would be wrong to force her to continue in her state of celibacy; though he had determined before to keep her single, yet he might in this case alter his purpose without sin, and let her and her suitor marry.
2. "The whole verse and its context speaks of young women dedicated to the service of God, who were called
3. "The apostle by
It is generally supposed that these three verses relate to virgins under the power of parents and guardians and the usual inference is, that children are to be disposed of in marriage by the parents, guardians, etc. Now this may be true, but it has no foundation in the text, for
This last opinion seems to be the true sense of the apostle
It may be necessary to make a few general observations on these verses, summing up what has been said
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4. Instead of
5. The whole of the 37th verse relates to the purpose that the man has formed; and the strength that he has to keep his purpose of perpetual celibacy, being under no necessity to change that purpose
6. Instead of
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Clarke: 1Co 7:39 - -- The wife is bound by the law - This seems to be spoken in answer to some other question of the Corinthians to this effect: "May a woman remarry whos...
The wife is bound by the law - This seems to be spoken in answer to some other question of the Corinthians to this effect: "May a woman remarry whose husband is dead, or who has abandoned her?"To which he replies, in general, That as long as her husband is living the law binds her to him alone; but, if the husband die, she is free to remarry, but only in the Lord; that is she must not marry a heathen nor an irreligious man; and she should not only marry a genuine Christian, but one of her own religious sentiments; for, in reference to domestic peace, much depends on this.
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Clarke: 1Co 7:40 - -- But she is happier if she so abide - If she continue in her widowhood because of the present distress; for this must always be taken in, that consis...
But she is happier if she so abide - If she continue in her widowhood because of the present distress; for this must always be taken in, that consistency in the apostle’ s reasoning may be preserved. If this were not understood, how could St. Paul tell the widow that it would be more happy for her to continue in her widowhood than to remarry? She who had tried both the state of celibacy and the state of marriage could certainly best tell which was most for her comfort; and he could not tell any thing but by an express revelation from heaven, relative to the future state of any widow: it is certain that he can never be understood as speaking in general, as there are multitudes of persons abundantly more happy in their married than in their single state; and there are many widows also much more happy in their second marriage than they have been in their first
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Clarke: 1Co 7:40 - -- After my judgment - According to the view I have of the subject, which view I take by the light of the Divine Spirit, who shows me the tribulations ...
After my judgment - According to the view I have of the subject, which view I take by the light of the Divine Spirit, who shows me the tribulations which are coming on the Church. But, says he, 1Co 7:28 : I spare you - I will not be more explicit concerning coming evils, as I wish to save you from all forebodings which bring torment
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Clarke: 1Co 7:40 - -- I think - I have the Spirit of God - Δοκω δε κᾳγω Πνευμα Θεου εχειν might be translated, I am Certain that I have the S...
I think - I have the Spirit of God -
1. In the preceding chapter we have met with subjects both of difficulty and importance. As to the difficulties, it is hoped that they have been so generally considered in the notes that few or none of them remain; and on the subjects of peculiar importance much time has been spent, in order to impress them on the mind of the reader. The delicacy of some of them would not admit of greater plainness; and in a few instances I have been obliged to wrap the meaning in a foreign language
2. On the important subject of marriage I have said what I believe to be true, and scruple not to say that it is the most useful state in which - the human being can be placed; and consequently that in which most honor may be brought to God. I have listened with much attention for the better part of half a century to the arguments against marriage and in favor of celibacy; and I have had the opportunity of being acquainted with many who endeavored to exemplify their own doctrine. But I have seen an end of all their perfection: neither the world nor the Church are under any obligations to them: they either married when they could do it to their mind and convenience; or, continuing in their celibacy, they lived a comparatively useless life; and died as they should, unregretted. The doctrine is not only dangerous but anti-scriptural: and I hope I have sufficiently vindicated Paul from being its patron or supporter
3. While I contend for the superior excellence of the marriage state, I hope I shall not be understood to be the apologist of indiscriminate marriages - no, many of them are blamable in a very high degree. Instead of consulting common sense and propriety, childish affections, brutish passions, or the love of money are the motives on which many of them have been contracted. Such marriages are miserable; must be so, and should not be otherwise; and superficial people looking at these form an estimate of the state itself, and then indulge themselves in exclaiming against an ordinance of God, either perverted by themselves or the equally foolish persons who are the subjects of their animadversion. That genuine Christians can never be so useful in any state as that of marriage I am fully convinced; but to be happy, the marriage must be in the Lord. When believers match with unbelievers, generally pars sincera trahitur ; the good becomes perverted; and Satan has his triumph when he has got an immortal soul out of the Church of Christ into his own synagogue. But who among young people will lay this to heart? And how few among young men and young women will not sell their Savior and his people for a husband or a wife
4. The doctrine of second marriages has been long a subject of controversy in the Church. The Scriptures, properly understood, have not only nothing against them, but much for them. And in this chapter St. Paul, in the most pointed manner, admits of them. A widow may marry again, only let it be in the Lord; and a widower has certainly the same privilege
5. The conversion which the Scripture requires, though it makes a most essential change in our souls in reference to God, and in our works in reference both to God and man, makes none in our civil state: even if a man is called, i.e. converted in a state of slavery, he does not gain his manumission in consequence of his conversion; he stands in the same relation both to the state and to his fellows that he stood in before; and is not to assume any civil rights or privileges in consequence of the conversion of his soul to God. The apostle decides the matter in this chapter, and orders that every man should abide in the calling wherein he is called
6. From the 20th to the 23rd verse the apostle refers to the state of slavery among the Greeks; and from what he says we find that even among the slaves there were Christian converts, to whom, though he recommends submission and contentment, yet he intimates that if they could get their freedom they should prefer it; and he strongly charges those that were free not to become again the slaves of men, 1Co 7:23; from which we learn that a man might dispose of his own liberty, which, in a Christian, would be a disgrace to his redemption by Christ. The word
1. The consent of the master that the slave should have his name entered in the census; or public register of the citizens
2. The slave was led before the praetor, and the magistrate laid his wand, called vindicta, on his head, and declared him free
3. By testament or will, the master bequeathing to the slave his freedom. The manner in which the second mode of manumission was performed is curious. The praetor having laid the rod vindicta upon the slave’ s head, pronounced these words, Dico eum liberum esse more Quiritum , "I pronounce him free according to the custom of the Romans."This done he gave the rod to the lictor, or serjeant, who struck the slave with it upon the head, and afterwards with the hand upon the face and back. The head also of the slave was shaven, and a cup given him by his master as a token of freedom, and the notary entered the name of the new freed-man in the public register, with the reasons of his manumission: it was customary also to give him another surname
7. Among our Saxon ancestors, and also after the conquest, there was a species of slavery: all the villani were slaves to their respective lords, and each was bound to serve him in a great variety of ways. There is a profusion of curious examples of this in the ancient record preserved in the bishop’ s auditor’ s office in the cathedral of Durham, commonly known by the name of the Bolden Book . This record has been lately printed under the direction of his majesty’ s commissioners on the public records of the kingdom, in the supplement to Domesday Book
8. Among our Saxon ancestors manumissions were granted on various accounts
1. A person might, if able, purchase his own freedom
2. One man might purchase the freedom of another
3. Manumissions were granted to procure by their merit the salvation of departed souls
4. Persons were manumitted also in order to be consecrated to the service of God. These manumissions were usually recorded in some holybook, especially in copies of the four Evangelists, which, being preserved in the libraries of abbeys, etc., were a continual record, and might at all convenient times be consulted. Several entries of these manumissions exist in a MS. of the four Evangelists, s. 4, 14, in the library of Corpus Christi or Bennet college, Cambridge
I shall produce a specimen of one of the several kinds mentioned above, giving the original only of the first; and of the others, verbal translations
1. The certificate of a man’ s having purchased his own freedom
"Here is witnessed, in this book of Christ, that Aelfwig the Red hath redeemed himself from Abbot Aelfsig, and the whole convent, with one pound. And this is witnessed by the whole convent at Bath
May Christ strike him blin
Who this writing perverts.
This is a usual execration at the end of these forms, and is in rhyme in the original
2. Certificate of one having purchased the liberty of another
"Here is witnessed, in this book of Christ, that Aedric Atford has redeemed Saegyfa, his daughter, from the Abbot Aelfsig, and from the convent of Bath, to be for ever free, and all her posterity.
3. Certificate of redemption in behalf of one departed
"Here is witnessed, in this book of Christ, that Aelfric Scot and Aegelric Scot are manumitted for the soul of Abbot Aelfsig, to perpetual liberty. This was done with the testimony of the whole convent.
4. Certificate of persons manumitted to be devoted to the service of God
"Here is witnessed, in this book of Christ, that John bought Gunnilda the daughter of Thurkill, from Goda, widow of Leafenath, with half a pound. With the testimony of the whole convent
May Christ strike him blin
Who this writing perverts
And he has dedicated her to Christ and St. Peter, in behalf of his mother’ s soul.
9. When a man was made free, it was either in the church or at some public meeting: the sheriff of the county took him by the right hand and proclaimed him a freeman, and showed him the open door and the public highway, intimating that he was free to go whithersoever he pleased, and then gave him the arms of a freeman, viz. a spear and a sword. In some cases the man was to pay thirty pence to his master of hide money, intimating that he was no longer under restraint, chastisement, or correction. From which it appears that our ancestors were in the habit of flogging their slaves. See the laws of Ina, c. 24, 39; of Wm. the Conqueror, c. 65; and of Hen. I. c. 78
10. Among the Gentoos the manumission of a slave was as follows: The slave took a pitcher, filled it with water, and put therein berenge-arook (rice that had been cleansed without boiling) and flowers of doob, (a kind of small salad), and taking the pitcher on his shoulder he stands near his master; the master then puts the pitcher on the slave’ s head, breaks it so that the water, rice, flowers, and doob that were in the pitcher may fall on the slave’ s body: when this is done the master thrice pronounces, I have made thee free; then the slave steps forward a few paces towards the east, and then the manumission is complete. See Code of Gentoo laws, chap. 8: sec. 2, page 160. It is evident that the whole of this ceremony is emblematical
1. The pitcher represents the confined, servile state of the slave
2. The articles contained in it, his exclusion while in a state of slavery from the grand benefits and comforts of life
3. The water contained in the pitcher, his exclusion from the refreshing influences of heaven; for slaves were not permitted to take part in the ordinances of religion
4. The clean, unboiled rice, his incapacity to have secular possessions; for slaves were not permitted to possess lands either by inheritance or purchase: a slave could sow no seed for himself, and consequently have no legal claim on support from this staff of life
5. The doob or salad shut up, his being without relish for that state of being which was rendered insupportable to him by his thraldom
6. The breaking of the pitcher, his manumission and enjoyment of liberty: being as free to go whithersoever he would as the water was to run, being now disengaged from the pitcher
7. The shedding of the water, rice, flower, etc., over his body, his privilege of enjoying and possessing every heavenly and earthly good
8. His stepping towards the east, his acknowledgment to the supreme Being, the fountain of light and life, (of whom the sun was the emblem), for his enlargement; and his eagerness to possess the light and comfort of that new state of happiness into which he was now brought in consequence of his manumission
11. The description that Dr. John Taylor gives, in his Elements of Civil Law, of the state of slaves among the ancients, will nearly suit with their state among our ancestors, though scarcely as bad as their state in the West Indies. "They were held among the Romans, pro nullis; pro mortuis; pro quadrupedibus : - for no men; for dead men; for beasts: nay, were in a much worse state than any cattle whatever. They had no head in the state, no name, no tribe or register. They were not capable of being injured, nor could they take by purchase or descent, had no heirs, and could make no will. Exclusive of what was called their peculium, whatever they acquired was their master’ s; they could neither plead nor be impleaded; but were entirely excluded from all civil concerns; were not entitled to the rights of matrimony, and therefore had no relief in case of adultery; nor were they proper objects of cognation or affinity. They might be sold, transferred, or pawned, like other goods or personal estate; for goods they were, and such were they esteemed. They might be tortured for evidence, punished at the discretion of their lord, and even put to death, by his authority. They were laid under several other civil incapacities, too tedious to mention."When all this is considered, we may at once see the horrible evil of slavery, and wonder at the grace which could render them happy and contented in this situation see the preceding chapter, 1Co 7:20-22. And yet we need not be surprised that the apostle should say to those who were free or freed, Ye are bought with a price; do not become slaves of men
12. I have entered the more particularly into this subject, because it, or allusions to it, are frequently occurring in the New Testament, and I speak of it here once for all. And, to conclude, I here register my testimony against the unprincipled, inhuman, anti-Christian, and diabolical slave-trade, with all its authors, promoters, abettors, and sacrilegious gains; as well as against the great devil, the father of it and them.
Calvin: 1Co 7:36 - -- 36.But if any one thinketh that it were unseemly for his virgin He now directs his discourse to parents, who had children under their authority. For ...
36.But if any one thinketh that it were unseemly for his virgin He now directs his discourse to parents, who had children under their authority. For having heard the praises of celibacy, and having heard also of the inconveniences of matrimony, they might be in doubt, whether it were at all a kind thing to involve their children in so many miseries, lest it should seem as if they were to blame for the troubles that might befall them. For the greater their attachment to their children, so much the more anxiously do they exercise fear and caution on their account. 439 Paul, then, with the view of relieving them from this difficulty, teaches that it is their duty to consult their advantage, exactly as one would do for himself when at his own disposal. 440 Now he still keeps up the distinction, which he has made use of all along, so as to commend celibacy, but, at the same time, to leave marriage as a matter of choice; and not simply a matter of choice, but a needful remedy for incontinency, which ought not to be denied to any one. In the first part of the statement he speaks as to the giving of daughters in marriage, and he declares that those do not sin in giving away their daughters in marriage, who are of opinion that an unmarried life is not suitable for them.
The word
By the flower of her age he means the marriageable age. This lawyers define to be from twelve to twenty years of age. Paul points out, in passing, what equity and humanity ought to be exercised by parents, in applying a remedy in that tender and slippery age, when the force of the disease requires it. And it requires to be so. In this clause I understand him as referring to the girl’s infirmity — in the event of her not having the gift of continency; for in that case, necessity constrains her to marry. As to Jerome’s making a handle of the expression sinneth not, for reviling marriage, with a view to its disparagement, as if it were not a praiseworthy action to dispose of a daughter in marriage, it is quite childish. 444 For Paul reckoned it enough to exempt fathers from blame, that they might not reckon it a cruel thing to subject their daughters to the vexations connected with marriage.
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Calvin: 1Co 7:37 - -- 37.But he who standeth firm in his heart Here we have the second part of the statement, in which he treats of young women who have the gift of abst...
37.But he who standeth firm in his heart Here we have the second part of the statement, in which he treats of young women who have the gift of abstaining from marriage. He commends therefore those fathers who make provision for their tranquillity; but let us observe what he requires. In the first place, he makes mention of a steadfast purpose — If any one has fully resolved with himself. You must not, however, understand by this the resolution formed by monks — that is, a voluntary binding over to perpetual servitude — for such is the kind of vow that they make; but he expressly makes mention of this firmness of purpose, because mankind often contrive schemes which they next day regret. As it is a matter of importance, he requires a thoroughly matured purpose.
In the second place he speaks of the person as having no necessity; for many, when about to deliberate, bring obstinacy with them rather than reason. And in the present case 445 they do not consider, when they renounce marriage, what is in their power, but reckon it enough to say — “such is my choice. ” Paul requires them to have power, that they may not decide rashly, but according to the measure of the grace that has been given them. The absence of necessity in the case he appropriately expresses in the following clause, when he says that they have power over their own will. For it is as though he had said — “I would not have them resolve before knowing that they have power to fulfill, for it is rash and ruinous 446 to struggle against an appointment of God.” But, “ according to this system,” some one will say, “vows are not to be condemned, provided these conditions were annexed.” I answer that, as to the gift of continency, as we are uncertain respecting the will of God as to the future, we ought not to form any determination for our whole life. Let us make use of the gift as long as it is allowed us. In the meantime, let us commit ourselves to the Lord, prepared to follow whithersoever he may call us (Rev 14:4.)
Hath decreed in his heart Paul seems to have added this to express the idea more fully, that fathers ought to look carefully on all sides, before giving up anxiety and intention as to giving away their daughters in marriage. For they often decline marriage, either from shame or from ignorance of themselves, while, in the meantime, they are not the less wanton, or prone to be led astray 447 Parents must here consider well what is for the interests of their daughters, that by their prudence they may correct their ignorance, or unreasonable desire.
Now this passage serves to establish the authority of parents, which ought to be held sacred, as having its origin in the common rights of nature. Now if in other actions of inferior moment no liberty is allowed to children, without the authority of their parents, much less is it reasonable that they should have liberty given them in the contracting of marriage. And that has been carefully enacted by civil law, but more especially by the law of God. So much the more detestable, then, is the wickedness of the Pope, who, laying aside all respect, either for Divine or human laws, has been so daring as to free children from the yoke of subjection to their parents. It is of importance, however, to mark the reason. This, says he, is on account of the dignity of the sacrament. Not to speak of the ignorance of making marriage a sacrament, what honor is there, I beseech you, or what dignity, when, contrary to the general feeling of propriety in all nations, and contrary to God’s eternal appointment, they take off all restraints from the lusts of young persons, that they may, without any feeling of shame, sport themselves, 448 under pretense of its being a sacrament? Let us know, therefore, that in disposing of children in marriage, the authority of parents is of first-rate importance, provided they do not tyrannically abuse it, as even the civil laws restrict it. 449 The Apostle, too, in requiring exemption from necessity, 450 intimated that the deliberations of parents ought to be regulated with a view to the advantage of their children. Let us bear in mind, therefore, that this limitation is the proper rule — that children allow themselves to be governed by their parents, and that they, on the other hand, do not drag their children by force to what is against their inclination, and that they have no other object in view, in the exercise of their authority, than the advantage of their children.
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Calvin: 1Co 7:38 - -- 38.Therefore he that giveth in marriage Here we have the conclusion from both parts of the statement, in which he states, in a few words, that parent...
38.Therefore he that giveth in marriage Here we have the conclusion from both parts of the statement, in which he states, in a few words, that parents are free from blame if they give away their daughters in marriage, while he at the same time declares that they do better if they keep them at home unmarried. You are not, however, to understand that celibacy is here preferred to marriage, otherwise than under the exception which was a little before expressed. For if power be wanting on the part of the daughter, 451 the father acts an exceedingly bad part if he endeavors to keep her back from marriage, and would be no longer a father to her, but a cruel tyrant. The sum of the whole discussion amounts to this — that celibacy is better than marriage, because it has more liberty, so that persons can serve God with greater freedom; but at the same time, that no necessity ought to be imposed, so as to make it unlawful for individuals to marry, if they think proper; and farther, that marriage itself is a remedy appointed by God for our infirmity, 452 which all ought to use that are not endowed with the gift of continency. Every person of sound judgment will join with me in acknowledging and confessing, that the whole of Paul’s doctrine on this point is comprehended in these three articles.
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Calvin: 1Co 7:39 - -- 39.The wife is bound He had previously spoken indiscriminately of husbands and wives, but as wives, on account of the modesty of their sex, might see...
39.The wife is bound He had previously spoken indiscriminately of husbands and wives, but as wives, on account of the modesty of their sex, might seem to have less liberty, he has thought it necessary to give in addition some special directions in reference to them. He now, therefore, teaches that women are not less at liberty than men to marry a second time, on their becoming widows. 453 We have already mentioned above, that those who desired a second marriage were branded with the reproach of intemperance, and that, with the view of putting some kind of slight upon them, those who had been contented with being once married, were wont to be presented with the “chaplet of chastity.” Nay more, this first opinion had, in course of time, become prevalent among Christians; for second marriages had no blessing pronounced upon them, and some Councils prohibited the clergy from being present on such occasions. The Apostle here condemns tyranny of that sort, and declares, that no hindrance ought to be thrown in the way of widows’ marrying, if they think proper.
It is of little consequence, and so far as the sense is concerned it matters nothing, whether we say that the wife is bound legi , ( to the law,) in the dative, or lege , ( by the law,) in the ablative. For it is the law that declares the connection between husband and wife to be indissoluble. If, however, you read it in the dative, the term will convey the idea of authority or obligation. 454 Now he reasons from contraries; for if a woman is bound to her husband for life, she is, then, set at liberty by his death. After she has been set at liberty, let her be married to whom she will
When the verb to sleep means to die, 455 it refers not to the soul, but to the body, as is manifest from its constant use in Scripture. 456 It is a foolish part, therefore, that is acted by certain fanatics, who, from this little word, make it their endeavor to prove that the souls of men, after being separated from their bodies, are destitute of thought and intelligence, or, in other words, of their life.
Only in the Lord This is thought to be added for the purpose of admonishing them in passing, that they ought not to yoke themselves with the irreligious, or to covet their society. This, I acknowledge, is true, but I am of opinion that more is meant that they should do this in a religious way, and in the fear of the Lord, 457 for it is in this manner that marriages are formed auspiciously.
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Calvin: 1Co 7:40 - -- 40.But she is happier if she so abide Why? Is it because widowhood is of itself a virtue? No; but because it will have less to distract, and is more ...
40.But she is happier if she so abide Why? Is it because widowhood is of itself a virtue? No; but because it will have less to distract, and is more exempt from earthly cares. As to what he adds — according to my judgment, he does not mean by this expression that his opinion was doubtful; but it is as if he had said that such was his decision as to this question; for he immediately adds that he has the Spirit of God, which is sufficient to give full and perfect authority. There appears, at the same time, to be somewhat of irony when he says I think For as the false apostles were ever and anon boasting in high-sounding terms of their having the Spirit of God, for the purpose of arrogating to themselves authority, and in the meantime endeavored to derogate from that of Paul, he says that he thinks that he is not less a partaker of the Spirit than they
Defender -> 1Co 7:36
TSK: 1Co 7:36 - -- his virgin : Some interpret this of a man’ s continuing in a state of celibacy, and render παρθενος [Strong’ s G3933], not a virg...
his virgin : Some interpret this of a man’ s continuing in a state of celibacy, and render
the flower : 1Sa 2:33
he sinneth : 1Co 7:28
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TSK: 1Co 7:38 - -- then : 1Co 7:28
doeth well : 1Co 7:2; Heb 13:4
doeth better : 1Co 7:1, 1Co 7:8, 1Co 7:26, 1Co 7:32-34, 1Co 7:37
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TSK: 1Co 7:39 - -- wife : 1Co 7:10,1Co 7:15; Rom 7:2, Rom 7:3
only : Gen 6:2; Deu 7:3, Deu 7:4; Mal 2:11; 2Co 6:14-16
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TSK: 1Co 7:40 - -- she : 1Co 7:1, 1Co 7:8, 1Co 7:26, 1Co 7:35
I think : Rather, ""I judge (or consider) also that I have the Spirit of God;""for δοκειν is frequ...
she : 1Co 7:1, 1Co 7:8, 1Co 7:26, 1Co 7:35
I think : Rather, ""I judge (or consider) also that I have the Spirit of God;""for
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collapse allCommentary -- Word/Phrase Notes (per Verse)
Barnes: 1Co 7:36 - -- That he behaveth himself uncomely - Acts an unbecoming part, imposes an unnecessary, painful, and improper constraint, crosses her inclinations...
That he behaveth himself uncomely - Acts an unbecoming part, imposes an unnecessary, painful, and improper constraint, crosses her inclinations which are in them selves proper.
Toward his virgin - His daughter, or his ward, or any unmarried female committed to his care.
If she pass the flower of her age - If she pass the marriageable age and remains unmarried. It is well known that in the east it was regarded as especially dishonorable to remain unmarried; and the authority of a father, therefore, might be the means of involving his daughter in shame and disgrace. When this would be the case, it would be wrong to prohibit her marriage.
And need so require - And she ought to be allowed to marry. If it will promote her happiness, and if she would be unhappy, and regarded as dishonored, if she remained in a state of celibacy.
Let him do what he will - He has the authority in the case, for in the east the authority resided with the father. He may either give her in marriage or not, as he pleases. But in this case it is advisable that she should marry.
He sinneth not - He errs not; he will do nothing positively wrong in the case. Marriage is lawful, and in this case it is advisable, and he may consent to it, for the reasons above stated, without error or impropriety.
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Barnes: 1Co 7:37 - -- Nevertheless - But. The apostle in this verse states some instances where it would not be proper to give a daughter in marriage; and the verse ...
Nevertheless - But. The apostle in this verse states some instances where it would not be proper to give a daughter in marriage; and the verse is a kind of summing up of all that be had said on the subject.
That standeth steadfast in his heart ... - Most commentators have understood this of the father of the virgin, and suppose that it refers to his purpose of keeping her from the marriage connection. The phrase to stand steadfast, is opposed to a disposition that is vacillating, unsettled, etc., and denotes a man who has command of himself, who adheres to his purpose, a man who has "hitherto"adhered to his purpose, and to whose happiness and reputation it is important that he should be known as one who is not vacillating, or easily moved.
Having no necessity - Where there is nothing in her disposition or inclination that would make marriage necessary, or when there is no "engagement or obligation"that would be violated if she did not marry.
But hath power over his own will - Hath power to do as he pleases; is not bound in the case by another. When there is no "engagement, or contract,"made in childhood, or promise made in early life that would bind him. Often daughters were espoused, or promised when they were very young, and in such a case a man would be bound to adhere to his engagement; and much as he might desire the reverse, and her celibacy, yet he would not have power over his own will, or be at liberty to withhold her.
And hath so decreed in his heart - Has so judgeD, determined, resolved.
That he will keep his virgin - His daughter, or ward, in an unmarried state. He has "power and authority"to do it, and if he does it he will not sin.
Doeth well - In either of these cases, he does well. If he has a daughter, and chooses to retain her in an unmarried state, he does well or right.
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Barnes: 1Co 7:38 - -- Doeth well - Does right; violates no law in it, and is not to be blamed for it. Doeth better - Does that which is on the whole to be pref...
Doeth well - Does right; violates no law in it, and is not to be blamed for it.
Doeth better - Does that which is on the whole to be preferred, if it can be done. He more certainly, in the present circumstances, consults her happiness by withholding her from the marriage connection than he could by allowing her to enter it.
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Barnes: 1Co 7:39 - -- The wife is bound ... - ; see the notes at Rom 7:2. Only in the Lord - That is, only to one who is a Christian; with a proper sense of he...
The wife is bound ... - ; see the notes at Rom 7:2.
Only in the Lord - That is, only to one who is a Christian; with a proper sense of her obligations to Christ, and so as to promote his glory. The apostle supposed that could not be done if she were allowed to marry a pagan, or one of a different religion. The same sentiment he advances in 2Co 6:14, and it was his intention, undoubtedly, to affirm that it was proper for a widow to marry no one who was not a Christian. The reasons at that time would be obvious:
(1) They could have no sympathy and fellow-feeling on the most important of all subjects, if the one was a Christian and the other a pagan; see 2Co 6:14-15, etc.
\caps1 (2) i\caps0 f she should marry a pagan, would it not be showing that she had not as deep a conviction of the importance and truth of her religion as she ought to have? If Christians were required to be "separate,"to be "a special people,"not "to be conformed to the world,"how could these precepts be obeyed if the society of a pagan was voluntarily chosen, and if she became united to him for life?
\caps1 (3) s\caps0 he would in this way greatly hinder her usefulness; put herself in the control of one who had no respect for her religion, and who would demand her time and attention, and thus interfere with her attendance on the public and private duties of religion, and the offices of Christian charity.
\caps1 (4) s\caps0 he would thus greatly endanger her piety. There would be danger from the opposition, the taunts, the sneers of the enemy of Christ; from the secret influence of living with a man who had no respect for God; from his introducing her into society that was irreligious, and that would tend to mar the beauty of her piety, and to draw her away from simple-hearted devotion to Jesus Christ. And do not these reasons apply to similar cases now? And if so, is not the law still binding? Do not such unions now, as really as they did then, place the Christian where there is no mutual sympathy on the subject dearest to the Christian heart? Do they not show that she who forms such a union has not as deep a sense of the importance of piety, and of the pure and holy nature of her religion as she ought to have? Do they not take time from God and from charity; break up plans of usefulness, and lead away from the society of Christians, and from the duties of religion? Do they not expose often to ridicule, to reproach, to persecution, to contempt, and to pain? Do they not often lead into society, by a desire to please the partner in life, where there is no religion, where God is excluded, where the name of Christ is never heard, and where the piety is marred, and the beauty of simple Christian piety is dimmed? and if so, are not such marriages contrary to the law of Christ? I confess, that this verse, to my view, proves that all such marriages are a violation of the New Testament; and if they are, they should not on any plea be entered into; and it will be found, in perhaps nearly all instances, that they are disastrous to the piety of the married Christian, and the occasion of ultimate regret, and the cause of a loss of comfort, peace, and usefulness in the married life.
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Barnes: 1Co 7:40 - -- If she so abide - If she remain a widow even if she could be married to a Christian. After my judgment - In my opinion; 1Co 7:25. An...
If she so abide - If she remain a widow even if she could be married to a Christian.
After my judgment - In my opinion; 1Co 7:25.
And I think also that I have the Spirit of God - Macknight and others suppose that this phrase implies entire certainty; and that Paul means to affirm that in this he was clear that he was under the influence of inspiration. He appeals for the use of the term (
Remarks On 1 Corinthians 7
We learn from this chapter:
1. The sacredness of the marriage union; and the nature of the feelings with which it should be entered; 1Co 7:1-13. On a most delicate subject Paul has shown a seriousness and delicacy of expression which can be found in no other writings, and which demonstrate how pure his own mind was, and how much it was filled with the fear of God. In all things his aim is to promote purity, and to keep from the Christian church the innumerable evils which everywhere abounded in the pagan world. The marriage connection should be formed in the fear of God. In all that union, the parties should seek the salvation of the soul; and so live as not to dishonor the religion which they profess.
2. The duty of laboring earnestly for the conversion of the party in the marriage connection that may be a stranger to piety; 1Co 7:16. This object should lie very near the heart; and it should be sought by all the means possible. By a pure and holy life; by exemplifying the nature of the gospel; by tenderness of conversation and of entreaty; and by fidelity in all the duties of life, we should seek the conversion and salvation of our partners in the marriage connection. Even if both are Christians, this great object should be one of constant solicitude - to advance the piety and promote the usefulness of the partner in life.
3. The duty of contentment in the sphere of life in which we are placed; 1Co 7:18 ff. It is no disgrace to be poor, for Jesus chose to be poor. It is no disgrace, though it is a calamity, to be a slave. It is no disgrace to be in an humble rank of life. It is disgraceful only to be a sinner, and to complain and repine at our allotment. God orders the circumstances of our life; and they are well ordered when under the direction of his hand. The great object should be to do right in the relation which we sustain in life. If poor, to be industrious, submissive, resigned, virtuous; if rich, to be grateful, benevolent, kind. If a slave or a servant, to be faithful, kind, and obedient; using liberty, if it can be lawfully obtained; resigned, and calm, and gentle, if by the providence of God such must continue to be the lot in life.
4. The duty of preserving the order and regularity of society; 1Co 7:20-23. The design of the gospel is not to produce insubordination or irregularity, it would not break up society; does not dissolve the bonds of social life; but it cements and sanctifies the ties which connect us with those around us. It is designed to promote human happiness; and that is promoted, not by resolving society into its original elements; not by severing the marriage tie, as atheists would do; not by teaching children to disregard and despise their parents, or the common courtesies of life, but by teaching them to maintain inviolate all these relations. Religion promotes the interests of society; it does not, like infidelity, dissolve them. It advances the cause of social virtue; it does not, like atheism, retard and annihilate it. Every Christian becomes a better parent, a more affectionate child, a kinder friend, a more tender husband or wife, a more kind neighbor, a better member of the community.
5. Change in a man’ s calling should not be made from a slight cause. A Christian should not make it unless his former calling were wrong, or unless he can by it extend his own usefulness. But when that can be done, he should do it, and do it without delay. If the course is wrong, it should be immediately abandoned. No consideration can make it right to continue it for a day or an hour, no matter what may be the sacrifice of property, it should be done. If a man is engaged in the slave-trade, or in smuggling goods, or in piracy, or highway robbery, or in the manufacture and sale of poison, it should be at once and forever abandoned. And in like manner, if a young man who is converted can increase his usefulness by changing his plan of life, it should be done as soon as practicable. If by becoming a minister of the gospel he can be a more useful man, every consideration demands that he should leave any other profession, however lucrative or pleasant, and submit to the self-denials, the cares, the trials, and the toils which attend a life devoted to Christ in the ministry in Christian or pagan lands. Though it should be attended with poverty, want, tears, toil, or shame, yet the single question is, "Can I be more useful to my Master there than in my present vocation?"If he can be, that is an indication of the will of God which he cannot disregard with impunity.
6. We should live above this world; 1Co 7:29-30. We should partake of all our pleasures, and endure all our sufferings, with the deep feeling that we have here no continuing city and no abiding place. Soon all our earthly pleasures will fade away; soon all our earthly sorrows will be ended. A conviction of the shortness of life will tend much to regulate our desires for earthly comforts, and will keep us from being improperly attached to them; and it will diminish our sorrows by the prospect that they will soon end.
7. We should not be immoderately affected with grief; 1Co 7:30. It will all soon end, in regard to Christians. Whether our tears arise from the consciousness of our sins or the sins of others; whether from persecution or contempt of the world; or whether from the loss of health, property, or friends, we should bear it all patiently, for it will soon end; a few days, and all will be over; and the last tear shall fall on our cheeks, and the last sigh be heaved from our bosom.
8. We should not be immoderate in our joy, 1Co 7:30. Our highest earthly joys will soon cease. Mirth, and the sound of the harp and the viol, the loud laugh and the song will soon close. What a change should this thought make in a world of gaiety, and mirth, and song! It should not make people gloomy and morose; but it should make them serious, calm, thoughtful. O, did all feel that death was near, that the solemn realities of eternity were approaching, what a change would it make in a frivilous and thoughtless world! How would it close the theater and the ball-room; how would it silence the jest, the jeer, and the loud laugh; and how would it diffuse seriousness and calmness over a now frivilous and thoughtless world! "Laughter is mad,"says Solomon; and in a world of sin, and sorrow, and death, assuredly seriousness and calm contemplation are demanded by every consideration.
9. What an effect would the thought that "time is short,"and that "the fashion of this world passeth away,"have on the lovers of wealth! It would:
(1) Teach them that property is of little value.
\caps1 (2) t\caps0 hat the possession of it can constitute no distinction beyond the grave: the rich man is just as soon reduced to dust, and is just as offensive in his splendid mausoleum, as the poor beggar.
\caps1 (3) a\caps0 man feeling this, would be led (or should be) to make a good use of his property on earth. See the note at Luk 16:1-9.
\caps1 (4) h\caps0 e would be led to seek a better inheritance, an interest in the treasures that no moth corrupts, and that never fade away. See the note at Mat 6:20. This single thought. that the fashion of this world is soon to pass away - an idea which no man can doubt or deny - if allowed to take firm hold of the mind, would change the entire aspect of the world.
10. We should endeavor so to live in all things as that our minds should not be oppressed with undue anxiety and care, 1Co 7:32. In all our arrangements and plans, and in all the relations of life, our grand object should be to have the mind free for the duties and privileges of religion. We should seek not to be encumbered with care; not to be borne down with anxiety; not to be unduly attached to the things of this life.
11. We should enter into the relations of life so as not to interfere with our personal piety or usefulness, but so as to promote both, 1Co 7:32-35. All our arrangements should be so formed as that we may discharge our religious duties, and promote our usefulness to our fellow men. But, alas, how many enter into the marriage relation with unChristian companions, whose active zeal is forever quenched by such a connection! How many form commercial connections or partnerships in business with those who are not Christians, where the result is to diminish their zeal for God, and to render their whole lives useless to the church! And how much do the cares of life, in all its relations, interfere with simple-hearted piety, and with the faithful discharge of the duties which we owe to God and to a dying world! May God of his mercy enable us so to live in all the relations of life as that our usefulness shall not be retarded but augmented; and so to live that we can see without one sigh of regret the "fashion of this world pass away;"our property or our friends removed; or even the magnificence of the entire world, with all its palaces, and temples, and "cloudcapped towers,"passing away amidst the fires that shall attend the consummation of all things!
Poole: 1Co 7:36 - -- But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely: there is a general and a particular uncomeliness; some things are uncomely with respect to al...
But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely: there is a general and a particular uncomeliness; some things are uncomely with respect to all persons; of such things the apostle doth not here speak; but of a particular uncomeliness with respect to the circumstances of particular persons. Neither doth uncomely here signify a mere indecency and unhandsomeness, but such a behaviour as suiteth not the general rules of the gospel, which judgment is to be ruled by the circumstances of persons, as they more or less desire marriage.
If she pass the flower of her age if she be of marriageable years, or rather, if she beginneth to grow old,
and need so require and be desirous of marriage, so as the parent seeth reason to fear that, if he gives her not in marriage, she will so dispose of herself without asking her father’ s advice or leave, or be exposed, possibly, to worse temptations: which two things seem to interpret that term, if need so require.
Let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry in such a case as this a Christian parent shall not sin, if he disposeth her in marriage let her marry to such a person as she loveth, and her parent seeth proper for her. He speaks in the plural number because marriage is between two persons. The reason of this determination is, because the apostle, in his former discourse, had no where condemned a married estate during the present distress of things, as sinful or unlawful, but only as inexpedient, or not so expedient as a single life during the present distress; he had before determined, 1Co 7:9 , that it was better to marry than to burn. Now no inexpediency of a thing can balance what is plainly sinful. If therefore the case be such, that a man or woman must marry, or sin, through marriage brings with it more care and trouble, yet it is to be preferred before plain sinning.
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Poole: 1Co 7:37 - -- Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart if a man be resolved to keep his daughter a virgin, not uncertain in his own mind, and wavering w...
Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart if a man be resolved to keep his daughter a virgin, not uncertain in his own mind, and wavering what he should do, upon a just consideration of circumstances;
having no necessity and doth not see a necessity to dispose of her, either for the avoiding some sin against God, or for the better providing for himself and the rest of his family;
but hath power over his own will but hath a perfect freedom in his own will, so that his will be not contradicted by his daughter’ s fondness of a married life; for in such a case the father, though he would willingly not dispose of his daughter in marriage, yet ought to be overruled by the will of his daughter, and so hath not a power over his own will, being forced by the rules of religion to take care of the soul and spiritual welfare of his child; for though the parent hath a great power over his child, and ought to consent to the marriage of his child, yet he hath no such power as wholly to hinder them from marriage.
And hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin if he be fully resolved, upon a due consideration of all circumstances, and the virgin be satisfied, and yields up herself in the case to her father’ s pleasure, in such a case, if the father doth not put her upon marriage, but resolves to keep her unmarried, he
doeth well that is, not only he shall not sin against God, but he doth that which is more eligible, considering the present circumstances of things, and better than if he did find out a husband for her, and give her to him (as it is expounded in the next verse).
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Poole: 1Co 7:38 - -- So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well: there is no general rule for all parents in this case, where the duty or sin of parents may arise ...
So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well: there is no general rule for all parents in this case, where the duty or sin of parents may arise from their or their children’ s different circumstances. But supposing that a parent, having duly weighed all circumstances, be fully resolved, and he finds the child’ s will concurring, that she can forbear, and is willing to do in the case what her parent desires; in such a case as this, if the parent disposeth her in marriage, I cannot say he sinneth, but he doth what he may do.
But he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better but with reference to the present state of things in the church and in the world, and with reference to the young woman’ s liberty for the service of God, he doth better, if he doth not so dispose her. The thing is in itself indifferent, and Christians must be in it ruled and inclined one way or another from circumstances.
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Poole: 1Co 7:39 - -- The apostle all along this chapter hath been speaking to several cases, which the church of Corinth had put to him concerning marriage; some that co...
The apostle all along this chapter hath been speaking to several cases, which the church of Corinth had put to him concerning marriage; some that concerned persons already married, others that concerned such as were single, having been never married; he shutteth up his discourse with advice which relateth to such as had lost their husbands, with reference to second marriages. As to this he determineth, that no woman might marry again while her first husband lived; that is, unless her husband, be legally divorced from her for adultery, or unless her husband, being a heathen, had voluntarily deserted her: but if her husband were dead, she might marry to whom she would; yet she was not at such liberty, as that she might marry an unbeliever. Unbelievers are either heathens, or Christians in name, but such as are idolaters, or profane persons, or heretics, who hold such tenets as are inconsistent with any true faith in Jesus Christ. This phrase,
only in the Lord seemeth to oblige godly women, not only to avoid marrying with heathens, but with nominal Christians; that is, such who, although they have been baptized, and own Christ with their tongues, yet hold such damnable opinions, or live such profane lives, or worship God in such an idolatrous manner, as is inconsistent with any true faith in Christ. The reason of the precept holds as well to the latter as to the former.
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Poole: 1Co 7:40 - -- But if other circumstances concur, that a widow can abide without marriage without waxing wanton, and running into temptation, and so as to manage h...
But if other circumstances concur, that a widow can abide without marriage without waxing wanton, and running into temptation, and so as to manage her outward concerns without the help of a husband, my opinion is, that she is more happy if she keeps herself a widow, and doth not marry again; not more happy because more holy, or in a fairer road to the kingdom of heaven, but upon the two accounts before mentioned; more happy because free from troubles and distractions, and because she will be more free and at liberty to mind heavenly things.
And I think also that I have the Spirit of God and, saith he, I think I know as much of the mind of the Holy Spirit of God, as either those who teach you otherwise, or who may have opinions contrary to mine in this case.
Haydock: 1Co 7:36 - -- Let him do what he will, he sinneth not, &c. The meaning is not as libertines would have it, that persons may do what they will, and not sin; provid...
Let him do what he will, he sinneth not, &c. The meaning is not as libertines would have it, that persons may do what they will, and not sin; provided they afterwards marry: but that the father with regard to the giving his virgin in marriage, may do as he pleaseth: and that it will be no sin to him if she marries. (Challoner)
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Haydock: 1Co 7:38 - -- He that giveth her not, doth better. And more blessed shall she be, if she so remains, according to my counsel. It is very strange if any one, wh...
He that giveth her not, doth better. And more blessed shall she be, if she so remains, according to my counsel. It is very strange if any one, who reads this chapter without prejudices, does not clearly see, that St. Paul advises, and prefers the state of virginity to that of a married life. ---
I think that I also have the spirit of God. He puts them in mind, by this modest way of speaking, of what they cannot doubt of, as to so great an apostle. (Witham) ---
It is worthy our notice, that St. Paul on every occasion avoids the least appearance of vanity, and frequently when delivering his own opinion, gives us only a hint, hoping that we shall supply the rest. Of this apostle's modesty in this particular, we have many instances in his writings, as in ver. 26. "I think, therefore, that this is good;" and likewise in chap. iv. ver. 9. "For I think that God." (Estius)
Gill: 1Co 7:36 - -- But if any man think,.... This some understand of a man that is engaged, or betrothed to a virgin, and protracts marriage, who may use his prudence in...
But if any man think,.... This some understand of a man that is engaged, or betrothed to a virgin, and protracts marriage, who may use his prudence in consummating it, if he pleases, for any thing the apostle has said to the contrary: but it is better to understand it of a parent, or one that has the care and guardianship of virgins; if such an one is of opinion,
that he behaveth himself uncomely towards his virgin: by exposing her to contempt and reproach, in retaining her at home, and not giving her in marriage when at proper age for such a state; it being reckoned reproachful to be at, or past the age of marriage, or to be in years, and not married; or by so doing lay her under temptation to do that which is uncomely, to commit fornication, which would be uncomely, both to him, and to her; and such a tendency has living in a single state, contrary to inclination. The apostle may have respect to a Jewish tradition founded upon the supposed sense of Lev 19:29 "do not prostitute thy daughter to cause her to be a whore" s.
"Says R. Eliezer, this is he who marries his daughter to an old man. Says R. Akiba, (who was contemporary with the apostle,) this is he who detains his daughter at home when she is marriageable.''
If she pass the flower of her age; that is, one that is arrived to years of maturity, is ripe for marriage, and is what the Jewish doctors call
"if thy daughter,
Moreover, according to their canons, such an one was no longer under her father's power; for so runs the canon w,
"hrgbv Nwyk "when she is at the flower of her age", she is no more under her father's power:''
her father cannot make void her vows, though a husband can x:
and need so require: that she be given in marriage to a man; if she has not the gift of continence; if she is in danger of falling into the sin of fornication, and the father or guardian are sensible of this:
let him do what he will, he sinneth not; he is under no obligation by what the apostle had said to detain her in a single life; he may give her in marriage if he pleases: he may
do what she will, as it may be rendered; comply with her inclination and desire in marrying her to some person; in doing which, neither he nor she will break any law of God, and so not sin therein:
let them marry; let parents marry their children when this is the case; let the young men and young women marry who are so disposed; there is no reason why they should not; there is nothing contrary to it in the word of God, nor in the advice of the apostle; nay, according to him, it was much better to marry than to burn, or to be exposed to any snare and temptation.
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Gill: 1Co 7:37 - -- Nevertheless, he that standeth steadfast in his heart,.... The apostle returns to confirm his former advice, where it can be attended to with safety; ...
Nevertheless, he that standeth steadfast in his heart,.... The apostle returns to confirm his former advice, where it can be attended to with safety; and observes, that notwithstanding what he had allowed might lawfully be done, and was proper to be done; yet a man that had deliberated upon, and had well weighed the matter of virginity, the case of a single life, and was at a point about in, having no hesitation nor fluctuation of mind concerning it: and also "having no necessity"; of acting otherwise, either through the meanness of his circumstances, or rather through the weakness of his virgin, she not having the gift of continency:
but hath power over his own will; his daughter's will being the same with his, and she entirely consenting to live a single life; otherwise he would have no power of acting as he pleased in such a case:
and hath so decreed in his heart: it is a fixed point on mature deliberation, in which he himself is hearty and determined, and his child perfectly assents to it, so that on all hands it is an agreed matter:
that he will keep his virgin; at home with him, unmarried, and not give her to any man in marriage:
doth well: or that which is for both temporal and spiritual profit and advantage, as before observed. Some understand all this of a man's keeping his own virginity, and determining to continue unmarried.
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Gill: 1Co 7:38 - -- So then he that giveth her in marriage doth well,.... Does that which is in its own nature good; that which is agreeable to the will of God, is of hi...
So then he that giveth her in marriage doth well,.... Does that which is in its own nature good; that which is agreeable to the will of God, is of his institution and appointment, and therefore must be good, and answer many good ends and purposes. Such an one that marries his daughter, he seeing a necessity for it, and a propriety in it, does a very good thing; secures her chastity, and his own credit; prevents fornication, and other evils that might follow; consults the good of mankind, and the honour of religion.
But he that giveth her not in marriage doth better; not a better action in itself, simply considered; but more profitable and advantageous under such and such circumstances, with such and such conditions and consequences; since hereby a single person is more fit to encounter with and endure persecutions, is freer from the cares of life, and more at liberty to wait upon the Lord, and give up himself to his service.
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Gill: 1Co 7:39 - -- The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth,.... That is, she is bound to her husband, by the law of marriage, during his life; nor can...
The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth,.... That is, she is bound to her husband, by the law of marriage, during his life; nor can the bond of marriage between them be dissolved but by the death of one of them, except in the cases of adultery, and wilful desertion, see Rom 7:2.
But if her husband be dead; or "asleep", for so the word may be rendered; though it designs death: death is often expressed by sleeping in Scripture; for the dead will not always remain in such a state, but be raised from thence at the last day, just as persons are awaked out of sleep. The Alexandrian copy reads
She is at liberty to marry whom she will: so that second marriages are lawful, though condemned by many of the ancients: the liberty of a widow is greater than that of a virgin, because a virgin is under the power, and at the dispose of her parents; but a widow is at her own dispose; and death having dissolved her former obligation, she is at entire liberty to marry, or not marry, and to marry whom she pleases, that is not forbidden by the laws of God:
only in the Lord; not that it is absolutely necessary that her husband should be in the Lord, a converted person, a believer in Christ; though such an one should be most desirable and eligible: but either that she should continue in the possession of her faith in Christ, and not relinquish it for the sake of an husband; or that she enter into this state in the fear of the Lord, calling upon him, and consulting him in such an important affair; and take care that whom she marries is not within the line prohibited by the Lord.
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Gill: 1Co 7:40 - -- But she is happier if she so abide,.... That is, a widow, in an unmarried state; which is to be understood not of the happiness of another world, but ...
But she is happier if she so abide,.... That is, a widow, in an unmarried state; which is to be understood not of the happiness of another world, but of this: the apostle's meaning is, that she would be more free from cares, and less liable to trouble, would live with more peace and quietness, and be more at leisure to serve the Lord, second marriages oftentimes proving more disagreeable than the first; but in this the apostle only gives his opinion, enjoins nothing by way of command, or in an authoritative manner: and therefore adds,
after my judgment: according to his sense of things, and agreeably to the advice he had before given to unmarried persons, whether virgins or widows, such a person was likely to have most peace, and least trouble, remaining a widow, than if married, and so consequently more happy: and in order to engage such to regard his counsel, he further says,
and I think also that I have the Spirit of God; that though he had no express command, nor did he pretend to any, nor did he lay any injunction on any, but left them to their liberty; yet he could not but think, nay, he was assured, though he thus modestly expresses himself, that he was directed to give this advice by the Spirit of God.
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NET Notes: 1Co 7:36 Or referring to an engaged man: “if he is past the critical point,” “if his passions are too strong.” The word literally means...
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NET Notes: 1Co 7:38 1 Cor 7:36-38. There are two common approaches to understanding the situation addressed in these verses. One view involves a father or male guardian d...
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NET Notes: 1Co 7:39 The verb κοιμάω (koimaw) literally means “sleep,” but it is often used in the Bible as a euphemism for the d...
Geneva Bible: 1Co 7:36 ( 17 ) But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of [her] age, and need so require, let him do ...
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Geneva Bible: 1Co 7:37 Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his ( i ) heart, having no ( k ) necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his hea...
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Geneva Bible: 1Co 7:38 So then he that giveth [her] in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth [her] not in marriage doeth ( l ) better.
( l ) Provides better for his child...
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Geneva Bible: 1Co 7:39 ( 18 ) The wife is bound by the ( m ) law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will;...
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TSK Synopsis -> 1Co 7:1-40
TSK Synopsis: 1Co 7:1-40 - --1 He treats of marriage;4 shewing it to be a remedy against fornication,10 and that the bond thereof ought not lightly to be dissolved.20 Every man mu...
MHCC -> 1Co 7:36-40
MHCC: 1Co 7:36-40 - --The apostle is thought to give advice here about the disposal of children in marriage. In this view, the general meaning is plain. Children should see...
Matthew Henry -> 1Co 7:36-38; 1Co 7:39-40
Matthew Henry: 1Co 7:36-38 - -- In this passage the apostle is commonly supposed to give advice about the disposal of children in marriage, upon the principle of his former determi...
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Matthew Henry: 1Co 7:39-40 - -- The whole is here closed up with advice to widows: As long as the husband liveth the wife is bound by the law, confined to one husband, and bound ...
Barclay -> 1Co 7:36-38; 1Co 7:39-40
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Barclay: 1Co 7:39-40 - --Again Paul takes up his consistent point of view. Marriage is a relationship which can be broken only by death. A second marriage is perfectly allow...
Constable: 1Co 7:1--16:13 - --III. Questions asked of Paul 7:1--16:12
The remainder of the body of this epistle deals with questions the Corin...
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Constable: 1Co 7:1-40 - --A. Marriage and related matters ch. 7
The first subject with which he dealt was marriage. He began with ...
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Constable: 1Co 7:25-40 - --3. Advice concerning virgins 7:25-40
The second occurrence of the phrase peri de ("now concernin...
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Constable: 1Co 7:36-40 - --The legitimacy of marriage 7:36-40
This section concludes Paul's entire teaching on marriage in this chapter. However it contains problems related to ...
College -> 1Co 7:1-40
College: 1Co 7:1-40 - --1 CORINTHIANS 7
IV. SEXUALITY, CELIBACY, AND MARRIAGE
(7:1-40)
It is not easy to discover the Corinthian situation and issues that lie behind Paul'...
McGarvey: 1Co 7:36 - --But if any man thinketh that he behaveth himself unseemly toward his virgin daughter, if she be past the flower of her age, and if need so requireth, ...
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McGarvey: 1Co 7:37 - --But he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power as touching his own will, and hath determined this in his own heart, t...
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McGarvey: 1Co 7:38 - --So then both he that giveth his own virgin daughter in marriage doeth well; and he that giveth her not in marriage shall do better . [Marriages in the...
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McGarvey: 1Co 7:39 - --A wife is bound for so long time as her husband liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is free to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord . [i....
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McGarvey: 1Co 7:40 - --But she is happier if she abide as she is, after my judgment: and I think that I also have the spirit of God .
Lapide -> 1Co 7:1-40
Lapide: 1Co 7:1-40 - --CHAPTER 7
SYNOPSIS OF THE CHAPTER
In this chapter he answers five questions of the Corinthians about the laws of matrimony, and about the counsel of...
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